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Way back when I was 30 and working on a cruise ship, a dancer with whom I was acquainted (19 years old, hot AF) sat down across from me in the mess where I was reading. As she was "out of my league", I never even considered the possibility. Dancers can act generally flirty anyway with the musicians (of which I was one). She wanted to hang out later in her cabin and so I did. Cannot remember the details...this was 20 years ago now. But she was walking around in her underwear (again, I mean, I'd s…
/r/seduction07/01/26 07:53 PM
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Be thankful you didn't fall asleep under her instead. You may not have woken up.
/r/seduction06/12/24 01:17 AM
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Maybe he's trying to find a better "match on paper". Then again, one problem I have with online dating is I do actually find great matches "on paper" but then our personalities just don't click. Easier to find that kind of match in person.
/r/seduction16/10/24 07:21 PM
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Well yeah, i should think it would go without saying that there are reasonable limits. After all, I don't think the youngest acceptable play date for a 4 year old is someone who is 9.
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:12 PM
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I always find it surprising that this rule of thumb actually at least feels like it works. It is a decent place to start.
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:41 PM
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I can't believe this matters. First, I'm not bringing it up. And if she asks, I'm just going to confidently tell the truth. I mean, FWIW, she may be the kind of girl who LOOKS for someone with a low count. She may be the opposite. Doesn't really matter though. I am what I am, and if that matters to her, well, she's an idiot. (Or worried about STDs if your count is high...)
/r/seduction26/06/24 04:07 PM
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Haha I wasn't able to read it before it was deleted, but too often these days people seem to look for reasons to be offended. Maybe we should instead look for the benefit of the doubt.
/r/seduction31/05/24 01:38 PM
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IDK there are a lot of things that I'm aware of subconsciously before I am aware consciously.
/r/seduction30/05/24 09:10 PM
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Always a good reminder, thanks OP.
/r/seduction22/05/24 08:35 PM
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In addition to all of the good points I've read here, it is entirely possible that she was telling her friend "I'm not sure about him, maybe I like him but he really seems like more your type". I went out on a date with a woman only to have her set me up with her sister. Actually had a 1.5 year relationship with her. Or maybe she just wants safety in numbers, or a low commitment thing. Don't sweat it, just go and enjoy their company.
/r/seduction02/04/24 03:18 PM
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It also smells like straight gasoline.
/r/seduction27/03/24 01:59 PM
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Got a buddy (and we are in our late 40s) who is so supremely outgoing, he just is always approaching and having a good time with women. He says the dumbest shit and it never ever matters. He slays it. It is all the combination of confidence with the intention of having a good time.
/r/seduction25/03/24 04:15 PM
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My joking not withstanding, I do think there is truth to this. It tends to become less of an issue as you get older but it is still there. That said, if I found someone that truly made me happy, I personally wouldn't care what others thought of her. At least I like to think so.
/r/seduction01/11/23 08:10 PM
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Quantum computing has 3 states: 0: unfuckable 1: fuckable and I'll brag to my friends X: fuckable but I'm not going to admit it
/r/seduction01/11/23 07:40 PM
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To me a strong woman is courageous enough to be vulnerable at times and humble too. Well said, and this goes for men too. A strong man isn't one who is afraid to admit mistakes or hide his emotions and fears. A strong man is willing and able to be vulnerable.
/r/seduction14/06/23 10:06 PM
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Hehe, I once dated a woman who said that I "clearly didn't want a strong woman as a partner". I want a strong woman, not one who goes out of her way to be nasty to me.
/r/seduction14/06/23 08:32 PM
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WHAT?
/r/seduction10/05/23 05:25 PM
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She's a 6. Well, 7 for Scranton.
/r/seduction10/05/23 04:11 PM
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So many ways to answer this question. In general yes, with a ton of exceptions, and everything I say below is general with tons of exceptions. Unless you were already just hot as a 19 year old and/or had great self confidence, this can take time to develop. Furthermore, in your 20s you just want to get laid all the time and can easily smell of desperation. In your 30s, well, you still want to get laid all the time but you are maybe in less of a hurry about it. Less desperation makes dating easie…
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:05 PM
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Preach brother. You speak words of wisdom that OP should heed.
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:35 PM
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Here is an example: I used to work on ships and I have this alpaca wool sweater. It has penguins on it. It looks interesting but pretty silly. My girlfriend hated it, but interestingly a number of her friends would compliment me on it. And when I'd wear it out, I'd get random compliments from women on it. Now, I'd bet a number of women saw it and thought I looked ridiculous but they never said anything. For better or for worse, I have a new girlfriend now and I wasn't able to test the sweater th…
/r/seduction02/09/22 05:53 PM
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In some ways, you DID get lucky in that it is all a numbers game. Getting better with women just improves your odds each time you throw the dice. And I think OP DID get lucky, and not because "she's a desperate hoe" as some idiot put it. Sometimes, right person, right place, right time. That is luck.
/r/seduction19/08/22 02:02 PM
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Met someone very recently. It is perhaps too soon to make conclusions that won't sound totally naïve in a few months, but I actually feel in love for the first time in my life (46m). And I can't explain it. It is always more than just "perfect on paper". She's independent but wants to do things with me. She doesn't need me to complete her, but I compliment her, and her me. She loves many of the things I do, and is willing to explore the other things, and visa versa. We aren't looking to change e…
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:37 PM
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That really is a shame. I don't understand how a "believer" could ask an agnostic to convert when that means you must choose to believe. Belief isn't a choice. You either do or you do not.
/r/seduction10/08/22 05:34 PM
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To echo other comments, you aren't friend-zoned, and you need to be patient. That said, don't let it interfere with your masculine energy. Don't get upset or offended. One thing I may do in that situation is play with it a little and say "you are right that we should take it slow because you shouldn't be feeling so good as I'm kissing your neck right here, and you shouldn't be enjoying the thrill of me running my hand through your hair like this" etc etc. She'll be thinking about it before your …
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:08 PM
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If that happens, it happens. With practice, and with the right woman, things will flow naturally. Best to not fret about a line, or a topic, etc. Maybe one casual off-the-cuff observation and that can spark a conversation.
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:44 PM
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Or maybe instead of going in with the intent on hitting on them, just approach with the GOAL of making their day brighter. Pay them a compliment and walk away. I you get a good vibe, you could either then push the issue, or on your next visit if that is in the cards. Nevertheless, I actually really like OP's approach of "I came over to hit on you". Direct, confident. But your point about women who are working is a very good one to consider.
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:43 PM
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Good, ballsy opener! Could have gone either way with her, and I think those are the best kinds of openers, the ones that polarize. (Not that I typically have anything in mind when I open, and maybe you didn't either).
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:33 PM
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/r/seduction15/07/22 01:32 PM
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When I cold approach on the road/trail, during a walk or a run, I'm also usually how surprised they are at being approached. Even if they had resting bitch face before. Lately, newly single, I've just been doing the approach, compliment, bid farewell. Just to get used to approaching and not having any real goal than making THEIR day. It's how I met my last girlfriend. That lasted 15 years. Hmmm. Maybe I shouldn't have approached her after all!
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:41 PM
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An exercise I used to do years ago I learned from Ross Jeffries. I would approach a beautiful woman and say "excuse me, but I just had to tell you that you are...." [and I'd briefly pause, to build a little suspense...what is he going to say?] "...absolutely breathtaking". I would do my best to do this without any intent other then trying to make her day. And trying to get used to talking to beautiful women. Often, she would thank me, and I'd just move on. Sometimes I'd strike up a convo. Once, …
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:34 PM
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I get it. I'm 46, recently single. OK, TOO recently single to be dating again, but whatever. I'm on Bumble right now. Met with three girls so far. Two of them I knew instantly there wasn't any future, and I was very relaxed, myself, and they both wanted more of me. The third girl was physically EXACTLY my type, and also had an interesting profile that matched me pretty well. I am very privy to the dilemma at hand. I know it is a matter of discipline, and of entering EACH encounter with no goal i…
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:03 PM
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