| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 118 | AITA is full of these abusive, age gap relationships. His comments are infuriating too. | #JustLVMThings | Reimustein | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:18 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 44 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitSometime s these stories I read here make me physically sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 9 | Just found this on tumblr. They call us ‘femcels’ for having high standards and help each other while incels hate and k*ll women.People really be out here saying that FDS is cancerous when subs like Facial Abuse were around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/22 12:41 PM |
| 2 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?I tried to call my brother out on slurping his noodles because it was really loud and disgusting. He got really mad at me and said that slurping noodle is a compliment in JaPaN. Well, we don't live in Japan now do we? It's considered rude and gross here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 01:55 PM |
| 59 | Whenever I think men cannot possibly get worse…Act like actual rabid dogs, get treated like one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 54 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!I'm just saying, if they read FDS and get offended, it's because it applies to them. If they weren't LVM, they wouldn't be offended at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 10:34 PM |
| 17 | "friend" refuses to accept "no means no".Not really digging how the response is worded to be honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 09:25 PM |
| 20 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyWhile, I have only ever dated one man, this is my list brought to you by the men in my family and co-workers No "open books" or overly talkative people. I don't care how well condoms fit on you, nor your expensive gaming set up. No saying that you want something without specifying. My brother wanted my mom to buy "healthy food." What kind of healthy food? Healthy food! Not letting you cut your hair short because, "everyone should have long hair." That's so hard to manage. Or pointing out that yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 08:53 PM |
| 24 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyThat's why I refuse to date anyone that drinks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 08:33 PM |
| 172 | The bar can’t be this damn lowI will say this once again: YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE TO TELL SOMEONE TO KEEP UP ON THEIR BASIC HYGIENE. If you have to beg, he's out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 08:38 PM |
| 2 | This reminds me of the slug storySlug story? Dear lord. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 09:02 PM |
| 1 | The mainstream media doesn't want women to be sexually satisfied if it means that many men will get insecure about it.I really should. There is probably a lot more that I am missing out on reading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | The mainstream media doesn't want women to be sexually satisfied if it means that many men will get insecure about it.Thank you! It's something I want to get over, definitely. For the longest time I felt very broken and undesirable because of it. But I can't let sex define me. I still have a long way to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:20 PM |
| 11 | The mainstream media doesn't want women to be sexually satisfied if it means that many men will get insecure about it.I had no idea that there was such a thing as an A spot. But due to my vaginismus, I will probably never experience such a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 01:23 AM |
| 12 | Emotional abuse can be as destructive as physical abuse & everyone needs to know this.On the other hand, my brother outright admits to his girlfriends that he is emotionally abusive. Almost like he's proud. No idea how he has a girlfriend. Also no idea why she's still with him even with my sister and me kept telling her to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 11:20 AM |
| 33 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menFDS has taught me to always keep my standards high and never settle. I think that is a very important lesson to learn. Why should I be unhappy for the sake of someone else? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 15 | It’s heartbreaking to see young women/teenage girls being preyed on like this.This hurts to read. I should know, I thought it would be something I wanted to do. I didn't even go that far and yet I still felt so dirty. I really wish I could reach out to every single person caught in this situation. But I know, they won't listen until the damage is done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:13 PM |
| 2 | I just get more and more flabbergasted with what women put themselves through to be in a relationship. I just think it's just so sad they don't have self-respect enough to drop a guy like this.Honestly, I think anyone who can't be bothered to brush their teeth (or take care of themselves in general) should be shamed. I am not here to coddle someone for their gingivitis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 11:53 PM |
| 49 | Pornhub exploiting minors 😔I am really glad to see more and more guys trying to distance themselves from porn. I can go on and on for hours about my hatred for porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:04 AM |
| 10 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂I don't even have words...just wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:46 AM |
| 7 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedOh my god. Someone commented that she should sit him down and cOmMuNiCaTE with him. No. Absolutely no! That NOT something you need to communicate with someone!! If I ever had to sit down with my man and tell him that, I would be better off leaving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 02:10 AM |
| 3 | I am not a piece of candy, and no you cannot “try me”Ugh. That reminds me of how my "self-proclaimed racist" brother said that he reserves himself for Asain women exclusively. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:14 PM |
| 5 | "Don't kink shame, don't you know there are women who ENJOY having their ribs broken? Lolol" 🤢🤮🤮Name me one woman who enjoys having her ribs broken for sexual pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:42 PM |
| 11 | Tired of my 3 male roommates thinking that I’m their maid so I left them a note. They all texted me very butthurt saying “who is this directed at?” This is the attitude men have towards women; that women should clean up after them.Make sure to hide your keys before he tries to steal it please! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Breaking things = domestic abuse. It’s physical intimidation that counts as DV.I am afraid he is already there. He's 21 and his current girlfriend told me that he outed himself as "mentally abusive". I have tried and tried again to tell her to leave him. (WHY would you want to be with someone that outright says that!?) But she won't listen to me, nor my little sister for that matter. I want to give up, but I just can't leave her in that situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 06:46 PM |
| 35 | Breaking things = domestic abuse. It’s physical intimidation that counts as DV.My brother does this to our mother all the time. He's trying to inflict fear by purposefully being loud and slamming things when he's upset. He needs a good butt kicking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:05 PM |
| 27 | Dude is embarrassed because his wife carried his child 🙄He probably wasn't even planning on actually marrying her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 11:52 PM |
| 2 | 'He only bullies you because he fancies you'Oh god, I remember my sister and I were told this ALL THE TIME. Or if any guy were to look in my direction or do something nice for me, my mother would instantly say, "Maybe he likes you." NO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Beware the hobosexual!It's not like this exactly, but this does remind me of my brother. He still lives at home with us, and we are in a very tiny apartment. He leaves his trash everywhere, doesn't help around the house. Constantly berating our mother, slamming doors, or his fists on cookie trays because he's upset. (And somehow it's ALWAYS our mother's fault.) And not too long ago, he moved his girlfriend in with us. There is no room and our mother even told him not to. But guess what? He went ahead and did it. This… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Hates porn because…muh penis!...out of ALL things disgusting about porn, THAT'S the only thing he got? What a shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:00 PM |
| 84 | I liked you better when you were miserableThe husband is basically saying, "I liked you better when you were depressed." Disgusting. She shouldn't be with someone who actually WANTS her to be depressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Step right up for LVM Bingo!Or doesn't let you get a word in, or constantly interrupting you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Favorite ways to shut down unwanted male attention?Say something "gross" about yourself. Like, "I don't shower very often." Or "I don't shave my armpits." Chances are that they do the same exact things, but we are women, so it is disgusting when WE do ot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.Tell me why on earth being against porn is such this horrible idea that Reddit is making it out to be? At this point, why doesn't Reddit advertise cocaine and pro-hard drugs subreddits? It's basically the same thing at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 12:03 PM |
| 3 | This kind of thinking does need to stop.It really should. My boyfriend and I have never had a fight before. But we sure had our fair amounts of disagreements before. Since we never had a fight like that before, I was starting to wonder if this was okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 01:21 PM |
| 11 | Two brothers see a woman paying for gas with pennies, and give her money from their pockets. They had no idea that her husband had just died and she was struggling.My heart is melting and breaking at the same time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Imagine having nothing else in your life besides porn and killing yourself if you couldn't get access to it. We need Darwinism and FeminismIf porn is your only reason to live, well....maybe you are pretty useless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:31 PM |
| 2 | AITA is full of these abusive, age gap relationships. His comments are infuriating too.I kinda thought it was a troll post too. But either way, it was a very horrifying read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Moment of silence for our sisters being brainwashed into thinking they have to act like “cool girls” in order to be validated by their man 😔I know I am a week late, but can I get a link? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Swedish model gets rape threats after ad shows her unshaven legs. Meanwhile...Absolutely disgusting. I am a huge supporter for body hair positivity, and just reading how this poor woman got RAPE THREATS for not shaving her legs (I rarely shave mine myself) is making boil with rage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 04:52 AM |
| 2 | How do I even make a title for thisWhat on earth is a sexual initiation camp?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 04:43 AM |
| 9 | Daily reminder that men become filled with insecure, jealous rage upon hearing about their gf/wife's sexual pastGee, all of the sane comments were downvoted into an oblivion. And I saw so much hypocrisy there too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:21 PM |
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