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1	Starting University in 10 months any advice for me My buddy Marco studied at Cambridge in the 90's. He went through culture shock. He said girls in London are different. It may help to people watch at first. Learn from the guys first around you and try to pickup on the lingo a bit. Examples: putting something in the boot, means the trunk space of your car. Larder - cupboard or pantry Diary - calendar Phone line engaged - busy signal Pissed - drunk (not angry) Rubber - eraser (not a condom) If you ever hear this phrase at a girl's parent's home..…	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 06:24 PM
1	Any success with girls taller than you? I am not tall but I want to widen my field and not be limited by height If you do date someone that is taller please be aware that asking a girl not to wear heels usually isn't going to go over well. So, if she is taller by 1 inch and she is wearing flips, tennis shoes or flats she is likely to be 3 or 4 inches higher when she dresses up for the date and slaps on those heels. Luckily I never had to deal with this issue. I am 5 ft 2. The tallest guy I dated was 6 ft 1. We looked a bit odd during our time at his prom. The damn photographer even offered me a crate to s…	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 06:04 PM
1	Whats asktrps view on women who were abused If you must know I was at a party. It was at my friends birthday party. She was a new friend I didn't know very well but I knew most of the other girls there. I wasn't feeling well and they were watching horror flicks upstairs in the main living room. I took some Nyquil and went downstairs to get some shut eye. The house was a 2 story split level with a pool house and an attached garage. I fell asleep downstairs in the room close to the garage. Unbeknownst to me her older brother from college an…	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 05:36 PM
1	What type of qualities will a women give a man who she respects? Chic perspective here. Trust. If she respects you she will trust you. I and my husband trust each other. If he goes out with the guys and I am at work or home busy with something else then we are fine with that. In 14 years I have never looked at his phone, computer, emails... Nothing. If he is having a shit day I will do my best to cheer him up or at least be supportive. I don't text him every 10 minutes while we are not together and I am not jealous. If I don't hear from him and it is an hour …	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 04:15 PM
1	Whats asktrps view on women who were abused Look, the site doesn't say men only. I have said nothing wrong and I have been very kind to the people on this board. If you don't like my posts then ignore me. Good day.	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 02:15 PM
1	Whats asktrps view on women who were abused It isn't that they don't talk about it, it is the fact they don't report it. And his quote if I am not mistaken is that "75% of the women who claim to be abused are liars". Women use social media to inform the public and to support one another. Many of us never made a report to the police. I didn't. That doesn't mean we don't talk about it. Social media allows us a bit more anonymity so we feel safer discussing these things here. I have sat in on support groups but if you are in a small town you…	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 10:12 AM
1	Whats asktrps view on women who were abused Yawns... Next!	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 09:52 AM
1	Whats asktrps view on women who were abused You might not care. That is your issue, not mine. And the fact that I exist and care for girls who also went through rape proves that statement is false. Personally I don't give a fuck if you do or if you don't. Your opinion matters to me as much as the bug guts on my car. Easily removed from my life and inconsequential.	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 09:26 AM
1	Whats asktrps view on women who were abused Nope. Just means I am a very strong woman and I came through it. Life gave me a good kick in the teeth. Yes, this experience left deep cuts emotionally that took a long time to heal and some things like my night terrors may never fully go away. But I didn't let it rule my life. It was rough. But I still maintained healthy long lasting relationships for years until I met my husband. I am not going to pretend everything was all roses. It wasn't. But life in itself isn't a bed of roses. Either you …	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 08:59 AM
1	Has anyone had experience with a girl who has admitted to you that she is “polyamorous” but wants a relationship that isn’t just fucking? Met a group of peeps... Lets call them Amanda, James and Jenna. They were poly. Amanda left for NY to work off Broadway on some show... Babies or something a few years before I met my husband. I was 21. James was cool but not really social. Jenna was cool as hell. We got along great. We were a poly fam for a few months but it just fizzled.	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 07:41 AM
1	Whats asktrps view on women who were abused The 75% comment. You have no idea how common it is. I worked for RAINN for 2 years after I was raped. I have seen hell I can't get out of my own head. Even though my experience fucked my head up for a long time at least I was not beaten black and blue. One girl lost an eye because he hit her so much.	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 07:15 AM
1	Whats asktrps view on women who were abused Ignorance is bliss. SMFH Until you have spent a day in our shoes you really have NO idea.	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 06:56 AM
1	Whats asktrps view on women who were abused Dude... You could not be more wrong. Do you think you come off as cool or masculine thinking and talking this way? Because you aren't. I will admit there are girls who seek out drama and their bf's don't treat them with respect but I have yet to meet one girl who wanted a black eye, bruised ribs, broken jaws, hand prints on her arms... Your comment shows you lack empathy for others. That isn't a very good trait to have. People who lack empathy tend to be abusive either emotionally, verbally, phy…	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 06:54 AM
1	Whats asktrps view on women who were abused I was raped at 16. I will spare you the details. If she was raped/abused then she will probably not tell you until she feels she can trust you. Took me about 6 months to tell my husband. Most of us deal with some PTSD. I told my husband because I woke him in the middle of the night by screaming and flailing in bed. I'm 41 and still have night terrors but now I have less of them than I used to. We are very cautious on first dates. We won't let you know where we live at first, we won't let you wal…	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 06:40 AM
1	How would you guys have dealt with this potential plate? What did I do wrong, or was she just really dumb? Give her the number to a car service. She is using you dude. As a chic I have seen girls do this many times and it always irked me. They view a blowjob the same way as you view 5 bucks going to the pizza delivery guy as a tip. Don't waste your time. Many of these girls are 9's and 10's and they know it. They use their looks and tease men into just about anything. One girl used to be on a different guys neck every two days and she could milk a man's wallet down to change within two days then be o…	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 06:09 AM
1	Advice of how to produce attraction as a disabled person Hmmm, this one is tough. Women can be pretty harsh on guys who have a disability. I dated a guy with steel rods for legs for two years. I really loved him but his PTSD from being at war in Iraq was so bad he just couldn't deal anymore. He killed himself in 1999. He got me because he was funny as hell. I'm not kidding! When I met him I was volunteering at the local Vet Hospital. I used to sit and read books for hours to guys who had lost their vision. I was in the room opposite him and I could he…	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 05:37 AM
1	Has anyone had experience with a girl who has admitted to you that she is “polyamorous” but wants a relationship that isn’t just fucking? As a chic been there done that but the other girl couldn't handle it. Damn shame too because she was the one I really liked. The guy was just aloof and odd.	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 05:00 AM
1	Are any of you guys religious? Nope. I am an atheist. If belief in a god suits your personal needs then I am more than happy it works for you. I just can't seem to turn off my bullshit meter. I was 5 and asked my mom one afternoon what happened to the money they took up after service on Sundays and she replied, "Well, we give it to god so he can do good works in the community!" This excited me as a kid because in my 5 yr old head I thought that god actually came down from heaven to get the money or at least would see it so th…	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 04:49 AM
1	Probably LTR, on Hormonal contraceptives I doubt this has anything to do with her being on accutane or BC. I too grew up in a very strict religious home. (I wasn't allowed to go to the pool to learn how to swim because it was considered "mixed bathing"!) Nine times out of ten she has a great deal of conflicting thoughts about her own actions and how she was raised. It is almost a self hatred and they tend to be self destructive not only in their relationships but also towards themselves if they don't seek some type of help. I went thro…	/r/askTRP	04/11/18 01:07 AM
1	Probably LTR, on Hormonal contraceptives Please provide link. I will do my best for you. :0)	/r/askTRP	03/11/18 10:28 PM
1	Divorced, met new girl, enjoying having sex with her but don't want seriousness. Do I tell her? Actually, I probably should have mentioned. I am a chic... I thought some of the gents on this page might like a perspective from a female's POV. I hope it offered some insight and may help you in future relations with not only women but all relationships. Slainte`	/r/askTRP	03/11/18 10:23 PM
1	Divorced, met new girl, enjoying having sex with her but don't want seriousness. Do I tell her? The thing is, it does take two to tango and fight. The breakdown of the relationship was due to both people not being able to work together. Neither is "fully" to blame. If I asked her why the marriage broke down she would probably blame it all on you and I would tell her the exact same thing... "No wonder you are divorced" Unicorns don't exist but good relationships do. My grandparents for one. They were together for 68 years!!! Not one fight, they never spoke ill of each other and did love eac…	/r/askTRP	03/11/18 09:33 PM
1	Divorced, met new girl, enjoying having sex with her but don't want seriousness. Do I tell her? No wonder you are divorced. You need to have these discussions BEFORE you fuck. Not all girls want a relationship. I had a fuck buddy when I was 20. Both of us were just out of relationships and we didn't want the strings attached. It worked out great. It is better to both be on the same page. Duh	/r/askTRP	03/11/18 12:54 AM
1	How do I keep my mouth shut? What should I do? Before approaching a girl drunk set your phone timer to 4 - 5 minutes. That way you have an easy out but enough time to get digits. Maybe, don't introduce yourself when you are drunk?	/r/askTRP	02/11/18 09:59 PM
1	Probably LTR, on Hormonal contraceptives As a girl who used contraceptives for 15 years and then came off them in my 30's when my husband got a vasectomy all I can say is that for about 6 months I felt "off". Headaches, had hot flashes and cold sweats, my libido dropped for about 2 months and then I became a sex cat. I think women can have both good and bad reactions to dropping their pills. Personally I am glad my husband and I decided ahead of time we didn't want children and he expressed concern about my health remaining on those dr…	/r/askTRP	02/11/18 09:18 PM
1	Tip him off or not? Tell him! Bitches that play games like this are not worth shit. As a woman I would expect a man not to do this to me so why would it be ok for a girl? It isn't. She needs a quick lesson in basic etiquette and respect. Tell him and he should make sure he ghosts her. You as a friend need to pull her aside and chide her for being rude and not being honest and up front. Most women like this are keeping the guy on a back burner to use if they end up single or lack the self respect to be honest and up…	/r/askTRP	02/11/18 08:28 PM
1	How do I exit this relationship without burning the bridge? If you are being honest about your initial intentions and have since come to a different conclusion then you need to be up front and honest with her. If you led her on in order to continue to get ass while you were on an extended trip then well you made your bed didn't you... She is coming in January and you want the benefit of a fuck but without the strings of a relationship... Good luck with that! Honesty is your best policy. Tell her that you have had time to think about the prospect of a lon…	/r/askTRP	02/11/18 07:07 PM
1	What should I do with my "depressive" GF? As a chic I can honestly say I would rather be one month into a relationship and learn that my SO was quitting then to be pitied by my SO into a six month relationship. Depression can be treated. If she is not your cup of tea then the quicker you rip off the band-aid the better. Hurts less and her feelings will not continue to grow over time allowing her emotional connection to become even stronger. Break up with her and move on. A pity date/fuck just isn't worth it in the long run.	/r/askTRP	02/11/18 06:38 PM