Reek138 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	You should probably be wary of some of the advice given in this sub.	Conversation	Reek138	/r/seduction	25/09/20 04:12 PM
1	I’m (38f) a bartender, and I’ve watched all these “tactics” and “games” in person and I have a little advice, and a question of my own.	Conversation	Reek138	/r/seduction	26/09/20 11:58 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest? It takes several dates to start getting even a faint idea of who someone is, and that’s faint.. men being less discerning is troubling to me, because I’ve no clue what anyone would want to fall in love with the idea of a person. If you’re marrying someone just to get married.. well good luck with your divorce. Women may have more “options” but it’s irrelevant because they aren’t good options. I’m sorry. They are not. The amount of “good people” in either gender is shockingly low. my male roomate…	/r/seduction	21/05/22 07:37 PM
1	Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest? How can you possibly gauge if you like someone after one or two dates.. you don’t even know them. At all.	/r/seduction	21/05/22 07:30 PM
1	[Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)? He might have been indoctrinated by a super religious family to view sex as one thing and then as he got older saw it was not his personal views.. or thought he was supposed to wait till marriage and now doesn’t.. I know a guy like that, and yeah.. I’d have boned his brains out. I don’t make assumptions/judgements about people like that… that person could be asexual, or have sexual trauma and require the right partner to be able to be vulnerable and trusting.. there’s a lot of factors that could…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/21 05:20 PM
1	[Q4All] Have you ever been really surprised at someone’s dating success(or lack thereof)? I don’t??? At all??	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/21 02:27 PM
3	"Men in real life don't care about N count because I rarely get asked about it" - why this logic is very flawed Not my experience whatsoever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/20 04:58 AM
1	"Men in real life don't care about N count because I rarely get asked about it" - why this logic is very flawed Big clap	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/20 04:55 AM
2	Why Being “Funny” Is Killing Your Attraction [Dancing Monkey Syndrome] He is an interesting subject when it comes to attraction because I am 100% sure i am not that PHYSICALLY attracted to him, but I can’t really tell because once I sorted out his personality he became super attractive, he is so awesome.. and then I saw he made an album with the children’s choir of LA in full on Halloween attire and I don’t think I’d even notice if his teeth went missing anymore.	/r/seduction	27/09/20 02:21 AM
3	Here's the god honest way to stop being needy and have girls chasing you This kid is a dumbass. Don’t listen to him. The best thing to calm your social anxiety is to really, really allow yourself to understand that rejection isn’t PERSONAL. When you do, it won’t hurt at all. it will take time and some fake it till you make it but when you fully settle into that fact.. you won’t be afraid anymore. Never stop trying to be a better person. Never stop your journey of self improvement. But you need to leave out the internalization of other people’s reactions and opinions …	/r/seduction	27/09/20 01:54 AM
5	Why Being “Funny” Is Killing Your Attraction [Dancing Monkey Syndrome] You had to be literally Ryan Gosling to pull that shit off to begin with. and if you’re Ryan Gosling, sitting there saying jack shit nothing would have worked just as well. Lol	/r/seduction	27/09/20 01:40 AM
3	Why Being “Funny” Is Killing Your Attraction [Dancing Monkey Syndrome] I’ve read your other comments. You already seem way ahead of everyone else here. Don’t put anyone on a pedestal, obviously, but it’s like people in here haven’t figured out how to do that without objectifying, dehumanizing or feeling superior to them. My gosh, there is a healthy place in there.. and these dudes are not hitting it.	/r/seduction	27/09/20 01:38 AM
1	Why Being “Funny” Is Killing Your Attraction [Dancing Monkey Syndrome] I’ve been thinking about your statement about pretending to be cooler versions of ourselves all night... it’s so weird. it’s so weird.	/r/seduction	27/09/20 01:34 AM
1	How to stop pedestalizing females What are you even saying? Beauty is subjective. you are attracted to what you are attracted to, but when you frame it in a way that makes you feel superior to some “fat chick in glasses” it’s really telling. I’m not personally attracted to larger dudes. I don’t know why, and it’s not always the case, but I would never ever ever frame it like I’m too good for them, or they weren’t attractive people because that’s not true at all. I don’t usually care for blondes. Again. That’s my personal attract…	/r/seduction	27/09/20 01:29 AM
1	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. I don’t think you’re wrong. and I am being rather anecdotal, but I also hate seeing so many generalizations being made. “Be yourself” is bad advice for someone who has a terrible personality, but the sentiment is intended to express how unattractive a try-hard is, not encourage someone to be complacent in their self improvement. It should be obvious that we all should be constantly improving and be better versions of ourselves, but that’s a process that never ends, and shouldn’t be motivated by …	/r/seduction	27/09/20 01:19 AM
1	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. Oh man. I think “dating sites” are a completely other world and topic, I’ve never ever met anyone who actually looked like their pictures, good or bad.. and I started meeting people from Friendster circa like, 2002 From the inter webs and all I know is that it’s damn near impossible to gauge if you will or will not be attracted to someone IN PERSON from a picture. Mercy! But at least there is video chat nowadays. I’m so sorry that is what you are currently stuck with due to this pandemic. I hope…	/r/seduction	27/09/20 12:44 AM
1	Why Being “Funny” Is Killing Your Attraction [Dancing Monkey Syndrome] “Touching and grabbing girls” holy shit.	/r/seduction	26/09/20 11:06 PM
1	Why Being “Funny” Is Killing Your Attraction [Dancing Monkey Syndrome] Yeah. And here I thought it was a sub to share good sex tips. Nope. Incelville.	/r/seduction	26/09/20 11:04 PM
1	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. I just got off from work finally and I’m exhausted. I don’t even have it in me to try and explain anything. All this fucking sub is, is a bunch of dudes say what DOES and DOES NOT work with women and then a bunch of women coming in and being like.. no that’s not at all how we feel and then them getting shut down left and right and then a bunch of guys wondering why they can’t get fucking laid. YO NEWSFLASH .. I am butt ass ugly and I’m stupid gorgeous to different people. And it has nothing to-g…	/r/seduction	26/09/20 11:01 PM
3	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. Bore her? Whaaaaaaat? Teapot you confuse me.	/r/seduction	26/09/20 10:43 PM
1	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. Also.. I think it’s safe to say most of the women I know openly admit to being attracted to “unattractive” men. if it strikes you, it strikes you. I seriously don’t understand why all the men in here think this is so cut and dry	/r/seduction	26/09/20 10:41 PM
1	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. I think the only thing I’ve really solidly learned is that I personally NEVER want to date from a cold approach or online type way in the future ever. Ever. Please god let me build a rapport with someone at least a year so I can see the truths of them without the batshit blinding neurochemical shitshow that happens in the beginning.	/r/seduction	26/09/20 10:40 PM
1	How to stop pedestalizing females “Fat glasses wearing chick” Wow.	/r/seduction	26/09/20 10:37 PM
1	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. Are we considering cross cultural aspects? Socioeconomic factors? Beauty standards based in different epochs? Or is this just a blanket statement.. it’s not as simple as you’re trying to make it. There are studies suggesting we choose people who look like our opposite sex parent.. there is SO MUCH TO IT. That’s all I’m saying.	/r/seduction	25/09/20 05:03 PM
1	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. Well I’m working atm. But I’ll come back later with an assload of sources:research that disputes this outright and shows that attraction has just as much to do with psychological influences by our parents and patterns and other xyz’s... lots of various studies showing various truths.. because.. omg what, it’s so multidimensional. why do you guys need to keep trying to stuff it in neat little boxes. It doesn’t work that way.	/r/seduction	25/09/20 04:52 PM
1	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. Like where are you getting these statistics. I could give a shit about “upper body strength” and I’m confused as to why you are buying into these sweeping generalizations. The biological urge to seek the alpha male no longer takes precedent in modern times, as that is no longer what it takes to survive, prosper, etc. and how much those biological selective urges/traits remain in the forefront of women’s attraction influences, is probably not a number you can get. I know TONS of women into “beta …	/r/seduction	25/09/20 03:57 PM
1	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. You’re not wrong, but there’s a difference between helpful tips and the straight up lunacy some people post in here. Super creepy mind game shit. That’s what I’m referring to. Telling someone eye contact is great is a bit different than some of the “ruin her esteem and ghost her for four days etc etc” going on in here 😂	/r/seduction	25/09/20 03:18 AM
2	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. Well it might work on some end, but on what types of girls? To WHAT end?	/r/seduction	24/09/20 05:11 PM
4	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. I like how you get downvoted for expressing it’s organic and multidimensional.. there is no neat tidy answer like the people in here are desperate for.	/r/seduction	24/09/20 04:46 PM
0	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. Until they find out you’re weirdly manipulative? The thing about being mysterious is that eventually that person WILL find out what you’re all about.. and you should want their attraction and opinion on you to be about that.	/r/seduction	24/09/20 04:45 PM
1	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. I second this. It smells like manipulation and that’s such a turn off. Just be you. And if you’re personality sucks ass.. work on that.. not on manipulation.	/r/seduction	24/09/20 04:39 PM
7	You honestly don’t need to play all these mind games to get a girl to like you. The only thing that matters is looks and first impression. And attraction is subjective..... and while you’re right looks are paramount.. you’re failing to account for the fact that you can be insanely attracted to someone straight up ugly af because even a single feature sparks that in you. Personality can trump ugly, and a lot of other factors, but I’m currently addressing the “uphill battle of the ugly person” it’s just not as simple as being attractive or not attractive. It’s so multidimensional and nuanced and personal I have no idea why people are…	/r/seduction	24/09/20 04:38 PM