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Reddreng/r/askMRP08/11/19 10:01 PM
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Thanks man. I’ve only been using my calendar for work. But you’re right, definitely need to start using it for personal stuff. I’ve got some time set aside during the holidays (mandatory vacation days mean a solid 1.5 weeks off), where I really want to iron out my scheduling and task management. Will for sure schedule in some of the bigger ticket personal stuff into the calendar. Ends up stacking up at the end of the week as it is now, which then gets in the way of other goals and stuff I want t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 07:19 PM
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That’s what I’m doing. Keep it in my bag, keep it fairly clean. I’ve seen other guys using it at this gym and the staff don’t seem to mind. But yeah, no point in pushing them to start. Fun chalk story: used to climb at a rock gym a bit in college, left a clear ziplock baggie of chalk (loose) at the dining hall by accident once. Friends later told me the cops came, were looking at it, all excited, asking questions to people nearby. Lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 07:14 PM
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I want to get my deadlift up. Just where my goal is right now. I’ve gotten the squat higher before, up to 335 for a set of 5. But I’d much rather focus on my deadlift right now. I don’t want to backtrack or lose out in the general work volume I get from squatting. But low bar squats and deadlifts definitely work similar muscles and I don’t want anything to take too much away from my deadlift at the moment. I can only deadlift so much so often, don’t want to ruin my heavy day because I squatted n…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 07:07 PM
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OYS#6 Stats: 27 yrs, 6'1", 196.0 lbs, ~14.8% BF (per bathroom scale for tracking purposes) Weights below are current working weights x reps x sets Squat: 315 x 5 x 3 Deadlift: 360 x 3 x 2 Bench: 225 x 5, 4, 4 Press: 150 x 3 x 3 Weighted Chins: 70 x 5, 4, 3 Wife 26 yrs, son 7mo. Married 3 yrs, together 9 yrs. Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, RM, BoP, Poon, 48LoP, SGM Reading: NMMNG Physical: Lifting is going fine. All the easy back to where I was before gains are gone. So now it's a fight for reps, w…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/19 07:00 PM
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OYS#5 Stats: 27 yrs, 6'1", 195.8 lbs, ~14.8% BF (per bathroom scale for tracking purposes) Weights below are current working weights x reps x sets Squat: 315 x 5 x 3 Deadlift: 355 x 5 Bench: 220 x 5 x 3 Press: 155 x 5 x 3 Weighted Chins: 67.5 x 5 x 3 Wife 26 yrs, son 7mo. Married 3 yrs, together 9 yrs. Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, RM, BoP, Poon, 48LoP, SGM Reading: NMMNG Lifting: Getting pretty close to 365x5 for deadlift, which has been a goal for awhile (throwing on new 45 or 25lb plates is al…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/19 05:01 AM
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OYS#4 Stats: 27 yrs, 6'1", 194.4 lbs, ~14.5% BF (per bathroom scale for tracking purposes) Weights below are current working weights x reps x sets Squat: 315 x 5 x 3 Deadlift: 355 x 5 Bench: 215 x 5 x 3 Press: 155 x 5 x 3 Weighted Chins: 62.5 x 5 x 3 Wife 26 yrs, son 6mo. Married 3 yrs, together 9 yrs. Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, RM, BoP, Poon, 48LoP, SGM Reading: NMMNG Lifting: No real updates here. Weight's slowly going up - both on the bar and myself. I am now back in PR territory for 5RM on…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 05:46 AM
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OYS#3 Stats: 27 yrs, 6'1", 193.6 lbs, ~14.4% BF (per bathroom scale for tracking purposes) Weights below are current working weights x reps x sets Squat: 315 x 5 x 3 Deadlift: 350 x 5 Bench: 215 x 5 x 3 Press: 145 x 5 x 3 Weighted Chins: 60 x 5 x 3 Wife 26 yrs, son 6mo. Married 3 yrs, together 9 yrs. Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, RM, BoP, Poon, 48LoP, SGM Reading: NMMNG Lifting: Slowly getting back to pre-trip weights. Made the full 350 deadlift set and 145 press sets that I missed last week. Hol…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/19 03:52 AM
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I like it. Thanks for the idea. At the very least if you’re going to host people over for a dinner, should make a little speech thanking everyone for coming, bringing food, etc. If you have one couple over you say thanks for coming, if it’s a larger gathering maybe a small announcement, even larger or a specific event maybe a mini-speech. Makes sense. Your suggestion is obviously much more involved, and depends on the setting, group of people, and other factors whether it fits and is authentic. …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/19 05:35 PM
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Thanks for the input! Before MRP, my wife had come to expect immediate apologies anytime I upset her. It was always me apologizing, always me going to her to try and fix things, etc. I now realize what that did to our relationship and understand why I was doing that. Seeking her validation, self worth tied up in her approval, etc. After a few major shit tests and a mini main event described in my first OYS history section, I no longer apologize at the drop of a hat. And she no longer expects one…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 11:38 PM
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OYS#2 Stats: 27 yrs, 6'1", 193.6 lbs, ~14.3% BF (per bathroom scale for tracking purposes) Weights below are weight x reps x sets Squat: 315 x 5 x 3 Deadlift: 350 x 4,2 Bench: 210 x 5 x 3 Press: 145 x 5,5,4 Weighted Chins: 55 x 5 x 3 Wife 26 yrs, son 6mo. Married 3 yrs, together 9 yrs. Read: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, RM, BoP, Poon, 48LoP, SGM Reading: NMMNG Lifting: Missed a lift day in order to emergency pick up and install a new dishwasher. Hand washing every dish just wasn't going to be worth it…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 10:21 PM
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My wife used to have the same "problem". Let me guess... "It hurts. I don't have a libido. It's not your fault. I do find you attractive. I love you. Last time we had sex it hurt. We have to stop. Would you like a duty bj instead? My vagina is broken. I don't get anything out of it. Just hurry up." All of that sound familiar? Yeah, ha sounds like you’ve been creeping in my bedroom over the past few years. Hurts the ego like nothing else. Just never sure how to approach it. Guess it’s been easier…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/19 04:16 AM
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Addicted to thinking... damn. Describes it well. Aright, will keep it simple then. Appreciate the guidance on rebuilding self-trust too.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/19 02:57 AM
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OYS#1 After a kick in the dick from u/EasyDaysHardNights over in r/AskMRP, I'm done lurking and hiding. Will include a little history for each section to more accurately portray my MRP journey up to this point. Stats: 27 yrs, 6'1", 192.4 lbs, ~14.2% BF (per bathroom scale for tracking purposes, periodically check with bodyfat calipers, last time was between 12.7-14.6%) Weights below are weight x reps x sets Lift: Current (PRs) Squat: 305x5x3 (340x5) Deadlift: 340x5 (355x5) Bench: 210x5x3 (230x5x…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 06:46 PM
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Eh, nice to know I’m not alone. I’ll be seeing you in OYS as well.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 05:48 PM
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Thanks for your thoughts. Ha and glad you’re getting something out of this.
/r/askMRP11/11/19 05:41 PM
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Damn, that got my heart rate up... I can’t deny any of what you said. Appreciate the time and response. Definitely been lurking for awhile. Married my high school sweetheart after college (blue pill to the max), sex became drip-feed, she had surgeries for endometriosis which tightened the sex down to mere drops. Kept telling myself things would get better. Went through a phase of “if she could only change” then read Extreme Ownership and went through a phase of “It’s not her, I just need to try …
/r/askMRP11/11/19 05:39 PM
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