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Eventually, I got to where I would just leave the house when she got like that. These days I take these things much more seriously, even to the point of keeping a concealed weapon on me at all times.
/r/MGTOW212/07/20 09:54 PM
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At the time I did not know how to deal with this type of conflict. That said, I will not apologize for being unwilling to respond to aggression with aggression.
/r/MGTOW212/07/20 08:53 PM
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When I was first introduced to MGTOW it gave me hope for contentment despite being single again. I was the toxic sort of MGTOW for a time but I have stepped away from the bitterness since. Those who say they are MGTOW but live in bitterness are still controlled by outside sources. I had to learn this the hard way.
/r/MGTOW212/07/20 08:35 PM
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Absolutely not. The only debt I ever plan to have again is for a mortgage.
/r/MGTOW212/07/20 08:32 PM
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Wall art, mainly. I am in the beginning process of a rebrand. My new brand will be using a CNC machine to carve classic comic book images into wood. I then paint the rest by hand. I haven't made any of it public yet however.
/r/MGTOW212/07/20 08:30 PM
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I have no doubt. It had a happy ending though. :)
/r/MGTOW212/07/20 08:27 PM
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Divorced. No kids. No alimony. No more contact. She made sure the divorce was quick and simple so that she could quickly remarry.
/r/MGTOW212/07/20 08:26 PM
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If so, he will be the most blessed of us all.
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 02:25 AM
5

My ex-wife used to talk about how she didn't want kids and would then get upset with me for not getting her anything for Mother's Day. Like, if she showed a desire for it, I wouldn't have thought twice of encouraging her, saying she'd be a good mother one day. In hindsight, I now see she won't be a good mother. She now has a child. You may now exit the rollar coaster.
/r/MGTOW12/05/20 02:24 AM
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Two years ago my now ex-wife told me she'd rather me live on the streets than live with her. She didn't like how I was struggling with work and also struggling emotionally after my dad died. I struggled for a few months, having to drive for Uber just to pay my bills. During that time, she was telling me how she was about to buy a house and he great she was doing. Now I am about to finish my Master's degree, I have a greater savings than I've ever had, and I am content with life. My ex-wife marri…
/r/MGTOW15/04/20 12:58 AM
1

No, but I did become a truck driver during my divorce to reduce human contact.
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 10:22 PM
1

It's more complicated than that. She simultaneously did not want kids but was not on birth control.
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 11:38 AM
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Yes, but like many things, she changed her mind after marriage.
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 11:33 AM
4

If it's any indication, she was ready for our marriage to end once she became a US citizen.
/r/MGTOW18/02/20 03:32 AM
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We have zero interaction now and so she is not getting a thing from me. She can do it all herself.
/r/MGTOW17/02/20 09:37 PM
4

My ex-wife was actually abusive herself but if I ever touched her, I would have been the one in trouble. The day she said, "the police are going to believe me before they believe you" was the day I started documenting and recording what she did.
/r/MGTOW17/02/20 01:36 PM
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I am definitely not saying I was emotionally in a great place. After I realized there was nothing that was going to fix my marriage I wanted a road trip. And so I got my commercial driver's license and became a truck driver. I spent 14 months traveling the country. I forced myself to deal with my thoughts and the beautiful landscape helped greatly. There would be times I would be wallowing in self-pity and then turn a corner only to see a beautiful landscape. Knowing the beauty found in this wor…
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 06:23 PM
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I admit, I had my share of crying after my divorce. My response was to work hard, save my money, and go back to school. Our separation was two years ago and I'm finishing my master's degree this year.
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 12:58 PM
2

Because of debt. As for me, I do not own a home but I am also working on a masters degree with no student debt. I'm not envious of those with mounting student loans, mortgages, and car payments.
/r/MGTOW25/01/20 01:35 PM
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I'm sorry you are having to go through this man. I say this as one who was cheated on by my ex wife.
/r/MGTOW21/01/20 08:44 PM
9

Heh, my own ex wife would get mad at me and not speak to me. As she wouldn't talk, I'd go to bed. In the middle of the night she would then begin yelling at me.
/r/MGTOW06/01/20 08:55 PM
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When my dad died my mom gave some money to both me and my brother. I used 90% of the money towards the debt on my car. With the rest, I bought a ps4. It felt like a present from my dad. Within a week my now ex wife threw it across the living room. Thankfully it still works but it does have a small gash in its side.
/r/MGTOW06/01/20 03:23 AM
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Ex wife was from El Salvador. Once she became an American and her parents were legal she wanted nothing to do with me. She was engaged to an illegal immigrant before we were even divorced.
/r/MGTOW15/12/19 12:06 AM
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This is true but I probably kept it longer than many. I'm 32.
/r/MGTOW14/12/19 11:42 PM
13

My ex wife destroyed my computer screen, destroyed many of my games, and threw my ps4 across the living room, so there's that. Sure, I could technically overpower her but, as she told me, "the police are going to believe me before they believe you." The abuse I endured came gradual and I was in complete denial about how bad it was at the time. I have thankfully learned my lesson since.
/r/MGTOW11/12/19 01:07 AM
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You made correct assumptions regarding my background, for sure.
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 03:47 AM
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I lucked out. No kids. I haven't spoken to her since before the divorce was finalized.
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 03:44 AM
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I think you hit the nail on the head.
/r/MGTOW09/12/19 03:43 AM
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Growing up, my family would always tell me that I could say yes or no. I never did. I was so fearful I might offend someone. I'm working on it.
/r/MGTOW08/12/19 02:44 PM
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I have slowly been going through the book. I find it emotionally difficult for me to go through which is affecting my pace.
/r/MGTOW08/12/19 02:34 PM
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I agree and unfortunately I took way too long to learn this.
/r/MGTOW08/12/19 02:33 PM
4

Thankfully (?) my ex wife did not go this route, but instead, she got engaged while we were still married. She married immediately after our divorce. She loved the phrase, "I don't need you." But rather than being dependent on me, she went straight to someone else. We never had one disagreement on how things should be split, I owed no alimony, and we had no kids.
/r/MGTOW16/11/19 09:57 AM
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My ex wife didn't want me to finish my masters degree of we had to pay any amount of it ourselves. Yet she complained about the quality of jobs I'd receive. She also applied for loans for her own degree without even consulting me. After her classes began, she didn't do her class work. Now that I'm divorced, I'm going back to school this Spring.
/r/MGTOW03/11/19 11:04 AM
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I studied for the permit on my own, called up a mega carrier and they shipped me off to one of their schools, I trained for three weeks in the truck to pass the driving test for my license, I then spent a month driving with a trainer, and finally I was assigned my own truck.
/r/MGTOW10/09/19 10:56 AM
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I love it actually. I'm constantly going to new places. I like the pay. I enjoy the lack of public interaction (having worked retail). It's not for everyone but it's been great for me. And it forces me to interact with my thoughts. That's not for everyone but it's been good for me. As a single guy, I have no rent and no mortgage. I live in the truck. It's like I'm a hermit but I live in a vehicle.
/r/MGTOW10/09/19 12:37 AM
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Worst case scenario, I learn more about Jesus. If no profession comes of it, I'll go back to trucking. I just believe I should at the least try.
/r/MGTOW10/09/19 12:33 AM
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As it's a seminary degree it might not be much better. But I want to do it even if nothing comes of it.
/r/MGTOW09/09/19 04:39 PM
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Why did I get married? I am a tradcon in so many respects. That meant one of my main goals in life was to find a good job, get married, and have kids. I still support that idea for others though teach caution but I am now monkmode in a nearly literal sense myself.
/r/MGTOW09/09/19 09:18 AM
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Lost interest. I don't sleep around and have gone full monkmode as far as my relationships. And things like porn are no good. What is a more cuck thing to do than watch some other guy get it on with a loose woman? That's simply not attractive. I once did struggle with it but I just find it disgusting at this point.
/r/MGTOW09/09/19 01:18 AM
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My ex-wife would not go into work if she was mad at me. She missed quite a few times. As for me, after my separation I began working as a truck driver. I go home 3 days a month. Granted, I'm doing this temporarily to save money to finish my education. In the last ten years I have missed work once and that's only because I was violently puking and worked in the food industry at the time. There have been a few occasions when I was told to leave early however.
/r/MGTOW09/09/19 01:14 AM
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MGTOW doesn't necessarily equal pro-choice. I, for one, have gone full monkmode but am pro-life. I guess I've gone monkmode in a near literal sense.
/r/MGTOW09/09/19 01:02 AM
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Before my separation from my ex wife she went on a week to her native country to see family. She she got back she was mad at me that I did not write all over social media about how much I missed her. I wasn't one to even write much on social media. But I didn't write it because I did not miss her. She was hateful and abusive. Of course I didn't miss that. Even while she was gone she was a pain as she hid my computer cables so I couldn't play video games while she was laying out on a tropical bea…
/r/MGTOW08/09/19 08:58 AM
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3.5 years to the time of separation, 4.5 otherwise
/r/MGTOW02/09/19 12:06 AM
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On one of my ex wife's violent episodes she stated "the police are going to believe me before they believe you." Believing that she was probably right I began recording audio and video any time she'd act up. Every time the police were called, I was the one who called (though they usually just told me to leave until she calmed down). I wrote about specific events in detail. Thankfully I never had to use my evidence but I believe it was necessary.
/r/MGTOW01/09/19 04:52 PM
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Thankfully not. She was so ready to move on to her new guy that she wanted the divorce as quickly and easily as possible. The only thing we even fought over as far as possessions was our Netflix account. I won.
/r/MGTOW01/09/19 02:08 PM
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Reminds me of my ex-wife. Before we were even divorced she was engaged to somebody else. She was married and pregnant only a few months after our divorce.
/r/MGTOW01/09/19 12:02 PM
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My ex wife got mad at me because I didn't fight to try to keep her after she decided to see someone else. If she can't be faithful to me then why should I try to save our marriage?
/r/MGTOW24/08/19 01:26 AM
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My ex wife tried to spend every dime we had on traveling. We visited various foreign countries and various states. Yet now she's married to an illegal immigrant who can't return to the states if he leaves and I have been traveling across the country as a truck driver. Oh, and my savings is many times over what it ever was with her. After we separated, I wanted to go on a road trip and so I got my CDL. Now I get paid to go on road trips.
/r/MGTOW24/08/19 01:24 AM
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My divorce and becoming a truck driver has taught me so much about this. I'm not where I want to be with it yet but I'm getting there.
/r/MGTOW17/08/19 11:33 PM
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Would she be willing to do the same for him?
/r/MGTOW15/08/19 02:30 PM
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Fair enough. Sometimes I get excited and become a little pushy.
/r/MGTOW15/08/19 11:53 AM
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Unfortunately, this has been my experience in every relationship I've had. Half the time it was with someone I had called my friend.
/r/MGTOW15/08/19 11:50 AM
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Regarding Christianity there are passages that speaks specifically about not doing that. What you speak of is a twisted version of Christianity and not Christianity itself. A person is not a Christian in a right standing before God if he lives a life of habitual and unrepentant sin. Simply saying a prayer is not enough.
/r/MGTOW15/08/19 11:45 AM
2

I would argue that pregnancy and STD rates are so high not because people are too religious but because they are not religious enough. The religious South is made up of hypocrites.
/r/MGTOW15/08/19 11:24 AM
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For the fourth point, it could be said as "similar value system" which could mean religion, non-religion, or politics.
/r/MGTOW15/08/19 11:05 AM
3

In my story, I was the nice guy they got married to a latina. She then tried to turn me into a machismo. It didn't work and so she left me for a coworker, an illegal immigrant who was sleeping around with her other married coworkers. They immediately got married upon our divorce. I wonder how well that's going to work out for her.
/r/MGTOW10/08/19 01:48 PM
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I have been divorced for less than a year and yet my savings now is 12x what it was when we were together. Who'd have thought.
/r/MGTOW10/08/19 09:07 AM
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With a will you can designate where your money goes.
/r/MGTOW04/08/19 12:58 PM
2

I have not but I can clearly see just from a quick browse a lot there is specific to my situation. Though, I don't know that I can look at it for long. I can't handle it. It's like having flashbacks.
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 01:11 AM
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I had no choice. I didn't leave by choice but she literally threw all of my stuff out of the house and told me to live in the street. The reasoning? On my day off from work I tended to the yard rather than cleaned the kitchen. I kept trying to make things work. She was only ever disrespectful after that. I'd make a date, she'd leave once she got her food. I'd set up a counseling appointment, she'd not go. At some point, she told me, "give me my money or your family will regret it." At that time …
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 10:11 AM
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I hear a lot of talk like this and about loan forgiveness. But not paying off a debt feels like making an agreement with a handshake with your fingers crossed. I say that as one who desires to owe no one anything. Debt is a slave driver I refuse to keep.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 03:07 AM
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I agree and I admit I have contributed to the conversation being so much about women, specifically my ex wife. I'll work to do my part to change that.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 03:02 AM
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Good point. They are not.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 03:01 AM
4

My ex wife was of a different race than my own. That alone rebukes several of your claims.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 02:54 AM
7

Some have said all men are dogs but apparently that is good criteria for marriage.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 02:29 AM
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Record everything. Protect yourself.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 02:17 AM
2

I have learned to not talk about it. Anyone who knows me personally knows the difficulties surrounding my divorce and understand why I would prefer to be single. But they think my desire to stay single is just a phase and that I'll eventually find someone respectful. And so, I do talk to them about a lot but I've learned what lines to not cross.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 02:16 AM
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I once thought we understood one another. That is, until someone else understood her, if you catch my meaning. Denial can be a powerful thing.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 02:03 AM
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I had to call the police on my ex wife multiple times when she'd become violent. Usually they would tell me to leave and that she was "acting out in fear." Yet usually she would try to hurt me when I was sitting down or not even facing her. Eventually it was a common enough occurrence that I'd just leave and sleep in my car. I began keeping spare clothes and an air mattress in my car for the occasion.
/r/MGTOW31/07/19 01:56 AM
1

I couldn't even watch all of it. It reminded me too much of when I was married. I've been told I have some form of ptsd from my marriage. No doubt.
/r/MGTOW30/07/19 07:14 PM
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Thank you and you are 100% correct about my situation.
/r/MGTOW29/07/19 02:00 PM
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That depends. I'm a company driver and was trained by that company. I had no pay during training and so I only needed a month's bills worth of savings beforehand. My training cost was taken out of my check for the first year. Some companies do not charge for training and you can get training at community colleges (which is expensive). Also, as a company driver, I do not own my truck. I am not responsible for its maintenance. That means I'm paid less but I have less risk and less stress. If you w…
/r/MGTOW29/07/19 10:42 AM
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Been there. Adored my wife but she became abusive and unfaithful. She was engaged to someone else before we were even divorced and she married immediately after. When we separated she told me that she'd rather me be homeless, living on the street, than with her. Funnily enough, I got a much higher paying job as a trucker and live in my truck. My savings is now skyrocketing with my income and lack of bills.
/r/MGTOW29/07/19 09:14 AM
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I wish my dad was still around. When he passed I was having marital problems though he didn't realize the extent. After he passed my now ex wife would say things like "your dead dad would be ashamed of you." Eventually I left. She was engaged to someone else before we were even divorced. I would give anything to see my dad happy that I'm no longer in that abusive marriage. My mom tells me how worried about me he used to be. I miss him.
/r/MGTOW27/07/19 10:59 PM
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Unfortunately, that's not the worst of it.
/r/MGTOW18/07/19 10:40 PM
3

My ex wife didn't like how I did not act as happy all the time after my grandmother and dad died.
/r/MGTOW18/07/19 07:19 PM
1

When I was 12 I took sex ed as the only guy in the class. It suuucked. The teacher constantly singled me out and made me feal super awkward.
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 11:50 AM
2

A few days ago I ordered a bunch of stuff to build my own drone. Back when I was married, I never would have even mentioned my desire to make a such a thing.
/r/MGTOW14/07/19 03:01 PM
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I had called the police on my ex wife multiple times. It was normal for them to tell me to leave the house and that she "acted out of fear." Yet my worst injuries from her was when I was sitting down or when my back was facing her.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 09:11 AM
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I learned to use different accounts for different places. I have been in other subreddits talking about my marriage failing, the physical and emotional abuse I endured, and how my religious faith has struggled. It's inevitable that someone will give a response similar to "what did you do to deserve it?" after seeing I post here too. This is my "venting" account.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 12:56 AM
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I definitely empathize. She would get so excited when she would sell $25 worth of jewelry. She seemed to not take into account $15 of that amount was to purchase the inventory.
/r/MGTOW27/06/19 07:50 PM
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My ex wife got into stuff like this, selling jewelry. Basically, you bought a bunch of cheap jewelry and sold it for $5 each. The agreement we made was that she could buy $100 worth and she could use the profit to buy more. I didn't want her to invest too much and then not sell enough. I also expected her sales would die off once she made the rounds to all her friends and family members. After she sold a few items she ended up buying about $500 worth without consulting me "because it was on sale…
/r/MGTOW27/06/19 06:55 PM
5

My ex wife seems to have had this mentality. She was mad at me for being mad at her for cheating while not being mad at her affair partner. Sure, it's crappy what he did but he's not the one who made a commitment to me to be faithful to me.
/r/MGTOW24/06/19 08:23 PM
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I have found that my motivations for many decisions has been influenced by whether or not she would hate the idea. I have since shaved my head, grown out my beard, gotten a commercial driver's license, bought a kayak, bought a gaming laptop, etc.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 06:50 PM
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As everything was going down I knew that this could be a possibility for me as well. For better or worse, I resorted to video games and isolation.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 06:08 PM
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I do agree. To be completely transparent, when on my way home from work I would catch myself thinking about the best way to involve myself in a deadly car wreck.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 05:22 PM
4

She definitely made her affair obvious to everybody who knew us. This means I have faced zero judgement from others.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 05:12 PM
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I definitely agree it could have gone a lot worse.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 05:08 PM
6

My ex wife used to complain about how I wasn't as positive of a person after my grandmother and dad died. Um, yeah.
/r/MGTOW18/06/19 02:27 PM
25

This is the main reason I knew my marriage was over. It's not the horrible things she said. It's not the physical abuse. It's not even the infidelity. It was her inability to admit wrongdoing. Reconciliation is impossible if I'm the only one perceived to be at fault.
/r/MGTOW16/06/19 12:50 PM
7

This is my story. Our honeymoon was a mission trip. We did ministry together. We told people about Jesus. We served others. But she eventually became abusive and unfaithful. I did everything I had been told to show my love for her. But she eventually wanted a different type of guy: one less conservative who was more exciting in her eyes. She left me for a coworker and married him immediately after out divorce was final.
/r/MGTOW11/06/19 11:39 AM
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Sure, /r/MGTOW does talk about women. But /r/atheism also talks about God. Part of talking about where you are going is knowing where you've been.
/r/MGTOW03/06/19 02:06 AM
13

Actually, that I think about it, put me I an entirely different alphabet.
/r/MGTOW03/06/19 01:37 AM
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If these are the definitions then I'll take the last letter, omega, because I want to be as far away from this as possible.
/r/MGTOW03/06/19 01:30 AM
13

I have always been naive and believed in the basic goodness of humanity. Then I got married. I believed I hit the jackpot. A year-and-a-half later what's the first time she kicked me. She started throwing things at me. She started hitting me with objects. She made me believe that it was my fault. Eventually she started seeing a co-worker and wanted a divorce. They are now married.
/r/MGTOW02/06/19 03:38 PM
9

Ex wife told me I'd be homeless and living on the streets without her. As a OTR truck driver, I guess she was technically telling the truth. Haha
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 08:16 PM
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I'm definitely a follower of /r/financialindependence and do plan to retire early. Though I think I'd be fine abroad, given my travels, I would not want to live farther than a few states away from my family.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 07:03 PM
1

The guy she married was an instigator for our troubles for a year or two before we ever separated. She wanted to so quickly move on to him that she made the divorce amicable.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 01:23 PM
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I kept hope that things could be restored for the longest time. But her remarrying truly puts the nail on the coffin. There is no going back
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 01:21 PM
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While I do see its benefit, I do prefer the monk mode way.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 12:46 PM
5

My ex wife obsessed over me putting product in my hair to help it from thinning and she was very particular about my facial hair. She hated the concept of a mustache and wanted me to have the chinstrap deal. I also hated paying for hair cuts and was tired of unwanted recommendations on how to thicken my hair. Shortly after I gave up on my marriage due to her abuse and infidelity, I started shaving my head bald and growing out my beard.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 10:28 AM
5

Well this sure is personal to my own life. I have always been nievely optimistic about people. My ex-wife decided to put an end to that.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 03:47 AM
5

Be content with who you are. That's what I had to do. Normal isn't for everyone. I have learned that it's not for me and I'm satisfied with that. My own mental problems relate heavily to me being too codependent and having dealt with abuse in my failed marriage. Even from a non-MGTOW perspective I need to work on my single life.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 03:41 AM
3

Thank you. I cannot express my gratitude for my new life.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 03:31 AM
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I do want kids though. Maybe I'll settle for young goats.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 03:30 AM
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They were coworkers and though I do not know if anything was going on with them at first, there were rumers around their job. Eventually they were so close she referred to him as her best friend and she'd do overtime at work to be with him rather than coming home to me. After our separation, they officially started dating. They were engaged before we were even divorced.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 03:29 AM
22

Definitely. I've got a sunburn from the kayak I just bought. Haha
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 03:22 AM
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No kidding. I was her second marriage too. She's now on number 3 at 32. And he was known for sleeping with the married women at my ex-wife's work before they became a thing. They are destined for a brilliant marriage.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 03:21 AM
7

No worries there. I now lack the desire and the ability to have a relationship.
/r/MGTOW28/05/19 03:19 AM
2

I agree and I have been doing all of this a lot more lately. For once, I feel like I can make decisions on my own. I fear the concept of another relationship because I don't want this newfound individually taken away.
/r/MGTOW20/04/19 01:52 PM
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I have mostly dealt with philosophy as it relates to religion. I'd take the book codes if I had time to read them but I do not unfortunately. Audiobooks are about all I have time for.
/r/MGTOW20/04/19 01:50 PM
1

I'm not in disagreement. She's like that still today but I've learned how to more healthily interact with her without being manipulated.
/r/MGTOW20/04/19 01:49 PM
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