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Why are you asking our permission to choose a partner to be in a relationship with? Your a man, make your own choices. ONLY YOU ARE THE JUDGE OF YOUR LIFE AND THE CHOICES THERE IN. So make a choice, because ultimately only you know what would make you happy.
/r/askMRP26/07/17 09:20 PM
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Second
/r/askMRP21/07/17 09:18 PM
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Got into a wreck and totaled it. Now I have my first car with A/C. Super stoked. The sex was partially my fault due to excessive porn. I've summarily dumped the habit, but now she's sex averse. Outside of handjobs to pacify me. At this point I'm turning those down because we aren't teenagers in the back of my car any more. I've got a soft plan to bail winter of December 2018. Give her time to come around. It'll take about that long to work my MAP into attractive territory.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/17 02:03 PM
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I was a roommate with him when he was busting ass and putting in the work. That's why magic was in quotes. I'm super happy for him and he's definitely earned it and will keep earning more. I'm honestly more envious on how easy it is for him to make all the right choices. He doesn't struggle to make the right choices every day, he just does. As for the rest, I've come to realize it as well. I'm ashamed to admit it, but I can't manage a day. I have no place managing me and my wife's life right now…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 05:36 PM
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The Good I'm alive. A friend of mine drove in from out of state to celebrate finishing his degree. That makes me the last one out of the quartet still working. Sucks, but I can't dwell on the past. I'm working on it now, I just have to keep moving forward. Regardless, we had a blast swimming talking and just in general having fun. Got to catch up. One of my buddies is married and just had his first kid. He's a natural alpha, and things "magically" fall his way. He's strong in the faith, happily …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/17 04:23 PM
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Note This is ugly. No two ways about it. I'm not even going to pretend that this is in any way shape or form acceptable. I have also missed two OYS posts. Prepare to cringe at why. So I decided to take some advice on increasing my calorie count during mid-terms as I didn't want to be mentally exhausted as they were important. My fat-ass hamster than fully ran with it and turned what was supposed to be 2500 cal a day to eat all the fast food and drink all the soda and go back to being a fat-ass. …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 02:35 AM
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Then it's skipped a generation or two because you fuckers never told us and never owned your shit and left your wife to make a man out of your son. Fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 05:49 PM
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Physical Goals Being able to look in the mirror, < 15% BF, ~180lbs Starting 287lbs, 42.3% BF Progress Currently 259lbs, 37.1% BF Plan 1500cal a day, with one cheat day usually thrown in (1800-2000) and modified Stronglifts 5x5. I've been sticking to it pretty well. I double checked my macros and the timing of my macros and found out why I was tired. I was getting ~60 Carbs a day and they were all late, which is why my mood picked up later in the day but my mornings where shit. I've since correct…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 05:33 PM
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I do too it's why I I deal with these moments, which are frankly as bad as it gets and pretty spaced out. I lucked out on dodging the bitch-mobile.
/r/askMRP21/06/17 12:19 PM
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She cares or she wouldn't snoop. It's why I have an alt. She just doesn't get in my face about it. Honestly the two happened back to back, about two days apart. There was also a violent blow up that same week. She threw a chair. I got right up in her face fifteen year old style (I stand a foot taller than her.) And stated low and clear that she needs to carefully consider whether physical violence is something she really wanted to employ. She's been less nosey since. You have three variables the…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 11:58 PM
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She was pushing HARD about the stuff I was reading. So there was an accidental agree and amplify that made red pill sound like dickish mysogyniatic trash. Later I succumbed to my blue pill temptations and brought up the convert contract on my own. Since she "wanted to know what I found so interesting" that was her response to my answer to her direct question. We both realised something. She didn't want to know what I'm reading. Trust the dumb ass who had to learn from experience. No matter how s…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 10:49 PM
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I'm starting to think that we need to put that in the FAQ. Don't do the NMMNG exercises with your wife even though they say to. It comes up a lot with us new guys.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 10:36 PM
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Coming from a retard that did that. Don't. My sweet special snowflake wife literally asked why I told her that with barely concealed disdain. Save yourself from my dumbasserry.
/r/askMRP20/06/17 10:34 PM
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Thanks. This is the kick in the ass I needed.
/r/askMRP16/06/17 01:30 PM
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The issue is school not working out. Unless I'm missing something obvious.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 05:43 PM
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Mechanical engineering with a concentration in robotics so you tell me. You right though. Letting one class control my emotions for the day is bullshit. I'll work on that.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 12:06 PM
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I already am diagnosed, but it's been so long since I've hit a down cycle I forgot what they were like. I tend to l live on the moment towards a general goal. I've been more specific with that goal recently, but I guess I wasn't holding onto the big picture and planning around pitfalls. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/askMRP15/06/17 12:04 PM
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Yes I log my calories in MFP, that's how I know I'm slipping. Macros, I have generic general ones. I've been using them as "bonus points". They are secondary targets that if I hit, great! If not I shrug it off. I can say that I've been reasonably close to my macro goals most days. (I.E. with 5% of the target. E.G. if 40% than 35%)
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 01:00 AM
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It was explosive at first but it's started slowing down. It's only 2lbs per week now. I'm tired ish but that's more not getting my full eight hours. I'm not hungry at all. And the HIT is just because I like punching bags and I'm more likely to do that than walk in 90 F heat. I'm getting about 112 protein per day. If I up my protein more than I do now, I will be forced to get it from whey supplements, as meat gets expensive fast.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 09:09 PM
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Body Goals BF < 15%, Happy with my reflection, ~180lbs Plan Modified Stronglifts 5x5, Cal < 1500 Progress BF ~39%, Weight=262.5lbs I've decided to add a HIT cardio on TR inbetween MWF. Just found out my school has a "combat" room where they have a bunch of bags lined up. It'll be nice to just swing away a couple tims a week. I have allowed myself to become lax with the precision of my daily intake. I have eaten out twice this last week and I've gone over 100 cal and 300 cal respectively on those…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 06:19 PM
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Physical Goals: <15% BF, ~180lb, Enjoy looking at what I see in the mirror Progress: Weighed in Sunday and I'm down 2.5lbs for the week. I went through and made a table tracking my progress from MFP. Found out my 286lbs was probably a bogus number as 2 days later I had a weigh in of 277lbs. So I'm 14.5lbs down at ~13% of my goal. Estimated BF% right now is 39% so I've got a ways to go. InBody test is next week so I'll get some more accurate numbers Discipline: I had a psuedo cheat day on Friday,…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 02:10 PM
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I suspected that as well which is why I made this alt. Because what I discuss here frankly isn't her business.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 03:36 PM
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You misunderstood. I was reading in the car and hasn't put it up when I brought it back it. She just focused on it. I finished it while back, I just thumb through it on occasion.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 02:09 PM
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Was there actual car advice buried under the mockery? Either way it's hilarious. I love the wit.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 11:35 AM
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Carelessness. Besides that she already snooped around and knew I was reading it. She even googled it and traced it back to this forum. I'm going to improve myself. She can get behind my or get bent. This is important to me.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 10:44 AM
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Just for humors sake and to share a story, I can't decide which is funnier. The fact that I barked and growled at people that made me mad in fourth grade. OR That my wife had to explain to me why it was rude to talk loud enough that the subject of your discussion could hear you even though your statement was positive in nature (or positive intent minimum) Anyway, thanks for the tip. I was under the impression it was better to self depreciate either A) To deny your opponents the chance B) To keep…
/r/askMRP01/06/17 03:37 AM
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My happiness over road her anger. That's a big step for me. I pulled her into MY emotional state. The physical goal failed, but that's to be expected. We are conservative Christians, and we both had medical issues that stop sex. Mines gone hers isn't. I don't even know if we've technically consummated the marriage. Right now "sex" is very much awkward teenage groping. Neither one of I'd has any actual experience outside the other. I did take her virginity, but that was pre marriage, and frankly …
/r/askMRP01/06/17 03:34 AM
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Teasing and soft tone. She's getting frustrated though. I'm less codependent and I'm sharing my feelings and thoughts less. She's used to me babbling about anything that comes to mind. The more pensive side is new to her and she's floundering.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 03:05 AM
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I think you missed one of my posts, I wasn't being facetious. I have Aspergers. I'm on the spectrum. Social cues mean jack shit to me unless they're in my mental database. And it's literally "that facial expression means sad". It's a semi conscious thought process. I've just gotten over it so IDGAF what people say about it. I was a WEIRD fucker in elementary school until I sort of fit a handle on it in middle and high school and I've been fine tuning since.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 03:02 AM
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Well I'm fucked than, guess I'm going to have to find a way to succeed in spite of it. Back to lurking and sidebar.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 02:53 AM
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Softer, but I still feel it. Though tbh, it's been so long since I've been in an automatic, I'm not sure if that's just normal and I'm going crazy.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 02:50 AM
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Yup her old elementary school flame that lives in Podunk nowhere where the median age is 60 (but really). Must have been af hot teacher, good on him for his game skills.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 02:48 AM
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Thanks, I'm feeling most of this out, as I haven't found the book that talks about these things in detail rather than just referring to them and assuming you know. I'm assuming it's in Bang. I've been focusing more on the philosophy side since sex wasn't my focus. I'm staying to realize how important it is though.
/r/askMRP01/06/17 02:46 AM
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Either I'm missing a joke or you're on the wrong sub. Either way, your saying to flush the transmission to stop hard shifting?
/r/askMRP31/05/17 08:02 PM
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It's why the comfort test shocked the hell out of me. I suppose it makes sense considering solipsism. She can't get out of her head enough to realize it's a physical impossibility before it becomes a moral issue.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 07:14 PM
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Thanks for the reminder. It's one thing reading about how much emotion drives psych, it's another to fully internalize it. I'm still doing it even after 8 years with her. Gotta love being an Aspie.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:59 PM
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Thanks for the feedback, it's the same conclusion I've come to as well. The car was full Asperger's and it fucked up the rest of the interaction. As far as frame, mine sucks. I was just reporting my first success with it.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:54 PM
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That's definitely likely. I'll be checking the library for books on building attraction. I'm assuming I start with Bang/Day Bang? I've finished MMSLP.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:51 PM
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Sounds about right now that you've pointed it out. And rather than oneitis about my snowflake, I'll go with the egoless response and point out I'm 80lbs over weight. Cheating isn't a practical option. Until it is a practical option it won't be a moral one.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:48 PM
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Got a hard no, so yah. A far as the moping, that was more during. It was when she got back that I made the realization. So no moping next time.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:45 PM
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Physical Goal: <15% BF, which is ~180lbs so that's my soft goal right now Progress: I'm down to 267lbs which means I've lost ~20lbs in a month. I'm positive most of that is water weight, so I'm expecting that curve off. I expect this to take about a year, especially as I'm at 40+% BF right now. I need to tighten up my workouts. I miss a workout every other week it seems so I'm only working out 3x a week with modified 5x5, rather than every other day. It's about discipline. Eating wise I've been …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 08:25 PM
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The Guardian is spitting Red Pill truths. I like this direction. You're the man, it's your fucking house. Own Your Shit and run your house. If your wife has to tell you laundry needs to be done, if your situational awareness is so shit that you can't see her LEGITIMATELY struggling, you've done fucked up. There was no reason for that pot to boil over. Sure, if she's just whining and trying to get out of chores period, then she needs to suck it up. But your wife shouldn't be managing the house, j…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/17 08:41 PM
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Physical Goal: <15% BF and ~180lbs by August 2018 Plan: Just got finalized after doing some research on BMR and various other things. Thanks to those who answered my previous questions. I'm just going to go back to the plan that worked in high school and K.I.S.S. it. 1500 kCal a day, with approximate macros at 40% Carbs, 30% Fat, and 30% Protein. The calories are more important than the macros. Lifting every other day with a modified 5x5 to accommodate my herniated disk. Just graduated from a on…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 02:10 PM
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Noted. Thanks for the tip.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 03:03 PM
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When you're that overweight like us, waking bumps up heart-rate into the fat burning zone. Which does become significant quickly. I burn 800ish calories just by waking 3.5 miles over the course of an hour.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 02:18 PM
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Nah, then I'm miserable and don't get of the couch. Am I fat? Yes. Does that need to change? Definitely. Am I using my anger to fix that? Sure, I'm here aren't I? Do I need to loathe myself and constantly beat myself up along this journey? Nah. Then I stop walking. If that works for you, have at it. After all YMMV ;-)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 02:11 PM
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Cool, I missed the joke over the medium. So, haha? Anyway that's the plan. And it works, but the plan only works if you work the plan.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 01:52 PM
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I don't understand your question. If you're asking about porn/masturbation the answer is not acceptable. If you're asking about other women/hookers the answer is not acceptable. If you are asking about sex with my wife that is fine. Regardless the idea is to stop relying on compulsive behaviors to deal with feelings of inadequacy and shame, and to channel that nervous energy into successful things like gaming the wife, lifting, eating better. Falling in one drops the energy levels of the others.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 01:45 PM
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Effectively a 365 no fap since you asked so sweetly.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 12:32 PM
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Now 276lbs, 42% BF, finishing up paperwork to attend school 18 Month Goals being able to look in a mirror (190ish 12-15%), finish my degree by end of year 2018, employed in my field by EoY 2018, Being able to complete a 5x5 pull-up set with my body weight. One year sexual sobriety. Diet After doing a lot of reading and asking (Thanks to everyone who responded to my previous post, esp. anythinginc for his commentary about how truly sedentary we are), I've decided to enact a simple 1500 or less ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/17 06:35 PM
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6' height, 11" wrist. My apologies. 276lb
/r/askMRP15/05/17 06:48 PM
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6' and ~11" I'll be able to give you a more accurate wrist number when I get off work.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 06:10 PM
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I would be pissed if my chest got bigger. I'm already a fucking C-cup. I want the man boobs down not up. Besides, you measure monthly not weekly.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 05:00 PM
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I don't care what I would look like atm. That's not what's motivating me. I don't want to have a heart attack in the next 10 years, and frankly I'm fat, ugly, and lazy. I'm working on all three right now, but I want this fat % down fast and wanted a critique of how to get there.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 04:53 PM
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I think it would be much more beneficial for you to lose the weight ASAP with pure calorie deficits and walking instead of adding the "muscle gained" variable to your arithmetic. Are you saying quit lifting and go back to walking an hour a day? I've been entertaining the idea of just walking on my in between days, but my impressions are that you advise that would be too slow.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 04:51 PM
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most modern humans are not far enough from sedentary and unconscious to worry about it Thank you for answering my question. In short I need to cut back down to my original 1200-1500 calories a day. When I bumped back up to 2000 a day, even though I was lifting, I wasn't doing enough cardio and just stayed the same.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 04:49 PM
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Would you be willing to expand on that thought? I'm not sure if your telling me not to worry about gaining weight or telling me to not worry about being below my BMR.
/r/askMRP15/05/17 03:22 PM
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It didn't really feel like deprivation a I am cooking my own food, and you get a high volume of food per calories with fruit and veggies. I just found out my BMR is 2000 and from my understanding that's the minimum to not be in starvation mode. I'm going to have to start eating junk food (chez-its) to bump my calorie intake that high on my current diet. I was full last night going "fuck I need 400 calories" Edits: fixing phone autocorrect
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 10:51 AM
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It's a physical diagnosis that needs to be revisited for a cure. We didn't look into it in the past because neither one of us were interested in sex at the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/17 04:17 PM
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Part of the process is separating the addictive need and actual desire. Also, even though I carry it REALLY well (no one believes my weight until I step on a scale) I'm still 100lbs over weight, and probably 20% too high on body fat. Girls aren't looking at me right now. And won't for year (about the same time I'll be able to look the mirror).
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/17 04:07 PM
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Sexual On a final note, I've decided to embrace my sexuality instead of suppressing it. The wife is 80% welcome of my advances, due to her own health issues actual sex is off the table due to pain. I've expressed a desire for her to go to the doctor, but she hates the "lady doctor" we'll see if she goes or not. I'm not going to nag.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/17 01:36 PM
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I had to create an alt account because my wife has started snooping on the boards due to my reading and my inability to keep my mouth shut. She's used to having full access to any and all information in my head, and frankly I'm breaking conditioning as far as giving it to her. Physical I'm down 9lbs to 275lbs. I have 90lbs to go for my first threshold on weight loss. I was really confused as I only lost 2lbs this week eating ~1500 calories a day, give or take 100 cal. I feel like I should have l…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/17 01:12 PM
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