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Smart men learn from other men's experiences, average men learn from their own, stupid men don't learn at all. Choose which one you want to be. Talking to ex or exes is a major red flag. Next immediately before you get a really bad case of oneitis.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 12:23 AM
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How do you act when you see an acquaintance that you dont want to talk too much to? You just exchange pleasantaries and be on your way. Thats about it. Indifference is the real power. And this is if you see her there. Otherwise who cares. Do you ask your neighbour for permission to go out of your own house? No.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:35 AM
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Doesnt mean shit. Stop overthinking about your ex. She's an ex for a reason.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 07:01 PM
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Fuck. Good looking out man.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 09:09 AM
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Can you expand on the story a bit, i am intrigued
/r/askTRP09/07/20 08:52 AM
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Alright thank you
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:03 PM
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Fair point, much appreciated.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:42 PM
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Because im not willing to stick around if shes talking with her ex
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:28 PM
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Appreciated, fwb isnt an option in this case however.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:33 AM
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Yeah true. Only reason i am inclined to get her as LTR is the fact that her character is actually compatible with me and all of that crap basically. What do you think though, should i give her the time to mull it över by herself ör just end it myself?
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:32 AM
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Yes i do, i just didnt understand what you were answering to. İ'll try to read the sidebar önce im home as well but the problem is im meeting her before im home. Thanks for thehelp though.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:26 AM
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Because her character is consistent fun to be with and not bitchy so to speak. And everything so far seemed as she is monogamous type
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:17 AM
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What do you mean? Expand pls for my dum dum head
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:14 AM
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I can say yes to behaviour and enforcing. However when it comes to trusting, i do trust her in every aspect BUT the ex BF.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:08 AM
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https://youtu.be/HqsG7y_aCtE
/r/askTRP03/03/20 01:15 PM
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I always go for ams style, make her ask you out. İf you have already improved your smv and on your purpose, she will notice it.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 12:30 PM
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Bruh i finger banged a chick in public, in an islamic country at that, and i dont even brag this much. Sheesh, touching some tits isnt a lifetime achievement nor fingerbanging a chick. This shit happens, you just came here to humble brag but it backfired cuz all of these dudes can see thru vs and know the fact that the chick is basically using you for attention. Either escalate or let it go. Note that these ppl are tryna help you but ure not seeing thru the blinders.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 06:36 AM
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"She asks me what I'm about to do and I say eat" Instead, it should be "I say I'm going to eat, you want to join me?"
/r/askTRP24/11/18 10:01 PM
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"She asked to move from texting to insta, but held I frame" Held frame to what? There was nothing to hold frame FOR. Girl prob saw that since you don't bother, she ain't gonna bother too. Insta is a very good platform for social proof&status. Get your Insta account on lock and work on other chicks. If you really wanna keep in touch with this chick, wait a few weeks then hit her up with logistics.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 09:08 PM
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"Her behaviour is noticeably more distant" She's already fucking chad. You wanna keep her? Dread. My suggestion? End it.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 05:49 PM
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Bro what is the point of you writing here, if you are going to get all defensive and argue with every opinion?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/18 10:50 PM
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Holy heck, that escalated quickly.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/18 04:21 PM
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Solid advice, aside from "other guys" part. :D.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:25 PM
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No particular reason other than personal conquest if im being honest. I realized i dont actually give a shit about the girl(pardon my french), but just fucking her. Is it oneitis? I doubt, but i had some free time ans thought i'd ask my betters.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 04:24 AM
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I'd argue against it as it has been over a year since i dropped contact. I appreciate the comment though my dude.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 04:17 AM
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Hold up, bruh u turkish?
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:51 PM
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If it's your only option go for it. It's hard but i wish you luck my man.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 12:14 PM
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You hang out after 9pm and you dont even try to escalate? Always assume attraction, escalate.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 12:11 PM
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No it is definitely not. At most 2 days. Attraction dies over when you schedule it way too far away. RSDMax has a video on it.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 11:59 AM
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Bpd ex, 12 missed calls by her on morning to tell me to gtfo of her life, followed by a car crash where i totalled my car badly.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 11:02 AM
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Sounds good.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 10:48 PM
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Because sigma's. Most might disagree with me but the guys who are artists and band guys etc are usually sigma as for the rank. Theyre not really alpha, but their surroundings and popularity brings them a DGAF attitude which reflects them as alphas to some.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 08:23 AM
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Hahah true.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 11:55 PM
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I'ts kind of like the one that got away (couldn't tap) you know, everyone has one I believe.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 11:53 PM
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Would have been nice to tap the last girl tho, she was the hottest among of em all. My BP beta bitch side was saying, no message her in a joking way about how she didn't respond. And I'm cringing to myself about what I was thinking a few hours ago. Soft Next process begun.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 11:51 PM
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I'm going to go with Big Sean Method , "last night i took an L but tonight I bounce back".
/r/askTRP17/04/18 11:47 PM
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Depends on what you mean by image. Do you come off as a stoner? Visually look like you're high all the time? Or just act like a guy who's out of his mind all the time? All of which have different solutions, if its visual it has the most basic solution : New set of clothes, new pair of accessories, new hair style. Basically a new look. But if its the way you act, thats a bit harder, try to think before you talk&act. Say no more than needed.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 12:56 PM
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Where did RSDMax say this, I can't quite remember? And as for your question, I do firmly believe that no message (other than confirmation on the day) is better and has worked better for me in my personal experience(s). It is very easy to fuck up in text game, you can just ignore a text really easily and its even easier for girls. Also it really doesn't quite get her emotions spiking and actually thats what RSDMax defends quite a lot of times, spike her emotions, get her invested. , so its weird …
/r/askTRP12/04/18 11:52 PM
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Holy fuck that "escalated" quickly :D. Thanks for the advice brother. My inner BP self would have liked it if you said message her and then fuck her at the first date, but yeah I guess there's no happy ending in every story.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:17 PM
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I actually unmatched her after waiting for a while. But dang, you know you have that girl who you wanted to bang and couldnt? It ain't nothin special sure but still kinda sucks :D.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:29 PM
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The thing is, she'd probably be the easiest lay between the other girls and her. I wouldn't really have to do much "if" that coffee had happened.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:28 PM
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Of course, but the guy is actually aware of his own self and he works through his own strengths.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:21 PM
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he's bluepill-ish because lets be honest the guy looks sharp af and doesn't really look like he has any confidence or game issues. It probably does come easier to him than most.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:08 PM
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that was an inside joke of some sorts.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:06 PM
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He's the guy i listened to&watched his videos before Alpha M, rsdmax. Oh, also before i really dived into TRP. He's good, gives quite basic advice in a simple manner. Good place to start.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 10:54 AM
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For another example i was thinking of texting the girl today , but i wasnt really in the mood and i didnt. Wanna guess what happened? Yes she messaged me.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 01:53 PM
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If it went "extremely" well, she can text you too. For example just recently, i waited after a date. Told myself I wouldn't text for 1 week just to see if it does work. She texted me after 3 days.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 09:41 AM
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I just answered like "sure anything else would be too abnormal right?" in a cheeky way and then continued like normal. I mean this can really go both ways, since the reason I met the girl was I was actually challenged by my friends (who are good guys but way more beta than me) to ask something about changing social circles etc. The next part of the convo was like Me: Monday 5pm HB6-7:Might be later than 5 pm, depends when the teacher/prof. lets us. Me : Cool, I'll just expand my "social circle" …
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:21 PM
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Thanks my dude.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:37 AM
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see, now you write in a respectful manner. I can listen to your advice written in this way, all day. Not some weird off the top stuff dude. And as far as how it did go, I simply brushed it off. And we're going to meet in 2 days.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:29 AM
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no you see, i was actually saying lol nah bye to you and your weird attitude bro. peace.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:27 AM
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ugh, "lol nah bye".
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:25 AM
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I'll try my best to be nice here, but in which fucking world does that happen? I mean this is a number I got off of a cold approach. Like, okay I still respect your opinion but bruh, goddamn.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:22 AM
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There you go, if you're distant from people your ego will turn into douchebaggery instead of charisma. I had some people tell me that they didn't like me until they got to know me up close. If you have other dudes near you who have self-confidence issues, this will happen a lot.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 08:14 PM
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Lmao your style is almost the same as mine. I'm not considered a tool or a douchebag, except sometimes. So obviously if you think you're a douchebag its not the style, but your actions. Or maybe you are getting thrashed in the social group you are currently in, cuz "they" are assholes. I would suggest, try and find a new group and if they hate you as well, there is something that needs to change with your attitude in normal social circles. But I'd say if you're getting laid a lot, you must be do…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:33 PM
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I've actually had this happen to me but i doubt it is so in your case. Maybe you are acting too aloof and give off a vibe that makes them lose interest. Its only an indication anyway, doesnt mean theyre gonna fuck you then and there. Try to work on yourself on how to act when you get those IOI's.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 05:01 PM
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What is "your" definition of IOI though? Different girls, different movements. Do you never ever catch a girl looking at you 2-3 times? I mean its a very common thing, and even if that doesn't happen you might want to rethink how attractive you are. Not throwing shade or anything, but for people to help you need to widen the subject a bit.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:07 PM
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No worries bro, thanks for the help.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 01:52 PM
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No worries dude, I'm not bothered at all by your comment, its actually a change of perspective if you look at it. But "cheese" stuff is actually a shout out to Chris Smoove :D. You know, unexpected plot twist-like. Other than that, thanks for your view my man.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 01:08 PM
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Good one man, will use.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 12:56 PM
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That's what i exactly thought to myself. I'll go along with it as if it doesnt exist to me, i'll escalate when i meet up.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 12:31 PM
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Girls are driven by what you make them feel, if you mean mug a girl she's gonna act as in the first one. If you hold eye contact and make her feel the sexual tension, she's gonna act like the 2nd. It won't ALWAYS happen, but most of the time.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:50 AM
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Probably you're doing it better than me, nothing wrong to admit that. But yeah I'll keep that option in mind. Who knows, might work out in the end game huh?
/r/askTRP31/03/18 09:27 AM
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Yes, I have done this in the past. Didn't work out, but its a numbers game I guess. I'll use it if I don't see anything else I guess. Because some of the people from the group won't be making it and the whole get together deal could be broken off, knowing girls this kinda gives her a reason to flake. If I go and be honest after that, might come off as needy too. Damn I'm good at writing stories.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 09:23 AM
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Fair enough, but to me it seemed like from her cheery responses that she isn't quite sure if im into her or not. But then again,its a male's rationale. Women are quite different and can see thru the bs.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 09:12 AM
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Women see thru all the bs , i totally agree on that. But it hasnt worked out for me if i went honest. Girls dont like that shit, at least not where i live. The problem with this conversation is that, she seemed interested to a certain degree before when she herself said that we missed each other(as in whole group) but as in not really sure. I'm trying to get an objective view out of you guys to see if im in the right or wrong. Appreciate the feedback.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:10 AM
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I actually do have other girls im working on. And am going to the gym regularly trying to find my old pace. I began cold approaches since im in uni, and lets be honest its fuckin uni where else am i gonna do it. Thanks for your insight though my man.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:07 AM
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Start small, like I did today. Was in a group of dudes, made them challenge me to go up to a girl and say something or ask something or basically any kind of interaction. And then use this excuse to practice for yourself with girls. Oldest & Easiest excuse in the world history.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 10:34 PM
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Dude if this exact phrase has been said : "wouldn't want to make out or anything", she definitely thought about it. It's just female rationale. Go in there and escalate like always (since you've done the deed before).
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:07 AM
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"So Now my friends I will teach you an ancient GrimTRP secret. Licking the waistband. Kiss her stomach then stick your tongue into the waistband of her pants then lick left and right. As soon as I did this she said "Ok we're fucking" Okay I was wondering if this happened to other people and if there was a really, and I mean REALLY Erogenous zone between the stomach and the pants line. Because I actually had this happen before. Girl was going crazy everytime i touched there. Good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 10:47 AM
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Well from what i learned from here and experience, talk is nothing unless you back it up with physicality. I mean hell, your talk game might be shit, yet if you do know where&when to touch women will just let themselves go. And the point where i realized this was when i was giving a girl an orgasm by only touching and not even touching, in a pub. Escalation my man, its a thing of beauty.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 02:18 AM
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From what i've read in your comments, you lack the escalation part a lot. It seems like you don't really "put the sexy vibe" out there. Your talk might be smooth and shit, but it all comes down to escalation at some point.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:26 AM
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Also now i remember, she said something along the lines of i can't make relationships work and stuff (who asked about a relationship?) while giving the "friend" excuse. Which i found odd.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 10:25 PM
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Yeah ive had my fair share of bpd girls. Crashed and totalled my car cuz of one. And believe me im a good driver.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 09:27 PM
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Hmm, the context of the so called coffee was quite open as it was a romantic date-ish thing. However, thanks for the advice my man.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 09:23 PM
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Well i did ask her out after she came back and dat was the excuse she gave me.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 09:19 PM
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True. Shame though, would be good to bang her. I actually did want to bang her, thats why im asking.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 09:13 PM
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I'm thinking she probably found a dick to ride while she was away, hence the interest vanishing after the return.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:42 PM
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"The conversation was almost immediately about how we were going to fuck like rabbits on the weekend" She found another dick to ride. The fact that she was deep into this conversation right away shows the intention. She wasn't into you specifically, she was into getting a dick to ride. So despite your mindset, Next.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 02:09 PM
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First off, being confident & being stern is not necessarily the same thing. To me it seems like you tried too hard to seem confident and just came off as way too blunt&stern. You have to have an easy-going vibe when you approach. For example you have to have a chill mode and a smile. You have to make them invest in the conversation and not feel intimidated by the situation. So ask a question for ex. do you know a good place to bla bla around here, or compliment on something they have on them so …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 11:56 PM
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Wow. This might be the most retarded FR i have ever seen. 1- She doesn't have a brain, she just pulled you in a drama show. 2- Tinder=Thot 3- Nothing Alpha with your behaviour, as stated in no.1, she pulled you into her shitshow. 4- You are invested in thsi girl,otherwise you would be out of this world stupid to chase a 2nd date. Let alone not leaving at the first sight of a shit circus. Being Alpha is not being a dick. You sir, have a shit ton to learn. Edit: No i do not give a shit about the B…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 12:45 AM
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I'm a newbie BUT, unless she said something along the lines of "lets meet up x day z hour" to make up for it. You're a bench player, or a possible friendzone prospect. Judging by the fact that she's got a BF already, you're a bench player. I would suggest NEXT. Nobody is too busy to not go on a lunch.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:45 AM
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