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Last time I approached a man I got a restraining order. It wasn’t for the best for me. :\
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 04:27 PM
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I’m really very curious to know what you find attractive in a man. Could you list what you look for? What are your absolute yes’s and no’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:38 AM
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I will say I largely agree with this post. I think the attraction for most women is a man putting in the time and effort to get to know you and to court you. I dunno of many women who are instantly attracted to a man without getting to really know them either by small talk or “chemistry”. I wouldn’t be married if my husband didn’t approach me, but I also don’t believe women should have to even approach men and I don’t believe it should be an expectation of any man that women approach him. I mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:56 PM
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I hyphenate sentences all the time; I AM CHATGPT!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:58 PM
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I don’t really ask my husband to take out the trash, and I usually just take it out at night when I take the dog for his final pee for the evening. For some reason our dog is on a “I have to poop while you’re making dinner” schedule (help me pls), so I will ask him to take the dog out to go poo while I’m cooking. Which he does pretty promptly especially because the dog will cry and pace! Edit: if it’s a large bag of trash or box of something that needs to go out, he will take it out himself as s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 02:18 PM
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No way! Do you know how much harder it is to compromise with someone you’re getting comfortable without communicating with? No way, no way. It’s important to think about what your expectations. Are there unreasonable and unrealistic expectations? Yes absolutely, but I don’t think most people have the extreme ideals that we see from certain women online.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:54 PM
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I believe most all of this could be avoided if you have an upfront conversation in the dating stage about what you expect from each other as far as the home goes. If you communicate your expectations, there are no surprises. Either those expectations are accepted, negotiated, or denied altogether. I’m not really sure why people complain so much when their unsaid expectations are not met if they’ve not even had a conversation like this prior. Makes no sense to me. I’ve heard so many women complai…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:08 PM
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I dunno, I only feel a tinge of jealousy when my husband coos at the dog and tells him he’s such a sweet and good boy and how much he loves him. Quit loving on that animal and love on me instead! I can’t hardly blame him because our dog is a very sweet and good boy. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:28 PM
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Why aren’t you married after dating for 6 years? You two don’t want marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:52 PM
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My point is, you spend so much time narrowing down what you think you want or are fascinated by that you don’t even have any sort of conversation or connection with these people. It’s like going to a museum and being underwhelmed by the exhibits- even if you spend all day there!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:04 PM
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I think the real problem is how people are using them. There are business apps that let you search so specifically that it makes almost no sense! You can filter by IQ. These people have all the same degrees, qualifications, same availability, and cost the same- some just have a 143+ IQ. Isn’t that crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:02 PM
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My husband was embarrassed and wanted to fabricate something because he didn’t want to have to explain to people about meeting online, but I told him we’re just going to own it for what it was and accept it. No need to lie in the age of technology. Nobody will even think a thing of it after you tell them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:53 PM
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If not dating apps, then online! I met my husband online. It was a lot of back and forth for a year because he lived almost a thousand miles away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 01:51 PM
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I come from a family and community who mostly all have blue or green eyes, I’ve never liked someone’s eyes until my husband. He has beautiful, deep-chocolate colored eyes (Balkan)!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 02:43 PM
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Agreed. It would make much more sense to ask the question would you still love me in the event of a freak accident? Examples: Fire that burns off half of your partners face, a limb amputation that requires surgery, physical therapy, and life-long caretaking due to disability. That makes perfect sense. But to ask someone if they’d love you if you were a worm…? What the heck. That’s like asking someone if they’d love you if you were on another planet. Sure, I’ll love you from afar and move on or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 03:47 PM
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How am I going to keep someone from living their life? :P
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:44 AM
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A woman or man being a slut is a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:37 AM
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For sure. I’ve told many men they’re nothing more than easy sluts. The thing is, they laugh whereas women cry about it because it’s “mean” to point out poor behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:50 PM
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What does af/bb mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:35 AM
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I’m late to the party, but I agree 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:55 PM
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Lemon doesn’t actually debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:27 PM
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That type of “brutal honesty” is just being purposefully mean and is extremely distasteful behavior. That would be like a guy saying, “you have the flattest ass of any woman I’ve ever been with but it’s okay because I can go deeper during doggy because of your lack of mass, but I just don’t get as hard because you’re not really my type. You have such a great personality though!”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:27 PM
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It’s because our views about misogyny differ. I don’t view it as just positive or negative although it could be largely either one. I don’t believe all misogyny is rooted in hatred but misogyny rooted in hatred will be nothing but hatred. I will just add I believe the same of misandry or prejudice/sexism that women display to men as well. I truly don’t believe everything is rooted in hatred- despite the definition of those words. There is a lot to take into consideration. So a woman that actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:16 AM
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I think it’s obvious that people in general find different qualities attractive, however, I very clearly stated initial attraction when seeing a person is looks. You have nothing else to go by aside from physical attraction- this was my initial point. Women do seek men who are attractive, have money, and status- it’s just a matter of can they actually acquire a man like that. All women want to be hypergamous but most will never have the opportunity to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:31 PM
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You said “well I agree you have a hard time understanding” without explaining what you meant because your only goal was to be flippant. What else am I to say in response? Also, a relationship is more than just getting “dicked down at home” but maybe you don’t understand that just like you may not understand data or that people have differing opinions from you- which you don’t respond to well. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 10:03 PM
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Hard time understanding what? I understand things well enough to have a very successful relationship. Can you say the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:35 PM
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Premise 3 has been studied and proven generally accurate, so give that data- it’s a very reasonable conclusion to draw based on existing evidence. Why deny something so basic? It makes no sense. “According to psychology, the five elements of interpersonal attraction are proximity, similarity, physical attractiveness, reciprocity, and responsiveness.” Also, OP never called women idiots; OP says “[they] have a hard time understanding.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:14 PM
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What is the first thing you notice about a man visually? What peaks your initial interest if not how attractive a man is? Initial attraction when first seeing a person IS looks. Lasting attraction is personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:46 PM
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I apologize for such a late response! I have a lot of thoughts on this subject so I'm going to try and be as thorough as I can because human interaction/belief is so incredibly diverse and complex. I want to preface this conversation with: you cannot choose where you come from or the time period you come from. You don't choose the traditions and customs that are passed on to you and to a an extent, once you are shaped by your environment, there is only so much reason you're willing to listen to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:59 PM
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Can you specify the average mans misogynistic beliefs so I have a better understanding of what you fully mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:02 AM
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Can you elaborate, please?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:53 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:27 PM
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I think we’re having two different conversations based on your responses. You cannot really debate if you don’t answer questions. I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say your “friend” doesn’t in fact hate men. I’m going to say that she hates men that don’t allow her feminist hate speech.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:08 PM
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I agree that not all men are bad, but you’ve “befriended” (somehow) someone who hates men and given the title of this post, openly talks about and complains about men. Why would you even subject yourself to that? Are you akin to one of those women that believes she can change a man with sheer willpower?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:55 PM
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That’s understandable, but it would be reasonable to think hateful conversation will eventually get to you, don’t you think? Can I ask why you’re friends with her? Do you want a relationship with her? Is she mean to you/has she ever been mean to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:44 PM
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You do not care about things you hate. Logically you cannot befriend a woman who hates men if you’re a man. Walk away from the feminist and don’t look back. You’re better off for it. It’s absolutely ridiculous to be so self-absorbed and delusional that you hate the entire opposite sex of your own species.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 08:41 PM
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I agree with them. IF you’re a woman who offers nothing but attractiveness (sex appeal) to a “relationship” then you’re not much to work with, are you? Not wanting someone over 25 is a reasonable preference to have. Around this age you’re establishing yourself in life and you’re going to start collecting baggage, become complacent to make yourself feel better about said baggage, and you’re not as malleable as you age because we become “set in our ways”. You have to be reasonable (not me me me me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 04:47 PM
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If you’ve had a life before your partner, you should have money, and if you’re smart you invest it and double it every ≈ 7 years. I have a lot of money in stocks and other accounts that I always offer to my husband (the evil sole provider who abuses me according to women here). If you have nothing, it’s your own fault, not your husband’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:27 PM
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What kind of nonsense is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:27 AM
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I read everything you wrote and I agree because this is something I have seen. When a man sleeps with that many women, he will hate women and be revolted by them; I mean absolutely disgusted. You’ll almost never hear that man call a woman anything but derogatory names and talk about how filthy and vile women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 02:09 PM
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Where some of those women LOVE foreign men especially from the Americas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:14 PM
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That’s so counterintuitive though. If you don’t put yourself in a position to make mistakes, you’ll never see growth. Sometimes I think (rather harshly) that certain people could use some sense beaten into them- I just wish it were that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:03 PM
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You’ll know when you can let your guard down with someone, and I think it should be early on during the vetting process. You won’t get such an overwhelming sense of fear at the idea of it and the more you do it the easier it gets. This to me is very important in a relationship because you’ll never be fully truthful about your feelings if you can’t let your guard down. My husband doesn’t like it AT ALL if I’m upset/bothered about something and I don’t tell him or talk to him about it, so I have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:59 PM
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🥇 <— Click
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:02 PM
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Where I come from, a strict monogamous mindset is very normal and very encouraged. I've known many women who have waited to have sex with their husbands- some of them are now widows and have decided not to remarry in honor of their late husbands which I think is a wonderful thing. I myself am religious and have a very strict monogamous mindset, and I have decided I will only have one life-long partner even if he passes away. I have only dated, kissed, and had sex with my husband, and I would enc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:05 PM
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This guy isn’t gonna change unless he wants to. I 100% agree that people choose to suffer, and I think some people even enjoy the complaining and sympathy they receive. Change takes effort and most people don’t have the spine to even try. See how hostile he became when you tried giving a simple solution? You challenged his beliefs (pity-party) that some people are just meant to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 06:23 PM
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I think you’re arguing for the sake of arguing (very female of you btw) because this has nothing to do with OPs post. Did you even read it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:56 PM
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Yeah, sounds like a self-made loser. I don’t empathize or sympathize with people who don’t put in any sort of effort and then complain about things not going according to their “plan”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:53 PM
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I’m very confused what point you’re trying to make. 40 + 10 =50. If the average person lives until 76 why does 40 + 10=50 mean waiting for death is nothing? That’s 16 years unaccounted for. 40s and 50s is when most men peak in their lives. But this has nothing to do with my comment. Because as we age, our skin wrinkles and sags, our muscle mass decreases and we become overall more frail, hunched over, and decrepit. The smell of our bodies changes- aging has a literal smell that’s an unpleasant a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:48 PM
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You think people only live until they’re 60-70? The average life expectancy for white people specifically is almost 80 years old and there are people that live well into their 90s. Are you gonna be one of those 60 years old men that always say “I’m just waiting to die any day now” when someone asks how your day is and what you’ve been up to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:57 PM
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So a hurkle-durkling? A man with no purpose in life besides being lazy and useless is the most unattractive trait/habit I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:51 PM
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What is a NEET?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:23 PM
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I was being sarcastic because this post is ridiculous and it’s safe to say OP doesn’t live in reality. It matters because you aren’t going to be a hot 50 or 60 year old no matter how well you eat and work out. Your attractiveness will decrease significantly and if your spouse is only attracted to your looks, what else do you have? OP says being attractive is the only way to maintain a relationship. I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:30 PM
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I didn’t realize being hot is what gives you the ability to maintain a relationship with another person. How very interesting. What happens when you hit 50 or 60? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:58 AM
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I enjoy how fuzzy my husband is. Sometimes I just pet his arm when I hold his hand in the car. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:21 AM
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Absolutely! It’s insane the amount of people who are sexually active that Don’t know how pregnancies happen. Don’t know about STDs/STIs. Don’t know how to use condoms or other contraceptives. Don’t even know how to clean up after sex. If you don’t have sexual education, do NOT be having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:05 AM
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Oh, I will just add, you can contract many harmful things just from kissing and letting someone put their mouth on you as well. Pretty gnarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:02 AM
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I do have a moral opinion about sex, but I’ll leave that out for the sake of this debate. Men and women both need to understand that unprotected (sometimes protected) sex for BOTH parties is just a gamble; you never know what STDs or STIs you’re gonna pick up from people or how it can cripple your quality of life if you have to have your penis amputated from a serious HPV infection or the potential cancer risks associated with various STDs/STIs. If you wanna keep your bits, you best get tested a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:00 AM
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You know how many posts I see of 16-22 year old girls freaking out about how their life is over because of STDs/STIs they contracted from unprotected and impulsive sex with strangers that “[they] thought it would be fine”?Some of these poor girls are sterile now from STDs and STIs or have had hysterectomies, and they’ll never have biological children and have the amazing experience of motherhood. It’s so very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:50 AM
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I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say the amount of men actually physically incapable of getting a woman are few and far. I've seen some of the greasiest, unkempt men alive in relationships, but the women they dated were equally as greasy, unkempt, and typically extremely obese. Also, why would you just ask out ANY woman? Should you not get to know someone before asking them out or do most men not care about that? I would like to understand this point of view, but I will say I lean more toward…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:42 PM
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Well, I've never asked a man out before (I asked if one liked me as a child), because it's not a woman's place to approach men. Where I come from, it's highly inappropriate and concerning if a woman approaches a man to date (or other) and tells you a lot of her character- it being poor. It is a man's responsibility to approach and court a woman, not the other way around. I don't believe in any sort of casual hookup/relationship, and I would've never dated my husband if he had no intention of mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:35 PM
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I naturally lean more red, but I acknowledge that red pill is extremely flawed and any red pill content online is just bullshit that people profit off of. I am submissive to my husband because of my religion and upbringing, again, not because of some guys opinion on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:19 PM
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When you approach a stranger, if you don’t make them feel comfortable with you (however long you spend talking), the answer will always be no. The only thing being physically attractive accomplishes is the halo effect. You have an easier in but doesn’t mean you have the ability to maintain anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:12 PM
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I don’t watch any online red pill content because all of it is bullshit. I reject modern day feminism because I believe women should be submissive; I believe this solely because I am Christian and because I was raised this way, not because of some guy’s opinion on the internet. What I don’t believe in is treating another person like nothing and being so diluted that you actually believe that it’s beneficial to you. If you mistreat someone, they will leave you. It may take some time, but they wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:35 PM
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I’ll be honest, I’m not sure how being rejected can affect you so badly if the people you ask out are strangers. I have been rejected before by my brother’s best friend; I’d known him for half a decade at that point, and it didn’t affect me (no depressive slump, my day wasn’t ruined, I didn’t cry). I was only a little disheartened, but you can’t force attraction- plus there was something called “bro code” or whatever. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:02 PM
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How does treating a woman like she’s nothing get you the biggest reward? That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:53 PM
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Is that not just the average good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:01 AM
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What is a beta bucks guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:55 AM
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I’ll be honest, the only naked cake I like is my husband’s. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:57 PM
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Joint custody? I want him on the weekends, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:01 PM
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What the heck kind of cake are you eating without icing? :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:57 PM
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But she’s got two of them which means it would probably be okay if one went missing, right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:54 PM
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I would just skip any information you’re not comfortable sharing, 🐈 Lady. You have very beautiful kitties. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:53 PM
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People like to garnish themselves with labels no matter how ridiculous because it makes them feel unique or superior when at the end of the day, no one cares about all these fabricated labels. A label doesn't grant you any social leeway unless you're a special-needs person or upper middle/upper class person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:55 PM
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Yes, I do it out of love. I would never expect any sort of payment nor compensation from my husband, although, I know he would happily oblige. I have no needs because they’ve all been taken care of; I can only want at this point. He asks me all the time if there is anything I want or need from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:33 AM
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I’ll probably have arthritis when I’m older, lol! I do most of the cooking, almost always our dishes and all the cleaning. Whatever he does in the kitchen is because he has offered. I have no expectations that he cook or help with dishes, sometimes he just does, and I let him know I appreciate his help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:17 AM
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Wait a minute, I think I misread that. My husband doesn’t work for anyone but himself so it’s not a regular 9-5, and it’s not usually labor intensive unless he wants to do something for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:07 AM
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Of course, I even massage his feet and legs every night with oil. He enjoys it quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:02 AM
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I thinking cooking with my husband is one of my favorite things to do, and he’s the sole provider. Whenever he asks me to cook for his whole family, he always offers to help me/makes sure I want to do it or even cooks things himself. Sometimes I just end up doing the dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:56 AM
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I was thinking about watching that the other day and now I will never be able to. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:36 PM
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My husband is only 7 years older than I am and there’s already some age distinctions going on with us, so I can only imagine what a 50 year difference looks like. Man o man. When you first saw him naked, did you go into shock any?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:22 PM
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I’m gonna not type my initial reaction. When you say FWB, you mean… sexually? I’m assuming he’s in his 70s or early 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:12 PM
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What is the very large age gap? 30 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:04 PM
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You guys are modern-day-dating philosophers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:46 PM
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I agree! My husband has a very high sex drive with higher testosterone than the average male, he (like clockwork) gets aroused and wants sex for no rhyme or reason and sometimes it’s so random- like we’ll get in the car and he’ll say, “I’m so hard.” The answer to why is “I don’t know.” The answer to are you horny is “always.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:17 PM
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You may not know entirely who or what someone is, but you do get an idea of someone’s character by the way they walk, sit, stand, the way they speak to you or waitstaff, the way they dress, do their makeup, fix their hair, types of jewelry, nail polish, nail length, the condition of their skin, condition of their teeth, the bag they carry, phone case, the jewelry they wear, visible tattoos etc. You learn an incredible amount of information about someone just by seeing them, and this information …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 01:22 AM
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I had to google what TIL means. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:41 PM
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You guys have a sexuality classification for everything don’t you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:41 PM
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Me accepting that he has a past is harmful to other women…? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:06 AM
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Do you think I should’ve held his past against him even though he forwent that behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:05 AM
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I suppose a virgin man didn’t want to marry me, he did. Do you find it curious that I married a man with a promiscuous past?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:00 AM
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I hadn’t had sex yet, and he’d had sex with a lot of different women so he knew more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 10:52 PM
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I never once agreed, and I don’t agree with you whatsoever. You just seem to have selective comprehension like most feminist women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:08 PM
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Lemon, people are naturally very selfish why do you expect them to cater to you and your needs? The vast majority of people do not care about the random people they see on the street. Even if you got hit by a car in a crosswalk, most people will keep walking because they have more important (in their minds) things to do. If you don’t give people a reason to care or something to work with, they won’t budge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:54 PM
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Most people are decent so I’m not sure where you’re having problems finding decent people and why you feel like there’s not many of them. Where are you actively looking? If you’re not looking for someone to have a relationship with, what are you looking for? I wasn’t giving YOU style advice that would require your body measurements or me physically seeing you to assess; they were just generalized examples that most people see daily. Even if you don’t dress that way most of the time, you still dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:39 PM
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I’m not talking about sexual assault because that’s not something you can control; I’m talking about attracting relationship “material”. This is something that you have control over. Whether you like it or not your clothing choices are the clearest representation of you, and it can be trashy (low effort) or classy (high effort with emphasis on design). If you don’t dress in a way that emphasizes the shape and length of your body, I consider that trashy and low effort. Like cropped tops make most…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:01 PM
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This is true. My husband has said many times that the closest a man can get to experiencing the type of physical helplessness a woman does from a man, is from a man much stronger than himself and being pinned to the ground until the stronger man decides to let him go.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:49 AM
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They would then have to address a problematic lifestyle and take responsibility. What most women don’t understand (and actively DENY) is if you dress in a way that displays your body, you will attract less than ideal men with poor morals and standards. That’s just common sense. If you act like low hanging fruit, how are you surprised when you find your people?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:42 AM
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Didn’t you know all men are the same? If one is bad, then they’re all bad- obviously! It just doesn’t make sense to take accountability I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:34 AM
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You give people too much credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:12 AM
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I think you get accustomed to it though as you're more and more intimate. I remember asking my husband if it was always going to be uncomfortable, and he said no and that it was only an adjustment period. It took a few months at the beginning of our marriage but now it's no issue at all and very enjoyable for both of us even with little to no foreplay (dependent on my cycle).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:27 PM
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That’s a very unique and confusing way to describe a having a relationship. Do women “cuff” men or do men “cuff” women or both? It makes it sound like you own someone when you say cuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 05:04 AM
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You don’t have to be so vulgar. I didn’t know the size of his penis until we got married, so no, it didn’t influence my decision. What the heck is to cuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:31 AM
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Interesting, can I ask what positions were best for comfort?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:22 AM
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It didn’t influence my decision at all because I was to marry him. It did make me a little uncomfortable/nervous because of the size though. Intimacy with him did come with some small issues initially, namely, I accidentally bit him. It didn’t even bother him, but I couldn’t stop crying. That was rough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 04:10 AM
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I’m not sure I’ve only seen my husband’s, but I do know statistically he’s above average measurements.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 03:48 AM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:57 PM
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Can I ask what you mean by security? I will just add, most of the demands were cultural or religious-based demands. If you had a lot of assets, would you yourself make “demands”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:56 PM
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Why did you change your response?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:48 PM
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Yes, he does like to be little spoon and petting is sexual affection by the way. You made the assumption that he was submissive, but he’s not. Correcting your assumption is hardly boasting, and I gave you a clear example that proves otherwise. What exactly makes a man manly in your opinion? You know, like a REAL manly man. The kind that both men and women see and think, “Wow what a great man”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:44 PM
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I'm not sure what gave you the impression that he's a submissive man from what I said; he just enjoys physical contact. My husband is not a submissive man in any way, shape, or form, in fact, he has a very dominant personality. When we started dating, he gave me a list of expectations and requirements that he demanded- one being that I submit to his will, and he has the final say with zero exception. We have a traditional Christian marriage, so he's very far from submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:16 PM
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How exactly does enjoying affection with someone you love make you less of a man? Maybe you dont understand what petting on someone means and that’s okay but it’s not how you pet a dog (I would hope).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:59 PM
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Old single women or gay men talk about everything at work or when they’re bored (always); old women have some of the filthiest thoughts ever verbally expressed. I wish I never knew these things, but if you have anal sex this is unfortunately a byproduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:49 PM
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Agreed, this is false doctrine. Not from the Bible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:09 PM
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This is entirely untrue. No where in the Bible (word of GOD) does it say it is a sin to put my mouth on my husband wherever or whenever I want. In Christianity you are commanded to pleasure one another in the confines of a marriage covenant. The only exception is sodomy (anal) which you should not do 1. Because it’s a sin and 2. You want a prolapsed anus in the future; I know many people whose anus won’t close and is permanently open. The Taurat (The Torah) and Injeel (Gospel) are true books fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:05 PM
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Exactly! If you're harsh with women, they will not enjoy your company. If you talk about how disgusting and vile a woman is all the time, people WILL be deterred by you. Nobody likes to be bombarded with hateful discussion 24/7. It's very important that a man be able to be soft with a woman. My husband is a 6ft buff hair-ball that enjoys to be the little spoon almost every night for goodness sake, and he loves to be pampered with "petting" and massages. It doesn't make him "less of a man" for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:00 PM
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Exactly! We age and the youth that makes us beautiful will fade, however, if you have a good character and skills, you have what people refer to as inner beauty which is what you require for a deep emotional connection. If my husband’s attractiveness were the most import part of him to me (number 1 deciding factor and assuming he has no good characteristics and skills), then the most important aspect would be gone in say… 10-15 years. What else would I be left with if he doesn’t have good charac…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 06:57 PM
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First and foremost, these are the characteristics I sought in vetting my husband: His kindness and empathy (he understands the emotional impact he can have on people), his resilience & intelligence/problem solving (he doesn't just give up when things are difficult), his overall integrity (honesty) and moral character (religion), and his sense of responsibility and duty. Then came building a deep emotional connection through hours and hours of conversation and spending quality time together. We h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 04:12 PM
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I learn so many new words here that I would never be able to use in public. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:21 AM
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What is a terp?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:09 AM
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My mother can be a very negative person, and she complains so much I’ve joked that she will preemptively complain before she full-on complains. Complaining like this is a disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:52 PM
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I can see whatever you’re doing is clearly working for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:17 PM
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My gosh where do I even start with you? You have a lot of anger don’t you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:06 PM
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I apologize I didn’t mean to come off that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:52 PM
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All you got from that is he’s not my companion because I didn’t explicitly state he’s my companion? I go to him for emotional support, intellectual outlet, and emotional fulfillment. He goes to me for emotional support, intellectual outlet, and emotional fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:43 PM
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My argument is based entirely on Maslow's theory, basic biology, and evidence whether accumulated data or personal data (which is still observational data and is an integral part of science). First let me ask you, do you know why the concept of stereotypes exists in the first place? They are statistically factual generalizations and for you to deny that is absurd. Do you deny it because the general truth hurts or you just don't appreciate the application because it's not politically correct? Eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:37 PM
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Thank you very much! :) I pray almost every day that I live a long and healthy life with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:41 PM
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Women make very poor household leaders because they value their emotions over logic, whereas, men are able to be impartial without emotions. Both are valuable traits but when it comes to a cohesive and happy home, emotions destroy, dismantle, and ultimately a home crumbles. I know this because I’ve personally experienced this, and I’ve seen it across the board. If a very large dog is chasing your child and your husband/partner is present, he’s physically able apprehend the dog and make the decis…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:57 PM
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I have a very traditional relationship with my husband, and I’m very happy to provide what I can for him as he is happy to provide whatever he can for me. He takes care of me physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially; I take care of him physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I also do housekeeping, childcare, and I will take care of his parents when they’re older. We’ve discussed what arrangements will be made if I am unable to provide those things for whatever reason. That’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:05 PM
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I’m right because I follow a “moral compass” that God has instructed to his people. How do you hate something you don’t seem to even understand? Doing everything you want and expecting no repercussions is counterintuitive and anyone that says your actions don’t matter is lying. I have seen many loved ones and friends sleep around. Do you know what they got out of it? Nothing but heartbreak, attempts to leave this world, therapists that misguide them, and a prescription for antidepressants. Some …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:16 PM
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You believe our God is evil? People can be evil, but God is not. You could not be more wrong. You may not have faith, but you will still face judgement when you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:35 PM
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They actually are very bad like and they’re helping to cripple society like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:58 PM
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This post has turned into a UFC fight with words
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:10 AM
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But you asked a theoretical question and I was able to give a practical answer which is much more conducive. Besides someone may enjoy reading it even if they only lurk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:49 AM
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I think it depends on the type of man that’s interested in you and why- not so much what his job is. I didn’t like my husband very much at all when I first met him because he made an inappropriate joke, so I told him he was gross and that my day was ruined because he flustered me so bad. He did apologize for that distasteful joke later on! I ended up losing someone very close to me, and he just so happened to message me at that time, and I told him about the hard time I was having, how sad I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:39 AM
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So is every other society. It’s just not as exciting as seeing wealthy people succumb to human nature as opposed to poor people. Do you know why? Media, marketing, etc. It’s actually profitable to be scandalous and to broadcast the latest debacle. It keeps people talking- all that juicy gossip, it keeps you current in society which is the most important aspect. People saying your name keeps it “alive”. Exhibit A: The Kardashians classless and trashy. Exhibit B: The Royal Family high class and po…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:35 AM
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I dunno who any of those people are, and I’m not talking about celebrities/influencers- I mean wealthy people with CLASS off social media. Those people only care about their online views. They act like low-class animals to people. That’s like comparing the Kardashians and the Royal family. Also, being married a few times doesn’t mean you have a high BC, but if I were a man it would be a deal breaker for me- Noncommittal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:39 AM
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Also, the only thing I have to add is please, please take your time getting to know a woman if you decide to get married. This brainrot is going global because of social media and it’s ruining our youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:46 PM
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Yes, that’s actually so well said! They want to berate men after they’ve had their fun and say “you did this! You made me this way”. I think they enjoy hating men because it makes them feel like they don’t have to face the consequences that come with the “freedom” they want. I really think it’s just an out to responsibly. Unfortunately we’re all responsible for the things we do to ourselves more than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:44 PM
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You’ll probably never understand it. Essentially women have made it trendy and “acceptable” to have sex with a bunch of random men on a whim, wearing no clothes in public, coloring their hair weird colors or shaving it off, or getting plastic surgery left and right empowers them and liberates them from being oppressed by men. They don’t believe in honoring any men because they see it as devaluing themselves. It’s insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 11:20 PM
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I think, given your response, the only reason asked that question is so you could dig into that guy and be like “this is why you’re alone and you can’t have an opinion because you’re alone!” Success will never be sleeping around aimlessly. There is no effort that goes into having sex with a stranger! That’s the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read. “I’m successful because I’ve taken 20 different dicks and I picked one of them to have a wedding with”. Lemme tell you about men who have “successful…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:43 PM
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You can be successful in many different ways because success is inherently abstract. You would need to define what you mean by success. Some people (most NORMAL people) consider finishing high school, some college education, or even just having an average job successful. Some people (most NORMAL people) consider having a happy & beautiful family to go home to as successful. Other people (very few/superficial gremlin who are forever alone people) consider height, 6-8 pack abs, a house or condo in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:11 PM
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That was so wrong! I laughed though😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:00 PM
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The post should’ve specified the duration of said relationship, long-term or short-term because that might make a difference for some takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:55 PM
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If you’re not enjoying it, you should reassess why and find the reason you’re not enjoying sex. Are you communicating with him during, giving him feedback, or taking part in sex with him? Also, it’s important to note that you’re unlikely to orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone- very few women do, so you’ll need clitoral stimulation too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:49 PM
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Where is pride?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:13 AM
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How is it gross? Is it gross to watch someone tear themselves apart and reduce themselves to a hull of a person all for the sake of “well, I support you in everything you do right or wrong because I am a supportive friend”? You think pretty words of “support” make you a good friend or pleasant person? I would say it’s absolutely horrific and that you should do all that you can to help people, even if it means being uncomfortable in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:25 PM
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No, I waited for the right man. There is no such thing as luck. I said no to every other man that ever asked me out or wanted to “hang out”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 08:16 PM
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Do you think judging is bad? Telling someone they’re doing something wrong is imperative and shows you care for another person. Women that offer their bodies to random men are deserving of judgement because they’re hurting themselves. There’s judgement to shame and judgement to correct. If you shame to correct it’s good. If you shame just to shame, you’re in sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:39 PM
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This sub fascinates me, but I am not any of the pills listed. I am Christian first then married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:45 PM
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The only way I would never know how other men compare to my husband is sexually and only sexually. Why would I want any comparison to tarnish and corrupt what I have? Not all experience is beneficial and sexual experience does no person anything other than a disservice. I see people talk about “exploring sexually” but what does that even mean? You can’t explore sexually with someone you love? Is your husband not good enough to “explore” with? Exploring the world is wonderful, but if you explore …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:37 PM
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When people are mean for no real reason ignore them, but if they show concern, listen to what they have to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 04:04 AM
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My husband is a very generous man sexually, but I didn’t have to sleep with any other man but him to figure that out. I didn’t have to waste any time, effort, my virtue, or heartache on any other person. My body is very sacred to me and who I share it with. I couldn’t imagine sharing myself with someone who sees me as only an object of their pleasure- that to me is carnal and dehumanizing. My husband and I have a very deep, loving, and meaningful relationship that is and will always be more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:25 AM
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Yes, that’s a very typical and unfortunate Reddit response. I wouldn’t pay it any heed. Some of these people don’t socialize or see the light of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 02:13 AM
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Good eye, Cap!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:22 PM
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There’s absolutely nothing to miss out on. Anyone who says otherwise doesn’t care about you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:08 PM
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Society is what sets the expectations for most people that we “adhere” to. I’m religious though, so I would say God sets the expectation and standard. Societies standards will rise and fall, always. Have you ever made someone else happy or excited just by giving them something they need or even just want? It’s a wonderful feeling to provide enjoyment. But men in particular have a different role and standard in society as ordained. Men are to sacrifice themselves, be leaders in all aspects, provi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 02:48 PM
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Don’t be silly. No one is physically forcing men to pay but providing is an expectation and because it’s expectation, most men will try their best to fulfill it. You can fein ignorance but at the end of the day it’s a very long-time-running expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:34 PM
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Men almost certainly spend more, but if you’re serious about the man you’re with and not a greedy gold goblin, most really are very happy to be able to provide for you. I’m married now but when I get to spend time with my father, he likes to treat both my husband and me to dinner, snacks, and drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:28 PM
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Relationships are a two-way street though. Those women that are single have done the exact same thing it just looks a little different and is more of a constant sob story. The reality is that both of those groups are wrong and refuse to admit any sort of fault. It’s all the same nonsense at the end of the day, and it’s just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:31 PM
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I wouldn’t even say women are honest with men because I’ve known women to be blatantly cruel to men only because they enjoy it, especially if that man is lesser in their minds. You can be kind and still honest. Some people are honest only to their benefit, and it’s absolutely shameful behavior. People are far too comfortable being mean online because they think they’re untouchable or even formidable behind their keyboards. The same applies to women in groups in public. They can be as mean as the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:26 PM
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Yeah, my husband would say that same thing but what he meant was “clown makeup”. Most men enjoy light makeup or getting a little dolled up. I don’t know a single man that likes huge false eyelashes and thick, heavy makeup that changes/obscures your features.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 05:12 PM
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Men are far more honest with one another. Women are not because a lot, unfortunately, will bank on another woman’s shortcomings. It’s sick. There will always be one significantly less attractive girl in a friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:30 PM
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Unfortunately, most women aren’t honest with other women because it’s considered offensive. Unless it’s tough love from an older friend or your mom/aunt, a woman is unlikely to be the bearer of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:25 PM
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Nobody likes a person who complains about every small little inconvenience. Being unreasonable can be pretty quickly fixed by some “tough-love” conversation. If your standards for a mate are high, it’s only reasonable that you hold yourself to a higher standard. If you put 0 effort into appearances, how do you expect to attract a man that puts effort into his? Being a slob is easy, but effort takes time and energy but it’s well worth the expenditure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 04:13 PM
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I think he’s asking why unkempt, borderline unattractive women that put no effort into appearances complain about not being able to find a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 03:42 PM
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I’ll preface this with I do not and will not believe in equality as the world would lead people to believe- it’s nothing more than a theory of equality. That’s not me just negative, just a realist. People live in this false reality of “equality”. The Bible tells us that men and women are equal in our salvation, in being created in the image of God, and our indispensable value to one another. Men and women both have divine fundamental God-ordained roles to fulfill for one another. We have very im…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 06:04 PM
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You asked for studies, got the studies, complained about the studies because the format isn’t to your liking and then you make a very distasteful brag about being able to get laid. You may be able to get laid but will a man bother committing to your mental gymnastics?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:37 PM
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Do you mean “seeking provider men” solely for short-term monetary conveniences? I think it’s only natural and instinctual to seek or put emphasis on a provider for your family but being a true provider comes with a lot more than just monetary value. I do agree all the others are a form of prostitution and greed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:52 PM
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I was raised very religious and still am by the Grace of God. I will just add- Shame is a fundamental emotion that all of us share, and it’s not a fun feeling. The feeling of shame can be so strong that it’ll make you contemplate if you want to continue living and this is extremely important to understand. If you make someone feel so bad that they don’t want to live, you’re absolutely EVIL. As a Christian we are to judge WITH righteousness (let someone know what they’re doing is wrong but don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:02 PM
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That’s absolutely horrible! 😭 I now understand why you have such a strong opinion of being a SAHM. I’m glad you’re out of that situation and on to greener things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:12 AM
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I’m curious, have you ever been a SAHM?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:52 AM
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I agree I actually met my husband online, but it wasn’t a dating website! It’s a good place to start for sure, but it takes a different kind of dedication to start an online relationship, and it requires conversational skills because you’re so limited in your ability to interact. I’ve told my husband before many times that if I had met him in person initially, I don’t think it would’ve worked out for us. He’s an intimidating person, and I’m not sure I would’ve been able to carry any sort of conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:17 AM
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I didn’t say only virgin women get spoiled; I said, “there’s so much more to gain if you’re a virgin who is agreeable, non-materialistic, and kind”. Then I proceeded to share my own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:34 PM
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It's like being told self-control is abusive. Have you seen the videos where women in the Fat Acceptance Movement get upset if you refuse dessert in front of them? They consider it offensive not being 400 lbs and maintaining that weight. It's a very sad and concerning level of delusion some people have.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:19 PM
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How does being a virgin equate to being abused by a man...? I was a virgin when I met my husband; I had never even kissed another man. Does that mean he abuses me? No, he has never been anything but kind and gentle to me. He's the love of my life, and I'm his love. For our engagement he had me a custom ring made (he asked me what I wanted and I told him I wanted whatever he wanted to give me). He bought me a diamond Rolex and a matching diamond jewelry set as an engagement gift. When I thanked h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:13 PM
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You’re very insightful! I’ve noticed a large number of these red pill men have been hurt in some way like you’d mentioned. I’ll add, I think my husband is leaning “red pill”. Early on when we were dating, I asked him, “Why are you afraid of women?” (I don’t mean afraid as in “ahhh a woman!” I mean scary as in he wouldn’t even date women, only sleep with them). He said “I… really don’t know.” So I said to him, “Has somebody hurt you or are you terrified of being hurt?” To which he said he’s never…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:59 PM
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I have only ever seen red pill stuff on social media. I dunno what average red pill men’s types are. Is a red pill man just a conservative with extra labels?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 01:44 PM
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No, I’m asking if they wanted moooooore
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:24 PM
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Do you think women demanded “liberation” because of greed of money/more resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 06:18 PM
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No, he would not have dated me even if I were repentant of a promiscuous past. He wouldn’t date or marry a non-virgin it’s requirement of his preference. But my husband is a very wealthy and attractive man, so I’ll admit it has been easier for him to maintain his requirements or standards than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:11 PM
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Oh, my mistake, yes I was a virgin before him. There will always be a double standard, no doubt! I am curious to understand why it is acceptable for men to be promiscuous but not women. Do you think a lot of men that can’t get a woman are in favor of men being the only ones that should be promiscuous? It is very ironic how the same men that want to sleep with a lot of women want women to be virgins. It doesn’t hardly make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:05 PM
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How is that sexist? Are those studies sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:58 PM
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I mean, to some extent I agree, but those sound like normal modern day women that you’ve described instead of a really promiscuous woman. Studies show being promiscuous hurts the woman engaging in that behavior. You’re more likely to develop certain cancers or even become sterile. These things do matter if you want biological children. I even have someone close to me with cervical cancer. She had a lot of one-night stands, engaged in a lot of unprotected sex, and she’s got children from 3-4 diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 03:09 PM
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Yes, he’s had many sexual partners, but he wouldn’t date those women. He would only party and have sex with them. I asked him once “do you even know how many women you’ve been with? I don’t want a number, please”. To which he said “no, I have no idea but a lot”. Does it matter? I would say to both him and me it matters. He knows his behavior was absolutely revoltingly shameful, but he has repented. When we first started dating he had a casual way of speaking about sleeping with women, and I told…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:57 PM
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Really? My husband had asked me- which he already knew the answer to. If I had any partners before him, he would’ve never married me. For some men sexual history matters and for some it does not- as much. It 100% matters for a serious relationship with a future.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:43 PM
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Do you hope to experience love? I understand you said you don’t believe in love but do you desire love?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:28 PM
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Yeah, you’re a different type of weird and creepy. I assure you I’m not jealous of… whatever it is you got going on. Also, I’m married and have dogs. I commented because your comment is very unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 09:56 PM
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I think you need some fresh air and to socialize a little bit more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 08:38 PM
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Dude get off the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 02:07 PM
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Why? Is it because of heartbreak or because you have yet to experience it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 01:50 PM
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What’s crazy about the booger pillow case is I had asked him if he needed a tissue and he said “no I’m fine”. Then I hear him blowing his nose so I ask “oh, did you find a tissue”? “No” I almost broke my neck after that response to look at him. I told him I would never sleep in the same bed as him if he ever did that again. 😭 He’s a filthy critter (man) sometimes, but I still love him so very much. There’s really only a couple of things that could even challenge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 03:10 AM
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No, he would just stand in front of it and pee.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 09:03 PM
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You’d think so, but no, it just amused him and horrified me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:59 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 08:09 PM
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Specifically, blowing his nose with a pillow case and peeing in our sink. Those are two of the most revolting habits I’ve ever encountered. Pimple popping, nose picking, flatulence, and burping are some other habits I think most men have- those are more acceptable but yanno… gross. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:57 PM
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He’s pretty neat and orderly for a man! Conversation solved any of the gross habits he had. He just had to know that it bothered me and then it was fixed. If I ask him not to do something, he doesn’t do it, so no, it’s not a red flag. Also, I would never leave my husband for being gross. I mean like blowing his nose in a pillow case & peeing in the sink kinda gross… not being gross to women and such. Gross habits that men pickup while they’re still single but are not suitable for cohabitation. 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:53 PM
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Right off the bat, me and my husband had conversations about our expectations for one another. I am expected to cook and clean for us but that doesn’t keep him from helping me do dishes if we cook together (which we frequently do). Now, he is the breadwinner by far and he takes care of everything else. Because we’ve had this conversation, it’s not a surprise and by default he “meets my expectations”. Is he as neat as I am? No, absolutely not but he’s very reasonable and conscientious. Are there …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 06:43 PM
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I was only joking in that comment. But yes, I agree you stand to lose a lot (even possibly custody to your children) if you marry a bad seed. I’m not sure how it’s a secret who or what you marry. Some people legitimately believe once they’re married things change. Oh buddy 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 01:55 PM
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Marry them instead
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 04:28 AM
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The key to any sort of man with “wealth” is to feed him good, do what he asks, and make him happy. Some men in general have other requirements too that Reddit doesn’t respond to well… so I can’t mention that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 05:19 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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