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Redpetrol/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:09 AM
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Hi, I don't have anything to trade unfortunately but I would really like this course
/r/RedPillBooks27/01/23 03:06 PM
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Sounds like you're confused with transactional status. Can you clarify whether I'm putting holes in your statement if I say the following. You're saying women want good sex in exchange for good sex AND want emotional comittment also in exchange for this good sex but they give their own emotional comittment away for free. Men want good sex in exchange for good sex. If they want emotional comittment on top of that then it's in return for emotional comittment and not sex. Like for like so to speak.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/23 04:26 PM
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Dno if I'd do this per se. Tell him you dress it up and make it sound sexier than it is because you think it turns him on to hear it but actually sex before him was quite boring and unfulfilling and now it's everything you want.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 09:54 PM
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No reply
/r/RedPillBooks03/01/23 07:46 PM
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were you able to source ?
/r/RedPillBooks30/12/22 02:12 AM
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Never been married. Man with 5 long term relationships and have had some experience with this. here's my take and its probably all projection but I hope it helps. Firstly the overweight thing probably doesn't matter as much as everyone says. If it's a few lbs, if it's 100s of lbs then probably. Clean living no doubt helps, like good food and a bit of exercise. But reality is I thought exes putting on a few lbs turned me off, didn't tell her and tried to encourage exercise etc. Every time after a…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 10:46 AM
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People take time to deal with things. Not to mention support and help. You've a right to be selfish, but if you're that selfish it just seems odd to me you'd be in a relationship at all.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/21 04:39 PM
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I've got anxiety on his behalf, this sounds like quickest way to getting a complex about his own condition. You should talk to him about it for sure, but by God remember however selfish you feel like being someone else's life is forever affected by that as well. Find a way to approach it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/21 04:18 PM
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Honestly you should probably leave him for his sake alone. He sounds like he deserves better commitment
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/21 04:13 PM
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Male 34 been through 6 relationships with spells like this. Most changed some didn't. In my opinion it's being out of sync. You can bet he still gets horny, but is it a timing factor? When you want it does he have it in him? first things first I recommend morning sex as a test. Wake up before him, put something sexy on, and just go for it. He's already in bed, the day hasn't started and he's not in a rush, he's got no distractions. After that I'd maybe spend time thinking thst some of the soluti…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/21 11:55 PM
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I mean, it will make dating harder for sure, but I don't think it should rule it out. If you want someone to love and to love you back then you'd be as well as looking. Just be upfront about your financial goals.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/21 11:19 AM
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Why don't you want to go out dating?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/21 11:14 AM
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Sounds like a good idea. Good luck to you!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/21 11:40 AM
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I was building a persona, it's definitely not inclusive of everyone, it might not even be the most common thing. Maybe it's more common to find drs in stable long term relationships. Totally possible. But calling it as I see it that a large percentage of the single women out there who are looking, and have been looking for a while, who despite having looks and money are not fulfilled in their sexual or personal lives. Age range 25 to 40. Probably worth adding I tend to avoid the ones who might n…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/21 11:38 AM
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It's too much work. If I'm looking for something short term from them then sometimes it's fine but truth be told I haven't had many flings with a career driven woman and thought it was the hot experience I was looking for or expecting. I'd say that's at least certain with Dr's. If it's short term and they are on the same page then OK, but there's also some who either have sort of Christian values or are not interested in the carousel and have just failed to have any meaningful sustainable relati…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/21 10:46 AM
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Single man, 34, Most of the last 5 years I've been on dating apps. My sister is a Dr. 3 kids She's currently having a mid life crisis who had an affair with the au pair. By far the largest single career of the women I match with, dated or have even seen is medical professionals. I avoid them now to be quite honest. Either you find a house husband material or someone in your own field. if you're talking or thinking about short term there's probably no quick fix, just do your best and hope someone…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/21 10:22 AM
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Thinking you want something and then actually experiencing having something are very different things. I haven't met a woman that being vulnerable in front of has added to the relationship longevity. Perhaps in the short terms it's OK, but you don't want the flood gates open, and the reality is often much different from what women seem to expect.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/21 02:42 PM
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Such as?
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/19 10:17 PM
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I'm a man, I'll give you my take as I think I've been through this twice. I sometimes need space to be able to be the best, giving, attentive and loving version of myself. I don't always know when I need that space. It doesn't always match up when the women are willing to give that space either. Its very hard to ask without making her feel unloved. Also, personally I always wanted my partners to be happy, I'd look at them and think my god I love this woman, I want her to have the best life possi…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/19 08:54 PM
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Firstly, what do you want him to do?
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/19 08:46 PM
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Hey, can I ask. If your husband got in a fight protecting you, gets hit in the head awkwardly, hits the curb, suffer life long brain injuries and needs his chin mopped for the next 60 years. Would you run away with the ripped postman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/19 12:29 AM
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Feminism is different things to different people, as is everything political and philosophical it is basterised, confused, split up, used for attacking people or defending beliefs. So, culturally the things you've said do happen. Why? Is a good question. But it's tied to human behaviour more than feminism, mostly what you will find here is people just debating or arguing the terminology you've used to a fruitlessly pedantic level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/19 11:41 PM
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Well calling it a philosophy is reaching. It's some theories about social structure and people put so much weight and belief into these ideas being full proof. Like most things in life there are far more grey areas and half truths than full blown facts. They don't go hand in hand because people overcomplicate all of the ideas, and it's now turned into a collaborative idea that is evolving and changing constantly. How can a "philosophy" tell both genders to suit themselves and not contradict itse…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/19 04:53 PM
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There are thousands upon thousands of contradictions. My opinion is that essentially rpw seems to about removing the shame society and a small aggressive branch of feminism has put on women assuming a supportive (submissive) role in a relationship over one which is demanding or pressurising relationships and suffocating modern male masculinity. In short, do nice things for your husband and don't be afraid to let him take the lead and feel special. All stems from ideas that men and women don't pu…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/19 04:38 PM
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So what are you doing Thursday night? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:06 AM
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Wwe isn't real? What? Is this some kind of societal crowd dream we're all sharing? Is the rock real?
/r/PussyPassDenied06/01/19 01:52 AM
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Well I'm glad you have it all worked out. Good luck to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 11:19 AM
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Quite an interesting post, although I do find you are being a little bitter and negative towards men which taints it Slightly. I like reading through trpwomen threads because sometimes they claim their marriages improve when trying new things etc and basically all it is is accountability, either the women are reclaiming their own roles with more responsibility and energy, or relieving their husbands of some accountability by carrying their chores or whatever it is they are struggling with which …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 09:47 AM
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That's a pretty warped way of looking at life through wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 08:56 AM
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When you break this down it just sounds like your asking 'why do some men have feelings?' Eh, people hurt. Not that complicated. You're saying only men do this but it's definitely wrong to say that, however one possible reason for men feeling this way is that when a woman leaves a man he feels betrayed and VULNERABLE, which is unusual for me. It's usually easier for women to move on long term, I'm sure there is evidence out there that says breakups affect women more severely in a short term scal…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 06:03 AM
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It's certainly one of my biggest problems on reddit. I lurk mostly but then when I get involved I spend an hour or something talking to someone only to find out they just came for an argument, then when you try to resolve it you get accused of being righteous when I only wanted a discussion in the first place, chances are an opinion is not going to immediately change on something from reddit thread and is more likely to be a small part of any gradual changes. End up leaving dissatisfied most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 02:27 PM
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Great correction. The purpose of the sub should be dialectic, you're right. That's what I am looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 02:14 PM
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Thanks for your reply. I was thinking it would be good if there was a highlights sub of the pills where at least well mannered debates are posted and conversations between people figuring stuff out in discussion rather than the evangelical trumpeting that becomes common. Then it got me thinking if even that would be ruined by the echo chamber nature of the forum, so I thought maybe a rule of the sub would be to have someone post a face picture to rid the anonymity syndrome that allows people to …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 02:02 PM
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I wasn't asking rhetorically, I was sincerely asking if you think there is a gap in your understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:23 PM
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Do you think there is a gap in your understanding anywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:55 PM
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However I am noticing bitterness from both genders so...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:04 PM
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It's pish.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 05:21 PM
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What's with the hyphens?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 04:56 PM
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The stubborn attitude is definitely not one sided or more apparent to any pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 02:48 PM
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There are some very stubborn people, the style of argument becomes so one upmanship and starts to derail very quickly, distancing from finding a way to explain concepts or trying to understand each other. A lot of attention seeking sort of self interested rants and ill mannered back and forths and projecting experiences of previous arguments instead of looking at nuances of people's perspective as well. It's definitely gone downhill and been more petty since about September. And almost everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:33 PM
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Less attractive than people I've dated. They expect everyone to jump through hoops, not just myself, which is a critical point I think you're missing through your agenda tinted specs here. I haven't stated I think I'm special but thanks for being rude, I'm sure they are all very special and I am missing out. Again with the owing. You have no idea. You said I thought I was entitled to a response, I counter by saying I use Bumble (women message first) so you recounter by saying I think they are ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 03:13 AM
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I'm not a voice of sanity or a voice anyone should listen to and label wise I'm definitely not a pro on the topic, I'd leave that to the experts. It may be the wrong route altogether but I wanted to gauge if this is a common thought for anyone else on the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:42 AM
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It surprises me at how poor the arguments have become and how stubborn a lot of the exchanges are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:40 AM
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I disagree. I find it far more interesting If two or more people who have been through experiences can talk it out and discuss how something has made them feel, why that may be the case, ask more questions, look at data that agrees or disagrees with their outlook and present some sort of balance within their own view without barking bitter expressions about how their new mantra is more justifed because x or y experience had given x or y feeling. It had the potential to be so much more. The tone …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:37 AM
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Knock back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:21 AM
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Yeah, exactly like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:20 AM
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Ooft. Got a kb on my own thread. Now I'm bitter as fuck. I hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:18 AM
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There can be a more objective way to communicate a lot of this stuff than the vast majority I've read lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:17 AM
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Citrus baby and salty bastard sound like the worst best 90s rap nemesies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:15 AM
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Okay? Congratulations on expressing your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:13 AM
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What is the average age of the sub? Do you know this or is it a guess? Interesting point. (you're my favourite username)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:37 AM
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I don't find that boring, and it's the interpretations that give insight, but more and more posts are just obviously unconstructive in the last 2 to 3 months specifically. Should the sauce not be the accompaniment and not the main itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:33 AM
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Those are annoying too but at least easier to spot in the first paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:27 AM
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Not here for the banter. Here because the topics are really interesting and it's good to see considered views, from folk with insight, whereas at times it reads more like a therapists toilet floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:26 AM
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Yeah I like your points. Don't get me wrong I'm not saying every woman on an app is arrogant, and I can appreciate that it's a task to wade through the messages to find a conversation that suits you, but if you are committed to dating then I'd imagine you have decided it's worth spending some of your time to do so anyway. I feel like a lot of them are just happy for the attention. I do prefer to lurk as any point made here is so general it can be refuted with some merit anyway. Also, I don't par…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 08:25 PM
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I don't actually message many people first to be honest. I use Bumble mainly too, so these assumptions you're making just make you seem like you are championing an agenda. I don't think anywhere in my post it shows I'm thinking I'm entitled to anything from anyone. But nice try. Keep on trucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 08:17 PM
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All my ex gfs have been very pretty, I have had moderate success offline and on dating apps at times, I don't know what percentage I'll come under but women far, far less physically attractive and with less appealing personalities seem to think I've got to impress them or jump through hoops just to have a chat. That's an instant turn off to me and I just move on. Most of these women are people I would be "compromising" for just so I can have a fling or something short term, I'd never date them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:37 AM
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The waiting guys aren't the problem. The problem is once you're no longer in love and want to move on, you then have opportunities lined up to do so. Frequently people end up seeing someone they knew whilst with their ex. Even if you have no feelings right now, that's not to say you might not grow to be in love with anyone, even a friend at a later date. It's a very interesting topic. Hopefully see more responses.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 11:02 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 10:43 AM
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Pretty much sums it up for me. If they are a nice person it's great. Sometimes you get ones who want to manipulate you in to doing their job or doing things for them if they know you are attracted to them, but it's usually easy for me to tell who needs a favour sometimes and who is just lazy or taking advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 12:10 PM
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Serial onlooker. Sometimes I just need to read people have at it about stuff I've been thinking about, but with more depth or vigour than myself or anyone I can actually talk to in person can offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 08:21 PM
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Can't wait for someone to generalise the answers. "So women want a strong, unselfish non angry but aggressive fucking machine who sticks to his diary and arrives on time. Got it."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:33 PM
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She could just... Not have a kid... I don't think thanks and empathy are required. It's nice to be nice, but it's not a requirement. Most parents choose to have children.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/18 09:03 PM
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😂 still don't think you quite get it, but ok. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:15 AM
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If you are not good at understanding other people, interpreting situations, making others comfortable, understanding consent and are not somewhat confident and experienced at how to be close to someone then it's easier to think of there being a red line and that labeling women as thinking there is a red line. But that's not really how people function and think. Have a conversation with someone and see what sort of thing they are in to, be honest and try to listen without just trying to get somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 11:16 PM
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Some of the biggest feminists I've known have been women I've had one night stands with. Seems like an awful lot of bad generalisation going on in this conversation between sexuality and morality. You can identify as a feminist and still have sexual lust and opt in for one night stands. And actually some of the people I know who " get mad pussy" are the ones who have very good social skills and get/give respect to people easily. Hence why they are likeable and thus desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 07:12 PM
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Matthew 19:4-8 King James Version (KJV) 4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female, 5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? 6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 7 They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 09:04 AM
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Hey, been lurking the conversation, do you mind telling me which version of the Bible you're referring to. It's good to cite references so when future lizard races find this they have an explanation for your batshit insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:59 AM
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How many girls have you been with since thinking this red pill stuff is worth following ? Are you happier as a person? Have you had any enlightening encounters with any women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 09:53 AM
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It's not me! "It's their sex drive(or lack of)"😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 06:09 PM
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That was pretty funny. Would give you gold but I'm poor. Got a good jawline so it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 02:39 PM
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Discounting all women for what they say. That's all I needed to hear really. I didn't come here to block people, but never having to read this pish again will be a sweet relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 07:34 PM
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You definitely don't speak for all men here. Or anywhere. You are a spokesman for yourself, but your delusions and over inflated ego about your own opinions probably makes you believe you are. I'd be interested if you found 1 other person who agrees women have no sex drive. If you do, I'll leave this sub and never return.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 07:32 PM
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I don't want you to look ridiculous, or to be worn down, I don't even want to win. I'm here because I'm genuinely addicted to watching this unfold to see what the hell you are playing at. You're opinion is in the extreme, your denial of others is extreme. Testosterone is not the sole hormone involved in libido. You're just repeating stuff that's already been debated and that you've already ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 07:29 PM
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you're refuting common sense and people telling you they do have a sex drive, then stating common sense and just saying they don't. You've been asked to prove that they don't have a sex drive and you can't. You don't even think asking women is a good idea. You think they are lying or clueless, literally half the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 07:26 PM
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You're obviously trolling now. You believe women can orgasm, but that they have no sex drive? Why would someone experience orgasm and not at least subconsciously chase it again and again? After hours you've still provided no scientific back up that women have no sex drive. You've eventually admitted that it's possible for a woman to enjoy sex. There are too many points now where you've made yourself look ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 07:19 PM
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I don't think I'd put it like you struck a nerve, mate. It's just frustrating for someone to be so completely wrong about a simple thing, I've genuinely opened my mind the possibility of you being right(despite lack of evidence and just constant anecdotal solipsistic bullshit and simple argumentative techniques designed to string this out and make everyone look foolish), I am here to learn after all, but it pisses me off that instead of opening my mind and engaging in something that I could be e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 07:14 PM
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well that last one makes sense, you clearly can't see how anyone could ever change their mind on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:47 PM
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don't understand your answer. Please tell me which parts of that text you have an issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:32 PM
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Do you believe any of that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:28 PM
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https://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/Goodsex/Pages/Sexualarousalinwomen.aspx Stage 1: sexual excitement or arousal When a woman becomes aroused (turned on), the blood vessels in her genitals dilate. There is increased blood flow in the vaginal walls, which causes fluid to pass through them. This is the main source of lubrication, which makes the vagina wet. The external genitalia or vulva (including the clitoris, vaginal opening, and inner and outer lips or labia) become engorged (swollen) due to the inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:22 PM
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The world you have created here is that asking the people concerned isn't a reliable way of gathering information, citing academia isn't a reliable way of gathering information, using CMV to gather other opinions in counter to yours isn't a reliable way of gathering information, but walking past a sex shop a few times is. We should just consult you for everything sexual from here on in, you are the almighty power.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:41 PM
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Anecdotal again. I know tons of people who are "scoring". anyway, do a CMV mate. I'd like to watch you debate it out with people more engaged in arguments than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:27 PM
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Would you be tempted to post a CMV ? " Women have no sex drive" I think it would go down well. I can't debate with you any more sadly, I find your style of argument too infuriating. You selectively answer, give far too much credit to your own opinion and none to others, then when you get put in a corner you just slide out of it without either conceding or countering. You're good at it but it's not progressing the debate any further, I don't think you could concede even if you wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:25 PM
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I think you have a warped definition of what sex drive means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:18 PM
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If women actively went out of their way to avoid sex why are apps like Tinder more popular than things like eHarmony ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:17 PM
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Of course Academia isn't 100% correct but that is the way things are proven, until you invent a better way it's the way you gain credibility. You can't discount all academia, the same as you can't discount an opinion because somewhere some of it was wrong. You've got to offer some proof. You never debated anything in my second point. In my third point you have now brought up testosterone, sex drive is a subjective term, there is not 1 hormone that is responsible for it. You've gone from Anecdota…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:11 PM
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I don't even know how to quote properly because I'm a reddit idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 04:41 PM
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Mate, I feel like you skirted around most of those questions entirely. Which is a bit frustrating. Firstly I don't think that it is uncommon for people to learn about human sexuality, otherwise these subreddits wouldn't exist, people wouldn't be committing millions of pounds to social studies, there are literally tens of millions of people studying this subject at schools right now, and tens or hundreds of millions of people who have graduate level education in social studies including human sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 04:27 PM
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Yeah I can see you've invoked a lot of conversation. Plenty of people have eyes, ears a working brain and a desire to learn. What makes your opinion valid ? What gives your opinion any authority or credibility ? Do you have any sources to cite or anything even resembling some backup to your opinion ? Do you have any education to backup this opinion ? Are you aware that your discovery of women being asexual would be so ground breaking you'd be changing the course of humanity to prove it ? So what…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 03:59 PM
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u/Doom_and-Gloom
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 03:56 PM
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Please present me with some evidence of these facts. Also I asked several questions of you earlier which you have ignored. Until you answer those questions everything you say seems inflammatory and troll like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 03:54 PM
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This is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 03:45 PM
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Why do women masturbate or buy sex toys if they have no sex drive ? also, please can you reply to my questions from before ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 03:38 PM
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Plenty of people have eyes, ears a working brain and a desire to learn. What makes your opinion valid ? What gives your opinion any authority or credibility ? Do you have any sources to cite or anything even resembling some backup to your opinion ? Do you have any education to backup this opinion ? Are you aware that your discovery of women being asexual would be so ground breaking you'd be changing the course of humanity to prove it ? So what is it your eyes, ears and working brain have gone th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 03:15 PM
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Q. How do you know this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 02:51 PM
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And she has big tits then? Lol. ???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 01:44 PM
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Sometimes I'm in the same boat. I had a few long term relationships and each one got better and more serious, the last one was extremely attractive to me, in some ways "ideal woman" for me I wouldn't say plethora but I've done well in the casual/dating game since. Much better than I should be doing and I've met some really nice women and had some hot flings and good o.n.s. but ultimately every few weeks I need to stop cold turkey from having sex, because it just feels weird at a point. Not hollo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 01:15 PM
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