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This is so sad. She is absolutely gorgeous. Dump that idiot and find somebody better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 07:42 PM
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I second that recommendation. Don't be afraid to read it even if English isn't your first language and you aren't used to reading non fiction books. It's well written and easy to understand. Bancroft wasn't writing a book just so he could call himself a writer but because he honestly wants to educate people on the matter and hopefully protect some and that shows in his writing. I am a college student who mostly reads YA books and English is my second language but I had no problem reading and und…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 08:06 PM
35

They dropped the lawsuit. Probably because every lawyer laughed them out the door
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:31 PM
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I just came here to say this. But we should also consider the very real possibility that he is trying to alienate her from her family, because he is jealous of her relationship with them, of the time she spends with them, because she will be easier to control after her support network is cut off. She will be less likely to seek a divorce if she has no family apart from him, especially if he traps her with a kid. She sould check both his porn history about women who look like her sister and marri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:49 AM
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It isn't just competency. Women often are paid less than men, less likely to be given raised and promotions. They may leave the workforce for a few years when they have kids and then it will be harder for them to get a high earning job. So the husband will most likely be the primary breadwinner. In a lot of those different cultures women are also expected not to work after marriage or kids. Employers won't hire married women because they may get pregnant and will fire any woman that is expecting…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:19 PM
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May I add, a big clue is how their family treats you. If he has a decent relationship with them, then they will know if he is serious about you and will often act accordingly. With the exception of noMILs, they will usually include you in stuff, ask questions about your family, try to meet your family and friends, get to know you. If you are met with polite indifference and nobody makes an attempt to get close to you or welcome you, that is a sign that they don't believe your relationship will l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 12:50 PM
264

I hope I am never brainwashed enough to stay with a guy that would do this shit to my sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:26 PM
138

From what I understand, women literally can't win. If you stay with your abusive partner and something happens to the kids, you are blamed for it, reviled, possibly even charged. But it you try to leave, the courts will force you to send your children to stay alone with your abuser. If you try to protest they will brand you as vindictive, crazy, hysterical... and accuse you of parental alienation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 11:24 PM
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Moreover, splitting the bill is suddenly unfair when they are ordered to pay child support. For children they created on purpose and even claimed to want at the time too, not just surprise babies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:50 AM
60

Tbh I am surprised he is bothering to marry her at all. My bet is he wants to present a family man front to the often more conservative business world he is now a part of. That and he wants to have kids and she made it clear he would have to marry her for that. She has already been doing the wife's duties for almost a decade now without being married, why would he bother to make a legal commitment to her? He can easily upgrade a girlfriend but a wife will be slightly more difficult, so why go to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:10 PM
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I understand what you meant. I mean that those " marriages" weren't usually good for those women. Thus, we shouldn't say they longer commit because they were not committing. They were merely legally allowed to own and exploit those women. Now they are no longer legally allowed to control them and there are consequences to their behaviour they no longer want to get married. Who would have guessed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:14 AM
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Men were never committing the way you mean. In the past they could simply visit prostitutes and keep mistresses without their wives being able to protest, they could financially and physically abuse them and their children and they couldn't do anything about it. Moreover, women had almost no options apart from marriage, often arranged by family. And then they had no option but to keep having kids because there were no reliable methods of contraception or safe abortion and their husbands only tho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:47 AM
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Unfortunately I know a couple that got divorced and got a shared custody. 1 week mom - one week dad. The arrangement lasted for 8 months. Now he is allowed ten hours of supervised meetings a month. Part of the reason is that during winters he was working extra hours and he wanted to save money so there was no heat in the house when he wasn't there. His nine year old daughter was alone in a house without heat. He didn't drive her to school because it was only seven minutes on foot despite the fac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 09:39 AM
34

This needs to be higher. On the other part it's incredibly sad that women need plans so they can leave an abusive partner without dying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:58 PM
13

I do get blood on the toilet seat sometimes. But I immediately clean it. I can't imagine people like that exist. Don't they know the importance of hygiene?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:04 PM
5

I am not from the US, so I am not very familiar with what is happening there on regards to cases like this. But in my country several prominent actors an, athletes etc. have recently had people come forward to accuse them. One in particular had been a very important actor in the theatre and had several young men accuse him of assaulting them when they were still in their early teens. Said actor claims not to know the victims despite evidence clearly showing otherwise. The "what about male victim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 10:52 PM
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I am appalled. They married when she was nineteen! What was her family doing? My parents would never let this happen to me and I know I would have thanked them years down the line. On good news, she is still young. She has time to divorce his useless ass and live her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:09 AM
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And considering he only has a part time job and his girlfriend has a full time job and a part time job, guess who pays most of the expenses 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:51 PM
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Don't get me wrong, I agree. However, I am firmly of the opinion we can't celebrate this. We can't say things worked out for her. Because this is a pro life argument. Give the baby up for adoption or to the father or the family member who wants it and you won't have to be a mom. That narrative completely ignores the huge violation of bodily autonomy that is an unwanted pregnancy. If women celebrate this woman instead of being outraged at her being manipulated and coerced into giving birth and st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:51 PM
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What are you celebrating for? This isn't the big kind of own you think. She still got the short end of the stick. She still had to physically get through a pregnancy. Medical bills, extra food and clothes not to mention the impact on her ability to work and earn money or study. She still had to go through the extremely painful ordeal of giving birth to a child she didn't want. She still had to pay money to repair her body after pregnancy. She still has to pay child support for a child somebody e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:20 PM
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I didn't know how to do laundry until I got to college. That was because my mom always did the laundry and I always had clean clothes, pijamas and underwear. I was not neglected, on the contrary. After I went to college I realised how good I always had it back home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 10:10 PM
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Yep, often innocuous little comments can fuck up kids for life. Have you tried therapy? That part about you feeling undeserving of emotional connection if your partner is spending money on you is a recipe for you constantly being in toxic, even emotionally abusive relationships. Best of wishes to you 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:34 AM
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Also, if sleeping your way to the top was an easy thing that women regularly did, there would be, you know, more women in the top. But there aren't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:48 PM
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Even before FDS I knew that was hella dangerous. Now the red flags are so numerous, I can't see anything but red. Like I can't imagine WHY a woman would say yes. I mean, danger aside, what are they going to DO at a gas station? For fucks sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:49 PM
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I am having a very bad day right now. What sort of shitty excuse is that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:00 PM
6

So, if she kills him and collects his life support, it isn't murder if she doesn't define it as murder? Funny how people wouldn't agree with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:26 AM
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I am dying, the stupidity is killing me. My dad's friend is working as an anti-spy something though. He has a wife, a house, two kids in their twenties, many friends. That is why I would never believe those morons. Spy. Smh someone needs to stop watching TV and read a fucking book. Or at least go for a walk outside to observe people behaviour in the wild.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:10 AM
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I have a hard time blaming the video games for this. It seems like a cheap cop out of investigating the actual causes of brutal crimes perpetrated by, you guessed it, men. I played warlords battlecry three a lot in my mid-late teens. I loved it a lot. I never fantasised or planned to violently murder anybody, despite being bullied for my looks by the same guys for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:28 AM
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Get custody of your damn kids and she will be the one to pay child support. Ffs it's really that simple. Also, yes you f*cker you don't get a choice when a woman wants an abortion because she is the only one physically affected. Moreover frequently women victims of domestic violence are arrested and charged themselves when they fight back against their abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:10 PM
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Oh, I wasn't refering to what you thought. I meant society in general. It's widely accepted that should a couple divorce, mothers should have primary custody and as you said, men don't even ask for it. I was merely pointing out the stupidity and hypocrisy of the argument that family courts discriminate against dads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 12:33 AM
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I feel like an addition is necessary to your post. Part of the reason why everyone expects the mother to be the primary parent is because men never develop the skills needed to be a good primary parent, aren't even expected to. They don't know how to cook healthy meals. They don't keep their home clean. They don't make appointments with doctors or hairdressers or arrange playdates. They don't help with homework. If you want to have the most custody you should have to prove to the court that you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 05:21 PM
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Even EmPowErInG concepts are often male fantasies. I am not even talking about sex workers. I am talking about the token 'smart' woman, the sexy scientist that walks in with the answers, with the camera zooming on her and music playing to tell us that she is the sex interest. And then she becomes completely irrelevant, existing only for sex and drama purposes. I am a chemistry student, I have been in several labs by now. There are extremely strict safety measures. On our first day in the lab, we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:43 PM
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Unfortunately. There was even a post here about it. A boy had been sexually molested by his teacher (she performed oral sex on him) and a guy commented on how lucky the boy was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:04 PM
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Okay, but that's even worse. Hopefully, she is going to wake up to how harmful it is like I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:02 PM
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They even go in women's spaces to start the woe be men story. In Goodreads I was following a private discussion for YA fantasy books with female protagonists. You didn't need to be a woman to participate but you needed to recommend and discuss books with female protagonists. I kid you not, it felt like every day there was a different asshole complaining about how all our books had female leads o and what about boys. And we always had to respond that these was a discussion group for books with FE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:07 PM
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If you really want and feel ready to be a mom, you could go to a sperm donor clinic. I suggest you also try to get a therapist, preferably a woman. Don't try to force yourself to go on dates or get close with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:50 PM
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Holy fuck, that guy wouldn't leave it the fuck alone. He was in your story harassing you. And for what? Did he expect you to say that he is right, you changed your mind on something you feel strongly about, you will be happy to have BDSM sex with him? Idiot. Block him everywhere sis, he is arguing in bad faith and wasting your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:16 AM
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This 👆👆👆 Why would a woman, any woman, decide to have kids with a man who has proven himself a terrible father? Guy abandoned his sons, pretends his life with them never happened after he cheated on their mom. What makes a woman think he would be an involved, capable father she could depend on to help raise their kids into mature, independent, competent adults, any responsible parent's goal? He has already proven that he is willing to abandon his kids in the chance he gets divorced with the moth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:03 PM
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Exactly. If you think a person might be suicidal, don't send the cops. If you think they are trying to manipulate you, just hang up on them/walk away. If you think they might do it, try to call a social worker instead though I don't know how doable that is for your area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:22 AM
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The worst part was a comment claiming that men get post partum too. How??? I understand that holding a small, fragile, completely dependent on you for survival little human is terrifying. Nothing can fully prepare you for the sheer exhaustion of all those sleepless nights. But part of the reason women get post partum is that they got through extreme pain during childbirth, permanent changes in their body and then having to care for the baby. Not to mention the hormones. Men don't have that. A lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:03 PM
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Still worth a shot. Porn is really dangerous especially if you use it for information. At least any sexual education would tell them about STDS and pregnancy. A lot of young girls don't fully comprehend how easy it actually is to get pregnant and the devastating impact it could have on your life if you are not ready for a baby. IMO young women, 16+, should be given a lot more details on what to expect during a pregnancy, potential effects on their health etc, so they can a) understand more the n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:29 PM
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Umm, no. Sex work is often the only work women can do at the moment. That doesn't mean they like it or feel empowered. Those barely legal 18 year olds could be trying to secretly make money to escape an abusive situation.Parents or legal guardians could be threatening to kick them out if they don't contribute to the bills now they are 'adults'. They could be below the poverty level and acutely aware of how bad the family's financial situation is and this seems like the only option to pay for gro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 11:17 PM
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You are kidding 😮. No, I checked and apparently you aren't. Dear god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:24 PM
13

Okay, I am going to give myself away as person who either lives under a rock or in the other side of the world. I have no idea what is happening in the picture. Someone please tell me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 07:13 AM
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It's okay, buddy. We 'd also rather you get run over by a truck than date you. It will hurt less, too. For us,that is. Signed, a self proclaimed feminist who has a pink bedroom, loves stuffed animals and likes dressing femininely ( dresses and skirts) and wearing jewelry and make up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:28 PM
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And then he wouldn't have to worry about GoLDdiGeRS BabYtRAppInG him ... Seriously though,a condom is also necessary for avoiding STDS. Since he is so comfortable having unprotected sex with a girl he barely knows, then he definitely has unprotected sex regularly. He is not worth it. No condom no sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 02:16 PM
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I read that book. I had never thought this way before reading it but after I realised how much sense it made
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:35 PM
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What the hell is wrong with that people??? I literally have no words. That Library had been a source of knowledge for the ancient world, what kind of depraved idiot would even think of comparing it to porn videos that were taken down because they contained actual rape and child abuse??? Someone make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:56 AM
10

I would have asked for a divorce then and there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 05:25 PM
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Do it sis. This guy has been harassing for years after the break up and threatened to hurt you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:11 PM
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Well I just found out about that spot too. Sexual education and anatomy are pretty terrible, everywhere in the world, doubly so for women. If no-one tells you about it and it is considered taboo, then how will you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:05 PM
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Oh,yeah I think I was not clear on that. I mean that they will use every possible excuse to hate you. It doesn't matter if why you are a single mom, if you weren't then they would find another reason as to why you deserve to be hated and treated as lesser. I didn't mean any disrespect, I am sorry. You are being brave and doing what is best for you and your kids. I wish you the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 11:37 AM
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So, this was so heartbreaking for me to learn but I am extremely grateful I did. They don't hate you for being fat, ugly, needy, single mother, promiscuous or selfish. You are all these things because they hate you. They are simply excuses. Block and delete. You can't and should not waste a single moment of your time on these clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:36 PM
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Aren't these the same losers who told a guy to dump his fiance because she wouldn't do anal with him as she had with a previous boyfriend? Funny how women are automatically expected to engage with their current partner in every degrading painful sexual activity they have tried in the past but a woman can't expect her partner to give her a proper gift as he had done with his ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:08 AM
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My dad screams at the tv when he watches sports. The fucking tv. He isn't even in the stadium. My mom, my sister and I will be in our respective bedrooms and suddenly we will hear him scream. Unreal. My mom has never done that, I don't know of any woman that does that. I know a lot of men that do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:57 PM
5

This!!! What happened to proof? Why do they think Heard,who won the court case!, is the liar, but he is definitely telling the truth? Every time a woman makes an accusation it's InnOCeNT tILl PrOvEn GuILTy, but when a man claims he was abused, by a woman who has already proven in court that he abused her, then everyone comes out to defend him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 09:46 AM
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If she did it I would start a Go fund me for her. What a loser. It would have taken him less time to do the dishes than to take and print the picture. Why do they think this is okay? Where do they find the nerve? I guarantee you she cooked that meal they ate too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 10:49 PM
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Didn't know that was a thing. In my country we name children after grandparents. Father's side of the family takes priority, something that has been bothering me ever since I realised how much work pregnancy truly is. (Didn't get pregnant myself, just learned a bit more about it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:17 PM
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I never gave much stock to the soulmate thing. But I think the soulmate implies a mutual connection. So,if he married someone else he clearly doesn't feel it. Hence, you are not soulmates. Why do women do this to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:00 PM
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No, I don't even do this with friends. We go to cafe, ice cream shop, fast food restaurant and actually sit on a table. What even is a date in a parking lot? Would you think eating from a package in a parking lot would be a good way to catch up with a friend? Yeah, I thought so too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:54 PM
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Ok, story time. When my twin sister and I were little we used to fight all the time,at the drop of a hat (we are very close now, she is my best friend) During our fights as kids, we would both sometimes throw around the other's shoes, clothes, stuffed animals,etc. We completely understood what we were doing. We wanted to hurt each other and make work for each other. We were six and completely understood what we were doing when mistreating each other's things. And funniest thing, we both were pas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 05:06 PM
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Big Queen energy. I hope I have the courage to do the same if this happens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:07 PM
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I checked and it is one of the few times I feel actual hope in my heart. People are telling her to divorce and kick him to the curb. It looks like she is going to do it. Here's to hoping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:14 PM
10

I have always wondered too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:33 AM
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This is from the ' Why Does He Do That' right? That book was eye-opening. I always thought of abusers as people with issues that could get better with counseling and understanding and were perhaps victims themselves. Now I am far more certain that abusers are simply entitled and more people need to learn that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 10:59 PM
4

Yep, now I have been them too. Devine. For God's sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:29 AM
6

Really? I am not a native speaker so I didn't notice any mistakes. Perhaps I have read so many practically incoherent posts that I am physically incapable of noticing by now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:30 AM
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Incels are involuntarily celibate. You are refusing to have sex with the first asshole to proposition you because you are holding out for someone worth the time and effort. They obviously don't know what they are talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:52 PM
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What the fuck. How do people live like that. Doesn't he know a lot of diseases are caused by unhygienic environment. I am so glad you dumped him he was actually endangering your health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:09 AM
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Medical texts do sometimes contradict themselves or present facts in a manner that makes them seem contradictory. Sometimes the text is an older edition and some of the facts have been disproven, not to mention that medical texts and studies often, say always, use white men as the standard leading to difficulties diagnosing and treating women and men of colour. If you are a woman of colour you are doubly fucked. But I sincerely doupt that this asshole who can't even spell frustrated correctly is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:05 AM
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Funny how biological need for intimacy is never used as an excuse for women cheating. Suddenly they are adults that should have been able to control their biological needs and communicate with their SO instead of seeking intimacy elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:50 AM
3

So, when I first moved to an apartment, I only had a small sofa and a small living room table. The place looked empty and I felt lonely and missed my home even more. Then I got a new sofa,an armchair and rugs for the floor and they made all the difference. Maintaining a clean, comfortable living space is so incredibly important for people's mental health and productivity. My family bought the furniture for me. I understand most people aren't so lucky to have a family willing and able to support …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:45 AM
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I think girls develop language faster than boys because even as literal toddlers they are not afforded the same freedom boys are. Boys are allowed to run wild, scream, are given toys that push them to physically test themselves. Parents keep a much closer eye on girls, hold them, talk to them, show them off to visitors. So girls, due to more exposure, learn language faster and the behaviours they are taught are acceptable are different. So they are more quiet,play more sedate games, are less lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:25 PM
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Exactly. They just said that they don't give a fuck about us and see us as masturbation tools that they can later brag about using and then dare to act surprised and hurt when we decide, based on what they themselves said!, that we won't have casual sex with them anymore. Also,lol on the disgusting quotes. If he actually has any let him link them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:55 AM
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I think it should be assault. You are deliberately harming someone's health and quality of life, sometimes putting their life in actual danger. If he knew he had an STD and didn't disclose it to her and she caught it he should be held legally responsible for her suffering. People like that should be legally obligated to cover the medical bills for their partners and recompensate them for emotional damage suffered too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:57 AM
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People have always thought like this, unfortunately. Same like workers in a capitalist society who save for most of their lives until a medical emergency leaves them penniless, women think that by following the 'rules' they will have a good life. Until they wake up, if they are lucky and realise that the system is rigged against them. There isn't a way to win, a finite amount of sacrifices you make, clear, specific rules you can follow. By agreeing to play the game, try to be a good traditional …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:47 AM
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He slept with another co-worker before he knew her. What does it have to do with her? Why should she even know. The DUI is much more important. First he hid that he was in serious legal trouble. Second he is extremely careless with safety, his own and others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:24 PM
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You are right. You don't want to know. The comments were terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:06 PM
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I spend the first eighteen years of my life thinking that. I learned from the internet that the vagina and the urethra were two separate holes. The sexual education system continuously fails women. It is entirely possible that she thought she wouldn't need a rest period after a C-section. Also, if the scrote wants her to give head daily while trying to recover from childbirth, he better be prepared to feed the baby,burp it, change it and at least half of the house chores and cooking. But you kno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:24 PM
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You emotionally invest in the relationship before they show their true colours. Moreover, society still struggles to understand what death by a thousand cuts is. They are doing myriads of small things over the years without regard for you or to deliberately hurt you but any outsider who wasn't actually present tells you that you are overreacting. So you believe the problem is you and stay. Other reasons too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:49 AM
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I found the book on the internet in pdf form. So she doesn't even need to visit a library if she doesn't want to. She can just read it online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:11 PM
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I didn't mean to disparage the man writing long love letters to his fiance or wife. That is a sign of HV behaviour. I am mainly objecting to the idea that just because some men wrote these letters, those days were better, meaning safer, for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:23 AM
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I don't like this post. It implies that things were better for women in the past. They weren't. People only send this pictures because they are emboldened by internet's anonymity, which didn't exist back then. Otherwise, our grandmothers would also get unsolicited dick pics. Also，they didn't have rights to a divorce, there were practically no laws on rape and sexual assault or domestic violence. Posts like this, are actually propaganda against women's rights in my opinion. They are lamenting the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:58 AM
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Sir, this is a lioness. As in a female. Male lions don't hunt. They can't even make misogynistic meme's correctly. Please just go your own way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:19 PM
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I don't agree with all of you saying she should have an abortion. She clearly already cares for the baby and no woman should be pressured into an abortion because the father doesn't want it or he could use her for money. She loves the baby and is willing to care for them on her own, so clearly the best thing for her is to keep it. He shouldn't be allowed to take this from her. And just because the father is a piece of shit, it doesn't have an impact on who the child will grow up to be. Saying th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:54 AM
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'But did he hit you? What did you do/say to rile him up so much? Do you have actual proof he cheated? But that incident was so long ago,it might have been an one time mistake! Men are NaTUralLLy not good with chores/little kids,are you truly going to break up the family because of that?" Women constantly hear this from society. If not from relatives, from the media, acquaintances,etc. Women have a lot of internalised misogyny. Even with no fault divorce,we still have to justify our decision to l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:41 PM
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At this point,if you want the baby best thing is to break up and get child support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:26 PM
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We don't dress for them. Also, leggings are comfortable. Her classmates could simply not look. It's very easy not to be a pervert
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 11:24 PM
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Absolutely heartbreaking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:48 PM
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It's a wedding ring. I don't want a real diamond (artificially inflated prices and blood diamonds) and I don't want to spend an insane amount of money we could use for the wedding or a nice trip for our honeymoon. But I would like some effort. It's still a wedding ring. If you can't afford to spend some money on it,then maybe you should wait for marriage until you have some more savings and if you do have money and still by something so cheap and low quality? That's an indicative on how he will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:33 PM
4

I object to this post. This dog is so cute, offers unconditional love and companionship and can be trained. It doesns't deserve to be used as a stand in for these creeps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:28 PM
14

This is about the child. He clearly has the money. Child support is based on income. He is that kid's father,he should pay for it. Why do people act as if moms use child support money to go clubbing or something? They are spending them on the kids. Kids shouldn't suffer because daddy wants to bang but not deal 😂 the aftermath. And it is unfair to women to tell them, you either have an abortion even if you want the kid, or you raise it alone because daddy doesn't feel like taking responsibility
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:21 PM
7

In the same vein why should your wife have to give birth to your children or look after the house,since the previous girls you had sex with didn't have to. Because you know he is not a virgin. And he probably doesn't have money for marriage either. The most bitter men, that claim they would say no,are the ones that are usually never asked in the first place. Also, what paycheck? Doesn't the bride's family give the dowry? Lmao. Also,DiVOrsE rApE. Perhaps if you don't lay hands on her, cheat on he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:10 PM
31

If men were so visual they would sweep and mop the floors more regularly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:56 AM
38

Well, I am not a mom so don't give a lot of weight to my advice. But I really think you should talk to your daughter about sending nudes. Get it through to her that she should NEVER EVER send one. Not if he is the most handsome man she has ever seen, not if he is a really nice guy, not when she is madly in love with him. The friend encouraging her to send these pictures is also a cause for concern imo. However, I don't agree with you telling her the boy is gay. He could be legitimately not inter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:19 PM
30

I don't understand what exactly is the point of this post. The man who wrote it is clearly condemning this behaviour. People are simply agreeing with him. It's incredibly frustrating that people need a man to affirm that a behaviour is disgusting before they condemn it but that isn't this particular man's fault
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:10 PM
25

She wants to date a guy her age without the added complications of kids. She is twenty two years old! She doesn't want to be a step mom to kids yet. Is that too much to ask? That's her only two non-negotiable requirements. That and a potential partner not trying to force a religion on her. The bar is in hell and they keep harassing her until she drops it even lower,oh my god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:44 AM
2

Tbh, I would have left him the moment he started saying shit about my kid. But I can also understand why she didn't? People say a lot of shit they don't mean during fights and she claims this isn't usual behaviour for him. So, he either dropped the mask or he is usually subtle enough that she didn't realize what he was actually doing. Probably the latter. In why does he do that, it says that often the gaslighting makes them feel like the bad guys and that they are hysterical and overreacting dur…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:54 PM
16

Not just her ex was a LVM. Those officers are also pieces of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:35 AM
50

I think she is bothered by their complete lack of regard for their health. It's important to stay hydrated and nothing else will beat water and it's importance to the human body. Nothing kills romance and even respect for another adult than having to literally remind them over and over again to take care of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:03 PM
2

This doesn't feel like a woman writing it. Women, traditional wives, would be happy to have their man consider them as she claims her fiance does. "I do all these things and he treats me like a goddess!" They would be boasting. This post simultaneously disses feminists who raise their daughters to not be a man's maid, also feminists do cook and clean and are as feminine they want, and subtly tries to get women to lessen their demands. Period pain in the post could easily be replaced by any sort …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 03:39 PM
10

I am mainly making fried easy foods,super unhealthy, I know, I just don't have time. I am very scared of the oil burning me. You couldn't PAY me enough to cook in front of the stove naked. It is dangerous and uncomfortable and I am not going to sacrifice my safety for a guy to get a boner. Also, he is asking her to cook,does he cook? And what kind of meals does each of them make? If he is frying some chicken nuggets while she makes proper healthy, more expensive meals then they are not sharing e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:26 AM
24

I was ready to say exactly that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:21 PM
33

As opposed to women,who always worked to support the family, unless they were upper class or something, and at the same time were expected to cook,clean, provide sex and be the sole caretakers of their children. Women always worked. In the field, as maids,in the family shop,as seamstresses and tailors. Their labour was just severely undervalued. And now they are also expected to do more. Yes,dear men, you are expected to parent your kids, cook once or twice a week and perhaps sweep the floors so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:12 AM
103

More like adult women try to stop men from taking advantage of young girls' inexperience. Someone bottle and sell the confidence of a middle aged man with a beer belly who thinks a nineteen year old girl would even look at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:49 AM
13

During quarantine I signed in at Goodreads because I wanted to get back to reading books and I thought a reading challenge and keeping track of books I had read and wanted to read would help me. I made an effort to find books written by women, especially women of colour, with female protagonists. The discussions were all about people complaining that there were no male protagonists and how were boys expected to read if they weren't represented in the books? Diversity is a thing after all, appare…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 09:35 PM
2

This particular double standard is infuriating. What also bothers me is how the mistress is always blamed even more than the cheater. Homewrecker, slut,whore,why? He made the decision to cheat. If it wasn't that particular woman it would be another, the problem is him. While I don't approve of women starting relationships with men they know are married, have girlfriends etc, for obvious reasons, they still are not really at fault. It's up to the person in the relationship to stay not up to other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:52 PM
26

My dad would read to me when I was young so he could get me into reading. He would watch movies with me, he would tell me facts about our solar system and the planets. And yes, he would occasionally have me sit there and watch him play video games. He also taught me to ride a bike. This man's parenting feels a little lazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 11:07 AM
35

Don't take a cheater back. Yes,there is a chance they are genuinely remorseful and will never do it again. But how do you know that? That the next time things are hard,he won't cheat again? Are you supposed to become his servant in all but name and bend over backwards to keep him happy so he won't be tempted and constantly wonder if he has kept his promise? Or are you supposed to snoop in his phone, computer and constantly check where he is and with whom and be accused of being paranoid, control…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:20 AM
8

I used to watch too. I mainly stopped after I came across several videos that made me really uncomfortable, because of the degrading treatment women were given in them. Now I am glad I did. I can't imagine people watching them and thinking they are hot. All my desire had immediately abandoned me after I had watched some of the 'hardcore' porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 09:23 PM
77

Unfortunately, they would survive. Her husband is perfectly capable of packing. He didn't do it because he expected his wife to do it. If she wasn't there he would have packed for himself, that's for sure. He just thinks that now he has a mommy wife he should no longer have to do this things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:01 AM
23

I read that book. It wasn't a particularly easy read (English isn't my first language) but I am so glad I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:00 PM
1

I am dying to read the responses. Please send link to me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:41 PM
7

How? How? Again, because it needs to be repeated, how??? Has he never met real life women before? Hasn't he slept or played hooky through every biology class and sex ed lesson on high school? I have seen some really bad takes but women lactating when they are horny is unreal. This post wouldn't be out of place in bad women's anatomy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:50 AM
19

Are you me? Because this describes me perfectly at that age? Seriously, have these guys ever met an eleven year old?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:38 PM
6

What an asshole. No,these women aren't Karens, they protested the objectification of women. Two women that are far more accomplished and well known than these scrotes will ever be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:09 PM
7

🤦 The guy is watching racist, degrading black porn and then tried to force his girlfriend to enact his racist porn fantasies. He thought she might like it based on racist, hurtful stereotypes and then asked for a break because he had grown up in a very racist community, but look at him now! He is dating a black woman! He has worked through all of his racism! Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:36 AM
34

Imagine using the picture of a woman hurt by police thugs while protesting a minority's rights to justify your misogyny. What is going through those men's minds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:24 PM
51

He isn't porn sick, just racist. It is important we identify racism and call it out. The whole black women rough sex has its routes in slavery. The girl dumped him and I am so relieved for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:19 PM
9

Yes, men do become better. But what about those women? Don't they have lives too, dreams that don't include bettering a man? Notice that Janes-the-builders are not mentioned at all. A lot of the men though go at r/relationship and redpill asking for advice on upgrading the girlfriends who helped them realise their potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:05 PM
12

That's because FDS tells us not to tolerate abuse and mistreatment of any kind,vet our partners so we know they will be supportive spouses and fathers and advises us not to settle for men that use us for company and sex but hold no real interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:18 PM
17

Petition for hospitals to deny a ventilator to every man(and woman, though I am happy there are significantly less of those) who doesn't wear a mask because he believes he can swordfight Covid with his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 03:01 PM
21

I suppose she had originally been excited and eager to be with him and then she was too embarrassed to tell him his place grossed her out. Women, unfortunately, have been conditioned by society to ignore theory instics and not be demanding. She probably felt like she couldn't say no. Not even because of fear, but because society has also taught women that there circumstances where saying no is completely unreasonable. It's not her fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:06 PM
7

Spaghetti is the probably one of the easiest foods in the world. If he couldn't even put them in the stove, not even cook them himself!, I would have had a fit and broke the relationship up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:49 AM
21

This is next level abusive shit. She needs to dump him, yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 07:36 PM
11

That's pretty much what Lundy Croft's 'Why does he do that' said. Reality provides that guy all the credibility and proof he needs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:18 AM
17

If this is a legitimate complaint from players and not just this dude trying to get attention,then those guys are the biggest 🤡🤡 in existence. They are seriously going to risk their health, their partner's health and the health of the staff to just get laid. Smh. Those players are quarantining in a huge place, with amenities I didn't have access to even pre Covid and they still get paid, so they don't have to worry about anything. I also quarantined for three months. During those three months I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:10 PM
3

How long did the conversation last before he announced that you were never that great or memorable either and made a disparaging comment about you or your younger self?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:27 PM
13

My mom has been to zero car accidents vs my dad's three. One wasn't his fault, but still. In my school all the boys who had a motorcycle would constantly appear injured, skinned legs, broken or sprained limbs,one almost died. From the girls riding motorcycles though, there was only one incident,where a girl had gotten roadburn after falling off. Most of the road rage incidents are caused by men. The myth about women being poor drivers is just projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:47 AM
12

I think you missed an opportunity there. You could have gone with the"Who is this?"route and when he reminds you what an important and irreplaceable part of your life he used to be, you would proceed to recall all your mutual friends and various school events but still insist you don't remember him. How quickly do you think he would have thrown an internet tantrum?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:25 PM
57

I don't understand this. Like, they can't get pregnant,but don't they worry about STD 's at all? And for all their crying and complaining about the evil women trapping them and forcing them to provide child support, one would expect them to be more eager to wear a condom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:34 PM
21

I think people get so upset about dogs because of how convenient it is to advocate for them. They don't ask you why you didn't call the police, why you are still friends with the person who abused them, don't force you to confront your own misogyny and/ or entitlement. They aren't angry when you pity them and try to help them with thoughts and prayers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 07:42 PM
8

I read the update. She broke up with him and took the dogs. Way to go girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 04:07 PM
23

I feel so sorry for her. No sis you shouldn't cry or beg him to listen. The first moment your boyfriend tells you you are cheap or easy, you tell him' Obviously since I am with you, but that ends now!' and you throw him to the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 06:45 AM
99

' Have you ever been with a caring, generous and assertive white man' I think I vomited a little in my mouth. The audacity. No pal, she spent her entire life waiting for you to grace her with your presence and do her the favour of fucking her. Also, 'white man'. As if by being a white man he is so far above what you could do, you should jump immediately on his bed out of sheer gratitude he considered you,a black woman, worthy of his attention. Throw him in the trash,where he belongs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 06:40 AM
5

I will never understand this! She was furious and betrayed, but she should have killed HIM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:51 PM
3

Jeesus I had the same problems at fourteen. Didn't he see the list when she gave it to him? Why didn't he ask then, before he left? Why didn't he ask an employee? Why didn't he Google it? That's what I did at fourteen. This is on purpose ladies. He kept pestering her to the point where she felt it would be easier to go herself than guide him through it. He is going to use this as an excuse to never do the groceries again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:01 AM
11

Tell your friend to call the police. It sounds like he is grooming that little girl. Also, I know this is probably the last thing you want to think about, but you need to seriously consider the possibility your children aren't safe with him even if they are boys. He may not necessarily sexually assault them but he could potentially force them to watch porn with him or one of those vile videos about how to sexual assault women. He could frame it as bonding activity, making them afraid to disappoi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 06:11 PM
3

If that was my son I would have died of embarrassment. And if that was my daughter I would have killed that kid. Why, just why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:34 PM
17

This could possibly be me speaking as a white woman, but I don't feel that any arguing should be necessary and any person willing to argue will always do so in bad faith. Your worth as a person, anyone's worth,is not up for debate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:16 PM
38

Choosing beggars. I wish I had their confidence sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:59 PM
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I don't really know about this. I mean, he is not legally or financially responsible for her, from what I understand it is kinda like having a niece. He is involved in the child's life, to the point where the moms want. Was there a reason he should have told her earlier? Just because he was biologically that little girl's father? Why? Four months in is usually when relationships start getting serious and she would naturally start meeting family so it makes some sense he told her now? Again, he i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:38 PM
3

This ridiculousness is on par with the guy getting drenched because he refused to carry an umbrella, only much more serious. Why are men like this. She literally had to put her own health at risk, so he could see a doctor for his debilitating pain. I don't like doctors and hospitals freak me out. But if it got to the point where I couldn't move and my own kids were begging me to seek help bc they were worried then I would suck it up and go. A lot of men, father, grandfathers, cousin,are like thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:04 PM
32

My insecurities involve wondering if the skin rash I am suffering from is an early sign of skin cancer(my dad has it) but thank you for sharing your opinion on my life. It's not appreciated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:56 PM
6

Well,if you aren't rich what exactly are you offering buddy? Want kids. Jfc why? Assuming his by now defective sperm somehow produced a healthy child, he would probably die before the kid reached their teens? What was he doing all these years if he wanted kids??? Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:54 PM
10

Nope. It's Greece. I am not sure where the tradition comes from, but it seems to me to be pretty stupid and unfair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 11:07 AM
5

She is unconventionally attractive? How??? She is beautiful. Did she turn down the idiot writing the article or what??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:17 AM
20

I, strangely don't have an issue with surnames, because there is another one I take more offense at. In my country, children take their grandparents names. The first two children take the paternal grandparents names and the next two the maternals'. I took ,as first, my paternal grandmother's name and my sister my maternal grandmother's. Then later my mother's younger brother got married,had kids and named his son,first kid, after his father. When second kid was born, girl, my aunt decided that s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:14 AM
9

Child support is based on income and it is a lot less than what you would have to pay if you were raising the kid. He doesn't have to be a parent, just spend a small portion of his paycheck towards the little life he helped create. Women bear the entire burden of pregnancy. It's not right or fair that a man can nope out of his financial responsibilities just because he told her to have an abortion because abortion is still a serious medical procedure that may have unintended health consequences …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:20 AM
89

Shh, don't you know we have to pretend that all men have huge dicks? Men are so sensitive about it!/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:08 PM
17

Probably not. Rapists are very rarely arrested charged and convicted, so it is extremely unlikely anyone would bother to prosecute a man "merely" for touching or groping a woman. That's is the world we live in, unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:06 PM
7

Well they clean, they cook, they raise their kids. A lot the time they contribute financially. They are far more likely to stick by a sick partner, they often play free therapist and sex doll for them. I hope I answered her question and she gets picked. Maybe after putting up with a LVM or two she will see things our way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:53 AM
0

Sorry, I don't speak this language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 06:39 AM
3

This feels so odd. Dude, it's an umbrella. Why would you feel self conscious carrying an umbrella? At worst, you won't have to use it. Who would even make fun of him for having an umbrella with him? This is extremely immature behaviour. Why do men insist that simple grown up things, like carrying an umbrella, going to the doctor, following safety rules are stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:57 PM
6

'Emotionally unavailable'. We should make a game of guessing if the man in question is either looking for a free bangmaid or already married/in commited relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 02:33 PM
73

Hello, twenty year old here. I only learned a few months ago where I was supposed to pay my water bills. I had never taken public transportation alone till a year ago. Women in their thirties telling me to never get involved with a guy ten years older than me aren't infantilising me they are protecting me. Dear incel, fuck off. But not literally, I wouldn't wish him on any woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:02 PM
4

What the fuck? I am not Irish, have never been to Ireland but I am pretty sure it is not the norm. In my country it is super important that guests are happy with your hospitality. The house must be clean, you must have snacks and something for them to drink and if they stay longer you make arrangements for dinner. If she was just a friend visiting would he even dare ask her for money? What the hell?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:15 PM
90

I am in my very early twenties. The idea repulses me. I am still in school (college), have never had a job because my parents support me till I finish my education. I don't have a driver's license. I haven't had a serious adult relationship yet. I have little to none experience about balancing my finances because my parents pay the bills and just give me spending money. But tell me how a thirty something year old man would want me because biology and not because my age and lack of experience wou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 06:28 AM
5

This isn't his mother's fault. I know misogyny and blaming women (mothers) for men's poor behaviour is extremely normalised and internalised by women,but we need to fight against this sort of social conditioning. He is much more likely to have learned this behaviour by his father or other men that played a key role in his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 07:41 PM
2

The age gap bothers me a lot. And calling her a spoiled brat because her parents are paying for med school is completely out of line. However I can understand a little of the resentment because I have also experienced it with close friends. Your partner buying, with their parents money, a laptop that costs three months of your rent, that would make anybody feel bad. I have never struggled but have always been very conscious about what I spend and where, so a laptop so expensive would be an unima…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 08:08 PM
12

When I was in middle school and afterwards high school, I had several classmates, girls, that had older boyfriends and I used to be so jealous. I remember wishing l was pretty and mature enough to get a guy like that. Hindsight is really 20/20. I wish I could tell my younger self how damaging her fantasy was and how much trouble it could cause.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:26 AM
33

I recently finished reading Why does he do that by Lundy Croft. A part that stayed with me is where he says that if the abuser blacked out and destroyed only your own stuff then he didn't black out and he meant it. You don't do this shit on accident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:10 AM
52

Imagine thinking that teaching boys that hitting girls (or other boys) is oppression. How??? School isn't designed for girls, how did they even come to that conclusion? Also, if a household is fatherless, it is usually the father's fault. Children who grow up without fathers it is almost always because he disappeared to avoid his responsibilities,was abusive, or he never bothered to pursue custody after divorce. That is the man's fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:53 PM
7

I would break up with him just for the cum dump comment. Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't tolerate cheating either, but insulting and dehumanising the woman you cheated with so you can earn forgiveness? Get the fuck out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:11 AM
14

I feel sick reading this. Sis, it's not your fault! You shouldn't have to remind a man to feed his own baby, he should fucking know this already!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 05:46 PM
91

They broke up. Pheww. I am so happy this story has a happy ending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 05:46 AM
20

Hey I was wondering that too. Somebody please tell me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 05:43 AM
3

Kindness is a discipline. It doesn't always come easy. People try hard to be kind. That isn't what these scrotes are doing. They aren't trying to be kind and fall sort on occasion, as is only natural because nobody can be nice and thoughtful all the time. Their kindness is obviously manipulative, self serving and abandoned the minute they take what they want or it becomes clear they won't get what they want by putting on a kindness show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:48 PM
12

Dear Pickmeishas and LVMs, repeat after me. People change because they want to. You can't love them better. You can support them through an honest effort to change, but you can't make the decision for them. And ultimately,if you attempt to change for a partner, the change is likely to be superficial and fall apart quickly. You change for yourself, because you want to. Anything else, you are doomed to fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:37 PM
22

I am so glad women like her exist. I seriously hope if I am ever in her place I will be able to do the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 07:59 AM
34

So, her useless scrote is not only watching porn, trying to lie and gaslight her when she finds out but he is also using money from their shared account??? Like these are her money too. He is blowing their money on porn when they have other legitimate needs. He is practically stealing from her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:14 PM
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Yes, the homewrecker label always bothered me. Like, I can't understand why a woman would start an affair with a married man- what can this relationship truly offer? But the onus for cheating is on him. She wasn't responsible for his marriage, he was. It's up to him to stay a faithful husband, not on her not to tempt him. He made the decision to destroy his marriage. He should be the 'homewrecker'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 12:08 PM
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Women can be predators, can be unfaithful and they can be toxic partners. However, a man saying that his ex was crazy should always give his current girlfriend pause. The clear disrespect, calling her crazy, means something is wrong. Also a woman should consider why he says that. What does he stand to gain by telling his new girlfriend how his previous one had issues? Her sympathy,desire to prove she is 'not like other girls'. He is planning to use the trauma of the previous relationship as an e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 09:13 PM
24

Holy fuck, most of the commenters are insensitive monsters. It doesn't matter how many times she had anal with how many different men. She has decided she doesn't want to do it anymore. He isn't entitled to any part of her body because he is her fiance. Just because she had anal with another guy doesn't mean she is now obligated to do it with him too. She doesn't want to do it and it is her body. Why do his insecurities matter more than her desire to not engage in a sexual act she has decided,af…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 11:50 AM
3

Yes, that. Men who spend a lot of time doing hard physical labor will not age very well. It isn't their fault, I know several women who also do physical labor and didn't age well. But a lot of men that go Muh the Wall do not have the labor excuse. They just think taking care of yourself is feminine and/or gay and then call you used up roastie when it you tell them how truly unattractive they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 11:39 AM
5

I am so sorry. At least he is finally out of your life. I hope you didn't have children with his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:45 PM
14

I will so glad she decided not to give him another chance and went to the police. I am so relieved on her behalf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:45 PM
38

Preach sister. Every time I have ever dressed up and gone out with mixed company it was always the girls that complimented each other. Guys just wouldn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:49 PM
8

This is so incredibly fucked up. I am in my very early twenties and I cannot imagine dating a fourteen year old boy. They are just little kids. He knew the law forbids sexual relationships with a 15 year old and he still did it. And if he was truly just a little over eighteen and she was fifteen then something must have truly been off, because laws like that exist to protect children from old pedophiles.If they had a couple years difference and the girl said it was consensual, the cops would hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:06 AM
25

Refuses to wear a condom??? Then kick him the fuck out! Why are women always expected to take full responsibility for a potential pregnancy? And then if you get an abortion you are a whore and a murderer and if you have the baby and ask for child support you are a whore and a gold digger! Like,bro, he is the one who refused to wear a condom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:18 PM
3

Med School in my country has extremely high standards. You need a very high score to get in. So do the best schools out there. Oddly enough, nobody is telling Oxford, Harvard or any other school to lower their standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:05 PM
13

I learned how to use the stove when I was fourteen because my mom picked a different shift at her job and wouldn't come home till hours after I came back from school. Some time later my mom had some friends come over and at some point one of the women's son called to ask her when she was coming back because they were hungry. He was at least three years older than me! Couldn't he serve himself or order out on his own? The sad part is that my mom's friend actually left a short while afterwards so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 11:13 AM
6

This part about name and legacy kills me every time. In the past men were absolutely obsessed with having a son to continue the family but those were the men who actually had something for their offspring to inherit. Kings,dukes,lords, estate holders. The idiots that bring up legacy today don't have anything, not even money to cover the expenses for the maternity clothes,extra food and what the back will need. They view the baby as a toy. And then complaining their wife left them for no reason (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:01 AM
3

What the fuck. He is still young at 19 but I still can't help but wonder if he actually understands what pregnancy is. This is my main hang up on this. Men are perfectly capable of raising children not theirs, stepchildren, adopted children etc. But this isn't about kids, it's about a kink. Does he not realise that this pregnancy will result in an actual human being, dependent on him for 18 years? He is trying to impose his own fantasies on his girlfriend and, if she caves, on a an actual child.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:21 AM
46

Imagine needing to explain to an adult why a clean living space benefits them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 03:32 PM
1

I never said he shouldn't be paying anything. If he doesn't pay rent he should definitely pay for other utility bills. He definitely shouldn't be allowed to stay there for free, unless he does all the work in the house. But he probably doesn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 11:00 AM
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I once found a woman's post about how her husband had thrown a fit over being asked to buy the groceries because she was pregnant and was nauseous. He wouldn't even accept a list she had to go with him! And then he gave her the cold shoulder for the rest of the day! I commented telling her that he was a giant manchild and if he wouldn't wake up and start pulling his own weight she should consider a divorce before the baby was born so she wouldn't need to parent him too. My comment was deleted an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 10:54 AM
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Yes officer, this guy right there. No, children aren't property. They are vulnerable members of society that parents and the government have an obligation to protect. Jfc. No a toddler cannot consent to sex, they don't even know what you are talking about. But I do and I would happily see you rot in jail or at least in a watch list with the officer in charge regularly updating any people in your life with kids about your perverted behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 06:43 AM
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This is such bullshit. Women fought for this rights. What gave men the right to grant women freedom? They are the ones who denied us the right in the first place, even if they had just granted us the right out of the goodness of their hearts, which they didn't, they still wouldn't be deserving of thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 06:24 AM
9

Same. At nine my breasts hadn't formed, I had no idea what a vagina was,how it was supposed to look and hadn't even heard of the word period. And now nine year olds want a labiaplasty? What the fuck? That is not normal. And apparently porn is the main reason behind it. What the hell are their parents doing? Somebody call CPS, nine year olds shouldn't even know what porn is, let alone have such influence in their lives it negatively impacts their body image. Jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 06:15 AM
6

Or she could leave him and find a man that won't cheat or abuse her. Jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 07:11 PM
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And the idea of effortless attractiveness can actually damage a woman's self esteem. I spent years hating my looks because I was supposed to just be beautiful and shouldn't have to spend time or money in looking good. Kill this ridiculous myth already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 07:06 PM
3

Yet again, the evil woman's fault. Every time the mother is blamed. Where the hell is the father in all this? Why do men get a pass? They have just as much influence in the child's life,why does noone try to hold them accountable for their sons' shitty behaviour? Not to mention the countless other external influences on a child. But it is always the mother's fault for some reason. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:42 PM
50

I had already decided to never take nudes even before I was interested in a relationship due to discomfort and body image issues. Now I realise how easy it would be for somebody to manipulate me using this exact issues to give him nudes. Reading your advice and everything that could happen I am never going to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 09:02 AM
3

I did show him the book. Told him other stuff he could look up too. He was convinced that it was a conspiracy. The argument had started by me telling him that 99 percent of DNA was the same in all humans and behaviours weren't coded in the DNA. So racism and ignorance were playing an equal part in the argument.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 04:40 PM
12

Yeah. Funniest thing- that classmate wasn't even taking biology. He still felt he knew better and his arguments were so sound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:35 AM
31

I had an argument once with a male classmate about biology. At a certain point he straight up asked me if evolution is real why are there still apes. This poem sums up the experience perfectly. The last line especially- it killed me. I am definitely going to look for more of her poems
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:24 AM
5

Wait-for real? I mean, not this post but do men truly believe that vegan women don't cum or have periods?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:26 AM
18

Of course, no side effects at all. Merely the risk of pregnancy and STDs and the knowledge that your partner is a selfish fuckboy that prioritised his weenee over potential dangers to your health. If she stays pregnant she should one hundred percent force him to pay for her abortion or child support for the next 18 years. Also, she didn't consent to unprotected sex. The moment he removed the condom her consent was null and this had become assault. This fucking simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 07:21 AM
4

Fake mugshot? My god why would people think that's attractive? Yes joking about having a police record will totally turn a woman on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:17 PM
35

Perhaps it's because it's so late and I am in need of sleep,but now I am actually curious as to what he was thinking. After 25 years? Wtf? I hope you answered with a 'Who is this?' before blocking him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:12 PM
8

Whoever made this- I love you. It is honestly amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 11:09 PM
2

I never really thought of aging as men vs women thing. Still don't. There are some people, Vera Wang possibly one of them, that have some very good genes and therefore seem a lot younger than they are. Mostly I think it has to do with how you live and how well you care for yourself. Women,at least women in the West world that lead easier lives than their eastern counterparts, age better because they actually take care of themselves. Men instead believe the myth about ' silver foxes ' and thus ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:46 PM
2

What the fuck. They ruined a little kid's wish for the sake of their depravity. Why are they such creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 07:48 AM
2

What a loser. Bet he will look sixty before he even hits forty. Stupid too. You practically roasted him and he kept coming back for more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 12:09 PM
20

Men know exactly what they are doing. The classmates throwing pieces of paper at me, snapping my bra straps and harassing me with sexual innuendos and jokes, the man who had revved his car at my sister and I when we were dressed up for a party and forced us to run across the street in genuine fear he would run us over, the guy who catcalled me in the street embarrassing me in front of strangers, they all knew exactly what they were doing. My classmates never did these things in front of a teache…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 06:26 AM
14

They are too stupid to consider this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:33 PM
39

If he truly loved his wife he wouldn't have cheated on her. Recreate the spark. As if! The woman deserves better than a guy got bored with her after she gave him her youth and so went looking for a sugar baby. I am also happy the other woman refused to be his sugar baby, though I can't understand why she would entertain him in the first place. What can a married man twice her age offer a woman in her twenties? He would just use her for sex and excitement and then leave her and if the affair was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:12 PM
3

I know. My right to have sex whenever I want, with whoever I want, but also my right not to have sex for whatever reason. Many women don't want to become intimate and vulnerable with a man they just met and don't really know anything about. They shouldn't be shamed for keeping themselves safe and having boundaries, especially since Gigi Engle knows he dump and slut shame them for having the sex he probably pressured,cajoled and negged into. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:59 AM
38

Too many words to simply say that women won't fuck him. At least he hasn't made any glaring grammar mistakes. Smh. What is wrong with men like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 08:30 PM
0

No, I don't even know what that means. Sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 09:55 AM
2

I really don't know what I would do in such a case. On one hand, I am afraid they won't believe me, I am not sure how I would even approach her and I am afraid that people would blame me for the couple breaking up. On the other hand,if my partner was cheating on me I would want to be told. I hope I never find myself in this position.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:12 PM
20

So, to see if I understand it correctly, she is staying at the house with three kids all day and works all night because HE doesn't make any money and this scrote has the gall to complain about her not cleaning or cooking? When does she sleep? Imagine complaining about having to clean the house YOU live in and cook for YOUR kids some days a week! And act as if you are doing your wife,who is now the breadwinner,a favour! She should also start complaining about him not making any money, order him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:59 AM
23

I called it in a previous comment, didn't I? Women always call out, shame and demand women pedophiles be punished for molesting little kids. It's men that always claim the girl liked it, provoked the rapist,or the boy was'lucky'. The fuck is wrong with that woman who molested the boy and the fuck is wrong with these self proclaimed'men' who claim the little kid was lucky to be molested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:02 PM
7

I think I would prefer a lab diamond too. The diamond trade is super unethical and the price is artificially inflated and I have better things to spend money on. That being said, I would like an actually nice lab diamond, preferably pick it myself and the ring band should be of good quality. You are only getting married once, the engagement ring is a symbol. It shouldn't be terribly expensive, unless he is super rich, but they shouldn't cheapen out on you like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:10 AM
5

But men are providers! Smh. I think she should keep the money. He hasn't been sending her money for their kid, so surely he was better off financially than her,who had to provide for their kid on her own. His kid was his obligation, his wife isn't her own obligation though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:03 AM
12

BuT wOMeN aRE GoLDdiGgInG CunTS, you can't trust them, like sure John, sure. Men are the real gold-diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 08:53 AM
3

And then, when you are finally exhausted and at the end of your rope and ask for a divorce, they argue that they shouldn't need to pay alimony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 04:52 PM
11

You did so good. Used his own laziness and stupidity against him. I hope you are safe now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:26 AM
17

I started preschool early so I was gone in the mornings and my dad worked afternoons and evenings. He still managed to spend time with me and my sister. And when he switched jobs and started working mornings , he spent even more time with us. He wasn't perfect but he made an effort to be a parent. I don't understand what is wrong with men who agree to have a kid with their wife and expect her to care for it while they just watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:21 AM
11

I sure hope you put the old creep in his place. Scrote not only had the audacity to hit on a girl young enough to be his daughter, he had the nerve to tell you,a nineteen year old that was just starting life, that YOUR clock was ticking. And actually thought this would be a good way to get you to fuck him. Lol,by asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:10 AM
50

He didn't betray his daughter just by cheating on her mom. He also betrayed her because she was a newborn when he decided to ruin their family. His kid was just born. He should be there with his daughter, getting to know the tiny human he helped create and wanted to exist. Instead he was cheating on his wife who had recently given birth and was probably running herself ragged looking after the baby. He was neglecting his own daughter, who had just come into existence, because he wanted to get hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:05 AM
23

Of all the genuinely funny people I know only one of them is a guy. The rest are women. Men only got the reputation that they are funny because women were taught to stroke their egos and that meant laughing at lame jokes. And now they believe they are all master comedians, even when their jokes are lame,or even racist and misogynistic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:55 PM
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I would likely a link to it and the comments, though honestly I am a little afraid of what I am going to find.I am so happy to finally learn about a woman that did as she should and dumped her cheating SO. What the hell should she stay for? So he could cheat again? Or so she would end up paying for child support for the children of her husband's sidechicks? Not to mention that in the vows people promise to 'forsake all others'. Her husband broke his vows to be faithful and so her own vows should…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:03 PM
19

Definitely. If my dad found out a forty year old man was pursuing me at nineteen he would have killed the guy. This shit ain't normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:18 PM
10

Oh my god. I am terribly sorry you went through that. I can't imagine living with the fear that your porn addicted husband could molest your daughters. And worst thing is, when you try to raise concerns about it,to family, friends, the judge during divorce, they are all like : BuT ThaT iS fANtaSy! TheSe GIrlS aRE NoT aCTUallly UNderAGe! POrN iS nAtuRaL! MUh BiOLOgY! I hope you got your daughters as far away from him as you could
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:50 AM
26

I am a hundred percent convinced that the police should be monitoring the guys watching this sort of porn. Especially if these guys have children or underage sisters. These guys are predators. They will escalate eventually. I firmly believe that any women that see their partners watch this sort of porn should immediately divorce them, make sure they have not done anything to their kids, including forcing them to watch this porn with them and then limit their access to the kids as much as possibl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:51 PM
8

What the fuck did I just read? LGBT people have every right to have kids, even biological kids of their own. But this,this is just going to hurt poor women. It is going to open the door to exploitation of a lot of women. A pregnancy is always a huge deal, even if you are having the baby for somebody else. You don't suddenly stop being a mother,those months you spend growing a human inside you and the effects they had on your body, your physical and mental health, don't just disappear. Adoption i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 05:52 PM
31

I have no idea who either of them is, but I don't feel gleeful reading this. In my country we have this saying' Whoever digs another's grave will eventually fall in himself as well' This is glaring proof of that saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 05:35 PM
6

Come on ladies,he isn't so bad! He was willing to compromise! He would allow her to change HER body, provided she doesn't change it too much! How magnanimous of him! She is having severe pain but obviously her own comfort and health is nowhere as important as his dick!/ sarcasm obviously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 05:30 PM
6

I am not sure I agree with this. I get where you are all coming from, but I firmly believe you should live with a person before deciding to marry him. Marriage brings legal and financial obligations to your spouse and divorce can often be costly and messy. What if the man has gross habits you didn't know about, or doesn't respect your boundaries while living together, or you simply can't cohabit peacefully? I would rather know and simply end a relationship rather than have to get a divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:40 PM
11

Girl,no. Don't buy a house with a man who isn't commited to you. Personally I am never going to marry a man unless we have lived together for a few months- what if he has gross habits I don't know about or we simply can't live together? But a rented house is good enough for that. Just make sure your name is in the lease. A house is a long term financial obligation. If you break up, do you really want to be paying for a house you no longer live in? Or do you trust him to make the mortgage payment…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:32 AM
9

Answer: no it's not! These men are predators! They are grooming and sexually abusing those kids. What the fuck? And the whole biology thing is complete utter bullshit too. Studies have shown that male fertility also decreases with age. If biology truly had something to do with this you would s find forty year old women chasing sixteen year old boys too. Instead to most women this is unthinkable. And when we read somewhere about a woman grooming or sexually abusing a teenage boy we immediately co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:49 PM
4

If this sub has taught me anything is to never ever consent to 'rough' sex. I am grateful to you ladies for opening my eyes to the dangers. I realised from posts I found here and my own research that most rough sex, choking, spanking, restraints etc can become dangerous and degrading and now I will make a hard limit in every relationship I have. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:36 AM
15

I swear I have seen so many profiles like this I am more offended by the shitty grammar at this point. And English isn't even my first language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:55 AM
20

When I was thirteen-fourteen years old, I was crushing on a guy my family knew that was in his twenties. He always treated me like a little kid even if looking back the crush was painfully obvious. I am so grateful that the guy decided to exhibit decent human behaviour and not take advantage of me. He did me a favour by ignoring me. This, probably way below average, guy would also do 'Plain Jane' a favour if he left her, even if his motivation is very different. She is guaranteed to be much happ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:51 AM
14

Wow, just wow. But no, really. Why do they even bother? What do they think exactly? That you would see his video, filled with him blaming you for not giving him enough chances, and go"I was so wrong,I hurt his poor feelings so much, I need to immediately have sex with him to make him feel better?" Couldn't he have used the energy it would take to make that video on some self improvement? Not that I believe he made any real effort. I hope the video entertained you at least. We all need something …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 03:27 PM
7

Please,louder for the people in the back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:49 AM
12

I think she should dump his ass. The guy can't be arsed to be present to provide emotional support to his wife because he wants to play tennis,of all things. She is going through a lot of heartbreak and an actual surgery and her partner practically abandons her. What will happen if they actually have kids sometime in the future? Is this the sort of man that would do his part of childcare? Get up at nights, change diapers, look after the kids when they are sick, help with homework etc? Or will he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 07:48 AM
32

Stealthing is rape. That's it. The end. This piece of shit did not only violate her he is also risking her life and health by forcing an unwanted pregnancy on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 10:29 PM
20

This honestly warms my heart. It's not only HVM behaviour, it's behaviour that nobody had or should have expected from a man his age and he still did it. That money will help a lot of people, save lives, make conditios a little more bearable for healthcare workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 06:26 PM
7

The post and the comments made me so mad. I just don't understand the commenters. In my head it's so simple. You cheat,man or woman, your partner should dump you. Porn is a deal breaker for me, mostly because I have no desire to participate in any dangerous, painful,fucked up sex act they will eventually want to enact with me. What is this bullshit about sexual past though? Women fully accept that their partners have had sex with other people some time in the past and usually don't care about th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:44 PM
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