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I've done a lot to improve but I've never reached the level where I'm attractive enough for women. It is something I genuinely wanted to do but I'm not a very good looking guy so I've never really had that opportunity to ever do anything romantic before unfortunately.
/r/seduction07/07/24 02:02 AM
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As someone who's never been good looking enough for women or had the opportinity tp have sex, this is kind of refreshing to hear to be honest. Chased my dreams and achieved many goals and I feel I spent my time the best I could given the bad circumstances of my upbringing. Sure it would have been nice at some point to have been able to go on a date or something but overall I shouldn't feel I have anything ti prove like you said. I was still able to live my life.
/r/seduction06/07/24 08:22 PM
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Maybe it's possible but I haven't reached that point yet. As I mentioned I will keep going and will keep going down my road and keep working. That's really all I can do, either put the work in and get better or just stop trying. I see them, and yea if women consider them good looking then I can't really day much considering I haven't reached that level yet. Would be hypocritical of me to call anyone ugly given what I look like. And especially if those guys are considered hot by women there's not…
/r/seduction06/07/24 08:17 PM
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Yes I do. I think every person should. Absolutely, I've done a lot to overcome many hardships, especially growing up that I feel I wouldn't have persevered through if I didn't have pride in myself. I'm not sure what you mean by this. I would guess I have my life to share. My home, experiences I would like to have with someone and share things with. Yes, a few I would say. I have a couple of life goals I've yet to reach that I'm actively working towards.
/r/seduction06/07/24 07:51 PM
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Yes I think someone once told me I could compensate for my looks. Not sure why I believed it, wishful thinking I guess. Do you understand what I’m saying? Honestly not sure what you mean about the ribbon thing. Are you big Edd or Shawn levels ugly ? Not sure what you mean. I mean you are to some. As much as I genuinely want that to be true, I've actually never had any woman consider me attractive before.
/r/seduction06/07/24 07:46 PM
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Well I've personally never had any woman consider me attractive before so it isn't really a perception thing it's more of a reality for me unfortunately.
/r/seduction06/07/24 04:22 PM
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Ok, I understand what you're saying. There is a long road ahead of me, I get that, I think it's just me who thought if I worked hard enough and improved that maybe it would compensate for my looks. But that's on me just assuming things to be totally honest, I can accept that. I didn't mean to put words in your mouth, I'm just trying to make sense of things. Ok I’m positive you are stupid. We may disagree but me continuing my improvement and making myself better I don't see it as stupid. Look, my…
/r/seduction06/07/24 04:19 PM
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then claiming that a man having a relationship proves he has good looks. I not really understanding. If a guy is good looking enough for women to where he's able to be in a relationship ship, how can you day he's ugly when women do not consider him ugly? Idk, maybe to me a guy who gets dates, women and gets married can't really qualify as ugly because if he was he wouldn't have that amount of succes with women wanting him? I've taken an absurd initial premise (that women literally will not date …
/r/seduction06/07/24 03:23 PM
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Well no because the definition of ugly would be a person who isn't attractive. Obviously a woman isn't going to date someone that is not attractive. So if this man has a wife then he clearly can get women. There are men who are not on his level of looks to date let alone marry. You may disagree but clearly women don't, him having a wife pretty much proves it. There is basically no longer any such thing as a NOT good-looking person, because basically any level of looks is sufficient to attract a …
/r/seduction06/07/24 03:02 PM
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Ok, I just don't know if someone would qualify as ugly when he's attractive to women lol. I think the definition is pretty solid. If you're a guy who women clearly like enough to want to date you, you're by definition not ugly because if you actually were they wouldn't date you obviously.
/r/seduction06/07/24 02:49 PM
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I mean if a guy is good looking enough to get women, I find it kind of hard to call him ugly no? By definition the guy isn't ugly because he's obviously good looking enough that women want him.
/r/seduction06/07/24 02:44 PM
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Well I'm not sure if it is that simple. On one hand there's people who day looks do 100% matter but then another person such as yourself says that looks don't matter? You can see why it can be confusing. There is no such thing. Sorry. I know you want an excuse to suck, but there is 0 way you are disgusting enough for women to not like you. I only say this because I've never had any woman consider me attractive before in my life so I can't really say that there is 0 way it's possible considering …
/r/seduction06/07/24 02:42 PM
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I'm not sure about that. How can a guy be considered ugly when he's good looking enough for women to find him attractive?
/r/seduction06/07/24 02:29 PM
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Difference is that for men if you're not good looking then you don't get to date. Women don't ever have to worry about looks because men are attracted to all kinds of women. That's why women can date easily because they will go after the top 1% of men. Someone like myself who isn't good looking enough for women doesn't really have an option.
/r/seduction06/07/24 11:52 AM
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So if looks do matter then what could be done for a guy who isn't good looking enough for women? I don't really understand.
/r/seduction06/07/24 11:48 AM
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I'm currently contemplating plastic surgery myself. I've never been good looking guy enough for women before so surgery really seems like the only viable option at this point if it's ever going to happen. Would you recommend it for a guy who isn't good looking enough to be attractive to women?
/r/seduction06/07/24 11:46 AM
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I'm 32m. Never had any woman consider me attractive enough to ever date or kiss or do anything romantic before so I've never had the opportunity. Unfortunately I'm not a good looking guy myself so kinda just drew the short end of the straw when it comes to genes. I wish I was able to have experienced it.
/r/seduction03/07/24 12:37 PM
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I do go out, not too much to clubs but bars yes. It's never dark enough to think it will conceal my entire face lol. It would have to be pitch black or something considering what I look like. I'm in the US, but I travel to Europe to visit family occasionally.
/r/seduction28/06/24 01:30 PM
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To be fair if those men are good looking enough to date women then by default I don't think they qualify as being not attractive no? I've done pretty much what I can to improve and focus on things that are within my control barring an extreme options such as plastic surgery. Which I'm not entirely convinced of considering my age but I always have it as an option if I ever want to be serious about going on a date someday. I understand the part about just going out making friends and simply enjoyi…
/r/seduction28/06/24 01:27 PM
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I mean if you're doing decently then I'm not sure if you'd qualify to call yourself ugly lol. If women think you're good looking enough to date then by definition you're not ugly in the slightest, if you were then women wouldn't date you. Doing all I can to improve, lost weight, going to the gym, had to redo my wardrobe a few times because of weight loss, but there's only so much I can do to compensate for what I look like. I guess I would qualify under the hideous category as you put it. So the…
/r/seduction28/06/24 01:18 PM
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Well yea, I guess you can consider my face wrecked lol. I've only considered plastic surgery because what other recourse do I really have? Just weighing all possible options if I ever want to go on a date someday. Not entirely sure if I'd go through with it given my age but it's definitely an option depending on how badly I want to one day be good looking enough for women.
/r/seduction28/06/24 01:12 PM
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I mean could someone qualify as an "ugly ape" when they're still good looking enough to be attractive to women? I'm talking more about guys who don't have good looks that women don't find attractive enough to consider dating. I've never had any woman consider me attractive before so unfortunately I'd fall in the latter category.
/r/seduction28/06/24 01:09 PM
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I guess I'm not really sure if I'm good looking enough for game to work? I have pictures I can dm you, maybe you'll be able to tell.
/r/seduction27/06/24 09:20 PM
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Ok, I'm doing what I can to improve and I was hoping by my age now that maybe I would have met women's standards by now but it hasn't happened. My goal was to go on a date or kiss someone one day. Not really sure what to do other than maybe plastic surgery but I don't really know if that will work at my age.
/r/seduction27/06/24 09:06 PM
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Do you have any advice for a guy who isn't good looking enough for women? I've never had any woman consider me attractive before.
/r/seduction27/06/24 08:58 PM
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Any advice for someone who isn't good looking enough for women and never had a woman consider him attractive before?
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:16 PM
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As a guy who never was able to date I really admire guys like.you who are able to do it naturally. Being able to just date to geteexperience sounds insane but for normal guys it's just another thing to do.
/r/seduction25/04/24 09:22 AM
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Is any of this applicable to someone who isn't good looking to women?
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:33 AM
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Yea, I remember someone talking to me here about how statistically not every man will be able to get a woman due the population and it kinda made more sense that people with the strongest and best genes are going to be the ones who women will choose logically. I can definitely at least say I did everything I could to get a date and focused on what I had control over in hopes that I'd get to that level to be able to date and stuff. But as you said, some guys just aren't cut out to be good enough …
/r/seduction20/03/24 11:42 PM
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Generally yes, I have enjoyable times with friends, etc. I guess right now I have been contemplating whether or not I'm cut out for women and dating and if it's worth me putting in as much effort as I have.
/r/seduction19/03/24 04:11 PM
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Idk if I'd qualify as a fit body. I've lost a lot of weight and am continuing my workouts weekly. Groom daily sort of have to for work.
/r/seduction19/03/24 02:37 PM
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As long as you're good looking enough lol.
/r/seduction19/03/24 09:44 AM
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I started working on myself to improve my life and my value after conversing with some more experienced men on here. I set out a goal to one day be able to go on a date. I focused on what I had control over and did what I could to change myself for the better. Now I sort of feel I might just not be cut out for this, the whole women and dating thing. I'm 32 and feel like if I haven't reached women's standards by now I'm thinking I might just not be that type of man that women like in a romantic w…
/r/seduction19/03/24 09:28 AM
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The moment you start focusing on yourself work out, dress well, eat healthy, take care of your body, work on your self esteem etc, then women will naturally gravitate towards you, because you actually have something to offer and are attractive to them. I was told this a few years ago and since doing all of this I haven't had any luck with being mote attractive than when I started.
/r/seduction19/03/24 09:24 AM
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I understand but reading a book about sex when I've never had a woman even consider me attractive enough to just date is kind of counter intuitive no? I remember part of the action plan was to simply get a date. Like he heavily glosses over it, I understand it's normal for regular men to just get dates but I don't think he took into consideration men who aren't good looking into the equation. A man who isn't attractive enough for women isnt really gonna be able to follow his instructions as if h…
/r/seduction09/02/24 10:57 PM
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I'll look into surgery, that might be the only real recourse and maybe the only actual solution to my situation. So far when it comes to women my only issue is that I've never had any woman consider me attractive before so for me the issue has solely been that I'm unfortunately just not good looking enough to date. I hate to use the word ugly but facing facts I do qualify as ugly based off of what women think. Well I've began self improvement at 27 and I'm 32 now. So about 5 years of work that I…
/r/seduction09/02/24 10:12 PM
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I've always known ugly men would struggle but I never dawned on me that it would be a lifelong thing. I always figured maybe one day there would be at least one person who liked me in a romantic way but that never did end up happening. And now that I'm actively trying to improve myself and become better I'm only learning that it's kinda all in vain as all the work I've done hasnt really made me any more attractive than when I started. I just turned 32, and never had any woman consider me attract…
/r/seduction09/02/24 09:25 PM
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I only mention it because I've never had any woman consider me attractive before in my life so I've never really been in that situation before. All that matters is that the woman you're approaching finds you attractive That's kinda where I'm stuck, I've never met a woman who considered me attractive so I don't know what the recourse is for "approach" when I'm not attractive to women.
/r/seduction09/02/24 05:41 PM
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Is that something you think would work for someone that women don't find attractive? It's hard to know what applies and what doesn't given that I'm not a good looking guy.
/r/seduction09/02/24 05:32 PM
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What would be considered indirect? After reading your 6th paragraph I don't believe I really qualify to apply this advice. I've put in a lot of work to become attractive, so far it hasn't had any impact at all of my attractiveness, I believe I still have a very, very long road to go before I reach my personal goals. I only hope that by the time I'm done maybe I'll be attractive enough for women at that point.
/r/seduction09/02/24 04:37 PM
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Does any of this apply if you're a person who isn't attractive to women?
/r/seduction09/02/24 04:24 PM
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I definitely want to improve. All I can do is keep working on myself and hope that one day I'll meet a woman's standards and I'll be able to go on a date someday. I've changed my bucket list so many times, first it was get a girlfriend, then it was have sex, then a first kiss and then it was to go on my first date but as I'm at an older age I'm just starting to think I'm simply not cut out for women, dating and romance, etc. I want to say I have faith but after never being attractive enough for …
/r/seduction09/02/24 04:03 PM
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Oh I'm not like body builder or anything. I've mostly lost a lot of weight and worked on my heart rate and cardio. My physique isn't anything like yours.
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:55 PM
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I guess when u mean enough I mean being "enough" for women to consider me attractive enough to date. Clearly I haven't reached that point yet considering a woman hasn't found me attractive before in my life. I notice that the people in relationships are attractive enough to obviously get women, that's the point that I wish to reach at some point in my life one day. I'm not a very good looking guy so I would never really discrimate any woman in terms of "standards". If I ever had the chance to go…
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:52 PM
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I'll keep going. I started working on myself to make me more attractive to women but since that never did end up happening, now I just do it for myself because my doctor has been praising my health. I'm striving for similar numbers. I'm 32 years old.
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:47 PM
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No I definitely don't hate women. It's only logical that women would want the best value men possible. It's kinda on me to improve and be good enough to date women in the first place. Doing my best to work on myself but even after years of improvement, I still haven't really reached that point to where I'm considered attractive by women enough to date or anything.
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:41 PM
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I understand that but I've never had any woman consider me attractive before. So in terms of sales I guess I would say that my product has never been a good enough value for anyone to ever consider purchasing it. You have to have a product that's good enough for the market first in order to even sell it. That's why I'm doing my best to improve so that one day I can reach those standards.
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:29 PM
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I mean I've never had this sentiment towards me by any woman before. Verbal or otherwise.
/r/seduction09/02/24 03:19 PM
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You have to understand though that when a guy like yourself who is attractive to women is saying looks aren't important then it kind of has no meaning. I've never had any woman consider me attractive before in my life so to someone like me who is not good looking, I'm living proof that looks are top priory above all when it comes to whether or not you're attractive.
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:49 AM
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Do you know what the thewshokd is for attractiveness to qualify for being able to date at that point? I can post my lift numbers but I'm not at where I want to be yet, I've done a pot to improve myself but I don't believe I've reached women's standards yet as I've never really had any woman consider me attractive before. I don't really think the whole don't be a creep/respect thing works as I practice that and it's good for just being a generally good person but it doesn't seem to really mean an…
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:25 AM
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What if you're not an attractive guy though? I'm not very attractive as I've never had any woman consider me attractive before so I would not really qualify to do what you're saying. That's why I feel people give the advise of working on yourself to become better. My goal is to become the best version of me possible and keep working my ass off on myself so that one day I will be able to qualify and date women just like you're saying in your post.
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:20 AM
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What if I'm not a Chad though? I'm not a very attractive guy as I've never had any woman consider me attractive before. So in my case what other options do I have other than to improve and work on myself? My goal is to improve myself and become the best version of me possible so that one day I will be able to reach women's standards and I'll be able to date one day just like attractive guys go on dates. How else can I realistically reach that standard if I don't work on myself? I have two option…
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:17 AM
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I don't think any of that is true to be honest. I'm a very good listener but I've never had any woman consider me attractive or ever consider me sexy before.
/r/seduction09/02/24 11:01 AM
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Man, I started lifting and losing weight myself. I'm on the older side but trying to improve anyways. Seeing your post just makes me want to quit honestly lol. I don't think I have any chance of even competing with guys like you if your pic is anything to go by....
/r/seduction09/02/24 10:59 AM
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As a guy who's dream is to one day be able to go on a date with a woman, this is both very depressing and fun to read at the same time lol. Thanks for sharing your flex.
/r/seduction05/02/24 12:27 PM
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