| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Dancing etiquette? | Reichka | /r/seduction | 20/07/19 10:46 PM |
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| 15 | Cold Approaching is most of the time extremely ineffectiveThe trick is to look like an irregular black guy. Try having a small deformity of some sort. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Not verbally smart, how to not feel intimidated?Most communication 8s body language anyways. You should stay calm, and maintain a comfortable speed of conversation for yourself. She should respond by adjusting to the appropriate tempo of conversation. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Does getting off the apps actually improve anything?Yes, 8t changes the frame of the interaction. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | friend is cheatingDude this guy isn't your friend. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Do it | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with close female friends who you find out are warning women against youAny press is good press. Don't agree with lies when confronted, but the less you say, the more intrigued they are. This is not a setback. This is an opportunity. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 12:59 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Emphasis of the subtextual conversation. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:04 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Are you a dog? You do tricks on command? | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Is height really that important?It is what it is. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 10:09 PM |
| 4 | "We should only invest our time in women whose actions show that she has a genuine, burning desire for you." - but how can you get that desire while meeting them on social media?Please keep in mind all of Cooper's material is founded upon presuppositions of a gynocentric culture. You know what that "IG life" looks like. You also know it isn't real. You are playing into the fantasy of a sub 80 IQ cum-dumpster. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Well at least you aren't 21 and kiss-less. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 08:43 AM |
| 49 | [deleted by user]Eventually there's nothing left to do about the problem besides take responsibility. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 01:42 AM |
| 27 | Do you think women know what average guys go through with dating?No and they do not care. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 10:16 PM |
| 2 | How do you flirt instead of just having a conversation?Most of it is really subtext. I guess you're basically having a conversation with someone, as though the conditions of attraction have been met (ie you actively imagine not only do we have a mutual attaction, but we are both enjoying the engagement in making one another feel our attraction.) Power of imagination. | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 10:06 PM |
| 2 | adviceHave some self respect man. You shouldn't be orienting your life around anyone other than yourself. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Guys over 55 are you intimidated by married women in their 40'sNot so hard to figure out, but you still came here to ask for advice? Get a grip. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Guys over 55 are you intimidated by married women in their 40'sYou are posting about making friends with older men in a seduction sub. You are either feigning stupidity, or I have news for you. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Girl shows high interest, then blocks/ghosts when I try to make plans.Next one. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Guys over 55 are you intimidated by married women in their 40'sWell if you want friendship, you should offer some type of mutual benefit to them. Most of my best friendships have been built on mutual necessity and benefit. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 05:19 AM |
| 9 | Guys over 55 are you intimidated by married women in their 40'sSo basically you want free validation from some older men. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 11:59 PM |
| 9 | Why is it so easy to give in and think women are too good for you?That's the culture we are in. Self degradation, emphasis against males (as they are the ones culturally empowered to be in positions of affective power.) Edit: Just because our social situation is suboptimal in teaching us our worth doesn't absolve us of our responsibility to discover and create our worth. Obviously the solution is to embody the values you want to survive and let reality sort it out. | /r/seduction | 31/12/20 04:13 AM |
| 2 | How much does having a dog help with women?This, and it won’t even matter if you can’t close on your own anyways. | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 11:05 PM |
| 7 | Confidence is KeyBut using proper body language and relaxed posture is essential to maintaining confidence in trying situations. | /r/seduction | 02/02/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Turning the odds in your favour(use with caution)Fuck ya, glad you made a real opportunity out of a situation most guys lose their minds over. Continue that course of behaviour! | /r/seduction | 30/01/19 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Not sure how to go about 'asking a girl back to your house'Oh I’m sure she saw he snake. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 10:20 PM |
| 0 | Sometimes I hate being tall and having to speak to women (most of whom are shorter than me)A blessing of the double edged sword. Sitting is great and I found that squatting is not only a good way to level out height, but will also further improve your posture. I haven’t any evidence, but I suspect squatting with good posture is a feature of desirability to females. I suspect it’s a subconscious indication of child rearing abilities and health/flexibility. But it is speculative at best. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Not sure how to go about 'asking a girl back to your house'In conversation mention something you have at your house and say she’ll have to come check it out sometime. Then your invite leaves room for plausible deniability. | /r/seduction | 19/01/19 09:17 PM |
| 0 | What are some easy ways to flirt and tease girls?“You’re black??!” With a feign of surprise is a good alternative. Follow with a cheeky smile when she appears shocked or offended. Innocence is an excellent angle and you don’t necessarily have to don a shit eating grin, but it helps if you’re unsure of her stance on the prod. | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 02:55 PM |
| 9 | Girls smell the desperation off of me..Dude here’s something girls fucking love. Talk to them like you don’t even want anything from them. And I don’t mean in the sense that you treat them as though they have nothing to offer, I mean it in the the sense of treat them like you would a younger sister that you are cheering up/encouraging. Have you ever tried to cheer up a child? It’s the exact same. After this your sexual advances if they are not accepted, at least don’t come from a place of desperation. And if you your advances are rej… | /r/seduction | 23/12/18 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How to tell the difference between a shit test and a girl just being rude to you.At this point I don’t think it matters if it’s a shot test, fire back. | /r/seduction | 10/12/18 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Girl said 'maybe'This is so important. As soon as maybe is the reply, I’d go with “Actually, don’t worry about it.” | /r/seduction | 08/12/18 12:12 AM |
| 2 | 6 things I learned by approaching 50 strangers in the streetI think this sub really needed this, thanks for your post and excellent link format. | /r/seduction | 16/11/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Weird way to decline?Move on. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Why is an attractive girl from school extending convo with me ?Don’t change what your doing and continue to treat her the same as before? I mean what is your goal or direction? If you want, you can just continue talking to her for the social proof or whatever. Decide what to do based on what you want | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 02:08 AM |
| 4 | Can’t get over oneitisYou might as well just cut yourself some slack and end the torture. | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | MotivationIt’s not a bad tactic. Just remember that going out is a celebration of your body! Have fun with it, approach frequently, and just let the bad vibes roll off your back. Frog leap over some parking meters and shit. Having fun is the whole point and seduction is the journey of being with someone up until the most fun part of both your night. | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 12:27 AM |
| 6 | MotivationIt’s a common misconception that motivation is the precursor for action. You must do first whether you “feel” like it or not. Then, while this is happening, you become motivated. | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Got a coffee date via Facebook. Should I ask for her number before meeting up on FB or in person?Ask after the coffee date if you feel like you enjoyed the time. You’re screening her to see if she’s the type of person you want to see further, so take the necessary time. | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 01:03 AM |
| 1 | She Blocked Me, But I Think I Did WellIt could be any number of things, and girls frequently switch their emotions by whim. Just carry on as of nothing happened. You basically want to give her good reactions for her behaviour you favor, and deadpan any behaviour you don’t care for. Look at it from her perspective; 1. “I stopped talking to him and he freaked and like, I have a boyfriend” Or 2. “Wtf, why is he so normal. It’s like he didn’t even notice I blocked him..” | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | My friend and I like that girlWell on a more serious note, why is OP basing his value on the reaction of this person? Why not ask “What about my behaviour provokes attraction?” | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | My friend and I like that girlYou taking the L haha | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 02:20 PM |
| 2 | 17M Senior in HS. Dont wanna be a virigin b4 college.Or all at once | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 07:49 PM |
| 3 | 17M Senior in HS. Dont wanna be a virigin b4 college.Practice “game” which is just talking to people in a manner which attracts them, and don’t be shy about it. Sexuality is a big topic at secondary education and being open about it is attractive. If you do it right, when you tell girls about your virginity, they may “race” one another for it. You’ll have your pick of the litter. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 12:19 AM |
| 2 | 17M Senior in HS. Dont wanna be a virigin b4 college.Why not keep your virginity and let girls compete to take it from you? | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 11:41 PM |
| 5 | How can an 18 year old get a girlfriend?Check out some RSD videos and just keep putting yourself out there. It’s really a numbers game. Guy A: goes out and talk to three women, gets turned down, and goes home dejected and jerks off. Guy B: goes out and approaches 3 women, gets turned down and continues to approach until finally, after 15 approaches achieves success. Don’t sell yourself short, you’ve come a long way from who you were and you deserve improvement in any aspect of life you apply yourself to consistently. | /r/seduction | 27/07/18 12:31 AM |
| 7 | Girls Snapchat became more active after I became active.Take it as an indication of interest, and follow through. Send something funny that wouldn’t require a response to ping where she’s at. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle this situation with girl at work?Drop a primer. Send a funny message/pic/vídeo that she isn’t obligated to reply to and take it from there. I’ll send out a funny mass text on the regular just to see where girls are at in their mood on a regular basis. | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 04:37 AM |
| 3 | What are your "go-to" first date ideas?It sounds a little creepy, but I’ve taken girls to abandoned properties in the area and spray painted with them. It’s fun and allows a creative element at play, and if you have any kind of skill, it’s an easy way to impress with the opportunity for self disqualifying despite skill. | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Tips to flirt with coworkers?Tips aren’t the way to do it. Gives the frame of a provider, and that is not the way to go. | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Girls who flirt with you, frequently text you, ask you to "come out with [her] friends"... but dodge dates like no tomorrowThere’s a few rsd videos on flaking you could check out, also consider giving your number to the girl conditionally like “Okay I’ll text you my name/give you my number, but only if you’re sure you wanna (insert activity)” | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 03:26 AM |
| 2 | How do you react if someone tries to get your girl?Maybe not but it’s worth a shot for the experience. Playing coy probably isn’t going to work. | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 08:58 PM |
| 6 | How do you react if someone tries to get your girl?Fuck that guy, steal her. Pound through the awkwardness, crack jokes about him and the moment he starts to reveal jealousy, use it to lower his social value Things like: “it’s okay man, I get jealous sometimes too.” Make sure those kind of “claims of ownership” are public. They are extremely unattractive and will push her away. Then, if she is interested in you, she will naturally gravitate towards you and he will likely panic and push her away even harder. | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Text: Planning first date and she says "hangout just as friends for now".It’s free. Just don’t be needy is all, girls sense that and avoid like the plague. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Is nerd a pet name and is bro a friend zone?The best way to do that is to build a routine that always has you on day game. You said she showed significant interest when you were already committed, right? If she isn’t interested in reciprocity when you’re single, you could show interest in another person and have her make the move for your attention and request a date. Go do some research on RSD videos regarding the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Is nerd a pet name and is bro a friend zone?Ya that was it. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Is nerd a pet name and is bro a friend zone?Looking at the post, it seems like she’s just looking for attention from you. Make your intentions clear and if they aren’t reciprocated, either cut her off or enjoy the friend zone | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 05:02 PM |
| 9 | Text: Planning first date and she says "hangout just as friends for now".If I were in your shoes, I’d say something to the effect of: “I’m not looking for new friends right now, but I’m interested in getting to know you.” | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Is nerd a pet name and is bro a friend zone?No to both. Nerd, dork, or any variant on the theme is playful teasing, it’s a good sign she’s giving you some shit. Bro is a little more context oriented, but in my experience, it just indicates enthusiasm and comfort. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 04:55 PM |
| 22 | How do I be more of an interesting guy, as a college student?People who are interested in others are often regarded as interesting. It’s similar to a situation described in Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends and Influence People” where he asked a man about his work and hobbies and simply listened to all this man had to say about his work. Despite having said very little, the man had regarded him as highly interesting and a provocative conversationalist. Quite often; less is more. | /r/seduction | 01/07/18 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Losing attraction quickly.Tell them your parents live with you and they’re basically a full time job themselves. | /r/seduction | 22/05/18 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Retired Seddit user here, back because I need advice. Girl texted me "it's better if we dont see each other again" after I slept with her 2 times, what's the best frame/vibe to take if I will see her again for sure?Just take it as a gesture signifying her internal position. If I were in this position, I’d just say something along the lines of “No problem, nice getting to know you.” Or something, maybe even suggesting I feel the same way. I find that when you meet apprehension or hesitation, it is best to reflect it as a mutual feeling, rather than pursue or otherwise. | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Where to meet girls? (No college/clubs/bars)Doesn’t mean you can’t have a refreshing approach. Keep in mind that you are filtering through your options too. You are testing her against your standards as much if not more than her. Also your cold approaches will likely be largely conditional of the situation/environment. | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 07:18 PM |
| 10 | Where to meet girls? (No college/clubs/bars)You’re so right. | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 12:49 PM |
| 17 | Where to meet girls? (No college/clubs/bars)I understand dance classes are a great place to meet women. Also, there’s nothing wrong with a cold approach. | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 03:35 AM |
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