RelapsedSexAddict Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Russian Pornstar Kayla Green. Actively says she likes gangsters and have dated them before. Then goes on a “maturity” phase saying she wants a nice Asian guy.	Camwhore Consequences	RelapsedSexAddict	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/10/20 09:46 PM
5	How many will she pop out by the time she’s 37?	Tramp	RelapsedSexAddict	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	28/10/20 11:49 PM

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1	Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR) You clearly didn't read the first post. Literally wrote that I understand nightlife is a good place if you're just trying to get more comfortable and confident around women. Read man, read.	/r/seduction	18/01/21 04:21 AM
3	Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR) Why would you street approach? You need pretext otherwise you're just playing games again to build sexual tension. You're way too deep into pickup artistry. You should try to meet women by living your life, not by going out walking around to find a girl to talk to on the street. Go to the grocery, the movies, grab lunch, get food with friends, go to the gym, do some hobbies, etc and if you see a cute girl, make eye contact and smile, if she send you interest back, go talk to her, that is natural…	/r/seduction	18/01/21 01:23 AM
4	Almost kissed a 9/10 when clubbing last night (FR) Jesus christ. Clubbing is how you meet awful women. If you have game, you know your worth, which means you know that none of those women are worth your time. If they want to play an "orbiting" game, they aren't for you. They are low class self conscious women that are only after male attention and fake teasing masculinity. Literally, everything about clubbing is a game and finding a woman isn't a game nor should it be. If you're playing a game, you're doing it wrong. Seduction is about being a s…	/r/seduction	17/01/21 07:06 PM
2	Attractive guys get stared at by women but also men? Attractive women in the US rarely approach guys. They get so many offers they don’t need to. But it depends on what type of person they are which determines their fate. The attractive and classy girls will be married to any man they want whenever they want. Attractive and stupid girls, like 95% of them, will hit the wall and settle for someone when they are 40. In Scandinavia I have been approached by attractive women but that is normal there. I get approached by women I would never choose to da…	/r/seduction	30/11/20 02:21 PM
43	I noticed when I got busy in life, people/ attention became less important, but then they suddenly wanted more of my attention. 3 years ago my fiance jilted me cause she was “too young to marry”. I moved and decided to work remotely. I was lonely and depressed and started seeing an escort. I got sick of my job and decided to open an ice cream shop with all my savings. My income was like 5k a year and with the little saving i was able to keep by sleeping in my store room of the shop, i used to continue seeing the escort. But it went from about once a week to once a month maybe. Suddenly, she stopped charging me and wanted…	/r/seduction	23/11/20 05:56 PM
3	A Slight Attitude Adjustment I sure hope you have a five figure income..... otherwise you are probably living in desolate poverty	/r/seduction	22/11/20 11:21 PM
1	How many will she pop out by the time she’s 37? Yes... that is indeed what she is. All her pics are of her smoking weed and posing in underwear. No kids in them	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	29/10/20 12:11 AM
1	How many will she pop out by the time she’s 37? The rest of her pictures clearly depict a mother earth truck stop vibe. Literally what I would imagine a female truck driver who smokes weed 24/7 would look like.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	29/10/20 12:10 AM
3	Is it possible to be monogamous ? One girl for life? I think this all comes down to attitude towards sex. I am fairly young (26) and I was engaged when I was 20. She changed her mind cause she said she was “too young”. I was different in that I had always wanted to be married and have a family early. But after failures in dating in the past and little bit post jilting, I basically decided that it is a waste of time cause none of these girls are serious and it was hard enough to find someone I would go on a second date with. All that to say I kinda…	/r/seduction	14/10/20 01:49 PM
4	Cannot accept the modern dating, oneitis, worst pain of my life. Yeah man. I know many guys are just fucks that want to fuck everything that moves, but in the recent past 2 decades, many women have gotten 20000x worse about it. If she has a FWB, I’m not going yo really bat an eyelash. If she has a couple hookups in her life... so.... I have too. Most people have. But if you’re managing 2 FWBs and are still hooking up.... sorry.... the words coming out of her mouth are all LIES! I don’t care if you’ve fucked 1 guy or 10 or depending on age and kinks, even 100.…	/r/seduction	15/09/20 06:57 PM
13	She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly. 100%. It took me years to realize it was my text game that was killing me. I honestly don’t understand people. I know what I like and I know what turns me on and how I would want a woman to interact with me. Turns out people are weird and don’t like the same thing I do. So several years ago, my mentality became “I just don’t care anymore and all trying is doing is giving me more problems. I’m done with trying on these fake ass women.” That was my mentality and you would not believe the change th…	/r/seduction	14/09/20 03:12 PM
3	For all the guys out there if you lock eyes with a girl and she smiles approach her please! Yes, I agree. At the start of last year, I had a bit of a glow up as a guy and started getting a lot of attention from women for the first time in my life. I did not know how to respond or what to do at all. I let so many beautiful women show me their interest and all I did was walk past them and smile at the most. At first I though I had a cow lick or a stain on my shirt. I never knew what to say or what to do and to this day.... I regret that so much. I have spent the past 6 months completely …	/r/seduction	12/09/20 09:25 PM
2	Red flags to take serious at all times I have mixed feeling about this... heres the thing. I’m American but I always grew up being taught to pay for my dates. When my date says she’ll pay, I insist once more but if she insists again...idk. I never know what to do because I know many times it is just a show and of course I’d pay and other times girls get genuinely upset that I didn’t let them pay.... it is really all over the place in the US and I hate it. On the other hand, somewhere like Iceland or Russia, things are extremely cut a…	/r/seduction	06/09/20 05:26 PM
1	People who had a "Glow Up", how did your life change, in general ? Definitely not a chad	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/20 05:39 PM
1	Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻 Love the sarcasm. This American defined feminist bullshit is ruining social dynamics and only making everyone miserable. People are realizing how fucked up it is and guys really really need to understand that they need to block out the bullshit being spouted. Be a god damn man and go after the girl. You don’t need consent to be a god damn man. Have some self respect.	/r/seduction	05/08/20 07:41 PM
1	People who had a "Glow Up", how did your life change, in general ? Nope. I certainly don’t if I don’t know them. When guys realize girls are the same as most guys, we stop treating girls differently until we can fully judge their character.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 02:29 AM
2	People who had a "Glow Up", how did your life change, in general ? 100% can relate. So many girls that show interest just can’t hold a conversation or were boring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 01:09 AM
1	People who had a "Glow Up", how did your life change, in general ? Those aren’t men. Real men won’t treat you any differently because they are confident in themselves and confident in the fact that they could have you and if not, they know they can find someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 01:06 AM
1	People who had a "Glow Up", how did your life change, in general ? I was fairly ugly guy, maybe a 3 until I was 20. I got my acne cleared up, I started working out, I got a proper haircut, and clothes that fit. I was told I was beautiful or gorgeous by girls all the time and even by guys. Some people said I was a 10, others called me a 7. I think my looks are kind of polarizing, not a Hollywood 10 like Brad Pitt or Ryan Reynolds. At first I didn’t know what was happening. I didn’t realize I was attractive and all these girls kept looking at me and I thought I h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/20 12:55 AM
2	Have a life and they will flock to you, insane how fast it works Yup, it’s a whole different world and a whole different generation. Things aren’t so pretty out there but I hold on because I know there will be that 1 person that will make it all worth it eventually.	/r/seduction	24/07/20 02:52 PM
10	Have a life and they will flock to you, insane how fast it works I agree, it really is concerning but there are a good number of people IRL that do act the way the girl in OPs post did. I have probably talked to with interest/intent with probably 50+ girls in my short 23 years, and been on maybe 30 first dates. Of those, Maybe half I was interested in going on a second date. Of the 15 of them, I got strong signs of interest pretty early on from 13 of them. 2 of them were more reserved and not too obvious until several dates later that they were interested. Of…	/r/seduction	24/07/20 12:04 AM
15	Have a life and they will flock to you, insane how fast it works Exactly! She sounds like a casual fling at most.	/r/seduction	23/07/20 08:12 PM
13	Have a life and they will flock to you, insane how fast it works I know so many women that found that out too late. They are Karens now	/r/seduction	23/07/20 08:09 PM
56	Have a life and they will flock to you, insane how fast it works I don’t even bother with these girls. They are a waste of time if they are like that. You need to find someone who is going to be with you because they are into you, not someone who is going to play mind games. Leads to nothing good. I constantly have those types after me because I just ignore them. But I know their past or how they’ve acted with me before so I don’t even pay them attention. One girl was doing exactly like what OP was saying in the post to an extreme... she would stare at me and…	/r/seduction	23/07/20 07:20 PM
2	I always thrived from starting off in the friend zone 100% anyone who had been to college knows the friend zone if done right is a ticket to at least some casual fun.	/r/seduction	15/07/20 03:50 PM
1	Do girls like "nice guys" or "bad boys"? A woman that chases a bad boy is not the woman you want to date. This entire post is under the presumption that men chase women. The men that have real success are men who let women chase them. Not by being a bad boy or a nice guy. A guy who is just living his life, is respectable enough to dress well and have good hygiene, and most importantly a guy who knows how to flirt and tease and has a personality that is attractive to be around. A girl that chases you cause you are a “bad boy” is a waste…	/r/seduction	04/07/20 09:33 PM
3	If a girl takes you home on the first date, does she expect you to initiate physically? I really depends. If there was eye contact and she was touching your arm or smiling, etc, then she might have expected you to initiate. If not... I have no clue why she invited you over. Honestly, I have a very simple philosophy. If she wants it and she is showing you she wants it, I will initiate. If she is not showing you but she still wants it, she should initiate. If she wasn’t showing signs and she expected you to initiate, you gotta run man. Girls that are unable to initiate or won’t ever …	/r/seduction	27/06/20 10:49 PM
4	Do you guys still get "butterflies" when with women? Butterflies come from nervousness and excitement. When I was new to dating I got them all the time and I was unsuccessful most of the time. The more you date the less you get them on the first date. In my experience, I get them on the first date if she is a particularly special girl or she does or wears something or has a particular hair style, etc that you find very unique and attractive. When I do get butterflies it usually happens on the second date with a girl I really had a fantastic first …	/r/seduction	27/06/20 02:27 PM
51	How do i[M] escalate to a kiss on a first date? If it is a first date, I would say the most important part is showing intent first. Unless she is a specific type of girl, grabbing her and spontaneously kissing her is kinda like wtf. I usually kiss after flirty banter or non-sexual innuendos she is receptive to. It builds tension and you can move closer to her while doing it. Or right after you make her laugh. My general rule of thumb is eye contact at a minimum, eye contact and physical contact is optimal, and eye contact + physical contact +…	/r/seduction	27/06/20 02:23 PM
1	what's the Male version of wearing provocative clothing 100% and they become more attractive for doing so	/r/seduction	26/06/20 12:55 PM
1	Cold approach from a girl's perspective Here’s my question.... what about when the girl gives you signals first. For instance when she smirks and gives you the eye as you walk by? Girls rarely ever do anything about it and never approach even if they want to which is a bummer but... if she is clearly showing her sexual interest, do I just kill that and approach her indirectly?	/r/seduction	26/06/20 12:34 PM
1	what's the Male version of wearing provocative clothing Oh yeah, so many girls are shy. I really wish girls were more willing to be confident about how they feel. It is so attractive when they are.	/r/seduction	26/06/20 12:31 PM
2	Question on flirting When you’re flirting you can say something along the lines of “oh I bet your boyfriend likes that” or something. Assume she has a boyfriend in a line and she will either confirm it or say nothing which is confirming it. Or she will say she doesn’t have a boyfriend, which is a gold mine setup for what you can say next.	/r/seduction	26/06/20 02:00 AM
1	What separates men who get laid, from men who rarely get laid? Dude, I’m 6’3 and have been told I look like an actor on several occasions. Girls eye me as I pass all the time. Not once.... Not fucking once have I been approached by any of these girls smirking and eyeing me. Only 1 has approached me and she was not very attractive to me. I don’t know if you live in a different culture but I’m in the US and women here very very rarely approach. Also, like the lady in the comments mentioned, personality is a big factor. Sure she might be attracted to you if yo…	/r/seduction	26/06/20 01:56 AM
0	Cold approach from a girl's perspective Here’s my question.... what about when the girl gives you signals first. For instance when she smirks and gives you the eye as you walk by? Girls rarely ever do anything about it and never approach even if they want to which is a bummer but... if she is clearly showing her sexual interest, do I just kill that and approach her indirectly?	/r/seduction	26/06/20 01:12 AM
2	what's the Male version of wearing provocative clothing Depends on the situation. I’ve gotten pretty picky about girls in terms of personality so just talking to all those girls is sometimes not the best approach. I can normally tell whether I will get along with a girl or whether she is my type based on what she is wearing and things like that. I avoid the sorority/instagram looking types for example. Also sometimes I’m not in a good situation to approach like in a crowded area or walking in opposite directions in a crowded area. It’s also difficult…	/r/seduction	25/06/20 08:28 PM
2	what's the Male version of wearing provocative clothing Oh yeah definitely me too. I had a very rough childhood (mom issues) and I was quite frankly ugly until I started to give a damn in college. At first when I started getting looks from some of these girls I was like wtf is happening... do I have a stain or a cow lick or something? It was an awakening. It took me a long time to figure out the social skills to do anything about it too	/r/seduction	25/06/20 02:50 PM
1	what's the Male version of wearing provocative clothing Yeah... I get looks from all kinds of girls. I think sexy is sexy in all languages if you will.	/r/seduction	25/06/20 02:27 PM
3	what's the Male version of wearing provocative clothing I started by watching a youtube channel of a guy that does it. He gave all the resources necessary to know what I needed to buy and where to start. It is pretty vague sometimes though. I had to watch tens of hours of his videos and others to put the pieces together. Honestly, I would just start practicing on old stretched out tshirts or buy some cheap ass shirts from walmart and practice. Buy a seam ripper too so you can practice stitching and cross stitching over and over. You can also ask for …	/r/seduction	25/06/20 12:37 PM
7	what's the Male version of wearing provocative clothing Yeah, I tend to dress more modern classy look and I seem to get the most attention when I wear button downs with the arms rolled up or hoodies sweaters with the arms rolled up. I also get a bunch of looks when I wear my black puffer jacket. I think what matters like you said is how it fits the upper body and ass. The style itself I don’t think matters so much as the fit. I bought a sewing machine and started tailoring my clothes because I am very very difficult to fit off the rack. You can make …	/r/seduction	25/06/20 03:55 AM
1	Is it weird that my mom wants to help me get laid? I’m just curious how your mom is gonna help you get laid...	/r/seduction	25/06/20 03:29 AM
59	Notice good looking women are nicer to guys who look similar, anyone else? I’m a fairly attractive Asian and I have noticed this. I get much less success with Blondes but knock it out of the park with brunettes and Latinas	/r/seduction	23/06/20 11:43 PM