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Or because it's a stand your ground state and he was pretty clearly unhinged
/r/MensRights04/07/26 06:56 PM
2

Do you know what he was shouting? What if he was saying he's going to beat her ass or kill her? She probably won't be charged. The guy was clearly unhinged. Normal people don't follow people around screaming at them over a parking spot
/r/MensRights04/07/26 06:56 PM
2

The longer video shows him following for awhile and he was waiting on her. It's a stand your ground state. She could have shot him earlier
/r/MensRights04/07/26 06:53 PM
-12

Wtf is wrong with people. He kept lifting her shirt so she embarrassed him to get back at him and teach him a lesson. There was nothing sexual about it and pretty funny. Also being pants is a guy thing and not a girl thing at least that I have ever heard of do it might come off different it the sexes were reversed simply because of that
/r/MensRights08/04/26 01:55 PM
10

Why is divorce so expensive? Because it's worth it.
/r/MensRights07/02/26 07:54 PM
3

If she's not following the agreement then why should you?
/r/MensRights09/07/25 08:18 PM
6

Her lawyer fees should come out of her part of the divorce settlement. Did you voluntarily sign an agreement to pay her lawyer ahead of time? I would stop paying her lawyer and pay your own lawyer?
/r/MensRights09/07/25 07:47 PM
5

He chose to work for a DEI company so fuck him. And don't be a dick for no reason at a game. Again fuck him. He deserves no ones sympathy
/r/MensRights17/01/25 03:23 AM
15

Yeah the parents should be charged if that's how she got the weapon. My guns are locked up to where my kids can't get to them period.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 12:40 PM
7

Way than 50% even go to trial. When I looked at it a couple of years ago less than 10 % of all rape accusations end in conviction.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 02:17 PM
8

The toilet seat. A bunch of women in my family giving me the business because my then wife was complaining about the seat being up. If you can't figure out the seats up that's a you problem. There is no logical reason each person shouldn't be able to put the seat up or down. Made me start questioning everything
/r/MensRights20/09/24 03:23 PM
3

I think they make their own problems. They have to have stuff done a certain way and it's the only way. My ex wife used to tell people I never cleaned the kitchen. Even though I cooked the majority of the time and cleaned almost every night. The problem was our definition of cleaning. I wiped whatever area I used while I was making dinner and swept around the area I used or she used. Since I didn't sweep the entire kitchen and wipe down every surface in the kitchen I didn't clean the kitchen. So…
/r/MensRights05/08/24 01:48 AM
2

Yeah anything the Republicans would do was bad. Anything the democratic did was good. Thanks for confirming that. Jesus you are so brain dead. Trump bad. Anything else good. It's so funny because I'm not a trump supporter in any way whatsoever but you can't do anything but make it about that dumbass narcissist asshole
/r/MensRights26/04/24 02:53 AM
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They didn't acknowledge it came from their lab. Sorry you didn't watch the news much but at the beginning January to around March the pelosi and all the other useful idiots were attacking trump about trying to close off flights from China. You had people like Whoopi and the other ladies on that talk show saying they would be afraid to take a shot that the Trump administration had done so fast. All the daily talk shows and CNN shows abruptly started saying how much we needed to take the vaccine a…
/r/MensRights25/04/24 08:17 PM
2

If it was that important to shut the country down he could have done so when he took offense. Since he didn't shut anything down he wouldn't have done anything different
/r/MensRights25/04/24 07:59 PM
1

It really only matters in a few swing states as it might make an actual difference. Trump will win my state no matter what. Biden will win California no matter what. It's States like Georgia and Arizona that will win this election
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:18 PM
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What did Biden do again that was different? Nothing and after the second year basically acted like COVID didn't exist. We still had Covid last year and will again this year but it doesn't matter anymore. As soon as you don't have a fever you can go back to work.
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:13 PM
3

Trump tried to stop people coming in from China when it first started and got labeled a racist. He was right on its origins but Democrats can only see race so they went out everywhere saying come to China town everything is fine don't listen to that racist when chinatown had nothing to do with anything. Everything Biden did on COVID had already been planned by the trump administration and I had my first shot before Biden ever became president. Meanwhile Democrats everywhere were saying they didn…
/r/MensRights25/04/24 06:10 PM
7

The article quoted Dr Michael obersneider. That's the he
/r/MensRights24/04/24 02:15 PM
31

It gets worse. The article says men rape because they are predatory and for sex, women do it because of loneliness and not having their emotional needs met. Then the researcher says he still estimates that it's 80% men without any evidence.
/r/MensRights24/04/24 01:48 PM
0

Nope you are still killing a baby. Plus since almost half the babies born are boys then it's definitely a men's rights thing. You know the right to be born
/r/MensRights10/04/24 01:09 PM
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Yeah I watched it expecting to hate it and it was actually pretty funny. Ken was definitely the star and the deepest character.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 03:44 PM
1

I would have helped in that situation. His back was turned. It's a weaker human being robbed. I can't stand thieves. I would have kicked him in the balls and hit him with a chair. The only way I wouldn't have interfered is if my kids were with me.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 12:05 AM
10

Also it's 250 tax free
/r/MensRights24/06/23 10:12 AM
4

Damn dude. I'm sorry that happened to you. That's really messed up. There's really only a couple of possibilities if it was said to be mailed that many times. They lied or someone was stealing your mail and what are the odds of that happening so many times? I would imagine you were worried about the cops about not having an ID. I would and I'm white
/r/MensRights21/06/23 02:31 PM
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Probably not
/r/MensRights21/06/23 02:12 PM
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I wonder how they got hired without an ID? You have to have 2 forms of ID to fill out an I-9 for employment verification. I've owned a business for 30 years and it's been that way the whole time. Maybe it was under the table work or contract employment. It really sucks not having an ID. Everything being online definitely makes it easier
/r/MensRights21/06/23 02:06 PM
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Damn I thought you were joking on your previous comment. What a putz.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 01:06 PM
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How do you feel when people act like black people are too dumb to be able to get an ID to vote? I've never been able to get that. You have to have an ID for almost everything in life but voting is somehow too far. I get Jim Crow was a thing but there is no institution trying to keep black people from getting an ID. Sorry if it's an out of place question. It's just another area where I see white people virtue signaling
/r/MensRights21/06/23 01:03 PM
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Even if you own the house before you got married, she will be entitled to half of the increase in value unless you had a prenup or the marriage is extremely new at least in the usa
/r/MensRights06/06/23 02:58 PM
2

Yep. I sure as hell would testify if I wasn't guilty.
/r/MensRights19/05/23 01:36 PM
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Great job but no offense, I couldn't tell what you were upset about without reading it several times. You might want to open with what you happened first before you get to the lies and denials
/r/MensRights14/12/22 01:40 PM
1

Sounds to me like you need to let her know you can come after her for common law support and for to either cease and desist or that is what you will do. Do this from a lawyer
/r/MensRights09/12/22 09:01 AM
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He's probably being gang raped daily as well from everything I have read about Russian prisons. She almost certainly wasn't as big as she is.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 09:22 PM
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As far as the kids go it went better than I could have ever hoped. My son was old enough to decide where to live and he went with me full time and within a year my daughter did the same. He was 16 and she was 13. So no child support. She would have actually owed me child support but I negotiated that I would never go after her for child support as long as the kids got to live where they wanted. Alimony was a different story. Half my after tax income for a year and 2/5 of my after tax income for …
/r/MensRights08/12/22 08:38 PM
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It's presumed 50/50 in Tennessee as of 4 years ago when I got divorced
/r/MensRights08/12/22 07:36 PM
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The reason we have cops treat people like we do is because we dehumanize people who commit crimes. A society is judged by how we treat the lowest among us.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 03:02 PM
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The 280k was to equalize the retirement. It doesn't say how much it is mortgaged. You must not have read the article and are arguing just to argue if you are saying if the sexes were reversed it would have been the same. No one is that brain washed
/r/MensRights04/11/22 02:19 PM
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He got half the value of the house and enough to make their retirement accounts equal. How is that her getting screwed? His substantial income is way less than hers. He did all of the unpaid labor of taking care of the household and kids. If the sex's we're reversed she would owe him half of everything
/r/MensRights04/11/22 01:14 PM
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He said pussy pass denied. That would imply she didn't come out ahead. The problem is if this had been the man earning more money he would have had to pay half and probably have to pay alimony since she would need to have the same life style. I definitely wouldn't have a problem with it if it was equal. It isn't though. She actually got the pussy pass. It wasn't denied
/r/MensRights03/11/22 08:11 PM
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Not really. He got shafted. He should have gotten half their assets and only got about 1/5
/r/MensRights03/11/22 07:21 PM
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Some people, like you obviously, just don't know how to think outside the box. They are just black and white in their thinking.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 10:46 PM
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Don't pay if you don't want to. No one is stopping you from only paying for yourself. No one is making you go to a woman's night. Some portion of men don't mind and I'm assuming those are the ones going to a place like that. Fight for things that matter.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 10:18 PM
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They can but usually don't in a bar situation. Not sure what your point is
/r/MensRights25/10/22 08:22 PM
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It's not discrimination. What a low bar you set lol. It's business. If you offer a men eat free then you are just giving away a bunch of food because not enough women would show up to make up the difference. This has been the way it's been done ever since women were allowed out without a male escort and could drink in public bars. Men want to go to a women eat free because it helps them. It doesn't hurt them. It's sad you have let your hate drive you to this level of rediculous behavior. There a…
/r/MensRights25/10/22 03:52 PM
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What world do you live in? Of course a lot of men and women go to bars to get laid. College age especially. It's a net plus for men for women to pay less for something. It's actually no different than kids eat free. Are you going to act butt hurt about kids eating free too? Damn of all the things I've seen about equality issues this is about the dumbest
/r/MensRights25/10/22 01:48 PM
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Since it's a given that a man is paying the way I would assume that the bill would be discounted for that part
/r/MensRights25/10/22 01:43 PM
-53

Men are usually paying so it's a discount for men really. Every drink a woman gets for free in a bar situation is one less drink a man pays for. It's actually men positive if you look at it that way. Same with food. A man no longer has to pay for it
/r/MensRights25/10/22 01:41 PM
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I know Tennessee does. I'd have to go into each state divorce laws individually to see exactly which ones but I've read quite a few articles over the past few years where it's being brought up in legislation and passed. It's gone from the woman being the presumed sole custody winner in the 70's to joint custody now being the norm in I think every state to 50-50 being brought up and being passed. One article said Kentucky was the first in 2018 but I got divorced in 2018 and it was the case in Ten…
/r/MensRights22/10/22 07:20 PM
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I said many states and Kentucky is one of them. Passed in 2018.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 06:55 PM
1

What states allow common law in 3-4 months? It's usually several years at least and that has been around forever. Default 50/50 means both parents start at 50/50 time of custody instead of the woman being automatically presumed to have full custody with the man getting every other weekend like it used to be. It's way better now than when my dad got divorced 48 years ago
/r/MensRights22/10/22 06:48 PM
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People really need to look at history when they say that the current legal system is in any way worse than what it used to be. I'm 51 and things have gotten consistently better in America. Many states have default 50/50 custody now when that used to be unheard of. Many states have gotten better alimony and child support laws. Lifetime alimony used to be quite common everywhere. Now you just need to not be married in states like new York. We still have things to fight for but it's way better than…
/r/MensRights21/10/22 07:18 PM
1

I don't know. I've never heard of assets accrued before a marriage incurred being liable as long as the assets were being held separate
/r/MensRights22/09/22 02:47 AM
11

What is hilarious is almost no one cares about anything other than why did they use SpongeBob. I went there and all I could find were SpongeBob posts.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 12:37 AM
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If you have the money before you are married and keep it separate then she won't be entitled to it. She will be entitled to half of any gain in assets afterwards. The key is keeping your assets from prior to your marriage separate
/r/MensRights22/09/22 12:19 AM
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Oh definitely agree. There is a difference between thinking any man could be a threat and all men are a threat. There is also situational awareness. If it's night time especially and my daughter is alone and a man is walking towards her she needs to assess the situation and make herself ready to defend, run , scream or whatever. She is a freshman at college and sometimes has to go in the parking garage at night. She has to walk back to the dorms at night after work. There are lots of homeless me…
/r/MensRights07/09/22 03:02 PM
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Maybe take precautions? My daughter is at college this year and sometimes has to walk later at night. She openly carries pepper spray. She looks at any man she encounters late at night as a potential person who could do violence as she should. I'm a 6'2" man and I do the same thing. It's just smart to treat any unknown as a threat.
/r/MensRights07/09/22 01:15 AM
1

Because you can get sexually excited by a hard breeze. Sexual excitement can be extremely arbitrary. Who says any is happy cutting off their penis and trying to be a fake woman? Where is the metric that says anyone who became the opposite sex is happy
/r/MensRights06/09/22 03:07 AM
1

The reason it's wrong is because there is no normal anymore. When you tell 5 year old kids that gender is a construct and doesn't mean anything then you end up no longer having a society. Kids have no idea about anything. If you came up with a society where homosexuality was the norm then you would have the same number to people being heterosexual as you have now which are homosexual. People can be taught to be anything. They can be taught that the only normal sex is with 30 year old adult men a…
/r/MensRights06/09/22 02:42 AM
1

Not anymore. The percentage of population is nowhere close to .3% anymore. When you tell everyone everything is the same and tell little kids that gender is fluid and there is no normal then you no longer have any norms so transexual is the same as heterosexual and the numbers rise accordingly
/r/MensRights06/09/22 01:56 AM
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There is absolutely no way there were that many trans kids. That just isn't possible. Social media, basically tik tok has entirely produced the difference. I'm sure there were more gay kids in some small percentage. The whole non binary thing is another basically made up things.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 01:15 AM
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If you don't know something is possible then it won't occur to you for the most part. My kids went to a small rural school. My oldest graduated 10 years ago. There were a small almost unnoticeable amount of gay kids. My son graduated 5:years ago and there were more kids that were gay but no trans kids. My daughter graduated last year. She was in band. Half the kids in band were gay, bisexual, nonbinary, trans. Half in a small rural school which most people would think would be homophobic. It's c…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 01:37 AM
4

If you don't think men have certain characteristics and women have certain characteristics then you can make a study that shows there is no benefit. What they are trying to do is make up a society where there is no normal so they make studies to show that. You can make a study show pretty much anything you want when it comes to people. Everything is subjective when it comes to people. There are already at least 10 times as many trans people as there used to be 5-10 years ago and in 10 years ther…
/r/MensRights04/09/22 01:03 AM
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There is a good better and best in everything. The best possible way for kid's to be raised in society is in a conventional nuclear family. A gay male or female couple while being able to raise kids in a loving home can't model male and female behave and provide the same kind of family environment. So they can be good and are very often a much better choice than a conventional family. Just because you have a mother and father doesn't mean they are actually good parents as has been seen
/r/MensRights04/09/22 12:15 AM
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Yeah. He doesn't agree with the forced oppression of making people use pronouns that were basically just invented.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 12:10 AM
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It doesn't stop him from having kids. He doesn't have to marry someone with kids. If he chooses to then he needs to be a good step parent. None of this has anything to do with the main point. Complimenting someone for stepping up and taking care of a kid
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:56 PM
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Why would that affect his mating strategy? I have a step mom and stepdad. Both for over 30 years. I love them just like my birth parents and they feel the same way about me. The return they get is I will take care of them the same way I will my birth parents when they get old
/r/MensRights29/08/22 03:28 PM
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Why would it affect a man's self worth in any way whatsoever? If you aren't a stepdad then why would you care? If you are a stepdad and suck at it you probably won't care what some rando says on the Internet
/r/MensRights29/08/22 01:37 PM
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Women are the majority of the population. If they actually wanted more women politicians then there would be more women politicians
/r/MensRights29/08/22 02:42 AM
2

Of course they shouldn't. If you choose to marry someone with kids though then you have chosen to be their defacto parent with the responsibilities that entails as long as you are married to their mother or father
/r/MensRights29/08/22 01:41 AM
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That's why I said she may be lying. I covered that point
/r/MensRights29/08/22 01:36 AM
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If you decide to marry someone with kids then as a man or a woman you need to step up and be a good parent to your step kids. Also why wouldn't you praise someone for being there for a child when the parent won't. The only thing wrong at all is I don't ever think I've seen comments about a step mom stepping up but then again men don't usually put stuff like that out there. I have a step son. His father is a great dad and we get along very well. When he is with me I treat him like I would my own …
/r/MensRights29/08/22 01:18 AM
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Where does it say anything about a requirement. It's just saying the dad wasn't present and the step dad stepped up and took care of the kid. There are bad dad's just like there are bad mom's
/r/MensRights29/08/22 12:42 AM
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I don't think it sounds like there is an obligation to do anything. It's just saying this guy stepped up when the dad didn't. The father may be a deadbeat dad. She may be lying. Who knows? It's just complimenting this man though.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 12:40 AM
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What's even more important is he is a drug user and the typical Hollywood type and he still has the credibility to win. There is a large portion of people who used to would have completely written him off just because he used drugs
/r/MensRights18/08/22 03:47 AM
1

I looked it up before I posted it. I thought I remembered him talking about it but wanted to make sure. His dad is African American
/r/MensRights15/08/22 03:31 PM
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He's half black .
/r/MensRights15/08/22 01:45 PM
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There are more women voters than men. They have all the representation they choose to have. Women don't trust other women and don't vote for them
/r/MensRights15/08/22 01:40 PM
2

Because you can have kids and still prioritize sex. A healthy relationship includes sex period for me anyway. Having 3 kids has definitely never stopped me. Of course I am a full partner in raising the kids so she isn't anymore tired than I am
/r/MensRights01/08/22 12:45 PM
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The problem is when you have kids and they stop. I would be absolutely miserable in a relationship without constant physical love and affection. I couldn't stay in that type of relationship for any reason. If you do it early then you shouldn't have to pay much if any alimony
/r/MensRights01/08/22 02:01 AM
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As long as both parties know going in that you aren't very sexual it's fine. There are all kinds of people who are like that and should be able to find people like them. Personally I have to have touch and sex to feel loved. Some part of me is always touching my wife if we are in touching distance. Some people would hate that though.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 01:53 AM
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Only if you let it. If you make it clear from the beginning that sex is a must and a non negotiable then it's on you if it stops. I've taken a lot of crazy. I mean a lot of crazy. I'll tell you that 100% if sex had ever been off the table I would have been and would be done
/r/MensRights31/07/22 02:17 AM
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You definitely need to give it a bit. Post partum and depression over weight after a birth are real. But, if you are doing your part as a man and being an equal partner in taking care of your children and after a year or so it's a dead bedroom there needs to be a drastic change. They need to do whatever it takes to get back on board. My wife and I have always agreed it's each of our duty's to be attractive to each other and take care of each other's needs. Even my crazy ex agreed to that. It's t…
/r/MensRights31/07/22 02:14 AM
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Living in a fifty fifty state is a must. Tennessee and Kentucky are 2 states that presume equal custody as the starting point
/r/MensRights31/07/22 02:09 AM
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Do it early, do it fast and you at least won't have much if any alimony. I would never stay in a relationship without sex. That's the only thing that makes it worth it sometimes
/r/MensRights31/07/22 02:07 AM
2

So in your analysis a viable fetus has rights because someone else can take over I take it. The rest is an interesting argument. We as a society have held that a person who murders a woman carrying a fetus is guilty of double homicide so clearly we have a double standard. Under your analysis since society is who enforces and makes rights it can at any time decide the fetus is as valuable as the mother. It can and does change those rights all the time so taking away the right to an abortion fits …
/r/MensRights10/05/22 12:46 PM
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You are right. I'm not an anarchist. I believe people have intrinsic rights, there are universal moral right and wrongs and for the Christian part I believe in sin. I am definitely not on the punishment bandwagon though. I don't believe in Hell as a literal place where people are punished forever. The whole punishment doctrine is one the things I hate about Christianity as practiced and a valid reason for separation of church and state. There is room for discussion on when life begins but that u…
/r/MensRights10/05/22 12:05 PM
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So elect more women. There are more registered women voters than men
/r/MensRights10/05/22 11:43 AM
3

These men are elected by a majority of women voters. About half of men are pro choice so you really have no reason to gripe
/r/MensRights10/05/22 11:41 AM
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Nah you just need empathy and to be a good person. Thinking you shouldn't kill something that's never done anything wrong is just a normal take on life
/r/MensRights10/05/22 11:40 AM
1

That has been the biggest issue with the legality of abortion in my opinion. It either is or isn't a life. You don't get to pick and choose depending on whatever circumstances come up
/r/MensRights03/05/22 04:47 PM
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Hopefully there will be some reforms made in adoption rules. You pretty much have to be rich to afford to adopt an American baby unless it comes through the foster care system
/r/MensRights03/05/22 01:25 PM
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If you murder a pregnant woman you will get charged with a double homicide. So how exactly isn't it a life again?
/r/MensRights03/05/22 01:21 PM
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Why would men be upset about equality? That is all this decision will do. It will make men and women equal again when it comes to sex and having children. If you play you have to pay as men have been told for decades
/r/MensRights03/05/22 01:13 PM
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While I see what you are saying I think it's a little different. Most of the time when I see the terms real or good woman it's used more to describe the traditional woman which some people see as regressive and wouldn't see as a positive description. I think saying a real man is implying something different than what we have come to describe a typical man. It's kind of like the difference in saying a real mom or dad. People who go above and beyond and sacrifice for their children vs just a mom o…
/r/MensRights30/03/22 03:16 PM
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The terms could be interchangeable. Some people would nitpick about the term good man as well though
/r/MensRights30/03/22 03:09 PM
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For me being a real man is being someone who takes care of their responsibilities and sometimes going above and beyond to take care of others responsibilities if it's the right thing to do. I just had to plan and pay for my ex-wifes funeral because no one else would do it and my kids needed that closure. She was abusive and a drug addict and treated me horribly but my kids deserved a real funeral. I had a couple of her male relatives tell me they thought they knew what a real man was before but …
/r/MensRights30/03/22 01:08 AM
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One problem with the VA is payment. They have a choices system where if there isn't an appointment available within a certain amount of time they have to pay for you to see an outside source of care. The problem is no one will take va money because they don't pay. I bill the VA and there have literally been 4 different payment systems in 3 years. Each time they change systems it's 2-3 months of no payments. Sometimes it's impossible to even tell what you have been paid for because they send a ch…
/r/MensRights20/03/22 09:55 PM
1

Thanks but there is no trust there. I'm 50 years old and I have never in any relationship been able to be vulnerable. It always comes back to me and against me
/r/MensRights18/03/22 03:23 AM
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Thanks
/r/MensRights01/03/22 07:16 PM
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The goal is for both people to hopefully orgasm. The times when I don't last as long are definitely not as fulfilling and fun as the times when I last longer. It also feels a lot more transactional and is a lot more work to spend 15 or 20 minutes getting the other person off when it only took a couple of minutes for you to get off. I'd much rather spend the 15 to 20 minutes with both of us receiving pleasure at the same time. When I am having sex daily we pretty much orgasm within a couple of mi…
/r/MensRights01/03/22 04:32 PM
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The one thing I wonder is if having a foreskin would make you so sensitive that you don't last as long in bed. It would suck to always be a one minute wonder
/r/MensRights01/03/22 03:41 PM
1

For me I didn't know anyone who wasn't circumcised and I didn't want him to be different. There wasn't a lot of access to information about It 20 years ago. As far as I knew pretty much everyone did it and for some reason I thought it had something to do with Christianity. I might make a different choice now.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 09:28 PM
1

I believe you. I just don't remember if they asked me specifically or not. It should definitely be something you discussed beforehand. At the end of the day though it ultimately has to be someone's decision. Do you think that the father or the mother should have the final say over a male child?
/r/MensRights28/02/22 09:15 PM
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Do you disagree with it being the father who should decide for his male children? He's the one who would know. That just seems like common sense and not patriarchy. I live in Tennessee and it's been too many years for me to remember if they asked me or not but, it was a decision my wife and I discussed and she deferred to me since I had the penis and would know about that aspect better.
/r/MensRights28/02/22 09:04 PM
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It's not about wether women are willing to fight. It's about men not being allowed to leave and having to fight. They don't get the option to leave
/r/MensRights28/02/22 08:11 PM
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Nah they will say it's men's fault that there is a war in the first place so why should they fight in it and if women were in charge there would be no war only harmony.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 12:35 PM
11

He saw the red flags and knew this is what he would have to go through to get rid of her. It just had to get bad enough that she couldn't do anything worse to him than what he was already having to deal with to leave. Been there done that
/r/MensRights17/02/22 05:17 PM
6

It has to be a puppy or kid I guess. Super heroes not so much
/r/MensRights17/02/22 04:52 PM
13

I've found the trick is it's ok to cry when watching a movie. They see you as sensitive but since it's not about you it's not weak. So when we watch a sad movie and I'm depressed about something I can let it out
/r/MensRights17/02/22 04:13 PM
1

Personally unless it has the word men in it and some sort of insult because it's a man I never pay attention to who says it. Hypocrisy is a major thing for me as well. I can't stand it
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:30 PM
1

How much of it is learned behavior and how much of it is ingrained? I don't think the culture necessarily makes women use subterfuge as much as it's hardwired into them the same as physical force is hardwired in men. Culture can reinforce and steer but some things just are the way they are. The main thing I think most in this sub and I have against feminists is the double standards and the fact that by any reasonable measure in western society women are already far and away the privileged class.…
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:27 PM
1

It's funny. Would you be upset if a guy made the joke? There are many things we can, and need to, fight against as far as true equality goes but if we can't as a society make even casual jokes like this we are doomed. I for one don't want to be triggered by every dumb thing somebody says simply because the other sex says it.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 10:23 PM
5

Women judge women on their appearance and weight at least as much and probably a lot more than men. Ive mostly worked in female dominant industries, restaurant and healthcare, and women by far and away treat other women much worse than men do and shame each other behind each other's backs constantly. When women get ready to go out for a date or a night on the town they are dressing up as much for the other women as they are for their man
/r/MensRights14/02/22 10:19 PM
0

I don't get your point on this. Is she some feminist spoke person or something? I've never heard of her. What she said was pretty funny. Why does this rise to the level of shaming? It's a joke. I'm sure there were plenty of men and women making fun of the female singer in that god awful outfit. I'm sorry I just don't see this as some societal thing shaming men. If anything this would fall under fat shaming.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 10:14 PM
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People get divorced when one person is sick because of health care laws in the USA. Since you have to spend down to basically having nothing in order to get government assistance people get divorced so they don't lose everything
/r/MensRights08/02/22 01:20 PM
2

Why isn't she paying her loans? Is your name on the loan? If it's not them you shouldn't be responsible for them unless maybe she doesn't work at all. The support payments should be for her to pay them
/r/MensRights07/02/22 02:25 AM
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Yeah it sucks because it's circular. People like you makes you like yourself which makes people like you. It's definitely hard to just start liking yourself especially after 30 years
/r/MensRights07/02/22 12:46 AM
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If you think you are an ugly 30 year old loser then pretty much everyone else will to. I've seen some super ugly guys with really good looking women and it wasn't for money. What we think about yourself translates into everything you do. A smile and looking people in the eyes when you talk and a general positive attitude go a long way. No one wants to be around negative people. All of that is easier said than done but if you don't like you then you can't expect anyone else to
/r/MensRights06/02/22 08:50 PM
13

Right decision. Wrong reason
/r/MensRights28/01/22 06:28 AM
3

It's a process. The main thing is to never speak bad about your ex in front of your daughter or put her down. I know the world is crashing around you right now but it gets better. I know it's scary because of all the stories about crazy ex's out there and that is a real fear. Most of the time though it will all work out for the better. My ex-wife was as crazy as they come, like thinks she is the first prophet in 2000 years crazy, and it worked out in the end
/r/MensRights03/01/22 07:52 PM
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You can get your lawyer to write it up and signed off on by a judge so it's enforceable while you are waiting for your divorce to go through. I'm curious as to why you would do every other week instead of Wednesday to Friday one week and Tuesday to Friday the next since you would have her anyway. One thing to think about is the number of times you interact with your ex with your plan. The more interactions the greater chance of something going wrong. My wife used to do something similar with her…
/r/MensRights03/01/22 06:59 PM
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There really isn't enough information to give advice Where you live is a huge thing, do both of you work, what kind of custody arrangements are you looking at? In general go for 50/50 custody court ordered
/r/MensRights03/01/22 04:53 PM
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It coincides with poverty levels. Black people are 2.5 times more likely to be in poverty than white people. Poverty stricken people commit more crimes. It also coincides with police shootings. It's why even though by pure numbers more white men are shot a black man is 2.5 times more likely as a percentage of population to be shot
/r/MensRights03/01/22 04:39 PM
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Again it's not in any way close to that. Just because a danger isn't going to happen within a second doesn't mean you can't see it happening within a minute or two
/r/MensRights01/01/22 02:48 AM
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Yeah I don't know what to tell you because you obviously think differently than I do. If any man is on my property and I tell him to leave and I don't think that in the next 10 or 15 seconds that he will beat my wife I will go inside and grab my gun and tell him to leave. If he is to stupid or too emotional to not leave then he will probably get shot. That's on him. He was given every opportunity to leave. He decided to macho up and paid the price
/r/MensRights01/01/22 01:56 AM
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I don't know if you have been around many people who act like the father did in this case or not. Pretty much all of them do a lot of posturing first. Question? If you were out with your wife or someone you would give your life up for and you encountered a situation where they were threatened and you had a way to defend them 10 seconds away would you just jump in and fight them or get a gun 10 seconds away. You seem to be focusing on that he should be an idiot and not worry about what happens to…
/r/MensRights01/01/22 01:44 AM
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That is kind of a stupid way to think. If you know you can't defend the person physically but you know you have a way to defend them 10 seconds away it would be an absolutely stupid thing to do to try anything else
/r/MensRights01/01/22 01:29 AM
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Again he could see the situation escalating. He is obviously much smaller than the father. It's kind of stupid to think ok I will stay out here and protect someone I obviously can't protect verses hey let me go inside and get a weapon to equilize the situation
/r/MensRights01/01/22 01:17 AM
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His wife was outside. He has the right to see that a situation is escalating and go get a gun to defend himself or others
/r/MensRights01/01/22 12:57 AM
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He should have said sure. Let me know when you are going to come by and do my laundry
/r/MensRights31/12/21 07:57 PM
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Worst of all he was given a warning shot and instead of running away and calling the police and letting them sort it out as any reasonable person would do he showed he was completely out of control of his anger and emotions and went for the guy instead
/r/MensRights31/12/21 06:24 PM
1

Yeah I'm not commenting on wether it's good or bad but that's just the way it is. I watched the video fully expecting to see a straight up murder but that isn't the case. The father got in the guys face and put his whole body up on him a said shoot me and started wrestling for the gun. At that point it's self defense
/r/MensRights31/12/21 06:11 PM
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It's self defense because he was assaulted. You can bring a gun out on your own property and tell an aggressive person to leave. If that aggressive person assaults you then you have the right to kill them.
/r/MensRights31/12/21 01:54 PM
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Because the father was yelling and escalating the situation. I would have just beat the crap out of him but he was told to leave the property, refused, got up in the face of the guy with the gun and said do it, then tried to take the gun. That equals getting shot
/r/MensRights31/12/21 01:51 PM
2

Actually if you look at it objectively femals in the western world at least are next in line after the .01 percent of the extremely privileged white men. Basically any woman has vastly more rights than 99.9% of every man who isn't the extremely small percentage of wealty white men
/r/MensRights25/12/21 06:39 AM
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If you happen to fall in the .01 percent of white men who actually have power then that's true
/r/MensRights25/12/21 03:25 AM
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The simple reason is because we are able. If women had the exact same mental makeup as they do now but either strength or men they would be just as violent. Humans are capable of great harm and are only limited in their ability to do it. Women are just as physically aggressive they just aren't strong enough to act on it
/r/MensRights09/12/21 07:05 PM
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Ha ha hell yeah
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:25 AM
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If you are in a relationship with someone you absolutely need to clear taking off of work with them especially to at a game. That is income you are losing
/r/MensRights03/12/21 11:21 PM
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The end of sentencing bias would be huge
/r/MensRights03/12/21 04:36 PM
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I would add that all child births are automatically dna tested to make sure of the parentage of the child. It's pretty much a relationship killer to ask for one as a man. Second men can opt out of Parenthood the same as women with no criminal or fiscal consequences. Third and almost the most important no more assuming men are the aggressor in any physical confrontation
/r/MensRights03/12/21 04:35 PM
1

It's like it's not even debatable. There is not a single mainstream Christian movement that claims once you are saved you don't sin anymore
/r/RPChristians29/11/21 04:47 AM
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So you are without sin. Is that what you are claiming? You actually believe because you have accepted Jesus as your lord and savior you don't sin anymore
/r/RPChristians29/11/21 04:28 AM
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Yes and we still sin. No one is without sin except Jesus
/r/RPChristians29/11/21 04:19 AM
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Oh no. A woman did something wrong. Of course men are great and would never have done the same thing. Do you seriously think that Adam would have done any better when he was so easily fooled. Seriously have you never been out in the world? I'm not listening to anyone over anyone. My ex wife tried to use her mother's holiness to try and keep me with her. I've heard all the BS. Fortunately for me at least she cheated on me so I had an out. Men and women are sinners. We all sin. There is no reason …
/r/RPChristians29/11/21 04:19 AM
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So basically no one goes to heaven in your view. No one can be sinless except Jesus. He and only he can be sinless. That is the point of his sacrifice. Being saved has nothing to do with being sinless.
/r/RPChristians29/11/21 04:11 AM
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I'm not sure what I am being like. I know women and men are different. I know women have issues that are fairly prevalent. I also know some women can be extremely godly and worth listening too
/r/RPChristians29/11/21 04:07 AM
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There is only one thing that matters. Love the lord with all your heart and mind. The works thing won't get you to heaven. The rules thing won't get you to heaven. Jesus broke the whole you have to do things in a certain way and fashion to get to heaven. Unless you are going to try to equate a woman teaching to murder or adultery or something
/r/RPChristians29/11/21 03:40 AM
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As I said. People use the bible to further their agenda. We shouldn't dance either
/r/RPChristians29/11/21 03:33 AM
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Also if you come right down to it the holiest people I have ever met in my life have been women. The kind of people you can just feel goodness and holiness from. The people you just feel comfortable around immediately. The people who just have that Aura around them
/r/RPChristians29/11/21 03:24 AM
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I'm no nice guy. I'm definitely no white knight. The truth is the truth though. Men and women can be horribly crappy people. There is no true biblical reason that a woman can't teach God's word. People can use and have used biblical passages to further their own agendas though. My ex mother in law taught herself to read from the Bible. I've never met anyone who knew it backwards and forwards as much as she does. She can connect every part of the bible from memory. She stands up and preaches and …
/r/RPChristians29/11/21 03:15 AM
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You have so many good points and then you ruin it by saying women can't be pastors or leaders. What a bunch of BS. It's sad that you want to limit people who can do so much good. If you actually think you can learn more and teach better about God because you are a man you are delusional. I've learned more about God from a woman than I have from a man. It's not about her sex it's about her faith
/r/RPChristians29/11/21 03:02 AM
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How did we get to the point where only one sex has to comply with a contractt? It's insane
/r/MensRights28/11/21 03:20 AM
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Yeah that is the most fucked up part of it all. Back child support
/r/MensRights28/11/21 01:26 AM
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Yeah it's complete bullshit. If I honestly thought something would happen to her I would try. I know it won't so I'm just glad I rarely ever have to see or talk to her
/r/MensRights27/11/21 11:19 PM
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I agree with you. The whole receipt thing just keeps you in the same toxic relationship you were already in.
/r/MensRights27/11/21 11:01 PM
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I'm right there with you. My wife has paid about $1000 in 3 years. She owes me at least $10,000. She also receives social security benefits for my daughter and never pays a dime for her care. I have my daughter 100% of the time. The only reason I haven't done anything about it is because at least I never have to talk to her. I also pay her $3000 a month in alimony. Fun times. But I swear twice as much and me living in a box would have been worth it
/r/MensRights27/11/21 10:59 PM
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What kills me is most of those people thinking you can sign away child support. If someone adopts your child then yes. If the mother ever needs any government assistance though then the man will have to pay child support for any reason other than adoption.
/r/MensRights27/11/21 10:56 PM
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That you don't want to pay child support. It doesn't matter what she says if she ever gets government assistance they will come after you and go for back pay. She can also at any time just decide she wants child support from you if she gets down on her luck and you are shot out of luck. There are 14 year old boys who got raped by grown women that ended up having to pay child support. If she wants a baby she can go to a sperm bank. There is no paper you can sign other than adoption papers to whom…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 02:01 AM
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Everyone is different. Some develop really early and some don't. I've seen guys with full mustaches at the age of 12. I've seen 12 year olds that still look like little girls and some that have fully developed. Then you add drinking and being dark outside so who knows. It's definitely right on the edge of believability
/r/MensRights04/11/21 09:05 PM
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The point is , why would color matter In drug abuse? It's about the most color neutral issue I can think of. Rich people just use more expensive drugs. Like come instead of crack
/r/MensRights28/10/21 01:46 AM
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The only reason black people "might" use drugs at higher rates is because of higher rates of poverty. Poverty stricken people tend to need an escape more
/r/MensRights27/10/21 11:48 PM
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Why would there be a higher percentage of black people than white people smoking pot. The stereotypical pot smoker is almost always a white guy when they are portrayed in movies or anything. That is a very weird opinion to have.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 11:45 PM
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I'm not sure what you are being down voted for. We almost always bear some responsibility for what happens to us in our life. The poor decision making may come from being in a single parent household from divorce and not witnessing good relationship patterns or any number of things where they just don't know how relationships should look but ultimately women who will fake a pregnancy will almost always have shown red flags and have treated you poorly beforehand. It's up to each person to not acc…
/r/MensRights23/10/21 12:44 PM
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No the person who dies or who is raped or beaten up or whatever is always the primary victim. Everyone else is secondary. The person who the action is directed at is always primary
/r/MensRights14/10/21 06:33 PM
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The whole thing is actually stupid. Whatever war it is, in the country where the fighting happens it's the civilian population who are the primary victims in the vast majority of history. The warriors are a close second or sometimes equal depending on the battles. Civilians are men, women and children. So the majority of victims will always be men. Men who die in battle and men who die when roving bands of opposing forces desolate villages and they try to defend it, men who die in starvation alo…
/r/MensRights14/10/21 01:56 PM
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I always want to ask her the question so does that mean when a woman gets raped the primary victims are the husband's, sons and brothers since it's not the person it actually happens to who is the victim but the other gender relatives who are apparently the victims
/r/MensRights14/10/21 01:47 PM
2

I don't know that I ever got shamed by a woman for being a virgin. It was always men who tried to act like you aren't a real man if you aren't slaying pussy right and left. Of course as I've gotten older and have learned more about people I suspect the loudest of them were projecting. I was pretty open about not having sex until I was in love. Interestingly enough I actually had to turn quite a few women down because they wanted to be that person who either were so sexy that I wouldn't keep my c…
/r/MensRights28/09/21 05:49 PM
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I agree. I've been surprised by the lack of fight in the feminist movement over this and locker room/bathroom issues with men just declaring they are a woman and being naked in those venues.
/r/MensRights15/09/21 07:14 PM
2

The vast majority of people aren't even intelligent enough to begin to defend themselves in court. The minimum judgement is $10,000 so I wouldn't be dumb enough not to have myself represented by a lawyer. Again all of this goes to it's absolutely insane that anyone should have to defend themselves against someone who has no standing in the case. Your opinion is it violates the 1st amendment but you have no idea wether it does or doesn't until ultimately the supreme court says so. There isn't any…
/r/MensRights09/09/21 04:54 PM
2

Not unless they drove the bank robber away as well in the get away. The point is people should not be able to sue other people for breaking a law that doesn't affect them in any way. The point is you can't sue the person back for lawyers fees when you successfully defend yourself. The point is if someone has the money to waste and just don't like you they can make up a lawsuit and you have no recourse other than to spend the money to defend yourself. Who wants to live in a society like that. If …
/r/MensRights09/09/21 03:34 PM
1

So if you are sued you can just ignore it? You don't have to do anything? Of course you do. You have to answer the lawsuit and go to court unless you have a lawyer that can get it thrown out before that. When you go to court in a civil lawsuit the burden of proof isn't innocent until proven guilty. It's a preponderance of evidence. So if someone is saying you did something you have to provide evidence proving you didn't. It can be as simple as they say they saw you drive someone to the abortion …
/r/MensRights09/09/21 03:26 PM
1

I highly doubt they will. If they actually went through with it after they lost a few law suits they would stop or leave the state. It just doesn't make any financial sense for a company barely staying one step ahead of bankruptcy to do that. I haven't looked at their financials this year and it may have changed somewhat with the pandemic and Uber eats but they have rarely turned a profit. They are the dot-com company from the past
/r/MensRights09/09/21 02:57 PM
1

If they sue you for the $10,000 allowed it isn't a small claims court. They don't have to prove you did anything. You have to prove you didn't. Abortion is a completely separate issue from giving precedent to laws where citizens can sue other citizens indiscriminately with no recourse from the accused. Yeah you can already report someone anonymously report people to the police but it doesn't do jack shit. The police have to catch you doing something to charge you unless they plant evidence or so…
/r/MensRights09/09/21 02:46 PM
1

If a woman can decide to give up their rights to a child then a man should be able to as well. A woman can give birth to a child and not list a father and give it up for adoption with no penalties. Why should men not have the same rights?
/r/MensRights09/09/21 02:38 PM
1

Women have the right to do that to men. Men are the only ones without a choice
/r/MensRights09/09/21 02:34 PM
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None of those things matter for the man though. The man gets no choice or break. Only the woman does. Basically in life men are made to always be responsible for their mistakes. Women g are much less likely to have to pay for their mistakes. Welcome to equality I guess. The law still is extremely tyrannical and only people who don't care anything about their rights at all would support being able to sue people you don't even know or have anything to do with and not able to be sued back for lawye…
/r/MensRights09/09/21 02:32 PM
2

What dream world are you living in that corporations would cover something like this. They would 100% put this on the driver. They are independent contractors
/r/MensRights09/09/21 02:26 PM
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What if you drive them to the coffee shop next door? There has never been a law like this in the USA that I know of. You don't have to have any standing to sue. The burden of proof is on the accused. You can have to pay thousands of dollars for a lawyer to prove you're innocent and can't sue back for lawyer fees. Whatever you think about abortion is irrelevant to this. This law is tyrannical in the extreme. This law has random citizens enforcing a law that should only be the purview of the state…
/r/MensRights09/09/21 02:25 PM
3

Yeah that's the bitch of it. Women can't seem to not share whatever they feel is the truth with numerous people
/r/MensRights01/09/21 12:57 AM
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Well lucky for you it can sort of be a choice. It is extremely obvious at this point that environment can play a big part in it. Kids today at least in the western world are being brought up and taught that homosexuality is no different and equal to heterosexuality. Homosexuality and bisexuality have literally exploded in numbers. I think the Kinsey scale has it right. People all fall somewhere on a line where a 1 is almost impossible to be gay and a 10 is almost impossible to be straight with e…
/r/MensRights31/08/21 04:11 PM
1

That is definitely an interesting thought process of thinking about it as taking on a dependent from the get go. There are no bad surprises that way.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 04:06 PM
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Maybe and I would say almost certainly you know a lot of people who are pretending to be happily married. You see people get divorced all the time out of nowhere. Men tend to keep their problems to themselves except for really close friends. That doesn't negate though stating that young men need to know their worth and see red flags as the truth that they are. I would say the mother is the biggest predicter of what a woman will end up being like. At least it has been in my experience.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 04:04 PM
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Thank you. It was mostly just a response that the person I was responding to actually believes 75 % of violence happens from men. I don't go around believing every woman is violent and will hit me but I am much more afraid of women than men in a general sense
/r/MensRights31/08/21 01:33 AM
1

Well when a woman hitting a man isn't considered a violent crime then you get a skewed perspective. Women hit men as much or more than men hit women. I've been in 3 serious relationships in my life. All 3 have hit me in anger. One of them kicked me with steel toe boots so badly I had bruises all over my body and I had to have pictures taken of the bruises so I would have proof in case she tried to say I was the violent one. I've never hit back. The only parent I had that beat me or hit me was my…
/r/MensRights30/08/21 09:19 PM
0

Well when a woman hitting a man isn't considered a violent crime then you get a skewed perspective. Women hit men as much or more than men hit women. I've been in 3 serious relationships in my life. All 3 have hit me in anger. One of them kicked me with steel toe boots so badly I had bruises all over my body and I had to have pictures taken of the bruises so I would have proof in case she tried to say I was the violent one. I've never hit back. The only parent I had that beat me or hit me was my…
/r/MensRights30/08/21 09:18 PM
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It's a fine line. Definitely make sure you have the ability to record things. When you decide to go for it don't look back. Never ever go back. Once it's done it's done
/r/askMRP30/08/21 01:30 AM
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The one thing I learned during during divorce that was more important than anything else was get everything you personally want out of the house first. If you plan on moving out then do it when she is gone and get everything you want. I left with my clothes and most of my everyday belongings and thought that I owned half of everything so if I wanted to borrow the lawn mower or something I could. Nope. If it's left there then you have to get a court order to get it back. I had 2 weedeaters and la…
/r/askMRP30/08/21 12:56 AM
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From what I remember it was felony drug and or gun/ violence charges.
/r/MensRights25/08/21 06:42 PM
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Yeah the word minimal can be confusing legally. It can be used as we can give probation on the case because judges usually have some leeway. It can also be used as we want to stop this type of crime so the judge doesn't have leeway on sentencing
/r/MensRights25/08/21 03:28 PM
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I think what it is getting at is since she has been a habitual criminal that he has no leeway as far as sentencing. I'm thinking it's like the three strikes law in the USA where it doesn't matter what the the level of felony of the 3rd offense is, it's still life in prison type of thing. She may have gotten a year for 2 burglary offenses or even probation if she didn't have previous offenses but he has to give 4 years now
/r/MensRights25/08/21 03:18 PM
1

Look up knees over toes on YouTube. I couldn't squat because of my knees and started doing the exercises he suggested and it's completely changed my knee pain. It used to hurt just to sit on the toilet. After just a couple of months I basically had no more knee pain
/r/askMRP13/08/21 04:31 PM
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We need to outlaw foreign investors from buying american homes. We need to place some sort of limit where no american corporation or groups of corporations with the same owners can buy too many homes. Maybe 10-20. It's fine if someone works their way up and starts buying a house here and there for retirement or as their income. It's not fine to have portfolios where you can outbid ordinary home owners with cash. Most nations make you be a citizen to buy homes in their countries. I don't know abo…
/r/MensRights30/07/21 06:47 PM
2

I looked it up after I asked you. It's hard to get my brain around it. The article I read compared it to a Jessica Jones show where she was mind controlled and the brain washer raped her so it was still her just controlled. In this case it's a little harder. If Steve has his soul actually inhabit the man's body then the man is no longer there and he truly is Steve. That makes Steve a body thief. WW basically only sees Steve when she looks at him and if Steve had never left his body then it would…
/r/MensRights30/07/21 06:34 PM
1

As I said before a living wage is highly subjective. I don't actually think anyone deserves a living wage. Different jobs deserve different wages because of the training, schooling or effort to do the job is different. I think you have to continue to work your way up. I think we do need to start with a base level where someone's lack of a job or education won't put them in danger of losing everything they own though because they get sick or have to choose to go on government programs if they hav…
/r/MensRights30/07/21 06:21 PM
1

Just because it's not enforced now doesn't mean it hasn't been and people haven't gone to jail for it. The problem obviously isn't solely or mostly in the sentencing, it's in the execution of the sentence. They don't have the space to jail them so they put them in a place where it's basically torture The sex laws are revelant because it hasn't been that long since it was used to prosecute gay people and since it is still on the books in some states it could be used on anyone. You don't get to pi…
/r/MensRights30/07/21 05:11 PM
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It highly depends on what type of job. Of course an extremely small percentage of jobs actually pay minimum wage and the majority of those use illegals. For the jobs slightly above that rate like McDonald's burger flipper's they aren't meant to be make a living and have kids type jobs. Those are mostly high school, completely uneducated or college kids. Living wage is so arbitrary as well. A true living wage in a low cost of living area is around 30-40 thousand a year if the job provides insuran…
/r/MensRights30/07/21 04:45 PM
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I personally like Israel's model. Everyone serves. I think in order to be a citizen you should have to serve your country for 2 years. It could be in a military role, an internal peace corps/social services type role or a public projects type role. If you want to vote then you have to serve. We would get rid of a lot of problems that way.
/r/MensRights30/07/21 04:36 PM
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I don't remember that scene. What happened
/r/MensRights30/07/21 04:23 PM
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Yeah that's not how it works. People who didn't get caught aren't in prison. The vast vast majority of people have committed some sort of crime which would include prison time. If you have ever had sex of any kind beyond missionary there are still some states where its a crime. Have you had 3 beers one night and are technically over the limit but didn't get caught. There are thousands of examples. Do you deserve to be tortured? Most of those people were here illegally. That is a crime and they s…
/r/MensRights30/07/21 04:22 PM
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Yeah. I have foot in mouth disease so I would be in big trouble
/r/MensRights22/07/21 10:34 PM
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Does it work? Sometimes it does. There will always be enough people with low self esteem that they will take any kind of attention. Being an asshole works as well for some women. It's why you can see the sleaziest looking and acting guys get women. They can be a douchebag to a hundred women and get a hit on one and it's worth it to them
/r/MensRights22/07/21 07:31 PM
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If it was your daughter would you want to beat their ass. I would
/r/MensRights22/07/21 07:24 PM
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Yeah if it's a bunch of semi good looking or better looking women. When it's a bunch of drunk ugly ones it's more of a that is gross. I used to work in a bar and it can be pretty uncomfortable with all the sexual suggestions. You have to pretend to be ok with it or you don't get tipped
/r/MensRights22/07/21 07:23 PM
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I will say it depends. I was out in Asheville a few months ago and there were 9 rough looking guys sitting hanging out on a hill and one guy out in the middle of the street. There were 8 college again women walking down the side walk and I think he must have propositioned everyone of them. He was loud and obnoxious. He kept yelling way after they had passed him by. If he had been alone I would have asked him why he thought acting like he was so desperate for sex that he was begging for it on the…
/r/MensRights22/07/21 07:17 PM
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Only a guy over 6 feet is big enough to make her feel like she isn't fat. Smaller guys make it too obvious how big she is
/r/MensRights22/07/21 07:10 PM
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Thanks for showing me and anyone bored enough to follow this line of comments that you have no ability to show any line of reasoning whatsoever that ban unintentional act can be intentional. Hint. Accident and unintentional are synonyms
/r/MensRights16/07/21 04:49 AM
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Once again define how not knowing you are doing something is intentional
/r/MensRights16/07/21 04:41 AM
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Once again no answer as to how not knowing you are doing something is intentional. You might want to look up the word intentional. It means something different than you think it does
/r/MensRights16/07/21 04:31 AM
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So no answer. You have so little life experience and so little knowledge of the world. Rape in the court of law has nothing to do with intent. Rape according to the law can only be committed by a man because it has to involve being penetrated. I do wonder when a woman will be or could be charged with rape for pegging a man though. Otherwise the law says a woman can't commit rape. People though who aren't idiots though know that the criminal act of rape can be committed with no intention. Good ni…
/r/MensRights16/07/21 04:13 AM
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True
/r/MensRights16/07/21 04:04 AM
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Again you have no valid response. How can you intentionally rape someone if they never say no? If the person gives you no indication that they don't want to have sex how can you intentionally rape them ? Just saying it's so isn't an answer. Tell me how someone who isn't given any indication that sex is unwanted can rape someone intentionally. How how how
/r/MensRights16/07/21 04:03 AM
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All I am asking is for you to show me how if you have no idea you are doing something that it can be intentional. Show me how it happens. Use something besides it just is
/r/MensRights16/07/21 03:08 AM
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I just want you to explain how not knowing you are doing something the other person doesn't want you to do without yhem giving any indication is anything other than accidental.
/r/MensRights16/07/21 02:42 AM
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You haven't explained in any way what is rediculous. The why, the how or anything. You just make blanket statements that don't explain your reasoning. I'm always ready to learn something new. Teach me
/r/MensRights16/07/21 02:07 AM
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Merriam dictionary definition of rape unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against a person's will or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent because of mental illness, mental deficiency, intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception. So if none of those things are present and you have sex with someone and they never say no then you have accidentally raped them. It's not that hard to understand. Inte…
/r/MensRights16/07/21 01:52 AM
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You must not be able to read very well then. Reading comprehension is so lacking these days. I would love for you to show me
/r/MensRights16/07/21 01:44 AM
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Never said that so cheers
/r/MensRights16/07/21 01:38 AM
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Definitely not. I never saw anything in that story that indicated that. It can be confusing figuring which reply is to what though. Lol
/r/MensRights16/07/21 01:29 AM
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Well of course there is accidental rape. If you don't know you are raping someone because they never said no then you didn't rape them on purpose. I would even say you didn't rape them. They may have been raped but everyone has a responsibility to say no if they don't want something to happen. In order for it to be deliberate the person doing the raping would have to know the person didn't want to have sex. In most areas of the law there is a difference between knowingly committing a crime and u…
/r/MensRights16/07/21 01:27 AM
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I can't imagine being prosecuted and sent to jail for raping my child and being innocent. He not only had to face that betrayal but then had to be basically tortured for years. I don't know that there is really anything much worse than that
/r/MensRights16/07/21 01:15 AM
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Well yeah. That is what the person I replied to said was saying. the case he was talking about was where a mother told the child to lie
/r/MensRights16/07/21 01:11 AM
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I think for the most part the accuser should spend the same amount of time in jail as the person they accused would have. I forgot for a second that the girl was only 11 at the time so I honestly don't know at that point in this case. When she did the crime she wasn't old enough to be held responsible. When she got clean from drugs she came clean. So maybe the guilt if what she had done ate at her enough to cause her to live the life she did. That man was probably brutally raped in prison though…
/r/MensRights16/07/21 01:09 AM
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The reason you defense is allowed to question those things is to be able to establish the facts surrounding what happened. Rape gets treated like rape wether it was intentional rape or not. It's a hard thing to balance. If two drunk people have sex and the woman never says no but inside she really wants to but is afraid to for some reason the man can be accused of rape. His whole life is screwed because she didn't say no. In he said she said scenarios the character of the people are sometimes th…
/r/MensRights16/07/21 12:57 AM
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I think if it's a child there is maybe some leeway. They should be prosecuting the mother in this case. Children aren't developed mentally enough to truly understand the consequence's of their actions. The mother though she knew exactly what she was doing
/r/MensRights16/07/21 12:50 AM
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I would rather put a deep fear of consequences into false accusers. What you and others don't seem to understand is that by saying things like women don't lie then it makes alot of people question every accusation
/r/MensRights16/07/21 12:44 AM
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How many times do you think he was sexually assaulted in jail for being a child rapist? People like her need to be made an example of. If you haven't lied then it won't dissuade you from reporting a true rape
/r/MensRights16/07/21 12:40 AM
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Plus a lot of people who rape their kids get raped in jail. Who knows what he truly suffered. She directly caused him most likely to be raped for years. She should be in jail for life for that
/r/MensRights16/07/21 12:37 AM
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It sounds like the word tap
/r/MensRights15/07/21 05:45 PM
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I'm not waving away anything. I'm looking at data and asking questions. Stop looking for someone to be against
/r/MensRights06/07/21 10:05 PM
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One thing you are not considering is men succeed at suicide in much higher rates than women at least in America. I'm not sure about other nations. Men tend to use guns. Women tend to use other methods. We would have to somehow parce the attempts out of the successes. I don't know if how well you can do that. It would be an interesting thing to know but I am not sure if it would provide much new information since we know men's mental health isn't a priority already and men commit suicide at a muc…
/r/MensRights06/07/21 07:38 PM
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That is what I am saying and asking. It goes from one to the other
/r/MensRights03/07/21 08:38 PM
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Ha ha sorry. I wasn't meaning to call you honey. I just know the horrible guilt trip I would get for even daring to suggest that the child might not be mine combined with the fact that if your wife was a truly good woman who wouldn't ever cheat that would be completely insulting and remain a sore spot in the relationship. It's kind of like the how do I look question. Deflect deflect deflect.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 07:45 PM
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Damn that's insane. What is completely stupidly short sighted about that is that if it becomes a widely accepted practice no man in his right mind would marry a woman with children. I sure as hell wouldn't have gotten remarried if I was on the hook for her child. Damn they must want the institution of marriage to completely die
/r/MensRights02/07/21 07:33 PM
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It's hard not to get mixed up over which is which. In cases where a 15-16 boy has sex/ gets raped by and older woman you will have in my experience a larger portion of men who say things like, I wish that me, over men who will say that's not right he was raped. So is that considered misogyny, misandry, patriarchy? I truly don't know if any of those words work for the situation. Of course an 8 year old would be considered rape by 99% of everyone I would think
/r/MensRights02/07/21 07:24 PM
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Yeah I think automatic DNA tests should be done on every birth. It would solve a lot of problems
/r/MensRights02/07/21 07:09 PM
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Just tell them you had an extra try to pull a pregnancy scare on you so you will have a DNA test done if your relationship gets that far. No offense honey. That way it's known from the beginning
/r/MensRights02/07/21 07:03 PM
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Or rapes an underage child
/r/MensRights02/07/21 06:59 PM
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Where is that at?
/r/MensRights02/07/21 06:58 PM
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Wow seriously?
/r/MensRights02/07/21 06:58 PM
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Yeah in my state it says until 18 or graduates high school whichever comes later
/r/MensRights02/07/21 06:57 PM
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That is not true. If the woman ever gets state benefits you can't opt out. The state will go after you unless the child has been legally adopted by another man
/r/MensRights02/07/21 06:53 PM
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They can't opt out of financial responsibility unless someone adopts the child
/r/MensRights02/07/21 06:52 PM
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Probably deadbeats who work under the table or are so abusive that the woman is scared of him. I don't know that I have ever heard of any man who was a normal everyday guy and had a job who got to walk away. At least not forever. If the woman goes for benefits then the state will always find the man
/r/MensRights02/07/21 06:50 PM
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Most of the time women can give up their child no questions asked and not face any financial consequences
/r/MensRights02/07/21 06:48 PM
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I must be missing something. The other kid isn't his so he won't owe child support and if he divorces her because she had a kid that wasn't his he wouldn't owe it if he did it in time. I guess you are saying in the event he found out several years down the road he would owe it.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 06:46 PM
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They covered up the important parts. I hear you though. It would suck. It also sucks that she did all that stuff so karma I guess
/r/MensRights30/06/21 07:23 PM
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Yeah I thought they were the majority everywhere but I forgot about countries like that
/r/MensRights30/06/21 07:03 PM
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Women are the majority population in most countries though. So by their own rules no one could ask a question about women
/r/MensRights30/06/21 07:01 PM
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Yeah the mother was ordered too.
/r/MensRights29/06/21 06:50 PM
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You said that my cost benefit is off and that I m not paying. Part of my whole contention in this is that everyone will evaluate needs and wants differently. That provides more opportunities to fight and get in each other's business. And I am paying in a different way with $3500 a month in alimony so I definitely get it
/r/MensRights29/06/21 01:12 PM
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Ok. That wasn't clear in the tone of your messages. It read like you hated jumping through hoops just to get what you were supposed to get
/r/MensRights29/06/21 11:22 AM
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The point wasn't made by the guy I was answering
/r/MensRights29/06/21 10:03 AM
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You keep making my point without seeing that you are making my point
/r/MensRights29/06/21 09:59 AM
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Maybe not. Hopefully my daughter will get the money directly and use it in college since it is supposed to be for her. Do you think she should be getting $600 a month to pay for childcare expenses from SSI and using it on drugs? The woman scam's everyone and is faking disability. She has screwed up the kids in a major way. She decided 6 months ago that she had been visited by god and is the first true prophet on earth since Christ and spent the only time she had seen her daughter in months at a …
/r/MensRights29/06/21 12:53 AM
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Yeah sorry. I said I am going after her but it wasn't for me to benefit or get child support. I'm just going after her In a I'm going to fuck her world up a little kind of way because she does absolutely nothing for her kids and is pulling SSI saying she is supporting them
/r/MensRights29/06/21 12:42 AM
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Exactly my point. Much easier to just pay an amount and go on without obsessing the details. Does little Johnny really need 2 pairs of shoes. Hell it never gets below 50 degrees around here why does he need a jacket. Does he really need more than 2 pairs of jeans or shorts. Do some laundry why don't ya
/r/MensRights29/06/21 12:39 AM
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The fact we are debating this shows it's a contentious issue.
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:44 PM
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Custody bias can be a big issue. I know I am thankful that Tennessee has a default of 50/50 custody. Pedantically I decided to start the process of having a child. It's out of my control what happens from there but I am still choosing to have a child.
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:43 PM
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Family bonding is a need. While it can definitely happen in other ways as well vacations are a top one. So again who decides that and what an opportunity for an argument. So if little Sally really wants that pretty notebook are we really going to argue and fight over the $1 difference. It's just cosmetics
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:40 PM
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As I said sucks in some ways and good in others depending on your situation,. The current structure is different in every state to some degree or other.
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:37 PM
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They called child support enslavement. They didn't qualify it. I simply asked if my ex was enslaved because she is the one who owes it. Now we find out it's only enslavement if they use it for drugs and a car. Not sure how that is silly
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:34 PM
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Sounds like you really hate the intrusiveness in your life that is caused by having to prove everything. That is exactly my point with the "in court" capitalized. Divorce sucks balls. I'm owed at least $10,000 from my ex-wife that I will never see
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:30 PM
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Really? I am not capable of deciding whether I want a child or not. Wow that's news. Just because a woman has the final say has no bearing on wether I want a child or not. I can have a vasectomy and choose to not get her pregnant or I can choose to go bareback while knowing she isn't on birth control and choose to have a child. Now ultimately she can choose to abort it but that doesn't effect my choice
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:25 PM
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Your reply makes two of my points about who decides what is needed and fair. My best family memories are from vacations and provided invaluable family time. I definitely think vacations are a need. School supplies are completely subjective as to what is needed and what isn't. You can buy the cheapest number 2 pencils and have them break all the time vs buying quality pencils. Some people will only look at cost and some will look at quality. What an opportunity for an argument
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:21 PM
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That sounds pretty workable
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:16 PM
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Hey I am with you on that issue 100% . It's complete BS that only the woman can decide if you can or have to become a father. I think men should be able to abdicate their responsibility the same as women can
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:13 PM
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I don't know. It's kind of hard to answer that. Some entity has to set the rate somehow and right now it's the state. It really sucks that every state is different in some ways but it can also be good if you move to a state with reasonable rules. There are people stating outright with no qualifiers that child support is enslavement
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:09 PM
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I know there is a family app where you can enter in school schedules and child care expenses that fall outside the monthly amount without having to talk to each other. You can scan receipts into it from your phone. I'm sure that could be created. I'm just an intensely private person who is paranoid about my crazy ex. I don't want her knowing anything about my life
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:06 PM
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I'm totally with you on those points. I'm only talking about people who choose to have children
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:01 PM
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Thank you. I try anyway.
/r/MensRights28/06/21 11:00 PM
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Hmm. The first reasonable response with a solution. I would say that could work as long as the other parent didn't have access to the places you are going. You would really have to be careful though. Just off hand you have 2 parents. One believes vacations are important and the other doesn't. Who gets to decide how much is reasonable. A Disney vacation could easily come out to $1500 over a week per child. Who gets to decide whether that should count or not. Do you get to carry expenses forward? …
/r/MensRights28/06/21 10:59 PM
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Where did I say anything about being ok with the state getting in my private business? You can certainly argue that some states are harder and charge to much. What everyone keeps saying and arguing about is about paying child support at all and wanting every penny accounted for. Making sure everything is done your way. I guess it must be a control thing. People feel out of control so it's an effort to take it back by nosing around and pointing fingers as if they didn't get enough of that BS in t…
/r/MensRights28/06/21 10:49 PM
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Calling child support enslavement for children you chose to have pretty much means you are against financially taking care of your kids.
/r/MensRights28/06/21 10:42 PM
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No she buys the drugs with the alimony I have to give her. There is a reason my kids chose to live with me 100% of the time
/r/MensRights28/06/21 10:37 PM
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No because the state will be going after her for committing fraud and getting money from SSI that she didn't have coming to her. I'm just reporting the fraud. I agreed not to go after her for child support
/r/MensRights28/06/21 10:05 PM
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I want to lower conflict by not getting into or having the other person get into the minutiae of mine or their lives. It's just another dumb thing to argue about. I wouldn't need to know anything other than wether the child was being taken care. It's rediculous. Plus I know my ex-wife would have used that stuff to stalk me and I'm sure other ex wives and husband's would do the same
/r/MensRights28/06/21 10:04 PM
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I don't really get that unless the other months have lowered payments to take that into account.
/r/MensRights28/06/21 10:00 PM
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I was asking because I wanted to know. I like hearing peoples point of view and debating. You bare entirely correct that no one should be paying $1000 a month and their child is wearing thread bare clothing.
/r/MensRights28/06/21 08:48 PM
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Yeah it's easy. The part where you have a dual financial responsibility to the other parent through the state ends at 18. Unless you are a douchebag though you still have some level of responsibility to your kids through life
/r/MensRights28/06/21 08:45 PM
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Why would you want to give up your privacy? Actually for the most part you don't give that up other than income. What is the deal with people not being able to have a conversation without insults
/r/MensRights28/06/21 08:39 PM
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Custody is separate. Ideally it's 50 -50. Luckily that is the default in my state If you refuse to pay then you get garnished just like any other debt. Jail is wrong and helps no one. You choose to have a child and unless you just really missed the boat you know it's a life long responsibility. You chose to enslave yourself to that child if that is how you want to look at it
/r/MensRights28/06/21 08:37 PM
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It hurts the child by continuing and creating conflict between the parents. Most divorces are no fault because that is the default of most states. Most states have gotten away from from at fault divorce which would have no bearing on child support anyway . That is an alimony thing. I'm not going to argue about how and why the divorces occur because we all know some are because the woman is looking for a free ride, was abusive or cheated, some are because the man cheated. Or was abusive and some …
/r/MensRights28/06/21 08:25 PM
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You never know. Some people achieve clarity when the situation is turned around on them and they can see how bad the idea is. Clearly the idea that if a man chooses to have a child and are forced to pay for the care of that child is enslavement is hyperbolic at best. Now you could make a case to use that kind of symbolism if a woman has a child without your consent or knowledge and went after you for child support
/r/MensRights28/06/21 07:52 PM
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Oh it's definitely going to come back on her. She has applied for and gotten disability payments based on needing money to care for our daughter. My daughter has spent maybe 3 nights there in the last 2 years. It's fraud and as soon as she turns 18 in 6 months and my ex no longer has any power at all over her I will be going after her for that
/r/MensRights28/06/21 07:50 PM
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You didn't ask that question. The non custodial parent has some say. They don't have a day to day say in things that aren't a danger to the child though. You got divorced for reason. Being that involved in the other parents life is extremely unhealthy. Is the child healthy, going to school, making good grades, safe? Those are the things you get a say in
/r/MensRights28/06/21 07:28 PM
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Damn you must really hate men. You think no man can make a decision to have a child. You think men should walk away and have nothing to do with the child or supporting it. You aren't good at math either. It's child support so it won't go on for decades. Moving on when the relationship is over means to you that you just walk away and who cares about the kids. News flash. When you have a kid it's for life. Every time you reply it just shows you to not even have a single clue about being a man. You…
/r/MensRights28/06/21 07:18 PM
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It would inconvenience me a man. It would let her into my life questioning every decision. It's none of her business.
/r/MensRights28/06/21 07:13 PM
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I'm a man who is owed child support. Am I enslaving my ex-wife
/r/MensRights28/06/21 07:12 PM
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Uhh she does dumbass. He only pays $230 a month. She takes on the vast majority of paying for it. It's called responsibility. Something you clearly never learned about. Two people have a baby. Two people are mutually responsible for the child. Are the words to big for you
/r/MensRights28/06/21 06:59 PM
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If you decide to have a kid then you have to pay for the kid. If you have the kids more than the other parent then you have more expenses. More expenses equals some amount of additional support from the other parent. You must be a troll. People aren't generally that stupid
/r/MensRights28/06/21 06:50 PM
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Child support isn't mooching. I know it's hard for a dumbass like you to understand the basics though. What's wrong? Did mummy spank you too much? Did she drop you on your head? You probably aren't married because you have no manners and are ugly as sin. You can't have a basic conversation without insulting someone for no reason whatsoever so I'm sure no one wants you
/r/MensRights28/06/21 06:34 PM
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Yeah that's what I thought too. There are to many things it would be hard to use it for. Even as simple as buying kids clothes at a yard sale
/r/MensRights28/06/21 06:12 PM
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Yeah it is confusing. It's technically the parents money to use for the child so it is for the child but isn't actually owned by the child. My ex technically owes me child support but I made an agreement to never go after it if she would stop fighting me over the kids never wanting to go there. It's over $10,000 at this point. It's worth it though to never have to deal with her craziness
/r/MensRights28/06/21 06:11 PM
1

That is interesting. I didn't know that. It's still not how it's practically used though . I don't think that is always the case though. My wife gets a check directly from her ex-husband. It doesn't come from the state. Maybe that is only the case when there isn't a divorce agreement requiring it if they never got married or where they had to go to court again and have it deducted from a paycheck.
/r/MensRights28/06/21 06:07 PM
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I don't know that I said it would help. I was just disagreeing with the point about it not working based upon it was supposed to be a reimbursement. I don't know dude. We just aren't communicating very well with each other. I hope you have a great day
/r/MensRights28/06/21 05:29 PM
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Yeah my kids live with me full time because they can't stand their mom. Their mom would simply use it as another way to try and control me and manipulate others into feeling sorry for her. So you can just fuck off with all the buttercup noise. I don't have the time or inclination to justify my choices to her
/r/MensRights28/06/21 05:27 PM
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Ok. That is 2 completely different things though. One is to protect the child from having money stolen from them. The other is an accounting of money spent that is based upon the 2 parents different income. There isn't really any basis to look into it since it's entirely based on how much the parents make and not how it's spent. An inheritance is legally the child's. Child support is legally the parents. You could make an argument to change that part of the law. I think it would set up a situati…
/r/MensRights28/06/21 05:22 PM
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Maybe I am missing something. What is done with an inheritance and in what context?
/r/MensRights28/06/21 04:59 PM
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It's from your original point of why a debit card wouldn't work because it is supposed to be a reimbursement and you would have already paid for something so the dbt card wouldn't do that.
/r/MensRights28/06/21 04:58 PM
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I'm not sure what your point of disagreement is really. The child support helps the custodial parent pay for the shoes. Depending on the financial situation they would either wait until they got the payment and then go shoe shopping or they would buy the shoes and deposit the check afterwards. There are two kinds of child support. One is a monthly amount that is given to cover every day normal expenses such as food, clothes and housing. The other is a reimbursement that is billed to the other pa…
/r/MensRights28/06/21 04:34 PM
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That is pretty intrusive and goes way to far as far as privacy rights go imo. We went to McDonald's. Little Tim's meal was $5.60. your child support contribution paid $2.80. That is kind of rediculous. The electric bill was $180. Little Tim's portion was $90. Your child support contribution paid $45. Then are you going to fight about since he is a child he would use less or more electricity. We went to the mall and little Tim got an icy. It was $3.60. your half was $1.80. Then you have people sa…
/r/MensRights28/06/21 04:25 PM
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It's because there are enough men who care more about women and children dying than they do men. It's all part of the indoctrination you get while growing up that men are supposed to sacrifice their lives for women and children or else you are a coward. I would sacrifice my life for my kids and wife. Used to I would have sacrificed myself for any random woman. Not so much anymore
/r/MensRights28/06/21 04:13 PM
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Just asking. Do you think they should have to breakdown how much of that money went to rent and utilities, how much went to the kids part of the grocery bill, or how much went to the kids portion of a meal out
/r/MensRights28/06/21 04:06 PM
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Completely disagree about the reimbursement aspect. You are treating it like a loan to be paid back. The money is used when it's gotten for expenses at the timefor the most part. It doesn't matter if you get it on the 1st or the 31st. You aren't back paying anything. There are separate child support payments that could be seen that way such as medical expenses. My ex owes me for half the medical expenses and childcare expenses as her child support. That particular part of child support could be …
/r/MensRights28/06/21 04:04 PM
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Everything and I mean everything depends upon the judge you get and the laws of your state in America. Never ever ever ever get married in New York state. There was a woman who got married a second time and her husband died and she went after her first husband again for his retirement and won. That state is screwed up. Even in the best states like mine in Tennessee things can be screwed up though. My ex-wife cheated on me after 15 years of marriage and still got half my net income as alimony for…
/r/MensRights28/06/21 01:00 AM
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Yeah where can I get that deal. I'm paying $4000 a month for 5 years and barely breaking into 6 figures
/r/MensRights24/06/21 05:29 PM
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The most important part of that document flies right over their heads. They admit that perpetrators of domestic violence might see themselves as the victim but don't extrapolate that to supposed women victims of domestic violence. They are just as likely to be the initial perpetrators of the violence
/r/MensRights21/06/21 07:14 PM
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I think you are having 2 different conversations. He is talking wheel size and you are talking tire size
/r/MensRights20/06/21 12:18 PM
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He didn't say he beat him but I'm sure that being spanked is how he was raised. It's only recently that that wasn't the norm. I used spanking when they were very young but thought I was doing it right because I did it so much less than my parents and they thought they were doing it right because it was so much less than their parents. Personally for me I stopped when the force of the spanking got to the point where it would have actually hurt them and they were old enough to talk about what was …
/r/MensRights26/05/21 05:56 PM
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Yep. I've worked in women dominated industries for 35 years, restaurant and healthcare. Women treat women worse than any man could think about in my experience. If you don't separate their work space then it's constant gossip all the time. There is almost always an in group and an excluded group. They always talk about each other behind their back while being Sickly sweet to their face.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 07:43 PM
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If it's mandatory though you don't have to deal with the BS that comes with asking for one. All the you don't love or trust me stuff which could legitimately hurt a good relationship
/r/MensRights08/04/21 09:23 PM
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I never even came close to saying believe all women. I said we can't turn it into believe no women. I'm not going to let myself turn into them.
/r/MensRights08/04/21 08:17 PM
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Since when has being attractive mattered to the kind of people who would do this. I've known guys who would have bets on who could bang the ugliest or fattest girl for the night. I've known quite a few guys that the only thing that mattered was getting laid. They wouldn't date an ugly woman but screwing was different. To act like those types of men aren't likely to exist is pretty much burying your head in the ground. We can't let this turn into believe no women.
/r/MensRights08/04/21 07:59 PM
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Yeah it's about predators.
/r/MensRights08/04/21 07:53 PM
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The article talks about these women's experiences while being physically vulnerable and unable to protect themselves from predators. We all know that there are some nasty creepy guys who would do this. It's not like the earlier article about girls being harassed at the schools and them saying we need to educate all the boys that this isn't acceptable. That story lumps all men.
/r/MensRights08/04/21 07:52 PM
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Why was he asking? In what context?
/r/MensRights08/04/21 07:17 PM
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Men are in the minority though. I guess they can't count
/r/MensRights07/04/21 04:26 PM
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I said using their logic. I didn't say it was true. They say only 2% of allegations are false because that's what is proven. Using the same logic since only around 8% of rape claims end in a conviction then only 8% of rape claims are proven to be true. I well understand what you are saying. I don't believe only 8% of claims are true anymore than I believe only 2% are false. It's unprovable. It's the same BS that says women don't lie about rape. They are human beings some percentage do lie and so…
/r/MensRights06/04/21 05:28 PM
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Since conviction rates are around 8%or less per 100 accusations that would mean only 8% of women are telling the truth by their logic.
/r/MensRights05/04/21 11:54 PM
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When you say male culture breeds this then you point a big red sign on your chest with the word bigot. What is male culture? Who decided what male culture is? Men come in all shapes and sizes figuratively speaking. I grew up in a part of male culture that said protect all women, love them, treat them respectfully,. Never ever rape a woman or anyone for that matter. It's pretty normal to grow up that way as far as I can tell. Is this the problematic culture you are talking about? No? Iit's almost…
/r/MensRights31/03/21 01:29 AM
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No, systemic racism is systemic racism. Racism is racism. There is a reason you have to add the word systemic to differentiate from just regular ole racism.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 03:47 PM
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Can you point me to anywhere that says masks completely stop the virus other than countries that adopted it's use immediately. It's always been about slowing the transmission down enough to allow hospitals to cope and allow a vaccine to be developed. It doesn't keep you from getting the virus unless you use hospital grade masks and follow all their protocols. What it does do is slow you from transmitting the disease to others. When you speak instead of those particles spreading 6 feet from you i…
/r/MensRights24/03/21 03:35 PM
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I'm not sure why wishing her job gave her as much time off for the birth of their child as his does is wrong. Of course she is jealous. Who wouldn't be? Man or woman? Wanting something to be better isn't entitlement. The mothers at that company got more time off as well. She is just wishing her company. I wish I could have taken off as long as my ex-wife did. Does that make me entitled? Maybe I am missing something
/r/MensRights19/03/21 08:42 PM
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I do understand. That is why said at least women have people who believe them and don't laugh at them or humiliate them
/r/MensRights17/03/21 10:38 PM
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Sorry man. I don't mean to make you feel bad or not listened to or do whataboutism. What happened to you is awful. I wish there were support systems out there for men like you. I can't explain what I mean and shouldn't have said anything that didn't support you
/r/MensRights17/03/21 05:38 PM
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I'm not downplaying it on purpose. Sorry if it came off that way. I was trying to say it's not you it's the system and that system goes both ways for rape. Really it's why neither sex want to go through all that comes with the system. Rape is so much harder to prove than assault. It's awful. I then said the worst part is men get laughed at and humiliated as well. At least women will have people who believe them.
/r/MensRights17/03/21 04:55 PM
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To be fair that happens both ways. The difference is men get laughed at or humiliated by both most men and women. Unless there's a lot of evidence most of the time law enforcement doesn't proceed with a prosecution. Obviously it still happens but it isn't a high percentage. Now college is a different thing. An accusation is enough to get you kicked out. The other thing is if it gets out a certain number of people will never believe you. Sorry you weren't believed. It's an awful feeling
/r/MensRights17/03/21 04:07 PM
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Because if you leave any mark whatsoever in defending your'self you go to jail. You can't grab her arms or hold her down. If you have any kind of life and anything you care about keeping you just let it happen. The men who beat women generally don't have a life and or live in a poverty and or drug/ alcohol abuse situation. It doesn't matter in their lives if they go to jail for a little bit. So on the one hand we have images of men getting away with beating women because the punishment isn't har…
/r/MensRights17/03/21 03:35 PM
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I forgot about countries like china where they value boys more than girls and the one child policy really skewed things. It looks like Saudi Arabia is the worst offender at 42.9 percent female. I wonder why. Middle eastern countries aren't generally into birth control. I wonder if it's a lack of health care for births. I know women used to die alot more in childbirth. It seems like all the men dying in wars would equal that out though
/r/MensRights10/03/21 05:26 PM
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I can see what you are saying. I can also see what he is saying. It's kinda like black lives matter and all lives matter. Yes black lives matter. Yes all lives matter. They each have their points. Yes we need to concentrate on some areas of the black community to make things better but you are never going to get anywhere by demonizing the white community. You will just make them defensive. The feminist community does the same thing. Yes there are areas where women need things but they go about i…
/r/MensRights10/03/21 05:18 PM
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I don't think most men want feminist to fight men's battles for them. We just want to stop being demonized when we try to fight for or discuss our issues. We want to stop being belittled or told our issues aren't as bad. Most of the comments I have seen deal with the radical feminist who deny men have any issues and make fun of them
/r/MensRights10/03/21 04:12 PM
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What's funny to me is women are the majority in population everywhere. So everywhere they have the vote they are actually in control. They could vote women exclusively in every position in politics just through having the numbers. Men are actually the minority in our country. Women have the power. It's not our fault they haven't used their power effectively
/r/MensRights10/03/21 04:05 PM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights24/12/20 12:30 PM
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Yeah I have had to work on anger issues from it where everything is fine fine fine then explode. I work out now and luckily my current wife is great in almost every other area. I also find that if I pretend everything is great then it mostly is. My ex wife was extremely verbally abusive and I learned somehow to forget everything bad that happens. I just shove it away and it's gone
/r/MensRights24/12/20 01:03 AM
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based on every relationship I have ever been in yes. Lord help you if you ever do it back though. They will bring it up for the rest of your relationship and never let you forget it. I don't ever tell anyone my feelings now. I am just positive all the time and nothing is ever wrong
/r/MensRights23/12/20 07:22 PM
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I just generally reply that name calling is a sign of low intelligence and walk away
/r/MensRights10/12/20 09:01 PM
2

I am very conservative financially, somewhat liberal socially, and a conservationist. I voted for trump but am not a trumpet. Be He was just better for the economy in my opinion. I held my nose and did it like probably 70-80% of us did who voted for him. If you look at most of his stuff he is an 80's democrat in Republican clothing. It does you no good personally and in general to lump everyone together. You sound like a modern day feminist with that incels BS
/r/MensRights16/11/20 11:37 PM
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Actually I would say he is more left wing in the nationalism socialist party genre. One thing we don't need is people lumping people into groups and labels like incels. People are people. Vastly different and yet all the same
/r/MensRights16/11/20 11:29 PM
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Thank God we live under grace or we'd all be dead. I definitely don't want the govt deciding which of leviticus's rules we should be following and what we should die from
/r/RPChristians13/11/20 01:23 AM
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So we have the government kill anyone who commits adultery. Wow. I hope you have never had anything from a pig.
/r/RPChristians12/11/20 11:26 PM
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I guess we are all out of luck since there has only been one man without sin. Jesus
/r/RPChristians05/11/20 06:56 PM
1

No just willing to put up with anything to be with my kids. She is a seriously crazy bitch. She starts arguments and records only me. She has screen shots of any response verbally. She would let everything burn to the ground and completely screw the kids just to win in a divorce. And I would kill myself before going to jail so there's that.
/r/MensRights25/02/17 03:58 PM
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I am not ecusing their behavior. The first one with the steel toed boots was because I caught her cheating with my roommate. I broke up with her and had to move out of my apartment. For some reason she thought it would be fun to come over while I was moving and start crap. I basically told her to just leave me alone and ignored her. She got mad and punched me. I laughed and it was on. She must have kicked me 40 times. At the end i was curled up in a ball with her biting my shoulder. When she was…
/r/MensRights25/02/17 05:08 AM
1

Probably right. I wanted to be loved so bad I put up with a lot. Still do
/r/MensRights25/02/17 04:43 AM
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There's pain and then there's PAIN
/r/MensRights25/02/17 04:42 AM
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I think it has more to do with contact sports and the friends I grew up with. We would pump up the bb gun and see who could take the highest number of pumps, Taze each other have bottle rocket wars, wrestle, anything and everything to see who was the toughest. I don't ever remember not have bruises somewhere until I was over 21. We would see who could jump creeks on bikes, climb the highest tree, anything dangerous or stupid was one more who's tough enough.
/r/MensRights25/02/17 04:41 AM
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Tell that to the cops. If woman ever hits you and you anything but cover up you are going to jail. You can't even yell at her because that is abuse. You can't restrain her because that is abuse. You just have to run away or take it
/r/MensRights24/02/17 02:32 PM
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That's not true at all. Unless my wife has a weapon she can't hurt me if I know it's coming. I have been hit by 3 women out of 6 relationships. The only one that kind of hurt was the one with the steel toed boots. I had bruises everywhere. She basically hit and punched me for about 5 minutes until she wore her self out and I did have bruises all over but I still wouldn't classify that as hurting me. I just made sure to cover my face and balls..I did take pictures of it all in case she tried to s…
/r/MensRights24/02/17 02:28 PM
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