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| 3 | Are the majority of men's problems also caused by men in the first place?It's true, but ultimately, it's women who punish men for not being/acting masculine the most. And mostly it's not even intentional, men simply realize how much female attraction towards them drops when they exhibit unmasculine behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/20 03:50 PM |
| 5 | The implications of what this subreddit says are very scaryA lot of US scientists are imported though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/20 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Modern Dating is a Problem of Systemsthink the posts about women being incapable of loving men and loving bullies are contributing more to their bitterness and misery than the plate shit. You're getting too hung up on terminology here. If you still define "having to check a huge list of traits and getting dumped as soon as you start dipping in any of these" as being "loved", then so be it. But I don't think it's unreasonable to consider such an arrangement exactly that - an arrangement. This goes both ways, it works the same for me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/20 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Men, what do you want women to do?Lol cheers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Why do men with options even get into relationships?Because you don't get to the point of being able to share life experiences and bond unless you bring enough to the table. And even if you do get to that "transcendental" point, you must never forget that the basis of all that is still completely transactional. If you lose a lot of value, those "experiences" won't mean shit and your ass will get dumped all the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 11:00 AM |
| 0 | Men, what do you want women to do?From my limited time here, you never debate in good faith. As soon as you run out of arguments, your comments devolve into insults or shaming. Or you spice up otherwise valid arguments with that shit preemptively. I basically never saw a comment of yours without at least a little bit of ad hominem thrown in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/20 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Dating in a politically polarized worldMaybe in cities. But living somewhere on a mountain, with some animals, growing vegetables and shit? That's actually really alluring to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/20 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (09 February 2020)There's nothing I hate seeing more than RP stuff playing out before my eyes. Each time that stuff gets empirically confirmed, I die a little inside. Well, guess I got sex so there's that at least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/20 02:29 PM |
| 2 | How are women supposed to appreciate male attention when it’s so cheap?I don't think most of these dudes "expect" women to be cool with it. There's literally no way to know without them actually trying . And I bet most of them are really measured and cool in their approach and (lots of) rejections. But to insist that it's "disgusting" and "insulting" because Tumbleweed personally doesn't find that kind of people attractive is just... laughable. It's solipsism of the worst kind. I'd even say it's sad that people who dismiss rationality completely in favor of muh fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 12:50 PM |
| 33 | How are women supposed to appreciate male attention when it’s so cheap?I personally know more than a couple of (then) 19 year olds who were bagged and tagged by 40+ geezers, stop pretending like that kind of thing doesn't happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Is misogyny just nature?Of course women shun weak men. How can that even be a point of contention for you? This is what people mean when they say terps are just simps with extra steps. News flash, literally everybody has something happen in their lives that renders them weak sometimes, to be weak sometimes is HUMAN. Of course men in their anger phase will be angry at women for literally dehumanizing them. They'll get over it though and once they realize it's deeply rooted in female biology, they'll simply start looking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 08:34 PM |
| 18 | Can we make flairs mandatory on this sub?You can read the content of the posts, why does the flair matter? If anything people NOT having flairs is better, since it's less likely for readers to agree with or dismiss the content based on which "clan" someone belongs to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 02:59 PM |
| 9 | Most men are simply too shy, but women wouldn't be any more confident if they were in their placeEvery woman I've been intimate with, I wasn't even interested in to begin with This is exactly why you were able to escalate with those women. Attachment of any sort is nothing but a liability for men UNTIL you have already done the dance and got sex and amassed enough masculinity tokens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 12:09 PM |
| 19 | Most men are simply too shy, but women wouldn't be any more confident if they were in their placeIf you keep approaching without building frame and learning how to play your hand you'd just end up with infinite consecutive rejections. Unless you think that just by approaching with 0 skills would actually net you something tangible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 12:04 PM |
| 5 | Why dont guys fall in love with girls as easily?Atlas' masculinity tokens. Men have to earn the right to be vulnerable by being masculine first. If they start off showing vulnerability it would trigger nothing but disgust in the potential female partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 11:57 AM |
| 2 | A much older yet influential critique of TRP on a different sub. Thoughts?Fair enough. Agree to disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 10:18 PM |
| 5 | A much older yet influential critique of TRP on a different sub. Thoughts?I'm sorry, but in an overwhelming number of cases this is just wishful thinking. If male and female sexual strategies and desires weren't at odds, this sub wouldn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | A much older yet influential critique of TRP on a different sub. Thoughts?Yes, but sexual strategies and rules of attraction exist whether people are consciously aware of them or not. And even if they are, they can't just will it out of existence - sure they might try to settle, but they can't really control their desires, they can only choose whether they'll act on them or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | A much older yet influential critique of TRP on a different sub. Thoughts?It's unfair that men suffer from sexual strategy... This sentence directly contradicts what you just wrote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 09:04 PM |
| 20 | A much older yet influential critique of TRP on a different sub. Thoughts?So he admits that it's basically a zero sum game... And his advice is to stay on the losing end? For whose sake? His entire post is just pedestalizing women, as if their well being is more important than that of men, hence men shouldn't use TRP methodologies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 07:30 PM |
| 4 | What Entails "Being Settled For"? What Criteria "Should" Women Enter LTRs With?Because love IS fundamentally transactional. There's a certain set of traits that men and women absolutely must fulfill in order to "qualify" for being loved. The only people who can "be loved for who they are" are those that naturally possess these traits. For them, the blue pill is reality. The rest can either try to act like that or forget about "love" and move on to different things in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 12:26 PM |
| 1 | If a woman is rejected by an attractive male, she becomes more bitter towards an accepting male who is unattractive or of low status.If you're talking about lack of exposure to various beauty archetypes, that may have been a thing in the past. But today everyone in the developed world has access to the internet and most people travel and meet various people of different races, types etc. And yet, standards of beauty for most people tend to gravitate to the same traits again and again, and it seems to be consistent across countries and cultures. So while there may be a tinge of subjectiveness in perceived attractiveness in peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 11 | If a woman is rejected by an attractive male, she becomes more bitter towards an accepting male who is unattractive or of low status.Beauty is subjective How the hell can people keep believing this when OLD has been a thing for more than a decade now and so much data that disproves this is available is beyond me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 10:31 AM |
| 12 | [Q4Men] Men who are not conventionally attractive, has dating gotten easier as you entered your 30s vs your 20s? What have you noticed?Stop discrediting yourself with calling anything you don't agree with "incel shit". People will stop talking you seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/19 11:53 AM |
| -1 | Why do Boomers and Gen X men honestly think Millennial and Gen Z women want to date them? The “Ok Boomer” meme came about because we literally can’t stand you.He said date, not pump | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Men who suffer from Depression or other ongoing mental health problems, how are your experiences with relationships and dating?I want to know if I’m just a victim of selective bias and an unfortunate string of destructive relationships You are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/19 11:42 AM |
| 9 | Why are both men and women so insecure nowadays?More like people are afraid others wouldn't accept their mediocrity. Which is true, everyone is reaching for the moon even if they're well aware of their own numerous deficits. I believe this is the product of people being more aware than ever of just how much better some other people's lives are, simply by having more insight into lives of a lot more people than it used to be before the age of internet. Everyone keeps saying that social media is bad because it gives a "false sense" of other peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 10:08 PM |
| 12 | are women uninteresting?I agree with this in general but I also wanna add that, in my experience, it's not so much that pretty women don't have personalities, it's just they tend to drown it out on purpose and act as neutrally "feminine" as possible. It's a form of optimization; why risk saying something "wrong" or stupid when you can just present a neutral, bland, undefined personality and let your looks do all the talking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Is being a beta provider an honorable endeavor?Sharing your life with someone you care about is pretty rewarding. Insofar as the illusion of her "loving him" persists. Apart from that, I guess also if the dude is a masochist. But other than that, please explain how being a walking ATM is rewarding in any capacity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/19 01:14 AM |
| 25 | Men consistently overestimate things across multiple subjects and dimensions.Women select realistic, anxious, insecure, down to earth men out of the dating pool. These results are only consistent with that. Men are really not allowed to be any of these things (unless they're viscerally attractive) if they have any hope to attain any kind of success in the mating game, so I don't see what's the really big surprise here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/19 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Do guys really struggle finding girls for either sex or LTR in real life?"Self improvement" is such a loaded term, because on these kind of boards it just means "acting in a manner and doing things which are more attractive to women". TRP encourages yourself to play the dating game to win and it optimizes your behavior for better effectiveness at what the game throws at you Yes, at the cost of having to change and act out your persona if your natural one doesn't cut it. Were you really expecting different results while not changing yourself?. He never said that. He a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 10:09 AM |
| 7 | How do you think the opposite gender should approach dating?The problem with this is that for a lot of men, their vision of their "best selves" is misaligned with what makes males attractive to women. This has been a cause of major mental friction for me until I finally realized that the win scenario just doesn't exist for me. Nowadays I've just accepted reality as it is and opted out of the game almost completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 12:00 PM |
| 11 | Can someone explain this dichotomy to me?This is argued to death in this sub and the concensus is always this: consistency. Men usually have no problems whatsoever "waiting" for a woman who doesn't wanna give it up straight away. Some men even prefer to wait a bit themselves so that the connection between them can be fleshed out a bit more. Trouble is, women who perceive a potential partner as being of substantially high value start firing on all cylinders to try and attract (and keep) the guy. So they sleep with the guy straight away … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 10:23 AM |
| 3 | Do you think we wanted the red pill to be true?... as long as the man stays viscerally attractive. Which just loops us back to the original point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What do you think is holding most men back from being Chad?Depends on how much money they make. Once hookers are legalized in most parts of the developed world, this will be even less of an issue (they already exist everywhere, but it's riskier and more expensive since it's illegal) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: What do you think is holding most men back from being Chad?Like please...go lift already. I almost want to drag them into a gym. If I have to lift then I'm just paying for the woman with extra steps. 6-7/10 women don't put in nearly the amount of effort into "bettering" themselves, they just are. So if the options are either to change my lifestyle so drastically, or to just pay 7/10 hookers, the latter option is probably the cheaper one ironically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/19 10:54 PM |
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