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All solo stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 09:40 PM
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She's been an amazing partner in many ways. If you're hinting at the main problem being my own insecurities, you would probably be right. That's how I feel when I get out of my own head, enjoy the moment and just be myself.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/16 05:42 PM
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The truth hurts. I should just move on but God do I feel like shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 04:11 PM
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That's already happening, pretty much to a T. This post is mostly about feeling like shit not doing that with her back then.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 03:54 PM
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I've been holding off because I know it's full of inconvenient truths(which I do know I'll have to face). Though this isn't about wanting her to become my own little slutty pornstar. Sidebar is all it is. I'm past the "why won't she fuck me like that" point. I realized that was my fault, and as I mention in the OP, improvements were just around the corner. She's got her spark back in her, it seems. Anyways. I tried to be as to the point as possible as to the different things that I've been wrest…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 03:51 PM
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One reason I hesitate to ask is I'm not sure it's a good idea; not to ask, but to get those pictures or whatever. I mention it in the OP. You're absolutely right about being obsessed, and it's not a good place to be, regardless of the object of the obsession.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 03:41 PM
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Fuck no. That's probably why it's sucked so bad to find this out.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 03:36 PM
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I'm afraid you're exactly right about my own wishful thinking. I didn't miss her in her prime, I couldn't have had her in the first place. Back to the starting point. MAP like a mofo and focus on my own life. Thanks for the insight. Truth isn't pleasant but neither is wasting time and hamstring like a little beta bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 03:24 PM
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I've postponed reading it because of that. I already feel like a fucking trainwreck, but heck, no going back now.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 03:01 PM
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I've thought of it that way, just needs time to settle in my mind I guess. I do think seeing the difference in attractiveness between her then and now is worse than just looking at other women probably because I'm still so enamored with her. Going through this RP material and taking a long hard look at my life's been like trying to rip off a bigass bandaid and not being able to do it fast enough, which I guess would be to just bail and start over.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 02:53 PM
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Too fucking late.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 02:45 PM
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Wouldn't post on here if I hadn't been trudging through that stuff and changing things around. It's improved our sex life more quickly than I thought possible, and brought up her insecurity about our age difference. Care to answer any of the above questions? I realize a good course of action is to seek contentment/success outside of my relationship/sex life, but I think it's a balance, hence me thinking about this stuff(as well as meditating/shifting my focus elsewhere) and wanting to get input.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/16 12:59 PM
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TY
/r/askMRP05/04/16 05:25 PM
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Funny enough, it's how I met my wife. We both met some guy on YouTube while looking for meditation videos. We helped him build enlightenedawareness.wikifoundry. Fun times. He was hosting live meditations on Skype and we had a very active group chat from 2008 til it fizzled out in about 2012. By that time we were living together, married. I've been into Advaita, Vedanta, and Bhakti Yoga, as well as tons of new age type stuff. Now mostly just trying to live an authentic and balanced life. I've see…
/r/askMRP30/03/16 05:42 PM
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Yup I realize that.
/r/askMRP27/03/16 01:26 PM
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Just need to grin and bear it as it's obviously not an overnight process, short of some epiphanies and a change in thinking.
/r/askMRP26/03/16 03:51 PM
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Reading like a mofo. Signed up for the gym and been eating like a lumberjack; healthier and in much needed higher quantity. Waking up earlier and stretching out and meditating. Making plans to go back to school and into a more lucrative profession. Getting better at guitar so I can find some buddies to jam with and finally have a life outside of my relationship with my wife. Got work for the next 10 years.
/r/askMRP26/03/16 03:47 PM
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PTSD is a term that's come up as I was trying to figure out what was happening to my stupid ass. I feel like a Tumblr/Twitter dwelling POS that gets upset from just reading stuff but yeah, the terrible anxiety and uncontrollable flashbacks, loss of sleep and appetite... Again, I feel like a fucking fgt but yeah, thanks for the links.
/r/askMRP26/03/16 03:32 PM
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Not sure how to quote. That last line, yeah. I'm a little needy beta bitch for sure. At least I still laugh my ass off most of the times she's upset for trivial shit.
/r/askMRP26/03/16 02:51 PM
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Heed
/r/askMRP24/03/16 07:27 PM
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Is there a glossary for the MRP jargon? I know there's one in the sidebar but it is very limited. Not sure what you mean by nukes, for example.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/16 06:05 PM
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Yeah I see I got quite the workload on my plate. Fucken great.
/r/askMRP14/03/16 03:54 AM
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Deleting and posting in AskMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 02:33 AM
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