Redbeard Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	10 Habits of Remarkably Charismatic People		Redbeard	/r/seduction	21/07/12 11:44 AM
1	The Rise and Fall of Charm in American Men		Redbeard	/r/seduction	31/05/13 05:41 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	I started saying "how's it going" instead of "hey" to cashiers Amen. Fight objectification, it's the reason our modern society is so alienating. https://medium.com/@rotbart/objectification-re-enlightenment-9fbff49b919	/r/seduction	20/06/17 11:12 PM
1	My go-to pickup line With pretty much everything, it's how you say it, not what you say.	/r/seduction	29/12/15 10:30 AM
5	How to Enthrall Women The first good post here in a long while. Thanks OP!	/r/seduction	27/05/14 03:52 AM
1	What are some good "pet names" to call a girl over text? Sexy.	/r/seduction	20/08/13 10:51 AM
2	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/22/2012 Find your local lair (there are more lairs than just seddit lairs) and join their outings.	/r/seduction	23/10/12 03:32 AM
0	Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test. Yes, but approaching doesn't present the approaching girl as a scarce resource to be desired.	/r/seduction	22/08/12 11:53 PM
1	Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test. I thought you like it here because you KNOW almost everyone has a dick :) But I digress. Free tip-- the two things you need to master as a girl PUA that is interested in guys (girl PUAs interested in girls are in a completely different game) is creating opportunity and implying scarcity. With these two tools you can have any man you'd like. The problem with your current approach is that it is going to be hard to imply scarcity (i.e. you are the scarce resource) if you're the one doing the initia…	/r/seduction	22/08/12 04:00 AM
1	Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test. Sounds like you're on a great path of discovery and self improvement, either way. Just be safe and enjoy the ride. As a side note, this is what we're all here for as well -- learning about ourselves and improving ourselves, we're not jerks and we're not all about the getting the f-close, so that generalisation at the end of your post was unnecessary IMHO.	/r/seduction	22/08/12 03:20 AM
5	Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test. First, good work on empowering yourself and getting over the slut bullshit. It's all good if you're doing it for the right reasons, and not because of low self esteem (this is true for guys as well). Having helped girls learn some PUA tricks, may I suggest that you first examine with yourself what kind of guy do you find attractive. If part of the personality you find attractive in men is assertiveness you will be better served by creating opportunity but not directly pursuing. The best selectio…	/r/seduction	22/08/12 03:01 AM
6	Cocky vs Confidence. When is the line crossed? You can be confident, and cocky without being a douche/jerk. There's a simple test: Are you able to give value to others while doing what you're doing? For example, can you DHV your friend while doing what you're doing? If yes=confidence, else=douche. Because a douche is full only of himself while, a confident man is confident of his value enough to also spread it around. This is because he has so much value, he can also spend it abundantly. That's a powerful message to be projecting.	/r/seduction	07/08/12 04:09 AM
3	How to unseduce a girl? Trust your instincts, she is indeed developing feelings for you. From the description, it sounds like needy & unhealthy feelings and she will rationalise her way into trying to contact you by any means. Simply ignoring her might lead to her trying to retaliate, crazy can do a lot of damage to your life (reputational, etc.) so I highly suggest letting her down gently. A good way of doing this - "I've recently met someone I've developed feelings for and would like to give that relationship the bes…	/r/seduction	12/06/12 05:28 AM
2	Hey /r/seduction, IAmA personal stylist for men. I teach men how to look attractive. AMA. Where's a good tailor in Melbourne then? :)	/r/seduction	02/06/12 08:34 AM
15	Guys, we need to talk about this. It's time for some hard reflection. I agree with the OP, and I love what he wrote. I'd like to concentrate on one point and demonstrate how NOT LYING to a girl is more likely to get you what you want. Consider a situation that most of us have been to: You're on a date with a girl you are attracted to, but you don't want anything more than a sexual relationship with her -- either because you don't want anything more with her or in general. Do you disclose this to her on the first date? I would, and I'll tell you why... Not only bec…	/r/seduction	15/12/11 05:31 AM
1	Sigh. I feel like crawling into a hole... Go to an Improv class -- you'll have a structured environment in which to practice.	/r/seduction	20/07/11 05:14 AM
6	Let's play the non reactive game (version 1. Game 1) Reply to basically every one of these: "Awww... You're so cute. Can I adopt you as my little sister?"	/r/seduction	01/07/11 06:55 AM
3	It's a science, and it works! + [FR] K-Close/# Close. That is the essence of alpha. Being alpha is being the initiator and being in control. Just to clarify, because people often get this wrong -- you can be a gentleman and be alpha. If you open a door for her because YOU want to, the underlying subtext will be "I'm controlling the situation and opening the door for you, bidding you to enter." If you open a door for her just to please her, she's in control of you. Your body language will be making the subtext clear to her.	/r/seduction	28/06/11 12:15 AM
2	Just had a "fuck it, I don't care anymore" moment. Everything turned out better than expected... On the date- keep the attitude and don't forget the kino!	/r/seduction	23/06/11 11:58 PM
14	Ask Seddit: What's your best comeback for "Why are you staring at my tits?" (or the declarative variant: "You're staring at my chest.") "Why yes, thanks for noticing!"	/r/seduction	23/05/11 01:12 AM
14	Good way to DHV when asked "What do you do?" If you're studying something you're bored by, you're going to be super bored working at it... Maybe change careers before it's too late? You're going to be spending most of your waking life at work, might as well do something you like. When you do, you'll have an easy time being excited about it which would demonstrate high value.	/r/seduction	20/05/11 05:23 AM
2	I don't have the time to study seduction. I want to get out there and practice. Can I get the TL/DR of this stuff? CONFIDENCE. Fake it, until you make it. Then become a better man through it.	/r/seduction	19/05/11 12:31 AM
2	Are you studying seduction to get chicks, or to be a better man? I'm with you, and I've found that the skills I learn work for me in business as well. Demonstrating higher value works in closing business deals, not just sexual rendezvous...	/r/seduction	19/05/11 12:25 AM
8	Are you studying seduction to get chicks, or to be a better man? To paraphrase: To be good at the game, you've got to enjoy the game, not just winning.	/r/seduction	19/05/11 12:23 AM
1	What Happend To My Game? I know you always hear it around Reddit, but getting into a fitness program such as couch to 5k or similar can help teach you how to get back to your inner game - allowing you to 'own' your self-esteem - not rely in the feedback you get from others. It's a powerful tool.	/r/seduction	14/05/11 02:10 AM
11	[FR] - Helped an AFC K-close with just a few pointers I believe that Selfless Acts of Value Giving are an amazing tool and can unlock another level of game. Guys are so busy competing and cockblocking each other that they leave the girls in control of the game, if you DHV for your friends you will reap the reward as well.	/r/seduction	14/05/11 02:03 AM
17	Not exactly an [FR] insane conversation with my former "one." The original quote by Bernard Shaw is 'We have established what you are, madam. We are now merely haggling over the price.'...	/r/seduction	02/03/11 03:59 AM
8	Girl Down the Hall The old, 'new neighbour, thought I'd introduce myself' works well. See if you still get the signals, and ask her out.	/r/seduction	12/01/11 03:53 AM