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ReefLedger/r/seduction26/06/19 10:31 PM
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I haven't heard one woman say that lol. But aight. I don't live online. I prefer the real world.
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:50 PM
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https://www.google.com/search?q=women+won%27t+date+republicans&rlz=1C1GCEA_enUS1080US1080&oq=women+won%27t+date+republicans&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOdIBCDY2NDZqMGoxqAIAsAIA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:42 PM
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Delusional. More women lean left and there is a growing sentiment to not date Trump supporters. But keep pretending to be "Alpha".
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:41 PM
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I always heard "Give her the gift of missing you." And you're absolutely correct.
/r/seduction30/01/25 12:14 PM
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My feelings are so so hurt lol. M8 I've been with more women than years you've been on this earth.
/r/seduction24/01/25 11:09 PM
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Horrible mindset with broad generalizations. This probably factors into you being rejected lol
/r/seduction24/01/25 10:55 PM
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Age is just a number. Was dating a 27 year old when I was 40.
/r/seduction16/09/24 05:47 PM
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It's just a number man. I'm 42 and the girl(29) I'm dating is closer to my daughters age (19) than mine.
/r/seduction22/08/24 11:27 AM
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They don't have time for men they're not attracted to. They will make time for guys they are attracted to.
/r/seduction27/06/24 11:28 AM
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I'm a pretty good looking guy that has done some modeling shows, and even I get better results approaching. People's mileage may vary but for me, dating apps are an absolute waste of time.
/r/seduction27/09/22 09:02 PM
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I'm 40 dating a hot 27 year old. Age is just a number mate. Only thing holding you back is your self doubt.
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:22 PM
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That should be in a week or a month!!!!
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:59 AM
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Because you're putting in NO effort homie.
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:57 AM
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I'm 40 and still play video games and I'm with a 27 year old. Suggest you cut down on that age bias. I do agree op needs to get the fuck out the house though and actually put some effort into meeting women.
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:56 AM
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You can have and talk about sex with women without needing them around all the time/their validation. This is why you keep your options open. If she doesn't want you, no biggie. Someone else will.
/r/seduction22/04/22 04:42 PM
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You're young bro. Enjoy the good sex and don't worry about your "friend's" opinions. I fucked my HS crush like 10 years after HS (and she got chubby) and it was still awesome for a bit. As you get older, your true friends don't give a shit who you fucking as long as you're happy.
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:37 AM
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Got em...
/r/seduction24/03/22 12:09 AM
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Jfc 0-100 real quick. Hope that temper isn't like that irl.
/r/seduction24/03/22 12:06 AM
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May I ask why you (or any introvert) would not want to be around a welcoming circle of people? I have an amazing group and we have obvious introverts that still come out and have fun and are treated well. Your 2nd paragraph, yeah the introverts get together and talk to each other and whoever they're comfortable with while we're all together. Now if it's you just don't generally like being around people then yeah......
/r/seduction05/03/22 02:02 AM
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Best bot ever
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:56 AM
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Not true. I'll be 40 in 3 months and this is still very relevant.
/r/seduction05/03/22 01:55 AM
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Dudes literal profile intro says I'm contrarian. Tell us you need attention without telling us.
/r/seduction03/03/22 03:23 AM
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I'll assume you don't date taller women.
/r/seduction03/03/22 03:18 AM
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I dont sugar daddy but agree with the rest of your post.
/r/seduction19/02/22 01:47 AM
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Well said. Be it known many women just like to have free meals and be showered with attention for a short amount of time then have ZERO interest in you. My female cousin did this when we were all in LA. Hitting up Tinder "Cuz a girl's gotta eat"
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:07 AM
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I don't see what's so funny about this. Why would one waste time and $ on someone that's not vibing with you? Or are you a woman that expects to be pampered?
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:05 AM
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Let her go and move on my man. Whole relationship dynamic is weird (fwb but you say I love you etc). Go be a sugar daddy to someone who respects you more. Plus, stop with the possessive shit. Even if you're exclusive, you don't own anyone.
/r/seduction18/02/22 09:00 PM
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This guy is apparently 36. If he's still like this at this age, he's probably not going to change much. I'll be 40 soon and this is like high school shit.
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:56 PM
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💪👏🤜🤛
/r/seduction29/01/22 03:51 PM
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Yeah you're good homie. If it was just like you met randomly online or like friend of a friend, I'd see it a little different. Your edit said she replied, good luck man.
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:06 PM
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Ahh my bad. Your post didn't mention yall were in school together.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:21 PM
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Yeah you're strangers.
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:21 PM
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You got any data to back up your point that 80% of women hate sex? Then stfu. You're making excuses for your life. Overcome them and see what happens. If women love you, then you not making moves and capitalizing is your own fault. No need to get snippy with me. Handle your shit. I guarantee 80% of Canadian women do not hate sex. If you have the balls, go ask them and report your results. Girls just don't like sex with guys they're not feeling. Edit: Your last point counter to hooking up: obviou…
/r/seduction24/12/21 02:12 AM
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My go to is "We should grab a drink sometime" so it's a suggestion and not a question.
/r/seduction24/12/21 01:58 AM
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So leave please. You don't provide anything but whining and people that offer you advice, you talk shit to. It's probably not the women why you're getting ghosted.
/r/seduction23/12/21 11:54 PM
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Check his post history. He just wants to complain. Tried telling him get off the apps in another thread and he essentially told me to fuck off (and talked shit about my daughter and said he'd hook off on me) and that my advice was invalid because I admitted to being good looking.
/r/seduction23/12/21 11:52 PM
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Your toxicity is nauseating and explains why women wouldn't want to be around you. Some women love sex more than men. Plenty women just like to hook up with no strings attached. Get out of your weird bubble.
/r/seduction23/12/21 11:48 PM
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My daughter is a lesbian and her mother is on her 3rd marriage. And if you wanna see an ex of mine (and give her song a listen) YouTube Heather Spencer- My City. Such a fatty she is.
/r/seduction23/12/21 10:04 PM
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Have a good day. I'm going to have a couple beers and some bud.
/r/seduction23/12/21 09:40 PM
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Not everyone wants to get married chief. And yes, it's guys like us fucking and pieces of whiny shit like you who get nothing. So THANK YOU for making it easier for us. And you don't know anything about my relationship with my daughter. You're incredibly judgmental and I imagine lonely. Let go of the anger. Your trolling would work better on KIDS like yourself.
/r/seduction23/12/21 09:28 PM
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I was never married and my daughters mother and I are still good friends. I'm still friends with all my exes. Imagine being 29 years old and still being a punk ass bitch. Good luck out there homie, you definitely need it
/r/seduction23/12/21 09:19 PM
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Peace loser. I have a 16 year old daughter and been fucking for 23 years. It's called social proof get some. Bet you don't have much because the way you speak, I can't see many people wanting to be friends with you. We don't need your validation. We get plenty from the ladies. 😊
/r/seduction23/12/21 09:09 PM
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My brother is an inch taller, has a beer gut and barely works. Has no car and STILL fucks more than me. So continue on with your sob story lol. We'll stay out here fucking the girls you wish you could get. Chump. Edit: Jus came home to 2 little girls I've never seen. My brother is getting his fuck on with someone as I speak lmao
/r/seduction23/12/21 08:52 PM
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You'd do no such thing. No actual tough guy talks shit on the internet. You can come on down to Dallas though. If you swing, don't miss. I did modeling when I was younger,so fuck me? I don't think any type of working out is going to solve your shitty mindframe so get fucked Mr.Negativity.
/r/seduction23/12/21 08:50 PM
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I'm 6'2", have done modeling, still look like I'm 29, and have a good job for 15 years now. Entirely possible. My brother is 36 and fucks more than I do. Your pessimism is nauseating. Yes, I've fucked many coworkers with no issues. Just be professional. It's obvious you just want to whine. It's going to get you nowhere and put people off towards you.
/r/seduction23/12/21 08:37 PM
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Work/gym/club are where I pick up most. Edit; And get their # non of this social media shit. You're making yourself easily ghostable.
/r/seduction23/12/21 08:25 PM
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I'm off work so I'll give you my best quick advice...stay the fuck off social media and tinder/hinge/bumble etc. I don't have any of it (only reddit) and am still able to pick up women. If you view everything through that marketplace vibe, then yes, that's how the world looks like it works to you. I live in the same dating world with you and have no problems. All of those apps are fake AF. Do you want to be a random # in an endless marketplace, or do you want to stand out for walking up and tryi…
/r/seduction23/12/21 08:12 PM
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I'm 39. It's quite apparent by people's comments which one's are getting laid a lot and which one's are young and gaming. If you find this toxicity towards the sub and women in general, you're probably better off getting advice elsewhere. I can absolutely believe guys who say they've been with more than 100+ women. I'm probably close to it (stopped counting about 14 years ago) and I'm sure my brother has more than me. Also, have you questioned if YOU are doing something wrong on dates and tried …
/r/seduction23/12/21 07:54 PM
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Just cuz you've had issues does not mean the majority of men here are liars.
/r/seduction23/12/21 07:37 PM
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You can make a move and be physical and not need it to lead to sex.
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:18 PM
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It's like the pot calling the kettle black lmao
/r/seduction20/12/21 07:57 PM
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I love your dumbass ASSumptions. Bet your mind would change real quick if those 20/30 somethings pulled up in lambos and had a mansion OP was staying in as well. Age is just a # sweety. Bye
/r/seduction20/12/21 07:21 PM
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Oh look. Someone else's judgmental opinion we should all ignore.
/r/seduction20/12/21 07:12 PM
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No you don't wait for her. Get the fuck out there and find someone new. If she comes back, she comes back. If not, you're just wasting time pining over someone. Friend zone her as well and move on with your life.6 months is not that long and for her to do this, she's either got some issues she needs to work through, or she found someone new that interests her more. Either way, be cool with her if you want, but don't expend energy trying to re-seduce someone you've talked to for 6 months. Do your…
/r/seduction09/12/21 02:35 PM
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Hug
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:55 AM
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"One of you" Maybe you should just stop stereotyping people? I work out and am more intelligent than every chick I date. Sorry for the relationship issues in that regard, but you put yourself in that situation. Next paragraph is spot on lol. He is a bit misogynistic. Your edit: Your comments come off as someone who looks for any reason to trash men. Just get dat puss if that's what makes you happy. We're not all like this .
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:53 AM
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Nah it is creeperish. If she didn't give you her info, she doesn't want you to track her down or contact her obviously. And not understanding that and still stalking her down is a lack of social awareness.
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:43 AM
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I'm assuming you're younger. Tracking chicks down online is creepy bro. It might work here and there but are you not immediately turned off at the thirst of someone that would do that (if they did it to you)?
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:29 AM
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Disagreed with another of your comments ,but your right on deflating the ego. However, I'd stop trying to equate every male with confidence into your "shallow male ego" concept. You dated ONE (your words) of us. Lol. This is not your only comment doing it. And by the sound of your comment (I dated one of you before), you're salty at how it turned out. This dude expects the world handed to him and wonders why its not. Understood. Your bashing of confident men, trying to disparage them for being a…
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:21 AM
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Stop that btw shit. It does you no favors.
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:07 AM
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Women don't owe me shit, but I'd still never take your dating advice. 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:06 AM
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This is what I do. If she's free, she'll come. If not, she'll hit me when she is.
/r/seduction10/11/21 12:02 AM
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He may have briefly caught feelings. This happens with my Fwb sometimes. We just leave it alone and next time it's forgotten. If it's a constant thing, he probably wants more. I also make it a point to make sure the sex is good after I find out she's been with someone else so she doesn't move on lol.
/r/seduction27/10/21 09:26 PM
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Str8 up clown
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:26 PM
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I feel sorry for you lol. My daughter is awesome and set for life. Petty ass...
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:20 AM
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Neither do most of the women in that sub lol. Women's advice to men is absolutely a waste of time (for men) Your actual seduction questions wouldn't be. Yet, I don't see any in this thread....
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:17 AM
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Yeah you're sensitive.
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:13 AM
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Fr
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:11 AM
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No, you tried to throw a commenter (and a whole sub with "yall") under the bus. You're not looking for advice, if you were, your post would ask for some. Instead, you're trying to belittle anyone that doesn't agree with you. I suggest you check out r/femaledatingstrategy you'll probably fit in there better.
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:10 AM
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If you can't stand constructive criticism, why even ask for advice? Lmfao
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:03 AM
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Don't be ignorant and group a whole sub based upon your dissatisfied reaction. I have a 16 year old daughter and have been with countless beautiful women. I don't need help with women. I'm here to stay sharp and help the younger guys. If you want help with a specific scenario, make a post about it and ask. This post and your replies, ain't it. You asked about bar setting and you want casual sex. If you're good looking, you don't even need any advice here. It's simple for chicks to hook up guys w…
/r/seduction24/10/21 02:56 AM
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"Lose". I don't think she wants fat any looser.
/r/seduction20/10/21 01:25 PM
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Keep grinding you good bro
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:57 PM
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It helps. I certainly wasn't getting the same attention when I was skinny fat though.
/r/seduction07/10/21 10:43 PM
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Relatively tall skinny guy (6'2") before I started working out I was about 165-168. I'm now about 180. I was giving a chick a cigarette last week and she said "You're really hot by the way". I'm 39 and haven't heard anything like that in about 5 years or so. There is no debate on this. GET IN THE GYM!
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:16 PM
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All good with being honest. Jus situations where I could see the chick freaking out, I would just downplay it and be like it's none of your business. If you feeling a chick will be cool with your answer, ofc best course of action is honesty.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:45 AM
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You don't owe anyone the intimate details of your sex life. If you're willing to give that up, what else?
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:31 AM
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Seriously. Someone asking me that sets off a red flag anyway.
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:30 AM
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Perhaps its your mental state (that you're genetically "wrong") that is off-putting? You're 17 and have your whole life ahead of you. Workout/get in shape. Go to school or get a job. Get your shit together and dress well and they will eventually come. Do you have a lot of friends as well? If not, you'd better start making some.
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:26 PM
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Cars are overrated. I haven't had a car in 10 years and have been with many women. You got your own place, you're good to go. Definitely in your own head about this (as you've had 2 experiences already that did not confirm your feelings).
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:02 PM
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Spot on post. 👆
/r/seduction19/08/21 09:55 PM
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A bruised ego is all on the individual (whether online or in-person). If a rejection is a detriment to that person's self worth, they have a lot bigger problems than getting laid and should focus on that instead. I didnt knock online dating, I'm 39 years old and have 20+ years experience of actually hitting on women. But hey, if it works for you younger guys, all the power to yall. I just don't need it (though your post is helpful bout pictures)
/r/seduction19/08/21 09:13 PM
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You also seem to imply that cold approaching can't hurt your self worth too... It can't. A bruised ego is all on that person. Understanding rejection is part of the game will make letting it go easier. Also, I'd rather have an actual interaction with a live person for a few minutes and get blown out, then hope some chick swipes right and is actually cool enough to meet up. I have never slept with a chick off a dating app. I stopped counting how many I've slept with through actual physical conver…
/r/seduction19/08/21 08:39 PM
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Second paragraph is spot on and should be a post by itself.
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:24 PM
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But you're not if you're still fucking around on POF. Nothing wrong with being honest and testing the market. And other women wanting you=value. Just don't give her the impression you are only talking to her while dicking around on the side or you're going to have a BAD time. Been there. Fuck that.
/r/seduction13/08/21 10:21 PM
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That was the vibe I got as well. The rest of his post was spot on though.
/r/seduction13/08/21 06:23 PM
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Great post OP. Some of these replies are laughable. Social value/game is terribly underrated.
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:34 PM
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I'm 39 years old and all of his post still applies.
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:31 PM
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It pays for itself over so many times. Some people just don't want to put in work. You feel like a million bucks when you're with a large group and know/can talk to everyone.
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:23 PM
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Honestly, if you weren't vibing with her friends/they weren't feeling you, you're probably not going to recover. Except maybe you get another chance with her friends and knock it out the park.
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:21 PM
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See my other comment below regarding TX/NJ chicks
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:58 PM
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General observations so these don't apply to everyone: Texas girls: Prettier faces but the bodies aren't as nice (I have an affinity for white girls with fat asses). Easier to talk to. More religious (I'm atheist). NJ girls: Better bodies (sucker for an Italian with a booty) More of a "down for my man" vibe, less religious, less golddiggers. Can be cuz I'm getting older, but TX women seem to expect a guy to have all of his shit together so he can take care of her. NJ women seem more independent …
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:14 PM
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Old Bridge. Staying with fam.
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:23 PM
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I'm an office manager for a holdings company. I know pretty much everyone in the office.
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:18 PM
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Lmao. I always said it was something in the water. How funny. Texan chicks are different too. Sometimes I miss that jersey girl mentality
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:33 AM
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First time visiting since Covid. I been getting them eyes
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:30 AM
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Stopped counting around the 30s before I moved from NJ at 26. Had just as much in TX. I'm 39 now, I'd say my prime was 27-32. Bars/clubs/and through work have been my most successful. You stop caring about #s after a point and just remember the enjoyable ones. My brother is probably double me and I know even more successful men.
/r/seduction07/07/21 11:12 PM
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Don't do this if you actually consider them a friend. I did and felt like a piece of shit for months. Thankfully we're cool now. No pussy is worth ending a good friendship.
/r/seduction01/07/21 08:01 PM
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Seriously. Most of this thread reads like young guys afraid of experienced women. If she doesn't have STDs and the pussy isn't a canyon, who gives a fuck.
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:29 PM
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PREACH 👆👆👆
/r/seduction24/06/21 09:16 PM
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22day account that does nothing but provide shitty advice. If all that matters is looks and the shape of your body, how do you explain ugly fat men with gorgeous women? If only hot in shape men were procreating throughout history, you'd think the gene pool would lead to most people being attractive or above average. The most successful man I've seen with women (he was over 100 slept with 15 years ago, who knows what he's at now) is a 5'8" skinny Italian with no muscle whatsoever and average look…
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:39 PM
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Also r/frugalmalefashion.
/r/seduction24/06/21 06:31 PM
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Do it. Look better, feel better, have more confidence. It comes with the package.
/r/seduction24/06/21 04:22 PM
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You will be sore initially at the gym if you don't work out. Ask people for form checks and just start with light weights. Eat right and then every gym session, try to add 2.5-5lbs per lift (like week to week per muscle group). Protein shakes help. Ive gone from 160-195/200 before. It just takes time and focus. If you're doing body weight exercises, just consistently increase volume (you did 100 push-ups this session, go for 105-110 next session). A milk jug or something around 10-15 pounds woul…
/r/seduction24/06/21 02:49 PM
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Can confirm. What works in Dallas definitely won't work at bar out in the boonies. Dressing for setting is important as well.
/r/seduction24/06/21 02:21 PM
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I am 6'2 175, slim but starting to gain some muscle. If you have a nice outfit you feel comfortable in, get it tailored and keep it clean. Your thinness is a mental block. I was still getting with chicks at 155/160. Not sure about your medical condition but try protein shakes (I guzzle 2 a day) and try building up your shoulders and traps. It will help your shirts lay better on you giving you a fuller impression. Also, some chicks like skinny dudes. My last GF loved my apollo's belt.
/r/seduction24/06/21 02:16 PM
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It's a good start! Just make sure everything is clean and fitted. Then add other pieces to expand your outfits. Edit: fixed typo
/r/seduction24/06/21 01:56 PM
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Facts. I work for a holdings company around millionaires constantly in suits. I get to dress business casual and I'm the one fucking their admins while said executives are texting them sweet nothings. Just rock what fits your lifestyle, but make sure it's clean and fitted.
/r/seduction24/06/21 01:55 PM
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It does. That's not an everyday outfit. A blazer, nice shirt and jeans and dress shoes is a step down and easier to wear at a variety of locations (instead of looking like you're going to a board meeting at your local dive bar)
/r/seduction24/06/21 01:51 PM
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Style is completely subjective. Stop pushing your opinion like it's the only one that matters. Chicks like different styles as well.
/r/seduction24/06/21 01:29 PM
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Hes only 3 inches taller my dude...One of the best men I've seen with women is a loud mouthed skinny Italian your height.
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:59 PM
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I'm the opposite of you. I've stopped counting how many coworkers I've messed with and not a single one turned negative. Some people can easily separate their personal and professional lives. In regards to OP, if you like her, go out with her and give it a chance. Don't know unless you try and there's no guarantee that opportunity will be there in the future.
/r/seduction15/06/21 07:35 PM
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As a nerd, I can confirm I do smash ass from time to time.
/r/seduction09/06/21 06:59 PM
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I'm 6'2. I was under eating so eating normally I was probably 165-170. I was a nice 195 after about a year maybe less. Just gotta stay on it and get your macros right. I had trouble eating a lot so I'd take 2 protein shakes a day extra also
/r/seduction08/06/21 08:19 PM
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People are downvoting you for saying you'll never touch weights again when you were doing it wrong in the first place.
/r/seduction08/06/21 06:47 PM
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You're doing it wrong then. I'm skinny and lift and went from 160 to 195. Get your protein in.
/r/seduction08/06/21 06:46 PM
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No prob. Had a feeling.
/r/seduction03/06/21 02:05 AM
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Employs->implies
/r/seduction03/06/21 02:02 AM
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Make that move!
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:16 PM
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Lol. No. To be fair, we are both 6'2", pretty good looking, and NYers in Dallas. My brother is a concierge for a high end hotel and has a lot of connections. Social proof is real.
/r/seduction06/05/21 01:18 AM
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Bars/clubs, through friends, work, gym. My brother is 35 and has brought a new girl home the past 4 nights. Wondering if it'll be 5 in a row tonight. I'm 38 and have been off/on with 3 chicks in the past year and a half. Definitely still possible.
/r/seduction06/05/21 01:05 AM
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The coochi coach is real...
/r/seduction26/09/20 01:22 PM
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Ummm. Maybe I've literally seen these situations happen and the same people hook up days later? Do you assume we are all Neanderthals? Way to brush a broad stroak...
/r/seduction26/09/20 04:33 AM
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Agreed. But before that acceptance on the girls part, she may be into a guy, and I've seen plenty of times a friend snatch em away. Its timing.
/r/seduction26/09/20 02:24 AM
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Same goes for men. If I'm out with a chick and she treats the staff like shit, immediate turnoff. Its how you treat those you need nothing from, that shows a person's true character.
/r/seduction26/09/20 02:14 AM
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Disagree. Seen plenty of times a chick was really into a guy and her friends dragged her off.
/r/seduction26/09/20 02:12 AM
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All good, take your time. DM me whenever if you want.
/r/seduction23/09/20 05:10 PM
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Without writing a biography...I had non-Hodgkins Lymphoma when I was 16. This was the same summer my father passed away from kidney failure (diabetic). I tried to kill myself at 17 and was put on paxil but felt like an emotionless zombie. I stopped taking my pills and started smoking weed religously and it helped to a degree, but I still had that destructive "Fuck This World" mindset. It wasn't until I had my daughter at 23 that my mindset actually changed and I wanted to live as long as possibl…
/r/seduction23/09/20 04:51 PM
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I have a 15 year old daughter. Been engaged twice and wanted to another time, but never been married. ive dealt with A LOT of shit.
/r/seduction23/09/20 06:26 AM
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Truly, hit me up if you ever feel down. And anyone reading this after....If you doubt yourself, feeling depressed, need a pick me up or just a person to listen to....Please DM me on here. I was there when younger and (havent fully but about there) worked my way to happiness. As someone suicidal once, I'll gladly listen to and try to uplift my brothers(and sisters) instead of hearing a story of someone who didn't get help and hurt themselves. We're all beautiful. Dont let ANYONE warp your percept…
/r/seduction23/09/20 06:18 AM
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You ever need to chat just hit me in DM for real. Im a cancer survivor who tried to kill himself. And yet I love life now. Every person has a uniqueness they should be proud of IMO, and ill help anyone that needs it.
/r/seduction23/09/20 06:08 AM
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You're not ugly. Anyone that calls you that has an ugly mind. Im a good-looking guy with depression issues myself. We're all beautiful in our own ways and never forget it. You deserve a pretty, quality queen just as much as anyone else. Make it happen!
/r/seduction23/09/20 05:58 AM
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I mean this as a good person, youre beautiful in your own way. Everyone is. If you meant it as a joke, I gotcha.
/r/seduction23/09/20 05:50 AM
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If nobody is showing interest, and only his mother compliments him...That dude has work to do on himself.
/r/seduction23/09/20 03:28 AM
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This is what I've done. Im not a big photo person (feels so vane) so my online game is basically a waste of time. However, I'm good looking and tall and have way more success in person. I dont feel like random pics and a few sentences in a profile can convey anyone's true worth or sexiness.
/r/seduction07/07/20 10:56 PM
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I dont understand getting the IG of someone who rejected me and I only played 2 games of dodgeball with....am I missing something?
/r/seduction27/02/20 11:44 PM
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I'm in my late 30s and have been in and out of relationships/bachelor life. Everything you learn here is applicable as far long in age, as you're willing to put it into practice.
/r/seduction01/02/20 02:28 AM
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Tucker Max is hilarious too
/r/seduction31/01/20 01:43 AM
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Without going into specifics, yes to your first question. Second question is hard to answer as she was obviously looking for something I was lacking. I'm a different person than I was 10 years ago and haven't had the same issues in any of my relationships since. Growing pains I suppose.
/r/seduction31/12/19 06:08 PM
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I know what you meant. You should always be pursuing. Live your life, focus on yourself (building your body/mind/attire/business/skills) and between that, pursue. At the store buying something and see a cute girl...chat her up! There are women all around you. You dont NEED to go out to bars etc and spend $ chasing tail. Bars/Clubs (here in Dallas anyway) are meat markets. If you're unsure of yourself going out, you're already at a disadvantage. If you're not, I'd work on expanding your day game.…
/r/seduction29/12/19 07:01 PM
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There is no level of "unattractiveness" for a guy not to pursue. Setting yourself up for failure with that mentality. Level of investment should be correlated by the investment of the woman into you. You shouldn't invest more just cuz she's beautiful. Plenty beautiful chicks have horrible personalities also. Always liked this quote: " For every beautiful single woman you see, theres at least one guy out there that's had enough of her shit."
/r/seduction29/12/19 06:05 PM
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Re your last sentence: not attractive guy with a good personality vs. Attractive guy with a decent (not as good as the non attractive guy tho) personality...who you taking?
/r/seduction29/12/19 06:01 PM
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Asking the real questions...
/r/seduction22/12/19 02:02 AM
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He just broke up and probably wants to bang something to get over it. I'm guessing you're somewhere around the 18-21 range? (I'm in my 30s) I live with my brother (we are eskimo brothers as well) and have slept with girls before/after each other. These things will happen many times. Is it a bit shitty that he knew you wanted her but is still shooting his shot? Sure. Like I said above though, you do not own either of them. She is free to sleep with whoever she wants and he is as well. You "interv…
/r/seduction01/08/19 09:46 PM
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So you're cockblocking your brother (whom she's DTF) because you think you have "dibs" on her for what reason?? So you can play your "long game" in the hopes she comes around to you? Do you not realize how warped that sounds? You don't own either of them and if they wanna bang, back off.
/r/seduction01/08/19 09:25 PM
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I needed this mentally. Thank you seriously. 😊
/r/seduction26/07/19 02:39 AM
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Great stuff and I agree 100%. I was on the verge of deleting my social media (cept reddit) anyway, this was the nail in the coffin.
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:53 PM
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Office job for a top bank and have pulled many coworkers over the years...keep it light and friendly, maintain your professionalism at work, and you'll be fine. If it gets serious, you're opening a whole new can of worms. That being said, my 2 longest relationships were with coworkers 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction18/07/19 08:26 PM
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I absolutely need to. I've never been this bad (37yo) and I don't wanna experience this feeling again. I've been rejected before and it's better than this "What if" shit.
/r/seduction26/06/19 11:03 PM
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If you're tall and lanky (I'm 6'2" about 175 right now) and it bothers you, HIT THE GYM and get your protein intake up. Stay on it and in 2-3 months I'll bet you feel better about yourself. Also, stop blaming your height. Most women I know prefer taller guys! Build your body and self esteem up.
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:48 PM
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Apparently you're being downvoted for being married....I'm guessing nobody has heard of/been in an open relationship. 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction03/06/19 06:46 PM
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I've lived with my brother for 7 years now. You guys just need to come up with a system. We text each other ahead of time if spontaneous women are coming over and the place needs to be tidied. If you need (like someone commented above...it is the perfect excuse to go to your room) the living room, text ahead of time and tell him to play Fortnite in his room. If he doesnt have his own TV he should get one. If hes into dating women, he'll make it work for the both of you. Living with your bro is g…
/r/seduction22/05/19 05:36 PM
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I call it coochy coaching.
/r/seduction11/02/19 09:41 PM
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