| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -1 | What’s happening when you start going to the gym?Self care, self commitment leads to you believing in yourself more which leads to a more confident presentation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Why do you find dating hard?Don't worry I do......like I said this is why I'm single and dating is hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do you find dating hard?Always open about this. Lots of men think it will b different with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do you find dating hard?Before we create an intimacy n a level of trust in each other. - is too quickly Of course, touching n kissing happens. You can't help it when you're physically attracted to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 12:58 PM |
| 18 | Why do you find dating hard?The biggest struggle for me now is men wanting to get physical quickly. I've literally had men say they don't think I'm into them because I want to get to know them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Every woman is a gold digger…This is the answer right here. Yet op doesn't reply to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.You figure out what the partner would give you that you are not giving yourself. Then give yourself that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.What is the need not being meet that needs to be subsidized by a woman? Same answer for whatever it is, healthy people find ways to meet their own needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.Would you not think IFS - internal family systems would be bias in this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.I am always sooo confused when this comes up n man can only say but SEX......if sex is a need of yours like another need you must find a way to satisfy it yourself. Solo sex is amazing but completely different then waiting on a pic/video to excite you enough to start pulling. The happiest relationships are when two whole people come together to help eacothers lives. If one of these people does not know how to handle their needs alone they will not be able to communicate it thoroughly in a relati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.Not sure where you got this......unmarried women are the happiest subgroup of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 01:50 AM |
| 19 | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenThe main thing being disagreed about here is the submission part. You say you mean non argumentative. I see lots of comments asking you to give examples of what you mean by non-argumentative vs submission but no direct answer? If this is meant to be a discussion, why not answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 11:55 AM |
| 8 | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenActually, a woman with such a low bmi will suffer later in life by looking older in the face. Fat is needed to keep the youthful appearance. Well, the levels of the typical American do not amount to this a bmi of 21-24 while lifting weights and/or other exercises will not only make a woman feel better physically, but it will also help to prevent premature aging signed french women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 11:43 AM |
| 6 | The friendzone, as so many men see it, Does. Not. Exist.. Women almost immediately know if a guy is a total nope.I am only not clicking on the link as I already understand some people say one thing and move a different way. This is one of the reasons I prefer to get to know someone first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 02:58 PM |
| 8 | The friendzone, as so many men see it, Does. Not. Exist.. Women almost immediately know if a guy is a total nope.As a women that does not enjoy hook up culture. This is one of the main reasons I am single. So many man believe I can't find them attractive if I do not want to be physical right away. What happen to getting to know someone? If we can not laugh, enjoy some of the same things and our values are not in line there is no point in introducing the physical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Rethinking Consent: Addressing the Complexities of Rape Culture and Moving Beyond "No Means No"My issue is that this is how harmful ideology continues. Trying to make something as simple as a no into a thought practice leads to more people being injured in the process. Communicating that there may be other reason she says no instead of she said no - continues to create these situations until everyone understands no means no. Which should not be hard to understand. You even say how to teach women to progressive from a soft no to a more assertive no. I don't care if sex could of came out of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 12:38 AM |
| 4 | Rethinking Consent: Addressing the Complexities of Rape Culture and Moving Beyond "No Means No"The point of my answer is there is no complexity to discuss here. Women are teaching each other to be more assertive in what they want in dating - isn't that what most the fights are about in this group? Men could decide to teach each other no means no - no matter what the current social and thought patterns are. This is how we make progress as a society. We learn, we grow n change the harmful things that use to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 12:18 AM |
| 15 | Rethinking Consent: Addressing the Complexities of Rape Culture and Moving Beyond "No Means No"Do people commit acts that are immoral, wrong or hurt others and have a reason why they thought it was the right thing to do? Context: if you answer yes, you recognize that just cause you have reasons to do something ( social pressure, past situations, don't fully comprehend) this does not make it ok No means no - pressuring, trying to see if it's token restencence or any other thought/reason you have to make it not a no does not make it ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 11:55 PM |
| 4 | How would the dating world change if all men became happy/content being single?I agree with this......but also think there are a high number of people in relationships wasting years unhappy because they are scared of not having one. So maybe without the fear they would have more chance to meet the person who they could have a great relationship with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 01:19 AM |
| 20 | How would the dating world change if all men became happy/content being single?I think it would lead to a higher amount of happier partnerships. When you are open to dating but are happy single, you are more selective in who you invite in your life, resulting in a better outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships?They like you too soon, this is how you know they only like the idea of you. Being chased to be a girlfriend before they know who you are definitely makes you feel like an object. Bare some extreme things, it's like no matter who you are they would stay for the shell. Huge turnoff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:04 PM |
| 3 | How valid are womens fears of men?No, the women in this thread or in life are not talking about a specific scenario. We are cautious because of all the ways it can happen. Yes, a man can take steps to prevent this from happening at a higher chance than women. Yes, women do take steps to prevent this (agency and accountable). Crossing the street, not meeting men in private, watching/covering their drinks. Yet you're taking these kinda of steps as irrational. Tip: Find a woman or man who can think beyond their own life experiences… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 01:30 AM |
| 3 | How valid are womens fears of men?Not sure what kind of math your doing but as you first posted a women has 33% percent (i think it is more like 25%) chance of being raped none of the other stats drop it to 3% - the other stats are saying 45% of these rapes happen.....and 19.5% if these rapes are committed by...... False accusation suck n ruin lifes. If you have fear of this at 10% chance, imagine the chance being more then doubled or tripled by your stats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 12:21 AM |
| 10 | How valid are womens fears of men?Over half of women have experienced sa with 1 out of 4 women experiencing attempted or completed rape along with 1 out of 4 women experiencing extreme physical violence (strangling, beating) from an intimate partner. I hope that shows you the validation of these fears. But maybe this could help. If 1 out of 4 men were kicked in the balls during a date, would you take steps to help prevent it from happening to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 10:29 PM |
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