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I mean the story doesn't sound great and it's hard to take evidence such as this with any provenance. Sounds like there is a whole lot to this story that isn't there and your take on it is skewed because you have a romantic interest in the person you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 12:37 PM
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I mean it's a confidence thing. When you get a thing in your head or get over excited it makes it hard to last. Rushing to the end stage with no play doesn't help. Luckily there's plenty of other things to be doing should that fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:51 PM
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She's hot what more is there to say
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:43 PM
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It's not my fault you are so exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:09 PM
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I do care that they have access to abortion. You see this is where the pro choice point of view often gets misrepresented. Abortion is not nice. The idea of it does upset me. It upsets most who are pro abortion. The process and hurt it causes women and relationships is something that would be hard for me to comprehend. But it can and does improve the outcomes for women and society as a whole so I support it. The economic development of the west over the last 40-50 years of women moving into the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 06:07 AM
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I'm not an idiot or a troll sorry, I have known plenty of women in my life and very few of them lacked the ability to show empathy. In fact the vast majority of them whenever I have needed to open up are far more emotionally intelligent than I ever was. But here's the thing I have had plenty of women who I have been friends with. Completely platonic relationships in which sex was never an 'objective' we were just friends whether that be in a professional or home setting. Women aren't going to si…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:57 AM
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What on earth does that have to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:41 PM
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I think you're confused. I care that women have access to abortions. I want them to have access to abortions. I don't care whether they have them or not. It's not my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:05 PM
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You don't have to be. You just have to be willing to stand up for what you believe in and call out bull especially that which is aimed at others because eventually you will be the enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:54 PM
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I'll interact with this sub as much as I like thanks. Nothing you posted had anything to do with reproductive rights of men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:50 PM
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We all know what happens when a populace is as eager to roll over as you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:49 PM
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I'm sorry come back to me when you can prove any difference in reproductive rights and don't just post bad dad drivel
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:47 PM
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Then you must be happy for your quality of life to get worse. Another great take.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:45 PM
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I don't believe the majority of men are completely self serving. I do care about the well being of society at large. I care about all members of society to a degree. I see society tearing itself apart with a million different invented enemies whilst the real ones Galavant in front of us and are paraded as self proclaimed heroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:44 PM
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People have the same reproductive rights. They also have the same rights to bodily autonomy, so please educate me how do women have more reproductive rights as men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:37 PM
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Equal rights how?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:32 PM
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I care if women can get abortions and I'm a man. I am very much pro choice. Why should a woman care if someone is having sex or not, I don't. They are completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:29 PM
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I mean if you are a patriotic American you should be very concerned about your politicians bringing religion into governance. As per the enlightenment and the political philosophy that developed out of it mortality and therefore law should be determined without the influence of ANY religion. The constitution exists in the form that it does because people who believed in enlightenment philosophy designed it to reflect that. It really is an interesting period of history that is rarely taught becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:28 PM
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I mean if you are a patriotic American you should be very concerned about your politicians bringing religion into governance. As per the enlightenment and the political philosophy that developed out of it mortality and therefore law should be determined without the influence of ANY religion. The constitution exists in the form that it does because people who believed in enlightenment philosophy designed it to reflect that. It really is an interesting period of history that is rarely taught becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 12:28 PM
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I know one who quite likes the idea of one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:20 PM
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No one cares about the size of your member but you my friend. If everyone who cares about it's size stop caring it sorts being an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:57 PM
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The vast majority not caring however does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:52 PM
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Trust me being good in bed is more than just size dude. If it was just size big dick blokes would just walk about swinging the things around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:48 PM
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The whole of society perpetuates toxic masculine behaviour. The best way to stop perpetuating something is to stop caring about something so begnine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:45 PM
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No it's more a reference to a complex upheld by toxic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:11 PM
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It's a blessing and a curse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:10 PM
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Who's spreading a false narrative online. I mean iv heard six foot, six figures but never 6+ inches. I have never seen a woman criticise a man's member other than to hurt his feelings 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:28 PM
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I think you're approaching this wrong. If someone said to you do you want £10 or £20 you would take the £20 but if you found £10 on the floor you would be chuffed. It ain't like comparing gourmet food to a dog turd. Listen I won't have a go at anyone about their special interests but do you really need to argue this one online with strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:04 PM
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I'm not blaming or fighting anyone. I don't get why you seem so obsessed about the size of everyone's Todgers. Like what's your point? All your doing is giving off small dick energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:54 PM
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This whole post just reminds me of an episode of south park. If you're wondering that's not a good thing. There's so much more to being good in bed than the length of your member. 90% of the real good sex is mental. If you lack in one area there's plenty more you can make up for it in. Why you making such a fuss about your dicks anyway. I thought the Incel 'community' as per their name failed to get anywhere near that milestone. Stop looking to blame people external to yourselves and start doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:28 PM
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I mean they can be. Being derogatory during or about sex is just being derogatory tous or no toys x
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:58 PM
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It depends what you mean by choosing better. Sure you can find plenty of videos online of usually inexperienced young adults acting shallow and saying poorly considered things. But what does choosing better mean. Money, status and a particular look that's considered to be attractive at that time. Or does it mean choosing someone who is loyal, emotionally available and reliable. I do think that socially men aren't held to the same standards that women are. I also don't think men have adapted quic…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:18 PM
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I don't think being curious and asking questions is the same as attacking someone for expressing their relationship dynamic though is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:28 PM
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I'm not experiencing any distaste 🙂 I was curious as to why it triggered people completely uninvolved in the relationship. Some of the conversation on PPD can become quite emotive and at times seem aggressive. I don't understand how people can be upset about consenting adults having less than conventional boundaries. That's why I'm asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:05 PM
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I mean comments such as 'i hope you never breed' and 'im glad you two terrible people took each other out of the dating pool' seem to hint towards at least an emotive level of disagreement with their dynamic. That's what fascinated me. The apparent level of distaste for the couples dynamic away from the problems they were actually facing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:56 PM
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I think your convoluting the question at hand, I wanted to know why they were attacked? They had different boundaries in their relationship than is generally socially acceptable. I just wondered why so many people felt so strongly against their relationship dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:24 PM
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Is it shitty if everyone is aware?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:07 PM
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It was other people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:04 PM
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I mean every relationship faces periods in which sex happens far easier than others. I guess it's what you're in the relationship for. Me and my wife went through an extended dry patch but it sucked for both of us. The sexless spell wasn't through the lack of wanting to but was more a byproduct of birth control. We both missed the intimacy but the spark wasn't there so there was a choice, bad sex which was unfulfilling for both parties or we worked on ourselves and each other to get the magic ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:32 PM
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I'm not making a leap in logic I'm asking a specific group of people what they think and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:46 PM
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I mean you can rant incoherently all you like if it isn't viable without the woman as a host then it is her body and she should have the right to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:46 PM
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It's not a stupid straw man, iv identified a subset of people and I'm asking them about their beliefs. I'm allowed to do that and I'm allowed to ask/challenge things I find confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:09 PM
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I mean that is a bit of a jump from if you have sex you should be prepared for the consequences and do the right thing by the mother and the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:30 PM
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Iv asked a specific group of people a specific question I haven't made a statement in my question. I'm allowed to challenge ideas and ask questions when I don't understand the logic behind someone's thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:26 PM
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I didn't I am asking right leaning people who hold this position why? It doesn't make sense with traditional conservative thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:24 PM
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Why? What does abortion have anything to do with anything. Please explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:19 PM
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I don't know that's not really the question I posed. Like I said in another post though. We all drive are cars knowing the potential risks. We cannot avoid them should something go wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:18 PM
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I don't understand how people who claim to be right wing also argue this perspective, it's not a straw man it's a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:17 PM
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If you have sex protected or not you are making a choice. You have to be comfortable accepting the potential risks when engaging in that action. No one set out to get in a car accident which can lead to serious injury but yet it is a risk we take everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:16 PM
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If you don't want a kid don't have unprotected sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:08 PM
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And accepting that is a possibility is a part of the risk of having sex so what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:08 PM
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Are you against welfare? Because the exact same argument can - and is - put to people who have kids and live off welfare, that it's their personal responsibility to pay for their kids. I'm not arguing from my perspective. I'm arguing from the logical conclusions that are drawn from my understandings of traditional conservative thinking. I'm applying the thinking that I see applies to other issues, such as welfare and applying them to childrearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 12:07 PM
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Whilst private paternity test in France are illegal in cases of infidelity and where the father cannot be accurately determined you can get a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:49 AM
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But why should society have to bear the burden of an absentee father? Both parents should be responsible for the child regardless of whether or not an abortion is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:48 AM
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I think what you have written is inaccurate. A fair social contract would demand both parties pay half and deliver as much emotional and developmental support to the child as each other. I'm confused as to how you see men as having 'all the obligations.' that's a vague and unhelpful comment please expand because in the vast majority of cases when the family splits the mother takes on the majority of the childrearing. In the vast majority of cases the Mothers obligation to the child in cases of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:46 AM
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His and her choice. It takes two to tango. Just because men want to decide they don't want a child after they have unprotected sex it doesn't mean they can. 'I don't wanna' does not negate their new responsibility towards their child. If they didn't want a child they should have had unprotected sex. Simple as that really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:40 AM
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I honestly do not know how a man could expect a paper abortion. If you have made someone pregnant it is your responsibility and you should at the very least pay. It isn't society's job to raise your child. Where is it illegal to get a paternity test? They are literally sold in shops in the UK and USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:36 AM
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Well the incel community and right wing seem to be very much anti-women at the moment particularly with the statements coming out after Trump's election win. you OK with women walking away from children (i.e. giving a baby up for adoption) or abortion? I haven't said I'm okay with women walking away from children. Having a child adopted does not create the same social cost as negligent and absentee parents. I don't support women having more power than men but I am able to recognise we are differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:34 AM
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Im not sure why you think someone else having a choice automatically grants you one you aren't entitled to. If you have unprotected sex with a woman regardless of what she chooses to do by traditional thinking you should take responsibility for the result of your actions. In my opinion both emotionally and financially. Why should society bear the burden of your inability to control your sexual desires if you choose to be involved? It is not in societies best interest to allow fathers to be absen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:19 AM
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I don't think you have read what I wrote properly. I said right wing speakers advocate for self responsibility and self accountability. Some people however who consider themselves to be conservative and right leaning neglect such philosophy when applying it to their responsibility towards their dependents. I hope that cleared thing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:10 AM
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In my country, I learned in some rural areas, if a guy rapes a girl, he is forced to marry her and take on all the responsibility even of a kid. I mean this is concerning on many levels. Being forced to marry your attacker doesn't seem like justice for the woman involved? That is really confusing to me. I often head and see in discussions on TV, TV depictions and general society where I am from the stigmatism of single mothers, the absentee fathers seen to escape social criticism. I have often h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:08 AM
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Your personal responsibility is not anyone else's. What a woman does after sex is not your responsibility, the act of sex however is your responsibility. With every one of your actions comes personal responsibility and accountability. If you have unprotected sex then that is on you and the child is then your dependency and responsibility. In cases of rape then I do find it similarly hypocritical that abortion is being banned for women even in cases of rape in the US. If we act like civilised peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:00 AM
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Whilst cases of fathers abandoning their children do indeed span the political spectrum I was wondering particularly for conservative thinking individuals they believe it's okay and actively advocate for an end to child support when it is against traditional political thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:50 AM
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I am that's why it's on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:34 AM
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Speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:40 AM
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It depends how you show your emotions. There's proper ways of communicating them and ways that just lack any sort of emotional intelligence. I can suffer with quite severe depression at times. I talk about how and why I feel what I feel and we try and work out a plan which means we can both support each other effectively throughout. No one likes unpredictable people that just explode out of nowhere with poorly thought out reasons as to why they are upset. Still if you have a partner who isn't wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:42 AM
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Why is this even a question? If you aren't interested in kids don't date people with them. It really isn't that hard. I'm not even sure on what your getting at. If you date a single mother the child will be there, living and the mother's priority. If it's not something you want don't do it. Chances are the kid already feels rejected enough from the male role model it should have had in the first place known as dad. Doesn't need some other randomer rejecting them too just because he wants to nail…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:37 PM
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I know I said as much below but you have to start with entry level info with some of these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:43 PM
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Wel the development of new birth control for men has stumbled for so long because they are trying to create one which limits hormonal side effects as men won't take them if they have any. Women's hormonal birth control was introduced well before anyone really cared about the side effects the hormonal contraception would have on the outliers. Theres no current financial incentive for investment in a new better form of Female hormonal contraception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:40 PM
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Dude you need some sex ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:37 PM
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Well that depends on the individual. Your making sweeping assumptions when there's a million different reasons to take the various methods of birth control. Some take it to avoid irregular periods, some take them to avoid periods all together, some take it to avoid painful or heavy periods. Other reasons such as helping balance hormone levels and moods. Some want the reassurance of not falling pregnant should the situation arise. There are plenty of women who aren't actively on BC for a multitud…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:28 PM
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The male contraceptive pill they are trying to develop does not reduce sex drive. The scientists care more about the mons pills than the women's. They have to sell it at the end of the day. The women's pills are as bad as they are because women use them and there's no financial incentive to develop a new one when you're producing one that is already tested and approved.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:20 PM
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Or they use it to control periods and other related issues that can be painful or straight up a Hassel to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:15 PM
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I would use it and I'm not rich or famous or 'Chad' Female hormonal birth control can cause havoc with a woman's body. Other forms are also quite invasive. Would be the same as getting the chop except less permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:00 PM
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There's always a reason with these kind of people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:50 PM
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But is she isn't dating him for his money or his looks what could it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:09 PM
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Don't think any of the Kardashians needs his money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:59 PM
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There's more to attractiveness than looks. Just look at Pete Davidson.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:42 PM
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Looks aren't everything
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 06:35 PM
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What does your job matter? Doesn't mean you get to disregard an entire field of science.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:06 PM
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I mean there's a whole category of science based around the concept of it. Social science. Or have you never heard of it? I mean it's really not hard to find people acting in ways that aren't in their best interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:03 PM
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On what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:17 PM
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That's a small world you have there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:28 PM
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Its not about being nice or not. Just upfront about your intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:23 PM
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There's plenty more to life than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:22 PM
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Says more about you than anything else. Be better dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:12 PM
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And it's so obvious it will never work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 06:06 PM
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This doesn't make much sense. The "nice guys" you are talking about aren't nice guys. There trying to be a certain way to get with women. They feel entitled to sex for being a decent human being and usually have issues everywhere. They are waiting for an emotionally vulnerable situation that they can take advantage of. Women will sleep with the men they want to. Decent men bad men whatever. Also no one wants to be with a yes man. If you aren't ever challenged on anything or made to want to be be…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:26 PM
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But your saying it would cause the breakdown of everything within a relationship? So an emotional bond or other physical interaction wouldn't be enough? Your telling me you would leave your wife if she didn't spread her legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:14 AM
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Course I was still am. For some people sex isn't everything. There's a huge spectrum when it comes to sexuality some people done ever want sex at all. Now I'm not one of those people but if I was to never have sex with my wife again I wouldn't look elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:07 AM
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Yeh I wouldn't suffer I'm happy where I am. Love and relationships can transcend sex. I'm not a teenager anymore. Yeh it's nice it's fun but if my wife couldn't have sex with me again I would be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:02 AM
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Fine thats how it be sometimes. I don't do any of it for the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:53 PM
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I like them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:48 PM
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What biological mind? We really aren't as different to the other sex as you or society would like you to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:59 AM
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My god go talk to anyone, hell read a book. People are just people. Look past the sex and just see people. It'll do you the world of good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:52 AM
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I dunno man I'm not chad and I don't think I wanna chop my balls of either. That's like saying my hands are not feet therefore I should remove my thumbs. I quite like my thumbs as they are and they have serviced me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 10:51 PM
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I don't think men are more superficial than women. I think society is superficial and individual desires and wants are very much different from the expected. Which is why so many people spend so much time judging others rather than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 09:53 PM
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I'm nit really even sure what your talking about, taking anyone for a meal or whatever you do won't intrinsically get them in the mood. To take someone out to get some will never work because your head and intention isn't to make a connection with someone it's to fuck. Make the effort for someone else regardless of sexual reward and just do something you both enjoy, connect and now and then the sparks will fly. Depending on the individual you could connect over a meal, spa day, the cinema, a gig…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 09:26 PM
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Might need to change the women your after because non of those things have ever been an issue for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:41 PM
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Yeh it can drop, it's completely understandable too so many things change. Its just part of being in a loving long term relationship with someone. It shouldn't matter if she takes 10 weeks or ten years. It isn't an excuse to do the dirty. If you aren't happy leave. Easy peasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 03:56 PM
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Then you aren't ready to be in a relationship. You aren't content enough with yourself. If you manipulate yourself into a relationship neither of you will be happy and it's a waste of time. Women don't want to be 'hit on' but if you can find someone who laughs at your stupid ass jokes there's a good chance you might get on. Just try being friends. No motive of looking for sex or a relationship. Just go out have fun chat to girls who you think look like you can get along with and move on. The nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:32 PM
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I have to disagree belive it or not life's all about personal growth. Being with someone who you can grow together with is what leads to long term fulfilling relationships. A relationship isn't a competition. It's not point scoring it's figuring shit out together and being there for each other. Couples can row, fall out, whatever as long as the issues resolved and everyone apologises appropriately it dosnt turn toxic. You also have to be okay with yourself before your in a relationship with anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:01 PM
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That's an odd hill to die on. Let people do what they want as long as it isn't hurting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:53 PM
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I'm glad your looking to your quality of life going backwards. The land of the free wanting to take more rights away from more people. Not really a surprise USA Land of the free rich white man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:37 PM
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If you ban abortions in the US everything will regress 50 years. You will destroy your economy and everyone will suffer. Sorry. The economic impact of such would mean that there will never be an abortion ban. It would damage big business.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:29 PM
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But they are two different things. The moral justification in each case is vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:25 PM
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I can't imagine anything worse
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:22 PM
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Okay Ali G restecpa
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:50 AM
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I don't use my marriage as a metric for success I use the fulfilment and jot I have as my metric for success. I just know I wouldn't be in the position I'm in without trying to be the best person I can everyday and maximising the enjoyment of life of the people I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 06:47 PM
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I have no idea what that is meant to mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:58 PM
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I don't think anyone would say regardless of external conditions as long as love exists then everything will be okay, relationships are so much more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:26 PM
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In that case everyone is redpill surely. Iv never done anything just for a woman. I do what I do because I want to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 05:08 PM
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I'm not saying I'm a success or anything I'm just saying I'm being the best me I can be and iv ended up being surrounded by great people. I see so many posts on here like this one objectifying men and women as if any of its true. Women feel, they have wants and desires just like you. If your just sitting there expecting the worse then that's what you get. When you get up and get on good things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:46 PM
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I struggle to understand any of this red pill stuff. I've never cared about how attractive I am to anyone. I just do me. I've never been rich, muscular or anything special, when in socialsituationsI'm a introvert. I have however always been independent, lived in my own place, had a car and socialised whenever I could, at times I was skint. I'm 28 and happily married. Most women want a man who can look after himself and is at least trying to go places and tries to better themselves. Not some fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 04:08 PM
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Don't change yourself for anyone it's fake and won't make you happy. Wear what you like do what makes you happy. If someone comes into your life that enhances it kep them around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:19 PM
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Was I the one who used a personal attack? I said stop being a tit after he insinuated my wife is faking a relationship with me. Ones far more personal than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 10:37 PM
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Might have something to do with me seeing my wife as a person rather than the made up idea of a woman these guys have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 02:17 PM
7

Haha my wife can't hide her feelings to save her life. She wears her heart on her sleeve and never holds back when she has something to say. Either that or she should get her self off to Hollywood and earn the big bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:19 PM
5

I know she wouldn't divorce me. I wouldn't be threatened either, might be having to set an extra seat for dinner now and then though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 12:07 PM
0

Pretty face, petite body, alternative style everything I ever wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:45 AM
6

Honestly knowing her I'm more likely to find her in bed with a woman than a man nothing ever happens as is expected in our house.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:33 AM
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My god why is it so hard for you to understand women are people ith thoughts emotions and feelings unique to themselves. I'm average as toast and my wife's a 10. Trust me when I say she's happy. It's not all looks and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 11:23 AM
1

Just say 'You having a good night at the bar' compliment an outfit, don't jump into hey wanna hangout or something. If someone's interested they will engage back and just chat with them. Don't do it to pick someone up. Sometimes people will just want to chat and that's fine. Nothing invested nothing lost. Like above and below the guys on this group are so obsessed about looks and it's forgotten that some people are quietly awesome. Non of my friends are Chad's or Stacey's. They are quiet shy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 09:21 PM
2

They arent traits necessarily related to masculinity, its a case of a lot of guys wanting to be dependent on a woman whilst offering little to nothing back in the relationship. Being able to look after yourself, earn a livable wage, look after kids and stay on top of the housework are skills essential to any successful long term relationship. Being handy is a trait that has been traditionally seen as masculine and is a massive help around the house at times but in most cases isn't a necessity in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:55 PM
1

Show me the data then. For whatever you think you have that proves whatever point your trying to make. Until you provide anything all your claiming is an argument from authority. A falicy. What makes you think I have a neoliberal argument to make? Strawman falicy. Life is miserable for men. Again nothing but an analogy. Nothing there to change my mind. I haven't argued women are anything other than people. Strawman falicy. There hasn't been a deleted post on here. Plenty of talk about Chad's and…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:26 PM
3

This group is just stupid. It's just an incel echo chamber no different to any racist/extreme political group. Even the women in here expessing how they feel/experience the world are dismissed in the name of the Stacy/Chad relationship lie they tell each other. They want someone else to blame for the fact they have issues so they don't have to grow into decent people who actually have fulfilling lives and relationships. This whole strawman argument they create in order to satisfy their own insec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 06:54 PM
2

What a successful marriage needs is all of those things. It's not about cherry picking. Being empathetic in a relationship is key. Both partners need all these things. I didn't get my wife because I'm a chad. I had an active social life, lived independently, had a job, a car and could look after myself. Your 2d worldview has Alphas and Betas and no in-between. You start putting people into boxes and you no longer have people with thoughts feelings and everything that comes with being a person an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 05:47 PM
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Dude why is it crushing that the vast majority of women don't want to sleep with you? Why do you even care? I'm no 'chad' but there is a woman that would go over miles of hot coals for me. Women don't feel particularly comfortable with random men approaching them on the street because of the immediate imbalance of power within any interaction. If that interaction is then of what might be perceived as having sexual intention of course its scary for them. If the 'chad' has the highest suicide rate…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 03:02 PM
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