| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 0 | Field Report: Tijuana Red Light District | Field Report | ReindeerFun3762 | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 06:02 AM |
| 0 | Do you need game for a prostitute? | Fundamentals | ReindeerFun3762 | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 04:36 AM |
| 0 | Unless You're f-closing with 10's you should have a fleshlight and watch porn | Inner Game | ReindeerFun3762 | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 04:52 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | ConfidenceLol | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:41 AM |
| 3 | ConfidenceNo, it takes more than confidence. I'm tall and I get girls but I never get laid | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:40 AM |
| 7 | 31M still living at home. Should I not even worry about girls right now?A lot of girls will be living at home too depending on where you live. Rent/housing is expensive | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Dating appsGirls are jaded from using dating apps. Just like there's a bunch of hot girls on there there's a bunch of good looking guys | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Best books on seduction and body language for newbiesYou can look for the best but avoid the worst. Skip Hustlers University. The Tate brothers were just charged with rape and trafficking of several different women. I think anybody can figure out how to force their way onto a woman without having to pay any admission fee. | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Wife’s mom sweet for meSounds like you want a divorce | /r/seduction | 25/07/26 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I only want FWBGet a sex toy less drama | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 06:35 AM |
| 0 | working on myself but stuck in a "high school loser" mindset how do I overcome low self worth and connect with women?A lot of people struggle finding a good woman. Don't beat yourself up. It's why apps like Replika are so popular | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 05:35 AM |
| 0 | How would you meet women who may be open to an threesome?Be a porn star? | /r/seduction | 19/07/26 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with ApproachingIf you can convince a girl to go out with a cup of coffee for you you may as well marry her. A lot of women see that as low investment now and want to go to dinner on the first date AND have a man pay for it | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 06:50 AM |
| -2 | Girl at gym is staring at meUnless you're ripped like the Hulk you're probably looking too much into it. But some of those girls at the gym look good in yoga pants | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Do you need game for a prostitute?You think anyone will care to read that? I guess people might be curious about the prices | /r/seduction | 09/07/26 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you need game for a prostitute?Oh sweet I got a phone number from a girl I asked a week ago and talking to another girl but still need the red light district | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Do you need game for a prostitute?Ok I'll try to memorize some openers before I go over there | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 05:01 AM |
| 2 | How to avoid getting friendzoned in talking stageMake sure that whenever you talk with her you take your shirt off. That should help | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 04:29 AM |
| 8 | marriedI wonder if lesbians get laid a lot. They can break through barriers with women that men can't | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 01:36 AM |
| 0 | What to do if she says "You're lucky"?Drop a nickel on the ground and go "oh look it's your lucky day bitch" | /r/seduction | 05/07/26 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Unless You're f-closing with 10's you should have a fleshlight and watch pornWhen I was in my 20's and 30's that was usually better than wasting a night out hitting on girls surrounded by men in a bar or club, only to have her try to get you to buy her drinks and walk away. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 11:17 PM |
| 1 | I have high standards yet I often don't approach girls who look expensive and are really hot.It's funny that a girl gets a little bit of exercise and puts on some makeup we assume she wants the world and will not settle for less. But we do the same thing and can't expect the same standards from women. | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 01:34 AM |
| 0 | Unless You're f-closing with 10's you should have a fleshlight and watch pornYou can get them at your local sex shop. The silicone is made to be a good substitute to the real thing. | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 05:20 AM |
| 3 | First time at a club/barPickup lines are lame. It's not so much what you say but a lot of women like being approached. Just having confidence is key. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 10:08 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with your buddies just pulling more than you ?I go out with a friend sometimes and he's like 5 years younger than me. We go out to some lingerie cafes and he's always trying to like get their socials and hook up with them later. I don't know why he's trying to fall in love with them. I just see it as a business transaction I don't try anything with them outside of work. I've seen him get flat out rejected by women though and it's funny | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 10:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I cold approach (talking about the opener)Try "how much for an hour?" | /r/seduction | 24/06/26 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach has changed my lifeIf she has wrinkles besides the side of her eyes it's go time lol | /r/seduction | 19/06/26 10:06 PM |
| 10 | Cold approach has changed my lifeMost men are attracted to younger women but it's hard to tell between 16-25. My age even 25 is young so I usually stay away from that. | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 07:22 AM |
| 3 | Unpopular Opinion: Strip clubs are the best place to learn “Game”I think he really thinks going to strip clubs is going to help him with normal women. It probably will have the opposite effect. | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 04:58 AM |
| 1 | [need advice] girl probably lying to me about illness to get money from meOne example of better having no women than bad women. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 08:51 AM |
| 0 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingThey will probably be more charmed by what you are (tall, handsome) than what you say. It also helps to be successful and rich. Then many times it becomes easy rather than ice-skating uphill. Women love to talk, but you want to get them in bed rather than be their friends. That takes practice. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 08:35 AM |
| 2 | How do you safely sleep with hoes?Wrap it up | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 08:47 PM |
| 1 | What made Dennis Rodman so attractive to high status women?He had money and like to party so he attracted other women that like to have fun | /r/seduction | 02/06/26 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Something I've Noticed About Men Who Date a LotThis could just be a demonstration of high value that all the players talk about | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Girls actually appreciate approachesBig list. It's nice they are nice when you approach. That helps with rejection if there is any at all. | /r/seduction | 30/05/26 12:18 AM |
| -2 | Guys 5'4 and below who get laid without a social circle, how do you do it?You can always pay for it. It's cheaper than you think | /r/seduction | 29/05/26 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20sWait til you hit your 40's. The women look even worse but still expect to be spoiled | /r/seduction | 26/05/26 06:44 AM |
| 5 | What experience forced you to completely rethink dating?Seeing your mom in underwear | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 09:48 PM |
| 5 | How to get quick easy hookups with girls I like and not just the ones I canHang out at the local brothel. Bring $$ | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Went to a fitness eventTwo days is a fine length, she just sucks because she was the ugliest one at the expo | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Been trying to make plans with a girl for 3 weeks and has been very difficult.Sounds like she likes the attention from you, but maybe not as much actually going all the way. I'd pursue other options | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 06:07 AM |
| 1 | What are the some of the "go big or go home" moves in approachingAnything that pushes the interaction towards sex would be a "go big" move. Or nowadays standing up for yourself as a man instead of letting some pretty bimbo walk all over you and trying to get you to buy something for her right off the bat. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Anybody here that started approaching in their 30s?It's easy to approach in like a bar, even though there's a high amount of rejection there. But it's harder to approach during the day when you're out. Like you're just approaching a random stranger because they look good are you crazy? I'd recommend just approaching in a place that you have mutual interest, because if you're just approaching random hot chicks you may get a number every once in awhile but they are likely to ignore any further attempts from ballsy man to start something serious. I… | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 05:44 AM |
| 1 | My dating life recentlyIt feels impossible to get a good woman without having a high paying job or going to the gym 5x per week. Maybe it's just the bad bitches but it seems like ice skating uphill | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching as a 33m worth it?Cold approaching is hard but it's the method everyone's used for hundreds of years with limited results. If you want a hot woman you're going to have to talk to them somehow | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Going out alone tonightI was watching a nature documentary where a female sloth started making mating calls. The male sloth swam across a river to meet her but found a different sloth that already had a child. Then she did her mating calls again and he climbed up another tree. If a sloth can do it so can you! | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 07:54 AM |
| 1 | How important is masculinity in seduction?Probably not as important as most people think. Prince was probably good with women and he was feminine. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 07:16 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate at 4th date ? Cut my losses ?You can try for a fourth date at your place. She's an adult she should know what that means. You can escalate just by kissing, then moving into the next base from there, and if she still pulls back then just tell her it's best to leave. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?Maybe just some guys grow out of it. Once women get older they aren't really as attractive you have to go to a strip club or something to see young women. I find chasing women very boring and there's little reward for it. I know a few women that give me the love I need and then I move on | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Couldnt bring myself to open an approach on a girl who had headphones.Tell her you just got back from war and your loins are ready for penetration. She won't be able to resist | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Gym imbalenceYou can try talking to them about how they work out to get in shape, a specific body part. Like you could say you are trying to lose some weight in the midsection and want some tips. Some will be open to chatting and you can go from there. Next time you're there say hello and keep talking. Others may not be in the mood to talk | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 05:35 AM |
| 1 | is not having instagram a red flag?Instagram is just an easier method than asking for phone numbers. Because you can block on Instagram and they won't bug you anymore. It's less personal and women don't want to give out too much information to strangers. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Not GENUINELY getting butt hurt after a rejection is the most incredible paradigm shift for seduction.Our genes only care about 2 things: surviving and reproducing | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 05:07 AM |
| 1 | How to not get playedIf you don't want to get played stay away from younger women with the most options. Those are the majority of women that will play games cuz they have so many options they don't care what happens with most guys | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Couldnt bring myself to open an approach on a girl who had headphones.You can tap on her shoulder to try your opener, but you don't need to approach every pretty woman. | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 03:24 AM |
| 2 | I approached and talked with a girl for the first time.Good job. Now you gotta keep up the humor to go all the way or be stuck in the friend zone | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Getting fatigued at this shitKeep working on it. Usually sex with a hot chick is worth it. | /r/seduction | 07/05/26 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Flirty after several good dates but doesn’t make more datesI had 4 dates with a girl awhile ago and she wasn't very playful or flirty. | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 10:08 PM |
| 0 | How do you structure your daygame approaches?I'm looking for a free hooker, that's what these girl-next-door types are. Just spit a little game and she undresses. Perfect | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItI'd like to approach some women at the gym because they are sexy and in good shape, but that is the place they are most unapproachable and I'm surrounded by guys in potentially better shape than me. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 07:47 AM |
| 1 | How to actually get laid after datesThe point of the post is to get laid not win a spelling contest | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 07:46 AM |
| 2 | Curious what yall do when you’re having a girl over to hook up.My advice is don't pop her after you spent all that time blowing her up | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.How do you know they are sleeping with these chicks, instead of being just friends? | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 07:37 AM |
| 1 | you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banterI wish this were true but once women learn my living situation they begin to lose interest. You gotta be an alpha male to get all the chicks. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 07:32 AM |
| 1 | What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them?I just recently tried a trick I learned off this subreddit and got a phone number. | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 12:57 AM |
| 1 | how i manage to get girls to come over directly from dating apps with no effortSounds like a good trick. I haven't had too much success on dating apps. I should try this, except I don't have my own place so we'd have to go to a hotel. I think that kills the vibes. Or maybe we could go to her place. | /r/seduction | 08/02/26 09:15 PM |
| 1 | What went wrong?Maybe you are secretly gay lol and working out on the wrong areas | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 03:57 AM |
| 2 | PSA: If a woman is trying to hit on you she'll do the "Alien Smile"Alien smile? Lol this is bad advice and it rarely happens. Usually you have to talk to them for awhile before they begin to trust you and let you into their life. But it's better to get a number early rather than talk her ear off. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 03:56 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girlfriend advice?Some prostitutes go the extra mile and give you more than a girlfriend would. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girlfriend advice?You can read a book. That will save you thousands. Getting a nice wardrobe and going out regularly you should find a girlfriend. Seems like dating apps just benefit women nowadays and leave men out of the equation. Prostitutes will help with your sexual needs but it's illegal in some places. I have been lonely too. Searching for Jesus helps sometimes. Life is hard. | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 03:44 AM |
| 4 | How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women?It seems like they also meet amazing superhuman men at some social event, then network. Like Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce. It seems Swift is much more of a catch than Kelce is, but he popped the question and she said yes. I can't really help you out. I've been stuck in the sidelines going to strip clubs to see hot women. But they all just want VIP dances there. Good thing there is alcohol there or I wouldn't even go. | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Girls say yes to second date but then doesnt happenWhat's the secret to getting laid? | /r/seduction | 29/01/26 08:51 PM |
| 1 | It's easy as fuckYou forgot to mention that it helps being rich, tall, and handsome | /r/seduction | 29/01/26 08:50 PM |
| 1 | she's not gonna be excited to meet youYou can always neg her if you get responses like that. She might turn around when you flip the script. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Hate Approaching Women? This is for youI don't want to become a better person. I want more sex. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Why tf Cold approach is fucked up in UKCold approach is always the hardest method but if you're a foreigner your value will go up. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Approach even when you don't feel like it - bar game same day lay - solo 3 setCongratulations | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Stop Following Outdated Dating Advice!Finding a good woman that is attractive and young and that treats you with respect is as hard as finding a good career that pays well. | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 04:57 AM |
| 3 | She is testing me. What would you do?I could careless. You already have a girlfriend why do you still come to this subreddit? Are you trying to secure a wife or just don't want a breakup? | /r/seduction | 14/01/26 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Here is current META of meeting women, based on analysis of my life dating scenariosStopped reading after I saw the word "alpha". We aren't gorillas | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 10:43 PM |
| 1 | a question to guys who have reached the player stageI used to be able to get a number from any woman I talked to, but kind of rusty now. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 10:42 PM |
| 7 | Gym Girls are weird?I wish gym girls would come approach me. Most have their headphones in and are unapproachable. A long time ago I flirted with a girl at the gym. But lately when I go to the gym I just try to get bigger. | /r/seduction | 13/01/26 10:40 PM |
| -2 | 5 Mistakes Men Make After Getting a Girl’s NumberBeing interesting is stupid. Hot women get approached by all sorts of dudes. Interesting to them means money and power. They don't want some average joe they want some guy that will knock their socks off. If she thinks you're a loser flirting and getting her to laugh will just put you in the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Rebuilding in 2026A lot of people recommend Models, but it gave common sense advice. Nothing really that wasn't obvious. If I had to start over now, it would be a lot harder since people rely more on apps than actually going out. I actually don't know too many spots in town were singles hang out. I used to be a lot better at PUA but have been busy with other stuff trying to turn my dating life around too. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Become a Host (and Bang the Participants)Imagine going to one of the events actually interested in the topic and the host just flirts with the women all night ignoring everyone trying to get laid lol | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 01:12 AM |
| 1 | In 2026 you will find more success than ever beforeBeing social will help you be more confident. But women want a handsome guy that makes a lot of money so you need to work on those things too. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Women have blatantly said that I can have them. How do I actually convert/escalate that interaction into sex?Most women are going to want to see some type of commitment, long-term potential before being interested in sex. It's not like porn videos where they are always horny and stuck in washer/dryers. This has stopped me pursuing most women lately because it's just too much work to get sex | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Is Venue rotation important when you go on a date at least once a weekThe bartender saying something like that just makes you look like a guy a lot of women want to be around. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Did finally getting a partner live up to your expectations?I'm single but I enjoy being single. Some days I wish I was in a relationship, but at least no one is lying to me and cheating on me behind my back. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Logical man's guide to flirtingMan I wish I had like 2-3 hot girls in my phone I was sleeping with. This is too much work. I'm broke. They judge me. It goes nowhere. They don't want casual sex. I use my hand | /r/seduction | 21/05/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | You will always fail at seduction if your socially awkward and cannot real social cuesIt's pretty easy to talk about interesting stories, reply with fluff talk, crack jokes every once in awhile, etc. You should be trying to drive the conversation so she thinks about you more than a friend. At a club or party you can be kind of aggressive and touchy/feely or go in for kiss and ask to go back to your place. Everywhere else usually it's snail pace. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 06:31 AM |
| 1 | How to KEEP FWB?For us, men, women typically don't try to get to the bedroom with us. WE ARE the ones always making the moves. As a woman she probably gets approached by men for sex regularly, and the fact they don't want more puts them low on her list. If she mentioned early she'd eventually want something more and you ignored that, then that's probably why. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 06:28 AM |
| 3 | How to KEEP FWB?You pretty much give up the idea of friendship when you pursue them romantically, sexually, etc. You'll have dozens of opportunities to be their friends, and they will typically friend zone you by default unless you express you want more, in which case it usually starts something or you go your separate ways. Being their friend but being unable to be with them physically is difficult too. Perhaps the age gap is why it could never be more than fwb | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenIt'll get you in the door, which is a struggle for a lot of guys. But yeah after you get ahead, you gotta stay ahead of the pack, and make sure you're talking to a few women not just one. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 06:17 AM |
| 4 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?Most of his advice is pretty common sense. But he complained that having a high body count isn't as great as it seems. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 06:16 AM |
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