Redalico Archive

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0	Q4W who identify with feminism. Are there any priveleges that mostly benefit women you’re advocating to give up in the name of equality. Though men benefit from patriarchy, patriarchy has also long list of negative effects on men. These effects range widely, from poor mental health, over representation of dangerous jobs, stigmatization of emotion, alienation, murder, the under reporting of sexual assault, the draft (these are only a few examples). This cumulates in the fact the most men in most places in the world have a significantly lower life expectancy than women. Many of these forms of oppression that men experience also nee…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/25 07:08 PM
1	Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen" Larry David? Is that you???	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/24 04:30 PM
1	Q4W: are there any sex acts or kinks that you would do with a casual partner/hook-up/FWB but not with a long term partner or husband? For the most part, no but the one exception is a three-way or really anything that involves another person/people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 02:26 PM
41	Q4W - Why is there hesistancy to acknowledge how good you currently have it? This is a classic logical fallacy that’s been used to undermine the legitimate concerns of different oppressed groups forever. For example, after the end of slavery, the very legitimate grievances of black Americans who were experiencing racism from Jim Crow laws, the kkk etc. were constantly undermined by white people saying oh well you have it better now than you did when you were enslaved. Of course, the majority of women in the world have it better now than they did 100 years ago. The majori…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 02:53 PM
2	SOLUTION: Men get to ask for a DNA test as long as the GF/wife gets to randomly check his phone/tablet/computer and check that’s he not abusing the child. I mean this exists, just move to Saudi Arabia if that’s what you want	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 01:31 PM
1	Q4W: What, according to you, can a man do, so he can become the kind of stereotypical bad boy that women lust after ? Mmmmm it depends. Embezzlement could be hot, insurance fraud not so much	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 07:54 PM
1	Q4W: What, according to you, can a man do, so he can become the kind of stereotypical bad boy that women lust after ? Start smoking cigarettes, get a lot of visible tattoos, buy a motorcycle and work on building up your criminal record.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 07:51 PM
1	Do you think the women of the Americans would be happier today if the Americans was never colonized by European settlers? I invite you to share some scientific or historical sources that give evidence that indigenous women were “traded like horses“. Note that I have actually cited academic well researched historical evidence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 12:45 AM
0	Do you think the women of the Americans would be happier today if the Americans was never colonized by European settlers? I did read your whole comment, maybe if you didn’t start out with a wildly racist and factually incorrect claim you wouldn’t have gotten so much hate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 09:00 PM
0	Do you think the women of the Americans would be happier today if the Americans was never colonized by European settlers? As many people have already pointed out, this simply isn’t true, there were many different nations and Empire throughout the Americas who treated women differently, depending on their culture, economy, legal structure, and religion. In her book, the beginning and end of rape, Muscogee scholar Sarah Deer, explores how different tribes treated violence against women in their legal systems and how that changed with colonization. In particular she writes about how in some communities women had the c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 03:58 PM
5	45% of men aged 18-25 have never asked out a woman in person before. Men, why do you think this is? The dude who conducted this "study", which was not in fact a study but a social media poll, is a social media personality who makes on coaching men about how to to pick up women. Of course the majority of his followers haven't approached women in person in the last year, that is why they are following him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 07:57 PM
2	What is the most effortful thing you have done for your boyfriend or husband's birthday Took him on his dream vacation to Japan. I also gave him an expensive watch he wanted for a long time but didn’t buy for himself bc he just isn’t that kind of guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 03:50 AM
–	Women are not entitled to anything from men the Oxford English dictionary, defines entitlement as a rightful claim to a possession, privilege or other thing. I am arguing that as human beings everyone has a rightful claim to being treated with respect. Do you always get what you are entitled to? No obviously life doesn’t work that way. It does not, however negate the idea that you are entitled to respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/24 09:32 PM
11	Intelligence and Promiscuity Just so you know, the source you are citing is from a right wing think tank that is not well respected in academic circles because of the bias in their studies. The argument being made about promiscuity and intelligence is a part of an overall right wing effort to demean, undermine and stigmatize knowledge and intelligence. Also, just in my experience as someone with a PhD who spends a lot of time around other people with PhD’s, I don’t find the link between intelligence and promiscuity to be pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 11:47 PM
0	if women date up, men do too I think many men who “date up” also get criticized/demonized, they are called creepy, shallow, etc. a lot of men also realize that being beautiful is not effortless, typically requires working out, spending money on hair, nails, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 09:09 AM
1	Women are not entitled to anything from men I disagree and I find it wild that so many people agree with you. Everyone, regardless of gender, is entitled by the mere fact of being human, to a basic level of respect. The idea that no one owes each other anything is at the core of much of the moral and ethical degradation in modern society. If you don't want to have any obligation to your fellow human beings, go live alone in the woods.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 10:52 PM
4	Women's refusal to actively approach men is sexist I agree that more women should approach more men, I think it would make dating better for both genders. However, I disagree with your framing of this issue as one of “sexist stereotype”. I would argue that men approaching women rather than the other way around, is based on social roles and perceptions as other commenters have outlined	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/24 03:57 PM
2	What is something positive and healthy in your relationship that you appreciate? Or perhaps a trait in your partner/spouse that you value? There is such a long list of things that I appreciate about my amazing partner! He is kind and compassionate, he’s always honest and respectful. I love that he’s willing to try new things with me and go on adventures together. he is very protective of me, he makes me feel safe, and I know he would never hesitate to defend me in any situation. He does so many little things to show that he cares, like buying me hot Cheetos when he goes to the corner store or filling up a bucket with cool water so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 11:46 PM
1	What positions on here do you believe are fringe or not representative of the real world? It’s difficult to say what percentage of average men are in fulfilling relationships, as I think the definition of fulfilling really varies widely. However, the majority of adult men are in relationships and by definition the majority of those men are average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 12:13 AM
1	What positions on here do you believe are fringe or not representative of the real world? By definition, red pill ideology is outside of the norm “fringe “ while blue pill ideology is mainstream and “normal”. Of course, people on the sub tend to veer away from the strict definitions of blue pill and red pill. I think the majority of views in the sub are not very representative of mainstream views. No one in real life has ever asked me about my body count, but some people on this sub make it seem like everyone cares about that and it’s the main way to measure a woman’s value. I also t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 10:30 PM
–	q4w: what is your desired outcome of your relationship before entering a relationship? My desired outcome when I started my current relationship was safe, mutually fulfilling sex and companionship. Those two things remain part of my desired outcome but now I also want kids and to grow old together. Does that answer your question?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 06:07 PM
–	If women were as horny as men they wouldn’t have the delusional standards and pickiness they have I am not saying that we are blank slates however, the primarily determinant of beauty standards is not biological it is social. This has been scientifically proven many times over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 02:02 AM
–	If women were as horny as men they wouldn’t have the delusional standards and pickiness they have No, that’s incorrect if you look at conceptions of human beauty throughout human history.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 01:55 AM
–	If women were as horny as men they wouldn’t have the delusional standards and pickiness they have No, that is factually incorrect as proved by the wide spectrum of human diversity throughout history, most especially language and beauty standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/24 01:45 AM
–	If women were as horny as men they wouldn’t have the delusional standards and pickiness they have Not everything needs to be taught, but almost all human behavior is learned. Babies don’t magically know how to speak when they are born, they learn how to speak, mostly from being implicitly rather than explicitly taught how to do so. I’m not talking about teaching in the sense that you are sat down in a classroom, I’m talking about the constant messaging everywhere from media to religious institutions to social norms etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 08:40 PM
–	If women were as horny as men they wouldn’t have the delusional standards and pickiness they have Yeah the whole idea of the female orgasm as an evolutionary trait to select high quality partners is fascinating. I think the relationship between sex, partner selection, and evolution is very interesting and could potentially explain a lot of modern dating phenomenon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 08:00 PM
9	Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these days All the settings you named are places where it is fine to socialize. You're not in court, you're not at work, there is no harm in simply talking with other people who are open to it. Yeah, of course it is "fine" to socialize in those settings but the grocery store and public transit are not social settings. Many people want to go about their business of moving from point a to point b or buying food without socializing and there is nothing wrong with that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 07:55 PM
–	If women were as horny as men they wouldn’t have the delusional standards and pickiness they have Very interesting. I think I found the article you are referring to and it certainly challenges my own ideas about the relationship between sexual satisfaction and attractiveness. Thank you for sharing!	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 07:50 PM
–	If women were as horny as men they wouldn’t have the delusional standards and pickiness they have The biggest correlation between a woman coming to orgasm is a man’s attractiveness. If you are talking about "attractiveness" as some kind of objective concept, I highly disagree. There is a much bigger correlation between sexual skill/attentiveness and the female orgasm than attractiveness. It is a very common trope that really good looking/hot guys are bad in bed. If you ask most women who is the hottest guys you've ever slept with and who is the best sexual partner you've ever had, those two …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 07:30 PM
–	If women were as horny as men they wouldn’t have the delusional standards and pickiness they have My point is the problem is not high standards but the wrong high standards. I'll prepare a press release	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 07:22 PM
1	What are your views on lesbians being more likely to commit crime? It gives various explanations as well, including this one, "On average, gay males are exposed to lower prenatal testosterone levels than heterosexual males, while lesbians are exposed to higher prenatal testosterone levels than heterosexual females. What the theory essentially describes is a type of “cross-gender shift,” such that gay males display more traditionally “feminine” traits, and lesbians appear more “masculine” relative to their heterosexual counterparts."	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 07:18 PM
–	If women were as horny as men they wouldn’t have the delusional standards and pickiness they have I think women are taught and socially conditioned to value the wrong things in men (like height, physical strength etc.) rather than the traits that actually make a good partner in modern society (such as integrity, compassion, respect) etc. This contributes to delusional standards like many women wanting a guy over 6 foot. I think women should have high standards but those standards should pertain to traits that make a man a good partner rather than superficial traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 07:14 PM
7	Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these days So because I don't want to make friends or get into conversations in non-social settings like the grocery store, public transit etc., that makes me anti-social? I feel like most people, men or women don't want to be approached by others in these settings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/24 07:00 PM
–	Why legalizing prostitution is good for society Not the person you are asking but here is an excellent, well researched, academic source	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 11:35 PM
8	Definition of a unattractive man Some parts of attractiveness are subjective but others are pretty universal. Attractive traits generally include: fit, good hygiene/personal grooming, good teeth, unblemished skin, etc. These traits generally apply to both genders as well as most groups/cultures though exceptions exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 07:06 PM
–	What do you think about "men like woman more than the other way around"? I messaged first and said I love you first BECAUSE I don’t like playing games….	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 03:05 AM
7	Women overeagerate their contributions to a relationship. Women will do the most mundane things like cooking and cleaning and Will be called a superhero Lol I have never heard a woman called a superhero for cooking or cleaning. Yes those tasks are mundane and the bare minimum which is why it is frustrating when men don't participate in these tasks. Women will provide the same vagina on a birthday and call it the special occasion Are women supposed to go out and get a new vagina? I am confused by this point. Overall, I agree with another commenter that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 07:45 PM
18	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? I very much agree with this take. For example, a solution to the unequal pay and treatment of mothers in the work place is to organize across gender lines for more parental rights, for parental leave that includes both paternity and maternity leave, for increased accommodations for working parents, both mothers and fathers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 06:18 PM
2	PurplePill Women: Would you sign a prenuptial agreement? In theory, assuming the prenup is fair, yes. I make good money and I’m not looking for anyone to support me. I would want some kind of infidelity clause included.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 04:18 AM
3	The "unequal division of household chores" in large part arises from status competition within female social circles, which the male partner has no obligation to make sacrifices for. This take is incredibly biased and unsupported by data. The type of labor you are referring to in your post like a child’s birthday is not what people are talking about when they refer to the unequal division of domestic household chores. There an unequal division in the labor required to keep a family healthy and alive, including cooking, acquiring food, child and elder care, and cleaning. This is true for the majority of women in the world, who on average spend 2.8 more hours per day on domest…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/24 03:30 PM
14	What do you think about "men like woman more than the other way around"? I messaged my partner first on tinder, I also said I love you first. Playing games really really irritates me and I find it to be a waste of time. I think the dating world would be so much better for both women and men if more women took more of the initiative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 03:27 PM
4	Are the wrong men having to pay child support a result of the government having lost their balls? The state doesn’t care because this is not an issue or situation that effects or motivates the average voter. It also has little to no effect on the economy or business interests. The only people who care about this issue are a tiny subset of the population that the lack popular support, economic or political power necessary to get legislation passed on a federal level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/24 02:11 AM
2	Which of these men would you prefer to date? Emil or Julian as long as they can beat me at chess. After working at a law firm, I have a rule not to date lawyers for many reasons so Theo is a no. I also don't date people who call themselves entrepreneurs, I am not interested in funding or making sacrifices for someone else's half baked ideas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 07:42 PM
5	It does feel like the Blue Pillers here are committed to making men feel like they're never the prize I would argue that it is more of the red pill position that men are not the prize. The red pill framing around "sexual market value" devalues and dehumanizes the average man based around their looks, money, and social status. The blue pill position seems to place a higher value on men's internal qualities (such as honesty, integrity, compassion etc) and the development of the self. From a more personal perspective, while women might not view men as a whole as the "prize", I think many women, mys…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 07:37 PM
6	How do women respect each other? Mostly I value the same things for any gender, respect, honesty, compassion, integrity etc. One thing I value, particularly in women is being a girl’s girl. Don’t talk shit on other women just because they aren’t around, don’t play up to gender stereotypes for attention, don’t compete with other women for male attention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 06:43 AM
3	Feminists in general oppose gender neutral laws 73% of rape cases don’t result in conviction which has absolutely nothing to do with false accusations. Only 2% of theft cases in the United States result in conviction. Does that mean 98% of theft accusations are fake?? Of course not	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/24 07:52 PM