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Red_Gambit/r/askTRP09/07/14 01:33 AM
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Thanks a lot man. That's good advice. I'll get back into Tinder (had it for a while, but stopped using it due to lack of positive results) and if you want, I'll keep you posted.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 03:20 AM
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Hey, wow. Thanks for the ongoing interest. Kinda through this thread had burned out. Progress is slower than I’d like, but there is progress (had a flu and a back injury in the last couple of weeks that haven’t been helping). At the moment there’s a attractive girl (I’d say at least a 7) who I’ve befriended a while ago who goes to my local gym and is friends with my PT. I’ve been hanging out with her more, trying to find out what behavior she responds to. I mean, she’s hot and she knows it, so s…
/r/askTRP20/07/14 11:25 PM
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Yeah, I'll agree with being way too far in my own head. Honestly this thread has been really helpful hearing different perspectives from guys. It's been a great wake up call that I need to stop lying to myself that I'm content with where I am, because I'm clearly not. Yeah, friends and family are good, thanks.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 11:58 PM
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As I've said a few times before, was just looking for advice, given my situation. I felt like my friends weren't giving me good advice, so I've been looking elsewhere.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 11:31 PM
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Hah, yeah I have to admit I've found the times that I have gone out of my way to understand women pretty frustrating. I'm not one of those guys who thinks women are vending machines where if you put enough attention in that sex will fall out, but there's definitely been several WTF moments that haven't helped. But if nothing else, this thread has helped to show me that I've been lying to myself about just not being interested in women or sex. I'm just too wrapped up in my comfort zones. I need t…
/r/askTRP09/07/14 09:31 PM
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Thanks dude. Hope you can get yourself straightened out as well. Glad to hear it's not just me in this crazy situation.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 09:26 PM
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I kinda like the idea of a black belt in game. And there's definitely no need to join /nofap...
/r/askTRP09/07/14 09:25 PM
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Thanks man, much appreciated. Not sure about the drugs part, but everything else seems like pretty solid advice. I plan to stick around TRP and see what I can learn, while pushing my boundaries.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 09:23 PM
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Thank you for the thoughtful response. I'll give it some consideration.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 12:37 PM
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Like I said, I don't have a specific question, just asking for general thoughts and input on my situation.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 12:19 PM
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Honestly, I'm not sure how many times or different ways I can say "I don't care what you think" before it will sink in, but we obviously still have a ways to go. The very fact that you're still talking after your big boast of "I'd write more but I honestly don't like you" only proves you're just trolling with nothing better to do than try to build yourself up by cutting down the first guy you see who exposed a vulnerability. Keep waiting for those high fives, I'm sure they'll come eventually. We…
/r/askTRP09/07/14 10:05 AM
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Actually that was 5+ paragraphs of how big a screwup I am because I have all this stuff which you'd think could get me laid, but I still manage to waste those "advantages" regardless. Having said that, I really don't care what you think. I came here to try and get some useful advice, not be berated by small, worthless trolls. Save your diatribe for teenage basement dwellers who are impressed by TALKING IN CAPS. I haven't even started to use big words, by the way. You might want to keep dictionar…
/r/askTRP09/07/14 08:49 AM
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Thanks, I'll take entry level advice any day.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 08:19 AM
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Okay, let's agree to disagree on the former. As for the latter, you're absolutely right. I'm not expecting anyone to tell me exactly what to do. As I've pointed out in previous responses, if I wasn't dissapointed in my love life (or it's complete nonexistence) I wouldn't be posting here in the first place. I feel like it's not healthy to be so disassociated from it as I am now. I've convinced myself that I don't need it, and I feel like that's just an excuse to not try anything different. I need…
/r/askTRP09/07/14 07:57 AM
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Cool response, thanks. I'm not the type of person to overly apologize for things. If people want one, sure I'll give it to them. That might be too much in your eyes, I just see it as a means of diffusing a situation that may otherwise get blown up because egos are clashing. But I am definitely all for being sincere and genuine. When I made that comment, I wasn't trying to force an alpha image. It was more to impress that being as tall and strong as I am, it comes with it's own unique set of prob…
/r/askTRP09/07/14 06:35 AM
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My sexuality is a little confusing to say the least. I'm not going to go into it, because aside from being an entirely different rabbit hole I'd rather not jump down right now, I don't think it's really suitable for TRP discussion. Rest assured, I'm straight. I do know that much.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 05:52 AM
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Also appreciated. Will check it out tonight.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 05:31 AM
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Awesome! Thanks man, I'll check it out tonight.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 05:14 AM
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I wasn't trying to justify with those edits. I was trying to clarify, since more than one person seemed to be getting the wrong impression. Simple as that. This is an issue I'm trying to get my head around. But everyone I know in my circle of friends/family either doesn't want to talk about it, or just gives me platitudes like "You just haven't met the right girl or whatever." I'm 33. clearly I haven't figured it out yet. Nobody I know is going to help me figure it out. So I figured it was time …
/r/askTRP09/07/14 05:12 AM
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Hey cool, thanks for the thoughtful response. I suppose when I really think about it and I'm completely honest with myself, there's two types of ways I can talk to a girl: The first is just casual conversation. Just the usual "Oh hey, what are you doing? Here, have a witty remark. Haha, kay thanks bai." And I’m fucking awesome at that kind of conversation. Why? Because there’s nothing on the line. You’re just talking about crap and if they think you’re a goofball then that’s not the worst thing …
/r/askTRP09/07/14 04:59 AM
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I wouldn't be here posting if I wasn't trying to figure out a way to change my attitude. If I didn't my post would be like "Hey guys, I just found out we don't need to sleep with chicks to be happy! You can all stop doing it now!" which is obviously pretty stupid. Maybe I didn't explain it properly in my main post. I'll edit a little now to try and clarify.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 04:36 AM
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Okay, thanks man. Appreciate the input.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 04:34 AM
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Yeah, I do have plenty of sexual desire. It's just...fuck, I dunno. Complicated. I mean it makes no sense to be attracted to women and yet have no desire to persue them, but here I am. that's why I wonder if I've just got some crossed wires in my head, where somehow I've convinced myself that it's safer to just not be interested. Like I've tried hookup apps like Tinder and such, but I swear the second a girl starts getting flirty with me and suggesting the possibility of a hookup, part of my bra…
/r/askTRP09/07/14 04:32 AM
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Well I'm living to improve myself. to try and reach the highest level of whatever I apply myself to. That's why when I look at my life and there's this huge, gaping hole where I have no relationships to speak of, I look at that and ask myself "Am I making a huge mistake here?" After all, I'd hate to be looking back on my life 30 years from now and think "Man, wish I wasn't such a lonely fuckup."
/r/askTRP09/07/14 04:26 AM
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Haha, thanks man. Wasn't looking for coddling. I'm not looking for sympathy (how did I give that impression?) either. Just some different perspectives to what I'm used to hearing from people.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 04:20 AM
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It wasn't intended as such. but I'll dial it back regardless.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 04:18 AM
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Forgive me for saying, but that’s an overly simplistic way of looking at things. If I –wanted- to do that, I’d have done it by now. Best comparison I can come up with is the first episode of Dexter (great, now we’re back on the psychopath thing) where he explained he was in a similar situation. He looked at people who were in love or having sex or whatever, and just said that he couldn’t understand the attraction to it. That it didn’t register on an emotional level. I don’t know, maybe I’m posti…
/r/askTRP09/07/14 03:53 AM
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Quite the opposite, actually. I don’t need anyone to validate my choices, because they’re my decisions and I stand by them, right or wrong. That’s all the validation I need. I came here because I feel like I’m approaching life the wrong way, and I wanted some honest advice from people who (at least claim to) have things figured out. TL: DR – Nope.
/r/askTRP09/07/14 03:33 AM
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Hah, no it's cool man. As I said, I came here to get different perspectives. It would be pretty shitty of me to blow up at the first dude who gave me some constructive criticism. Am I boring? Yeah, probably. I am a geek to an extent, so I play a lot of games, don't go out much, that kind of thing. But it's one thing to say that I'm boring, I suppose the question is, if that's the case, how should I try to become more interesting? As for the Rodgers comparison, I read his entire manifesto because…
/r/askTRP09/07/14 02:56 AM
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