Redguru3 Archive

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1	Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not There You're right about the first part, I don't want an ordinary woman physically or otherwise. Little girls want comfort in life, women want a family and a man to follow. What seperates the quality women from the mid ones is almost entirely their mental framework, trash people expect to take and never give.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 03:45 PM
0	The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideology I’ve seen attractive men losing their chances because of their personality. I typically get grouped in with guys who could or actually were models. i'm attractive but I don't have those looks (female equivalent would be the attractive girl-next-door vs a "baddie). After about 2-3 days, all the women prefer me because those model-looking guys are never all that masculine, while I am. Of the most important masculine traits being stoicism and emotional balance. I may not be maxed out attribute-wise…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 03:44 AM
4	Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not There the threshold for men is high, but once you clear it, there are plenty of loving, appreciative, good looking women out there. Don't underestimate how much of an effect being fit, masculine, and social can have on your dating life. Well that's a whole other topic. Anybody can get it, the hard part is keeping it. She'll love you when you're on top, but it's when (not if) life knocks you down a peg or two that a lot of unfortunate brothers find out where their friends and women actually stand. Pers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/25 01:13 AM
2	Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not There If you can have a conversation with attractive women without being weird, you're like 3/5ths of the way there. hooking up/dating becomes very easy when you as a man are not phased by sexual tension.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 09:34 PM
5	Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not There People say this because there are plenty of unattractive men dating... unattractive women. So, if one dude who is objectively unattractive is dating and another is not, what would be the deciding factor? Tbh what these redpill circles don't tell you is that 99% of this stuff doesn't apply to the average male. Truth is your 2's and 3's have a much easier time dating and getting married than anyone else if they don't fall into self-pity and develop anti social habits. I also think the quality of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 09:30 PM
6	Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not There The real problem is a lack of decent women tbh. Our standards as men are so astronomically low in this country compared to other places. If she's not: fat, obviously mentally ill, and can at least feign an agreeable/pleasant personality she's roughly in the top 30% of women here. What used to be known as "the girl next door" type is inaccessible to the average man, and even if you're above average or exceptional, what these women want is money. Men is just a means of getting it. So why would a "…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 09:20 PM
1	Is Everything Is Being Needlessly Overcomplicated? The actual sexual revolution took place nearly 2k years ago when early christians began strictly enforcing monogamy. People today take for granted the revolutionary effect the New Testament had on western civilization and the structure of society. Monogamy as a universal practice made society much less violent, more cooperative (especially between men), and stable. Without having to worry as much about attracting wives to create families and policing said women, men could focus more on large sca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 12:59 PM
2	How Men Could Become Lustless and Emotionally Free from Women, Without Losing Their Drive IDK why it matters how much it costs. It's an option if they want it so badly Because most people don't have +$100k sitting around to make a baby, and the ones that do have no issues attracting women? Single parenthood is not something to be proud of. Most cultures find it extremely weird or incomprehensible anyone would want to have a child by themself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 12:45 AM
1	Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on? Women do approach/initiate. However they're very risk adverse, and only do so if they think they have a high chance. Personally, I've found that women don't approach me unless they're a 7/10 or higher. Typically that means they've always been the most attractive one in the room or their circles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 12:41 AM
-1	Women, how would you feel about a guy who told you he is inexperienced and wants to take things slow? Which in turn is again something that women will advise you not to do, because they think things should "just happen" in life if they're meant to. Women who think "things just happen" just choose to ignore all the work a man did to pursue them. Ironically, women are very intentional in how they interact with men. A man and woman could be locked in a 1000x800 house, and that man will never see her if chooses to avoid him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 12:35 AM
2	How Men Could Become Lustless and Emotionally Free from Women, Without Losing Their Drive Surrogacy is illegal in most countries. Out of like the 4-5 countries where it is legal or at least not criminalized, the US is prohibitively expensive. So now you have Ukraine, Russia, Columbia, and I think Mexico. Where with the amount of time and money it cost to produce a child through surrogacy, you might as well find a woman in that country, get married, and have kids the normal way. Unless you have a strong reason/desire to be a single parent at any cost, why would a single straight man w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 12:28 AM
4	A woman being super sexual within relationships (ex-boyfriends) is a huge green flag excited to learn she chose celibacy in her last marriage. Yeah that's an instant dealbreaker, not even up for discussion I'm just leaving.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 12:21 AM
3	Passport bros don’t take advantage of third world women, it’s actually the other way around It's a very western (tbh moreso American) concept to view transactional relationship = bad. We have this ideological obsession with romance and a subsequently extremely narrow definition (like everything else when it comes to puritanical christianity) of what loves is that's pretty ahistorical and not even widely adopted in the modern world outside of the Americas. Marriage is literally a transaction. Traditionally a merge between families, but in its modern iteration a lifelong trade between tw…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 12:18 AM
2	Is Everything Is Being Needlessly Overcomplicated? Marriage historically was primarily about economic and political utility. I adamantly do not believe in the concept of love or romance when it comes to marriage and maintaining a household. I've been saying since the mid 20th century the west has been suffering from a feminity crisis because we automated away the core role and identity of women, and so they've been undergoing an existential crisis that's disrupting every level of society because we've destroyed the historic social definition and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 12:05 AM
1	Women definitely equate (involuntarily) single men with losers If a woman cares if you're a virgin or single she's a 304 internally ashamed of her own sexual history. I've met numerous who did not give af I was a late virgin or never in a relationship, usually they wanted to change that. For the most part, everyone just assumes you've done these things already unless you give them reason to think otherwise, or they're just assholes. I've never met a girl who wanted to have sex with me ask about my relationship status, the last time I got laid, or how many s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/25 11:44 PM
1	Misandry creates MORE misogynists. Because where I stand, women have to work harder to be taken seriously in an educational setting women don’t even have basic bodily autonomy in many places around the world and the law is incompetent at prosecuting rape cases and is often complicit in victim blaming. the medical establishment dismisses and invalidates women’s pain First off, I'm talking about the US. I honestly don't care about social issues in Libya or w/e. These issues really aren't unique to women. And as far as bodily autono…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/25 11:35 PM
1	Misandry creates MORE misogynists. I'm almost regularly discriminated against by gender in the workplace. My employer recently caved because I was about to sue them over workplace discrimination, the manager was a woman blatantly discriminating in their favor. Ik how to handle the situation because I was discriminated against and was illegally fired by a misandrist employer in the past who tried to not pay me. Education has been statistically proven to institurionally discriminate against boys. Insurance are allowed to discrimina…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/25 07:12 AM
2	Misogynist young adults get more sex I don't neg nor do I "push and pull". The whole point in my method is weeding out the ones who lack confidence, tact, or social intelligence. When you're dealing with the attractive 20-somethings you have to stand out and find a way to handle her ego, being a likewise quality man means you shouldn't need to resort to degrading women. It's a bad look and women talk. Despite what pillers say, being a "bad boy" isn't all that's it chalked up to be, shitty people attract shitty people and BB's get f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 04:05 PM
1	The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk away Men must be comfortable, damn near prefer, being a lone to have a healthy relationship. That's the first step to inner peace, thus confidence. The confidence to tell the 304 if she don't stop tripping she can hit the road. Confidence is not feeling the need to tell or show her you're the best she'll ever get and she's lucky you chose her. If she wants to fuck that up on some foolishness, she's free to leave but she ain't coming back and you'll replace her. American men have been brainwashed into…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 12:59 AM
3	Men who demand traditionalism and submissiveness from women without being competent himself will never deserve it and should not get it. For once I agree with OP on this sub, well said. One of my only complaints about the manosphere is that it's filled with a lot of low-quality men sleeping around or wishing to sleep around with low quality women, then rationalizing their lifestyle choices with generalizations like "modern/western women". This group of womanizers within the MS tell on themselves when they go overseas. They magically stop giving 2 fucks about marriage and "family values" and go on a sex frenzy with prostitutes sin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 12:43 AM
1	If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating them Men and women by definition cannot be friends and platonic, look up the definition of "friend" in a dictionary. That is why the term is boy/girl "friend" to signify a person of the opposite sex you have a sexual relationship with. Why would a man want or need female friends if not sex? Women bring nothing of value to a man outside of a relationship, while expecting the benefits of being in one with him. Clown take, nonserious person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 12:30 AM
1	You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to I'm a little older than an infant believe it or not, I even got my first big boy tooth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/25 12:12 AM
3	Misogynist young adults get more sex What I learned from him 1) women cannot make the difference between confidence and being a prick ; 2) biggest brake in dating is having honors and values ; 3) you have to multiply your targets ; 4) you never ask women for advices and 5) you never abandon a prospect. 1) low quality women cannot tell the difference between good men and scumbags 2) the greatest filter for dating is having goals and values 3) narrow your options 4) is generally true however there are instances when its not 5) Don't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 11:42 PM
1	You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to Show me a single infant that is disgusted by anything, let alone other people. If anything we're born with an instinct to love and taught to supress it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 11:10 PM
1	You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to Yeah that's exactly what it looks like and I refuse to ever be one, my pride is more valuable than 😺yet ironically that same pride is what attracts it. It doesn't take much to impress women, society brainwashed men into believing they are less than women when in reality they need men more than vice versa. The most attractive thing a man can do is be comfortable in isolation because it's impossible for a woman. (Having money doesn't make you independent, just transactional).	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 10:56 PM
1	You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to The weird doofus in management might have more money than the homeless guy at the bus stop, but if she isn’t attracted, those two men are equals. Their sexual attention is equally repulsive Yeah this isn't true, between the two most women will choose the guy with money (then cheat on him). because they are not hardwired with the fear and disgust which behooves women to choose healthy, fit, attractive partners with social status and social skills. Yeah this absolutely not true. Nevermind the fact…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 10:48 PM
1	You need to realise that for women, you need to compete with NO man as well as with the men she is attracted to As if women don't as well. Dating becomes better for everyone when people's egos are checked, which seems to only happen to men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 10:40 PM
1	If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him. Dating apps are a waste of time and money for men. Texting between a man and woman should be kept at a bare minimum if at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/25 10:23 PM