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Women under 35 have been economically advantaged at an institutional level, while culturally expecting subservience to men. As a result the average woman is filtering the average man out of the dating pool. These women are going after wealthy peers, older men, or opting to be single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:02 PM
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Because women get the benefits of a boyfriend without having to give sex to their "male friends". If she's really shitty she'll get him to pay for stuff too. They basically just want an ego boost and potentially free labor/stuff. imo and experience men and women cannot be platonic friends, especially in today's world. If she's going out her way to talk to you she's gauging her sexual interest in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:53 AM
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The male loneliness epidemic is (in the broad strokes) generally an outcome of increased female financial independence. Less the need for a husband to survive - men now have to compete against not only each other, but also the single life. The single life for a lower middle class and up woman isn’t terrible. She probably has friends, pets, and an office job. I think this is temporary as a result of technology/industry outpacing culture. Currently women are exponentionally benefitting from cultur…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:40 AM
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I find it amusing how much you dismiss a man's view on a subject about men, created by a man and the best you can come up with is "well like, that's just your opinion man".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:48 PM
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It’s very vulnerable for many people to open up about their background and especially their traumas. Ongoing background, unresolved trauma sure. The things men learn not to share with women. When I talk to women I never share anything I haven't fully processed unless it's minor/petty so I don't actually care much about it. I'm transparent and I've seen many women mesmerized by that trait, but I'm never vulnerable. If I were to express likely even a third of the full intensity of my emotions it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:10 PM
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Tells me about their background, familial history, traumas, cries when it’s appropriate, etc? You want transparency, not vulnerability. Transparency is a cold and removed recount of a situation or experience. Vulnerability is weakness, the feelings linked to our lack of control in life and situations. Women are not emotional beings, they are social. A woman only cares if the people/men around her are functional and secure. Transparency = security, vulnerability = weakness/insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:41 AM
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Society is very unforgiving of young men, especially in modern times where hate speech directed at men is not only unpunished but mainstream. In a twisted way, it's those bad experiences and baggage that women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:03 AM
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A lot of men don't know how to tactfully express sexual interest in women, it's quite honestly disgusting. Tbh a lot of women don't either and rely on getting a pass for the same behavior since they're women (most would be in prison if they were men) When you're tactful around women they love to show off and tease. I guess you're correct in that you usually never say it outright. Courting women is basically foreplay without touching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:51 AM
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The only exception to the under 35 rule are some young mothers, but that's socially the same as being over 35. A person doesn't develop a personality until they are alone and faced with hardship. 99% of single women under 35 don't experience this in the western world. Hell even female musicians are boring and sing about the same shit; getting turnt, sex, love, heartbreak, killing their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:19 PM
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I get shit for saying it but most of these chicks aren't lesbians, they got indoctrinated by misandrist rhetoric and think they hate men, etc. start "experimenting" with other women. That never turns out well, so they meet me and all of a sudden it's "oh no, I said I'm a lesbian but I actually like men now". I do agree they always pull insanely hot girlfriends every single time... One even told me "I'd invite you to come hang out with my other friends but we're all girls, I wouldn't want us to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:56 PM
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My experience is a lot more similar to attractive women than it is to other men. I'd rather be alone than deal with lower quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:41 PM
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The guys and girls getting the most sex to me are definitely not attractive. Idk how to put it but even just their vibe is kinda off. Attractive people are radiant, warm. They have a stable, pleasant personality that doesn't entirely fit within social norms. Attractive people in other words appear "undamaged", almost innocent in a way. If I met 1000 people per day, I'd say about 30-35 people (men and women) would qualify as "attractive" to me. That's roughly 3.5% of the general population, so re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:24 PM
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If you're good looking you don't have to be nice, so because they don't need to be they aren't It's not wrong, but also very circumstantial. I've been an unapologetic dickhead to some women and they chased me like a starving tiger. I've been kind to some women and they treated me like a god. The women receptive to poor treatment generally were much more sexually attracted to me, the women receptive to positive treatment (but knew I had limits) were attracted to my disposition and mannerisms. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:38 PM
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The only cons of being gay I can think of is social stigma and AIDS, which are pretty big cons but the list is a helluva lot shorter than being straight. I find the idea of gay conversion therapy amusing cause sometimes I'm like "if sexuality was a choice, being gay sounds like a decent deal."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:12 PM
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They usually just go back to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:03 PM
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I have a superpower of picking out the lesbian in a room full of women cause they're the only ones with a personality under 35. After 35 it becomes lesbians and alcoholics which often isn't mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:59 PM
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But I would argue it’s generally easier for those guys to avoid temptation when meeting a woman they really like, because all it requires mostly is not hitting on women first. Basically to stop playing offense… But with the super hot guy, they have to not only stop playing offense but also play defense. But if different sushi places started knocking on your door, offering you a variety of sushi you can’t get at your fav spot… that’s a bit harder. They want you to sample their sushi, you don’t ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:06 PM
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The difference is just the amount of opportunity you get without having to expend much effort. The opportunity as a very attractive man is still a fraction of what an average women gets but with twice the effort and half the benefits. Unless you're rich and attractive, but the former is playing a bigger role than the latter. Being an attractive man only really benefits in a LTR because you have a bit more leverage in attracting higher quality partners. The people with crazy sex lives that aren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:26 AM
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I met a random woman who tried to fuck me and every other walking penis as if she thought STDs were Pokemon cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:31 AM
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for a man to become “husband material” he needs to be sexually desirable to the woman calling him that. You just said women are willing to form relationships with "neutral" men. Neutral is not desireable it's tolerable. Calling someone "mid" may be accurate but absolutely insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:16 AM
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You're clearly not reading anything I've actually said or are intentionally misquoting in bad faith, I'm done with the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 12:03 AM
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You make so many bad faith arguments and fallacious claims I'm getting tired of even following this anymore. Interestingly you have still been completely unable to provide any explanation of what this ‘treatment’ for rapists would be, I've said that the field of psychology is skewed so heavily towards biochemistry and pharmacology for profit and academic clout that it completely ignores the social aspect of pathological behavior and mental illness. Like suicide, SA (you only ever bring up rape w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:39 PM
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Not necessarily. Again, if rape was purely committed due to mental illness or ‘personality disorder’ there wouldn’t be such differences in the rates of rape across cultures. Nothing is done purely because of "mental illness", the term itself is so loaded we could spend days on the concept itself, which I have 0 interest in doing. We recognize suicide as one of the most extreme forms of pathological behavior that requires emergency mental health and social services. Yet some 50-60% of actively su…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:03 AM
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Being sadistic, ‘fucking weird’ or malicious is not by itself a mental illness, even if it is more comfortable for people to think of it that way. ASPD, the act of SA/rape is practically the definition of ASPD. Even if someone has personality issues that fall under the category of ‘personality disorder’ this is not something that can be ‘treated’ the way a traditional mental illness can (ie, psychosis, mania). I never said sexual offenders should be converted to the mental health system. I said …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:42 AM
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I'm not trying to shit on you for it since it's a sensitive subject matter and all but your take on this is comically incorrect if not very cynical. SA most frequently stems from miscommunication first, unaddressed mental health issues from the offender leading to SA their partner second, then you get the more sinister kinds towards strangers as third. The last group always has personality issues that were not treated. Serial rapist, at least male ones, are fucking weird. It's very easy being of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:32 PM
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Sure and I guess a person choosing to resist arrest isn't them having one either, or choosing to defecate on the street, or choosing not to bath, or choosing to vandalize property, choosing to be homeless, or choosing to kill themselves. Cause a mentally healthy person just sometimes prefers rape over consensual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:58 PM
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Probably a highly controversial take in today's times but I don't believe SA or rape, other than serial rapist, should be handled by the criminal justice system. There's several reasons why but fundamentally it just doesn't work and the archaic system itself is criminally weaponized. Serial rapist/sexual predators are a danger to the public and easier to identify, that classification is more appropriately aligned with what we consider "criminal" in society. Violent rapist, while rather rare are …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:42 PM
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I like emotionally stable women. Like that sounds vanilla asf, but every guy that's been with women would know how rare that is. They're incredible. I've interacted with IG thots daily, nothing. Strippers and cam girls, Ok until they start talking. A mentally stable woman? My dick gets hard and she's fully clothed with a jacket on... They've got this aura about them, and it's just so rare to see a woman with a presence in the room. The average man probably won't ever meet one, but these women pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:52 PM

male domestic violence shelters are still few and far between Do they even exist in this country? Like as an institution, idc about there being 1 straw hut for battered men in Utah...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:31 PM
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But the biggest factor imo is their willingness to completely overlook a man's past in terms of fucking around or smashing & passing. Maybe it's the "I can fix him" mentality or the desire to consider themselves special enough to make the fukboi commit when he wouldn't for all those other women. It's a sound strategy tbh, it's how humans have hunted mega fauna since we came down from trees. Keep giving him ass until he gets tired and complacent enough to be subdued. If he's lucky they'll treat h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:17 PM
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No, it pushes them to lead women on (spin plates) and withhold commitment, while teaching young men they deserve a virgin bikini model who will not make THEM wait for sex, which begs the question how/why they are still virgin bikini models. I find it kinda ironic that the main thing redpillers whine about ad naseum is that women only care about "Chad" and ignore "80% of other men". Like excessively, bordering an obsession. Here is a woman who's only take away from redpill is their characterizati…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:49 PM
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This way of thinking allows for no concept of the idea of love, and just promotes an idea that everybody is reducible to a set of traits that are superficial and fleeting, and that people are disposable and replaceable. Do we not have enough of this in our economic relationships? I don't believe in the concept of "love", however I pretty much almost entirely think the whole "biological" determinism aspect to be a modern reiteration of social darwinism which is problematic on many levels. I'll wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:28 PM
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My point is that there are far more men found unattractive by women than there are women found unattractive by men. No, men are just more tolerant of unattractive women than vice versa. There are relatively few women men find truly desireable, maybe 30%. Men settle with women for convenience and consistent sex, just like how women settle with men for money and stability. Before the internet everyone knew where they ranked on the social ladder. Ugly women got with ugly men, attractive men got wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:07 AM
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It's kinda funny how dyed hair is associated with prude man-hating femcels online. Irl the first time I met a girl with blue hair she sucked the soul out me jimmy, fainted ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 07:14 PM
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Pretty sure most labor women have access to is exchanged for money. That’s how an economy works. Yes. Before women had access for free via communal/familial relationships. The "independent" woman pays exponentially more for male labor participating in the economy than before. It's one of the core reasonings behind the anti-suffragist, the average woman cannot afford to live that way. Feminist call this old dynamic "exploitation" when in reality women weren't just given a discount, they enjoyed f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:35 AM
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Overweight isn’t always sexually repulsive. That's beside the point, it's a health disorder. You're just proving my point that it's normalized here. Even just 30 years ago a woman as fat as today's average would be bullied into an eating disorder from how socially unacceptable it was to be so unkept. No, masculinity is not shamed. Toxic masculinity is. Calling up your boss and telling him that you want a promotion is assertively going for what you want in life. That is masculine. Nobody is shami…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:28 AM
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Sexual harassment was a real issue. I think our society highly exaggerates the severity of sex crimes (towards women, dgaf about male victims) which stems from white supremacy. We’ve just over corrected to the point where men are scared to seduce women that want to be seduced. We allow open hate speech that characterize all men as sexual predators, violent rapist, and murderers. It's not just a matter of "over correction", the feminist narrative which is the mainstream narrative, villainizes and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:09 AM
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Men want women more than women want men. Women are more content to be alone than men are. None of this is true, quite the opposite. However you're right that people think this is true. Fact is, in a western country women are not independent from men even if they live alone. Women have open access to men's labor without any commitment in our society. However most women can't afford that kind of arrangement long term, nor have the drive to generate the wealth necessary to sustain it. Men only need…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:46 AM
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The problem with relationships in America is that we liberalized sexual dynamics way too suddenly for mostly all the wrong reasons. As a result men and women are way too connected in our society, women have too much legal and social power, and only the most reactionary voices among men have any influence whatsoever in these discusssions. The common man is functionally disenfranchised from society outside of far-right political extremism. Also feminist aren't liberal or left-leaning, they're oppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:37 PM
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even if you account for those age groups, only 44% of Americans are obese between the ages of 40-60, and interestingly enough, only 41% older than 60 are obese. However, 39% of Americans between 20-39 are obese, which is surprisingly high, but still significantly lower than the vast majority. "obese" is a technical term with a specific meaning, the numbers are much higher when including overweight people. The latter imo is a bigger problem because of how normalized it is here, we even sexualize …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:28 PM
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Out of curiosity, when you say “the average American woman is obese”, are you talking about all ages combined? Yes, all ages. You're seeing a selection bias because wealthier, extroverted, moderately attractive people go out more. If you have a healthy weight, no noticeable deformities, and can hold a conversation you're at least in the top 30% of either gender. Fat women are not a symbol of beauty. The beauty standard has moved around over time, but it’s never been obese, at least not in modern…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 04:41 PM
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a small portion of extremely attractive women that have gotten special treatment their whole lives. IME conventionally attractive women are fine, if not a little slow. It's the mediocre and unattractive women that have rotten personalities. Some of the most beautiful women I've talked to all told me how they were bullied the shit out of and have no female friends. They're hated by men for rejecting them, hated by women for attracting men. The "hot but crazy" stereotype isn't true, and studies pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:14 AM

meanwhile the stats show only 2% of women have this disorder Symptoms of antisocial personality disorder include repeatedly: Ignoring right and wrong. Telling lies to take advantage of others. Not being sensitive to or respectful of others. Using charm or wit to manipulate others for personal gain or pleasure. Having a sense of superiority and being extremely opinionated. Having problems with the law, including criminal behavior. Being hostile, aggressive, violent or threatening to others. Feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:34 AM

ASPD characteristics My original makes you feel like... it's not what I said. I doubt you're actually a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:31 AM

Korea is still a collectivist society. Relative to the region, S. Korea is extremely westernized and individualistic. The fertility rate is related to money N. Korea by every single metric possible is poorer. Korean child-rearing is just different from the West Korea split in the late 50's, less than a lifetime ago. Traditions, culture, ethnicity, etc. are all as close as 2 countries can possibly be. North Korea is piss poor and doesn't have access to birth control like most medicine, socially/m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:24 AM

What? More men are diagnosed for ASPD, that's a fact. Just because men are diagnosed more doesn't mean ASPD is more common in men, that's a logical fallacy. I'm not saying studies are wrong, I'm saying your interpretation of that data is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:04 AM

when more men are diagnosed with ASPD It's much more studied and recognized in men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:41 PM

I won't say that's entirely off, but not quite. It comes down to empathy and compassion, without which people are just social parasites that society would be better off without. Korea is a perfectly ran social experiment. Hyper individualistic S. Korea has the lowest fertility rate in the world. Compassion, empathy, and cooperation are stigmatized and punished socially (by US design). N. Korea is one of the most impoverished countries in the region with a brutal deranged dictator, yet people fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 10:35 PM
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Funny how you point this towards men when the issue of tact is a much bigger problem among women. Can't say I disagree though. Americans were never known for our refined etiquette and cultured taste, however around the time of reality television's debut it's become a clinical deficit in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:49 PM

I don't think most men understand just how egotistical, cut throat, manipulative, selfish, and outright evil a lot of women are. Women think and operate in such a way that's unfathomable to most men... Unless their mother treated them as such with no man to check her. Why is it unfathomable for men? Because if we were remotely as vain as women society would literally collapse ovdrnight. Hyper capitalism, American hyper-individualism, feminism, and techno-utopianism all work together to amplify t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:22 PM
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there are waaaaaaay more dudes that fit this description than there are obese women. I don't agree. The average American woman is obese, not "overweight", obese. 5'5, 170lbs. They should be averaging 132lbs.. Maybe 138lbs accounting for our geriatric country. So a good +70% of women are obese, and the rate rises every year. I simply don't believe over 70% of men are such simps they can't any women at all. It's like 30%, and our dating numbers improve in our mid 20's. Women being extremely obese …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:46 PM
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Women want a handsome man that gives good dick... All this other nonsense is just that. A woman will live in a shack next to the railroad, wearing a potato sack for good dick... There quite honestly isn't anything a woman wouldn't do for good dick. The problem for most men is that good dick is basically as abstract as becoming a super saiyan. All this bullshit about money, status, whatever is just compensating for weak dick game. If your meat ain't her incentive, she's not that into you fellas. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:54 AM
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Male and female sex drives are completely different, our relationship to our sex drives are different, and how we experience arousal is different. I wouldn't say men are "more horny" than women, men are more sensitive to arousal than women. It's very easy for a man to become aroused, it's always there but the intensity is superficial. As a consequence men enjoy sexuality outside of strict sexual environments, but it's not as pleasurable. Women are much less sensitive to arousal, her relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:37 AM
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There are more male equivalents of a massively obese woman than there are massively obese women Women are disproportionally more obese than men in the US. Like obesity is almost exclusively a gendered issue here. I think it's something like 1/3rd of men are fat while 3/5ths of women are fat, and obese women on average have higher BMIs than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:09 PM
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"I didn't like you anyway cunt" and end up on r/niceguys but women are often as bad but are usually are given a pass over it. Women are way worse at handling rejection than men. It's not even remotely comparable and anyone pretending it is is full of it. Women always get vengeful and violent when rejected. Men go cry in the shower and pretend nothing happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:58 PM
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Respect among the group. People want to stay in your good graces and avoid starting shit. You're among the first notified of any group activities or rumors, you're given preferential treatment and priority for receiving various opportunities. Nobody messes with any woman you're interested in. If you need a favor people will go out of their way to do it or find someone who can. etc. Basically everybody is looking out for you. Some do it hoping it elevates their own status, others just like being …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:20 AM
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no man is saying there is benefit to unwanted sexual attention, how does this even make sense wut There is but it depends on how attractive she is and how many. Seeing pretty women fighting over you is like watching a nature documentary in real time. Other men look at you like a god.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 04:02 AM
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Lucky you, they ask first.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:58 AM
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Mutual attraction feels like magnetism. One-sided attraction feels like a satelite orbitting a celestial body. Mass attraction feels like stage fright, a job interview, and time freezing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:57 AM
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how do you suggest we phrase our boundaries or redirection without it coming off as a full rejection? Tell them to slow down the advances, disengage (as in leave the room), then initiate conversation again later. Reality is that every man's "socially awkward phase" is the time he gets the most rejections. It distinguishes the incels from the decent ones. This only applies to men under 25. If he's 26 or up doing creepy shit then that's who the dude is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:55 AM
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