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Yeah, sometimes I'd have sex, then we'd have 5-10 mins of downtime before my uber/lyft came and we'd have nothing to talk about. It was so funny, like we just met at a party and didn't have anything in common, cept we just had sex. I remember, I asked her for a drink and she gave me water. I was like, mannn, can't I get some juice! Or an upgraded beverage, we just did it for 2 hours! And the uber was $50 each way! hahaha
/r/seduction15/04/20 02:23 PM
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Being attractive has little to do with success. It's about energy, vibe and being a fun, cool guy. Being aggressive and being disrespectful, rude and making people uncomfortable is different. It's fine to be aggressive, just be polite, a gentleman and don't cross the line. Glad you worked up the courage in NYC and can do it any time any where. I usually can too, but sometimes get scared and chicken out. It's ok to do, as long as you can do like 80 - 90% of the time and enough to get results you …
/r/seduction15/04/20 02:18 PM
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If you wish you had this skill, you can have it. Being ugly or ethnic or anything short of smelling really bad, even then you could find a girl who had a bad sense of smell or also smelled bad...It's totally possible to change how you think. To start small and build it up. Don't give up on yourself. There are plenty of other people willing to do that for you. I've seen shy guys who thought negatively and weren't that good looking turn it around and get girls. Pick up usually means objectifying w…
/r/seduction15/04/20 02:14 PM
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It's great that you did it a lot! It means you have courage and go after what you want! Sometimes boyfriends and girlfriends (I always Love this one ;) will come up and allow your social savviness to shine. I usually go with the, "You're lucky to have this gem, be careful someone (ahem) may try to steal them away" and then exit stage right. Or the classic, wow, this is awkward and try to make it more awkward and just stand there...Have fun with it. It's all about having fun. I noticed you staid …
/r/seduction15/04/20 02:08 PM
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Thanks for the comment! I understand where you're coming from, but it can get great results and if things get weird, I will thank them for their time and politely leave.
/r/seduction14/04/20 07:04 AM
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Whatever floats your boat! It's hard getting rejected. The important thing is to brush it off, like water off a ducks back and keep trying. It's a numbers game and if you keep trying, eventually you will find a girl who's interesting and interested...in you. You can try grocery stores, the mall and other places besides bars because some girls get approached too much at the bar. Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction14/04/20 07:02 AM
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Everyone has different standards. It's true that relationships, usually, are more than just sex and getting along is important. If you want to be happy, you'll choose personality. And "fluttered her eyelashes"...! I love this, it's old-school/classic. It makes me think you're over 50 or maybe from the south. I wish more people talked like that!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:47 AM
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Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:42 AM
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Definitely! Bonus! Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:42 AM
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Absolutely! If they have a great personality, they can still be gorgeous looking: Bonus! Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:41 AM
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Hope you get paid, $10/hour for a "10", cus it could be a lot of work/stress. Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:40 AM
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I agree. Texting is mainly to be used as a tool to setup a date. You can also use it to build attraction as many people consider it a legitimate form of communication. So I'd say do both, but mainly I hate texting. I try to keep it to an absolute minimum and do everything in person. Talking on the phone is a great way to build rapport before a date. Thanks for the comments, Vamsig66!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:32 AM
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Absolutely! Once you're in the friend zone, you're basically done. If you like a girl, it's important to not act like a friend, be clear with her and if she tries to put you there to shatter that frame immediately. You have to be vigilant and on your toes. If she says, "Oh you're so cute" You can say, "Yeah, like a puppy, except this puppy wants to sleep with you and not as a friend." haha
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:29 AM
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That's true. What's more important to you? Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:25 AM
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Everyone makes their own reality. Some people put up with a lot of bull and bicker, stress and fight so they can maintain that beautiful on the outside person. I urge you to find someone with a beautiful personality, looks average or even below so you will be happy and have less stress in your relationships. Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:24 AM
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It really requires knowing who you are and being the person you want to be. Sure, you'll be attracted to hot people, but if their personality is lacking--drop them quick, like Amazon (Good at firing people, I heard). If there's someone that's not that beautiful, give them a chance. Just remember personality is much more important than looks. Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:22 AM
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Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:20 AM
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That's true, there has to be attraction. Even if you have a really pretty girl, other pretty girls will attract you, it's in our DNA. Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:20 AM
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I totally agree, I'm saying it's ok to have needs and convey them to your partner in a healthy way. To be vulnerable, open and honest. It's much better to be solid, like you said and be ok on your own, like a Redwood tree. You write really well and have a clear understanding--you'd do well as a blogger! Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:18 AM
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Hope you get paid, cus it could be a lot of work/stress. Thanks for the comment!
/r/seduction14/04/20 12:14 AM
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It's important to be clear with girls: Do you like her or just want to be friends? And be clear with yourself first. If you like her, you should tell her. If you just want to be friends, tell her also. Another thing is that texting sucks. Call her. What's happened here and happens all the time is that it "Fizzled Out." Sometimes it can't be prevented. In this case it fizzled out because it wasn't clear if you wanted only friends or more and a lot of people prefer phone calls / video chats after …
/r/seduction11/04/20 04:12 AM
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Whenever a girl gives you her number, unless she lives in a cave, she knows there's the possibility that you like her: Especially if she's really cute. Since you obtained said number using a different pretext, you need to mention that. You could say, Hey you, I asked about running for a position, but I also like you...Are you mad? Can you ever forgive me? btw I would ask you on a date, if our conversation flows well, but I'm worried you'll sneeze all over me...So I've decided to run for a Sneeze…
/r/seduction11/04/20 03:42 AM
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Another thing I wanted to mention is that sometimes when you have a Negative Attitude it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. It could affect your pictures, bio and messaging. If you think it won't work and isn't working and people can sense it: It won't work. It's hard to change your attitude, especially because 10+ years is a long time. It is possible, but hard. In messages, try to be playful and flirty, not average and boring. Don't talk about sex too early and...Well messages are a whole diff…
/r/seduction11/04/20 03:07 AM
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I feel your pain. When it seems like it hasn't been working for an extended period of time, 10+ years, it's easy to internalize. The good news is that there is a formula to online dating. There are things that work. Mostly, it's your pictures. Are you indoors or out, smiling or not, with groups or alone. If with groups, are you in the middle of the group, with your arms around someone or on the side and a little shy/awkward. Do you have facial hair/glasses/hats. Are you tiny, can't be seen or up…
/r/seduction11/04/20 02:48 AM
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Thanks Daniel! How's your dating going? Any tips or questions? I love discussing this stuff! Cheers
/r/seduction10/04/20 06:23 AM
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It's not what you say, but how you say it. I once got the the point where I'd talk to 5 different girls every day. At first it was really hard! I'd be nervous all day. I'd see a girl at a bus stop and chicken out. Then all these thoughts/excuses would pop up like popcorn and I'd start drowning in them. Then I'd push myself. Tell myself the worst that could happen is she'd be rude. And some girls are rude. But a lot are friendly. You can try a direct approach, "I saw you, you look pretty and I wa…
/r/seduction09/04/20 04:58 AM
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