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RelativeJellyfish/r/askMRP04/06/18 03:34 PM
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I'd be clear if she has sex with anyone else for any reason then you guys are done. However, you need to man up and get the finances in order. You may need to take some drastic finance action (sell a car?). My view is that you are either in this together or not at all. She should not be a cleaner and should find a "normal" job... If your explanation that she was just doing this for "family" reason is true, then I'd keep her as long as she does not escort or engage in any similar behavior... But …
/r/askMRP06/03/23 06:05 PM
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Why are you posting in MRP? I'm tired of hearing from these boys who are just trying to get ass... Grow the fuck up, struggle like a Man (stoicism is lifelong), and don't refer to women as bitches. Stay classy and don't post here until you are over 30 and in a LTR.
/r/askMRP07/02/23 04:03 PM
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What would divorce look like? I've contemplated it (3 kids, average wife). Basically, I enjoy her. That, plus kids, is enough to keep it as is, for me. I still work on self improvement. Had affairs, recently heard that men have affairs to stay married, women have affairs to break marriages. Rings true. But I'm at a point in life that affairs are too much work (and they are slot of work!) And I'm just settling into a good routine with the wife (regular sex, but 3 kids ages 10 to 5 require a lot).
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/21 02:50 AM
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How's it's going in the sex world now? out of a deadbedroom? just curious.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/18 06:00 PM
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Are you trying to be pretty?? Yes, some girls want pretty, but most want strong males. This is the best advantage we men have, since pretty looks fade... That old adage of "men get better looking with time" is true... I'd focus on looking/being strong, muscular, successful, and healthy. If you are those things, then frame and mission are next. Take care of your skin but don't obsess. Your dick and face are the two things you can't change, so worry about what you can.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 06:05 PM
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Man, you are all over the place in the post. Seems like your wife is having emotional affairs with randoms on the internet. Your (sex) life is good (according to you). So you need find other outlets for your mind and energy. My best advice is: Trust but Verify. The occasional snooping is ok, but it's probably better to notice any slight behavioral differences (and then verify). Otherwise, you know what you need to do. Make you better...
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:56 PM
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Personally, I don't think I could forgive and forget if my wife crossed that line. But everyone is different and sometimes trauma takes a relationship to a different level... You are not directly responsible for Her actions. Sure, it may be that you, as an uninspiring husband, caused her to seek outside affection. But don't let yourself be an excuse for her. If the cheating did happen, then you have to decide if you will be able to move beyond it or if you are going to hold it over her in a pass…
/r/askMRP25/06/18 07:20 PM
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Start reading the Book of Pook. It's good that you know to STFU, lift, pass shit tests (clearly not ready). But you are missing a big piece and that is Frame. Frame can be all too encompassing, but more than anything else it is the jackpot. STFU, lifting, passing shit tests are all tools for improving your Frame (in a fake it till you make it sense). But back to the Book of Pook. The book is a huge reminder that you must be FUN. Fun is the way into any girls panties. Getting butthurt and losing …
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:01 PM
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So, she bought a house? I've been following some of your posts. It sounds like divorce was moving forward, but now it's tabled due to her dad? Did she buy a house? For just her and the kid, or is this a whole family move out of an apartment? I thought I noticed you were planning on moving to a new city upon return from your deployment. Is she already in the new city, near her parents? Best I can offer you is that remember reading somewhere that you only get 2 "Sorrys." And the idea of it is not …
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:57 PM
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I'd like to think that I projected the second Frame.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 09:42 PM
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I agree, but I'm the one who initiated. I always initiate (every fucking day). She was ready to oblige, but it was clear she was tired and didn't want to... so essentially, she was ready to oblige with some duty-sex in a half-assed way. I thought, "nah, let's do this another time" for which she was thankful (or had just highly manipulated me). I just didn't need to fuck a limp body. I generally take her up on the duty-sex, but this would have been a negative interaction. Now my initial reaction …
/r/askMRP04/06/18 09:41 PM
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Perfect, thanks.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 06:39 PM
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You have limited commenting history, but I think you have an inferiority complex. (No, I'm not calling you short). Your wife makes more money than you. You also get super worked up when she complains about the patriarchal nature of our society. Open your fucking eyes man. First, none of this hurts you, how are you slighted? It reminds me of a Chris Rock (?) special, where he talked about being black and how no white person in the audience would switch places with him, and he's fuckin' rich. Do y…
/r/askMRP23/05/18 08:00 PM
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A lady in the street but a slut in the bed. That's all that we really want. That's what they really want too, it's just not wise to tell them. There are multiple realities out there. Each of us are multifaceted, too. RP is best left unsaid. It sounds like your political banter should be left unsaid too. Don't you think you would be more attractive if she "knew" you had androcentric (male-dominate) political views but hardly let it surface. I'm not saying bottle it in, but be more confident in yo…
/r/askMRP23/05/18 07:44 PM
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I don't know, man. Same shit happened to me last night. My wife brought up this morning how it seemed like I was acting like I used to a year ago all butthurt and running away (I've been on the RP path for about 8 months now). I literally didn't give a fuck about not fucking last night (even though I also kino'd and flirted all evening). I just decided that I would do something else instead of going to bed a the same time as her (we often crash at the same time). Nothing to do with her, yes, if …
/r/askMRP15/05/18 01:46 PM
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DO NOT SAY ANYTHING TO YOUR WIFE about this. You need to let it go. OTHERWISE YOU WILL SHOW YOU ARE A WEAK INSECURE boy. Your eyes are wide open now, watch her and improve yourself. The best things you need to do now: STFU, Lift, and DNGAF.
/r/askMRP11/05/18 12:51 PM
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I'm gonna veer slightly off the MRP/TRP train here (though MRP is fundamentally OK with marriage, not really Pro). You only marry someone you love. Any other reason is not valid. You can also love someone and NOT marry them (usually for a whole list of reasons such as: terrible financially, unstable, depression, family issues, toxic fights, etc.). If you are in love, though, these things can be hard to see, and therefore core family and friends can help one see reality. Good pussy always clouds …
/r/askMRP10/05/18 02:14 PM
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I don't understand. How is she costing you money? Sounds like you partially funded a business venture that failed. But you chose to live in a house vs the condo. Are you including the condo profit into her salary? Marriage is not a financial partnership, it is not a business. Either you like being with her or you would rather not. When my SO and I first started living together, the essential expenses (i.e., rent, food, utilities) were split on a pro rata basis (basically, if I bring in 2/3rds of…
/r/askMRP09/05/18 08:07 PM
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Divorce prior to realizing your earning potential..
/r/askMRP06/05/18 01:43 PM
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Since you are forward looking, you need to set up your life where you live comfortably on one salary. Do it now, it will afford many options in the future. This is what you need to do. You do not need to push your new wife into a lower level career position. Who knows when or if you may have kids. Life throws many many curve balls. Let your wife work as much as she wants to work and let her climb the corporate ladder. Changes can be made when and if they are needed. The woman you reference is mi…
/r/askMRP27/04/18 03:44 PM
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How's your frame and outcome independence? Are you applying kino daily? Are you trying to get laid daily? I have a few more kids than you, but it took 8-10 months after each birth before sex was more normal (though I wasn't satisfied with normal since it was once or twice a month). This was all pre-MRP. But having young kids added significantly to the stress and struggle between us.. even though I was the best Beta husband a new mother could have.. Like you, I have been the instrument of change.…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 03:36 PM
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No more talking... STFU. You need a lot more Kino and Dread (sidebar). I have no idea about your Frame, but that can almost always use improving. Your youngest is 2. This shit takes time, but it usually works. Plan on spending a year improving through the MRP sidebar. Dread will probably be your best course of action, but take it slow and start acting like you don't need sex from her because you can get from anywhere. BUT... don't stop initiating... I initiate nearly every night (even though I g…
/r/askMRP10/04/18 07:17 PM
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Nice, this makes me want to hit the gym now...
/r/askMRP27/03/18 08:45 PM
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Remember, she is not yours.. it is just your turn. Keep this perspective. I believe what you need is in the 16 commandments of Poon. Stay fun. For your own self validation, you probably need more guy friends and regular catch and release "practice". Many males would struggle with a woman is worth more (in $) than the man (except freeloaders). If you can continue to build your own (assets/company/network/$/etc), you should take pride in what you have done and continue to do. Do not compare yourse…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 05:38 PM
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It is not up to you to Rebuild Your Home. It is up to you to fix yourself. Pretty clear you are a doormat right now. You may think this/she is better than the alternative... but that alternative is only temporary. Fix yourself: Lift harder and eat less. Fix your finances (set up separate accounts now). Figure out how to increase your income. Plan your exit.. It is up to you if you want to live in the same house for now... but start figuring out how to exit into another living situation. You are …
/r/askMRP23/03/18 01:22 PM
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I'm pretty new here... So take my statement as pretty green... Plus my world isn't so bad... So leaving/starting over is not what I want. I'm looking for more/better sex though the MRP. I really like my life. I like my wife (i know I have some oneitis), we have 3 kids between 7 and 2. I also can't imagine splitting our income between two households, not that that would stop me if everything was sucking. I'm trying to make me better so I can feel like I have more control in the relationship. Sex …
/r/askMRP17/03/18 07:24 PM
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