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The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescence. This can be just that. Ofcourse because it cares about men and men's mental health, it'll get shoved into MRA territory and will be viewed as misogynistic... obligatory "what about women?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:40 PM
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Historically? like how far back are we going back here? Allow me to provide another alternative explaination: During the Medieval times ... running a household itself as literally a lot of work. Modern inventions and convinence simpily doesn't exist. For example - there's no refrigrator or electric or gas stove. You have to go to the local market every day to buy fresh food and cook them before they go bad, and in order to cook them you have to stockpile wood (or later coal) and start stroking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:20 PM
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Just like how anyone learn anything 1) Learn by experience - you'll never forget once you truely figured it out, but it's the most painful and costly way to learn 2) Learn by observation - you can only see the cause and effect and not the reasoning but it cost you almost nothing. You won't often see dating in action thou. Most women do share their experience when it comes to dating but not men. 3) Learn by listening/reading - most popular way to learn (think textbooks, classes, youtube videos, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 01:44 AM
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What is even “women should be wonderful to me” bias? At least there's actual creditable studies on "women are wonderful" effects. No wonder why OP are able to keep posting here for such a long time. At least thank her for the years of consistently low quality content.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:16 PM
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None of that proves your stronger your argument that most struggling men are primarily facing a skill deficit rather than a distribution problem. I think you are still stuck in the mind frame of "perfectly", "primary", "mainly" whatever subjective descriptor that is. At the end of the day... skillz matters. You’re treating “some skill matters” as if it justifies collapsing everything else into skill. That’s the jump. That’s where your argument breaks. again reading helps.. that's not what I'm do…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:36 PM
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You also contradict yourself by saying it’s not a meritocracy, but then immediately restoring meritocracy logic through “just improve yourself enough.” When did I say it's not a meritocracy lol? Learn to read bro. I'm arguing you against your statement here: "It simply means dating outcomes are not a perfect meritocracy". Allow me to clarify what I said instead of chopping it down... it's not a meritocracy .. but skillz matters. That’s exactly why your framing collapses into circular reasoning. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:12 PM
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The argument assumes that if a man struggles with dating, sex, or relationships, then he must automatically be socially incompetent, lazy, creepy, immature, or personally flawed. They are, because no person is ever born with the knowledge of how to date or obtain a mate. Failure to learn how to socialize is a failure. The problem here is the double standard between men and women. Men have to initiate. Women don't. So the onus is on the male to learn how to socialize (aka game.) Also on that note…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:48 PM
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No the last Guy but here https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4846035/ Mothers were identified as the perpetrators in all of the neonaticides and were the most common perpetrators overall (71.0%; 95% CI 63.9%, 77.2%
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:54 PM
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A common problem I see with men complaining they have no options is that they don’t see the value of being agreeable unless it guarantees them sex or romance. Where do you see that? A woman who cares more about character is not interested in a guy with that type of attitude. They typically want a man who is pleasant, considerate, and respectful as a default, not part of a transaction. Then these same men usually don’t want “gold diggers,” so they don’t want women who prioritize money or resource…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:57 PM
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"not all men, but almost always a man" At the end of the day - it's just an argument about semantics. However 1) "Men commit something like 90% of all violent domestic offenses" is not factual and 2) 1 in 7 women vs. 1 in 16 men experienced IPV (Source - https://worldmetrics.org/intimate-partner-violence-canada-statistics/?utm_source=copilot.com) makes it not even close to "almost always a man").
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:46 PM
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Sure then. Are you okay with "some"? like - "Some women are also violent domestic offender and rapist?"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:58 PM
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what triggers me is that you are being misleading... because what's being said is "always a man" and not "almost always". Please try to at least attempt to argue without shifting the goalpost please. I don't like being gas-lite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:46 PM
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the point is that as long as there's large enough female violent domestic offender and rapist.. it's not "always a man".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:39 PM
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when it comes to damaging/traumatizing aggressive behaviors like domestic violence and rape and so on - with the added nuance that men are generally like 3x stronger and will do more damage with the same actions, too So how it is "always a man" then? only 3x times more likely means that domestic violence and rape are also being committed by women. and that whole rant above should be fair to everyone, whatever "pill" they are. pretty obvious that you aren't being fair here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:24 PM
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well 1) The wall really isn't a particular age... a) people age different and there are young looking women in their 30 and there are people that look old before they even hit their 30s. Its genetics and lifestyle habits such as not getting enough sleep, smoking, drug use, etc. 2) Attraction can be more then physical. A kind hearted women who treat her men right, loyal, and understand that relationship is both a give and take will be desired by men at any age. Even if your wildest revenge fantas…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:37 PM
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Why is it wrong for women to say they that they like handsome, tall guys who are also rich but men can say that they will always be attracted to 20 something women and her career or education dont matter? Because when men said the same thing like how they like beautiful, skinny and a girl with a heart of gold , young and caring... women would say what they want is misgonistic, sexist, and unrealistic as well. and the sad part is that both parties are actually right and wrong at the same time. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:30 AM
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A feminist is someone who fights for rights and resources exclusively for the female side only. A gold digger is someone who squeeze resources from their male counterpart. They are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 03:58 PM
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There's a lot of nuisance to it. Ultimately it's one of the items on your checklist but it's not a big one. A combination of asking about your job/wealth plus other behaviors makes one a potential gold-digger and men out there in this dangerous world should watch for all the signs. Bigger red flags is when they don't offer to pay for dinner or slip the bill by the third date. It’s the same way man asking if women is good with kid or cooking. That means the guy is measuring the future with you. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:52 PM
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Choose girls that aren't infected by 4th wave feminism and subscribe to FemaleDatingStrategy, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:57 PM
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except this post is also generalization in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:14 PM
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If being a "good boyfriend" includes being a simp, a cuck, and becoming a literal slave to their significant other... then no shit men would rather choose to be single lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:12 PM
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Self improvement includes getting in shape and managing your own finance... why do you think the RP keeps telling people to go to the gym and invest in themselves more?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:10 PM
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Total Revenue: NBA vs. WNBA The NBA generates approximately $10–10.6 billion in annual revenue The WNBA currently earns around $200 million per year Putting it into perspective, the WNBA makes roughly 2% of what the NBA makes. they are currently asking for 9% of the revenue. your 50% numbers came from the below: Under the current Collective Bargaining Agreement, NBA players receive approximately 49% to 51% of league-wide revenues, The remaining share—roughly 49% to 51%—goes to team owners, cover…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:03 AM
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women are not the same as you. that's not what society preaches... example being the mNBA vs WNBA demanding the same pay despite their revenue and their level of play not being the same. however most men do understand this and they don't actually expect women to act like men at all... they can't help to feel the irony at the double standards are on display thou. Equality doesn’t mean sameness. male financial abortion please, as well as the abolishment for the draft, or the push for women in STEM…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:29 PM
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In economics there's something call "economies of scale" and there are potential savings when two people lived together - i.e. Renting two separate apartments vs two people renting a unit together, also cooking for two vs two separate individuals cooking and cleaning on their own, etc. While it's also true that, in general, women do buy more stuff then men... it depends a lot of what the spending is on 1) spending that improved the quality of life for both individuals and 2) whether the spending…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:18 PM
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Average guy are abiding to the common rules and have the average experience and expectations when it comes to dating. Which was rejection often and have to work really hard and spend a lot of resources to maybe have a chance. However it's not impossible for them to ended up with someone. The exceptions are the ones who's so good-looking that they only need to text "Hi" to open and women would actually put in effort in their response. It's because of how attractive they are that the girls are wai…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:47 PM
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tell her to seek women's shelters, reach out to resources in her community, or call 911 for help. Society has multiple and strong support for women who's abused by her male spouse. The same can't be said for men when it's abused by their female spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:46 AM
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If you give another person a knife and at some point afterwards you two got into a fight, chances are that person will use that knife against you. The only way to deal with this is for men to be able to defend themselves when said knife is being used against them. When it comes to men showing emotion. Men do show a lot of emotions, but women protest when men shows negative emotions like fear, anger, frustration. It seems that when women say they want men to show more emotions, they only want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:03 PM
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For starters: what catches a person's attention is their picture. You look for red flags in their bio. With that being said it some guys would just swipe when he sees a cute girl. Others would just dig as deep as possible and interpret what's being said in million different ways... Looking for a deep connection with an outgoing emotionally available man who is not afraid to show his vulnerable side. Worse interpretation: the girl wants the guy to tell him all in secrets so she can use it against…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:28 PM
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Kinda? The problem is buried in statistics and natural progression but really mature men are not having enough kids or don't actually want kids because they know that having kids is beyond just getting a girl pregnant but actually help raising the kid, provide for the family, and being a good role model. All this is becoming harder and harder as society progresses and how toxic society has become. Meanwhile guys that are just walking sperm donners are just walking around getting girls pregnant s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:12 PM
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Allow me to try to tackle this one. Male tends to apply logic when it they are faced with problems in their lives, and a lot of stuff that's happening in the dating world doesn't make any logical sense. We based the assumption that there's roughly equal amount of male and female in the world (Globally, the sex ratio at birth is estimated to be around 106 boys for every 100 girls.) given that every hetro-sexual relationship involves one male and one female, it makes zero sense why the chances of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:41 PM
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Like what you said, but i disagree because if a person can't get a girlfriend... it says more about that person.. and what is said is that they lack looks and/or charisma... which is actually a big deal because looks/charisma isn't just used for dating but a huge part of one's life and successes including social circles, jobs, and other areas in life. So I think you under-estimate how important looks/charisma are and in this date and age lacking these thing is literally a death sentence and detr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:30 AM
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Traits... honestly damn autocorrect. but stuff like "Independence"... for example most men are single and live alone so they become indepent .. cooki their own food, become self reliant.. but feminist would turn it around to say that a male that's indepent is bad and it's one of the traits of of toxic masculinity. Another classic one is "Physical Toughness and Strength" ... apparantly men working out and take care of their bodies are considered bad. Another example that was often talked about in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 07:19 AM
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lol does anything I said in this thread actually contradicts what you said? if not then how is there even an argument in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:57 PM
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Oh I see you are responding for the sake of responding. I guess that's fair since it's a debate sub and if you got the time of the day for it... last-wordism and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:36 PM
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My response caters more to the body text of the post, especially on why they rely on having their friends and relatives vet for them. Also I believe for the rules of this sub, posting under the automod is the off-topic section right? otherwise as man we shouldn't even be the top comments response for a Q4women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:24 PM
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I'm not saying that they shouldn't vet. I'm saying they don't know how to vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:05 PM
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Why are modern woman so keen on "vetting" a man? Because they can't tell what's a good man and what's a bad man anymore. Society's tell them that an average dude who's actually not toxic, make decent money, and have normal average takes are actually lame and they should chance after other men, who turns out to be toxic or just not compatible. They want men to do manly things but these manly traits are considered toxic by feminist. In turn they want their men to be everything at the same time and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:39 PM
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Let's compare this situation to Women's fear of getting SA when walking alone at night. Women's fear of getting SA is valid, but men's fear of being falsely accused or being called a creep is not valid. The chances of actually being SA is pretty low, so are the chances of men being called a creep or falsely accused of rape. But when it comes down to it.. it's "all men" and "not all women" digging deeper: Women can actively protect themselves by going into more dangerious places, carry weapons, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:52 PM
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1) You guys need to get your own space 2) men makes their own space 3) OMG why are you allowed to have your own space. Be inclusive and let us in. Repeat.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/03/25 03:58 PM
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The whole argument is basically a case of framing bias: Male only conscription - at least in the context of America is that since male are the land-owners and are able to vote, they should be the one that defend their decision and their land. It's a simple concept of having rights means you'll have the same amount of responsibilities that goes with said rights. The problem here is that we broke down that connection by establishing universal suffrage meaning everyone (non-land owners and females)…
/r/EverydayMisandry20/01/25 09:13 PM
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There's so many ways and angles to interpret this comic but really my takeaway is that the comic still works if the gender is reverse. It's just human nature that people desire good looking things and treat good looking people differently.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/01/25 04:35 PM
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Report that shit so the admins can ban them. The left can get subs they don't like banned/replace the mods by posting bannable post and comments on alt accounts and then either frame the sub as toxic or lacking in moderation
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/24 05:33 PM
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You call upon the inner core of your own being and summon the strenght to withstand that's worse to come.
/r/MensRights15/07/24 06:06 PM
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This really shouldn't be a gendered issue. When the rich, highly educated people aren't having enough kids but the poor are... you'll only get income disparity. The poor are raising kids who can't afford them leading to poor quality of life, poor outlooks on life, and life lessons/successful habits that just didn't get passed down. The poor will grew more resentful of the rich who's only less poor because they made the life decision to not have kids. I believe thou that this is all by design (no…
/r/MensRights15/07/24 02:00 PM
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This isn't a new argument and these radical feminist will have the obvious (and also often used) counter-argument 1) She'll say that all men doesn't mean "all men" but "enought men" 2) She'll say that the FBI's stats are under-reported and many victims of SA often goes unreported due to fear. 3) For the sucide comment. They'll just say it's a male problem so they should form their own group to deal with it. They'll also say that feminist are for females only and they'll address only the female s…
/r/EverydayMisandry09/07/24 01:04 PM
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The true test of logical consistencies is that you apply the same logic to your other decisions and came to similar conclusions. For example if you want to go on a diet by avoiding carbs... you can't say you'll stop eating rice but then start munching on chips by saying that chips are "different". In this classic example... sure it's common sense that the male gender has physical advantages against the female... and i agree that "it makes sense that they would be more careful around us." but the…
/r/EverydayMisandry05/07/24 03:10 PM
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Flip the gender around and they'll say you are a misogynist.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/07/24 12:12 PM
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So you only want the good stuff but not the bad. No one can be happy 100% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:17 PM
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Redpill knowledge is already common knowledge these days. The Cat's already out of the bag on this one. File it under general disclaimers.
/r/MensRights29/04/24 04:16 PM
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That's why data can only tell so much. It's neither a generational thing nor the lenght of marriage, but rather a change in the law (so I guess you can classified it as a cultural change) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No-fault_divorce: Today, every state plus the District of Columbia permits no-fault divorce, though requirements for obtaining a no-fault divorce vary.[27] California was the first U.S. state to enact a no-fault divorce law. Its law was signed by Governor Ronald Reagan, a divorced …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 09:13 PM
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but divorce rates are the lowest they've been in 50 years People who already wanted a divorce, already got a divorce and maybe even twice over (got married to another and then divorced again). So it's not so much as the divorce rate was low, but the previous years divorce rate was really high. 50% of marriages end in divorce. Same issue as it is a data lag. Time period of data is important. I think you are doing decent research except you missed one key important data: Marriage rate overall has …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 08:44 PM
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What women want is "plausible deniability". Basically wants options available to her but the option to deny those chances. When women don't make the first move, they will never have to make the effort to start something or the chance to be rejected. They can also reject without pressure and have the option to change their minds at any time. In traditional and natural gender relationship dynamic.. it's the guys that have to be proactive and he'll use all the skills and talents avalable to him to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 07:09 PM
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Movies and stories teaches society morals (they don't appear out of a vacumn) and even now its telling people that nice guys gets the girl and males who wants a romantic relationship should simp for the girl they like. When society tell that to young men, they are rightfully frustrated when they didn't get their expected results. What we should be teaching them is today's reality and what they need to do to get the results they wanted, but most people aren't interested in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:22 PM
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You see the same in Ontario Canada a decade ago when PC leader at the time, Patrick Brown, was accused of SA and he had to resign. Nothing happened and now Patrick Brown is the mayor of Peel. Basically SA accusations are being used as a tool for political assassination.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 07:51 PM
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Women's tennis is probably better then men's tennis in terms of viewership or money... Maybe probably volleyball as well ... Some other sports are mostly on par with each other depending on the personal.. i.e figure skating, gyminist, swimmers, etc. The problem is that rather then letting stuff develop organically and let the fans decide who or what to watch... They want to make special cases and let gender become a factor... If WNBA or women's soccer is as successful as they are... Then the spo…
/r/MensRights31/01/24 05:10 AM
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They don't. They want the advantage of a traditional marriage without the downside... In this case the economy is rough so they'll want someone to take care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:57 AM
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For anyone here who have been sub to PPD for more then 5 years they'll know it's true. Back in the day Bluepill users would just laugh and mock RPers for their "self-improvement" saying that RP self improve because they aren't good enough... so... they aren't good enough. BP also say that "self improvement" isn't authentic because the process of self improvement mean it's not the real you, and that once RP get what they wanted they'll revert to their pre-improved self. Now BP are trying to gasli…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 09:00 PM
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Every individual changes society ... at a minimal scale. If a guy say it's "current year", and say that he'll split the bill on every one of his date, other guys will gladly cover all cost so they'll have a better chance in the dating scene. If all guys say that they'll split the bill, then society will accept that splitting the bill is a common thing. The point is how to get society to behave differently as a collective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 11:25 PM
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lol I don't actually. My best suggestion here what a guy should do for himself to be in a good position and not get himself caught up in a bad one. An individual can't change society, and only society can when there's a will for the masses, which circles back to the statement that a guy has do what what's best for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:19 PM
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We seek approval, influence, and many other ways of simply saying 'continuous transfer of ideas'. See that's a good thing if the ideas/aproval/influence are good. If they are bad then society is enforcing bad ideas. For example back the same mechanism enforces the idea that women should be stay at home moms, that having a child out of wedlock is bad, etc... we all know now those are bad ideas. Now society preaches the double standards when it comes to genders, that male should simp, or it's actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:20 PM
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https://womenagainstfeminismuk.wordpress.com/2015/07/06/rape-culture-what-happens-when-a-feminists-son-is-accused-of-rape/
/r/MensRights20/01/24 01:25 AM
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wasn't there a article how a avoid feminist mom turned and reconsidered her position after her son was accused of rape? 'I think men were so intimidated by #MeToo that to punish us they decided to cancel Roe v. Wade.' lots of misinformation here... metoo has zero to do with Roe v Wade. The problem with RvW is that the laws that the ruling is based on is found unconstititional.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 08:12 PM
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I'll even boil it down more: “Women/men aren’t a monolith” Then you have the feminist say "all men are rapist", "all men are sexist", etc.. or start flipping out when people replied with "not all men" or start flipping out when people imply any sort of generalization for women. the left is the side that replies on double standards and hypocricy so in order to even begin the debate whether certain groups aren't a monolith... they need to ensure the left also applies the same standards for argumen…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:28 PM
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I don't think it falls in this spectrum. Being blackpilled is an emotional sentiment (one of pessimism). So Blackpill: "Other people are something. We are nothing" - So they do nothing. Because humans are social animals. Birds are social animals, apes are social animals , so are dolphins... it doesn't mean they don't do things that's best for themselves from time to time. Also sometimes what's best for you is best for society... for example obey the law, pay your taxes. it also means they can vo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:24 PM
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Bluepill: "We are equal" - so when male have problem dating it's their fault because they don't seem to have a problem and because we are all equal it means the problem is something else. Redpill: "We are different" - So let's exploit our difference and gain maxium advantage base on our difference Purplepill: "We are different, but we have to treat each other equally at least some of the time" - how different and what treatment each one derserves depends on your gradiant of purple. What do you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 09:53 PM
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that's exactly the danger I was talking about. People take up martial arts to learn self-discipline, exercise, self-defense, body train, etc. However those Male action heros in movie scenes just use martial arts to "beat up bad guys" and that's a bad mindset to get into.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 08:58 PM
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I think the problem with finding male role models in fiction is that you'll run into the same problems with female role models in the same medium. You are chasing something that's unrealistic and in turn, living by an unrealistic standards. Role Models on screens is just a trap and you'll just let the Hollywood crowd to dictate and define mascilinity.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 07:57 PM
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The same feminist who blames beauty standards on men would say they'll put on makeup or dress up to go out for themselves and to make them feel great. In reality what makes them feel great is the attention they are getting (from both genders or not gender specific) and they are just chasing that high.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 07:08 PM
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People act in their own best interest, and then accuse others of doing the same thing as being selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:42 PM
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Dunno what part of the world you are from but when a person entered into a relationship if they are still pinning for another person, or if they think they can still "do better", it just mean it's a recipe for a failed and toxic relationship. As opposed to two people really digging each other with no other love interest in the picture much? That's kind what being exclusive means... not having other love interest in the picture lol. Guess you can call me old fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:46 AM
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it means they settled. Both genders get offended when they are told their partner settled because it means they are not their first option.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:38 AM
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I think the Dem got this one. I have no horses in this race anyways since I'm not even American. Nether side supports male's right to financially abort anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:01 AM
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Sure, but can we also acknowledge the logical consistencies about both participants (unless in the case of rape) should have also having the rights not wanting to raise a child as well if a child is conceived after sexual intercourse?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 12:43 AM
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The difference is only semantics. At the end of the day people who want to mislead, will mislead whether it's for sex, material gains, or attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:51 PM
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It's literally the same rationale as the question OP asked. People (both gender) can be mislead either intentionally or unintentionally. Are you denying the fact that this only happens to women but not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:35 PM
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I actually don't mind the idea. In politics you gotta give a little to get a little and what the actual trade-off here is paternity test for child support at conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:10 PM
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These feminist can't make the connections inside their head (cognative disnoiances). They want men that are in charge of their lives, work out and be leaders. Yet, for example, having their boyfriend and husband go to the gym instead of spending time with them is considered "Toxic Masculinity"... because according to these feminist working out is enforcing negative body sterotypes and they think that abs are born naturally and came out of a vacumn instead of hours of dedicated workout routine an…
/r/MensRights14/12/23 03:08 PM
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Does double standards not apply?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:58 PM
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Why should men let people like yourselves dictictate how they should live their lives and set standards for them, and how come society doesn't even dare define what a "real women" is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 06:08 PM
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A real man won't let others define what a "real man" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:39 PM
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I think we've all fallen into a trap here and it's ad hominen. We shouldn't evaulate Jordan Peterson as a person but we should evaulate his ideas. Every person has their own failing and JP is no exception but most of his ideas are agreeable. The left dominate in terms of character assassination and you could be picked apart just by not agreeing with them. I.e Larry Elder. What bought him to fame was his fight against the administration in regards to gender pronouns and I agree that basically pas…
/r/MensRights21/11/23 03:58 PM
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There's multiple angle on this but here's the three major factors: 1) Imagine if you don't know what 1+1 is at the age of 25. unlike what the bleeding heart liberal and the blue pill preaches... Love and by extension on how to maintain a healthy relationship is a learned process and not something you are born knowing. You are at least a decade behind on the basics. 2) There's the law of pre-selection and if you are decent looking, at least some girl will pick you up and you would already have be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:50 PM
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Men should be frightened.. but at the same time these journalist and commentators would only blame men for not mentoring their female colleagues, or men not wanting to have 1 on 1 meetings at work with women, men not wanting to date or have anything to do with women anymore. The double standards are well and alive when it comes to issues like these.
/r/MensRights02/11/23 04:47 PM
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Agreed, but so did men... #MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:41 PM
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The reverse is true. Belong alone just sucks because you didn't do anything to address your lonliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:04 PM
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lol sure but everything depends. What I'm trying to state here is that it's actually quite dishonest if you are still trying to get a relationship out of her when she's clear that she wants only friendship. If both party can settle with friendship then that's okay, but one party can't handle it then it's best for everyone to move on for the sake of their own mental health. What's more important then "friendship"?... their own well being ofcourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:47 PM
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Guys need to learn what a good date is as opposed to making a friend as to avoid being confused and let down. Nah. Guys need to learn that and then "abundance" and if they shot their shoots and fail, they can just move on to the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:22 PM
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Almost no woman actually wants sex for the sake of it, they need an emotional attraction to a man (or woman) to feel sexual attraction. 3rd wave feminist and those on the sexual liberation movement would disagree. Because straight men are faced with the reality that women don’t like sleeping around, some of them turn to deception and trickery. Nah both sides resort to plausible deniability. If men and women were monomorphic in their sexual desires, there would be no need for these kinds of manip…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:20 PM
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If you want "terms" you can look at the dictionary definition. So we agree with the dictionary terms? But you're trying to establish what is fair in the context of family law, which is an entire subset of the legal field. Defining "fair" encompasses hundreds or thousands of laws, centuries of legal precedent, and millions of cases. Expecting that to be summarized in a single Reddit comment is either insanely ignorant or an absurdly bad faith attempt to derail the discussion. Yeah but no as bad f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 09:20 AM
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That is not a question that could possibly be answered in a reddit comment, nor is it the "gotcha" that you think it is. it's not a "gotcha" question but rather it's important in an honest debate to determine the terms... so if you have establisted that what's "fair" can't be answered, how can we move on from this discussion when the issues of faireness comes up? Well, no, you're just disagreeing with numbers. "The numbers support this conclusion" is a valid position. "Nuh uh" is not. lol I neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:16 AM
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I’m not going to argue over the morality of abortion. I’ve stated my position if you don’t agree that’s fine. Although if you are pro life and don’t agree with abortions I’m not sure how you can also have the position that men throwing away their kids after divorce is ok. Actually I'm pro-choice. I'm also pro-choice for men because both genders should have the right to choose. I'm just pointing out the irony and hyprocracy when it comes to the left's position regarding abortion and divorce. Both…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:46 PM
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I believe that there's circumstances where what you stated is true and there are circumstances where it's not. The fact is that the current system leaves a of gaps and loopholes is perhapse something that we can agree on... nevertheless I'll point out that feminist's position isn't the saintly one here and in fact their position is quite hyprotical. For example https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vxjkNLHM82g https://www.nytimes.com/2021/10/30/style/men-alimony-spousal-support.html Also I would like …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:35 PM
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Abortion results in no child being born and no child to clothe, feed, house, and provide love. I’m in favor of some type of possible financial abortion for men if they can prove they told the mother they did not want children, it’s provided in the same amount time a women has to have an abortion, and the father has no contact with the child. That's assuming that fetus isn't a life lol. That’s not the situation your responding to though. If your married and get divorced unless your an absolute id…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:26 PM
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Then why don't men initiate divorce if they are so unhappy? Look at the stuff that Op posted and all the stats being posted... do you genuinely believe that divorce favours men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:19 PM
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Geez now I'm curious about your position on abortion. It is alright for women to abort their kids cuz they also say they don't want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:05 PM
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Of course they do. Why would men initiate when all their needs are being met and they can get away with ignoring and neglecting their entire family since the mother of their children will always pick up the slack? Remember how men reliably claim to be "blindsided" by divorce papers? "I thought everything was fine!?!" It was fine for him because he wasn't participating. Big asumption here.. you are asusming that men don't suffer from Domestic abuse, being cheated on, emotional negelect, sexless m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:03 PM
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Yes, that is literally one of the main functions of a court. You're trying to pretend like this is some special loophole that exists to screw men instead of acknowledging that all contracts can be challenged for fairness. Question for you.. what's "fairness" and how do you determine it? Yes, it does. We'll agree to disagree then. Who said backdated? You made that up. You should actually read up on the article and the case before posting. That 1 million is calcuated based on missing backdated chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:54 PM
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Alimony is calculated at the time of the divorce, not after, wtf You are missing a key info here: Women initiate 70% of divorces: https://www.whitleylawfirmpc.com/3-reasons-why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/#:~:text=And%20that%20is%20that%20women,divorces%20are%20initiated%20by%20women. Most men don't even want their kids half the time, so they definitely aren't going into battle. Most of those who do go to bat for their kids win. Sure we agree. So what's your point? What is so bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:50 PM
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Or get a prenup. You want that tradcon life, then you take the good with the bad. Just like laws regarding custody/alimony/child support, Prenups laws also vary by state: https://www.forbes.com/sites/christinefletcher/2018/09/18/10-things-you-need-to-know-about-prenups/?sh=78abfa0562ba Key part here: Circumstances dictate fairness. The idea of fairness depends on the unique facts and circumstances surrounding each couple. Would it be fair if after 20 years of marriage, Hailey walks away with onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:25 PM
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A lot of these stats suffers from Survivorship bias and cherry picking stats: For example: "MeN OnLy AgReE BeCaUsE ThEy KnOw ThEy'LL LoSe" I hear some bleating. Except, that, too, is false. When men fight for custody, they get it 92% of the time. In any case, it still doesn't matter because when men just ask for more custody, they get it 79% of the time. No shit... men don't go into any battle (including legal ones like custody battle) if they know they can't win. Legal fees aren't cheap. To sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:57 PM
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Sell it to feminist as a way to "liberate" them from giving birth to children. If we've learned anything, we learn that narrative is important
/r/MensRights20/09/23 04:49 PM
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the problem can't be viewed as "the whole deal about how a handful of X are messing up how women see the rest of X." For example imagine replacing "guys" with "women", or any other race and the statement would suddenly become racist/sexist. The real unfairness here is how come when it's viewed as guys, it's not sexist? Also really no one feels safe walking around at night. Just like no one should feel unsafe walking around with a suitcase full or money. In reality people should have a healthy am…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:21 PM
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A zero sum game example is university admission. There's only a limited amount of students being qualified for that university per year.. and a push for more females equal less males.. whether it's STEM or otherwise.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 11:42 AM
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What my Point is is very simple, especially in feminism day age you will hear following things "i find it attractive if he can show his emotions" Have to read in between the lines. They only want you to show them positive emotions. "i dont like dominant man" or any other "i like soft men" label. But Women dont even date those Men, they date Men that are the complete opposite. In a positive relationship, the couple play different roles for each other depending on the circumstances. The short of i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 07:22 PM
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I think we can even break it down to something even more simplier: biology. Why are men horny? because of hormones. Why are women selective? because if they ever are to conceive they have a 9 month incubation period where they'll be more vunerable and require more resources and care. This is all fine because what it really tell us is that both male and female have their own advantages and disadvanges. However the current day narriative is that most female advantages are being downplayed by femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:48 PM
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Imagine shaming someone for having a disability like autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:36 PM
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It is not shamimg if it is true. Sounds like circular logic Tbh i am talking to you because i care. I care about humans But not the males suffering... because people like yourself don't see males as humans?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:35 PM
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but when it's female issues, feminist instead protest for changes i.e: #metoo, 66centsper$1, #womensinSTEM. Perhapse you should give your very same advice to these feminist instead and see how they take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:33 PM
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And here comes the other famouse often used tactic: Shaming language. (Ad Hominem) https://www.txst.edu/philosophy/resources/fallacy-definitions/Ad-Hominem.html#:~:text=(Attacking%20the%20person)%3A%20This,in%20a%20group%20or%20institution.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:22 PM
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better to have a doubled edged sword then not having one. As per quotes: "It's better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war." Also all swords have two edges anyways... So I never understood that idiom.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:21 PM
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lol "boy". I am not the one calling women hags. But you just did right here: "Hags? You mean women? Hating women in 2023? Just be gay."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:17 PM
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Did I say all women are hags? Are all women on this earth posting here giving bad advices? It's these kinda bad logic that makes women goes #allmen and then when critized they fall back to "I didn't say all men". See maybe you should take a class in logic first before responding, or have thicker skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:11 PM
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What is Narcissism? Some would call it a sense of self worth. What is Psychopathy? Some would call it emotional control. What is Machiavellianism? Some would call it Social Intelligance. Females on this sub has been saying that women need a man who has some pride in themselves, communicate their emotions, and have social intelligence.. in fact they have been critizing men for lacking these things multiple amount of times and each of them is a recurring topic when women complaining about men. Fac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:24 PM
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Married or in a stable relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:34 PM
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because female privilage doesn't exist or something, and because all male somehow benefit from your so call "male privilage" eventhought 3/4 of homeless people are male.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:22 PM
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Equality benefits everyone On paper and not even then. Because Feminist is really advocating equality that benefits the female only even on the dictionary definition. In reality the feminist brand of equality advocate rights for the female often in the disadvantage of the female. Check this for example : https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/2onnrz/did_feminists_actually_shut_down_shelters_for_men/ It’s like asking why abolishinists didn’t help the slave owners, too. And that's exactly th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:36 PM
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as the meme goes. I see no difference between these two pictures. Especially when feminist only promote gender equality when it benefit the female but not the male.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:59 PM
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Which feminists ask for money or subscriptions? Any feminist group that asked for donations: up to and including "he for she" for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:24 PM
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So is literally any large agency, up to and including feminism. Feminism and any left-leaning institutions are basically the HR of capitalism in which they generate good PR to further their own agenda... whether it is to get votes, get money, or sell products. See examples: Gilette, Bud lite, BLM, Biden Administration.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:48 PM
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Free Love marraige isn't available everywhere either (a lot of 3rd world countries do arrange marriages). Divorce isn't availabe everywhere either so I'm not sure what you want to point out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:49 PM
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Men attribute the high rates of single mothers to women making bad choices and that we should simply “choose better”. Ironic considering that you are pro-choice... because the choice for these single mothers would be "abortion". Surely if a man doesn’t want be financially responsible for a child he doesn’t want, he should also take it upon himself to be careful about who he sleeps with, aka, “choose better”. On the same vein... men can't force women to abort the child. So... In other instances w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:36 PM
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I'll rather treat people as individuals that deserves a base level of common respect unless shown otherwise. If their action reflects poorly on them, then they serves less respect. Gender really has nothing to do with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:27 PM
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Abortion shouldn't require the permission of the father. However on the flip side... men shouldn't be on the hook for a child he's not prepared (or even consented) to have. I'm Pro-choice but I'm also a supporter of Financial abortion. This leaves the scenrio where the father would want to have the child but the mother wants the abortion. It sucks but this comes with men being cautious to whom he have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:09 PM
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Experience matters when both parties are trying to build a relationship. Couples needs to learn how to compromise, deal with issues like finances, family from the other side, friend groups, how to give each other spaces, etc. "The 35 year old virgin" is a problem in society but not just because he didn't have sex, but because he doesn't know how to maintain a relationship or deal with the problems that comes with a relationship and navigate thru it, and the female expectation that the male has t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:06 PM
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That is the way
/r/MensRights06/06/23 02:10 PM
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I think the term you are looking for its price discovery. Remember that when it comes to relationships both parties are seeking to maximize their utility. Also just because you waited longer ... The more desirable person might arrive but it might not pick you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:23 PM
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Your logic implies that you would be able to thou... After all aren't we all just an x amount of shades better then another person?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:44 PM
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Lol. So are you saying that if a woman waited long enough they'll be able to find Brad Pitt/HEnry Cavill/ Chris Hemsworth?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:21 PM
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One way to explain this is because ppl don't even get married anymore. If they don't get married they can't get divorced.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 12:02 PM
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Sure the typical hot party girl always can find a simp as backup, or find companionship with other girls as they age due to their outgoing personality. However just because they aren't single, it doesn't mean they aren't "bitter" about their previous experiences and not getting what they think they deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:57 PM
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for men: Say they want young women but most guys actually date around their age That's actually a suvivorship bias: men who date younger women are looking for flings and other short term fun. Men who are trying to settle down are looking for more of a stable relationship which means girls around their age. Say they want a natural woman but go for girls with heavy makeup all girls wear makeup and their face can change drastically between wearing and not wearing makeup. That speaks more about how …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:04 AM
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Look, if there's a person who's actually fearful of going out, Society would actually be very symthetic to them. However if someone actually say they are fearful of approaching women, they are received very negatively. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 04:29 PM
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You need to leave the house to get groceries, go to your job, to live, etc. Do you need to approach women to live?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:48 PM
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I'm a big proponent of that. However following the same logic, Women can't get mad if men doesn't want to marry single mothers as well because kids are expensive as heck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:46 PM
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How many times have you been robbed and should you walk into a dark alley at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 03:24 PM
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The poetic irony is this: Men wants a women with a nice body, so it stands to reason that if you want a women with a nice body, you should also get a nice body yourself. Most Redpill would agree with this statement. Most Bluepill would rather sidestep this line of thinking by saying looks doesn't matter, or the guy should lower his standards by getting women that doesn't have a nice body. The irony is that both women and men knows that physical attraction is a powerful tool, but only men sees th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:58 PM
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After successive dating failures I can conclude with confidence that my type is not into me. My dating situtation has gotten a lot better ever since I match with girls who is more into me then I'm into her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:11 PM
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Also PPD dudes: Damn, can't believe these women out here having groups where they try to vet dox and make up lies about men. There fixed it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:58 PM
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If a girls likes you, but she has deep issues like insecurities or are unable to process her feelings and express them in a positive view... she's more likely to make you wait. It prospond the problem at least, and at most it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy of missed chances and relationship failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:17 PM
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There are other subs that talks about gender issues such as r/everydaymisandry r/TheAntiMisandry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:37 PM
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We now live in an era where everyone works and make their own money... which means we are all corporate wage slave... it is important for all genders to consider their mate's money/career. From the male side you don't want to marry into a women saddled with student debt, credit card loan, and basically a gold digger. Alternative if the women wants to be a stay at home mom, she better brings something to the marriage that'll contribute to the household. The biggest problem here is that modern fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:03 PM
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To a certain extent it is .. and it's really more of a statistical problem. To further your point... men have a greater intelligence range (kurtosis) which means there's more smarter men but there's also more dumber men in comparison to women. However feminist and the left often focus on the ends that support their narriative... i.e. there's more rich and power men then women, therefore there's inequality... without looking at the other side, which in this case there's more homeless men then wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:02 PM
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The problem with this is that this all flies right in the face when it comes to equality ... So the left has to do a lot of mental gymnastics to akin to "all animals are equal, but some are more equal then others"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:27 PM
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Let it be said that only a small amount of women makes false rape accusations... however when it comes to dealing with the general left... it's all about narriative. From FBI statistics... rape only accounts for a small amount of crime, but yet the left 1) use rape as justification for a lot of their movement and 2) inflate the statistics by redefining what constitute as rape. Rape is tramatic but so is being falsely accused of rape but the law and society at large is very against former but is …
/r/MensRights18/04/23 05:48 PM
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How is that a personal attack? it's an advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:42 PM
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Nah you should stay single bro ,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:50 PM
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LoL, imagine accusing men for "checking out in society" just because they don't date
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:12 AM
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https://aifs.gov.au/resources/resource-sheets/age-consent-laws-australia#:~:text=The%20legal%20age%20for%20consensual,interactions%20varies%20across%20Australian%20jurisdictions.&text=Tas.,-Criminal%20Code%20Act Although the legal age of consent throughout Australia is either 16 or 17 years of age, legislation in the Australian Capital Territory, New South Wales, the Northern Territory, South Australia, Victoria and Western Australia makes it an offence for a person in a supervisory role to have…
/r/MensRights24/03/23 05:27 PM
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You can't consent if you are under the legal age of consent... That's called statutory rape.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 11:39 AM
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https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/sep/03/leonardo-dicaprio-girlfriend-breakup-25-week-in-patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:34 PM
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“No woman should be authorized to stay home to raise her children. Women should not have that choice, because if there is such a choice, too many women will make that one.” - Simone de Beauvoir https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/rendezview/sarrah-le-marquand-it-should-be-illegal-to-be-a-stayathome-mum/news-story/fbd6fe7b79e8b4136d49d991b6a1f41c https://www.scarymommy.com/feminism-left-sahms-behind https://www.savvyparentingsupport.com/feminisms-bust-mothers-lets-demand-seen-heard/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:30 PM
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The problem is that feminist are suppose to be all about equality and giving women more choices. Instead feminist doesn't like sex posivitvity when it applies to hetrosexual male, and doesn't support women when their choice is to save themselves for marriage and to have a low amount of sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:24 PM
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This was back in China during the cultural revolution: Grandma married Grandpa because Grandma's family used to be landlords and business owners. Communist took everything and she was classified as a "black type". Meanwhile Grandpa's family was just farmers and is classified as a "red type". It's more of a marriage of convinence so Grandma can stay out of the communist government's crosshair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:33 AM
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First... Are they? And second... Mainstream media need to control the narrative. They realized the problem can no longer be hidden and so they publish article like this one with all fluff but no substance. They'll blame issues like male loneliness to "toxic masculinity" and put the onus back onto men themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:33 PM
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You mean where to find female supremacists that shield criticisms of feminist at the cost of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:41 PM
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Can you define what circlejerk means?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:17 PM
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There's are significant difference between what OP said and what I said. For one I never said society actively prevents men from stepping up. It's more like Society gave women advantages when the situation isn't equal but doesn't do it when the genders are reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:43 PM
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Lol I dropped video games and then I found a girl that actually play video games. Now I'm playing an MMO with her so...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:37 AM
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Actions only counts if there's evidence of said action. Virtue signaling isn't evidence of action.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 09:42 PM
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I dunno. Maybe she can start a post to bring awareness on feminist sub like r femimism or r twoxx and see what happens. Action speak louder then words and OP did bring awareness by posting on this sub.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 06:29 PM
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If you agree that the example provided in the op is again the principle of equality that these so call feminist supposedly stand for, then maybe ppl like your wife should at least spoke out against it.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 08:28 AM
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You should engage but should be prepared to engage. learn the usual fallacies that the people are prone to. I.e strawmanning, framing bias, just-world fallacies, tu-quo-quo, circular logic, mixing up cause and effect, etc https://owl.purdue.edu/owl/general_writing/academic_writing/logic_in_argumentative_writing/fallacies.html Educate yourself before replying and parepared to back up your argument with statistics. I.e When feminist brought up the 1/4 by Mary Kross and the 76 cents/ 1 dollar have …
/r/MensRights13/12/22 05:12 PM
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Most men focus too much on looks in dating and that impacts them negatively. The first time you see a person, you aren't going to see anything except their looks. First impression is important. Also this problem isn't exclusively male. If men judged women more by their sexual history, the clothes they wear, their education level and financial life, they would have a better time dating. 1) How does one see the characteristics in other people within the first few dates, or even on their dating pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:35 PM
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"I'm single because there are not enough good guys/girls for me" can happen for both genders. However the path diverge from there: for most guys they think through a solution and it's either self-improvement, or be at peace with the fact that they won't find anyone (MGTOW). This goes back ultimately to how men and women approach things differently. Most guys seek solutions while women who says "there are not enough good guys/girls for me" ultimately wants to preserve their ego instead of confrou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:57 PM
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Advocacy =/= mandatory compliance. People can advocate for whatever they want as long as society doesn't punish people that doesn't comply. The idea of men getting vasectomies seems sound until you realized that some men still wants children in the future, but just doesn't want them currently. The Funny thing is that MGTOW has been advocating men to get snipped before all this RvW nonsense to protect men from being responsible for children that aren't even theirs. However there's obvious push-ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 06:49 PM
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30 years is not old but 30 is just an arbitrary number and at some point in your life you will get old. People at different points in their lives will want different things and there may be a point in your life that you will want to find someone and get hitched. Here is where statistics come in: the older you are the smaller your dating pool becomes. I think op missed the point and the point is that ppl shouldn't just live in the moment and should look to at least not close doors for options in …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:02 PM
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In ppd ppl talk all the time yet solves nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 08:46 AM
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Again tell me how being stonger mean you are going to fare better then be hit by bullets off a machine gun
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:40 AM
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I think you've just acted on the very thing you accused me... and that your 1 in 5 has nothing to do with what you've posted. You were describing about how guns intimindate women like yourselves. In reality, no matter how strong a guy is, he isn't going fare betten then you if the guards are going to start spray the crowd with bullets. "Most men aren't rapists and murderers. But enough of them are that it makes you a lowgrade nervous at all times. Because what if he has underlying mental health …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:34 AM
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The 1 in 5 stats has been debunked that it isn't even worth rementioning but here goes. https://www.forbes.com/sites/evangerstmann/2019/01/27/the-stat-that-1-in-5-college-women-are-sexually-assaulted-doesnt-mean-what-you-think-it-means/?sh=6e529b0e2217 "Rather than asking students if they were sexually assaulted, these surveys ask students if they were subjected to certain behaviors. If a student responds that they were, that student is reported as a victim of sexual violence. But these surveys …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:05 AM
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I thought you were trying to debate in earnest and is honestly trying to prove actual data of how rape is underreported.. guess not good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:58 AM
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And google is telling me this: https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2018/crime-in-the-u.s.-2018/topic-pages/rape "There were an estimated 139,380 rapes (revised definition) reported to law enforcement in 2018. This estimate was 2.7 percent higher than the 2017 estimate and 18.1 percent higher than the 2014 estimate" Edit: you repeatingly shoving the same stats when asked for context doesn't make you right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:51 AM
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Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 08:47 AM
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Actual article that support OP's view: https://floridapolitics.com/archives/206474-womens-rights-groups-host-statewide-media-conference-sb-668/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:34 PM
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https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/09/25/survey-who-pays-for-first-date/16195739/ When it comes to paying for the first date, most men and women in heterosexual relationships still expect the man to pick up the tab. "Just over 77 percent of the more than 1,000 people across the United States who took part in a recent study — all of whom are in relationships and have been living with their partners for at least six months — said the man should pay the bill. Broken down by gender, 82 …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:01 PM
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I think it'll have to be more then just "you" but majority of female at large. However it'll still comes to the problems of enforcing social norms which is not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:05 AM
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we can go back to a 1920s like society if we tried. we just need to hold more ppl accountable and put men back to work. we need to ban all pedophiles from the government and the internet. and restore laws where it is legal to kill a man if u have proof he is a pedo. You mean the 1920s before Internet or even color TV exist? Current Pedophile is banned so I'm not sure where you are getting the contrary. lastly we need to rebuild the family unit. this will happen by creating a framework of love in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:03 AM
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There's many views here that I see as problematic. 1) Your origional post suggest going back to way things were in the 1920s. Society has changed and I don't believe that's even possible. 2) "things have been getting bad since the 2010s." is suffering from Rosy retrospection. I mean Harvey Weinstein's hay day are in the 90's and The Cosby Show was from 1984–1992 (Yes that Bill Cosby). today we have shows like bigmouth on netflex. what changed other than pedophila becoming mainstream? relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:45 AM
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what do you mean when you say "wrong"? So just because people are not adhearing to your call to end transactional relationship, it means they are "wrong"? That's a bit extreme isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:26 AM
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My advice for you then it to touch some grass. Also I'll say if you truely want to end transactional relationship... both gender would be required to change their attutitude and it's strange why you are telling men to step up but make no mention about what women needs to do on their end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:22 AM
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its more of a vice with men than women Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:19 AM
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Women needs to step up and start splitting the bills for dinner dates. I challenge all women in the dating scene here to do so as OP suggested and stop with the "me me me me" mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:56 AM
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I simply don't care I only care about protect romantics and my culture I don't care how other tribes function they could be polyamorous for all I care. I just want my own nation that's it How do you propose on doing that? I want us to be alive till very end so we can squeeze out all the pleasures life has to offer before the collapse of the human race. We don't want to be minorities in your world we want our own. Ironically RP wants similar things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:56 PM
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The hypocrisy of some liberals/progressives when they talk about letting people love who they love without judgment, and their supposed hatred of stereotyping people and situations that don't involve them personally. Wait until you hear about the left and their new term "Minor Attracted Person" as the next inclusion of the LGBTQ2A+ community.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:03 PM
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I shared my anecdote because I figured a perspective from a woman would matter to some degree and show you women do have a hard time too in some of the same ways even Yeah but OP isn't saying that and already addressed the point in his post. I think you are just attacking a strawmen here. Also this is a post about men's experience and I fail to see why you will bring women's experience into this thread. Imagine a post talking about negative women's expeirence but then someone commented "well men…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:46 PM
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Uhh, I didn’t say negative experience equals incel, not at all. Then in what context do you introduce incel into this topic? Why bring it up when it wasn't even discussed? Do you believe that just because men " it's more that being so hurts their dating success more than it hurts women's dating success." equate to them being incels? Everyone is different and has different personalities and experiences and it’s just stupid to boil it down to “women have it easy” because YOU personally have a hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:57 PM
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How is my story incel? Using your very same logic that negative experience = incel. You are welcome to retract your point btw. And yeah anecdotal but I am trying to show you a different perspective this is purple pill debate it’s the whole point. I'm just pointing out the contridiction of your point... and that you are providing ancedotcal evidence and then say that everyone's experience will be different. Besides dating experiences are all anecdotal I don’t think there’s really a way to truly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:34 PM
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Because rejection happens to everyone. And I’m very shy so I actually like a guy who is shy, but I also am one to initiate stuff. I was on tinder for a while (no I didn’t do very well on there but I also didn’t care.) but anyone who did match with me I sent the first message. I like to plan stuff and I like the guy to know hey man I like you so I make sure they know. Personal anecdotal... see your own quote below: Everyone is different, gender aside. And incels have these issues because a large …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:13 PM
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Men have the social pressure/role to initate and therefore they have more to lose. One of the few things RP got right is not to take rejection seriously and also learn from your rejection so you can achieve better success on your next attempt. None of these views are being acknowledged or taught by the Bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:32 PM
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"The Principle of RP makes sense to me" Cite examples OP: REEEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:01 AM
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“Nice” in the sense of being a kind person and super respectful, not an ass kisser. And “like” in the sense of genuine desire. This type of behavior only works long term if the guy has his shit together, or has some sort of status. This does not work for more financially average guys. And here lies the problems... there's a difference between Nice guy, and Nice Guy (tm). When people talk about "Nice guy", they are talking about those featured on /r/niceguys I’ve lost count of how many (average) …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:24 PM
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By the strictest of terms, Incels (involuntary celebrate) doesn't automatically means hatred of the opposite gender. However it does implied that being celebrate could be involntary is a sense of entitlement to members of the opposite sex. There is "forever alone (FA)" which does have a sub on reddit but it's for people who can't get a relationship, and typically are for virgins. In fact, bringing up previous intimate interactions with members of the opposite gender will be taken very negatively…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:49 PM
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OP has confused the cause and effect and display a version of "just world fallacy" Using the same logic, it would assume that 19% of american is using welfare means that they aren't poor anymore when any sane and logical person would realizes that "people use welfare because they are poor", and not "19% of Americans use welfare therefore they aren't poor anymore." If that was true, would we not find that women would flock to dating apps and not men? Especially given that men assume women are hyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:48 PM
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men who cares about a women's body count ... actually cares about if their potential partner being promiscuous and body count is just one of the indicators of it. You'll never know about a girl's body count, but in combination with other tells you can have a good gage whether a girl is promiscuous or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:01 PM
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Men and women are different biologically. Men are stronger, our brains and hormones are different, our genitals are different.... That's the problem right here.. and that society current have a narriative that men are women are equal and hense the confusion. Society is undergoing cognative dissonance right now: for example if women and men are equal, why are men drafted into the army and women are not? Why is it not far fetched to think women are just inherently more pyhysically attractive? If f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:32 PM
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The average guy should not be frustrated at the selective nature of the average women...and not do something about it. Instead he should seek self improvement and do what he can to improve his chances, or alternatively just not play the game. Both options are shunned by female btw. The difference between the two genders is that while male get frustrated at certain things... they seek to change the situation by turning inwards. While in general, the opposite gender gets frustrated at certain situ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:20 PM
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Feminist have an efficient method to advocate their cause: 1) Set grass root support. At even the most fundamental level we believe in equality and back in the 60's women deserves the right to vote. Now In 2020's there are justified cause for men for the same equal treatment that their female peers are getting, whether it's the equal in the eyes of the law (especially family court), male abortion, how society treat male victims of sexual abuse/rape, etc. However society tend to view these male i…
/r/MensRights06/10/22 09:51 AM
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The problem here is that you are assuming men act as a collective. In fact not even women here acting as a collective either. Men can't and don't held other men accountable, and neither does women. Here's a thought a experiment......how would interactions between men and women differ, if no woman EVER had to be worry about these things? How much more prevalent, would women be in various social places, both in real life venues, and online, if none of this, was EVER a concern....if it didn't even …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:54 PM
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Technically True. If you are in a steady, exclusive relationship, you can't get your body count up anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:33 PM
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whatever feminist want to frame it to be at the time, often at the convinence of their current narriative.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 04:49 PM
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None so far. Maybe you should spend more time touching grass instead of baiting people on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:47 PM
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They don’t love you: however after marriage they will magically act like they love you, worship you as a partner and never have the ability to even think about anyone else romantically, so they will never cheat. It doesn’t matter what you do to this person, they will act like they love you and not be able to express anything contrary to that. As others in the thread has stated; that doesn't sound like a partner, more like a love slave. The second person has had a vibrant dating life. Past partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:46 PM
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It's not wrong and no one is really faulting anyone when it comes to divorce. The problem here is that the advice against marriage is from a male's prespective. For men who wants a successful marriage, a divorce is a failure. Furthermore from a male's prespective, male have a lot more to lose when it comes to divorce due to how bias the divorce court are: i.e. alimony, losing the marital home, child custody, etc. You are more then welcome to frame it from a women's prespective, but it's useless …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 07:58 PM
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"EVEN if you could FORCE monogamy and "redistribute" love and relationships, you can't force a woman to genuinely love you and you FEEL the difference" That's cool, who is saying the contrary? Literally no one is saying that they should regulate the SMV/CMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:03 PM
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Now the problem is that women are currently getting a lot of positive re-enforcement from society eventhough they aren't good looking i.e. the body positive movement. So why are men treated differently then women in society, especially when all the positive-enforcement are coming from feminist group that advocates for equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:25 PM
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They don't because they don't need to. Bluepill are allowed to contradict themselves and they do this all the time. It's super easy to defend one's position if their position is just against another position (in this case the redpill). Thus it's pointless to argue against bluepills. Instead one should just focus on seeking their own truth and what works and achieve success instead of listening to bad and often contradictionary advice from people like the bluepill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:54 PM
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implying dick size is a classic example of females enforcing toxic masculinity onto males.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:32 PM
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Men and boys have their flaws, that‘s for sure and Im sure you know this a lot better than me 😂 However the flaws are more in terms of the following: not paying attention, forgetting important sentimental things, being more physical, proneness to cheating, machismo. I'm a guy and in my relationship with my current fiancee, she's the forgetful one that keep leaving her sweater, phone, purse at restuarants or left it at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:21 PM
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All goes back to Maslow's hierachy of needs. Marriage is a great way to get resources (i.e. security, food, etc) and most developing countries lack these things. In terms of the third level of Maslow's hierachy of needs, most developing countries held onto conservative traditions and marriage is just another norm for that type of society. In rich western countries most of your needs are taken care of leading to people not seeing marriage as an option to obtain these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:19 PM
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I didn't say they are free from suffering from consequences however. I do understand your sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:51 PM
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As a Customer, I'll like to get all your merchandise for free! You can listen to women about what they want, but chances are you'll find out that they want everything and anything without giving you anything back. I'm sure my usual "white knight" criticisms will be forthcoming. Obligatory white knight criticism given OP asked for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 07:38 PM
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what and which stats are you refering to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:53 PM
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Women are expected to wear makeup and appeal to the male gaze from a young age. Women often spend hours on makeup, hair, and molding their bodies into the perfect body. The narriative last time I check is that women wear makeup and dress particular way for themselves and not for appealing men. If it was true that women wear makeup to appeal men, then it's deceptive that they are hiding how they truely look when the makeup and the pushup bra is off. If guys wanted women to find men attractive, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:58 PM
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I think what makes it hard for women to be sympathetic to this is because ultimately it’s men putting women at the center of men’s unhappiness. That women alone are the ones responsible for this rise in male misery and suffering. It can’t be a lack of social support, mental health care, supportive family, declining economy, the toxic echo chambers etc. It’s women and women alone. That's exactly why men should to MGTOW. The only thing women are doing is exercising their own free will in choosing …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:40 PM
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The average women have more rights and privilages in America in comparison to the average male.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:19 AM
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In before "not all women are the same, why do men believe they can understand women just by reading some books are they autistic or something?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 05:19 PM
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Alternatively ... people with incompatible view regarding sex generally make for bad partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:29 PM
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'Just be who are you'' and ''It's all about your heart'' is great advice... because from the women's prespective they don't need to do any filtering to see their pusuers as they truely are. Personality and character are multipers to initual attraction. 1000 times zero is still zero and the reverse is also true. An individual with a great personality and character but is burn ugly will attractive zero women... the reverse is the same where a good looking but shitty guy with zero personality don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:57 AM
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Your first paragraph makes zero sense. If we operated under your philosophy of “why do I care how it works? Circle go in circle hole” then antivenom never would have been invented at all. You being a parasite isn’t virtuous. Your philosophy would have us still using stone tools today. See that's the cause where anology fails. An average person who came across a snake doesn't need to know how anti-venom works... all he or she needs to know is to stay clear of the snake so they won't get bitten ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 03:34 PM
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If terps were just teaching common sense, I'd applaud them for it. Some of the advice isn't bad - improve yourself, be physically active, have interests, work out your boundaries and stick to them. It's part of the filtering processes. Honestly that's all I took from RP. But that's not all they're teaching. I'll probably need examples The shit about "female nature" is absolutely bonkers. It's derranged gender-astrology masquerading as science. I agree from a certain extend and a lot of it is jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:58 PM
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All turds from the same cesspit, my man. I won't classific 2xx, witchesvspatriachy, and FDS the same eventhough I disagree with their views. Maybe you should heed your own advice and try to understand instead of skipping nuiance to arive to a conclusion. There's nothing inherently RP about this. I wish terps wouldn't lay claim to common sense like it's some deep, dark well of forbidden knowledge. 1) RP are for this generation of young male who lacks a father figure to teach them things... like c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:40 PM
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Because if you dont understand WHY you shouldnt mess with some dangerous thing like snake venom, you wouldn’t be able to creatively invent antivenom I think we already established that the conclusion is already correct. aka the snake venom is already invented. A lack of understanding of the world around you and fundamentally how it operates means you are less creative, intelligent and less suited to survive and thrive. Understanding your body helps you identify issues of health, understanding bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:34 PM
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I think you are mixing things up between PUA, Terps, and RP. Also While i agree with you that PUA and even RP does have stuff that doesn't work. It's part of the filtering processes to learn about the dating scene and even how to process any facts an information you learn in life. You test it out (hypothesis testing) and if it doesn't work, then you know it's false. The end result is that you go and talk to women. Do it enough times, and you'll get better at it. That's the positive end result. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:26 PM
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How does it make your life worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:06 PM
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Why should we care about if the reasons is right or not when the conclusion is right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:52 AM
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The importance of male looks shouldn't be a topic of controversy, but the implication is. Anything that makes women look back would be considered controversial. i.e. Women want attractive guys, but it's not okay to say that women prefere good looking guys because it'll make them look shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:58 PM
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/r/instagramreality will be your sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:16 PM
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There's an old parable where a young men tries to change the world, he realized he can't change the world so he set out to change his country. Then he grew to middle age and realized he can't change his country so he tries to change his family (wife and kids). Finally he's old and he can't change his kids or wife and realized that the only thing he can change is himself. Criticize RP all you like, but the difference between RP and the rest is that it advocate for personal changes... whether its …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 03:23 PM
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Just world fallacy. Nothing in this world is "fair"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:21 AM
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lol Actual Chivalry is invented as a way for medieval upper class people to not kill each other and their families as a way to stablilize the society's social structure. Chivalry restricts people of status from being dicks to each other, but the same curtasy isn't being shown to people of the lower class and these nobles and knight can treat the peasants like shit. Therefore the idea of Chivalry as you are presenting it as isn't dead... it never existed in the first place. Or if you must strictl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:28 PM
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the problems of the abortion issue here is that females are getting rights that males do not have and feminist are demonstrating double standards when they are supposed to be all about equality. i.e: Abortion rights are granted from the Roe v Wade case under the rights granted under the constitution that pregnancy would affect the lives of females and they should have quality of life. However the same argue could be applied to child support and fathers don't have the option to either biologicall…
/r/AntiFeminists08/08/22 02:54 PM
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The emergence of the manosphere is probably the single best thing to happen for young men today. It's helping men become the type of men that women want to date. As an aside, despite this silly narrative that RP influencers are just taking advantage of young men to scam money out of them: virtually all RP content is available for free. On websites, subreddits, YT channels ect... Forget dating. Young men today needs help regarding their mental health and role models in their lives so they can ach…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:11 PM
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got'em!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:16 PM
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The context behind "pick better men" stems from ppl (not just women) staying in not just bad but abusive relationship. Sure ppl who stayed in abusive relationships are victims but they need to help themselves to leave a bad relationship as well. The problem of current society is too much victimhood mentslity and not enough accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:37 AM
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I think you are preaching to the choir here.. I'm not telling people to chase either and we agreed on that point. I'm giving you an alternative to chasing which is something you haven't included in your point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:08 PM
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Why should you want anyone to buy into you? You don't need anyone's approval or acceptance. in that case you shouldn't want to be in a relationship either... imagine being in a relationship with someone but there's no approval/acceptance from their end. If you happen to find someone whose approval you want and they give it to you, you're now basically a slave because you're dependent on their approval. That's objectively weak. It's actually okay to be vunerable and weak at times to people you lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 04:38 PM
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You are a product if you want others to buy into you and invest in you. The only unconditional love is between a parent and their child.. and that's only sometimes lol. If you want to attract a mate you'll need others to see value within you. You don't have to do anything. You don't need to "increase" your value. All that stuff is nonsense meant to keep you limited. You do you, but imagine being placed on this earth and telling yourself that you don't need to improve in any aspect of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:47 PM
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You can understand it better but view it in a different line if you read the book "blue ocean stragety"... marketing is either push or pull, and you can sell your product by copying others and lower cost (red ocean), or make a valuable unique product that others can't copy (blue ocean). Obviously you'll have a much easier time if your product is unique and valuable and can't be easily replicated by others. Globalization just magnifiy this problem because previously you can still have local monop…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:25 PM
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On that point. It has been my experience that when feminist say its not about you; its the patriarchy ... it just means that they want all women to be elevated to the too 10% of men.
/r/MensRights31/07/22 07:07 AM
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if your standards are low enough you can get anything lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:28 AM
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How about this one then? https://fortune.com/2022/03/25/more-adults-living-with-parents-than-ever-pew-research-pandemic-covid-great-depression/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:37 PM
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"When it comes to home ownership, the most populous generation is also the one that trails older generations, with some 47.9 percent owning homes in 2020, vs. gen-X home ownership enjoying an ownership rate of 69 percent, baby boomers, 77.8 percent and the silent generation, 77.8 percent, according to the Census Bureau. In fact, home ownership has been on a diminishing path with each successive generation." https://www.forbes.com/sites/nigelwilson/2021/08/18/us-millennials-home-ownership-and-the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:35 PM
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The average millennial is still living with their parents but women expects men who's dating them should at lesst have their own place. Right or not that should tell you something about women's standards about men in this date and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:47 AM
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It's the reverse: people believe that attractive men treats women like crap because these attractive men are "players" and uses their attractiveness to play the field. In realty there's a lot of nuiance and false preception. What's actually happening is that attractive men have more options and therefore 1) holds more power and sway in the relationship... which equates to treating women worse then these "Queens" deserve and 2) a bit of survivalship bias in which more attractive men who wants to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:48 AM
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"Men needs money to date women" okay "Women would only date men who has money" That's sexist! Only an incel would think like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:43 PM
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The danger here is that certain crazy ppl who wants only to favor their narriative can twist your words into what they are not. Using your own examples here: saying the generation of kids lacks parental care because both parents are working can easily be turned into "women shouldn't work because their brains are smaller" or how men usually prefere women with low end count can be interpreted as "virginas gets wider the more dicks they take in".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:10 PM
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1) You'll have to make the assumption that the comment are made by male. 2) I'll have to agree that that maybe "some" male would replied yes. There are also "some" male that replied no. Again "male" is not a homogeneous collective. I'm sure there are toxic male just like there's toxic female. So what's your point? 3) What are you going on about? What else do you need clarified?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:00 PM
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Not my fault you became shrill because you misinterpreted what was meant by “inherently conditional.” It is because you are the one posing the question, and the onest is on you to be clear and concise. This feels like the person who waxed poetic about women tone policing TRP, tone policing this OP. This is coming from a person who think a male advice to another male is dictating the behaviour of women. It’s a clear question. If you’re a man who doesn’t do it, it doesn’t apply to you. That sounds…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:48 PM
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let's try this again and say put that in prespective if you meant toxic men in the context of the question: "When toxic men complain about women dating Chad and marrying BoB, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner?" 1) that's a pretty loaded question https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loaded_question 2) But for the sake of argument I'll allow it... but first your statement became less controvosal because you can assume the worse of toxic men simply because negative behaviour is given. If that's the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:40 PM
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If you say men and "INHERENTLY conditional" to mean "toxic men" you should seek help immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:28 PM
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I’m talking about the men who in fact do complain as such. Your title says "When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner" I think you should take an real objective view about what you yourself wrote... did you specify that it's "Toxic men"? or did you just say "men" because when you just say "men" it's easily to arrive to a conclusion that it meant "all men".... Many of them would answer “yes” to this OP. Similar to above advice: read objecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:23 PM
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I think you are terribly mistake and it is not my intent to counter you. I'm here to answer your question and clarify things from a male prespective, and that is the statement you quote isn't even suppose to be toxic. One of the biggest flaw of any debate is that you assume those who argument against you as openly hostile to you when they are just hostile to the idea you pose... and one should seperate argument/ideas from the self. Toxic people from all age, gender, and segment of society exist,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:15 PM
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But I suppose your point is “the men who are wise deserve it all” or something like that? Lol Not at all what I meant. If anything, if women are dating Chad and marrying Bob... then no men can "deserve it all". I also find that only certain segments of men visit this sub, the segment that face dating struggles in their lives and are themselves are seeking answers to the similar questions that you poses. Toxic behaviours coming from the female side definately doesn't help with the issue and small…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:02 PM
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For the sake of argument and to give you the full benefit of the doubt, i'll clarify what i said origionally: when men complain about women dating chad and marrying Bob... It's not a complain... just like most male advice, they are descriptive and not prescriptive. Men usually just tell thing as it is and let others arrive at their own conclusion... and let them act based on their conclusion. ... is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner? The advice is for a men to a man and not directed at a women…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:55 PM
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But any man at 33 still confused about the basics of what makes a man arousing to women and cool to other men is not going to be Chad without a total overhaul. Aka highly unlikely. That's the funny thing about this quote; men from different ages will interprete it differently. After all "men" isn't a homogeous collective. Older men can read it as some sort of self-comforting statement saying that a women would marry you even if she lost her virginity to another men. I think the problem you are h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:45 PM
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Its not a complaint its a description of what is happening. We are not telling women what to do but warning men what women does and react to it. I.e. in this case we are telling men to not be bob but be chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:30 PM
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wonder if we should add this one: Statutory rape victim forced to pay child support https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/09/02/statutory-rape-victim-child-support/14953965/
/r/MensRights08/07/22 09:42 PM
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The implication here is that there's contradiction between how the left and feminist treat issues with society: The left wants gender equality and want to say the genders are the same. However the genders are different and there's implications when it's different. For example 1) Trans-athletes who transitioned from male to female are dominating female sports and now the left are in conflict. If females can perform at the same rate as male (the rationale for equal treatment for women's sports : w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:47 PM
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if you want to treat commitment as a contract then you'll want something to get something. The thing is, contracts are structured differently and the terms could be different from one contract to another. So on a personal level, if you want financial provision, protection, and in exchange can provide cooking/cleaning/nurturing, then go for it and see if there's anyone who'll agree to the terms. Not everyone would find the terms of the contract reasonable or fair, nor would everyone be able to fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:24 PM
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If we want to play the same game as the feminist are playing we'll need to follow the same stragety. Unfortunately we are decades behind that. Feminist first build sympathy for their causes, and then harness those sympathy into political movement, and then in turn use their political capital to change the minds for people in politics (democracts), acedemia(social science) and social (hollywood). The men's right movement haven't even achieved step one and garner no sympathy for the general public…
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:34 PM
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Think we need a mega thread that's dedicated to document stuff like this so in the future when feminist comes around and ask "when did women say 'Kill all men'" we can show them examples and such.
/r/MensRights29/06/22 06:59 PM
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This topic have a lot of nuiance and require some knowledge of american law to truely understand. The origional Roe vs Wade ruling was shaky at best, because the American Constitution - Fourteenth Amendment to the United States Constitution covering The Due Process Clause prohibits state and local governments from depriving persons of life, liberty, or property without a fair procedure... and the clause for Due Process provides a fundamental "right to privacy", which protects a pregnant woman's …
/r/MensRights24/06/22 08:44 PM
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Lol since when did trp ever told women how to behave? Quality shit post here 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:13 PM
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Just imagine asking masculine women to be more feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:08 AM
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The problem here is that certain ppl would be convinced that just because its printed by the guardian... then it must be news and it must be the unbias truth. Had someone arguing with me and when i ask for source he used an opinion piece lol.
/r/MensRights23/05/22 01:50 PM
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Dating app is like dumpster diving for food like a hobo; cold approach is like trying to hunt for food in a forest. Either way there's no preference as long as you get fed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 04:23 PM
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Redpill address those issues better then bluepill thou.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 11:42 AM
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The concept exist, and therefore it exist as a concept. The Question should be: do you believe that the idea of love (as presented in music, movies, Psalms, Shakespeare) exist to the general population? And the Answer is also a surprising yes because for these ideas to be popularized, the general population just have experienced it or at least emphasizes with it at once in their life time. Now the REAL question here is... does the idea of love, again as presented in music, movies, Psalms, Shakes…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 02:13 PM
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If you are average looking, have a decent job, have goals in life, have decent social skills and you dress well. You have a very good pack to start with. The average young male doesn't have average looks, decent jobs, goals in life, and social skills even into their 30s. It may seem extremely hard if you are playing the game wrong, cold approaching on the streets is not the way to play the game, you will just get rejected 99 times out of 100. Today's dating scene is mostly through Online dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 12:59 PM
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but women cannot know any better... they cannot study every option possible as their pool is so great. They do not have superpowers so they pick the obvious. Men would do the same if they could. misogynistic comment for thinking that women can't make any decision or have agency for their decisions. As men we complain we cannot get dates, but precisely that is why so many men use manipulation and dishonest tactics to get women, and that takes a toll on them. True Incel comment right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 03:25 PM
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Practice makes perfect... practicing making lots of platonic friends with women will make you very good at making platonic friends with women. The idea of have female friends is 1) social proofing and 2) gaining female perspective. and 3) learning social interactions with females. So the idea of "making lots of platonic friends with women" isn't completely useless. Also having a larger social circle generally helps you in the dating scene to begin with. As with another other dating advice, it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:48 PM
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Nice quick edit there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:34 PM
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Citation needed. at least cite the examples from recent post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:33 PM
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it's more likely you'll get perma banned from reddit by breaking TOS. Saying that to male won't get you into trouble thou because men are not protected from the same clause in the TOS
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:31 PM
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Dudes just gotta stop being so soft about everything see that's a classic example of toxic masculinity right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:30 PM
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do it on such subs as twoXX, feminism, menlib or even all and see what happenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:20 PM
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I agree. Modern feminism and leftist slogans wouldn't exist if most people apply that principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:11 PM
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What we are looking for is logical consistencies here. You can get offended by AWALT but can't turned around and say "men are trash".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:09 PM
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I really can’t understand why other dudes can’t brush off “men are trash” or anything adjacent, it’s so easy to go on about your day knowing women aren’t taking about YOU when it comes to these things Imagine the statement "women are trash" and then defending it by saying that they weren't talking about them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:01 PM
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I was bitter but still managed to find love. Redpill helps me put things into perspective and understand women better, and that I'll need to improve myself to fare better in today's dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:53 PM
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Should also try to look at /r/menlib
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 12:29 PM
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if the technology that cures breast cancer can be applied to skin cancer, then yes it will be included in the discussion. In this cause the advice can be applied to both genders and not exclusive to one gender only. Please pay attention to what's actually being discussed before replying thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:52 PM
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FDS is a classic example that disageee with your basic assumption thst women are more content then men to be forever alone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 01:07 PM
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Most women engage in casual sex. certain amount of women engage in casual sex. For the redpill the target is finding and getting casual sex from these women, and therefore their philosophies are catered to these women. Women settle for a less attractive man as the hottest man can't marry all the women he slept with. Women's mating stragety changes when, for whatever reason, they decided they need to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:59 PM
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reddit has policies against incel subs thou? so why is a sub full of female incels not getting banned like the rest of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:31 PM
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That advice applies to bother genders thou.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 08:30 PM
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So what? Do you think the answer op asked is bias in any way shape or form?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 11:58 AM
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Consider yourself as a product: the clothes and your apperance is the packaging, the car is the accessory, social proofing is the product review on google, and your personality is ultimately the quality of the actual product. Personality is important just as the quality of the product is important, but if the product doesn't een catches your eye then you won't even consider purchasing the product in the first place. If you are in the marketplace, then every aspect of your product is important an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:24 PM
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