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You can get used as a fleshlight too, just get on grindr.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:58 PM
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Sounds like we need more men to step up to be psychologists and k-12 teachers and start nonprofits directed at men’s issues. What is stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:55 PM
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I find that most who have kids already aren’t that keen to deal with the expense and time costs of starting over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:55 AM
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Women are ok being alone. Relationships add to their workload.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:27 AM
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Older men don’t really want more kids. Most are already drowning in child support and mortgages. Plus advanced paternal age is linked to many genetic issues
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:53 PM
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How old are you? There is a vast universe of lonely and unwanted men well into your 70s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:52 PM
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Who said “obligated”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:52 AM
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They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:01 PM
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You can meet someone who is completely different for and with you from anyone else and who you had sex with before is completely irrelevant because there is just no comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:49 AM
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What you are saying is irrational because like so many men you are driven by anger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:55 PM
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Huh? I am a registered gun owner with a FL concealed carry permit. You are completely full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:32 PM
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Where does it say i can only respond to western country issues? I didn’t preach about the morality of clothes even at my gyms in the US. If it isn’t a sanitary issue it isn’t really my problem and i don’t think kids under 16 were allowed in my gyms anyway. Alot of young western men have this very deep character flaw whereby they spend way too much time staring at women on tiktok who won’t fuck them and then they assume the whole world is unattainable women on TikTok trying to ruin their lives. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:14 PM
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I’m an expat in the middle east, we don’t have these issues. If you want your tits out you wear that in you gender segregated gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:42 AM
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Again, I don’t see women having half their tits out. If you cannot avert your gaze- Go to another gym. Also, i don’t totally disagree, i am from a pretty conservative place in the US with no beaches so i didn’t really see bikinis growing up. Thong bikinis are still a bit uncomfortable to me to see but i am not the morality police. At the moment, i don’t live in the US and we have tons of gender segregated gyms. I fucking love it, half my tits aren’t ever out in public but i can wear whatever the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:34 AM
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Also, i don’t live in the US 🤷🏼‍♀️ Tons of women only gyms here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:45 PM
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Under 16 is not allowed in my gym. What kind of place do you go to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:44 PM
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Sure. I am a big fan of women only spaces anyway. I wish more gyms were gender segregated so i can wear what i want without men staring and then whining about their lack of self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:20 AM
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Marital rape was legal not that long ago
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:04 PM
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Rich women still were raped by husbands, could not control their fertility, and died in childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:04 PM
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Noone should ever be conscripted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:01 PM
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Yes, women have it better today than in the pat. Men have it way better too. Remember when there was no anesthesia or antibiotics?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:59 PM
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Why do men walk around with their shirts off?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:41 PM
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Why don’t you approach gym management about the attire?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:26 AM
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The difference is that the victims here of these men are under aged. In any event if a gym thot films a man in a deliberately pejorative way he has every right to sue. Filming someone in the background by accident without malicious intent is a different story of course. Also, men don’t need to be policing women’s attire in the gym or lecturing them on modesty. Complain to management and let them establish a dress code.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:26 AM
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If a woman abuses any way i condemn it in the strongest terms and i will end friendships over this. Because if she does it to him she will do it again. She cannot be trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:23 AM
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I won’t associate with women who abuse in any way. Let me be clear on that. I have terminated friendships when i observed that shit. I have thrown a female friend out of my house when i discovered she was cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:16 AM
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I didn’t say men are trash. Stop lying. I said “WHEN men are trash”- which these are- men make excuses, just like you are doing. If a woman gropes, she is fucking trash. Women who lie about rape are fucking trash. No excuses here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:14 AM
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Why are you generalizing to all men? I described a specific situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:43 AM
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Two or three is too many plus all the men they sent it to. Sorry, you don’t get a pass. When men are trash, other men enable- just like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:29 AM
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Why aren’t you fighting then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:59 AM
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How the fuck would i even know about this? I don’t spend all day staring at women on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:58 AM
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They are not the dads. I know the kids in the league. If older women were zooming in on boys’ asses and i saw them, i’d say pedo 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 06:32 PM
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My 15 year old daughter recently had grown ass men filming her under 18 soccer league on their phones, zooming in, and sending the videos. I complained to the pitch manager and was ignored. It continued for 3 more weeks and i moved her to another league. How many men watching this happen do you think said anything? NONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:35 PM
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And many men make excised for male friends who abuse women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:26 PM
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Can you define what you think “violates modesty”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 05:25 PM
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It’s easy enough to interpret and hardly unique
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:07 PM
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“Some American women i felt entitled to sleep with wouldn’t fuck me so all American women are Hitler” 😴
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 02:11 AM
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This is exactly what i mean. I offer to pay my half and men go bezerk like you, then whine that they pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:39 PM
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Yes, it is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 10:13 AM
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Going back to days when women were literally property and had no control over their fertility. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:00 AM
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So is infanticide
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:00 AM
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Fortunately we do not do many things predicted by evolutionary psychology
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:53 AM
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Read the responses to your question
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:40 AM
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Okcupid swiping studies do not “prove” that women are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:40 AM
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Absolutely. And if he doesn’t make more he is insecure that he cannot control her, which is what some men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:53 AM
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That is not acceptable whatsoever. Equality in this world involves financial contribution by both parties unless someone is independently wealthy. However it isn’t just biases by women that need to change. MEN need to stop browbeating and shaming other men about money being their only identity. It isn’t me or my daughters telling my son his value is based on how much money he makes, it’s his dad, because his dad tries to use money to control people. It isn’t me or my daughters telling him not to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:51 AM
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Men are also not robots or atm machines. With women being financially independent this mentality must change and this is what i teach my daughters and son. This is not a world or economy where anyone can leave the labor force to stay at home and both partners provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:27 AM
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There are several where men are saying they have to be the provider. Why are you ignoring them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:14 AM
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Read the studies and find out. Alot of it is grounded in entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:14 AM
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To be clear i have dated men who don’t care, and I’ve dated men who said explicitly that they need to make more to feel like a man. Many men here said they need to be the provider. This is a problem with their attitude- not women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 02:13 AM
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Statistics show they don’t do their share of the unpaid labor 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:46 PM
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In the beginning i pay my half and so does he. Later, i insist we trade off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:46 PM
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Even if they aren’t annoying and unattractive men don’t like women making more
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:45 PM
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Good for you. Don’t date women at your company. Alot of women making more than the median man didn’t have to shill for some corporate douche to make what they make and yet men still get pissy that women make more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:22 AM
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The statistics show that women disproportionately do housework even when both partners work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:21 AM
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It’s a debate over what people think and your debate response is to answer that they’re liars. What’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:20 AM
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Then why ask if you’re going to call men and women responding here liars?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:15 AM
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Cool, then men should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:15 AM
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Wtf are you talking about? I insist on paying my half and then men get bitchy over losing the leverage to demand sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:15 AM
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I make good money and never viciously climbed shit so don’t try that excuse with me. Read the replies from men answering your own question since you won’t listen to women. Tons of them are telling you clearly that they do not want a woman who makes more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:14 AM
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You aren’t wiling to listen to women who make more who are clearly telling you what shit we get from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:12 AM
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If chores aren’t hard, men would do them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:11 AM
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Bullshit. Endless shit from men about how women who make more are “unfeminine” and emasculating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:10 AM
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He is handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:45 AM
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Are you a passport bro though? There’s a difference between a guy that meets a woman he likes abroad and dates her versus a guy who deliberately preys on economically desperate women. I’m an expat myself, some of my close friends are asian/Eastern European and they date western guys sometimes- these guys could find women back home too but they meet and like my friends. Just because you date foreign women doesn’t make you a passport bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:46 PM
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I’m not angry at all. My disgust is at both women and men who exploit those who are desperate, as i just said. Otherwise idngaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:47 PM
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The question wasn’t about asian men amd white girls, it was about white guys, white girls, and asian girls
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:52 PM
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They weren’t bad, they just weren’t supermodels and neither am i 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:51 PM
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That video isn’t proof of anything. Some guy found some girls, probably trashed, who want to fuck him. Youtube is full of spring break videos like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:49 PM
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They are a tiny %of the population and fathers have much more power than elsewhere. They generally are not amenable to letting their daughters marry outsiders. The guy would have to be really extraordinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:47 PM
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No, “most” relationships are not dead bedroomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:45 PM
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How do you know he isn’t chad? Because he’s in japan? You know nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:32 PM
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Go outside and look around…. Lots of mediocre and less men with women. Your problem is you want women way hotter than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:31 PM
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You didn’t give any proof. You vomited up rancid incel shit that women do not agree with whatsoever by linking to another opinion on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:30 PM
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I meant if he has a preference for asian women, he’s cute, can definitely get one in the west without having to move abroad. He can get white girls too IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:28 PM
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White men can only wish 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:27 PM
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I’ve dated worse than that guy. I see guys worse than him out with white girls everyday. I mentioned asian American girls because i figured he might be attracted to asian women, nothing wrong with that 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:26 PM
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I cannot speak to one video you found on youtube that you have decided to generalize from but this guy ain’t bad and can get laid by asian American girl easily
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:17 PM
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I’m an expat living in the Middle East. Copts marry almost exclusively within their own community.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:15 PM
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I look around and see tons of men in relationships who are utterly mediocre in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:14 PM
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I think he’s pretty hot 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:13 PM
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Are you ok with converting?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:45 PM
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Divorce rates are presently quite high in the Gulf States- getting up to around 30%
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:44 PM
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Western women that go to places like the gambia to exploit men are also disgusting sex tourists and i have never said otherwise. Passport bros are also disgusting losers, though, and typically the women who want them are also losers or economically desparate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:31 PM
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For example: https://theforeignrational.com/2020/06/09/my-experience-dating-in-japan-the-white-guy-perspective/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:07 PM
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I think average white men are ok in the west. It is mainly losers who become passport bros and they are below average. I also think the women from korea or japan who think loser white men are great are also below average, and willing to pretend the below average white guy is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:07 PM
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Except these men are below average and japanese and korean women also don’t go after below average men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:10 PM
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No, passport bro western men want traditional women without having traditional men’s responsibilities. It isn’t a superiority complex. Asian women with money don’t want them either. This is why i said they need to find only the poorest and most financially desperate women abroad to whom they offer something women can’t get without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:35 PM
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Western women have enough money that they don’t need to degrade themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:32 PM
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But then they get angry when they are used for money and a passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:14 AM
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These men have no options and only very poor women will tolerate them for an option on a green card
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:47 AM
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I don’t care about demographics
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:46 AM
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I didn’t. You have provided no logic for why this is the state’s problem and not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:45 AM
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It isn’t my responsibility. YOU FUCKED HER. It’s YOUR responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:58 AM
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All you are doing is making demands and telling other people to grow up. YOU grow up and handle YOUR babymama and YOUR obsessions over the paternity of YOUR child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:42 PM
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Most younger women care what other people think, whether you agree or not 🤷🏼‍♀️ It’s a signal that you aren’t attractive enough to get a hot guy your own age, and yes, young women do feel embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:09 PM
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Most mediocre women settle with mediocre men and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:59 PM
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Sure. Agree. There are not many hot and fit older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:37 PM
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There are plenty of younger guys who are attractive and fun to be with. Most very young women aren’t looking for marriage either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:35 PM
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But being with a young guy isn’t socially embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:34 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:08 PM
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Most older men aren’t rich and hot. Younger guys should not count on this being them 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:07 PM
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Most people over 50 are overweight and many men over 50 have ED. This socially savvy hot old guy is a minority. Definately attractive 50 year old men can get 30 something year old women… 30+ isn’t young.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:06 PM
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Guy A also isn’t willing to be with one person and the girl willing to date old guys isn’t high quality enough to be on his roster. She can get a 2nd best fuckboy her age or an arguably hotold guy. Guy b doesn’t have the energy to be with more than one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:04 PM
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The % of older men who can be described by guy b is small. He is attractive but it’s still embarrassing for a hot 25 year old to be with him because it implies she cannot get a hot rich guy her own age. But since he equates her age with her quality, he will overlook the fact that he would not have considered her top quality when HE was in his prime anyway. He’a simply happy with the ego boost being able to say he’s with a younger woman provides and she’s happy with his money and attention. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:02 PM
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That’s a handful of older guys. The rest will continue to attract noone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:59 PM
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Women don’t want to be embarrassed socially by being with some old guy, and age doesn’t equal valuable experience. Also, most are balding, fat, and have prostate/ED problems. A minority are fantastically hot, this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:46 PM
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Most older men don’t have status, confidence, or money for a nice lifestyle. They’re bitter, have child support payments, consumer and student loan debt, looming kids’ college costs, set in their ways and have regressive views. Younger men may have a ways to go with money but they’re hot and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:45 PM
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Stop making me pay for your problems. You fucked her, YOU pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:39 PM
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Were we talking about dicaprio or some actress
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:39 PM
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I’m not, as i said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:38 PM
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That is the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:38 PM
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I didn’t say every single man. I said “most men”. Of course there are hot older guys. Just most are not. Leo dicaprio and the guy at your gym do not disprove that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:57 PM
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I’m not claiming to be
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:44 PM
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You fucked her, not me and not the state. Stop dragging me into your bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:43 PM
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I really hope men do not live in hopes that they will one day be extremely attractive movie stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:42 PM
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You are not leo dicaprio.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:41 PM
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I am cool with whatever consenting adults do. I have no axe to grind, i am an ”older woman” with zero problem finding men +/- 10 years of my age. I do think men gas up other men by lying to them that they will magically be more attractive to women as they age, and the majority will not. Also, alot of older men think being used financially by a younger woman means they’re hot shit and it’s embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:36 PM
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I agree. Most older men are undesirable to ANY woman, but as long as everyone can consent IDNGAF
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:28 PM
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What equality? you fucked her, not me, you pay for the test.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 12:55 PM
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For both male and female friends. When there is a dispute i try to offer a different perspective if i see one 2- i condemn cheating and abusive behavior in the strongest terms. I’m the wrong person to come to for support in fuck-boy or girl behavior. I have ended friendships with cheaters because i cannot trust them in the friendship either. 3- when friends have made decisions that led to a breakup my answer is always the same: your decision led to a breakup and you will need to live with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:07 AM
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Bottom line: men will NEVER risk not getting laid. They want this mandated by the state so they don’t risk asking their babymama for a test. This is all about them being scared of the babymama and potentially not getting laid. Pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:01 AM
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Why should she do that? If HE has questions about paternity, HE should do that. If I have questions about HIS sexual fidelity, I have to pay a private investigator, not HIM
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:59 AM
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Why can’t he go to the pharmacy and get the test?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:31 AM
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I replied to YOU, and you simply blathered extremist shit about hedonism, not catholicism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:19 PM
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Yes, as i said. Men take what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:14 PM
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But most men are not attractive to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:11 PM
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4-14% is 4-14 in 100 and 40,000 to 140,000 in a million, not 1 in a million and that’s just those willing to admit it. People probably don’t feel comfortable telling you shit like that. I have friends who really believe none of their friends have been sexually abused as children or are gay or had an abortion. Looking around the table though i know the truth because i don’t judge and people tell me things they don’t tell her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:44 AM
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You mentioned skin aging for women and men valuing smooth skin more than women. “Value” means nothing when you take what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:41 AM
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You said noone regrets. A nontrivial percent are willing to admit they regret. More do and won’t admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 11:39 AM
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We can look at other studies. Perhaps it’s your turn since you initially made the conjecture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:38 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8294566/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:37 AM
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Estimates are 17-18% of parents report regretting having kids even though saying so out loud is deeply condemned by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:37 AM
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You asked twice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:22 AM
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Men value whatever they can get. Most men are undesirable by any woman. Anyway, “In a comparison study of fine lines by sex, the skin of female participants was shown to be smoother (Li et al., 2014).”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 10:11 AM
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You have been lied to. There is most definitely a wall for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:41 AM
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As for skin quality: older men have greater eyelid sagging and forehead lines than older women and women have smoother skin https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6116811/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:41 AM
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The question isn’t whether men want older women. The question is whether women want older men, and on average, the answer is no. Older Women have debt and baggage but older men definately do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:38 AM
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You are in denial https://www.mdpi.com/2073-4425/14/2/486#:~:text=Another%20study%2C%20including%20215%20couples,of%20age%20than%20over%2040. https://pathfertility.com/age-affects-male-and-female-fertility/ “Peak male fertility is around 25-29 years old. Sperm quality begins to decline at 30.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:37 AM
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I absolutely don’t. No issues here unless by “approach”, you mean forcing themselves on women. And then, men get VERY angry when they approach and are told no- that also needs to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:38 AM
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Nobody was talking about the Catholic Church except you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:37 AM
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But in an absolute sense, men hit the wall at 40. Sperm quality and count declines before then as does testosterone. Then the other problems start, prostate, weight gain, ED… men really are not realistic at all when they look at themselves. There are plenty of hot men of all ages, just the median is pretty fucking bad. Even if they’re relying on money- most have consumer loans, child support, looming college expenses and their own student loans- if men in their 20s are anticipating a hot boy sum…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:36 AM
1

Make a post and ask, nobody else is looking at this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:33 AM
1

My actual biological mother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 06:33 AM
1

My bio mother was 15 when i was born. I ended up in foster care. Yes, she absolutely regretted having me and she should have aborted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:05 PM
6

Women are increasingly financially independent
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:04 PM
5

As an older woman, i feel the same way about age gap relationships of both genders… on average younger men are simply much hotter, more fun, better in bed, and have much less baggage than older men. Guys decay quickly past 40 and i have my own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:36 PM
5

Exactly, as an “older woman”, most older men are much less attractive than men in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:32 PM
2

I didn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:25 PM
5

You do know there are other religions?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 01:12 PM
5

What does the Catholic Church have to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:17 AM
2

Cool. There are many studies showing women historically did the overwhelming majority of caregiving work and disproportionately do so today. Anecdotes are not data.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:16 AM
8

Who cares? The US is not a theocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:50 AM
1

60% of married men ARE hard right men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:48 AM
1

I have repeatedly posted them in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:48 AM
6

They’re 90 and dying. I’m not going to interrogate them about hypotheticals like whether they would like to go back in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:47 AM
7

I have met many many people in hospice care who don’t get any love and support from their kids. And yes, i have met some who say they sacrificed their lives for men and kids who do not give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:32 AM
10

Several states do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:31 AM
2

Why don’t you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:31 AM
2

They can use condoms. They can get vasectomies. They can not inject their genetic material into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:31 AM
1

How am i destroying reproductive rights? Hard right men are making it impossible for women to abort EVEN WHEN THE FETUS WILL NOT SURVIVE.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:30 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:29 AM
-1

It’s men’s fault they impregnate women and don’t take responsibility for their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:28 AM
1

It’s a majority and it is destroying reproductive rights
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:28 AM
1

It does when both parents work 40 hours a week or when one person works 40 and the other is a SAHP working 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:27 AM
5

Perhaps you intended to answer OP and not me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:26 AM
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No, i’m saying that you can be the best parent in the world and end up in hospice alone. Marketing motherhood as disability insurance is deeply dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:25 AM
7

If dealing with assholes made people abandon kids, women would do it everyday as well. Men do it because it’s easier
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:24 AM
5

You surround yourself with people who think like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:00 AM
9

As a hospice patientcare volunteer i can assure you that having children as old age companionship insuranceor disability insurance is no guarantee of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:59 AM
9

Divorce doesn’t force you to be an absent father.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:58 AM
19

Women are also at work financially supporting their kids and are stuck with the majority of the unpaid labor at home too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:55 AM
12

Why do men want kids then? Women don’t want men to have to pick up extra hours either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:55 AM
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I’ve never had an abortion but i still don’t want women to die in hospital parking lots because their dying fetus caused sepsis
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:54 AM
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Of course women talk about geopolitical issues. Women YOU associate with apparently don’t, but that simply reflects on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:53 AM
9

Wow. Why do you associate exclusively with such dull women? That is a reflection of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:52 AM
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Kids sound great until you have to deal with and pay for them. It’s also great to have kids if you can avoid physically giving birth to them and if you can avoid most caregiving responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 02:51 AM
0

Statistically women do the majority of the caregiving and household work, even when both partners are formally employed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:39 PM
3

Personally nothing, but if women (really, young kids via women) are net beneficiaries of men paying taxes), perhaps men should take financial responsibility for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:30 PM
-1

Why aren’t men providing then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:47 PM
-1

The trento study says in the robustness checks that the effect is driven by greater female effort and work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 01:36 PM
0

As do men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 12:39 PM
1

Sorry the truth isn’t to your liking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:45 AM
1

Then why are they so unwilling to do any fucking work at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:05 AM
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Straight men, white men, and especially married men. Do we really need to notallmen every single time? https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2024/04/09/partisanship-by-gender-sexual-orientation-marital-and-parental-status/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:13 AM
2

The fact that nearly all men want careers and very few are willing to stay home even when married to women with successful careers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 07:12 AM
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Yes, because prior generations did nothing at home, and women had no alternatives to being trapped with unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:24 AM
1

Have you looked at the stats on middle aged white men by political party?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:23 AM
3

Why pay for daycare if all your kids are perfect and can self motivate and behave like adults? Just work from home
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:40 PM
5

LMAO you have a child that is far beyond the norm but good for you You should work from home and not put the kid in daycare since she can take care of herself and it’s so easy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:01 PM
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Yeah, if that was true then you would know babies and toddlers don’t just easily “get on a schedule”🤣 If it was so great you’d be a SAHP of all 3. Or, you would have made the right choices to marry a financially independent woman so you could stay home with your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:11 PM
3

Everyone wants to provide well for their families so no parent should stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:00 PM
6

Nobody really wants to do low and unpaid labor. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:58 PM
6

How many kids do you have, and how many do you personally take care of 24/7?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 03:56 PM
5

You’re calling it wild to avoid dealing with it. It isn’t the sole purpose. Controlling women so they can get laid IS.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:24 PM
7

What is stopping them from doing caregiving work when they are home or entering caregiving professions?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:23 PM
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If men wanted to stay at home they would. If they wanted to split the unpaid labor they would. If they wanted to enter caregiving professions they would. They don’t, because THEY DO NOT WANT TO.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:30 PM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:29 PM
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It means there is an entire manosphere dedicated to convincing women to start shitting out kids in their early 20s. It means we have a MALE vice presidential candidate dedicated to destroying what is left of reproductive rights and shaming women into lifelong caregiving of their own kids and their grandkids and not even voting if they don’t have kids. It means we have men in congress voting for me to bleed out in a fucking parking lot because a doomed, terminally ill, second trimester fetus has …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:29 PM
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Men want kids- so long as someone else does the shit work/unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:36 AM
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Also, men don’t really give a shit what women want LMAO. If they wanted to stay at home, they would. Even when women also work full time they are stuck with over half the unpaid labor. Men DO NOT WANT to do caregiving work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:35 AM
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Men are doing everything possible to chain women to their fertility and at home with kids as young as possible. That’s what the whole pro life movement is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:34 AM
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If childrearing 24/7 wasn’t real work, men wouldn’t fight so hard to avoid it and stay in the evil workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:07 AM
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His relationship isn’t the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:54 AM
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Read the article. When men don’t get what they want, they abuse. Better the AI girlfriend than human women 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:54 AM
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Statistically, women do well over half the childcare and household work even when employed for pay. Women don’t become frigid after birth LMAO. Can’t wait for AI GFs- but men are already abusing them too. https://futurism.com/chatbot-abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:22 PM
2

Ok I guess my answer is that i would ask for more information/clarification on the issue. Assuming the date went perfectly i would try to get to know them better ahead of a second date. I would then try to detect any indication of deception in repeated questions over time. I am a financial crime investigation consultant so this is what i do. Perhaps i would tell him this is a job i sometimes take and see how he responds to that. I would also scan the public databases/social media for any additio…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:59 PM
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I am now not convinced that you are asking in good faith and not looking for some “gotcha” from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:59 PM
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It isn’t cool. What the fuck is your problem??? This is not a hypothetical, it ruined people’s lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:28 PM
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My brother’s ex wife’s junkie boyfriend sexually assaulted their 6 year old daughter. My brother’s ex wife accused my brother because my niece said dad did it and ex wife ran with that. My brother went to jail pending trail. Meanwhile, the junkie boyfriend raped a neighbor’s daughter and after arrest admitted to raping my niece. I think it is rare but it happened, and i know that because it happened to my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 02:37 PM
1

Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:15 PM
3

At all ages, it is much easier for the a woman to get laid than her make looksmatch. As far as relationships go, sure, men are far more likely to let some woman use him for money in exchange for the ego boost, which is why men so frequently fall for fraud schemes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 03:15 PM
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With a large age gap absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:51 PM
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Yeah, the argument wasn’t so much about whether older women want broke dudes, but rather that most women don’t of any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:24 PM
2

I’m sure anything is possible while still being very improbable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:23 PM
2

Ok then either your ex wasn’t really that great and you have mistaken age for quality, you are way better than you think, or she’s great and you weren’t and you got lucky. I tend to give folks the benefit of the doubt. She probably wasn’t that great, just her age was an ego boost, and you’re probably better than you are saying in some important ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:14 PM
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Most older women also have baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:11 PM
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Most women past a certain age aren’t attention whoring on instagram. If those are the only women you know, shame on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:11 PM
2

What part of median do you not understand?? Rich and famous men are not the median man. Obviously rich and famous men barter money and status for the attention of hot young women. The median man has virtually no chance of being rich, famous, or attracting quality young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:47 PM
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Not being fat or bald is unusual for middle aged men. You probably also aren’t buried financially under child support and consumer debt. I also suspect that the younger girls that go for older guys have their own issues (not talking about your gf per se). Also, ordinary people winning the lottery on occasion exists but is not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:41 PM
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Well, i agree. I’d much rather be alone. I don’t think it would be hard to find some minimally acceptable man for sex or entertainment though if I felt down bad enough based on the offers i get. I think men obtain a huge net benefit from women and don’t want to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:34 AM
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Older women don’t really need or want to be wifed up. And again- you are repeating the delusion that the average man can attract ANY women, much less quality younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:24 AM
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The median person is overweight period. Nobody really wants the median man, younger or older. Half the posts on POD are directly related to that. I doubt you are not something special and i bet your girlfriend can tell us exactly what.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 11:23 AM
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There are plenty of men. Great ones? No. There are also not legions of amazing women compatible with every man looking either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:44 AM
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As i said elsewhere there are exceptional men. There are a handful of hot men of all ages, you are likely one of them. I am referring to the median.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:40 AM
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Men shouldn’t be mad if their wife bangs virile young men on the side then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:35 AM
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He wouldn’t be attractive to a 20 year old because she wants a hot guy her own age
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:33 AM
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The median 40 year old man is as less attractive than he was at 30 and nobody wanted him then either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:33 AM
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90k? Median is 70 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:32 AM
2

Any quality younger women doesn’t need that drama and baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 10:08 AM
7

Nobody wants a broke ass old man in bankruptcy and after working 50 hours a week to cover expenses there is no time or money to fix fat and balding. Quality younger women aren’t looking to play nanny on his parenting time either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:38 AM
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Yeah, because they think they’re entitled to better, and find out the hard way that whoever they were seeking validation from was also using them for validation. The median middle aged man is not better than he was 20 years ago. He looks worse and has baggage. Women weren’t chasing him at his prime and definately not now. And unless you define quality as younger, younger women attracted to the median middle aged man aren’t great. They are women who can’t get quality their own age. He thinks they…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:35 AM
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I’m talking about averages, of course. There are hot men of all ages, just that’s not the median.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:43 AM
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Men deteriorate over time. The wall hit men, hard. Fat, balding, prostate problems, consumer debt, child support, looming college tuition for kids… and most struggled to get laid in their prime. I’m not sure why you think all these women want them at 50 when nobody wanted them at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:41 AM
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Who will women be replaced with? Their own wives don’t want them. Neither do younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:28 AM
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Why would men file for divorce? They lose free on demand childcare, maid service, and sex and they then have to do all the shit work involved in 50% custody. No matter how bad the marriage is for her, he benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:11 AM
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No problem. Most men are unwanted by ANY woman, including younger women, so if they want to chase Stacy forever and be used as an ATM or sexless, it’s fine with me. There are still more than enough men to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:09 AM
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Mkay
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 08:21 PM
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Hot guys of all types get play
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 01:29 PM
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And lots of hot guys get play.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:39 PM
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Yes and 99% of men like Stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 11:03 AM
3

Who gives a shit? Why do so many men think they need approval from the everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:40 PM
1

Good, I’m sure there is an unlimited supply of people willing to do all houswork and childcare at $15 an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:02 AM
0

Then hire a domestic servant for $15 an hour if you can do that (LMAO, childcare costs way more than that). NOONE can stay at home if you do not want to run the risk of paying alimony. Only 10% of divorces now involve alimony- but if that risk is pressing to you, DO NOT MARRY ANYONE WHO WANTS TO STAY AT HOME.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 01:49 AM
9

My male cockatiel has been sitting on an infertile egg laid by a purple budgie for a week
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:23 PM
1

I agree completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 05:13 PM
5

As long as you’re ok that noone has kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:21 PM
5

But kyle’s wife very much will sacrifice her life and career to raise kids and then listen to him whine about child support when the marriage becomes unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:13 PM
3

Then no way should either partner sacrifice one day of their career on kids or housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:12 PM
0

All for it. Alot of men don’t want to ask for a prenup because they know it won’t be easy to find anyone willing to marry them so they just whine after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:10 PM
1

Men cannot whine about women not giving them sex on demand until they have fixed all men’s issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:12 PM
0

Fat single mothers don’t demand this. 99% of men are not 66666 and yet 70% manage to reproduce. Plenty of mediocre men get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:11 PM
0

And with credit card debt and prostate problems
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:10 PM
2

You’re acting like a douche with low quality women who are willing to fuck anyone and now you think you deserve an award LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:59 PM
2

I do not care what the alternative is- noone is entitled to sex from anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:42 AM
5

Leave people be. Nobody really cares what you think is wrong or unhealthy anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 11:41 AM
6

They haven’t found anyone they like, why personalize it? Who cares what they think?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:34 AM
5

Why are you so pressed over it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:14 AM
3

If it turns into a war because some men feel entitled to free sex on demand with whoever they want, so be it. Straight men don’t feel obligated to let gay men fuck them to avoid a war even though it’s unfair that only 5% of the world are gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:14 AM
2

They don’t care. Some holes are preferable to others but almost any will do if necessary. This is why they don’t care about compatibility, they want sex on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:12 AM
6

That’s not your problem at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:10 AM
5

Using someone for holes is different from liking them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:07 AM
1

Yeah, i’m saying no other job is 24/7 with no overtime or vacation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 03:13 PM
1

This is an allowance, not a paycheck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:00 AM
3

Prefer has nothing to do with what we settle for
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:52 PM
1

If she wasn’t stuck at home doing unpaid labor she would be working for pay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:27 PM
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That’s why porn is so dangerous. Men believe what they see on porn and have no reference point for reality
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:43 PM
3

Alot of women are also losers 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:23 PM
2

I don’t really care what they do and they probably would also make fun of some of my interests such as birdkeeping. I don’t give a fuck. I don’t care if people make fun of me. If you want an AI blowup doll by all means go for it. People make fun of you, me, and everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:22 AM
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They haven’t found alternatives though. If they did they wouldn’t be whining in PPD about not having a human bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:21 AM
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“Do all the unpaid labor at home as well as your outside job while I do only the paid work or else i’ll whine about gender roles”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:19 AM
1

Only one is getting paid for the majority of their labor
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:17 AM
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Men don’t want to do unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:17 AM
5

Most women have given up on men being protectors and providers. Most men can do neither. So congrats, you’re also freed from the expectations of hunter/gatherer and industrializing societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:16 AM
4

Only 10% of divorces involve alimony, stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:14 AM
2

I know many.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:11 AM
3

Notice, both men and women are making fun of it. Women are not, however, crying over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:09 AM
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Because they’re losers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:09 AM
4

“Women have to fuck men who are unattractive so i can get laid, but i am entitled to fuck whoever i want on demand and if that doesn’t happen all women are bitches and whores.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:43 AM
4

One study based on okcupid swiping
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:42 AM
5

Please, and as quickly as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:41 AM
3

A local cop will tell you this is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:56 AM
5

Women do not often lie about rape and paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:21 AM
1

Women date down all the time. Eventually everyone settles. Stacy and chad are not realistic aspirations.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:04 PM
12

Yep and everyone will be miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:34 PM
1

Finding a man who isn’t trying to use u as a fleshlight for validation is problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:10 PM
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There will be a lot of very unhappy sexless men whose wives cannot stand touching them, just praying he fucks up and cheats so she can demonstrate fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:45 PM
2

Whatever you say…. Again, noone cares what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:28 AM
2

Quite the contrary, reddit is a great place to vent. Why are you here? Don’t you have some asian girls to exploit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:26 AM
2

Especially loser white guys 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:24 AM
2

No problems finding men here. You’re salty because white women won’t fuck you, and you think the answer is exploiting asian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:23 AM
2

As i said, asian women with any alternatives also won’t want you. You will need to find someone with absolutely no other alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:22 AM
2

Asian women in the US make more and they also won’t date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:21 AM
2

Eh? You have clearly never been abroad and you are also delusional. Absolutely NOBODY cares about you and who you marry. Noone. Go find someone to use you for a passport and enjoy life. You won’t be missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:19 AM
2

Because with higher education and other alternatives, nobody wants kids. The fertility rate in asia is also abysmal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:17 AM
2

White women never wanted those men. You are lying to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:12 AM
2

The causality runs the other way. Asian men are less attractive to white and black women. Again, your fetish aside- the entire world is not asian vs white.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:11 AM
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Again: life is not based on men scrambling to get laid on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:06 AM
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Yeah, this is a completely different thing from what alot of guys do who would be predators at home or abroad. It’s important to be clear that i do NOT think every guy who marries a foreigner is like this. There are TONS of great people everywhere. Personally i am sure i can find at least one person of any nationality to like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:03 AM
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Yes, women who have alternatives have fewer kids… what is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:58 AM
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Actually, in my opinion, not all guys who move to a poorer country and meet women they like are passport bros. There is a BIG difference between men who want to deliberately exploit desperate women and men who meet women they like abroad. For example, my best friend here is a Filipina who is an amazing person and can get lots of guys. She has dated a variety of men who like her for her, not because they think they’re getting revenge on western women by exploiting some economically desperate asia…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:57 AM
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But they do. Lots of them. I think you have no actual experience abroad and have absolutely no clue about anything but tinder and your fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:52 AM
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Ok, good luck with that 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:49 AM
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I’m not in those forums, i’m in this one, and it’s full of angry little men who cannot get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:49 AM
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I am literally an expat. My whole point is that passport bros try to move to poor countries to exploit poor women because they have nothing to offer anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:49 AM
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This is, again, based on horny desperate men on tinder. Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:47 AM
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“They” don’t. YOU do. The world is full of nonwhite men, by the way. You vastly overestimate your importance in ANY regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:47 AM
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YOU prefer asian women. You have continually fetishized them in this thread. And more power to you, but i doubt anyone really wants to be fetishized by you in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:44 AM
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What men aspire to on tinder is completely disengaged from reality in every fucking way 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:43 AM
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Yeah go tell that to all the angry sexless little men posting in PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:42 AM
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Nobody is telling you to not go find some asian woman dude. Literally NOONE CARES about your fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:40 AM
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Again, 90% of the posts here are MEN whining about not getting laid- women have no problem whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:39 AM
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I don’t care what they make- just not going to them pretend they have anything to offer, when they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:38 AM
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Again about japan? The world is full of men noone wants. Look at yourself and most the posts in PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:37 AM
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LMAO! Who cares about the “online dating market”? Tinder is full of gross losers spamming all women with dick pics- literally 90% of the posts in PPD are men whining they can’t get laid 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:35 AM
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No, they aren’t- but even if they are, who cares? The world is full of men. Your money and passport are the only reason anyone will tolerate you, which is why you’re so frustrated. Have fun thinking someone loves you for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:34 AM
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Western women now have their own money. That’s why you can’t financially trap anyone here. Asian and latinas are favored by gross sex tourists like you, and they can have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:27 AM
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All of them do. Western women have no problem finding men at home or abroad. That’s why you cannot compete and why you are so bitter (and racist)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:25 AM
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One thing western men are really, really pressed over is the increasing financial independence of women. If you think life is easier in places where women are desperate enough to find you attractive, good for you. Take your shitty median income of $60k and go. As for gold digger- that’s what passport bros seek to attract. Nobody in the west needs to put up with your shit just to get whatever meagre income you provide. I differentiate passport bros from expats who meet foreigners they like and wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:24 AM
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Then pack up and leave. I’d rather be alone than deal with these whiny, lazy western men, but i won’t be. The world is full of men. Nobody will miss you, not even whoever marries you for your passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:29 AM
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It literally explains how white women are fetishized in infia
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:19 AM
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LMAO!!! We have tons of options everywhere on earth. At a minimum we can find someone to use us for passports- which is all you will ever do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:18 AM
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I posted tons of sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:17 AM
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https://www.dailyo.in/amp/politics/sexism-white-skin-india-beauty-cosmetics-industry-racism-brands-body-shaming-14585
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:17 AM
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https://assets-eu.researchsquare.com/files/rs-1969656/v1_covered.pdf?c=1661194347
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:16 AM
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Again- you are obsessed with southeast asia. Western women have the whole world to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:15 AM
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Entire societies are focused on finding women with the lightest possible skincolor https://amp.theguardian.com/inequality/2017/sep/04/dark-is-beautiful-battle-to-end-worlds-obsession-with-lighter-skin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:14 AM
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The discussion was about whether western women can get foreign men, not whether nonwhite men fetishize asian women you moron
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:12 AM
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As opposed to what? White men’s skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:11 AM
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Every single one describes skincolor preferences towards white skin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:11 AM
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I never said nonwhite men fetishize asian women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:10 AM
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Every single one explains persistent biases towards light skin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:09 AM
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I posted one article for each region i mentioned. All you have is japan 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:09 AM
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Telling on yourself? Your wikipedia article goes on and on about how white men fetishize Asian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:08 AM
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https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20200818-colourism-in-india-the-people-fighting-light-skin-bias https://www.pewresearch.org/race-and-ethnicity/2021/11/04/majority-of-latinos-say-skin-color-impacts-opportunity-in-america-and-shapes-daily-life/ https://www.newarab.com/features/dark-skinned-and-beautiful-challenging-saudi-arabias-perception-beauty?amp https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0273229716000137
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:06 AM
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Well, first off- not all western women are white. There are plenty of men worldwide for nonwhite western women. However, since you seem to dislike white western women in particular, you can easily identify volumes of research on skincolor bias in India, the middle east, and subsaharan Africa. Much of southeast asia also tries to artificially whiten their skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:04 AM
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Oh, if we are talking about men in the west, western women already have tons of options. There are volumes of surplus unwanted men here right now. Immigrants are not always poor and they don’t stay poor. They work harder than subsequent generation western men. Western women can also find tons of men abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:00 AM
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Your article is describing competition for foreign sex tourists in Brazil.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:55 AM
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You keep going back to japan, who fucking cares? The whole world exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:54 AM
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Why do western women care about what foreign male sex tourists want? We’re trying to offload these worthless and unwanted western men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:52 AM
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Brazil example has nothing to do with whether brazilian men want western women. They do. Gross white western sex tourists don’t, because they can’t get any women at home. As for singapore and japan, the causality runs the other way- white and black western women are less attracted to southeast asian men, maybe vice versa, but who cares? The world is full of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:51 AM
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… brazil is literally in the western hemisphere you moron It is about what brazilian women competing for SEX TOURISTS in brazil- exactly the kind of gross western men who western women won’t fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:49 AM
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You know there are skincolor fetishes in many places on earth, right? It is VERY easy for western women to pick up/date/marry foreign men in south and central america, africa, the middle east, and some asian countries including the Indian subcontinent. Also, nobody really likes western men, either. They simply provide some perceived benefits, like relative wealth if you are desperately poor and a chance for a passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:48 AM
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Who said anything about western women competing for sex tourists in brazil???? Lmao, gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:44 AM
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The source is based on swedish women in japan, literally the most xenophobic country on earth, LMAO Nobody said for swedish women to go to japan. Also: nobody ever said every western woman will attract EVERY foreign man. There are plenty of unwanted, lonely surplus men everywhere on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:42 AM
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Who said anything about singapore or Swedish women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:39 AM
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Who said anything about japan? LMAO, you’re reaching
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:39 AM
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LMAO… you are so, so wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:38 AM
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I never said they are not working. I said they are “not high earners”. Also: many countries have tax treaties with the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:37 AM
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<sup>pay</sup> 0 in taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:36 AM
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I am an expat. I know a ton of these guys. We have a bunch who teach English. They make around $60k per year on which they pay $0. Our employer provides housing on site. We pay no rent or utilities. The passport bros marry women from very poor countries who are financially dependent and to whom a guy making $60k is “rich” and who has the benefit of providing a passport. There are also many professional expats, both men and women, who meet foreigners they like from wherever, but doing so is not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:36 AM
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Go abroad and find out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:25 AM
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You can make way more teaching English abroad than in the US. No taxes and many employers actually pay for housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:22 AM
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Of course they do, they just don’t go to poor countries to exploit desperate people and then get online to brag about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:21 AM
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There are some in r/passportbros, but most are just living their lives in some other country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:00 AM
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Who is calling them evil? The overwhelming majority of women are saying NOBODY CARES
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:57 AM
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Probably because you’re traveling in circles full of men who hate western women and emotionally masturbate to each other online about how they will have their revenge when they go marry some former colombian or filippina escort who will use them to support their family
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:56 AM
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Men abroad also work. Not all of them are broke. Western women aren’t going to target the poorest and most desperate in order to control them like passport bros. Western women are increasingly financially independent and most foreign men are willing to work hard in exchange for opportunity. I’m an expat and i can tell you with 100% certainty western women are NOT hurting for options with foreign men who are willing to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:48 AM
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I’m pointing out that nobody cares enough about MGTOW to say they’re evil. Literally noone cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:42 AM
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Passport bros falsely assume only they are in demand. They are wrong. EVERY westerner has a passport to offer and most have at least some income.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:41 AM
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I’m an expat and i can tell you, having met many passport bros, they know how to stretch a dollar by financially trapping desparately poor women. They are not living normal expat lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:39 AM
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Probably as much as the passport bro likes being shaken down for money by foreign women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:34 AM
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Passport bros are neither educated nor high earners. They are looking for economically disadvantaged women who think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:22 AM
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Mgtow are unwanted surplus men, nobody cares about them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:20 AM
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No problem, foreign men are extremely easy to get for western women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:17 AM
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There are legions of surplus unwanted men in the west. And there are, literally, billions of available men worldwide.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:15 AM
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Mediocre men get laid every single day
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:12 AM
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Men are not ATM machines Women are not vending machines for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:04 AM
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Glad you’re free sis 🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:56 AM
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It became princess treatment the minute a man wanted free sex from a woman and she turned him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:30 AM
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For many men it seems to mean washing the dishes or doing their own laundry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 11:29 AM
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I answered because i felt like it- obviously 🙄🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:26 AM
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Whining about people posting on your comment on reddit as if you have any authority anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:24 AM
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Great, we have a thread gatekeeper over here 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:19 AM
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Yes, and i’ve answered it. I have no obligation to answer the way YOU want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:17 AM
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Well OP linked this woman’s IG in particular - and you are operating under the premise that you know what she wants out of life. The whole premise is false and stupid, but to repeat- the answer is that unless she specifically asks you what she’s doing wrong you should keep your ideas to yourself. I am sure this is very difficult for most men to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:11 AM
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Dating isn’t meeting anyone’s needs. You think that because you have a delusional fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:58 AM
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If your daughter is 32 and accumulating traffic for business purposes i suggest you shut the fuck up unless she asks for advice directly about why her 12 year relationship ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:57 AM
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Quite a lot of single parents are doing way better after getting divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:26 AM
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I had a friend get hauled into court for not calling on time when they were supposed to even though the ex rarely keeps his call times. After that she started demanding her rights too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:24 AM
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I suspect this woman on IG you link to is very happy to get all this traffic because she needs it to monetize her training business. She also says she just got out of a 12 year long relationship. I suspect she has no problem finding men- just there are alot of really bitter, angry men out there who are angry she won’t fuck guys like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:23 AM
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Perhaps she wants something out of life other than marriage and childrem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:12 AM
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It simply is true. If she violates the order by withholding you raise that with the court.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:10 AM
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Keep reaching out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:09 AM
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This is like my brother’s case. We went through alot but ultimately he got full custody due to her drug abuse. There are alot of single parents Reddit’s/facebook groups with support for this situation with a few men dealing with it. You should reach out and you will find alot of support. Documenting EVERYTHING is the most important thing. At 13 your child should have their own phone as well. I hope you live nearby. My bio was an addict so i know how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:09 AM
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Untrue, a father’s rights helped my brother alot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:05 AM
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How old is your kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:05 AM
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The laws have changed alot. I support that. I helped my brother fight for custody 15 years ago because his ex was a junkie who moved her dealer boyfriend in and didn’t send their daughter to school. In those days it was a fight and i helped him financially. Nobody deserved that. Now what the stats show is most custody issues are negotiated up front and the father doesn’t want more than partial custody, claiming “work”, which women overwhelmingly do as well. The stats show that when men DON’T jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 07:04 AM
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Not anymore. The laws increasingly favor shared custody, which I support completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:51 AM
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Until they can find a girlfriend or guilt their mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:51 AM
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It isn’t. And if she does that in violation of a custody order she can get in trouble. He can stroll in and out as he pleases, making excuses or just not showing up to take the kids and noone cares
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:50 AM
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Men who have killed their wives have gotten custody in illinois. Rapists can get custody in many states.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:48 AM
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Over half of men in mediation decide to dump their kids on the wife. When people say fight, they mean JUST FUCKING TRY. Men will fight for every fucking penny in a divorce, but not one word out of their mouths when it comes to having to parent their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 06:47 AM
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Trophy wives are visuals of success for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:27 PM
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Good they are single at 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:25 AM
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Men condition 90% of their behavior on looking successful to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:35 AM
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Him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:44 PM
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But that’s what OP is qualified to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:41 PM
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You will still be an angry little man if you get relative power and wealth. There will always be someone with more to make you feel like a loser. You should’ve paid for sex long ago and gotten over yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:38 PM
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Life sucks for everyone, feel better now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:14 PM
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Men think they’re going to control everything by making a checklist of traits instead of finding people they like and in my life i have never seen people like this be successfull.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:48 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/pyoxm940fjwc1.jpeg?width=1164&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e51a46ab3d2c93437fa131b75cc2a9413ae5f407
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:34 AM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:33 AM
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They can’t be good parents if they aren’t raising their kids 70% of the time, IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:33 PM
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But to that point, yeah. Better to just not have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:32 PM
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You don’t have to live where it snows dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:32 PM
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We haven’t been in year zero for 10,000 years. What are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:44 PM
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Because they’d invest in getting to know someone instead of trying to get laid by randoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:04 PM
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No, they badger women because they anticipate getting something out of the sex. Only they know if they intend to make an effort to please the woman or not. Women can’t know that up front.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:02 PM
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If men agreed with you, they wouldn’t be whining that women won’t fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:53 PM
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Men would not be badgering women for sex if they expected an orgasm only 10% of the time while providing them for women. You know it and so do I.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:52 PM
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Agreed. Caregiving is something men won’t do because most are not decent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:50 PM
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Sure. Ex ante, in the absence of reference, my expectation is that i will not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:49 PM
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Statistically, overwhelmingly, caregiving falls on women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:48 PM
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Self righteous angry little men rarely make much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:56 PM
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Useless how? I make more than you and i can afford help with the kids. I don’t need a bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:53 PM
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I’m perfectly happy, i’m not stuck at home with a bunch of kids with no help
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:47 PM
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Oh and- The dynamic worked for men for 10,000 years. The instant women had alternatives, the TFR fell.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:17 PM
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I wonder how she will feel when she is stuck with kids 24/7 and you won’t help with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:15 PM
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If the work at home wasn’t much, you wouldn’t be so desperate to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:35 AM
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Does your girlfriend know you feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:35 AM
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I could be wrong. You might be the kind of married guy with kids who vents here because he never gets laid at home and doesn’t dare say anything to his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:34 AM
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I doubt you will ever have any chance to share your “gene pool” at all, and that’s why you’re here complaining about women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:29 AM
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Not at all. Everything you said here reflects your lack of respect for what women who stay at home do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:29 AM
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Well, over half simply dump the kids on their mothers in mediation. Seems they have a hard time motivating themselves to try for custody at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:20 AM
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Not really, i would never reproduce with you 🤣 this all is between you and whoever you found that had absolutely no other options
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:19 AM
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Those things happen once every six months. She does shit work daily and you have made it clear you have no respect for what she does. I’m sure you would never say any of this at home, thoughZ
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:18 AM
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I thought you said you and your partner have it sorted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 11:00 AM
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Except you aren’t expected to be on call 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:56 AM
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You’re finally admitting that you dump all the work on women. Progress!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:56 AM
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Actually, you are whining on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:50 AM
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Of course, because the answer is no. You hold women to standards you could never meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:50 AM
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You as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:49 AM
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Dude, great! Just before you have kids with her, let her know all the work will fall on her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:49 AM
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Also, you didn’t answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:48 AM
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I really don’t care what you assume
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:48 AM
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As long as your GF is cool with being a bangmaid, congrats to her!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:47 AM
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Are you this bitter because of your mommy then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:47 AM
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When did i say that? Clearly, another man whose mommy is still picking ip after him and doing his laundry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:47 AM
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My personal life is none of your business 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:46 AM
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Yeah i’m sure they’re lining up for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:45 AM
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So you have an office job, get home at 6, and your work is done. No other job requires daily work that never ends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:45 AM
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Are you on call 24/7 at your job? No?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:44 AM
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Ok, so if women are doing it poorly let them work outside the home and you stay home and do it properly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:43 AM
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You do understand that kids get sick, and only SAHPs are obligated to manage that, whereas YOU are not on call 24/7?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:37 AM
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I get paid to do my work. Most women do. Accordingly, i do not need to do YOUR share of the unpaid work corresponding to the kids YOU claimed you wanted, or your laundry, or YOUR meals. If it’s so easy, you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:36 AM
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They’re men’s children as well, so they can do some of the work. No employment contract except sahps is 24/7/365. Your shitty office job doesn’t come close. The men who drop their kids on you (and me) to pay for ARE the fucking problem. You should encourage other men to use birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:35 AM
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Methods continuously improving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:33 AM
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As are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:32 AM
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This entire forum is full of men whining that no women want them, so perhaps they need to step up their games.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:16 AM
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You need to understand that men will whine. Even while doing virtually nothing outside of their paid job, they still whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:16 AM
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Unfortunately the men who fuck welfare moms should be paying or you and I wouldn’t have to. I also work as do many women including many who are still stuck with all the unpaid work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:15 AM
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All studies have methodological limitions, that’s how research works
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:14 AM
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Men need to pull their weight with childcare especially when their wives work. 8 hours a day in the office is nothing compared to 24/7 caregiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 09:38 AM
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Women being stuck with all the unpaid shit work is definitely a problem. Or- i agree that the declining fertility rate is acceptable so i am ok with folks not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:59 AM
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When? This is a different study from the one that was not retracted and it confirmed the findings of a prior study
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:58 AM
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Way too many are. And if men were really worried about chad, they’d step up their games.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:43 AM
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Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center. "Men Leave: Separation And Divorce Far More Common When The Wife Is The Patient."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:07 AM
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https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:06 AM
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What i’m trying to say is that even a 17 year old requires a time investment, not that the nature of the time investment is identical
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:05 AM
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I didn’t say it’s the same. I said it’s different but it is still nontrivial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:34 AM
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Wrong. The study in journal of public and social behavior was retracted. The study in cancer was not retracted and it was the 2nd study to show this effect. https://www.reuters.com/article/idUSTRE5AB0C5/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:33 AM
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Compensated how much? 24/7 childcare and house cleaning services?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:15 AM
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We both spend money, we both contribute financially like the majority of grown ups in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:59 AM
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I make quite a bit of my own money and too many times when i offered to pay on dates i would get called masculine, a bitch, feminazi etc. Men claim they want women to contribute but the truth is they want leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:58 AM
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Then why are so many posts here about how unfair it is that men can’t get casual sex as easily as women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:56 AM
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Absolutely. This is why it is so critical to discuss expectations up front and then honor your commitments. Unfortunately women are working outside the home and doing the overwhelming share of the caregiving. This is where the problem comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:54 AM
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I’m not expecting an ATM machine or daddy. Who do you think YOU are to demand a bangmaid or mommy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:53 AM
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How do you define good sex? You claim having an orgasm doesn’t define it although i guarantee you won’t keep having sex if you don’t expect to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:03 AM
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YOU don’t care how likely it is because YOU will orgasm whether you are bad at sex or not. YOU will get what you wanted by having sex. Statistically I will not. All men can pay for sex. What you are complaining about is not getting sex for free. Also, your ego compels you to demand that women pretend that they want sex with you. I mean you general not you in particular because you might be great at sex. Again, men who are great at sex are penalized because women cannot know up front who is good …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:01 AM
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Men are happy with bad sex because they still orgasm. Women are not. Very simple. Because bad money drives out good, women have to expect bad sex on average. Some portion of men have no chance to get ANY sex… FOR FREE- because the expected value to women is negative. Men that know they are bad at sex should pay for sex so women are more likely to be approached by men who are worth having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:59 AM
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What makes it good sex to you versus me? Are you ok if you won’t orgasm most of the time? Of hours not. Do most men have references? Maybe that would help. Statistically i am not going to get good sex. Statistically you are. So go pay for sex since i am not doing charity work for you or incurring expected losses for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:40 AM
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So what is the benefit to me from the sex? How likely is it for women to obtain this benefit if the man is bad at sex versus the man obtaining the benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:38 AM
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They need the shit work done like the dishes amd laundry and they don’t want to pay for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:25 AM
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If i am never going to orgasm i not going to waste my time outside the context of a relationship and even then it isn’t going to work out. Imagine telling a man to agree to sex without expecting to orgasm. LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:25 AM
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Ah yes. You are supposed to get to know someone first. This i agree. The example given was being propositioned by randoms as i kept saying. Still, i cannot vet sexual quality without banging them or getting external 3rd party references. So because i do not benefit from banging them to vet quality i need to rely on external 3rd party references or the problem remains. He orgasms even when he is bad at sex. I do not. I cannot know ahead of time if he is good or bad so i have to discount what he s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:24 AM
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What happens if the sex is bad for you? The vast majority of the time you still orgasm. Women don’t, so on average, sex with randoms is a negative loss transaction for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:16 AM
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So someone who serves you. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:14 AM
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When a woman gets diagnosed with a serious disease, statistically, the man leaves, after she contributes a lifetime of unpaid caregiving work. Talk about the bond being over when you stop providing value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:13 AM
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Too many men are focused on stacy. This is why they’re single.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:10 AM
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Or, they are too busy to invest properly in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:10 AM
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If a woman isn’t willing to be his bangmaid or mommy, he is going to complain. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:09 AM
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If there was, men wouldn’t be so desperate for sex with any and all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:03 AM
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To which women exactly? Sure, women want help raising kids. This is the father’s job, not his sister’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 04:02 AM
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You consider men who are absent 70% of the time to be good fathers because it serves men to think that. I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:42 AM
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Statistically women are stuck with nearly all caregiving work whether they like it or not and then when they are diagnosed with a serious illness they are abandoned by men. This isn’t about shoveling snow which happens immediately only some climates infrequently versus changing diapers all day and night every fucking day for two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:41 AM
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The guy gets off whether the sex is good or bad on his end. The woman, statistically, does not. That’s why men pay for professional sex work and women don’t - it is an expected loss for women. Check YOUR privilege. Every encounter leads to an orgasm for you. That’s why it costs you nothing to badger every woman you see for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:09 AM
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Actually, it’s a father’s rights lawyer website. I accidentally clicked on an ad navigating to the site. I am sure in your infinite wisdom and skill you never do that. But if it challenges your biases, you take it seriously anyway. They never do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:02 AM
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When women try to pay for their half of dates they get called bitches, feminazis, unfeminine etc. Men claim they want equality but they really want leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:00 AM
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And this is exactly why so many men need to find another woman right away after they divorce. Shared custody means they need to find someone else to clean the house and take care of the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:59 AM
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Stop it. The fucking village means inter generational servitude by women- grandma, aunties, older sisters. That is all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:57 AM
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Why does the mother need a year off to be with the kid? Pump and bottle feed breast milk, then the father can take care of the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:56 AM
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They believe that a woman is less likely to leave once she is trapped with kids
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:54 AM
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The nature of time investment changes but the time investment does not change. You are still investing heavily in your high school kids, just not changing diapers. Unless you have a significantly disabled child, and then of course the caregiving falls on the mother as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:53 AM
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Women do the vast majority of caregiving. And yes, i’d rather shovel the snow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:51 AM
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Caregiving is something women are supposed to provide for free without complaint and you think it’s women who hate men? It is men who hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:50 AM
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It is horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:49 AM
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The problem is that once the kids are there, the mother is trapped even if she doesn’t want to do all the work- somebody has to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:48 AM
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Over half the time in mediation, the man dumps the kids on the mother. 20% of men have no contact with their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:47 AM
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The answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:45 AM
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Did you look at the studies referenced about how women are railroaded into nearly all caregiving roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:35 PM
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So did the guy who got good sex from me when it turned out to be good. That is the compensation both people get from it. He gets off even when he’s trash though and I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:34 PM
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I know you don’t really care. But here: https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2022/12/emotional-labour-women-workplace-home-gender/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:58 PM
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I’m not given anything for free. If the sex was good, both get an orgasm and if it is bad only he benefits and best case scenario is i waste my time. The chance it will be bad will is much higher so the expected value to me is negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:39 PM
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Because there is a big probability of trash and a small probability of not trash, and because i do not benefit at all from trash, it is better to reject. In protecting myself from wasting my time on shitty sex, I forgo the small positive chance that the sex may have been good. Seriously, this is a basic concept in economics. It’s amazing how men are all about the SeXuAlMaRkEtVaLuE but understand nothing about how markets work. https://www.tutor2u.net/economics/topics/lemons-problem#:~:text=%22Le…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:58 PM
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It isn’t the only possibility. However, when encountered with a random, i have to take into account that the sex will be trash. He benefits either way, but i do not, and since i cannot know for sure it isn’t trash, it is better to reject and not be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:34 PM
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My argument wasn’t only or alot. It is what i can expect ahead of time to get out of sex with the median random.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:05 PM
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Only he benefits from sex if it’s shit or great. I won’t unless it’s great so I will always have an incentive to discount the quality of some random in the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:55 PM
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I am answering your question. Statistically every man won’t suck in bed but you cannot fuck every man and you can’t know ahead of time so better to reject than have shitty sex. It is not privilege to be offered alot of what would be expected to be shitty sex to me and great sex to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:54 PM
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They can’t know ahead of time what is approaching them, right? So they have to make an assumption. Google “lemons problems” for more info
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:47 PM
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He made a bunch of vague statements and generalizations which similarly small minded angry men agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:42 PM
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Then since she can’t know up front she will assume he is the median guy pulling up at the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 01:41 PM
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Women do the vast majority of emotional labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:04 AM
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How can women know up front before wasting their time?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:55 AM
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What, throwing ad homs?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:54 AM
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Sorry. https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths A Massachusetts study examined 2,100 fathers who asked for custody and pushed aggressively to win it. Of those 2,100, 92 percent either received full or joint custody, with mothers receiving full custody only 7 percent of the time. Another study where 8 percent of fathers asked for custody showed that of that 8 percent, 79 percent received either sole or joint custody (in other words, approximately 6.3 percent of …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:56 AM
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This isn’t true. When men try to get custody, overwhelmingly they get it Several studies referenced here: http://keepingfoodtrue.blogspot.com/2009/05/lebanese-cooking-with-pomegranate.html?m=1
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:30 PM
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Over half agree to dump the kids on the mother during mediation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:16 PM
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Oh yeah me too. I bang all the single dads on the playground and some of the moms too. It’s ammaaaaazzzing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:57 PM
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Actually, everything you posted sounds like a fantasy of a obese reddit virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:50 PM
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This is not your personal erotica forum
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:10 PM
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Cool story bro 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:53 PM
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I do have close friends and they have jobs and lives of their own so i would never ever expect them to provide free childcare for me, especially with a baby or toddler. I wasn’t asking what you did with a 13 year old, i’m asking about who took care of the baby/small child that you think the only tasks involved are laundry, meal prep, drinking wine and doing your nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:32 PM
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You used people as free childcare while you worked, and they let you? How? They have nothing else to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:21 PM
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Did you stay at home when your son was a baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:04 PM
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Who said men are so horrible? Nobody. You’re trying to be a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:03 PM
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You clearly have never had to do any childcare
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:01 PM
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I’m not the one pretending to be a victim here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:51 PM
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Do you feel obligated to fuck gay guys? Because i do not believe men want women to tell them how sad they are that they can’t get laid whenever they want. I’m sad for you, now what? I think men want women to feel guilty enough to throw them a pity fuck and pretend they want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:12 PM
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I do not have this study but will be glad to look at it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:45 AM
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How many men WANT to be partnered or are in between LTRs for 50% to be “bad”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:23 AM
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This is just marriage, doesn’t include long term relationships. Show me the study showing that men are not in relationships, doesn’t have to be marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:02 AM
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Is it unfair that gay guys would like to fuck you but you don’t want to? Obviously there are many more straight men available for them to fuck than gay men. Is it fair that you get to gatekeep sex from straight men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:00 AM
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Typical that you have no response
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:02 AM
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All you did is deflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:36 AM
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Yes, the vast majority of men get married. https://fivethirtyeight.com/features/when-will-everyone-i-know-be-married/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:35 AM
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I don’t have unfair power any more than you do over gay men because you won’t let them stick their dicks in you whenever you want. You are a black hole of anger because every one of your wants are not met at all times. Go and directly pay for sex. Problem solved. Words on a screen will only do so much for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:34 AM
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Sounds like you are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:31 AM
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And you cannot fathom the female perspective on these topics. You want what you want when you want it and history has made you feel entitled. This is why you perceive powelesness the minute you don’t get your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:50 AM
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I mean i am sure gay men would like to shove their dicks in you and find it unjust that straight men have more options because there are so many more straight men. Should they whine that it is so unjust that you won’t fuck them and it’s easy for you to say no and ignore what they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:49 AM
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No, it doesn’t extend to all levels of partners. There is an army of angry little men who think their inability to have every wish instantly fulfilled by whoever they want in the moment is a grave injustice against them. This entitlement is why they think life is easy for women. They see only themselves and disregard others’ struggles and unfulfilled desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:46 AM
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And the vast majority of men eventually get married. Men are not entitled to get sex or relationships from every woman they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:43 AM
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Ok then why even bring it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:42 AM
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Because he is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:41 AM
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Apparently you do or you wouldn’t be pointing out how much you’ve spent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:30 PM
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But this IS the advantage men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:17 PM
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Why didn’t you just directly pay for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:16 PM
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Why didn’t you just directly pay for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:16 PM
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Having an easier time finding a man to shove his dick in you for 2 minutes does not translate into any other benefit including quality sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:32 PM
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My bad, lmao. What a stupid question then, assuming he is talking about two adults, the woman can’t be “much younger”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:31 PM
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Where did he say late 20s 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:09 PM
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Irrelevant to who? OP is not redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:46 PM
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I’m sure you can find at least one, if you’re willing to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:41 PM
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I mean they’re fine for what they are. Just, men hit a wall. Doesn’t mean they have no value to someone, but they don’t look the way they did at 25 and they also have a ton of liabilities (child support, credit cards, student loans still, mortgage, kids in college.) Then the sexual issues start in, and sperm quality declines. Actually, men start hitting the wall alot earlier than 50. Probably early 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:03 PM
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Your premise is incorrect. Most women do not date men much older than them. Most women date men in their own age range. You are being lied to by men who want to believe they will be attractive when they get older. The reality is they won’t. They will continue to be unattractive. Women don’t want to attract them now and young women definitely won’t want them later. Before any men jump in and tell me how much hotter they are at 50 than when they are 25 and get laid every half hour by 22 year old s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 02:25 PM
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Statistically, most people get married. Perhaps the problem isn’t with height or income. Men vastly overestimate the appeal of these things in the absence of other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:04 PM
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You said “it”, not bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:02 PM
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Sure and it’s probably hard for gay men to find straight men willing to let them stick their dick in for 2 minutes as well, is it unfair? Maybe you should let them so life is more fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:02 PM
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I mean apparently anything other than a standing ovation implies i have an issue with dating younger women (or men)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 01:00 PM
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No, “women” aren’t. Some women are, and some men are committing suicide and going to jail over stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:59 PM
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It is easier for a woman to find a man to stick his dick in for 2 minutes than it is for a man to find someone to do that to but much harder for a woman to find quality sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:57 PM
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I have absolutely no problem with men or women dating younger women or men. But what i think is irrelevant and i have no idea why you feel anyone owes you a standing ovation for who you bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:54 PM
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I never said it’s wrong to date young women. You made that up and you’re lying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:49 PM
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Overwhelming, most mediocre men will have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:48 PM
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Why are you defining everything by what YOU want?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:47 PM
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I didn’t say it’s wrong to date young women, though. You made that up, and lying, for what reason i have no idea. To often to be a victim maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 12:45 PM
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I am an expat and in circles over here the term passport bro refers to men who deliberately exploit women. Normal guys meet women they like. I have lots of filippina friends who date white guys who they like. Anyway Filipino culture is quite similar to American culture. Dating someone you like is an ordinary thing and not exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:24 AM
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I could not agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:21 AM
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I refuse to go on any date where i do not pay my part. Guess what? I have gotten called a bitch, feminazi, masculine several times because of this. Men want leverage but ONLY if they get what they want after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:21 AM
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💯🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:19 AM
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They don’t have it easier. They don’t want the same things. Men want someone to stick their dicks in for 2 seconds. This does little for most women but men imagine it does, so they are salty women can easily find someone to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:19 AM
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I didn’t say all. I simply pointed out that in general women abroad also do not like gross old men (or women) with nothing to offer but passports and some money. I’m an expat and i have plenty of awesome SEA friends who date and marry white guys. I’m hanging out with a kenyan friend who is dating a brit today. But those guys aren’t passport bros, they just met a woman they like abroad. Also, some SEA cultures are pretty close to the US, such as Philippines. Philippines has a great culture, they’…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:17 AM
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Where we are now is a generation of people who find it easier and cheaper from a transactions cost perspective to simply do the unpaid work themselves rather than coerce a partner into it. I don’t blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:35 AM
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I’m not willing to say men aren’t good enough. Even divorced men are good enough, for someone, maybe not who they married. My opinion is it is because neither party wants to discuss expectations of each other before marriage. Both get disenfranchised.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:33 AM
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I have heard everything you said before. Also, i was in the process of responding to various things in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:31 AM
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Most guys are good enough and most guys end up getting married. Way too few people discuss expectations before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:30 AM
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It has changed because women now have the economic and political power to not starve to death if they leave a bad marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:30 AM
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It isn’t a jab, it is an observation, and i have no problem with men. Fortunately, some have realistic expectations and preferences because god knows none of us are perfect or even great. Men rage because when they are attracted to someone they feel entitled to get what they want. However, the reciprocity is not there- men treat women they don’t want to fuck or who won’t be their mommies like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:27 AM
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It’s a bad deal for women as well. This is why the institution will eventually die.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:21 AM
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Men have no incentives to imitate divorce. They will have to pay child support and do all the housework as well as take care of the kids on their own during their parenting time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:17 AM
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I don’t have to STFU. I can see why you have trouble with women if you regularly tantrum like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:16 AM
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This is total bullshit, unless her objective is having some guy shove their dick in her for 2 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:14 AM
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I never said it is controlling or abusive. I am saying many younger women consider it a job. Jobs are also ok. Many old british women do fuck tours in gambia with younger guys as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:13 AM
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I don’t know how old you are but we’re talking 70% by age 35 https://flowingdata.com/2017/11/01/who-is-married-by-now/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:05 AM
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Yes, alot are sugar babies, and alot of men are seeking arrangements
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:31 AM
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Or, men continue to want women out of their league
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:25 AM
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And absolutely nobody cares if you go to a foreign country to find a woman who will put up with you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:21 AM
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What does that have to do with men magically being more attractive at 40 than 28
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:20 AM
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That isn’t what passport bros go to foreign countries for and why passport sis goes to gambia and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:19 AM
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The world is absolutely full of married, mediocre men. Look around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:18 AM
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Men are going over there because they can get what they want from women, because the women see fucking these men as a job. It’s just like old women in gambia. They wouldn’t be going to Gambia if the men weren’t better than western men. It’s men like you in the west that prove why the passport sisses are right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:18 AM
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Don’t need to, there are always plenty of men available. Just saying, let’s not lie to ourselves. Foreign women also do not want passport bros, it’s a job to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:49 AM
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No they don’t. They provide sex and companionship in exchange for the passport. If they had the money to pay they would not need to marry gross old people, just like the women who marry passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:48 AM
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Of course, and elderly ugly women go to Gambia for the same
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:47 AM
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Of course not. He is entitled to a supermodel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:47 AM
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You can go for whatever you want, but don’t lie to yourself that your chances of success will improve
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:46 AM
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Bullshit. You choose to. You are not obligated to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:46 AM
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Women get judged heavily for playing the field, men do not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:45 AM
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Not true at all, there is a huge marriage market in gambia, Egypt, turkey, nigeria, tunisia
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:12 AM
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Why waste time with a westernized man when you can get this: https://nypost.com/2020/09/29/why-are-elderly-women-seeking-love-with-young-men-in-gambia/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:11 AM
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Sure and not all men are as delusional as westernized men. Gambian men have no problem marrying ugly 70 year old women for passports too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:10 AM
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I live in a country where many many residents experience this. I’m telling you what i observe. I differentiate arranged marriage from a situation where you meet someone you like through family connections though. AM is different because it involves the families setting up the marriage rather than just making an introduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:59 AM
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Nobody wants the passport bros. Not women at home, not women abroad. Like the guys who bang 60 year old British women on fuck tours in Gambia, there are women in the world who see fucking passport bros as a job that they can tolerate for the right price and even better if the workplace benefits may one day involve a passport.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:57 AM
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Nobody really wants 40 year old men, including their wives. LMAO, you’re lying to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:55 AM
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Really hot women in their 20s also don’t want men in their 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:54 AM
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Are men obligated to date women they are not attracted to? No? Then STFU
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:53 AM
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Nobody said anyone has to settle down with them and fortunately there are still hoardes of men nobody really wants either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:53 AM
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Most men in their 30s and 40s are also not attractive to women. Don’t bank on that happening in the future. Having said that if men one day magically become attractive in their 30s they should date WHOEVER THE FUCK THEY WANT. So should women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:52 AM
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Again, the parents don’t care if there is emotional maturity. The marriage exists only to serve the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 06:09 AM
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They agree because the parents endlessly browbeat and threaten
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:54 AM
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You are welcome to take that risk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:53 PM
3

Yes, and? That means arranged marriage is great?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 07:52 PM
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Good luck raising kids on welfare
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:07 PM
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I am an expat in the middle east. Tons of subcontinent parents railroad their kids into marriage with someone they don’t really want just because they’re the right caste/family/social group
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:06 PM
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I know lots of people whose parents arranged marriages that benefited themselves socially and financially at their kids’ expense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:04 PM
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Your husband can also leave you with next to nothing. If you are financially dependent he can do whatever he wants and you can’t leave
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:02 PM
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So many do. Look around
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:19 AM
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What is your opinion based on?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:00 AM
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Her partner is happy and that makes you unhappy. This is typical for angry little men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:54 AM
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It is luck and the luck often runs out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:52 AM
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I totally disagree with your opinion, and it reflects the women you associate with rather than reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:50 AM
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Being a grunt in the army is respectable but it doesn’t pay well and it definately is not status. But if you think it is status-Then why don’t you join the army or police?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:41 AM
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You need to look at what’s wrong with your personality before you decide your personality isn’t the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:39 AM
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Being in the army isn’t status, LMAO, but if it is, why don’t you join the army? It might improve your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:38 AM
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Stacys like chads, and chads like stacys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 10:36 AM
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Yes, he thinks he is entitled to free services from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:54 PM
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If housework and childcare is minimal, easy work, why are men so determined to not do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:53 PM
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Or, maybe the problem is he sucks and isn’t fixable and you don’t know that because you have never dealt with him in an intimate relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:41 PM
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Once their looks fade there will still be plenty of mediocre men who still can’t get stacy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:20 PM
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Sounds like the problem is your choice of friends, not women per se
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:18 PM
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“In a bird study…” My in real life male cockatiel, Zoro, has chosen a purple budgie as his mate and sulks in the corner hissing and snapping when she refuses to clean his head all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 06:17 PM
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Cool, unfortunately many men are very dismissive of other men’s emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:03 PM
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When it’s time to take accountability for shit YOU DIRECTLY CONTROL, like the gap in deaths due to wars, suddenly you have nothing to day except you don’t like feminists. Men have political power and they created this problem for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:05 PM
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Hillary clinton is also a piece of shit but she’s not why my fiance died. Overwhelming wars are started by, and voted in by, men in the presidential office and by congress. Worldwide men have the political power to cut way back on this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:04 PM
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Men have accountability for supporting other men emotionally as well. Don’t call each other pussies when they show emotion. That would go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:02 PM
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Don’t. I didn’t need my former partner to die in iraq. Just don’t fucking start unnecessary wars. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:00 PM
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Men should stop starting wars
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:44 PM
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I can find many better options worldwide than the median broke ass American man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:42 PM
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This expectation needs to stop. People are not ATM machines
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:38 PM
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You said nothing that can be challenged. I can make vague, meaningless statements as well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:34 AM
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Until you run into a person or situation you cannot force into doing what you want, which is why redpill men are so concerned about how everyone else lives their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:34 AM
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Academia is full of married nerds with high functioning autism… stop it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:35 PM
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It isn’t going to get you laid, which is the real problem 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:42 AM
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Where has your anger gotten you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:01 AM
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Look at TFR worldwide, it isn’t just korean women. Eastern and Western Europe and japan as well. Iran and the UAE have had some of the largest declines in TFR in recorded human history. Any time people- not just women- have alternatives to having the incremental child, they choose the alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:34 AM
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Everybody involved in this wants what they want to magically occur with no tradeoffs. This is what i mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:18 AM
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Does it make you feel better about your life to puke up this meaningless word salad?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:17 AM
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I apologize for my tone. This is not a criticism of you whatsoever but rather of people’s logic. Many people have priorities other than the incremental 2nd or 3rd child. It’s ok, many people do. Dating for 3 years, complicated weddings, newlywed stage for a year are all priorities, and i am ok with others’ priorities. Fertility can also be extended beyond 40 with technology if someone wants to go that route. You (general, not personal) have to take responsibility for tradeoffs. If she finds a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:08 AM
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Yeah, she’s a whiny idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:04 AM
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Bullshit. Women get rejected all the time, unless they’re Stacy, in which case they get away with whatever they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:03 AM
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Of course women suffer from unrequited love. So many women get dumped by men who go as far as marrying and having kids with them and then decide they are entitled to better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 04:03 AM
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If you prioritize 3 years of dating and more for wedding planning over the incremental 2nd child, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:49 AM
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She has eight years to have 1 or 2 kids. Also nobody needs to date for 3 years prior to marriage. This is not the challenge you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:48 AM
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You sound very triggered when challenged. You made a very vague and meaningless statement that i’m sure you have validated in incel echo chambers. That doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:29 AM
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Yeah which is also not uncommon for privileged young adults jn general
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:27 AM
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Sure. What did you want to know about them? They were all very young (early 20s), had mommies who doted on them, were middle to upper class, and exhibited very black and white thinking patterns and the illusion of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:04 AM
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Statistically nobody wants “multi child” families. The TFR is 2. Popping out 2 kids between 32 and 40 is not the nobel prize winning achievement men think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:59 AM
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So many women get married at 32. Stop fucking lying. And hurry up because advanced paternal age is wrecking the genome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:57 AM
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“Feminists” have not been “spreading hate” for 150 years. You having relatively less power than you used to doesn’t make you a persecuted minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:56 AM
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These men won’t listen to you because it doesn’t fit the narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:55 AM
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I know many personally who are outraged because a woman they wanted wouldn’t fuck them and others because someone broke up with them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:55 AM
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Illusion of control and fallacy of black and white thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:53 AM
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The studies are all cited in the meta analysis I posted. Advanced paternal age has negative impacts on the genome. Anything else is wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:49 AM
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Dirty hands, clean work. I’ve dated several blue collar men. This can be answered differently. What % of waste management workers are married? Obviously, they find women to marry. What is different about these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:29 PM
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They literally mention controlling for maternal age , for example Astolfi et al. found that the probability of preterm birth increases with the father’s age [185]. After accounting for the mother’s age, the researchers discovered that the odds increased by a factor of 1.91 when the mother was 20–24 years old and by 1.71 when she was 25–29 years old [185] Nybo et al. found that when maternal age was adjusted, the probability of late foetal mortality (after 20 weeks) was raised by an odds ratio of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:38 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9957550/#:~:text=In%20this%20setting%2C%20a%20father's,the%20telomerase%20malfunction%20%5B133%5D.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:52 AM
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The vast majority of people physically able to do so manage to reproduce. It isn’t the achievement you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:28 PM
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Lmao, women that make more simply have a greater ability to leave a bad marriage. As for the rest, alot of men get very upset and threatened by a woman they can’t control financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:25 PM
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Yeah, lots of people manage to reproduce that shouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:30 AM
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Men should avoid golddiggers. Women should too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:29 AM
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I don’t ask men to pay shit, thanks. Men also can’t stand that women are increasingly financially independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:28 AM
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I’m not saying women should lower their standards. I’m saying they are already low and you can be a complete loser as a man and still have a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:13 PM
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No they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:35 PM
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No, they don’t have it easier. The only situation in which it is easier is getting low quality sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 04:01 PM
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Oh bullshit. Getting a guy to shove his dick in is easier, that’s all. Men want bangmaids who exist to serve them hand and foot with nothing in return and when they don’t get that, they feel persecuted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:52 PM
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Women do not have life easier just because it is easier to find some guy willing to stick his dick in her for 2 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:15 PM
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That’s what redpill types think
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:03 PM
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Yes, life sucks for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 03:02 PM
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You ultimately won’t be able to control your kids. Their obligation will be to their own kids and if you try to bully them into sacrificing themselves to take care of you, into the state nursing home you will go.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 11:02 AM
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It’s also gross to breed kids as a disability insurance scheme, but you are all about yourself, so who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:59 AM
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No, they don’t. And the problem is getting increasingly worse now that there is an increasingly globalized job market.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:51 AM
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Yeah, because everyone lives in a big city with a thriving tech sector or medical sector or academia…. you will handicap your children by trying to force them into whatever the local economy offers them, they will hate you, and at the end you will still be alone. I have seen this so many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:36 AM
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No, it’s that people settle at their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:07 AM
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Not in the economy today. You cannot guarantee your kids can be there even if they wanted to, unless you deliberately cripple them professionally l.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:06 AM
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I’m with you on this. Yet, this is what men seem to say about single mothers- should’ve had a crystal ball and picked better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:06 AM
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I have personally seen that many times
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:05 AM
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No, i visit patients in assisted living all the time. You have an idealized view of the world and you are going to be very disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:26 AM
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Men treat women they don’t want to fuck like shit their whole lives. The top 20% of women get all the male attention, beyond that women are also invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:25 AM
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Women now are far more financially independent. We don’t have to fuck men to pay the rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:23 AM
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If you were successful you’d be married
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:23 AM
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Of course you have a problem. Your husband can then insist on cheating or a second wife because at 35 you have no value l. Sexuality is about accepting that you are not entitled to sex from women beyond your league. Biology is about base impulses. We have evolved beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:22 AM
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No they don’t. They simply take on more liabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:20 AM
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Now however there is an orchestrated media campaign to intimidate women into early marriage and kids with the threat that they are worthless when they age. Alot of the shit about living in a multigenerational household is also a dog whistle for forcing older women into unpaid labor for their married children.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:20 AM
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As a hospice patientcare volunteer, i can tell you firsthand that having kids in no way implies that your kids will be there for you. The economy is globalized; your kids will go where they need to for work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:18 AM
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Women men don’t want to fuck or be their mommies never had any value. They were always invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:17 AM
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And i disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:07 AM
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You said there are studies that show that paternal age is not significantly associated with sperm quality and genetic abnormalities. Cite them. Don’t dump your homework on me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:07 AM
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And i know mediocre girls dating absolutely loser men who cheat on them left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 09:06 AM
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Dude i am 1000% sure you are attractive and i am being completely honest here, most women DO NOT care about experience. Stop listening to lies. If she cares about experience more than she cares about who you are, she is not worthy of you. The fact that you have a second of self introspection and honesty puts you above 90% of people. You will find someone who likes you for what you are, but it takes time and you will be rejected along the way. WE ALL ARE.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:31 AM
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Citations with tests of significance needed Schizophrenia is statistically significantly associated with advanced paternal age Most older men do not whatsoever want kids anyway having already raised kids and run themselves into debt, which is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:24 AM
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Yes, you are free to sit around waiting for a perfect imaginary woman who will never ever age and who only has ever desired you to come along. We all have an idealized world in our heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:22 AM
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Because men are nice to women they want to fuck and not nice to women they don’t want to fuck. As I have said repeatedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:10 AM
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I don’t know the woman in the OOP but it is irrelevant because noone ever said rude people don’t exist. I said men are also rude to women they don’t want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:08 AM
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Men here need to believe the problem is anything except them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:07 AM
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Women settle. Look around at all the fucking loser men with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:06 AM
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If you actually go out and meet people you will find that most extremely mediocre or worse men get laid and get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:05 AM
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There is hope, because nobody is great when they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:04 AM
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People who are rude at a friendly cold approach are simply assholes and assholes of both genders exist. The universe of rude people isn’t defined by simple friendly cold approaches though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:04 AM
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The same way women do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:56 AM
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Yeah, base instincts lead to lots if undesirable behaviors. We aren’t living in pre-industrial society, catch up and choose a partner based on the life you are actually going to have
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:36 AM
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At the end of the day you need to overcome base instinct and arrange your life properly given what you can lawfully achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:26 AM
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Yeah nobody gives a shit who anyone is attracted to, any more than anyone cares that I want a zillion dollars and a palace overlooking the Mediterranean sea. Women take what they can get and ultimately so do men. This is how the sexual market clears.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:25 AM
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Most people only want 2 kids max. This fertility issue is vastly overblown in a society where folks plan to have one kid. Women’s value is also not exclusively a function of fertility; many men do not even want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:23 AM
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No, women simply settle for what they can get, because the median woman isn’t that great either. The studies of hypergamy are just women swiping on tinder. They show NOTHING about who women actually settle down with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:21 AM
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But most men DON’T ever cultivate this value. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:15 AM
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Of course. And i wasn’t at 20 or 25 either, in my “prime”. Women are also delusional sometimes. I’ll say the same thing to women: don’t think you’re entitled to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:15 AM
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Yes, as they age, they simply get worse, unlike fine wine. Stop lying to yourself and others… statistically you will be the median middle aged man few women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:13 AM
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Good that there aren’t alot. Fortunately most men are already so burdened with children and debt at 50 that most are not trying to have any additional kids. Now stop lying to men that their fertility is unlimited and somehow valuable past 50
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:11 AM
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Women become dismissive when badgered by men. Men are automatically dismissive of women they don’t want to fuck or be their mommies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:03 AM
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Totally disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:03 AM
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The incidence distributed among the population is problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:02 AM
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You are not going to be sean connery.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:02 AM
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The “desired man” is not what you actually marry, it’s what you can get, at all ages. Same for the desired women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:02 AM
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Most people gravitate towards their own level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:00 AM
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Most men never have a good body, personality, or income. Again, everyone imagines that they are the top 1% and statistically they are not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:00 AM
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Men should stop having so many kids and having them late. It’s fucking up the genome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:58 AM
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And a far higher chance of a child having schizophrenia
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:58 AM
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Men do lose the ability to pass on their genes. Advanced paternal age has terrible effects on the genome. Just because you physically can reproduce at 60 in no way implies you should; you shouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:57 AM
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On average is irrelevant. Men are nice to women who they want to fuck and horrible to women they don’t want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:56 AM
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Men do not age better. Sperm quality declines around 30, advanced paternal age is linked to many health problems in children. Men claim they become better as they age because they make more money. But they also incur more liabilities. The median middle aged man makes the underwhelming median income, and has credit card debt, student loans, child support payments, and with big expenses coming up as children start college. They also get fat, bald, and have a host of sexual problems. The men age be…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:55 AM
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Men are also not nice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:47 AM
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Yeah but they aren’t including men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:48 PM
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Maybe because you aren’t coming on to guys who aren’t attracted to you. Men are very nice to women they think will be their moms or who they might want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:45 PM
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The point is that neither men nor women want to be hassled to fuck people they aren’t attracted to. Men here are pressed that women can be dismissive if a guy they aren’t attracted to comes onto them. Yet, men treat women they don’t want to fuck like shit as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:42 PM
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Arguably, when leave is offered only women take it, and taking time off work then results in lower salary and career growth for women. For it not to have career impacts on mothers, it needs to be required for both parents. The wage gap is primarily a function of greater caregiving requirements on women so whoever wants to change that has to address the disparity in caregiving
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:37 PM
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Maybe straight guys want to fuck you, so they’re nice to you 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:34 PM
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Because abortion rights don’t affect them personally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:13 PM
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Straight guys anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:10 PM
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Your federal taxes go to a bunch of worthless bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:37 PM
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OP claimed men pay all the taxes and women are negative taxpayers, i am pointing out that OP is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:37 PM
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I look around and see nothing but absolutely mediocre men and all are married
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:36 PM
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Require it. Mandatory parental leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:03 PM
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Then young women are also paying more in taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:03 PM
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Those wars don’t pay for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 07:01 PM
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Not what i’ve seen, men are utterly contemptuous of women they don’t want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:49 PM
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Exactly. If you are not stacy, you are invisible or worse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:48 PM
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Men are very rude when approached by a woman they don’t want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:06 PM
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Some women do this and so do some men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:35 PM
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He can find love and happiness, just not if he aspires things far beyond what he can legally obtain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 11:14 AM
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You cannot control other people. Lots of below average men get married and have kids… don’t fill people’s minds with trash
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:52 PM
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And if he has no interest in these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:40 PM
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I’m sure your daughters will be keenly interested in you lecturing them about how you think they should look
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:01 PM
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They suffer from the illusion of control that they can raise their daughters properly to not be those things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:35 PM
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Dude, whatever, you are not the word usage police and you do not own the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:34 PM
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But you know everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:21 PM
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The way it is used here is guys trying to exploit women. Guys finding wives abroad is the fucking norm over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:20 PM
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I’m not. I have only heard the term used in a very specific context. Perhaps it is used differently stateside.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:07 PM
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Again, i’ve only heard it used in expat circles and the connotation is very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:06 PM
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Ok well I don’t agree with that. I can like, and bang, a rich guy as well as a poor guy. All of us have sex hoping to have a better life as result. Nobody goes into it saying yeah i want to have a shitty time and regret it 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:21 AM
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Obviously, and if it isn’t exploitative, it ain’t a passport bro/sis situation at all. That’s my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:05 AM
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We all want a better life. That doesn’t mean we can never consent to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:05 AM
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Best to avoid seeking out people in any environment who would go hungry if they don’t have sex with you 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:34 AM
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I don’t agree. There are wealth differentials in the US and everywhere but the lower wealth individual won’t go hungry if they say no, so it isn’t exploitative. To me, the issue is that the differential is used to exert power over the other person and get them to agree to something that they know they do not want. That’s wrong whenever it occurs. It’s just if you’re doing it in your own country, it doesn’t require a passport, so you’re not a passport bro/sis, you’re just a predator. Personally i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:53 AM
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What will the red pill men do if their sons are short,ugly, and low status?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:39 AM
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They are the truly among the most awesome people. I can’t see it any other way. I feel totally at home with the kabayans, zero cultural difference even the ones that didn’t grow up in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:37 AM
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I’m an expat so i can only tell you how it is used in my circles. It is used to describe men(and women) who deliberately exploit poor people for sexual advantage, like 70 year old female sex tourists with young gambian men or 70 year old men renting young asian women for sex. There is nothing and i mean NOTHING wrong with consensual relationships between any adults- if there is no exploitation involved, nobody should have shit to say. I have lots of asian friends (men and women) who date people …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:35 AM
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There’s alot to love about the PH culture. Great hearted people, loyal to the kabayans, know how to have a fucking great time, love American culture and sports… it is always a good time when the homies get together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:29 AM
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Same. We have a huge filippino population back home as well because so many came to work at the catholic hospitals, i was bullshitting with my Filipina friend’s brother (all of us are expats) and realized I dated a couple filipino guys back home. It never occured to me that they were actually of Filipino descent 🤣 we were all first generation Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:27 AM
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No, passport bro/sis means deliberately targeting people to exploit their desperation to get them to agree to something they wouldn’t otherwise agree to. Obviously you can meet cool people everywhere in the world. Hell, i’m an expat myself and i am sure can find at least one person of every nationality that i could like spending time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:24 AM
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Yes, it is the case anywhere. I already posted with two other examples; old white women in gambia and adult men who seek out addicted/homeless white american teenagers. If someone isn’t exploiting anyone else then passport bro/sis DOES NOT APPLY
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:22 AM
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Absolutely. Totally agree. Preying on homeless white teenagers in america for sex is also exploitative and if the OP was about a guy possibly doing that i would say the same thing. I also clearly stated that old white women exploiting gambian men is problematic best friend is an awesome Filipina, best person ever, batshit ridiculous for anyone to criticize guys she dates 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:19 AM
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Asian women do not lack agency. If you aren’t misleading impoverished women into a relationship they would not otherwise consent to, nobody should have shit to say. Completely agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:10 AM
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What about this? https://youtu.be/E6ZITZAE_zs?si=wYwDa7KElboSwAqW I consider these women exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:09 AM
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Anybody that criticizes a man for having a relationship with an asian woman is fucking racist and sick. That also isn’t what passport bro even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:08 AM
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So long as you aren’t exploiting impoverished filipinas, nobody should say shit about anyone dating Filipinas. What the actual fuck? Filipinos have been in america longer than my family, they are 100% American and have an awesome culture. There is also NOTHING wrong with meeting filipinas abroad. I live in dubai and work with a ton of educated, professional, crazy, fun, gorgeous Filipinas and the idea that they are not capable of consensual relationships with white guys or whoever is so fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:07 AM
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Poor and desperate is not the same as feminine and agreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:01 AM
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Exploiting impoverished, desperate people is gross. It’s gross for old british women preying on desperate gambian men and it’s gross for white guys preying on desperate asian women. About female sex tourists: https://youtu.be/E6ZITZAE_zs?si=wYwDa7KElboSwAqW Preying on poor and powerless people sucks. Consensual sex is fine. Your inability to distinguish between the two is problematic. That said, nobody should accuse anyone of being a passport bro or sis without evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:59 AM
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You said women suck at achieving, not me 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 10:54 AM
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“Keep a division afloat single handedly” Why did you fail so badly in recruitment and retention that you have to keep it afloat single handedly? Probably, in the typical hubris of low skilled men, you really think you do all the meaningful work, while simply being promoted to where you will do less damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:43 AM
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I said nothing about my performance until you decided to generalize and say women do not accomplish. This type of statement is to be expected from angry little men. (90% of which claim to run a “division”, which typically consists of them and one other person who usually makes minimum wage) 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:40 AM
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They should be split. One party works unpaid 24/7 and the other works 40 hours and gets paid. Nevertheless the party who sacrificed their career to support the other’s career is entitled to spousal support for some time. If men were so opposed to this, they’d stop marrying SAH partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:36 AM
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Actually, by every meaningful KPI, I outperform them. I’m also not in the US, no laws protecting women here; you’d probably love it. You could discriminate in order to hide your incompetence 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 06:34 AM
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Sure, if he stayed home and did all the shit work so i could work without all the burdens of unpaid labor, and gave up his career for that, i’d pay spousal support because he is entitled to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 05:07 AM
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Or, women do all the unpaid labor so men can be unencumbered at work. In other words, men get compensated for the work they do, and women don’t. I wish i had a housewife to do all my shitwork for me, i already outperform my male colleagues, imagine what i could achieve if i had someone in the background like they do
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 03:47 AM
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Spousal support is no longer gender based.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 02:47 AM
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Modern dating also includes meeting people at school or at work or through friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:16 AM
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If they can’t get a man past the age of 30, then the problem is with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 03:07 PM
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They don’t need to get married to travel around and enjoy life. You are biased towards this because it is what YOU want for her, not what SHE wants for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 06:30 PM
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You are overly optimistic and therefore biased about women marrying very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 05:09 PM
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Your thinking you have input into who and when she marries is a sign of you thinking you have some power.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 12:11 PM
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If your only priority is looks then you are accountable for whatever non looks factors are present.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:50 AM
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If your only consideration is looking like a stripper that is fine but then you don’t get to complain about personality traits
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 04:36 AM
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Cool, then we don’t have to worry about men leaving the trades.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:11 AM
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“Trust me bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:10 AM
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Tradeoffs then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 01:10 AM
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Citation needed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:09 PM
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I don’t see that at all. There is tons of ego with men totally unrelated to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:54 PM
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I see that men are highly motivated by money no matter who is at home. Some may be slobs who want to spend their lives with shitty studio but quite a few seem to have expensive tastes in cars, gaming setups, travel, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:15 PM
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So either these men want to get paid or they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:13 PM
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I really doubt men become trash collectors because they’re in competition with other men for women. They’re trying to just pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:46 PM
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Why are you even involving yourself with these women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:45 PM
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He is a loser who resents you for not being a loser.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 05:18 PM
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Please do not instruct anyone to invest in highly speculative assets without a proper diversification strategy. Long term, these guys will do will outperform a passive index investment in some no load fund. it is best they understand this before incurring a bunch of costs trading these assets.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 05:17 PM
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He can bottle feed breast milk if he is so pressed over this
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 05:10 PM
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You think if you only had power over her choices, she would have a long and happy marriage. This is the illusion of control. You are not going to control your son in law 5/10/20 years in the future to guarantee he treats your daughter properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:01 PM
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Most women don’t have a trail of bad boys in back of them. This is a self serving myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:56 PM
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You really think the only people doing trash collection are men who have to pay for dates with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:52 PM
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If what you are saying is true, then men wouldn’t be doing trash collection now either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:42 PM
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How will they pay for food without jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:40 PM
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Do men want to not eat in addition to not getting laid? If so they will keep doing garbage pick up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:25 PM
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They’ll be fighting with your ex wives, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:43 PM
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He’s mad because everybody around him gets laid and he doesn’t. You can identify this guy every time 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:42 PM
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Absolutely nobody cares about most men. Isn’t that why they’re always whining?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:40 PM
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Your biological kids will be doing that anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:37 PM
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The only reason he is posting this is to point out the flaws in single moms. One day he will be a broke divorced middle aged man whining that no women want him. It’s how guys like this end up. They suffer from the illusion of control, and hubris that their decisions will be the right one. Life shows them the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:35 PM
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Most men don’t have shit to inherit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:30 PM
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How old are you? Statistically your chances of being a divorced father by 40 are pretty good. Do you think women without kids want to put up with that baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:28 PM
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I am sure nobody cares who you date. The problem arises when mediocre men feel entitled to women out of their league and then complain they can’t get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:27 PM
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They can’t go out and get it. That’s why they’re angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:20 PM
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The research on pair bonding applied to rodents and promiscuous rodents of both genders had difficulty pair bonding. Are you fucking rodents?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:17 PM
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