| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | You don’t have to fuck every girlTake the advice y'all give to girls. Don't be a fucking slut. Respect yourself. | /r/seduction | 04/12/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Swipe LEFT on hot girls who have their snapchat and instagrams in their biosMy philosophy is to only swipe right on girls with genuine bio. Every joke is copied, and very pickup line is copied. They say nothing about the person. Just write something genuine about yourself, why you're on tinder, and what you're looking for. If I like the bio and her pictures, then its a right. Pretty much filters any and every bad date and conversations that lead nowhere for me. Get very few matches, but they're almost always of quality. | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Does height matter?Everything matters, from the width of your nose to the heels of your feet. If you don't have much of one, hopefully the others make up for it. Grab a notebook, and list out all the characteristics about you that are attractive. Awesome! Now, don't ever forget to remember this list. | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Guys, how do you deal with competition ? (Girls opinion also wanted)I just give up and let the other guy have at it. No stranger is worth trying hard for imo. I'll find another. | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 02:35 AM |
| – | I don’t get many dates but whenever I do, it seems that I catch girls by surprise when we finally meet in person.Exact same, dude. I get like one(1) match a month. My text game isn't great either. On the rare happenchance that a girl decides to give herself an okay to meet me, I know for a fact it'll go well. At first I thought this just means I'm getting super desperate girls. But recalling all my spontaneous encounters with girls(not many, am homebody), they go really well too. For me, I think it comes down to my ethnicity, lacklustre photos, and general lack of enthusiasm in bio and texting. And frankly… | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 10:15 PM |
| – | Talk To Women - Keep It SiimpleOne lesson I've learned is, if its not fun in the first date, just let it go. Its likely it wont be fun going forward either, and you'd just be wasting each others' time. It has to be fun without having to try hard at all. | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 10:42 PM |
| – | Never Say This (Or you’ll lose her)not gonna lie, I only read the first paragraph. Too lazy obviously 😂. Apologies, and carry on! | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 07:43 PM |
| – | Never Say This (Or you’ll lose her)lazy does not equal no passion. I can be lazy about going to the gym, and be super passionate about other things. No woman's gonna like a dead man, yeah. But I'm gonna be authentic about what I'm not passionate about. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 07:10 PM |
| – | Never Say This (Or you’ll lose her)Nah. Authenticity is where it's at. I've never had a girl lose interest in me after telling them of how lazy I am. The idgaf(in a non-depressive/angry way) attitude I have far trumps an active lifestyle they may want. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Took your advice, first time out and girls approach me?!I'm not talking about social confidence. I'm talking about confidence in yourself. That comes with self love, respect, and awareness. You don't "just be confident bro" your way into it. I have no answer on how you can get that confidence. I sort of just grew into it with time. It's because of that now I can tell those girls were interested. Let me say it again. I was below-average looking, with low confidence and zero charisma, and I was getting approached. Why? Well, I don't know. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 06:38 AM |
| – | Took your advice, first time out and girls approach me?!I was less than an average guy few years ago, and I still got approached now and then by clearly interested girls in retrospective. Some I knew, some strangers. People who are still at the place where they aren't confident with themselves feel that nobody is interested in them, and that feeds into itself. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Numbers Gamebut I mean your standards are probably much higher than us plebians, so wouldn't say the same | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 11:47 PM |
| – | What to do when she asks "Are you hitting on me?"Yes I am | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 02:00 PM |
| 9 | Long term: Pickup ain't enough. You have to BECOME your best version for good.A lot of people like the idea of feminism. Equality for men and women? Fuck yeah. To be a modern first-world feminist? Fuck no. There are differences between an idea and actual implementation. See, the idea of alpha is what a lot of us strive for. Its confidence. Its leading. Its being on top of your game. But in reality, its being a fake macho who needs at all time to show everyone how macho they are. What do we say to that? Fuck no. | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 01:33 PM |
| 11 | How do the other guys get girls?All it takes is finding a woman more insecure than you. | /r/seduction | 13/02/17 02:14 AM |
| – | Is it ok not to settle?Your title and description dont seem to match. I'm answering the description question here: No, there's no point approaching girls you dont find attractive - attractive meaning all personality, attitude, appearance. Why? First of all, its easy for you to talk to her, so its not practise. Second, if you do, you're wasting your own valuable time and effort chasing someone you aren't even attracted to. Tell me, what does that make you? A whore who doesnt value himself. And the more you do it, the l… | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 02:39 PM |
| 17 | I got played boysTake it as a positive man. She took pictures with you to make her ex jealous. Thats pretty flattering | /r/seduction | 28/01/17 03:11 PM |
| – | How do I improve my speech?Practical advice: set up your camera, hit record, and talk to it unscripted. No front-facing. Just practise talking in front of the camera. I've found it hits almost the same nerves talking to the camera, as to a person. After you're done, look at the recording, and criticize yourself, and what specifically you may need to do next time. I started Youtube a couple months ago, and used to mumble, forget what I was saying in the midst of sentence, etc. There's still some umms and pauses here and th… | /r/seduction | 24/12/16 02:49 PM |
| – | York U gender neutral toilet... except...Wait, do they imply no men either? I go all the time. The men's bathroom is disgusting tbh | /r/MensRights | 04/09/16 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Some thoughts from a guy in his 30s (I'm 33)Yeah, fact is, I've been told these things countless times by my parents, but I always got mad when they did. Its really the curse of youth. You just refuse to listen to anything, but noe that I'm 21, the same advices hits me hard. | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Girls hit meI reaaaaally dont think so many girls are just physically hitting you. Be realistic here. Yes, there are girls out there who'll physically abuse the nice guy on their life, but you seem to describe that everyone you know hits you. Its in your head Either way, confront them. Or hit one of them lightly, if you want to go the anti-passive-aggressive way, and see their reaction. You'll be able to tell | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Get fit, get girlsDid you not just get tons of fat, and barely any muscle, gaining 40lbs in four months? | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 02:11 PM |
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