Red_cat_nap Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Going on a date tonight. Never had a decent experience with dating. Any advices? Ask about her first time skating? Ask what her favorite season is. Where did she grow up. If all else fails let the silence build and then maybe comment on the environment around you or what’s happening. It will be ok. Everyone’s nervous on first dates	/r/seduction	03/06/22 04:24 AM
1	I don’t understand where my place is with girls Tell a girl friend this. Why are your guy friends so mean wtf?!	/r/seduction	03/06/22 04:23 AM
1	How do you ask girls to kiss/etc? Ask to hang out. Ask to watch a movie together. Ask to cuddle. “Do you want to ____?” Or do it and ask “does this feel good” “is this ok” “like this?” Or the spicier “baby, show me/tell me how you like to be touched”. The rest is all making them feel good enough that they want to jump you and listening to verbal/nonverbal feedback	/r/seduction	03/06/22 04:19 AM
2	How do you ask girls to kiss/etc? This is a good one. So far down to find someone who doesn’t shit on consent	/r/seduction	03/06/22 04:08 AM
2	How much is too much touching? 100% agree! Also should be noted that light feather touches on the hands or like forearms is a very safe region but can feel decidedly non-platonic if there’s chemistry. It shouldn’t feel robotic or like a “I’m only doing this so we can get sexual tonight”. That feels fake.	/r/seduction	03/06/22 04:04 AM
1	Why don’t I have the balls to ask for a girls number? Because it’s hard! It can literally feel paralyzing. Sometimes you just have to give yourself a pep talk and jump in	/r/seduction	03/06/22 04:01 AM
2	What to say when she sends pictures? Ask her if she was turned on by sending them. Compliment her body for sure. Tell her how much you want her. No need to go super explicit if you don’t want to. Be amazed/wowed. Ex: “you’re a goddess”. Girls would be happy to hear that. Let her lead she may want to start sexting and if that didn’t happen she may be disappointed? Ask her specifically to describe turn ons or fantasies	/r/seduction	03/06/22 03:59 AM
0	Repeated cancellations (with an excuse) She probably is truly busy. But then that’s almost unfair to be dating. Let her plan/suggest the next thing?	/r/seduction	03/06/22 03:53 AM