RedertOfTheSeal Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-5	Help! My husband and I are at a complete gridlock as it relates to personal belonging boundaries. Andrew Tate and other TRP men pursue a certain type of woman (i.e., women who are dishonest, women who are into the club scene, women who cheat, women who post thirst traps on Insta, etc.) No. You basically feel negatively for the things that are said in a red pill context and you are now trying to paint it in a negative light. If you think about it what you are saying doesn't make much sense. No men want dishonest, promiscuous women who have revealing instas. Some men go for easy sex from "prom…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/22 03:20 PM
12	I can’t swallow the red pill The red pill tells me this is bullshit. The red pill doesn't mean a checklist of the lowest common denominator things agreed upon by guys in the plate spinning phase. It is simply the principle of being honest to yourself so you can achieve the correct outcomes. And in this context it would mean what is required of you to maintain a healthy relationship. It doesn't mean you want a relationship but some guy doesn't agree. It's about what you want. To me the idea of living according to someone els…	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/22 01:14 PM
6	Alpha Widow - Woman Divorces Tall, Handsome, Loyal, Successful Man for Alpha How does a man change and not be overly humble? There are no circus tricks. The foundation is changing the fabric of who you are. It took me 14 years in total, 7 of red pill and most of it during the recent years. You can know something but you don't just become it. Personality doesn't change instantly but it's a gradual process. And it's the wrong question. The goal is not to not be overly humble so you attract women. That is the wrong focus. The focus needs to be you and your life. How do you …	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/22 05:24 PM
43	Alpha Widow - Woman Divorces Tall, Handsome, Loyal, Successful Man for Alpha Was coming down though the country. Saw a really thick guy who probably does some strongman stuff and is just a specimen among men. Enough strength to be a fearsome opponent even if the doesn't know how to fight. Sitting with a barely average fattish chick. Heard him open his mouth once and he was so overly polite just got immediately bored with him and thought he's probably not very attractive to women. Another form of it is being overly rational never being in the moment. No emotional intellig…	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/22 04:45 PM
7	Okay, what if instead I turn the tables and ask her, “what are we”? Before she asks first? It's the role of a woman to be vulnerable. Someone has to be. If she isn't then you are. Relationship where the man won't work for opposite reasons that stem from the same reality. Being vulnerable as a man is a massive turn off. And if she isn't the one pining for a relationship it means she isn't putting in effort or commitment again which means a failed relationship. It really has to be the woman staking her claim and laying her chips and telling you I want you I need you what do I have to do…	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/22 09:52 AM
1	I'm going to start reading this shit every day. Thank you guys. Et cetera. The therapist never said shit, just mirrored what you actually said. That way, all the insights that came from the sessions were made by you, yourself, and that is what is therapeutic. That's actual healing. That is just one method but a therapist who can actually help solve your personality issues will have a lot to say on how to think and solve those problems. He's not just going to sit there and ask questions to mirror you. To be a therapist requires a capable above average IQ indi…	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/22 07:12 AM
1	I'm going to start reading this shit every day. Thank you guys. When I say therapy I mean seeking the source of your insecurity. Not medication. Most counselors are woman. Yes and there are also many men who aren't capable of helping with issues related to parenting and narcissism. I generally do agree that you should seek for a man who believes men and women are different with experience in dealing with your types of issues. What I'm saying is that traditional therapy isn't going to be beneficial unless you're a woman, child (under maybe 10 years old), or a…	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/22 07:10 AM
19	I'm going to start reading this shit every day. Thank you guys. So when you have actual trauma you need to deal with "I need to be a fucking man" is not the solution. You can get muscles and money but those will not fix the underlying foundational insecurities present in your psyche. Working out why you are insecure is very difficult. Requires actual effort in thinking of what molded you to be like this. And the usual is mother didn't love father was a door mat which is pretty close to what you desribed. Your personality doesn't change instantly but over tim…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/22 12:05 PM
1	How do I stop being in love with particular person If you are a loser with muscles, money, nice teeth, game, you are still a loser. Meaning even if you can swindle a girl to sleep with you you will still possess all the fundamental personality problems that make you a loser. Common patch work is gym but the problem obviously is you aren't fixing the most important. See a lot of big guys who don't have confidence. Girls are the motivation but they can't be the ultimate goal. That's how red pill start for the vast majority. But the end game is how…	/r/TheRedPill	21/02/22 01:06 PM
13	My Time In SOF And Why Being Dangerous Drives Women Crazy From the hypergamy perspective it's just winning the genetic lottery. 90% of guys who already have a military career and apply to selections fail. Just getting the green light for trying selection makes you a top 5% in terms of capability as a man. So in terms of numbers it's not even 1% it's less.	/r/TheRedPill	22/01/22 11:08 PM