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RedoranBoneMould/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 09:51 PM
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That didn't answer his question at all.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 05:59 AM
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I was there with you until you quoted yourself.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 02:03 AM
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She's either mentally ill or manipulating you. Either way, easy next.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 05:16 AM
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If you fleshed this out, it could become a very good standalone post about the importance of frame. Great comment.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 08:00 PM
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Related article to family dinner on Dalrock.
/r/RedPillWives23/04/16 10:15 PM
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It moved over to manosphere.org. Confused me for a few days too.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 08:44 PM
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Degrading in what way? Accumulating multiple sexual partners, or even just one sexual encounter that millions can watch online, definitely "degrades" the worth that the girl (or guy) has for a relationship or marriage, according to my own anecdotal experience talking to other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/16 01:56 AM
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Check out dalrock, deepstrength, cane caldo, and society of phineas. All Christian manosphere blogs that have definitely helped in my quest for a godly marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/16 07:17 AM
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Men and women are not the same. Placing women in a men-only space changes the whole dynamic and erodes opportunities for male friendships.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 11:48 PM
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Female presence changes male interaction. Competitive male-only spaces are where men can bond shoulder-to-shoulder, and introducing a woman into that environment changes all the social rules involved. And with the rate that male-only spaces have diminished, I'm okay with discrimination to keep them that way.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 11:44 PM
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What are some of the sacrifices that you've had to make? My fiancé and I are planning on her being a stay at home mom when we have children, so I would definitely appreciate hearing about what sorts of challenges/sacrifices y'all have faced.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/16 08:08 PM
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It took me a lot time to realize the "women see your accomplishments as their accomplishments." I was talking to my mom last month and said "isn't it incredible how (stepdad) is so good at his work? (He is a remodeling contractor). It's incredible how he can completely change a house and do a perfect job." My mom sighed, looked annoyed, and said, "it's only because I spend so much time arguing with him over what it should look like." Like seriously? This dude puts in 50 hour weeks at age 70 and …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 02:43 AM
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I had immense respect for Keller and his faith until all of this came to light courtesy of Dalrock. I had even read "The Meaning of Marriage" by him, read that exact example, and it never registered with me how messed up it was. Just disgusting that a "godly wife" would do that, and, instead of repenting, instead hold it up as an example of submission.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/15 09:49 PM
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Agree with this. OP, go over to /r/nofap and search "flatline." Your dick basically dies for a while while getting over pornography addiction. It should pass. Continue improving and DO NOT go back to porn.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:41 PM
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Sexual marketplace value, and last minute resistance. Check out the glossary in the sidebar to get the basics of the lingo here. Lurk, read the main articles (also in the sidebar), and check out the top posts in the subreddit to get a better sense of the theory behind all of the discussion. Welcome.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 11:11 AM
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Dude, wake the fuck up. You're seriously considering having a child-- a living being-- just because you're unsure of what you want right now? I feel sorry for that kid, because they have no chance. As a man, it's your job to have a plan. If you just go with the flow and do whatever she wants, up to and including having a child you've never wanted, you're going to end up in a dead bedroom situation with her not attracted to you. You need to do some serious searching here to figure out what your l…
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:50 AM
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I've just delved deeper into sidebar material and individual blogs. Dalrock, Cane Caldo, and the Orthosphere are the main blogs I stick with, though if you're not Christian they might not be your thing. Going back through sidebar material has been good for me too: No More Mr. Nice Guy, The Book of Pook, and I think I'm going to start The Way of Men or The Rational Male after I finish those. As for actual discussions, you just have to sort the wheat from the chaff. The good conversations still ha…
/r/askTRP02/12/15 06:13 AM
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I'm Christian, and like most Christians you see in manosphere sites I'm very conservative when it comes to sexual morality. The question to ask yourself is this: Is it more important to you to sleep around or honor God? I'm getting married soon, and I haven't had sex either because I know it's not what God desires. I've screened as well as I can, and by learning all of this stuff from trp and mrp, I've been able to have a much more successful relationship. As long as you stay faithful to God in …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 06:09 AM
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The reason you're getting a lot of thank-yous from women is because your post followed a typical man up message that doesn't hold the women accountable. Women love it when their husbands are told to be more manly, when they themselves aren't called out for not submitting. Let me clarify though, that I agree with everything you said. When the wife does not submit, then the husband cannot let that influence him He still has to fulfill his role to the best of his ability. We here know that everythi…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 10:23 PM
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Great article. The problem for young Christian men, like you said, is that they can't get sex anywhere else but through marriage. The other problem is that even if they could, they've been so feminized they wouldn't be attractive enough to do it. The sinfulness of premarital sex has caused a lot of focus on "vetting" a potential spouse. Dalrock and Godly Masculinity both have extensive articles on it, but the difficulty of it, combined with the poisoned doctrine of most people in the church, ens…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 06:30 PM
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Seriously, no one has acknowledged that this is a textbook example of a comfort test? I'm sure you know shit tests-- statements that make you prove yourself and test your frame. However, if you're in a continuing relationship with a woman, you're also going to run into comfort tests. These are crucial in any LTR, but you still don't want to overdo it. Essentially, the woman is asking for some reassurance that you're committed to her, or that you love her, or that you're not too alpha. In your si…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 05:49 AM
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"I can't have sex with your personality/ and I can't put my penis in your college degree." Wise words from the song "Show Me Your Genitals."
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:35 AM
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I've been eating like a fucking pig, and haven't lost the weight I told myself I would. Signed up at /r/90daysgoal to get some accountability, so hopefully I won't have to be posting this again.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 08:00 AM
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Damn.... I'm a bass player.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 06:07 AM
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The key is not being a tampon. What I do with my girlfriend is this: Interrupt her mid-sentence/complaint and say, "do you want a solution or for me to just listen?" If it's a situation like what's discussed above, just listen for a minute, give her a hug, whatever it is you need to do to pass, because it's a comfort test. She needs to be reassured that you're emotionally available to her, since you're in an LTR. From there, make a joke, tickle her, start feeling her up... Just about anything to…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 05:48 AM
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Money can definitely be used to show social status, which is definitely alpha and can help you achieve more "alpha" things (gym membership, cool car, etc.). But when it comes to AF/BB, women don't care about money from the alpha. They subconsciously care about genes. They want to be fucked good-- Alpha Fucks. The money comes in when she wants support, aka Beta Bux. This is why you can see so many poor musicians that pull tail every single night. The female sex drive doesn't care about money.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/15 03:46 PM
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I would say that the exaggerations simply come from male conversation. When I hang out with my friends and we make fun of each other, we're exaggerating each others faults. When trp talks about women and exaggerates the sameness of them all using AWALT and things like that, part of it is just the way guys talk around each other, while the other part is simply to give others workable advice. If everyone always had to have a disclaimer about how something doesn't always apply, or that this one spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/15 05:07 PM
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If you're interested in some Christian red pill perspectives, check out Dalrock and Society of Phineas. They/we refer to blue pill Christians as churchians, because they're so eager to put the teachings of the bible away.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 08:24 PM
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Yes, there's a decent amount. Head over to /r/marriedredpill for some good discussion. Not sure what your beliefs are, but I sincerely believe that with a Christ focused marriage, a stable and loving family can be created as long as you're fulfilling your role of headship.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 08:57 PM
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Christian Virgin Pretty High Work Ethic Has an overall fun attitude, but can still have intelligent conversations as well.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 08:04 PM
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Fat chicks are a hot girl's way of being "down to earth." If a hot girl has fat friends, she can get validation from them while convincing others that she isn't shallow, because she doesn't care about the fat girl's looks. The hot girl gives the fat girl validation so that she can get it in return.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 06:44 AM
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I really wasn't as common as this guy makes it out to be. It happened in one Indian myth and was glorified by society, but essentially no one actually did it throughout history. Edit: According to wikipedia I think I'm wrong. Check out Sati.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 04:53 AM
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Hey man, glad to see someone else on here who doesn't buy the "marriage=evil" line. The thing is, it's very, very hard to find a girl who is marriage material today. Generally speaking, the most stable marriages are the ones in which the spouses have low partner counts, or are each other's first. With the sexual liberation/hookup culture we have today, it's tough to find a girl who hasn't at least slept with a few ex-boyfriends. The AWALT stuff seems to be sorted out by some other guys-- I perso…
/r/askTRP26/06/15 04:18 AM
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It's for BPers to make fun of RPers, RPers to scoff at how BPers ignore "evidence", and for undecided people to see how petty and insane both sides can be.
/r/askTRP25/06/15 04:55 AM
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At that point, hopefully, you'd stop making excuses for yourself like you have all through this thread.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 09:31 PM
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Yeah, totally depends on the girlfriend's sensitivity, and the degree of dread which is enforced is a sensitive line for the man to walk/determine. However, it's also very telling that you term it as a "20 Watt problem." His girlfriend never initiated, hardly gave signs that she was physically attracted to him... That's a pretty big problem that deserves a decent reaction. You would think something was really wrong with the relationship if your boyfriend did that, because there would be somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 02:58 AM
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Yeah, that post is dread. The girlfriend saw that he was attractive to others, which in turn made him more attractive to her. And he didn't just give the cold shoulder like he was a child, he focused on the other productive things he could be doing. He also wasn't borderline abusive like your boyfriend was. Like with all tools, there are good and bad ways to use them. A baseball bat is great for having fun playing sports, but it can also be used to break into someone's car. Same with "dread." Es…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 12:53 AM
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You only focused on one sentence of his reply. The next part seemed pretty much on your side. You can't force people to do what they hate. "Dread" is a strong word but what it really means is being attractive enough for other women to like you, which in turn is more attractive to your girlfriend/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 12:31 AM
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Marriage holds in check both sexes natural mating. Men want sex, women want committment. Marriage provides both of these things in a stable manner. Offering a stable institution for reproduction is better for children, and keeps men happy and devoted to their wife even after they hit the wall. In turn, it was often considered sinful for a woman to withhold sex from her husband, so he had access to sex even when he was more of a beta male. In short, it's been endorsed because it is best for socie…
/r/askTRP27/05/15 06:23 PM
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Not 100% sure what WELs is (google told me Wisconsin Evangelical Lutheran Synod). I'm a member of the Evangelical Presbyterian Church; a denomination which grew a lot with all of the controversy surrounding the Presbyterian Church USA in the past 5-10 years.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 06:16 PM
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Nothing can be quite so sobering to a man as his woman telling him to man up. If he's honestly guilt tripping you like that, just tell him he's being insecure and that you don't care. If he's not fulfilling his role at the helm, then you'll have to tell him that.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 07:59 AM
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Haha I was expecting a reaction from some other redpillers. Yeah, I'm Christian (pretty conservative), and my girlfriend is as well. As far as marriage material goes, I think I've found a girl who is suited for it. I'm her only experience relationship-wise (and physically), and she's good looking. I'll probably have some guys say that I'm wasting my prime by not sleeping around, but that's a price I'm willing to pay for a stable family and marriage (not to mention my religious beliefs being the …
/r/askTRP27/05/15 07:57 AM
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I was 19 about to be 20, and she was 18 about to be 19. Been together a little more than 2 years; I'm now 22. Things are working out great, going to propose this fall.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 07:27 AM
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That's the point. What do modern women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/15 04:10 AM
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Damn, that guy's a fucking asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 04:20 AM
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I'm not sure there are many other religious posters on red pill subs, but I thought your comment was a great expression from this passage in Ephesians, chapter 5: 22 Wives, be subject to your husbands as you are to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife just as Christ is the head of the church, the body of which he is the Savior. 24 Just as the church is subject to Christ, so also wives ought to be, in everything, to their husbands. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ love…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/15 05:28 AM
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I can see how it works that way in many situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 04:02 AM
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I'm not entirely sure what point you're trying to make, could you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 03:59 AM
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Males decrease in attractiveness over a longer period of time, and can still be propped up by financial/social success. Most women just seem to suddenly nosedive in attractiveness, hence calling it "the wall." But of course guys get less attractive, and of course girls are going to want to sleep with other guys that have good bodies. Your assertion that "beta bux" is what attracts younger women to older men is interesting and for the most part true. The guy just has to realize that and not allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/15 02:58 AM
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No specific ratio, don't overthink it. I say it all the time. My GF comfort tests me way more than shit tests, so beta/provider aspects are needed more than in some relationships. /u/Thethrowawayoption 's comment seems pretty spot on, so just make sure you're not being a bitch about it and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP18/05/15 08:23 AM
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Well, that type of specific question is going to be up to the individual. I would say that it's always worth trying to see the marriage, but I'm also particularly religious. Good luck on everything.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 04:13 PM
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My advice: check out /r/marriedredpill up your smv, build self-confidence, get better at shit tests employ dread, start assigning tasks to your wife. keep passing shit tests. never fucking say waifu again
/r/askTRP15/05/15 06:59 AM
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I think it swings both ways. Conservative Christians will often make the Nature argument even more wholeheartedly because they believe God made their nature, and to turn against it is to turn against him. And despite what Reddit thinks, most Christians don't have it out for science and evolution. The grand majority of them acknowledge evolution and science, but just happen to think God created it all that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 05:10 AM
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She sees your attractive alpha attributes, but knows you won't commit. That's pretty much it.
/r/askTRP12/05/15 04:51 AM
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All the other guys brought in good advice. She disrespected you and is constantly living in fear of your smv, showing her own low self-esteem. Your dread is sitting 3 levels too high simply by existing. If she says "it might not be worth it," then she's already broken up with you or is preparing to cheat. Get rid of her. It will suck for awhile, but you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP11/05/15 05:59 AM
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At my best friend's wedding they wrote their own vows, and his wife actually included a part about submitting to him.. I was ridiculously impressed and thankful he was getting a woman like that and not some self entitled harpy.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 05:53 AM
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Sex in a long term relationship is intimacy. Imagine if your partner never had those engaging conversations with you,. Most men in relationships would feel disrespected and unloved because sex is an expression of trust, intimacy, and love. You see so much about sex on Red Pill because it's a sexual strategy forum... But also because many of the guys there are "learning to be men." They spent years being "nice guys" and never got a girl, but now they're finding that women are actually attracted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 05:49 AM
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Not sure about the plate thing but for Valentine's: yes. Most of the year, if you're doing it right, you'll have your own interests and normal dates and etc. I go along with Valentine's because it's the perfect mix of Betaness that keeps my LTR going smoothly, and it really kicks up the "feelings" Skorchzang was talking about. Every girl wants an awesome valentine's date, so why not play along and use it to your advantage? It doesn't have to be incredible, just plan it out like a man and do it. …
/r/askTRP11/05/15 05:42 AM
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It seems contradictory because most of the people you see on the red pill aren't actually looking for long term relationships-- they know that the "sluts" are better at sex, which is why most are obsessed with spinning plates. They aren't looking for the mythical slutty virgin, because they hate modern marriage and don't care to find that partner. It's too easy to bounce from slut to slut. However, the ones who are looking forward to an LTR are in fact looking for someone who is a virgin, or has…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 05:31 AM
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Marriage is a great institution because it controls both men and women's natural mating strategies and builds a lasting society. For women, it theoretically stops Hypergamy through commitment and reliance on one man, and also the CC via slut shaming and marrying early. This gives the man a companion and also the sex he might otherwise seek from other women. It also forces men, the gatekeepers of commitment, to give that commitment to a worthy woman and remain true to them, cutting down on bastar…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/15 03:01 AM
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Be up front about your expectations for exclusivity. I would say after 3-5 dates mention exclusivity, but that doesn't mean you have to be "putting a label" on the relationship. I kissed my girlfriend before we ever went on a date (considered abnormal by most of the people I'm around, but I'm also conservatively Christian), but that was all I ever got until we were "officially" dating-- so don't give him sexual gratification until you're solidly in LTR territory, as otherwise it gives him too ea…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 08:42 PM
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If you're eating that much and not making any strength gains, it's because you have a severe case of fuckarounditis. Do an actual strength program and stick with it. If you can only squat 70 after 6 months at 21 years old, then you just aren't trying. Wake up.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 08:38 PM
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That was part comfort test-- she wanted reassurance that she meant enough to you for you to go out of your way to see her. Since you didn't give her that, she's getting that comfort from other sources that aren't you. Nothing wrong with that, just something to be aware of. I'd say you handled it pretty well overall.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 07:17 AM
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Not trying to moralize at you, but be careful if you're sleeping with other girls while in an LTR if she thinks it's exclusive. Being labeled as a cheater can really fuck up your social standing. And if you do want to keep her around for quite awhile, you'll probably end up needing to say you love her eventually (not necessarily soon). Don't lie about it, but at the end of the day they're just words too. Sounds like you've got a good feel for things though, keep it up.
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