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Wasting your time lmao
/r/seduction28/07/26 03:31 PM
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Until you can go out alone and have a good time without worrying about girls, you'll never go out and actually get a lot of attention. I work best alone because I'm usually more comfortable in my own skin than with others in a club/bar environment. You don't have to say much. Your position and body language say more. You'll notice woman will communicate with their position around you as well as body language to let you know they think you are attractive. This can get uncomfortably obvious once y…
/r/seduction26/10/19 12:43 AM
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Yeah this is the way girls reject you over text. It's as honest as its gonna get. The alternative is no reply, and I'd rather get rejected than ignored.
/r/seduction09/01/19 01:23 AM
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This is good stuff. I've fallen into this trap before and you're right... there really isn't a point in directly negotiating the status of your relationship until its, ya know, already been a relationship for a while.
/r/seduction09/01/19 01:23 AM
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If I saw you on the street, I'd think to myself "there's a normal dude." and go about my day. Find something that you like to do and put yourself out there around other people if you want to develop these skills. You'll find a place to fit in soon enough and it will be easy from there.
/r/seduction04/11/18 08:38 AM
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This is pretty much my experience of dancefloor game. You don't have to be super social but girls are generally more observational in these scenarios and definitely "pick up the vibe you’ve given off" and make themselves available for approach. Its usually up to you to make a move, but small moves build that momentum for the night. Ya gotta think long term if you're going to be in the same scene so best to focus on building deeper rapport with a few people then the whole place while being comfor…
/r/seduction03/11/18 11:21 PM
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If a girl wants to kiss you and you're alone, you will know. Get very close, make eye contact and I promise you your brain won't fail you, but you will have to listen to it.
/r/seduction07/08/18 05:45 AM
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Friends girlfriend asked me two different times if we wanted to do a threesome/group sex with my other 4 guy friends. Within an hour or so she would always look miserable and ready to go to bed. Some people.... just shouldn't do drugs.
/r/seduction01/08/18 01:29 AM
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This has everything to do with being associated with "PUA". But the thing they don't realize, is that the backlash to "PUA" is what has shaped communities like this into what it is. It is dumb to use dishonest, conniving, and manipulative methods to increase how many girls you've slept with. The problem is that the group doing this is a minority. The majority of people here just want to be more successful with women.
/r/seduction09/05/18 09:40 PM
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You need some therapy. Go talk to someone who can guide you through these feelings in person and real time.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:14 PM
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Your gut feeling is probably right here bro. You wouldn't have written out a post if that feeling wasn't strong. Probably not worth it, but remember I don't see people in this situation, just behavior.
/r/seduction20/04/18 05:55 PM
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You're totally forcing it because you know you are on camera. Your huge bug eyes make you look out of your element. Maybe try to be a little more low key? Guys are already gonna be on edge getting approached by an attractive woman so you need to work on building an initial level of comfort through rapport. Also, as a woman, its probably better to just be social then be "gaming". More friends means an expanded network who can know your situation and look out for a compatible partner for you. Then…
/r/seduction18/04/18 07:01 PM
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thanks friend :)
/r/seduction05/04/18 06:07 AM
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That was me too, and I'm going to struggle with it again when I get out of this relationship I'm in. The good news is that the bar to be decent at this stuff isn't high. Look up the dicarlo escalation ladder if you haven't heard of it and need some place to start. I'm sure you can see how this mindset makes it hard to actually get to the sex part.
/r/seduction28/03/18 01:10 AM
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I'm saying that when you talk to people about sex and attraction, you get some of the emotional vulnerability without the physical. You still have some idea of what "sex" is to you and what you would want right? Every person deals with this, some way more unconsciously, but you need to take a very conscious and mindful approach to this. NOT EVERYONE THINKS ALONG THE LINES OF WHAT YOU QUOTED. But women 28-35 ON AVERAGE probably think close to it. So don't be discouraged, and yes the numbers are a…
/r/seduction27/03/18 06:57 PM
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Ya gotta remember that your potential lover is a person too. Talk to people about sex and attraction. It's a fantastic rush. Everyone has a different journey. I find that most people who have trouble with this hyper focus on the sex part and forget that you have to be emotionally vulnerable when you have sex with someone. You don't want to open that to just anyone, and after doing it for a while you figure out how to screen for what you actually want.
/r/seduction26/03/18 06:30 AM
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That's fine. Girls your age at any point in life are going to be your best and easiest (in terms of relating, logistics, societal acceptence, the works) set to work with. Spoiler alert: girls like guys that actively do things, and more then one. Look at it from an internal motivation factor as well. When you build up multiple things going for yourself in work, family, athletics, hobbies, guy friends, lovers, etc, you don't need this fanatical "determination" to get a lover. Its a turn off and wi…
/r/seduction26/03/18 06:26 AM
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I'll be honest, your going to have a hard time going after your preference with no experience. These women are going to smell it a mile a way. Girls 18-25 however, won't know any better. Focus on them. Don't be afraid to talk to older women, but don't expect success. Think of it from their end? Why should they choose you? Most people don't want to have to deal with someone's first sex or love when they have already been past that point in their life for a decade. With that said, be honest, becau…
/r/seduction25/03/18 11:34 PM
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Find the self improvement activities that make you feel good about yourself. For me it's lifting, swimming, and making music like you. I highly recommend some sort of exercise. You know I can't help you fix those issues but I hope I can make you realize you have the power to change your image.
/r/seduction01/12/17 11:03 PM
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Girls have their guard up at those places. Have you ever had women friends? Sisters? Comfort is number one. If you want to meet women go to events that are guaranteed to have more women then men: yoga, cooking, dancing... I mean they are stereotypes for a reason. Then, you go every week until the people who are regulars trust you. You kind of set an unrealistic goal for yourself. You will find that once you are more than a stranger women will be more receptive. I think you have the right idea ab…
/r/seduction01/12/17 10:54 PM
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Yep, you have to be direct when the time is right but part of attraction is building that uneasyness of does he or does he not like me. That has to start with something direct. If it isn't clear that you two hanging would be a date you aren't being direct enough. Still Don't expect people to put out on the first date.
/r/seduction10/10/17 11:55 PM
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I get that you can talk about this forever but its not really helping you. Everyone gets worked up over the virgin thing but you are gonna feel silly for hyping it up so long when it happens. Go make some friends regardless of genitals and start saying yes to everything they ask to do. Usually you have to ask someone to do something first so get a gym buddy, a friend in class, anyone who can talk to you/help you in person. Its honestly easier to learn from other guys. You can pretty easily see w…
/r/seduction10/10/17 11:24 PM
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You just gave me some stupid excuses if you really care that much. The two things that are different from how you interact with a woman you want to sleep with and one you want to be friends with are touch and sexual intonation/implication. You have to touch. It's weird I know and it's something I had to work on, but look up the dicarlo escalation ladder as it will go into more detail. The basics is start with light arm touches and escalate to more direct affection like kissing/etc. Second, you h…
/r/seduction10/10/17 08:41 PM
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Sounds like you need to work on your self improvement and forget girls for a while. I always see guys get stuck chasing girls instead of being undeniably attractive which brings the girls to you. And spoiler alert it's not all about looks for us. And srs if you aren't lying it makes no sense that tindr wouldn't work for you. I've been in a ltr since its gotten big but all my friends have no game get laid all the time and 2 are in relationships from it.
/r/seduction10/10/17 08:02 PM
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Dude can't you just use tinder or something lmao
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:26 PM
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Certainly. I was only replying to the above. My point was that the paradigm presented in the op certainly has hints of truth, but it is quite different from my personal paradigm. The people I have known who focus too hard about things like a "dominance hierarchy" have never had fulfilling relationships with women. It turns people into commodities or a rank.
/r/seduction12/07/17 10:05 PM
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Sure. Just remember that human interaction and psychology is not grounded in logic. It takes emotional intelligence to be successful. Seeing things spelled out in "cold logic" turns me off for this reason, but whatever helps a man overcome his anxiety in the dating game without going full red pill is fine by me.
/r/seduction12/07/17 08:20 PM
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Too much use of "dominance, alpha, beta, submissive, hierarchy" for me. There is truth behind this wall of text, but I find myself hating on people who look at the world like this. If you are new reader of this sub, don't think you have to adopt this frame.
/r/seduction12/07/17 06:59 PM
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Slow play and wait for the social circle game to come. Become a familiar and honest face and you will be able to make friends with stronk girls who have stronk friends. It's not worrying going to deep, it's gonna be best to cast wide. Girls love guys that other girls love.
/r/seduction21/06/17 04:10 PM
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Not wrong. Idk how long it takes for people to learn there are no set rules. If you only see a girl you fancy at the gym, you can bet I'm going to introduce myself and play the long game.
/r/seduction21/06/17 04:06 PM
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Call it out. Don't let it just slide by. Make sure she knows you noticed basically. Don't go all in, but it is a clear sign she is into you. Don't read into it too much as it might just be a flirt, but it's a sign you need escalate sexually with your words and actions. Start with her back/arms, then legs, then further. Prove you aren't just a horndog but that you are most certainly straight and into her. Use your words to keep the sexual tension as well so you aren't too touchy feely.
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:04 PM
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Seconding. I've been in an ltr for a while and my gf wouldn't even do that to me now. It's not worth your time and it's a distinct mark of character for her.
/r/seduction10/03/17 01:34 AM
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