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It's not trickle down. It's direct. If men really cared about men's issues, they'd do something about it. But they don't. They just bitch and moan about the few men's issues feminists don't address. Stop being lazy. Do your own work. We're not your maids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:51 PM
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God I love it when people like you get mad at Feminism for not fighting for certain men's rights. It's Feminism. It already fights for a ton of men's issues. If you cared enough about men's rights to make your own movement that didn't focus first on just tearing Feminism down and actually focused on helping men, you would. But you don't. You just like to whine about Feminists not doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:43 PM
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Harvard Medicine, University of Copenhagen, and academy of emergency medicine.. You're basing your view on Feminism on EXTREMELY fringe, widely criticized, and completely unsupported movements. It's like saying all men are school shooters because statistically almost all school shooters have been male. Are school shootings a male issue? Absolutely. Should we look at all young men as potential school shooters? No, that's stupid . Feminism fights FOR many men's rights because men's issues are caus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:40 PM
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No. Well, not for that reason. Of course, the vast majority of men are not abusive. But, abusive people rarely are aware that they're doing this. That's actually one of my main gripes with education on abusive relationships, and I realize that I did the same thing: abusive relationships are talked about as if the abuser has this master plan and is intentionally going through the stages of grooming, distancing, abusing, etc. In reality it almost never happens like that. The abuser usually is genu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 06:24 AM
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What a brilliant answer. Give this guy a PhD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:47 AM
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Men can easily petition to give up parental rights and both get out of paying all future or overdue child support payments. This needs to be more easily obtainable and you should be able to just opt out and not have to petition for it and potentially be turned down, but none of that is a reason to put women through nine months of pregnancy that could put her health and employment status at risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:47 AM
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There have been studies using fake applications with different names. Literally the same exact "person" with and without kids, male vs. female, with EVERYTHING identical except for parental status and gender, showed that with everything else identical men's pay went up with kids whereas women's went down. There is no nuance here. This is a scientific study where all independent variables are controlled. 1/25 abortions occur because of the mother's chronic health problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:45 AM
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Roughly one in ten women are high risk for carrying a pregnancy due to a pre existing condition of their own. Women with kids work fewer hours than men with kids. I never denied that. What you're blatantly ignoring is that men with kids also work far fewer hours on average than men without kids. So, why are men with kids paid more than men without kids while women with kids are paid less than women without kids? It's simple misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:27 AM
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Women get paid less than men on average for the same jobs with the same background. Men with kids get paid more than men without kids while women with kids get paid less than their counterparts without children even though both men and women with kids take more time off of work than men and women without kids. Plenty of women are in danger from not being able to get an abortion. There are a myriad of conditions that make it dangerous to carry a pregnancy, and I've known many women who were unabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 03:13 AM
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Congrats for your wife. That's not the case for women of over 200 chronic illnesses when compared with men who have the same illnesses. Thyroid disorders often don't involve any weight change.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:17 AM
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The gap is between 4 and 8% accounting for gender only, but that grows with age and if a woman isn't white. Toxic masculinity is incredibly notorious within the black community, so it's of no surprise that black men commit more crimes than white men, and that, no doubt, is a huge contributing factor in incarceration rates. White men are let off, and with lighter sentences, though, just as women are sometimes let off and with lighter sentences. The men let off, except for in marijuana charges, do…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:15 AM
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Have you never heard of a chronic illness? Heart disease? Tendonitis? Thyroid disorder? None of those?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 02:03 AM
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Seen it. Incredibly biased, not even journalism. I'll stick to peer reviewed research, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 01:18 AM
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My stats from Harvard? These stats show wages and employment for the same fucking fields with the same fucking backgrounds. They've literally sent out identical resumes with different names. Men are incarcerated because men commit more crimes. This violence, and the depression that leads to suicide, are symptoms of male social conditioning that Feminists have been fighting against for decades. Also, 97% of child custody cases are agreed upon by the parents. Men CHOOSE not to have more custody mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 01:15 AM
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Had for decades? Some states make it virtually impossible to get an abortion, abortion is up for being overturned this summer, women wait longer to be seen in the ER and on average get diagnosed over 2 years later than men for the same illnesses, get paid less and are offered fewer jobs after having kids than men after having kids, who get paid more than before and are offered more jobs, indigenous women are barred from prosecuting their rapists, etc. But sure. Feminism is cancer because your fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:38 AM
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God, I love it when they link one article and think it's case closed. Like nobody cares what Julie from Jezebel says.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 12:34 AM
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I mean, based on what he's said here, he really really shouldn't be a parent. Wishful thinking, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 09:30 PM
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I love the "I can't think of anything to say so I'll just say what they said about me to them" schtick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 09:04 PM
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Exactly!?? Stop treating us like riddles. We're people, not fucking riddles. There are no riddles. You're making riddles and imaginary boundaries up where there are none.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 08:07 PM
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Because I expect my partner to not look at me like an alien species that cannot be understood? Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 08:00 PM
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Because we're not stupid. If you can't understand us and don't think it's even possible to understand us, it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:54 PM
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If they look to you for a cue rather than just crying, then that's how you know it's just for attention and that's how you know not to give them that kind of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:52 PM
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Yeah, but we agree on just about everything PPD related so there's no debate and the discussions don't last long. They just kind of end with "that's fucked up" and "I can't believe there are actually dickwads who think like that" after about five minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:50 PM
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I did. Are you illiterate?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:47 PM
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Damn. Almost every parent knows to not react when your kid gets hurt. Don't gasp and coddle them or else they'll think the situation is worse than it is. But don't reward them for getting hurt and tell them that hurting themselves is something cool, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:46 PM
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... You're not a parent, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:41 PM
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Fine, get it out in a way that's healthy, but your argument was that men shouldn't get it out how they choose to because they'll be ridiculed. And naturally, boys do deal with emotions by crying and are taught not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:35 PM
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Lol, women are too stupid to understand themselves? Just because you're too stupid to doesn't mean the rest of us are. Especially because there's not much different to understand in women vs. in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:24 PM
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Because we're not stupid. If you can't understand us and don't think it's even possible to understand us, it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:21 PM
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Lol, when did I demonize masculinity? I demonized your idea of masculinity, which is literally just locking up your emotions and never acknowledging or talking about them until men gain a high suicide and violence rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:20 PM
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Women are impossible to understand? What? There's no difference here between men and women. Men pull this shit on women just as often and women do on men. Stop thinking of women as some alien species that needs a decoder to understand. We're people. No woman wants a man who can't understand her, and you can't understand women because of your own mental hangups.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:14 PM
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Hon, you aren't just out of touch with your emotions, you're out of touch with reality as a whole. A dude isn't getting fired for crying. No woman wants some stoic rock that never shared their emotions. And the solution to a societal issue you don't like isn't to perpetuate it further. Like, wtf. That should go without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:08 PM
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So you have to pay girls on tinder to have sex with you? Yeah, sure, you have no problem picking up women, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:05 PM
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Women aren't dumb, men are just abusers and groomers much more often than women. Make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 07:03 PM
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Whenever this question is brought up, the men here always refuse to believe that there are eguys who seemed like standup guys that ran off, and left her to raise the kid alone. Then if they do believe that, then they say that it was the woman's responsibility to see through the deception of being a fake stand-up guy. And then they say that women are just trying to avoid taking responsibility as they're literally jumping through every hoop imaginable for it not to be the dude's fault when it's so…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 12:52 AM
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The problem is that you're saying that abuse and domestic violence victims are children who should just be more responsible. If there are women who knowingly go for garbage guys, then sure, they shouldn't have done that. But, it's usually guys that acted like standup guys and left her alone with a kid, or victims of abuse who finally left their abuser. Women that get off on shitty dudes are pretty rare. The issue here is that we're talking about domestic abuse victims, and you said outright that…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 12:48 AM
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And there's another one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 12:41 AM
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Proving the point perfectly, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 09:00 PM
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So you have no proof, but you THINK that women would hesitate more? Because you have a hunch about women's psychological makeup, even though, based on your posts, you don't know the first thing about "women's psychological makeup?" Well by all means, we should ban women from joining dangerous jobs because this guy THINKS women would hesitate. In fact, I believe the opposite is true. Women had shown completely capable of shooting, but the men around them hesitated and refused orders because "must…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 04:58 PM
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Firstly, we don't want to be chased. We want you to actually fuck off when we say no. Secondly, unfortunately, prostitution won't fix that because there's no sense of accomplishment for men paying for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 04:45 PM
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Oh you absolute fool. Slut shaming almost never has anything to do with how many actual sexual partners a woman has. It's just people being disgusted that she dare be hot and happy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 04:34 PM
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TLDR: A ton of men who have no idea how grooming and abusive relationships work and that it's more dangerous to leave one than stay in one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 04:30 PM
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Uhhh no. Plenty of women find the dad bod sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 08:44 PM
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What do you define as male sexuality? You can't just make a claim like that without saying what you think male sexuality is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 08:41 PM
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Look at the comments and PMs the girls get on any one of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 08:40 PM
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Yeah no. Most women do not use men for free shit. That 1/3 is wrong. Also sex workers fake being into their clients all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 03:28 PM
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No. You can find an example for anything. That doesn't mean it's a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 03:23 PM
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That is assuming that masturbation is an indication of sex drive. That's a fundamentally flawed and male-centric way of viewing sex. Orgasms are difficult to achieve for a huge portion of women, and many of these women and more require expensive toys in order to orgasm, making masturbation long, stressful, and sometimes expensive and useless. That, however, is not necessarily an indicator of her desire to have sex. Many women do not view an orgasm, the goal of masturbation, to be the goal of sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 01:08 AM
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Yeah. Men's sex drives, on average, are higher than women's. That's not news. But to act like a woman's sex drive being higher than a man's or comparable to man's isn't at all common is ludicrous. And again, men having higher testosterone than women may very well have absolutely nothing to do with it. Testosterone therapy in women has been almost completely ineffective in increasing sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:41 AM
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Most women are blue. These women also have sex almost exclusively with blue men while denouncing red men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:17 AM
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Lol, yeah, being a dick will totally get you laid. /S
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:16 AM
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Lol, lots of women have higher libidos than men. Testosterone is not the only hormone that causes high libido. Estrogen increases sex drive. I'm sick of y'all trying to preach Biology when you have no idea wtf you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:14 AM
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Marriage is not pushed back because of a sexual revolution. It's pushed back due to requiring higher education for more jobs and lack of money. People in relationships are still romantic. Men only are seen as better for sleeping with lots of women on TV and online. IRL, you're a cringey douche from r/ihavesex if you talk about having a ton of sex, and success is having a long term partner. That really hasn't changed. Loss of conservative values is a good thing. High divorce rates are not indicat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 12:08 AM
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Which state?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:36 PM
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I do a hell of a lot more than you do. Hell, I spend every other weekend volunteering to help these men. I know their stories and to reduce them to just child support money and use them to fight feminism is gross. I care about you them as people. Not as tools in my political arguments. It's MUCH easier to terminate your own rights than to terminate someone elses. Do an ounce of research.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:29 PM
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I'm dense? This situation, while similar, doesn't involve child support. You're the one making not about money rather than about forcing people to interact with their rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:27 PM
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Women are most definitely sometimes legally obligated to meet with and give visitation to their rapists for the child's entire childhood, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:24 PM
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He shouldn't have to, you're right. It's disgusting. But why only care and act like it's male oppression when it happens to a man when this has been happening to women for years? That tells me that you don't actually care about these men and what they're going through. You just care when their trauma fits your anti feminist agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:21 PM
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Most judges are going to consider cutting out the kind of dad who wants to relinquish parental rights as in the best interest of the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 02:08 PM
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Relinquishment of parental rights. It's a thing you can petition the court for in, I believe, every state in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:53 PM
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Interesting. I knew that high blood pressure caused what is considered to be a high risk pregnancy (though it's usually totally fine) but didn't know about induction. Yeah, there are certainly some factors that would affect pregnancy if you're resistant to birth control, but the majority (mental health issues and the like) would likely act up during a pregnancy but wouldn't be physically dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:46 PM
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There is and it's a miracle for many but comes with a slew of issues on its own. Many doctors don't recommend it because the percentage of women who keep the copper IUD in longer than one year is so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:42 PM
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Men can terminate their parental rights and not have to pay child support and also not have to pay any overdue child support. You have to go through a judge but it's a thing even for men who were not raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:37 PM
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Because fitness isn't about how healthy you are. It's about how likely you are to reproduce. Things like blood pressure don't usually kill until after or at the end of reproductive years When I say drug resistance I'm not talking about birth control not working anymore or certain women or about women becoming allergic to it or anything. I'm talking about conditions preventing women from using it becoming more common. Women where breast cancer runs in the family, who get migraines with aura, with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:33 PM
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A BS is great but idk why you'd act like 6 years less schooling makes you more qualified. It's definitely too soon to tell and too soon to have any broad effects and definitely not the only thing at play, but building a resistance to a drug that stops you from reproducing isn't for no reason. It would be basic natural selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 01:16 PM
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I mean, I have a pHD is biology and genetics. I can say with a high degree of confidence that while there is no data confirming or denying this, that is exactly how this works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:55 PM
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So because a kid was born into a bad situation, they deserve to starve in a gutter? People who think like that are the ones who really need to starve in a gutter. Also all of the planned parenthood in the world won't solve the fact that a large portion of women cannot be on hormonal birth control for medical reasons. Also most forms of birth control are not free at PP anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:15 AM
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Actually my periods and cramping weren't terrible on it. For whatever reason my uterus just really didn't like it and I was producing so much discharge that I'd either have to wear tampons 24/7 or change underwear 5 times a day. Got old real fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 04:12 AM
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Ugh, I had SUCH high hopes for my Paraguard and it would up being even more of a nightmare for me than the hormonal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:32 AM
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Do you think women could potentially be evolving to be resistant to birth control? There are a lot of medical conditions and even mental health issues that make a lot of women unable to safely use hormonal birth control. In theory, these women would technically be fitter than healthier women who can tolerate birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 03:30 AM
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Women go for men based on looks, money, and status Incels are ugly and that's why they can't get laid. Women only go for "Chad." Women will usually leave their partner if a chaddier Chad comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:44 PM
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You can't be very specific because it's literally everything. The kinds of men you think women go for is wrong. What you think women look for other than looks is wring. This whole idea of Chads and Stacies is wrong. Incels ideas about female sexuality is wrong. Incels ideas of who is conventionally ugly/attractive is wrong. All of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:36 PM
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Yeah no, I got that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:28 PM
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That it is not. And sadly abortion is an issue lawmakers could potentially get away with by saying their anti abortion beliefs aren't religious in nature, not that many of them do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:27 PM
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Literally not even enough social intelligence to figure out how society or interactions work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:25 PM
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I mean I wouldn't consider abortion a birth control. That's kinda after the fact, imo. But in that case no, the number of women who can't get an abortion for medical reasons would be extremely low. However I'd be willing to bet that in many states it's the ridiculous legal hoops that block women from getting abortions just as much as the cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:24 PM
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Incels have no room to talk to anybody about IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:22 PM
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There are more people who can't go on birth control for medical reasons than there are people who can't afford it. You can't go on many forms of birth control if breast cancer runs in the family or else you're at an increased risk of breast cancer. You can't go on if you get migraines with aura or else you're at too high a risk of stroke. You can't go on if you've had a blood clot or certain clotting disorders. You can't go on for some hormone imbalances. You shouldn't go on if birth control cau…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 07:20 PM
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Edit: I hate the sweaty thing y'all have started. I get it, it just looks stupid. If you're going to demean, at least don't look like a five year old sounding out their picture books. And where is anybody saying anyone is entitled to sex? You people love your mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 06:44 PM
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Cool. You still don't know what they are if you think that's radfem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 05:14 PM
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Radical feminism is feminism that aims to end the concept of gender as a whole. You look really stupid when you get up on a high horse talking about radfems as any feminist idea you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:45 PM
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I mean, it's not common, but if we're talking about stealthing, then exactly what those guys are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:43 PM
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The number of you people that don't know what radical feminism is is concerning. Just as the notion that holding men accountable for slipping a condom off is radical to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:38 PM
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Nah, 21 is still plenty normal to not have had relationships or sex. I don't think that's it. I would probably say it's the impersonalness of it,.or like the others said, maybe oversharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:00 PM
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I don't, no, but I believed we were talking about stealthing. I agree that both partners need to hold themselves and their partner accountable, but depending on the situation, I don't think it's always as simple as saying "get on birth control like a civilized person." Men are stuck with either condoms (which only have an 86% effectiveness rate typically) or a vasectomy, which is potentially permanent. Women have a lot more options, but if she's intolerant to hormones (I could actually die and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:53 PM
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Right, because I'm sure all of those women thought "wow, this guy is such an untrustworthy asshole, I think I'm going to sleep with him." When do we hold men accountable for violating your consent? Most of these cases are with men who act trustworthy and deceitful in order to get her to trust him and take advantage of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:33 PM
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A lot of women don't have a cycle regular enough to track. A lot. Congrats on having one. You must be so proud. Condoms are great. They also leave you completely at the mercy of the the man when you have sex. Stealthing is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:28 PM
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If your answer to why you want to sleep with her or date her, "because I haven't before" is a kind of shitty answer. That's why you want to date someone. She doesn't want to be some sort of faceless someone that's just a vag to fuck so you can get it over with and say you lost your virginity. Now, that might not be what you mean, but that's definitely what I hear. Additionally, how old are you? After your mid to late twenties, I might assume there's a reason that other women have avoided you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:26 PM
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There are a lot of women who can't afford birth control or can't go on it for medical reasons. Like, a LOT. It's not rare at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:21 PM
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I think that those numbers are bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:18 PM
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No, most of you think it's easy for us to find relationships, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:57 PM
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Agree that looks play the most important role in someone taking interest you to even begin a relationship. Disagree that it's super easy for women to find relationships at the drop of a hat and that they're ugly if they're unable to find a partner. I know many amazing an attractive women who couldn't find a boyfriend despite looking until their mid twenties. Compatible people are hard to come by no matter who is looking. Some of us get luckier than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 11:42 PM
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I think that men genuinely cause more problems to be sorry for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 09:11 PM
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The majority of women really aren't turned on by a dude's money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 09:09 PM
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Two things. Charisma definitely is a thing that helps. It's just a fancy word for social intelligence and confidence. Both of which do help. It's not a magic fuck all the women you want ticket, but it helps. Women do not control who has sex as much as you think. I know plenty of nice, attractive women who wanted to sleep with men and were turned down because they just weren't what the dude was looking for. There are more women turning down men than men turning down women for sure, but men still …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 09:08 PM
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Fair point, but I don't think just saying don't drink and trying to prevent alcohol consumption at all is the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 01:20 PM
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How does a study make it not redundant? It was absolutely still redundant 15 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 01:15 PM
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9-11 truthers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:30 PM
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That's all I was saying. Also, idk how you're going to compare women getting raped in their everyday loves to men in a warzone and then say there is no rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:55 AM
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No. I also don't expect you to go up to a soldier who accidentally stepped on a bomb he didn't think was there and tell him that if he'd done x he would still be able to walk. I'd expect you to empathize with him and be angry that an insurgent out a bomb there and try to do better in your future training. I never. Fucking. Said. That women shouldn't take precautions. I said that they don't deserve to get raped even if they don't. Don't twist my damn words.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:50 AM
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That was kinda my point. Near a police station should be more safe, not less. It doesn't matter how safe you are or aren't being. People are always going to spin it to be at least a little bit your fault, and that is rape culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:47 AM
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The point isn't that women shouldn't protect themselves. It isn't that women should try to avoid dangerous situations. It's that if something does happen, even if they were being stupid, they were not responsible for getting raped and should not be treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:42 AM
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I wish you would use real life examples because, by God, you're theoretical examples are laughably awful. That was a lot of writing with absolutely no content. Sounds like you're just angry for getting called out on your misogyny, but whatever. A drunk guy on a beach who was robbed was stupid. He also didn't deserve to be robbed, is not at fault for being robbed, and it is the robbers fault that he got robbed. Not even touching your disgusting example comparing women who get raped for being alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:38 AM
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You're comparing a drunk women who gets raped because she was alone with a guy to someone who drives drunk... and you're calling me the asshole? I was assaulted outside of a police station in broad daylight in the nicest area in town in work atire on my way home from work. Guess who got blamed for that? Me. Because "a woman shouldn't walk near a police station." I was also assaulted at a children's hospital, again, with an abundance of on site security in a nice part of town when I stepped outsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 12:06 AM
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I should add that this was not a police station that even had prisoners.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 11:56 PM
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No, I couldn't avoid walking past the police station. Additionally, if you believe that I should, or that that was even a place I should need to be on guard, or that I should add 20 minutes to my walk to get there from the other direction, or that I should never pass it to go get lunch on my lunch break, you are absolutely the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 11:55 PM
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Well then those who say that need to learn to watch your language, because it comes off as very accusatory. I've been told that it was my fault for getting assaulted in broad daylight in a safe populated area near a police station because criminals are at the police station and a woman shouldn't be walking near a police station then, mind you I had to because my work is right across the street and there's no on site parking. This is the same reasoning you are using. You say for now, but nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 11:20 PM
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Listen, I'm not saying men couldn't possibly succeed if they tried. I'm saying that it's asinine to think that having the upper hand in hand to hand combat has any bearing on chances of success since modern wars are not fought in hand to hand combat (and it would absolutely be a war). I think it's also crazy to say that men wouldn't fear women in enslaving us. Even if men did win, it would not be at no cost, and hundreds of millions of men would likely die. This would absolutely play into the de…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 11:14 PM
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Who says otherwise? Anyone who says "well she should have done xyz" when she gets raped rather than placing 100% of the blame on the rapist. And I don't think it's necessarily anti feminist. Women should protect themselves as much or as little as they want and still shouldn't get raped. Is reality imperfect? Yes. But it's never going to get better if we say "well this is just how it is, so it's still women's responsibility to avoid getting raped."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 11:07 PM
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You live in a bubble if you think women wouldn't slaughter millions of you if you tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:45 PM
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It is impractical. If you're not very careful, you have a good chance of getting assaulted. I'm not denying that. What I'm saying is that getting assaulted is 100% the fault of the assaulter. The assaulted bears absolutely no responsibility for it. None. At all. No matter what someone is doing, where they're walking, or how they dress, it does not give anyone permission to assault them. To tell someone who is assaulted "well you shouldn't have been walking there dressed like that," places part o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:44 PM
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Teens these days must be more sensible than you, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:35 PM
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Yeah, I get that that was the point being made. But the notion that women are only free because of the empathy of men isn't right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:34 PM
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Putting any of the responsibility of not getting raped on the rape victim rather than completely and fully on the rapist is absolutely placing blame in the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 09:30 PM
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It's happening in those countries because women are culturally raised from birth to expect and accept this. Most men being physically stronger than most women isn't enough to enslave an entire gender who doesn't want to be enslaved, especially with modern weapons that women already have access to. Women also have more endurance than men and comparable lower body strength in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 06:37 PM
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There's literally nothing stopping us from enslaving the female gender The women who don't want to be enslaved, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 06:31 PM
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That sucks, shouldn't happen, and rarely happens. We're talking about cases with physical evidence or witnesses, and you're derailing. Also 3 months in jail for what is defined by law as sexual assault is not an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:31 PM
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Even with physical evidence, rapists frequently get less time than people with marijuana violations, people frequently blame the victim at least in part for "putting herself in that situation" and several states store rape kits and never test them, so they can't be used as physical evidence when physical evidence is available. And, even with physical evidence, many rapists get little or no time because of lax and specific legal definitions of rape (eg. forced penetration of an object, forced ora…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 04:10 PM
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It's not about most men being rapists. It's about most people blaming women in part for getting raped and excusing the rapists and not prosecuting them enough. It's a cultural issue in that we create a culture beneficial for a minority rapists, not that most men are generally rapists. Also a minority being an issue doesn't make it not a problem. School shooters are a minority, but school shootings are still a cultural issue in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 03:55 PM
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Rape culture says nothing about all/most men raping in the right conditions. Edit: shout-out to all the men down there saying that there's no rape culture and then proceeding to explain to me why rape victims are partially to blame when they got raped. You have illustrated my point better than I ever could have.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/19 12:36 PM
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Idk, honestly. Someone who says "I wouldn't be able to sleep at night if I didn't say hi" seems WAY too into it. That's too strong a statement to lead with in my eyes. That suggests to me that he's either wayyy too interested in my body than I feel safe with if he's telling the truth, or most likely that he's really pompous and overconfident and is the kind of guy who thinks he's all that and will either brush you off or get mad if you say he's wrong. Saying you're beautiful and I wanted to say …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:40 PM
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I get what you're saying, but out of those specific scenarios, #1 is definitely the creepy player and #2 is much more acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 09:19 PM
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Life shouldn't be a monetary pursuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:25 PM
1

I wouldn't care so long it's someone who actually knows me asking outside of work and not some stranger who just liked how my ass looked in shorts today.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:23 PM
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I think that women have learned not to be overly friendly to men because a lot of the time, men will take friendliness to mean interest, pursue her, and sometimes act out when he gets rejected. Most of the time? No. But certainly often enough that it's safer to downplay the friendliness around men you don't know. Also there's probably a lot of confirmation bias. While it's safer to not be super friendly, most women are friendly enough to not come off as total assholes in most situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:15 PM
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Then that's your own issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:44 PM
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I mean, 99% of anti feminists have no clue what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 08:43 PM
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Hardly anybody acts like an object to be fucked. YOU project that onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:10 PM
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Why? Feminism is not one synonymous cohesive group. I don't necessarily care what this other person says and my disagreement doesn't make either one of us not feminists. The notion that you can even say "go read what this feminist says and that proves my point" proves that you have no grasp on or understanding of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 05:09 PM
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r/ihavesex And that ain't the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 04:51 PM
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No, I do understand. Women absolutely search for someone to fuck and we absolutely do NOT think of ourselves as objects to be fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 04:50 PM
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Wow. That was a lot of words describing essentially nothing. What do you define as patriarchy? What evidence do you have suggesting that women "bend down to patriarchs." Why do you think women are insufferable and why should you not liking women have any bearing on what rights women get? Also you giving women you deem unattractive orgasms in the name of feminism is fucking disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:57 PM
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And what were your feminist beliefs, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:30 PM
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Read all the things that support your confirmation bias, you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 02:18 PM
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Women in porn are sexually liberated? With the exception of cam girls and anything recorded by the actress herself, women in porn are horribly abused. The issue also isn't porn itself, it's that men think these crazy acts in porn are normal and expect other women to be okay with it, and that so many men get off to violence against women in porn and create a market for it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:48 PM
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Nah, they make these rubber mits for that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:43 PM
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If all you mean by "Chads" are very attractive men well liked by everyone, my boyfriend and I met when were dorky acne-ridden twelve year olds, started dating in our teens, and the rest is history. He was an adorable kid then and grew up to be one hell of an attractive man when we grew up. Most universally liked, sensitive, funny person I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:35 PM
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I spy someone who got all their knowledge of feminism from the sjw tag on Tumblr.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:29 PM
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Maybe your friend group is having sex for the wrong reasons, or don't talk about their positive experiences much. A lot of women like sex and can have sex with strangers no problem. A lot of women like sex and can't have sex with strangers no problem. No matter which camp you're in, you can't have sex no problem without emotional consequences if you're trying to fill some pre existing void with it. And sexual liberation isn't about fucking all the guys you can. It's about being able to choose th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:26 PM
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The notion that so many guys think that women don't find meaning and value in sex is deeply concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:19 PM
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It's gross. It's come full circle to the point where women calling their actual fathers daddy weirds me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:28 PM
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No, culture is not an extension of nature. There are many cultures that work opposite ours in many aspects. There are communities of monkeys and apes that have changed their entire culture in one generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 04:22 PM
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All of the other women hitting on him all the time beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:38 AM
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"women's things" and "men's things." Right... this is exactly the kind of social conditioning I'm referring to. Also to answer your earlier question, some private school teachers are paid okay. The vast majority of teachers are not private school teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 11:36 AM
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Total blank slates? No. But there are also many studies showing that girls are not less ambitious initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 10:51 AM
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Since when are men congratulated for cheating. I mean, I'm sure that some shitty dude's shitty friends somewhere might high five him, but as a general rule, cheating is very frowned upon and will challenge future relationships no matter who is doing it. And it has a lot less to do with the potential of raising another man's child than hurting someone who loves you and who there was mutual respect and trust with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:27 AM
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Firstly, I don't think it's at all that women aren't as ambitious as men. Secondly, if that were true, women wouldn't be born less ambitious. That's something that's taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:14 AM
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Idk. I can clean up nice and look pretty killer when I want, but nine times out of ten, I look painstakingly average and my partner is a solid 10 every day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 01:09 AM
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I don't think you realize how much that really is. That would be an additional several thousand dollars a year for me, as well as for the average person. Can you honestly say you'd be okay with your coworker making 75K while you're making 70K for the same exact work with the same background? I could pay my siblings tuition or most of a year's rent with that. Is it the most pressing issue women face in the US? Not really, but that doesn't mean that we should shut up and call it good enough. Women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/19 12:16 AM
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Yeahhh, feminism and askfeminists have most of the same mods, if not all??? If you're banned from one, you're auto banned from the other. Shit's ridiculous, honestly, especially because so many on Reddit refer to them as the pinnacle of feminist thought. And 4-8% is about right, depending on whose doing the math. It's certainly better than twenty something cents, but all in all, that's still a big difference And yeah, she does have less time to devote to her career. But then, so does a father, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:09 PM
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Your question implied that they knew they were commiting rape and therefore are only doing it because they can't get caught. I was well aware of category one, but that doesn't fit in to your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 09:37 PM
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And I shouldn't be turned off by dating a cheater, why exactly? Also how do you know so many people are using these if they don't admit to it. Sounds like a big red flag that women just shouldn't date athletes if you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 09:35 PM
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So the last two are the ones you're asking about. And of those, most of them are about power. That 70-78% wouldn't fit your narrative here because you're asking if men would knowingly and intentionally rape, and those 70-78% don't consider themselves rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:25 PM
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Uh. No. As someone involved in athletics and with others involved in athletics, very few athletes use PEDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:22 PM
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I would seriously take anything over there with a HUGE grain of salt. The sub is run by radical feminists, who make up a smaller minority of most feminists, who are liberal feminists. And radical feminism is a direct opposite of cultural feminism, so there's that, too. Anyway, the mods on askfeminists hand out bans like candy. Not a radical feminist? Ban. Are a radical feminist but word something wrong? Ban. Ask why you were given a warning? Ban. They essentially weed out all but the most radica…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 07:20 PM
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Absolutely wouldn't date someone using PEDs. Someone who uses PEDs, even if safe, is obsessed with their sport/the gym/their looks to an unsound degree. Unless this is literally your job and these drugs aren't illegal in your line of work, that's a hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 03:02 PM
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Idk dude. Reads perfectly well to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:40 PM
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Because they're attracted to the women? No. Rape is very rarely about attraction, because when people have sex due to attraction, a large portion of the pleasure is in knowing that the other party wants you, as well. It's far more often about a display of power. Everyone going off about how back after one nation would win in a war, they'd rape the women there? Yeah, that's not because they were so attracted to the women there. It was a show of dominance. Now, I could be wrong here, but I'd argue…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:38 PM
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Yes, it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 12:35 PM
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The wage gap refers to different pay for the same work with the same background, not differences in choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 11:23 AM
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"Want to watch x movie?" or some similar thing sometimes really does actually mean "want to watch x movie."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 02:13 AM
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That's just... Factually incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:24 AM
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I can agree with some of this, but I don't think that your field (STEM, art, etc.) has much to do with it. I know just as many party animal STEM women as I do reserved shy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:18 AM
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Why would you ever do that?! Women's pay and chances of getting hired drop DRASTICALLY after she has her first child. Why would you put yourself in a position where you're starting out further back than you would have if you had started your career without kids so that you have a solidified pre-child salary and position locked in place for when you come back from maternity leave? Not to mention that starting a career later in life with less experience for your age because you wanted to have kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:28 PM
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Blue pill is literally just that red pill (the parts that make it unique from any other dating advice like work out and be confident, so really just the misogyny and completely warped views on the 'sexual market') is wrong. But, RP guys never believe BP anyway, because RP philosophy is rooted in the belief that BP women are just virtue signaling and BP men are just trying to impress them. When your philosophy is rooted in a belief that inherently excuses you from ever listening to the other side…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 03:21 PM
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Three reasons. It's more polite. This isn't just a women's thing, either. If a coworker wanted me to take their shift back at my old job, I was never going to say "no." I'd say no and give a polite excuse. We're not out here to crush your spirits, and I think you need to ask yourself if you would actually prefer a straight up no. The answer 9/10 times is that you would not. Saying no doesn't work. A lot of us have tried just saying no before. A lot, and I mean a lot of men won't leave us TF alon…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/19 12:09 AM
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That's literally all I was saying: that children shouldn't be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:56 PM
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It's ridiculous to say that children who aren't even teenagers and who have barely got puberty should be having sex with each other. Dating and holding hands and stuff? Sure. Having sex? Fuck off with that bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 12:43 PM
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My phone went off at 1:30 am for this. This a month old. Chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 05:25 AM
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I've been with the same guy since I was practically a kid, so not much has changed as far as men go: I get hit on, I say I'm with someone, and it ends there (weirdly enough, I do notice I get hit on more now than when I was younger). What has changed a LOT is how my female friends act about it. Nobody really blinked twice when we started dating early in highschool. But, as we stayed together through college and into adulthood, got engaged, married, etc. all while several of my female friends had…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 12:11 PM
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I think most men's issues stem from shame around looking too feminine. being a victim of assault or rape going into a field like nursing or teaching sharing emotions But, that begs the question: what's so shameful about femininity that men would rather suffer than express it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:47 PM
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I've found people attractive that OTHER people don't. But no, I've never felt sexual attraction for someone I wasn't physically attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:45 PM
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Not really. Though that is getting close to disproportionate territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:43 PM
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Honestly, I find Harry styles to be pretty unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:42 PM
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No. It's a meme. And even the meme has nothing to do with actual penises.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:40 PM
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I mean, generally if you're still proportioned pretty normally, no height is a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:39 PM
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Yeah, there have been people I've been emotionally attracted to but not physically attracted to, which happens far more than physically attracted to but not emotionally, because as soon as his values are revealed to be awful, he starts looking like an asshole, too. But, I wouldn't call the people I'm only emotionally attracted to potential partners. It's not going to work if I'm not physically attracted to them. End of story. However, people have extremely varried tastes. Even if most people fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 08:55 PM
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Lol, right. It's such a tell when people say that. Illegal immigration has been trending down for a while now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 08:49 PM
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I don't like women having choices. You sound like a great person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 08:47 PM
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Wow, one whole election and one whole data point. What a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 08:46 PM
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No, you wanted to have sex at twelve and that's all you can think of rather than the actual welfare of kids. And exactly. Porn is geared towards men. So why would most women be watching the porn geared towards men? And how are you going to enforce which kids have hit puberty enough to have sex? Do you let them judge? Because that will go well. Kids don't finish puberty until their late teens, which, not so coincidentally, is the age of consent. And while contraception should be widely available,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 08:39 PM
2

Girls attempt later because most kids discover masturbation either accidentally or from media and it's much easier to rub something up against a dick and realize "hey, this feels good" than the clit. And in the media, masturbating is always a dude jerking off. Women don't learn that masturbation is a thing or how to do it until later. At 12, you still have a lot of late bloomers who haven't even hit puberty yet, children don't have access to contraception, and many haven't even had sex ed yet an…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 08:19 PM
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Girls masturbate later because it's more difficult for girls to figure out how to do so and reach orgasm, not because they have no sex drive. And we're not talking about a 16 year old having sex. We're talking about a CHILD. Not even a teenager. A child. Do you really need it explained to you why a CHILD should not be having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 08:07 PM
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Masturbatory behavior can be observed in toddlers, too. That doesn't make toddlers trying to have sex okay, now does it? The difference is that CHILDREN are under the age of consent. I cannot believe I'm having to explain why it's not okay for children, not even teenagers, but a fucking CHILD to be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 08:04 PM
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That is factually incorrect. Girls, on average, hit puberty 1-2 years sooner than boys. And it quite literally is criminal for children under the age of consent to be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 08:01 PM
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Being a guy is not an excuse for sexually pursuing other children. "Boys will be boys" is not an excuse for a child making sexual advances on other children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 05:13 PM
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Did I have crushes at 12? Sure. Was I sexually pursuing other children? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 04:53 PM
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Most of these are pretty BS, but this one I can really get behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 04:16 PM
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12 to 20 Um.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 04:07 PM
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Lol, the joke went right over your head and you're calling me dumb. You don't pay for anyone's abortions. No federal funding (aka taxpayer money, aka your money, since you're that dense) can be used for abortions. However, women NOT getting abortions and using taxpayer money for welfare is a very real thing. Fucking moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:50 AM
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So only people who want kids should ever be allowed to have sex. Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:38 AM
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I just can't believe that it's still even up for debate. Nobody should be required to involuntarily sacrifice their body and health for another person, especially when that person isn't actually a person yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:38 AM
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So am I, a married adult who never wants kids, just supposed to never have sex with my husband, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:35 AM
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But the argument is that it SHOULDN'T be a crime... and these women DIDN'T decide to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:28 AM
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Making something so verbose that it loses its impact and meaning and just drones on is generally considered to be a bigger misstep than being short and to the point. If you're going to make a claim, make a claim. Back it up. Don't turn it into a damn poem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:20 AM
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Nobody is talking about it like it's just an everyday back of your mind thing. It's not for the vast majority of people. But, like, if it is for someone then, like... Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:16 AM
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No, I'm saying that your writing sucks. Don't flatter yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:14 AM
1

Imagine being so dense that you think catcalling is positive attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:09 AM
1

Wow. That was a whole paragraph of eloquent nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:08 AM
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It's not illegal to ask. But also keep in mind that it is not safe to take plan B often (more than a few times per year, and even that is pushing it). It is an EXTREMELY high dose of hormone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:06 AM
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women's bodies push the eggs out. For the love of God, please do, like, a three minute Google search before going on internet rants about women's sexual health. Now. When you say "push the eggs out" I presume you either mean ovulation, or a period. Ovulation is when an egg is released from an ovary. Almost always, it's one (ONE) singular egg each month-ish. I hope you know what a period is. Plan B does not induce a "period" that will get rid of an embryo. An abortion pill does. Those have to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 01:04 AM
1

That's like saying that the notion that you can't call in a fake bomb threat is an infringement on body autonomy because the government is saying that you aren't allowed to call and form certain words with YOUR mouth. Besides, you can already go to a judge and have your parental rights terminated and any existing overdue child support payments are forgiven. And courts do not impute income on unemployed fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:58 AM
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The level of misinformation and ignorance in these responses is astounding. None of y'all should even be talking about abortion until you understand what is actually happening. The pill that can be taken a few hours/ days after unprotected sex is emergency contraception. It is not an abortion because it does not terminate anything after conception. It prevents conception to begin with. There are two kinds. Plan B (or other off brands of this) works by flooding the body with high doses of female …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:47 AM
2

Yes, please tell me how YOU think a forced pregnancy would be best for ME, and why I am wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:38 AM
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It's not acceptable out of the womb because it's a sentient person. It's not acceptable in the second and third trimester because it's a sentient person. When abortions are performed, it's not a sentient person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:37 AM
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I mean, I agree with men being allowed to terminate parental rights and not pay child support, but it really has nothing to do with this situation. It's having control over what happens to your own body. Not having control over every situation in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/19 12:35 AM
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The fault of the scumbag is on the scumbag, not the woman who thought he wasn't a scumbag. Also completely not true. When was the last time you saw a guy wishing a girl would ask him out or for his girlfriend to propose?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:26 PM
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Uhhh no. Men have to choose a woman, too. It's easy for a woman to find SEX. It's just as difficult to find a relationship, which is the scenario described above. Plus, I'm not taking on extra responsibility just because YOU will fuck anything that moves. That's on you, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:21 PM
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Why should women have to take more responsibility for the same rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:16 PM
2

I don't really care much about height, but heels accentuate your legs and butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:50 PM
2

It's as real as any other emotion. That being said, most people would call what you described to be infatuation, not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 02:31 PM
16

Yes. Literally "Evolutionary Psychology, fifth edition." Not the whole textbook, of course, but a good portion of it. Basically women have more of an inclination to search for partners who will stay and not go off and have sex with other women. From a purely evolutionary standpoint, it's beneficial to men either way: whether they stay or go off and have sex with more women. Also that social cues actually have a greater impact than anyone gives credit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 02:28 PM
4

Women don't get custody by default. If you actually look at the facts, more women have custody because less men pursue custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 10:28 PM
1

Then those people haven't gone through the proceedings to terminate their parental rights. The fact that there's thousands who haven't doesn't mean that you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 07:06 PM
2

Men can already give up parental rights, not pay child support, and not pay any child support already owed. Seriously, do like, an OUNCE of research.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:50 AM
1

That's on the dude, though, and out of the woman's control as to whether or not it's used correctly. There are female condoms, but they're less effective, and you can't use both male and female condoms together, so it's better to just let him wear a condom and hope he uses it correctly. Otherwise, any reliable option in our control is hormonal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:48 AM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:24 PM
1

That's fair. However, if a man is unwilling to do this, I think he shouldn't expect a woman to do so instead. Not saying that you do, but many others definitely think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:37 PM
1

I mean, if you don't want to get pregnant then yeah kinda.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:30 PM
1

Women's birth control be often affects her sex drive, too. Do you think that is more acceptable for some reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:29 PM
1

So happy to see this. I can't be on birth control due to severe side effects (vomiting every 15 minutes for hours at a time while on it). My boyfriend wishes there was more he could do since we both are nervous trusting condoms only (I can't take the morning after pill either should something happen). Even though there are potential side effects for both, you double the chances that the side effects will be manageable for one party with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 04:27 PM
2

No, we've only ever been with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:14 PM
1

Probably about 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:12 PM
2

If the pill changes what you're attracted to in certain women, it's negligible. The part that might really affect relationships is depression and loss of sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:09 PM
1

I still maintain that aiming to become "alpha" is in of itself such an unattractive quality that it counteracts any good that endeavor does and then some.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 10:07 PM
4

Some women legitimately have a really difficult time cumming. It's a minority, but a very large minority. When there's pressure on the woman to cum because the dude wants her to, it can make the whole experience unenjoyable. Just listen to her. If she has difficulty cumming but wants to always try, do your best. If she'd rather not and enjoys it more without the pressure to cum, that's cool too. It still feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:33 AM
2

I never said that RP considered AWALT outliers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:19 AM
17

Women aren't affectionate towards you most likely because they don't trust you, they're worried that any affection they show you will be interpreted as hitting on you, and your reaction when that is not the case. Be honest with yourself. If a woman showed you affection, would you take it as a move on you, and how would you react if she said no? If you would, and you'd be upset- there's your answer. If not, it might have everything to do with experiences they've had with other men, but my bets ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:16 AM
2

Whose they?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:01 AM
2

Look, I don't know what kind of "extensive research" you conducted, but hardly anybody says that women, let alone anyone isn't capable of these things. Breaking up and being like men? Seriously? When someone says that other women do these things, but they they can't, they are not saying that all other women do said thing, or even most women, nor that they are incapable of these things. Everyone is capable of all the things you mentioned. We are saying that some women do these things, usually a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 01:23 AM
1

Both are turn off, only the latter is potentially dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 09:24 PM
0

Why do I have a feeling that "what women are really like" is completely convoluted and false?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:21 PM
1

Except "don't be spineless" usually winds up being translated to "be a selfish asshole that has no regard for their impact on others" to RPers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 08:18 PM
1

Fine. I respect that a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 07:51 AM
7

Ever consider that we're not "making him wait" so much as that we ourselves don't want to have sex yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 07:49 AM
14

Women have no secret sexual strategy we're trying to protect. RP uses it an excuse for everything. If ever there's something they can't agree with and can't find evidence against, it's all "well you can't be trusted because you're a woman trying to protect your sexual strategy." That and I can't even tell you the number of times a RP dude shot me a link to some random Hillary Clinton speech or Jezebel article and hit me with a "Ha! See, this article/ Clinton quote proves that all of feminism is …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 06:48 PM
24

The bottom 50% are not sexless. You heard wrong. None of those negative things (rape, gambling, substance abuse, etc ) are due to lack of sex. None of those positive things (building civilizations, etc) are due to lack of sex. You're doing some real mental gymnastics here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:39 PM
3

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 03:26 PM
1

I mean, don't do anything you don't want to do, but "my mouth is tired" is a dumbass excuse and I'd be pissed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 01:20 AM
1

I mean. It's flattering when done tastefully, I guess. But any advances, hot or not, are gonna get a firm no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 01:02 AM
5

Men. It's been studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:35 PM
1

No, men don't always want to fuck any hot girl they see. Do they find hot girls attractive? Absolutely. We all do. But, that doesn't mean he wants to be with or sleep with her. You really need to work on curbing your jealousy. I've had jealousy destroy a wonderful relationship where he only had eyes for me. Thankfully, he took me back and I learned my lesson, but most people aren't that forgiving. Also it's really obvious that you're a dude pretending to be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 04:33 PM
2

Average age of getting married is about 27.2 for women. The average length of engagement is 15 months, which puts the average woman at around 25-26 years old when she gets engaged. Then, the average couple dates for about 3 years before before getting engaged, putting the average woman at 22-23 when she starts dating her future husband. Which, is the same time most women get their first real job in their careers, put down roots, and start making a life for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 06:20 AM
1

Definitely democratic socialist and sex positive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:07 PM
1

From what I've seen the mods are rad fem and they tend to off people who aren't. And by rad fem I mean wanting to deconstruct the concept of gender as a whole due to how it may influence women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:04 PM
1

Interesting. I got banned more or less for being a liberal feminist and not advocating for radical Feminism. They're an inconsistent bunch other there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 07:10 PM
1

What else did you say? Ask feminists bans people easy but not for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 07:07 PM
1

Most of these aren't connected and you're doing some real mental gymnastics to make them about the same thing, let alone about a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 07:06 PM
2

No means no. Simple as that. If she doesn't really mean no then she missed out on a good dick appointment and needs to learn to stop playing games. Play stupid games win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 07:03 PM
1

Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 07:01 PM
3

Radical bleeding heart liberal feminist through and through. No cognitive dissonance here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 06:43 PM
1

Some women, sure. But the vast majority? Nobody not caught in a Reddit RP echo chamber gets married for the financial security and not a combination of love and tradition. For most, they love each other, and culture/tradition says that when you love each other like that, you get married. So they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 02:42 AM
1

That's completely false. Marriages are based on tradition more than anything, not making one partner provide. What about marriages where the woman makes substantially more, or where finances are kept separate and each partner pays for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 02:06 AM
1

I can't. That's why I wouldn't marry someone who doesn't love and respect me enough to not cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 11:25 PM
1

25 and one. Met my partner when we were twelve.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:52 PM
3

Red pill is standard common sense dating advice, mixed in with misogyny and a cult mindset. The only thing that makes it stand out is the misogyny and cult mindset. The same cult mindset and hatred towards other groups, often women, is found in incel communities and white nationalist groups. As such, members of one are very likely to be members of another.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:49 PM
1

Quality time and gift giving. Unfortunately, I'm broke and can't do the whole gift thing as often as I'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:45 PM
9

Friendships aren't relationships, sex toys aren't sex, and marriages aren't based off of money and lack of trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:44 PM
1

Emotional dissatisfaction. My relationship is built on emotions and not sex. Sex lives can be spiced up. You can't force emotions that aren't there, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 06:49 AM
7

Women are becoming increasingly annoying. I'm not saying all, but the majority. Completely subjective statement that you have no evidence for. Women have been becoming more equal, and therefore more self sufficient. Tbh it just sounds like you're threatened by women being your equal. This is due to feminism fucking up gender relations, causing even non feminist identifying women to become infected with this vague sense that men are selfish, lazy boors who are taking advantage of them - and that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 04:53 AM
1

Idk. Maybe 5'2.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 07:20 PM
7

Red. If you disagree with red, it's because your a woman, and women lie and are inherently deceptive to protect their sexual strategy, so you shouldn't be listened to. They write a loophole in to excuse themselves from ever even having to consider the other side, and tend to be much more violent in their rebuttals. Blue might act snarky or indignant sometimes, but all in all, if you're not a troll, will have a conversation and give actual explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 07:19 PM
1

They're for the promotion of women and against injustice towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:14 AM
1

IG has a lot of them. Though certainly not all, a lot of them call women goddesses and queens. A big point is celebrating things like menstruation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:38 AM
4

I would genuinely be interested in hearing more on why you think this before making my mind up on whether I agree or disagree, should you have the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:16 PM
1

Yes, men not being taken seriously when they come forward, not feeling safe in their ability to defend themselves, and mocked when they come forward, are all very real and serious issues. That doesn't change the fact that men are overwhelmingly the ones perpetuating mass shootings, other gun violence, rape, sexual assault, and murders. Even accounting for the estimated number of men that don't come forward for crimes that aren't as easily countable, like murder and mass shootings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:09 PM
4

Feminism does not function as a rejection of femininity. Only radical feminism seeks to break down gender altogether. Every other school: liberal (aka mainstream), cultural (PROMOTES femininity), etc. doesn't oppose femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:02 PM
1

So what would you define it as, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:59 PM
1

This just in: women have different feelings and desires in different situations. I fail to see how this means that women can't recognize what they want, or how this differs from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:50 PM
1

I'd probably fill boredom with things to do with the other women. Not an angry drunk. Idk what bestial vanity you're thinking of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:42 PM
0

I never claimed to be making observations off of 300 million. You did. And yes, I am totally aware that I am generalizing women in saying that women are not inherently deceptive people who shouldn't be listened to. Not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:03 PM
1

Really? You've personally interacted with over 300+ million women, have seen what they do, and spoken to them about their preferences and sex lives? How many individual women have you actually sat down and genuinely had a heart to heart on their sex lives and what they're attracted to? How many individual women have you seen actually reject a man after he's emotional and what exactly did he say to get that response?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:50 PM
1

That's a terrible analogy. A fish isn't going to want to be caught because then the fish gets eaten and dies. Women looking for relationships want to be in good relationships just as much as you. The relationship should be beneficial for both partners. Not one person thriving and one dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:49 PM
-1

When 45+ women say roughly the same thing, particularly something so ~radical~ as wanting partner that treats them well and can be open with them, I'm inclijed to believe the women over the disagreement of one man. What's sexist is your assumption that women are all just lying and shouldn't be listened to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 04:26 PM
-1

I beg to differ. In general, women talk to each other about their preferences and dating much more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 04:09 PM
1

I mean, this was just an extreme example to illustrate the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 04:07 PM
1

You do not know what I and every other woman like and think better than we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 04:05 PM
1

No, it means that a competent person should be able to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 07:26 AM
1

The alternative, by common logic, would be precisely the opposite of everything you said. I, nor any woman I've met, would use sympathizing with us as a disqualification for sleeping with you or dating you. If anything, it makes those things infinitely more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:35 AM
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I don't think that men are a monolith and need to control each other is what the ad was going for. Just don't be a dick and call out shitty bullying behavior when you are in the position to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:30 AM
7

I disagree with a good number of your points on here but the idea that men and boys are conditioned to put their own livelihoods on the line for any woman's is certainly a problematic possibly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:27 AM
1

I don't believe that women lack problematic behavior altogether. But, I do think that women display a LOT less than men. Men are overwhelming much more likely to rape, sexually assault, physically abuse their partners, murder, become mass shooters. Women have issues, too, but they really pale in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:24 AM
1

Not at all. Expressing emotion would be "when men do this, it makes me feel unsafe, and this is how I feel about it, and this is why I want that to change" It's venting, more or less. Making someone responsible for your emotions is "When men do this, it makes me feel unsafe, and as a man, even if you're not one of the ones doing said thing, I'm placing blame on you, want you to apologize, and want you in particular to fix it."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:20 AM
1

I take everyone's emotions seriously. I just take the hyperbolic misogyny behind the majority of those emotions more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:15 AM
-5

Wow... I just... have legitimately never heard anything more incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:10 AM
2

Why would I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 08:41 AM
4

You would be wrong. Nobody thinks relationships are easy. We think that they're difficult because it's hard to find compatible people, not because of some asinine fictional power imbalance between men and women where women control men, and "beta males" and "alphas."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:32 AM
4

You said that, because of RP philosophy, you suppose women's responses shouldn't be taken at face value. Same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:30 AM
5

My boyfriend is cream of the crop, great in bed, and I have sex with him because I want to have sex with him and not for validation. Still doesn't make me able to cum from PIV. I think your theory needs a little re working.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:28 AM
5

If you don't believe us then why bother even asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:25 AM
8

Drinking wine and playing with cats and hanging out with other women sounds amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:22 AM
1

No. At that age acne is a common thing. I haven't seen it bother most people unless they're obviously not well kept and that's the cause of the acne. Nobody cares about your acne more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:21 PM
-2

Most successful relationships develop from friendships. I'm not saying that you should befriend someone with the sole intention of getting with them. But, you need to have a foundation of friendship with your partner, because the romance won't always be there. If you can't treat your potential partner with friendship from interaction one, the relationship isn't going to work. That doesn't mean you shouldn't also seek something more from the start, but aggressively seeking a relationship without …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:30 AM
5

Being a nice guy will attract others. Being a Nice Guy ™ will repel them. Just look at r/niceguys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:28 AM
3

Precisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:19 AM
0

It's precisely a clueless dude listening TOO much to what women say they want. Lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:14 AM
1

We make better lab technicians than men due to the more precise fine motor skills. Half the time my colleagues can't get a readable sample because they just don't have the coordination to be able to pipette well. (Okay maybe not half, but worryingly often.) Most of our best data came from the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:49 AM
2

... you want to fuck Mary Poppins.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:44 AM
6

It's not that they naturally look sick or tired. For example, eyeliner makes your eyes look large and alert. No eyeliner makes them look smaller and less striking, so if you're used to someone with eyeliner, then they look tired by comparison when they don't wear it, even if you would never think they look tired if you were to meet them for the first time without makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:43 AM
1

Yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:40 AM
3

You say that, but drinking under 21 isn't bad. In fact, a high drinking age and stigmatization of alcohol made for more dangerous drinking habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:37 AM
2

"old enough to consent" is 16-18 in most states.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:35 AM
-1

boy has a superiority complex and expects to be fawned over girl is turned off by his arrogance and entitlement boy blames girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:29 AM
4

Because, in general, it doesn't take skill to attract women. Just talking to women like people and seeing if the two of you click naturally is your best bet. When you can't talk to a woman like a normal person, it's a big red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:28 AM
0

Hypergamy isn't part of "female nature."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:24 AM
4

"Good" women aren't rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 10:41 AM
2

Typically no, it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:53 AM
3

It doesn't. In theory and in practice. If you are made uncomfortable by other's success, that is nobody's fault but your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 12:39 AM
1

How about we recognize relationships as the emotional thing that they are rather than a trade and recognize that cheating is equally as bad, no matter who is doing it, not because of the genetic aspect, but because of the betrayal of trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:50 PM
2

It's debate about gender the interactions between men and women, not necessarily heterosexual relationships. LGBT people have interactions with the other sex and were raised with gender norms, too. And I think that nonbinary people would offer this sub a lot of needed perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:46 PM
1

No. I can't critique your reasoning because you have no reasoning. Just an embellished idea you got from Reddit with no backing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:41 PM
9

I have no idea where all these RPers got the idea that female empowerment = women flouncing around trying to exercise superiority over men. It's women being comfortable with being in control of their own lives. The horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 06:38 PM
1

In what world is that irrefutable proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 03:11 PM
2

It doesn't signal being desperate or abundance. It's just nice. Pay for your date to show you care. Other times, she'll pay for you to show she cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 03:08 PM
3

I think talking to her parents is nice. Not for permission. But just to show that you have an interest in keeping them involved in your lives as you two move forward as a married couple. The last name bit bothers me. It's the same name as my wonderful and now deceased father, I've accomplished professional work under my current name, it has a lot of cultural significance, and I'm the last one in the family with said name, so if I change it, that last name dies with me. But, taking his last name …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 03:04 PM
1

Younger people are more likely to be liberal, and more young people are off right now than older. Liberals are almost always "blue pill."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 04:08 PM
1

Try me. 💙
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:11 PM
1

Incels are way better behaved than horny women nobody. Nobody. The word you are looking for is nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:59 PM
1

It couldn't possibly be because people are off work and have more free time between festivities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:52 PM
2

Men want a tight body to fuck The vast majority of men, believe it or not, actually want to have sex with a person. Not merely a fleshy sex doll. Emotional connection, even just a little bit and even for a hookup, is important. Don't reduce anyone to merely a "body" or anyone else to the kind of psychopath who only views their sexual partners as bodies. women want to have the best man to them self Women aren't having sex as some sort of game to win the best man for themselves in some catty compe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:41 PM
2

By getting help and realizing that almost the entirety of RP is blatantly incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:58 PM
1

I think it's less about sex and more about RP being angry that women are "just looking for an alpha/ a Chad and are so superficial and manipulative by nature" even though none of that is true. They're angry at women for being a stereotype that isn't actually true at all for the vast majority of women, but they think it is because they're that far down their rabbit hole. A hot woman could be actively interested in a RP person and having sex with them, and chances are said RP member would either: …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:53 PM
1

You're reading far into a joke about how she has to clean up after him around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:38 PM
2

I'm not sure why they feel the need to come up with other things to disqualify you. I don't go on that sub and I hate to be harsh, but in the interest of honesty, merely being a MGTOW user would be sufficient to make me believe that your views are too warped to hold validity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 01:32 PM
6

Yeeeeeeeeah no. First, he wouldn't take me up on that. Then, he would be incredibly insulted that I'd even suggest it and it would cause a huge rift between us. Y'know. Because he's (gasp!) actually happy being monogamous with me. He even shut down the idea of ever having a threesome early on. Not that I mind at all. I'm not interested in that remotely, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 03:46 PM
1

And you think women celebrate them for this? Women are fucking pissed and think they're douchebags.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:49 PM
1

Lol what? The money example was an extension of the metaphor from the parent comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:48 PM
1

I've never once known a woman who wasn't turned off by a man's refusal to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:38 PM
2

More like 70% chance of becoming rich and 30% chance of catastrophic failure. I'd take those odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:37 PM
1

Haha. Women do NOT celebrate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:27 PM
1

Okay then, but shame the men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:22 PM
2

Followed on a regular basis? Not for most women. But, the fact that most women will be followed home by men at least once or twice in their lifetime is still very concerning. As far as catcalling, it depends where you are. I live in the suburbs of a medium to small sized city. I get catcalled about 3 times a year. However, on a visit to NYC, I got catcalled about 5x a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 09:12 PM
1

Yes. But I still care mostly about their approval, even if it's based on what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 03:18 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 02:41 AM
1

I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting male attention. But, I'm always going to want to impress my female friends over male strangers. I'm dressing up much more for them. They don't have to be physically attracted to me, just note that I'm am attractive. There is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 02:40 AM
1

I mean, I do like male attention, but it's more to do with impressing myself and my friends than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/18 01:56 AM
1

It's the dress code. A lot of clubs literally don't let women unless they dress up like that. And yes, feeling desirable makes me feel confident, but I don't need to be hit on to know I'm desirable. I know that on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 10:50 PM
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Or more commonly, they tried it with someone before you, didn't like it, and therefore will not do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 02:39 PM
1

I can assure you there are 100s of guys fighting over her. ... No. You... REALLY overestimate the number of guys the average (or any) woman has interested in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 04:51 PM
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Sex on birth control IS protected sex. Also, men can already give up their parental rights and not owe child support. Not only that, but any child support he may already owe will be forgiven.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 05:43 PM
1

Send identical resumes to jobs, with just the names different, then have actors go to interview. It's not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 01:17 AM
1

In the studies conducted, EVERYTHING was identical, EXCEPT gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 11:24 PM
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You missed the main point, which was that men with kids are paid MORE than identical men without kids, despite also taking more time off than men without kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 11:05 PM
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But we're talking about eye color, not heritable diseases. Eye color is of no consequence. And, I highly doubt you're having sex with someone mainly because you're concerned with what genetics they might pass on to your child. That, too, would be shallow and just using a guy for his sperm. On the other hand, I don't think choosing a partner based on how they choose to present themselves is shallow at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 08:06 PM
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I mean... I guess that's good since almost anyone would consider that shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:18 PM
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Nope. You're the manipulator. She's fine. You're an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:10 PM
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Why is having to lean down to kiss when you're in heels a deal breaker? What exactly are you two doing that he needs to be super strong for? Also, no, being shorter does not automatically make him weaker. Most men will be stronger than you even if they're shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:03 PM
1

Eye color is so arbitrary that if you only settle for someone with those features, it's fetishising them, not merely being attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:00 PM
1

There are absolutely many men who won't date women taller than them. At least as many as there are women who won't date short men. You just see it less often because it occurs more rarely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:58 PM
1

Dick size and boob size.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:54 PM
1

I mean... yeah, it kind of is. It's arbitrary and shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:52 PM
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I think the height requirements with men is pretty dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 04:19 PM
2

The 77 C per dollar takes into account all fields. Even when controlling for field and education, there's an overall roughly 6% difference in pay that can be attributed to nothing but gender. This increases drastically for black women. Right out of college, there's almost no gap between men and women in the same field and with the same education. There are even some cities where childless unmarried men make less than women. However, this is rare and the exception rather than the rule. After havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 04:09 PM
1

Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 03:02 PM
2

Because they're not misconceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 02:37 PM
1

Like... None of those things are exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:40 AM
1

TRP and MGTOW have different courses of action, but the same underlying misogyny that spurs their course of action.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:35 AM
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That women can get into relationships whenever they want if they're attractive. Can most women go on tinder and find someone willing to have sex with them? Yeah. But finding genuine compatibility is difficult no matter who it is. That women are inherently more manipulative than men and can't be trusted because we'll just like to protect our sexual strategy. We're no more manipulative than men and there is no secret strategy we're protecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:31 AM
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Actually, most women are not capable of multiple orgasms with no refractory period. Additionally, often times I refuse oral not because I don't want it, bit because it takes me a long time to cum and so many men get agitated when it takes so long. Which isn't the fault of a man who offers and wouldn't mind, but some food for thought nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 04:01 PM
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Honestly, it's often not the man's fault. The clitoris isn't really in a great place. Ten percent of women are completely inorgasmic and many more have difficulty orgasming. That being said, most women can orgasm if the clitoris is stimulated, so if the guy doesn't care to rub the clit or give oral, then yeah. That is his fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 03:55 PM
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I think it's less animal vs human and more an issue of RP having a victim and superiority complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 04:20 AM
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Girls are taught that looks matter long before boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 10:21 PM
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Not really. I'm a 30E and it looks like I'm trying to show off my tits in everything. Honestly, high neck lines make them pop out even more than showing cleavage, and baggy shirts hang off of them in a way that accentuates them, too. No matter what I wear, people think I'm trying to be provocative.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 03:50 PM
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Men have nothing to gain but sex and children from women. Women have everything to gain from men. No, I'm fairly certain it's still just sex and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 03:36 PM
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No. I seek friends. If they can't be friends without pining after getting into my pants first, they get the boot. It's annoying and degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 03:26 PM
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Is your conclusion wrong, or the notion that you were the main one listened to despite not being the one asked wrong? Either way- yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 07:24 PM
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Women aren't. You just saw one tweet and mostly the minority in agreement retweeted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:48 PM
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Question for women and an RP man has the top answer. Basically this sub in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 06:47 PM
1

Haha. We met in middle school.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 01:18 PM
1

This is only really applicable in LTRs, though, in which the rules you are proposing greatly differ. In hookups, responsive sexual desire is not an issue because women with responsive sexual desire rarely seek or engage in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 12:17 PM
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I was using myself as an example, but my experience is generally true across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 03:02 AM
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I'm not saying that at all. You're saying that me choosing to have sex with a man is a reward for how he makes me feel. I'm saying that how he makes me feel is not sufficient to convince me to sleep with anyone. If I am not already attracted to you, no amount of effort will ever change that. If I am, you don't have to do anything special beyond not be a dick (unless we're talking about LTRs in which deeper compatibility comes into play). Thus, the assumption that sex is a reward for the effort a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 02:56 AM
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There have been studies on this. The porn women consume have little correlation to their actual sexual preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 02:45 AM
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No. I've had a LOT of guys hit on me and put in effort to make me feel sexy and try to turn me on. And I do feel sexy and am impressed by this sometimes. Nonetheless, I do not want to have sex with these men, regardless of how they make me feel. I have to want to have sex with a man first. THEN I'm more likely to go through with it if he shows me I can trust him and makes me feel wanted. If I do not, of my own regard, want to have sex with him first, nothing he does and no amount of effort he pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 02:42 AM
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Why'd you post this dumb shit twice?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 02:32 AM
1

Some top tier brilliance in this mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 02:31 AM
1

Can you read? I already addressed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 02:31 AM
2

Seriously. It's ridiculous how much they tout both how easy it is for women to get sex and how hard it is for men to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 12:46 AM
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Why? It's probably much closer to 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 09:11 PM
1

Yes, and he does the same with me. What you're describing isn't wrong, it's just not exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 07:45 PM
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I would, but I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend, and don't want a drink thrown in my face. If you'd accept, then you'd be correct in me placing you in the "not sane" category.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 07:42 PM
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That is not female sexuality. Women don't sleep with men because they make them feel sexy and wanted. They have sex with men because they want to have sex with men. Feeling sexy and wanted is simply necessary to go through with that. For both men and women. Feeling sexy and wanted is as simple as the person you like expressing interest back. I'm pretty sure that nobody would have sex with someone if they told that they don't find them attractive at all and that they're ugly but they just want an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 07:40 PM
1

So if I, an attractive woman, were to go up to a guy and tell him that I don't find him attractive in the slightest and that he's an ugly POS, but that he looks low effort and I want dick, or that I was dared to go have sex with him, that a sane, self respecting man would go through with it? I'm not saying that I have to pull grand gestures in order to have sex. Most of the time someone you like being attracted to you is sufficient to make someone feel sexy and wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 07:36 PM
1

Because in that scenario, a girl wanting to sleep with him who he finds attractive is sufficient in making him feel wanted and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 07:30 PM
1

That's not exclusive to women. That's human sexuality. No sane man is going to sleep with me unless I make him feel like he is wanted by me and put in n the effort to make him feel so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 07:19 PM
1

Probably 80% of the virgins are men Lol what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 07:13 PM
1

No, it's not a reward. If you put her in a mood where she wants to have sex, she's having sex because she wants to have sex, not to reward you. If you feel like it's a reward, that's you reading into things. Not her sexual strategy. I have to turn my boyfriend on before he'll want to have sex sometimes, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 07:09 PM
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Denies the facts put right in your face By your own admission, the facts are not "in your face" and you read into it beyond what the author was saying in order to reach your conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 12:59 AM
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Yes. I have a PhD. Did you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 12:09 AM
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Or had it brought up in any other courses Can you read?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 11:45 PM
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You don't have to, but evidently you do care. It's not dog whistling it's just your dumbass confirmation bias seeing what you want to see. I'm open to hearing about what toxic femininity might be, but that's not the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 11:45 PM
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Firstly, I don't give a damn what some random author has to say. Secondly, she didn't say women were better than men and specifically said that men are NOT worse than women and talked about how awful the social pressures we put on young boys are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 11:20 PM
1

Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 11:18 PM
1

I think that passive and assertive aren't really synonymous with willing to stick up for yourself and unwilling to stick up for yourself. You can be willing to stick up for yourself but be relaxed and nonchalant enough that you don't see as many situations that you feel the need to speak up about. And, in my own personal experience, men and women are equally likely to be nonconfrontational, but men are more likely to also not see as much wrong with situations that needs speaking up about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 11:16 PM
1

You're deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 11:10 PM
1

The vast majority of college students do not take a class that covers feminism in any part of its curriculum. My school had one of the largest women's studies programs in the US and even still only one person I met took a course in it or had it brought up in any other courses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 11:08 PM
1

Lol no. What kind of extremist shit are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 11:06 PM
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Ever consider that most women have experienced prejudice and want to combat it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 11:04 PM
2

5'7, 130 lbs Gray eyes Naturally dark blonde/light brown hair, temporarily dyed purple. Fairly long. Hourglass figure 30 DD breasts Not a flat ass, but definitely no bubble butt Very nice cheekbones and such but a slightly receded chin. Very fair skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 02:30 AM
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Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 10:08 AM
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So many men refuse - REFUSE to wear a condom, and act like would asking them to wear a condom is like them asking us to go on birth control. It's not. At all. Birth control has SO many side effects. Depression, acne, nausea and vomiting, anemia, weight gain, no libido. You know what side effects condoms have? It feels a little less intense. That's it. And yeah, I know there are some men who can't cum with a condom or can't get hard with them, and if that's the case, then we can talk. But that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 09:49 PM
1

That looks are a huge factor in choosing a partner. That's it. Nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 10:23 PM
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Only uses quotes from radical feminism and not mainstream feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 10:22 PM
1

Really solidified my belief in feminism and why it is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 10:20 PM
1

Women who believe that there are men's issues that need attention but want to be edgy and "not like the other girls ™" so they brand themselves as red pill instead of going about it like any normal well adjusted person.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:39 PM
2

Dishes are the bane of my existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:39 AM
2

Dishes are the bane of my existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:39 AM
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Race: Ngl, I do have a slight preference for white, but it's not that big a deal to me at all. Height: Seriously, seriously doesn't matter much to me. I'm 5'7, and would prefer my height or taller, but height isn't really something I look for. Face: Idk, a good jawline and eye area is something I look for. I don't care about noses at all. Build and body type: Overweight is a turn off. I like a bit buff, but not body builder muscular. I also like kinda skinny and lanky. Balding requirements: Bald…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:26 AM
2

Why is Jewish included as an insult? Why is it always Jews?!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:07 AM
1

Lol- as if most women are looking to fuck as many dicks as they can. Boy, the vast majority of women are looking for long term monogamous relationships and don't or rarely have sex outside of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 05:37 PM
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I've struggled with body dysmorphia before. I didn't assume the problem was other people or advocate for the rape, slavery, or abuse of them, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 06:34 PM
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Okay, but I'm not. The stereotype that women are cuddly and like romantic stuff isn't unfounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 04:37 PM
1

This is the most you're getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:36 PM
2

Lol, I love how y'all just scream WRONG, PERIOD like it somehow makes it more true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:18 PM
2

I mean, I think all people are entitled to basic respect unless they've personally done something to show that they don't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:17 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:16 PM
1

32 DD, my dude. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:14 PM
1

Women don't have fantasies of actually being raped. Consesual non-consent is totally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:11 PM
1

Most women get turned off by romanticism and cuddling. Fucking ROFL. My partner LOVES that stuff and it's the best, and all my friends are jealous af.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:08 PM
1

Because gasp finding compatible people and not just someone looking his dick wet takes time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:05 PM
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Lol, you think you can take away my humanity by raping me? That's fucking hilarious. I'm more than capable of defending myself, even of it's harder due to my smaller size, and have done it before. Key to the eye and stiletto to the ballsack remains one of the most satisfying acts of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 02:02 PM
1

I hit my head two weeks ago and it left a bruise for two days. Does that count? Am I allowed to stay?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:58 PM
1

This isn't even apples and oranges. It's like apples and Egyptian pyramids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:55 PM
2

I don't have a recipe, but potato leek soup, and potato/sausage/kale soups are to die for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:52 PM
2

I mean, this would be assuming that most men use us just for kids, sex, cooking, and cleaning, and that women don't have any self worth of their own. My partner loves me and stuck by me when I couldn't cook for shit, when I'm messier than he is, when he didn't know if I wanted kids or not, and when vaginismus prevented me from having sex with him. Plus, like, women could just as easily make men "obsolete." It's already easier to make an embryo with two women than two men, and women statistically…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 01:29 PM
1

1/3 of women are raped or sexually assaulted! And they're lumped together like that not to be misleading, but because the line between rape and sexual assault can be very blurry, so it's more accurate to count everything. "Lesbian Feminism," though I hate the name and think it's very misleading, the kind that thinks that heterosexuality is a male conspiracy, is a fringe group that over 99% of feminists disagree with, and that most absolutely detest. Man spreading is annoying af. That's it. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 06:03 AM
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Millions? You've talked about this topic with at least two million individual men who have had this experience? Nice try. I say maybe five max.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:50 AM
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just one applies one experience to 3.5 billion people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:45 AM
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Notice how they never ask women what we do or think. They never listen to women when we correct them about us. They've already made up their minds on women, and since they've decided that all women are manipulative liars, that excuses them from ever having to listen to any woman going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:42 AM
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