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Oh, obviously male Spergs have a hard time. Bagging on about trains, vacuum cleaners, My Little Pony or whatever other stupid shit without any regard for if the other person is listening. Female autistics have been proven to be better at masking their spergette tendencies, making them socially more tolerable unlike males. Do you think a mathematical analysis of a couple’s facio-skeletal structure and hairline to “objectively prove a man is better looking than his (definitely better looking) girl…
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 04:21 PM
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That is an astounding level of autism. Like, truly.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 02:09 PM
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Oh, and how is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:39 AM
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Castrate yourself! I don’t think the women would mind you not interacting with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 09:02 PM
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Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:13 PM
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Yeah.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 03:32 PM
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It would mean you think you’re entitled to cheaper housing.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 03:15 PM
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Where does it say he was lied to?
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 03:04 PM
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Anger that he isn’t getting what he thinks he deserves. Aka, entitlement.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 02:39 PM
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What is there other than a man bitching about not being able to have women that he thinks are “on his level”?
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 02:26 PM
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So nothing counts unless the person in question utters the exact phrase “I am entitled to sex”?
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 02:25 PM
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This guy thinks he “should be able” to get with his “looksmatch”. Is he saying the word “entitled”? No. But he’s pretty clearly entitled.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 02:10 PM
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Arranged marriage.
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 02:08 PM
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What’s so funny about this take is that what you’re demanding is women have even higher standards than what they already do in order to “properly vet” men so they don’t become single mothers. But you’re all also infuriated women are “delusional” with their demands since these demands exclude you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:05 PM
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I’d say the guy is probably a little above average as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:51 PM
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That woman is not average.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:36 PM
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I want to know what type of woman you think you’re entitled to. It’s not sidestepping, it’s asking for examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:19 PM
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How often do you see movie stars?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:13 PM
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What type of woman is your looksmatch? Show me a stock photo or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:11 PM
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But you think all of the regular people another user posted are “below average”. What do you think average is? Also, I live in NYC so I see celebs with more regularity. Jessie Eisenberg is “average” for movies and he absolutely stands out as distinctly attractive when he’s sitting in a Starbucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:08 PM
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I think you have a skewed idea of what average is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:56 PM
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OP, do you have a picture of the type of woman you think is your looksmatch?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:51 PM
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I don’t know about work as much. But think a lot of men let their social relationships fade away once they get into a relationship. Event to the point where their wife ends up being the primary point of communication for his family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:22 AM
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why would they wana talk to you? Look at this 6 month old post. It’s someone asking for volunteers to debate the fresh and fit guys. I had thought they were producers of the show I volunteered, but I made clear that I wasn’t going to put the effort in to arrange it; that it would have to come from their end. It turns out the guy is a fanboy so he doesn’t actually have any sway. And then 6 month later, a bunch of teenagers start bombarding me calling me a pussy or something lol. I’m not intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 01:08 PM
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Wasted all day, pills at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:10 PM
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I’m not randomly calling into anything. If they want to talk to me, they can PM me for info and we can arrange something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:23 PM
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The DV stat is nonsense when you actually look at the study that gets cited. They interviewed 9,000 straight women and 100 lesbians. And 1/3rd of the lifetime DV against lesbians had a male perpetrator. And 90% of all sexual violence was by men. R/actuallesbians is almost all transwomen now. And yes, transwomen can display some incel behavior because, well.. I’ll let you figure that one out. But it isn’t a window into cis lesbians. It’s a window into chronically online trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:51 PM
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I’m a butch dyke and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:38 PM
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MGTOW dudes never stop talking about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:26 AM
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Nah. Men have a much harder time being alone, well really being without a romantic relationship, than women. Mostly because they don’t really make other social connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 11:25 AM
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lol ok sure. So now you’re amending your answer to be that it’s actually 20 year old high value women beating down the doors to have a committed relationship with you? Lol ok sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:40 AM
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So you’re not a single over 40 year old man who is in high demand with fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:00 PM
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What are you not understanding? It’s a hypocritical standard if you demand a tradwife but aren’t a trad husband. That’s what I see a lot of here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:26 PM
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Idk you said you’re over 40 and the only people that want relationships with you are fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:25 PM
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Doesn’t sound like your in that high demand if it’s only low value women interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:01 PM
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I’m actually best positioned to comment because I’m a neutral observer. You’re all moored with your own biases from shitty dating experiences, while I’m able to watch from the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:00 PM
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Tl;dr: I agree with the poster you respond to, but disagree with you and therefore your observation is hateful while his is valid and correct. It’s only “hate” because it hits you a little too close to home. It is absolutely the case that men, especially here, want a traditional wife with traditional values and traditional femininity while being unwilling or unable to be a traditional husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:56 PM
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So the problem you run into is that American women feel entitled to a relationship with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:06 PM
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So the dude I was responding to, who was claiming that the real “issue” is women want traditional men but are not traditional themselves is different and not about “projecting insecurities”?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:03 PM
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I’m a married lesbian.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:40 PM
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So you don’t want a super feminine low Ncount tradwife that you also expect to work outside of the house?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:13 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:07 PM
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You want a faithful super feminine low Ncount tradwife while providing none of the trad husband traits like being the sole provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:34 AM
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This is how I know men literally only view women and womanhood through the prism of sex. Oh, on the brink of homeless? Just sell sex for a living, it’s so easy and safe. I’d rather be born a woman because I could take pictures of my feet and be rich!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:25 AM
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Reading this sub, the problem is definitely the other way around The men here want a young low Ncount tradwife that will dote on them like a mother but fuck them like a porn star (only for him though, because any prior experience means she’s used up). They want all of this while also expecting her to work outside of the house because they’re simultaneously too poor to support a family by themselves but also terrified of getting divorce raped and having their non-assets “stolen”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:02 AM
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If social media is your metric I see waaaaay more women talking about how much better being divorced is than being married to their man baby ex husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:24 PM
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Pretty sure that’s an ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:08 PM
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Do you think the only time women need abortions or end up single mothers is from casual sex where the dads are players? Loads of women that get abortions are literally married or partnered and most single mothers are divorced. You have this cartoonish idea of who ends up a single mother. You have literally confirmed though, that you feel like you should legally be able to abandon your pregnant fiancé if she didn’t want to have an abortion after an oopsie. I’d be worried if I were your fiancé.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:53 PM
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Oh my god you are one or those shit-for-brains. The biggest difference between Islamic countries and “The West” is that the West is made up of democracies and the Islamic countries are largely dictatorships. Protest movements obviously have more momentum and capacity to institute change in democracies than in dictatorships, which by and large require literal coups to change governments. Which is what looks to be gearing up in Iran right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:45 PM
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Pretty sure there are women-lead protests and riots in Iran right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:11 PM
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Oh, so we’re not? Then that’s a false equivalency. 🧚‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:06 PM
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My friend just lost her Fallopian tubes from an IUD. I actually can’t even listen to you guys whine about side effects lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:04 PM
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We’re allowed to murder newborns now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:04 PM
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You don’t have as many “reproductive rights” because you literally don’t have as many reproductive responsibilities. Seriously. Your sex’s entire obligation to pregnancy is where you ejaculate. That’s this whole forums fucking bullshit about feeemales needing to be the choosier sex because their risk and burden is so much greater than men’s, why they want the best mate and Chad or whatever nonsense all comes back to this. Higher risk, higher burden, higher responsibility, more options. Full stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:03 PM
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Yeah, so you’re literally the men we’re all fucking talking about lmao. You think that if she has the right to an abortion, you should be able to abandon your children as if they’re equivalent. You’re literally who women shouldn’t fuck if they don’t want to be single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:55 PM
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So all of the men here who believe they should have the right, by law, to “financially abort” their children here are players and you disagree with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:32 PM
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Do you guys hear yourselves? You consider the unrestricted right to abandon your child a civil right but you also blame women for picking men who abandon their children. It’s just rich. You are literally the type of man women should avoid by your own fucking logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:18 PM
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Why don’t you fuckos go advocate for male birth control pills instead of the right to legally abandon your living children?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:15 PM
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Okay, so we can stop blaming all those single mothers for the fatherless children?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:10 PM
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So all the men here comparing abandoning their children to abortion are just the kind hearted family men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:29 PM
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lack of great father figures The RP types here will say this is only women’s fault for not choosing good guys like them but will also demand the legal right to abandon their children. Figure that one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:47 PM
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Yeah, except women aren’t shooting up schools after their husband of 20 years dumps them when she gets cancer and blames “biology” for wanting a 19 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:58 PM
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Women know this to be true in terms of what men will jack off to. Do I think most middle aged men are out trying pick up 18 year olds? No. Is it because they get shamed? I don’t really care. If women are angry, it’s in the same vein men are angry, very angry, that women prefer taller men without receding hairlines. Getting older isn’t something anyone can control and it’s something everyone does. It also reduces a woman’s relationship value to men as having a shelf life. Constantly harping on it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:50 PM
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essentially this only applies to a handful of topics No, it doesn’t. A man once started lecturing me about housing laws and concluded it with “it’s called landlord/tenant law”. He was an engineer, I am literally a lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:30 PM
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I literally don’t believe anything women tell me. why do women think the bar is in hell for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:56 AM
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It’s great that you’re going to choose to disbelieve the experience of all of those lesbians in favor of your porn fantasy that heterosexual women are all ready to run away and scissor with hot babes in a cottage in the woods. By great I mean it’s classic male shit and this is what women mean when they say the bar is in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:52 AM
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It’s actually not that specific at all. It’s an extremely common story. So much so that many lesbians outright refuse bisexual, not even straight, women because they’ve had that happen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:39 AM
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Available for what? For her lie there while she lets you go down on her? Then she bails on you for the white picket fence hetero Barbie dream house? Fuck. That. Buddy, you are talking shit about which you clearly have no earthly idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:22 AM
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You should go actually browse a few bi/lesbian online spaces and see how lonely a lot of these women are. Most of the US isn’t NYC or San Franscisco. Even leaving out the obvious ie homophobia the dating pools are fucking tiny outside of metropolitan areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:42 PM
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Oh man definitely not fucking true. I had a lot of patience with my wife but her internalized homophobia was ridiculous when we first started dating. If I outlive my wife or we get divorced I’d literally never be someone’s first female relationship/closet case ever again. I was younger and more tolerant of bullshit when we met but she had some fucked up thoughts about “those gays” as she’d eat my pussy like chow mein.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:33 PM
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Fuck sake, man. Maybe all of these people are maladaptive narcissists who live a life we couldn’t possibly fathom and so maybe they’re just bad at relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 01:51 PM
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So you wouldn’t date nurses, doctors, teachers, dental hygienist, dog trainers, or any other profession where someone else’s bodily fluids may have been on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:08 AM
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So when your wife has to wipe her baby’s ass and it shits on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:02 AM
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Everyone here has vomited, sometimes on themselves. Everyone here has spent at least some time sitting in a bag of their own piss and shit when they were babies. Sometimes it’s happened as an adult, you get a bad case of food poisoning and then it’s blasting out of both ends. Somehow you manage to work your way through all of that other knowledge, unless you have a problem putting your dick in a girl’s mouth even though she’s vomited before. I wonder if you’ve ever begged your girl for anal, cuz…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:59 AM
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What evidence are you going to provide that prehistoric women picked berries and that’s why they like red? Please, PLEASE explain how you can possibly conjure up evidence to support something so utterly unfalsifiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:51 AM
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What’s scientific about literally speculating about how our ancestors behaved and then applying that to modern trends?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:23 PM
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It’s an article describing a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:16 PM
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You mean like this. This is classic evo psych. Find a result, then just make up some shit about prehistoric humans to explain it. It’s unfalsifiable horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:39 PM
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Maybe you can recount to me the days of the savannah to explain why women like pink.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:42 PM
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A biologist that starts with conclusions and invents just-so stories to fit poorly collected data?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:19 PM
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Found the dude that claims to be scientifically minded and evidence-based but doesn’t understand how the scientific method works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:05 PM
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Evolutionary psychology is by and large junk science.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:14 PM
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Drew is amazing. Sorry she hurts your fee fees, cupcake.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:23 PM
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She’s on tiktok and she’s fucking fabulous. Her whole thing is she viciously drags dudes who make misogynist videos. Like her insults are pristine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 04:23 PM
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Women have helped themselves. That’s literally what feminism is. Although I bet you’re one of those shit-for-brains that thinks that men “giving” women the right to vote is men “doing the work” for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:05 PM
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My response is that if any of you actually really cared about these issues you’d advocate for yourselves. You’d march in Washington, you’d try to pass bills, you’d organize, you’d get better PR, you’d fundraise, you’d raise awareness. Literally anything besides sit online and complain. Instead, you blame women and the media for the fact that change just isn’t magically happening. Any resistance at all, it’s “welp, can’t do anything!” It’s pathetic. Women wanted rights, and so they fought for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:04 PM
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My response is that if any of you actually really cared about these issues you’d advocate for yourselves. You’d march in Washington, you’d try to pass bills, you’d organize, you’d get better PR, you’d fundraise, you’d raise awareness. Literally anything besides sit online and complain. Instead, you blame women and the media for the fact that change just isn’t magically happening. Any resistance at all, it’s “welp, can’t do anything!” It’s pathetic. Women wanted rights, and so they fought for the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:10 PM
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Oh no! You might have to do some actual work to change the public’s mind! 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:50 AM
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Oh is a little mild opposition enough to make you shrivel up and do absolutely nothing? Might as well keep doing nothing because some people online are meanie weenies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:36 AM
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Why is it women’s jobs to fix men’s problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:45 AM
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Yup. Once again, men are blaming and expecting women to fix their problems instead of advocating for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:45 AM
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Just curious, how would you describe your sense of humor?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:19 AM
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Lesbians actually don’t have higher abuse rates. The study that gets cited as evidence of this interviewed 9000 straight women and 100 lesbians so it had a massive sample size disparity. Even more interesting is that even among lesbians, 1/3rd of their lifetime intimate partner violence had a male perpetrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 11:32 PM
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I’d rather be alone than in a relationship that wasn’t perfect. See, that’s not what the women here are saying. Women aren’t saying “I’d rather be alone if I can’t have a perfect rich and beautiful Chad”. They’re saying “I’m not going to be with someone who is going to be a mental and physical drain.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 10:40 PM
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Yeah, so the US team should be paid more because they’re in the US and US broadcasters are making money off of their higher viewership.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 11:02 AM
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But more US viewers watch womens soccer than mens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 11:00 PM
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So even though in the US the women’s US team has more viewers and performs better, the men’s US team gets paid more because they are men and people in other countries that aren’t the US like mens soccer more?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:38 PM
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So men earn more for being less entertaining and less successful. That’s why the women are complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:10 PM
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So the the men team pays more even though the women team is more popular?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 06:43 PM
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The US women’s soccer team literally has more viewers and fans than the men’s team.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 03:42 PM
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here is my FYP right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:51 PM
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Ask your average woman what her FYP looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:16 PM
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No, some marketing department after studying what men want invented it because men think that’s want women want. Do women want homeless bums? No. But I suppose pointing to extremes is the only way you can make your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:14 PM
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Charles Atlas ads were for men, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:08 PM
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Men don’t find women’s careers attractive. So if you mean women don’t risk losing male attention by job hopping, then sure. If that’s the be-all, end all metric of value that you want to use. Men are free to do the same, but apparently don’t because they care too much about women’s opinions of them. According to your logic, anyway. Women take a substantial career hit when they have children, however.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:51 PM
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That it’s not fair? Tough shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:23 PM
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NPC proffers NPC response.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:22 PM
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Yawn I’m not getting into it because that wasn’t the point of my post. Anytime the words “privilege” and “male” are within a few characters of each other, a cacophony of dudebros emerge like the swallows of Capistrano to notallmen me with the exact same talking points. My point was that men’s issues don’t get sympathy from women because of how men are perceived sociopolitically, like white people. That it’s not evolution or biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:59 PM
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People are more sympathetic to those with less power. It’s a by product of human altruism, which can be argued has an evolutionary basis. But to speculate that men are incapable of advocating for themselves because evolution has made women more manipulative seems like a great way to make sure you never actually fix your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 06:11 PM
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Uhhh Breonna Taylor? Funny, her killers haven’t been arrested. George Floyd’s is in jail right now. ANYWAY So just so I’m clear here, you think evolution is so hyper specific that whatever evopsych sympathy generating mechanisms are at play go out the door with race but come back into play with sex? Lmao come on now, that’s positively absurd. It’s also not how evolution works.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:54 PM
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Lmao you’re right, that’s extremely speculative. Men generate sympathy all of the time. BLM is almost entirely about police violence against black men. Shit, the main inciting incident was the death of a drug addict with a history of violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:42 PM
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I’m not getting into it because that wasn’t the point of my post. Anytime the words “privilege” and “male” are within a few characters of each other, a cacophony of dudebros emerge like the swallows of Capistrano to notallmen me with the exact same talking points. My point was that men’s issues don’t get sympathy from women because of how men are perceived sociopolitically, like white people. That it’s not evolution or biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:58 PM
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What is it about men that you think renders them evolutionarily incapable of generating sympathy for their issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:35 PM
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I’m not getting into an argument about whether men are or aren’t privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:34 PM
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300 years of systemic sociopolitical discrimination by women against men? There’d be a real meninist movement and women would be calling themselves allies. Just like they do for BLM and LGBT movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:27 PM
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Calling it an evolutionary thing is the silly part. Is it an evolutionary thing that people don’t feel bad for the billionaires at 432 Park Ave when they get stuck in their elevators? People on the whole feel less sympathy for groups in power. Men are perceived to have more power than women, ergo people don’t consider their sex specific issues as important. Same with white people, rich people, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:08 PM
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This is silly. Men are perfectly capable of collectively organizing. Look at the Taliban and ISIS. They’re just not doing that here because most men don’t think not being able to get a date is a civil rights issue. And the ones that do are chronically online and not the type to do much of anything except complain on the internet. Social issues that impact people perceived to be in power are always going to receive less sympathy. It’s why no one wants to hear white people complain about reverse r…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:42 PM
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There are people you can pay to cuddle with you. Not sex, just cuddle. Should they be jailed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:16 PM
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The only time I entertained the idea of paying for Only Fans was when I learned some cast members from the Teen Mom franchise had them. I didn’t do it because I didn’t want to see Jenelle Evan’s asshole that badly but I was intrigued just the same lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:39 PM
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Yes, that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:48 AM
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ahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:33 AM
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I noticed you never responded to my comment, correctly pinning you for the pathetic living and breathing Dunning-Kruger box-packing piece of shit that you are. 😊 Feminist slogans though, huh? Gosh golly, I wonder why I haven’t read your revolutionary opinions in Der Speigal??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:25 AM
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Fuck me sideways, future esq. I think you just succinctly summed up this shithole sub’s entire raison d'etre in two sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:27 AM
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Like I said, if you’re not a fan of rhetoric, how do you think you’ve contributed to this conversation? What are you doing in this free flowing exchange of ideas that you and I are having here that would lend itself to “growing, showing and reason”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:10 PM
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I graduated university 10 years ago. I just know it’s a favorite among the misogynist dudebro contingency, which is why I thought you might have picked that up. Since it seems like you have a hard time with nuance, though, I’ll also explain that the reason I chose to use the word sophomoric was precisely because it’s an introductory concept. And fyi; Virtù in this context is specific to Machiavelli. That’s why I didn’t just say virtue. It has its own Wikipedia page, mon petit génie.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:01 PM
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Like pointing out typos, repeating that something is “Murican” isn’t a really rebuttal. Or, if you’re not a fan of rhetoric, not really contributing much of anything at all to the conversation. Might it be possible that you’re not as interesting or intelligent as you think you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:48 PM
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And I only used Machiavelli because it’s literally intro to political philosophy material. But even if it were a typo, this supremely gifted and interesting man thinks pointing that out is an actual rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:11 PM
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You all will look for literally ANY reason not to have to talk to women in real life. “No, I can’t talk to that woman over there.. what if she uh.. accuses me of rape?? Yeah, that’ll do. Mhmm… It’s DANGEROUS for me to talk to a woman. Fuckin feminists!!! NO POINT IN TRYING!!!” No wonder you’re all so lonely. Self-defeatist little piss babies. I bet being in your presence is a complete emotional drain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:57 PM
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What was that about men being able to discuss realpolitik? Thanks for proving my point, I suppose. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:23 PM
10

Maybe you’re gay?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:59 PM
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No, men think they can. Most men are just walking examples of Dunning-Kruger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:55 AM
1

Right. And men are fine with that, which is why they aren’t pushing for their own BC.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:46 AM
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In my experience, men think they are more interesting and intelligent than they actually are; regurgitating “political theory” they heard on a podcast, YouTube channel or 101 college class. This is made worse by the fact that men are also much less likely to be able to converse with volley, so these sorts of conversations end up feeling like someone is talking at you. The result is that women disengage, as they aren’t interested in hearing a pseudo-intellectual blather his sophomoric understandi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:02 AM
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So why aren’t men doing what women had to do to get birth control? Petitioning congress, protesting in the streets, taking it to the Supreme Court? Do you think the birth control pill just magically showed up one day? It took decades of not only scientific, but political, work. You and I both know why. Because most men don’t really care all that much, they more or less expect their female partner to handle the birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:49 AM
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You know, given that his usual female guests are sugar baby insta models.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 08:44 AM
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OP PMd me. He’s just a fanboy of the podcast, not a producer. And I’m definitely not going to waste my free time and energy reaching out to these fuck knucks myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 01:41 AM
5

Which female world leaders do you think aren’t competent?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:21 PM
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I would do it. If you’re part of the podcast, you can reach out to me and we can discuss the specifics. I’m a butch lesbian attorney. I’d be curious to see if he would actually want to talk to someone pretty well trained in formal argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:49 PM
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I suggest you take a history class.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 06:38 PM
2

which war was that again? Men didn’t die for women to vote, please spare me. Men died for other men, often times to make sure property (which included women) stayed in the hands of the right men. Women were starved, beaten, raped and murdered in jail during the suffragette period. I’m sure you don’t know about the history of the birth control pill. Women are dying from lack of abortion access right now. I’m not preaching anything Except that men benevolently gave women rights to make them feel b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:59 PM
6

whataboutthefeminists
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:51 PM
3

why do women don’t feel sympathy I explained why women don’t feel sympathy. Very succinctly and in an easy to understand way. It comes across as entitled, especially because you people say shit like this; make women feel better Issues to make women “feel better”? Like what? Marital rape bans and abortion protections? The right to vote? To have a bank account? Employment anti discrimination laws? Also, don’t kid yourself. Men didn’t just “do it so women feel better because they like women”. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:50 PM
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Oh, you’re not the original poster. I was responding to someone who brought up mgtow. Idk I can’t keep track of all the triggered-me-timbered commenters repeating the same shit over and over, you’ll have to forgive me on that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:30 PM
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As you’ve pointed out repeatedly, your anecdotes are your own. I’m a woman married to another woman (she’s 29 and I’m 33). I never had a problem dating and I don’t feel like that at all. The only thing I noticed from OLD is that when I made my age range lower (originally set 24+ when I was 26, lowered it to 22), I got more matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:28 PM
2

You brought up mgtow, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:20 PM
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I know that as an upper middle class person I don’t regularly run into people with multiple baby daddies. Single mothers in my community are usually middle aged divorced professional women whose ex husband has the kids half of the week. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:20 PM
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What are you solutions?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:17 PM
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If you’re spending most of your free time complaining about women, they’re still living rent free in your head. You’re not going your own way if women are taking up that much of your emotional real estate. That’s my take on the matter, anyway. This was years ago when MTGOW still has a subreddit/had a few forums easily googleable forums. I haven’t looked since because it doesn’t interest me that much. Maybe these days it’s filled with wood chopping and deep male bonding, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:23 PM
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Probably because your solutions are misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:19 PM
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You’re in a really high tax bracket but your local zoo is filled with single mothers that very obviously have different baby daddies, huh? All those dark and light little babies wandering around huh? You guys tell on yourselves. Same way anytime some guy comes on here complaining that drug dealing thugs are the ones getting all those “females”. Sure sure, you must be a really high earning being around all these drugs dealers. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 09:15 PM
4

Your problems being that you can’t get dates? You haven’t actually offered solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 08:03 PM
4

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:52 PM
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Actual problems, like the right to vote, have a bank account, access birth control and not get raped by their spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:52 PM
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They’re free to do it, but they’re not really going their own way then, are they? They’re still just fixating on and blaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:51 PM
8

Is twox called WGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:20 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:16 PM
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I’m not going to get into my beliefs here, but I’m not a liberal feminist and I’ll leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:16 PM
6

Assuming the “stats” were true (and they’re just not, I don’t know what else to tell you). That’s still men complaining about what women are doing and blaming women for their misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:10 PM
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Do you feel good having gotten that totally unique and burdensome opinion off your chest? I only used dating because OP made it clear that it’s not about sex. Replace dating and sex and it’s the same concept. Men seething about women, which is exactly what you’re doing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:08 PM
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Yeah, it just so happens that what men seem to want to do is bitch about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:23 PM
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That’s why I’m a radical feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:06 PM
4

I didn’t say it didn’t happen. Both sexes do it. But i don’t think you can say it “happens to men more”. If men have such a hard time getting a relationship, it’s perfectly feasible to assume that a lot of them stay because they’re afraid they won’t get someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:06 PM
1

The population of the country is so small that there wasn’t a lot of genetic diversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:01 PM
2

Dude. Iceland needed an app to make sure the person you’re sleeping with isn’t your cousin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:41 PM
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You are correct here but when we complain we don't have social system, financial security, happy family, and health care we are blamed for our misery. Capitalism tells you that, not women. And capitalism tells us all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:26 PM
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There are a lot of reasons those types of clubs were “demonized”. Yes, they might have been a fixture in middle class men’s social life, but they also served as a way to keep people of the wrong color, socioeconomic status, religion, or sex out of not only their social clubs but out of the networking that arose from them. Many of these groups were religious as well, only offering admission to (white) men of a particular religion. Religiosity has been declining for decades. That and, ya know, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:11 PM
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MGTOW Anytime I’ve perused those communities, it’s still little more than a bunch of men circle jerking about how women and feminism have ruined everything. If you hate “modern women” or whatever to the point where you want to live in the woods, fine. But 99% of the time y’all still just obsess over and blame women in your echo chambers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:48 PM
3

Let’s pretend that’s true. Why don’t you have friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:35 PM
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I’m not engaging in whataboutism, I’m engaging with your treatise about male loneliness. If Red Pill was actually just “go to the gym and make money”, do you think anyone would actually give a shit? Or do you think terms like hamstering, cock carousel and the wall might be what caught people’s attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:32 PM
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Do men not get extra excited when they have new sexual partners after a long period of being with someone else? Is monotony in a sexual relationship exclusively something women experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:57 PM
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It’s not controversial for people to want romantic relationships. What’s controversial is inventing a vitriolic ideology grounded in pseudoscience and self pity that places the onus of your failures to obtain one on someone else. beta bux This is the most self defeating concept I’ve come across, honestly. When any of you do get into a relationship, you set yourself up for being eternally suspicious of her motives. If she’s not banging your brains out the way you want with the frequency you expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:59 PM
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You don’t have friends and a therapist because of feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:43 PM
1

the root of male loneliness is lack of romantic companionship. I think what makes it hard for women to be sympathetic to this is because ultimately it’s men putting women at the center of men’s unhappiness. That women alone are the ones responsible for this rise in male misery and suffering. It can’t be a lack of social support, mental health care, supportive family, declining economy, the toxic echo chambers etc. It’s women and women alone. The only thing women are doing is exercising their own…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:04 PM
4

I really think this is a matter of how the issue is presented. Loneliness always gets brought up in terms of “young men are having less sex”, “online dating is bad for men” “women expect men to be providers and they’re not providing”. It’s nearly always framed in the ways men relate to women romantically and sexually. It not only shifts the burden of this problem onto women (because obviously if women just got with these unwanted men all of their problems will be solved /s) it presents women as …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:13 PM
4

I really think this is a matter of how the issue is presented. Loneliness always gets brought up in terms of “young men are having less sex”, “online dating is bad for men” “women expect men to be providers and they’re not providing”. It’s nearly always framed in the ways men relate to women romantically and sexually. It not only shifts the burden of this problem onto women (because obviously if women just got with these unwanted men all of their problems will be solved /s) it presents women as …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:12 PM
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I am always extremely skeptical of stories where a man cries because his mom died or some other reasonable thing and suddenly his partner is no longer interested in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:45 PM
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Like, what? You want to dump tax payer money into pick up artist classes? Pay women to be with men? Ban dating apps? Make fornication outside of marriage a crime? I’ve seen all of these proposals and more, and it should be pretty clear to you why spending public money on these “programs” is less appealing than women in higher Ed. What we need to do is get these men into therapy so that their entire personal well being isn’t tied into whether or not they have a girlfriend. Women shouldn’t be the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:37 PM
5

Male loneliness/mental health issues almost certainly require a closer look. Helping men build better support networks, giving them healthy outlets, funding and access to mental health care and therapy all well and good. What I’m not interested in doing is placing women as the solution for “loneliness” where “loneliness” simply means not having a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:24 PM
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Men lagging behind in mental health, education, career, health I’m fine with addressing. I’m not okay with treating male sexlessness as a societal issue and dumping tax payer money into programs that will ultimately result in women being forced in some capacity to be with men they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:18 PM
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We weren’t talking about men not going to college, though. We were specifically talking about men not having access to intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:45 PM
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What am I supposed to do with that? Lmao. No, I don’t think chronic male sexlessness is a cause worthy of dumping tax payer money into fixing. That must make me a crazy argumentative harpy. 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:27 PM
5

Because they’re entirely unrelated concepts. One was an actual sociopolitical barrier against women as a class that prevented them from societal advancement and independence. The other is an interpersonal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:15 PM
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It’s not that I think it’s a “hidden nefarious solution”, it’s that the position that this is actually a “societal problem” either requires men peacefully accepting a lack of intimacy or women being compelled to partner with men they don’t find attractive. I think men having poor mental health and no support system is a societal problem. I don’t think men not being able to get girlfriends is a societal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:08 PM
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Are you really comparing access to higher education to access to sex and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:32 PM
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Okay, but what are women supposed to do then? If you’re lonely because you don’t have the opportunity to “express intimacy and feel desired”, and you expect society to change in some way to accommodate for this “problem” what you’re ultimately suggesting is that women need to en masse make themselves available for these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:05 PM
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And how are women supposed to listen and adjust, here? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:00 PM
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The “help” and “understanding” these men want from women is their romantic/sexual attention. That’s it. If we offer them comfort in the form of friendship and platonic love and support, they get pissed we aren’t fucking them and say we’re friendzoning whores. Ultimately, the expectation of being “understanding” from women here, indeed our expected role to alleviate this “crisis”, is to have sex with undesirable often mentally ill men. Can you see why women wouldn’t be especially sympathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:35 PM
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Just curious, do you make trad wife money?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:33 PM
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You think women are the ones crying over not getting dates? 😂😂😂 I’m sorry, which sex was it that invented a whole pseudo ideology dedicated to dissecting the reasons for their dating failures? The one that is the subject of this very fuckin sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:11 AM
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why men are opting out of dating. Lmao no, it’s women that are opting out of dating. Men are just not getting dates. And literally no one cares if some loser stops trying. Why do you want a relationship?, Because you think you have something amazing to offer a woman? It’s a totally selfless endeavor on your part, made to bring peace and prosperity to the world? Or is it because you crave emotional and sexual intimacy for yourself? You know why women are giving up dating? Because being with some …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:48 AM
0

“Yeah, I’d fuck chopped meat but I’d only date non fat mids. Why won’t women see me for the catch I am??????”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:39 AM
1

Yeah, you’d Fuck a pile of chopped meat. Are women supposed to be encouraged to date you because you’d hump most stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:31 AM
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Jfc obviously women didn’t really find the trade offs worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:47 AM
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It’s not “suddenly.” It’s been that way for the last 20 or so years, at least. When internet porn became widely accessible, “feminists” for some reason starting alleging that choking on a dick for money and being called a whore is empowering.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:23 PM
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They only accept liberal feminism there. I’m a radical second waver, and they are absolutely not interested in my views.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 04:36 PM
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