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LeftoversRedbird2992/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/22 09:29 PM
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I mean it does read like bitterness, that being said it’s literally a woman who wrote the original opinion and that same woman who agreed with this opinion (not sure about the other commenter) but you’re blaming “scorned men”, just curious, unless it’s just obvious bias/bigotry, why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:08 AM
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Funny enough, it seems that the commenter you responded to is actually showcasing what you’re saying. They’ve inadvertently “judged” these guys who may have a body count preference and have found them worthless for a relationship, but when it’s their turn to be looked at the accountability is nowhere to be found.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:02 PM
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Right? I mean I don’t think I could be mad at that, lowkey it would be pretty damn impressive lol. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:07 AM
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lol oh yes, you hurt my feeling terribly! I’m now crying hysterically thinking of just how bad you made me feel about (checks previous comments) my eyesight…. Good job?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:36 PM
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I have astigmatism, glasses/contacts still cause issues like “starbursts”, especially in places with flashing lights/strobes, they also give migraines after too long. And aside from that, My eyes my choice? Stop trying to dictate what men wear, you wouldn’t like it if men did that to women, it’s equally fucked when you try to do it to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:32 PM
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Again, in a nightclub? With music, lights, strobes? Etc? If I didn’t have my glasses I wouldn’t be able to see something “isn’t right” unless I was within about 10 feet, and even then should I trust my blurry ass vision to correctly identify if someone is uncomfortable, and if so, exactly why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:55 AM
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Tell them what? We wouldn’t be involved, and wouldn’t know anything. would we just see her from across the crowded noisy club then go tell the bouncer that we saw a woman at the bar, definitely looked uncomfortable, might just be a bit constipated or something, but maybe someone should go check on her to see if she’s good?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:46 AM
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I mean, I think that’s what he’s advocating for, do not get involved in possibly violent situations. Especially if you don’t even know the other person and you’re in a setting where people are drunk and making bad choices. If you’re in a setting like a nightclub, the probability of the other person being drunk is incredibly high no need to mess with all that could come along with getting involved or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:39 AM
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Wow, the deflection she showed was impressive lol. Just Olympic level dodging, and funny enough, not an ounce of accountability for the words she literally typed out earlier in the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:56 AM
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Lol I mean it doesn’t matter, you won this argument, Lilith will keep coming back with the same tired lines but it’s because she sucks at debating and getting the other person to quit trying is easier than actually winning an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:19 PM
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I mean I dont see the same incels you do, but I’ll happily call out any and all men who i do encounter that refer to women as “products” to be bought and sold “depending on their value as decided by the men” it’s weird and pretty fucked either way…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:21 AM
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I’m sure the incels on the guys side are saying the exact same thing, good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:15 PM
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Okay, so some men used this phrasing (which seems super questionable regardless of gender) and instead of being better than an “incel” you’re choosing to mimic them? Definitely seems like a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:21 PM
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Im just curious about your framing here, would you find it okay if any of the guys on here referred to women in general as “goods to buy and sell” or would that sit weirdly with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:18 PM
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Oh Jesus I did comment on an old ass post, this for some reason popped up and I thought it was newer, didn’t look at how old it was, just ignore me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:23 PM
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Yeah, and in a perfect world, theoretically she should be taking on more of the household duties if he’s taking on more of the financial aspect but if that’s 50/50 I don’t see how a 50/50 financial split isn’t fair as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:12 PM
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Okay so no other response besides “you spelled her name wrong”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:39 AM
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I mean have you seen the posts from Lilith of Babylon or lemon gecko? There are literal warnings on posts they make telling guys not to take the misandry seriously and don’t try arguing in good faith “because it’s one of their posts”. Are there any equivalent male profiles here that post misogynistic takes on a regular basis that women try to engage with in good faith? If so I’d love to see some (or any) examples of repeat posters who specifically post misogynistic content because I’m just not s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:53 AM
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I’ve already addressed This video in another comment, it is in no way shape or form related to your original post, I’m open to discussing your original topic if you’d like but I’m not interested in whatever you have going on with this video, to be honest it’s just weird how often you post it in unrelated threads just to derail completely unrelated discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:32 PM
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lol yes, I know it’s not about me, it’s about the topic you brought up originally, which I replied to only for you to switch to a different topic without actually addressing my response. This is just a really strange interaction which made me crack up, so thanks for that i guess? Have a good one!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:54 PM
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I think this guys a jackass, what does it have to do with your post or my response? Regarding the motte Bailey, I gave you a literal example from my life, where my definition would apply, and you instead ignored it to use the most extreme example. Why not just respond to the comment instead of hiding behind the same video you’ve been posting on a dozen threads for the last week?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:37 PM
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I don’t really get the correlation, unless it’s a weird strawman attempt at using the “worst man as all men”. Everybody has negative traits and nobody is perfect so I don’t see how saying “I want somebody who accepts me even though I’m imperfect” which seems to be a mix of love and empathy is being too “picky” when talking about a potential spouse. As an example, I’m 6’0” and used to weigh 425lbs, I’m currently 200 and I can’t even begin to describe how much nicer people are to me now simply bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:23 PM
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Yeah I just kinda gave up on those, low key I have to say it definitely messed with my performance at school too. I remember asking one of my teachers if I could sit somewhere else because I couldn’t take notes (folding desk) and she just laughed at me for not fitting and said “what are we gonna do with you” before moving on like I didn’t say anything. Of course come parent teacher conferences “oh little red bird would probably benefit if he were a little more attentive, he should really try tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:26 PM
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Yo I didn’t even think of the left handed aspect, I’d probably end up losing my shit or falling out the seat if my fat ass didn’t have a rest to set my arm on 🤣.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:20 PM
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those flimsy ass plastic Adirondack chairs couldn’t handle the junk in my trunk either so don’t feel too bad about that one! It was either big and tall chairs or the ground for me too, even worse was the school desks that had built in table tops I could barely squeeze into, had to suck in my gut/stand every time I wanted to sharpen my pencil or grab a sheet of paper lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:17 PM
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Good shit, I mean not the stress part lol but just saying, 160 is a whole ass fuckin person worth of weight that you lost! I don’t know you from the next person on this site but from one internet stranger whose gone through it to another, good fuckin job, and if it means anything at all I’m proud of you my dude (I use dude gender neutrally) just keep plugging along and enjoy the little things like not grunting as much when you get up or being able to run more than 1/8th a mile without throwing u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:13 PM
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I’m a dude and same on my end, I was 6’0” 425lbs at one point and the only comments I ever received were backhanded ones. Just comparing the types of responses I received then vs the responses I get now at 200 are wildly different, especially from family holy shit lol, so I’m sorry you’re dealing with that, it’s fuckin rough out here at times. That being said, in this situation, it’s definitely not negging, just some dude being an ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 05:53 PM
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I mean you described negging but also included a personal story that wasn’t negging, the guy was just being an ass. Now if they got exactly what they wanted, a photo from you, and it was amazing, but they still found little things to criticize like the brand of the shirt or the way you were standing, just to show you it’s still not good enough, then that would be negging. Simply being rude isn’t negging though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:35 PM
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Oh, okay, so per your own previous comment, you just have nothing better to do. Thanks for clearing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:23 PM
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lol responding with “well in a just world that simply wouldn’t be an issue so I just won’t answer” before demanding an answer is definitely a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:03 PM
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No no no, you just don’t get it, clearly you’re too brainwashed by the patriarchy. I mean you’re talking about boys “playing war”, and goofing off on the farm, but what about the women at home holding down the fort?!? Have you ever thought about how much worse she has it than the guy who’s out there working/dying?!? /s for what it’s worth lol, (also, I’ve had the exact phrase above said to me more than once on Reddit and I feel like I’m falling away from empathy more and more each time it’s repe…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/26 07:22 PM
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I mean you sound like a racist white woman, congrats on people calling you out I guess? It’s so funny when selfish, self centered white women claim victim status like they didn’t have it better than 99% of men of color.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:19 PM
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Just to clarify, I’m saying “it’s hating on men for acting outside of their stereotipical role and it’s most often perpetuated by women” and your response is “sure this is the literal definition of misandry but let me tell you how it’s really misogyny because they are only doing the misandry because they actually hate women” In that case, using your logic, If a guy turns down a woman saying “shes not a real woman” for having slept with women in the past or some other toxic bullshit, would that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:50 PM
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I used 2 random examples, women seem to get judged for sleeping around and men seem to get judged for being bi. Im not saying they are connected, I’m saying the same attitude/outlook is behind both which is why when men do it, misogyny, when women do it, misandry…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:31 PM
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The actual reverse would be men refusing to date women who have experimented (kissing/making out/whatever) with other women and saying it’s because they don’t view them as real women anymore… if men were the main drivers of this and women didn’t really care if a man has done the same then that would in fact be misogynistic, or, if your argument is men won’t date women who sleep around, as mentioned in my comment above I already said that was misogynistic if they don’t hold themselves to the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:28 PM
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The way I see it, If an action/characteristic is criticized broadly across both genders, by both genders, not misogyny or misandry, if the action is criticized by both genders when only 1 gender does it, still not misogyny or misandry, if only women are criticized for doing something that men don’t usually get criticized for (sleeping around as an example), yes misogyny, if only men get criticized for doing something that women don’t normally get criticized for (being bisexual as an example), ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 05:18 PM
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Sure, but the commenter above you is literally arguing “but women hating men isn’t the same” thing because “women just say mean stuff online” so it’s not like you have a universally held belief that it’s wrong like there is with men hating women. I mean, I agree with your take, it’s fucking stupid to hate everyone of one gender “just because” but it’s not ridiculous to say it’s become a widespread issue or that it’s inappropriate to ask about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:23 PM
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I’m kinda confused by this response, if you wouldn’t mind expanding a bit why is there an issue with the premise I’d love to understand. In my take It’s not saying that women have to find x% of men attractive or something, just that on average women find x% of guys attractive which is lower than men who on average find x% of women attractive. Like there are literally surveys showing this that are brought up pretty regularly in this sub, it’s not forcing anything on women, just introducing the to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:30 PM
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I mean if the woman is sleeping with that guy, unless it’s my best friend/childhood buddy, she should know him a bit better than me… that’s a normal part of the dating process, getting to know someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:29 PM
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Im not trying to be argumentative but i think goldilocks kinda proves the other guys comment. Unless I miss-remember the story, she literally had to try 3 different versions of everything because each bear had its own version of what constituted as “just right”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:41 PM
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The main Problem I have with this is when it’s used for normal things that the other person just doesnt like, or would like a specific way rather than when it just refers to an unemployed, unreliable, unmotivated dude. As an example, I’m far more successful than my wife career wise, I’m a better cook, I do more chores, I track all of the “family events”, aka I perform well more than my fair share of “emotional labor” which isnt an issue, I love my wife and I’m happy to do it. what I’m not happy …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 06:31 PM
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I mean this is kinda it. In my opinion I had/have no problem treating everyone as individuals which is why I never held things from past relationships against future partners. I was verbally, physically, and emotionally abused by an ex so I let them know I may have some issues, but it has been burned into my brain that my reactions to things were never my new gf’s fault, even when they specifically went after an insecurity I had opened up about because they “not all women are the same, you can’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:31 PM
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You only see men posting about an app that lets you post private info of guys online, one that was apparently used to share revenge porn and their home addresses/phone numbers? Gee I wonder why men care about something like that. Imagine if there was a men’s only app and a data leak happened where you found out a shit ton of nudes were shared. If you as a woman have ever sent nudes you now have to worry about your photos being on the internet, try to imagine the anxiety that may produce. That’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:55 PM
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Yeah, and they are kinda failing at proving their point too. Like sure, there was a similar app for men where similar things started to happen so the guys running it shut it down with the message “be better” aka guys holding guys accountable unlike tea which is up and running and nobody is calling out what’s happing on the app besides men who in this case don’t have the ability to shut it down and say “be better”, that would have to come from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 05:45 PM
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I mean quite the opposite. If I read that correctly, I believe they are saying “if men did this instead of women, I as a man, wouldn’t be getting upset, I’d be on here laughing at them with you.” Which means he would treat men the same as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:37 PM
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Yeah, as a dude I generally love the gender swap test, and this, as expected smells like shit either way you swap it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 04:24 AM
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To be fair, being set up by family and friends, and dating apps are examples alternatives to the cold open. That being said, I’m not a huge fan of relying on nonverbal cues nowadays unless they are widely understood because it can easily get misconstrued. “Long eye contact” okay, well what happens when you’re burnt out, staring into space while at chipotle and suddenly you’re getting approached by everyone you made “lingering eye contact with” lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:40 PM
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Oh I hear about it all the time! It’s just that it’s usually followed up with some bs generalization about men being dumb or bootstrapping us by claiming “well women have had it much harder and we did it so you can too.” that puts the issue right back on us.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 11:03 PM
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The problem is that it isn’t “just starting” this Shits been going on my entire life it’s just becoming more popular to be outwardly mean rather than dismissive. I mean in the 90’s/2000’s men being sa’d in movies as a joke was common (still kind of is tbh), people responding with “man what a lucky guy” when a story comes out about a teacher/student relationship if the teacher is good looking, etc. guys have never been taken seriously when it comes to things like this, now instead of being dismis…
/r/MensRights09/06/25 01:12 PM
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Agreed, as a guy I care about the issues women deal with because I have a wife, I plan on having children which could include a daughter, I have sisters and a mom. Seeing the issues these people face made me realize that shits different for all of us and I try my best to be empathetic enough to see both sides and understand that my experiences don’t negate theirs which I try to communicate constantly but it still turns into a pissing match each time I shift the conversation to anything related t…
/r/MensRights24/04/25 02:38 PM
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It should be, unfortunately it really isn’t all that common among girls to call each other out and us guys who call it out are almost immediately hit with “but we have it worse you incel” or some variation.
/r/MensRights24/04/25 02:25 PM
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lol? What was that sarcasm? Sounds mighty gasslighty to me!!!! /s fwiw
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