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The source of many of these issues lies in over-attachment to the ego. Cultivating compassion may help alleviate many of them.
/r/seduction05/01/16 03:02 PM
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I've thought about it more and spoken with some friends about it and I think you are right about the latter suggestion: build more comfort. I think my expectations for what I should want have been warped by reading too much pick up material. I have always been focusing on making the girl comfortable, making the girl horny, making the girl have fun. I think I need to consider my own emotions and desires more. Am I comfortable? I think in this case, I was not comfortable. I had barely spoken to th…
/r/seduction14/07/15 01:47 AM
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You are certainly right. When I meet a girl at a friend's party, I feel more comfortable taking them home. When I meet a girl at a club, I am far less comfortable. Maybe I just need to get to know a person a little more before sleeping with them.
/r/seduction13/07/15 08:33 AM
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You're face does not look at all lopsided to me. I agree with your therapist and friends. It's all in your head.
/r/seduction15/05/15 02:02 PM
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Hey I totally agree, and thank you for pointing out my poor wording. What I meant by "not fuck up" was, essentially; don't take offense, don't take the comment to heart; just have fun with it. I would explain in detail but so many others already have. Mark Manson says it much better than I do. Just know that I totally agree with you. I'll try to be more clear and a vapid ambiguous phrases next time. That quote is always a great reminder. Thanks!
/r/seduction23/01/15 05:51 PM
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Well said. This is the real solution to the problem. People can say whatever they want, you should not be fazed by a silly comment. Work on being less easily bothered.
/r/seduction06/01/15 01:58 PM
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This is not a very suitable analogy. In fact, I believe it is a negative and potentially harmful view. If we must use economic terms, I would say the analogy can be broken down as follows: We should not aim to create demand as this article seems to claim is beneficial. Rather, we are working on the product, ourselves. Don't think you can create a need in others. You are not needed but people will come willingly if you improve yourself, sell a better product.
/r/seduction30/12/14 01:17 AM
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That sounds pretty pathetic, and I'm very surprised it works.
/r/seduction08/12/14 03:43 PM
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Do you want your life to be dictated by your fears or by your own force of will? Develop your force of will through consistent exercise, meditation, and healthy eating; do things you love. A random girl will likely turn you down, but she is a random girl. It does not matter. I recently read a book called The Black Swan by Nicholas Taleb. The book discusses many things, but one key point is: how do we maximize random events in life that have positive impacts? Many random events are terrible: car …
/r/seduction23/10/14 04:14 AM
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My fear partially melted away from continuous practice of meditation. It still exists, but, with new reference experience, its force are grown weaker so that my willpower is now stronger than the fear. Do not try to suppress fear; do not expect it to disappear; rather, see it as a positive force. Let it drive you. Observe your fear as it comes, and then let it go. Realize that it is a real emotion that you are feeling, but do not let it dictate your actions. Do this enough times, and you will un…
/r/seduction23/10/14 04:06 AM
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Just tell her that she's cute, but you decided that you are not comfortable meeting up anymore. It's very understandable to say this; many people are not comfortable meeting with folk they meet online.
/r/seduction23/10/14 04:00 AM
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Good for you, man! Keep it up!
/r/seduction23/07/14 06:09 AM
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Read more, exercise more, watch TED talks, meditate, read the top posts, check out: r/fitness r/meditation r/getmotivated You will become more intelligent, more confident, happier, less outcome dependent if you do all these things. Good luck!
/r/seduction21/07/14 03:13 AM
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You should not be criticized for doing what you want. If your friends judge you and subsequently demean you for hooking up with a girl, they need to change their attitudes--not you. I suggest you try to change your view of the situation and realize that you did not do anything wrong. You had fun and did what you wanted. Also, did your friends have any more fun then you did that night (i.e. did they find girls)? If not, I think they may be lashing at you out of jealousy. Of course, I do not know …
/r/seduction14/08/13 04:09 AM
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I believe the other commenters are telling you that the effort required--due to your conflicting schedules--to connect with this particular girl makes it a waste of time. They are recommending you keep pursuing other women without focusing too much on this girl. Regarding your specific question, I believe infrequent amping of sexual tension works. Just make it so she becomes excited when she receives a text from you; make sure that responding to your texts doesn't seem to be a burden. In other w…
/r/seduction13/08/13 12:35 AM
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Note on dancing: After you placed her hands on your shoulders and danced that way for a minute, you could transition into a type of dance that resembles the form of a waltz. You have one hand on her waist and one in her hand. This makes going for the waist an easier transition because you are just being a goofball who decides to waltz. Kind of like in this video when he grabs her waist with one hand: http://vimeo.com/29041456
/r/seduction02/01/13 01:53 AM
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