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Any woman over 5'9" will know the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 05:26 AM
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Yes, please avoid us red pill women. We are on to the game and more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:36 AM
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Women don't overlook it, most of us are afraid of men like that. My dad always told me to avoid desperate people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:23 AM
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A lot of high IQ men become taxi drivers or post office carriers because they are too socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 05:40 AM
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I believe red pill is accurate in its description of male/female mating dynamics but I reject most prescriptive claims based on the those observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 11:59 AM
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I assumed your view is the most common one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 07:30 PM
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If you don't like women that's cool, date whoever you are attracted to. As for accusations of narcissism it's all projection. Men think if they were the pursued sex it would give them big egos so they think women are the same. We aren't! Women know men will fk women they don't like and are not attracted to so their attention means squat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 02:22 PM
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Men tend to be more looks driven than women. Stop wasting your time and driving your confidence into the gutter by ... sharing a photo!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:05 AM
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Unless physical strength is equal the presentation doesn't matter, women will always be at a disadvantage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:20 AM
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Agree with you, therapy never helped me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:05 AM
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No, women are noticing there's not much difference between a nice guy and a dead beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:00 AM
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Err yah I've observed for a long time that men don't see women as people. Not sure how that is a revelation. As for protectors? I agree that is BS, it's safer for women to view men as potential predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:22 AM
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You think ugly women getting pumped and dumped increases a woman's ego? You are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:13 AM
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She accused you of not liking women, she didn't say one word about women liking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:11 AM
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Almost never, it is so rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:18 AM
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A man can be very liberal and very masculine. For ex have interests in computers, fixing cars, home improvement projects etc yet hold progressive beliefs and vote that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:01 PM
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Err, ever explored the debate on the existence of free will? I am convinced that no one has any at all. I recommend Sam Harris, Robert Sapolsky, Robert Wright podcasts and books, it is a fascinating topic. Basically, no one chooses their genes, their early environment, parents, location of birth, propensities for mental illness, criminality, addiction, intelligence etc. Perhaps you will have more empathy for others if you understand this issue or slide into nihilism. Either way in my opinion it …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:02 PM
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Never!!!! I care so much about height. Don't really mind if he is bald, ugly or fat but def has to be taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 02:46 PM
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Speak for yourself. It doesn't bother me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:51 AM
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This doesn't address her post at all. Also women know men will fork anything
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 10:45 AM
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I honestly think it's tone of voice and innate feminine mannerisms. I've noticed women with super feminine soothing voices get men who want relationships and marriage vs casual sex. Just a hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:25 AM
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My guy friends mostly pay for me. Not sure why but they do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 10:54 AM
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Does he say how tall he is? Looks short.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:53 PM
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Same! What a great paper
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:56 PM
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It's all just projection from men! They think they'd get a big ego and not be able to date average women if they were forking hot women. But women don't think like men. We don't care about just forking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:00 PM
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All men want to do is screw us and we know that. Believe me, it does not give anyone an inflated ego to be pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:58 AM
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I'm disappointed that men seem to want a woman "around" or just there but have no interest in talking or interacting. I find this gross and one of many reasons I will stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:30 AM
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If we can't vote without a man maybe some women would lower their standards and marry some turd just to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:19 PM
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No fault divorce, voting rights gone for women, no abortion access.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:04 PM
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I'd say western men are better in terms of how they treat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:25 PM
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Bet non-western women have similar negative views. Imagine what Arab women would say if they didn't fear retribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:16 AM
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Yah, I'm single and childfree as well. Never bothered me that I'm expendable compared to other people. The male ego is something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:55 AM
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Yeah this was my first thought as well. No, I do not want anything similar to the horrendous crap I experienced with past men. Gross, blech.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:50 AM
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Depends how tall the woman is and if the man is sincerely offering her commitment. I can see a gorgeous woman happily being with a charismatic 5'8" man if she herself is shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:11 PM
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Multiple studies show women get bored with the same partner faster than men do. Also our hormones wreak havoc. Going through pregnancy or perimenopause can lower many women's formerly super high libido. Also yeah it's absurd to think anecdotal evidence proves women have higher libidos. Common now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:39 AM
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I have no idea what most women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:08 AM
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I used tinder and there was no height filter so I had to become an expert in looking at photos and viewing arm ratios to determine how tall the guy was. Became quite good at it because I'm tall and don't date shorter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:46 AM
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Depends. A lot of people think they can help or cure someone when they can't do anything of the kind. Maybe a little nudge here or there but in my opinion it is nearly impossible to change someone else's personality or behavior. It would piss me off to no end if someone tried it on me so I won't do that to anyone else. I'd rather just leave and never speak to the person again if their personality or behavior was too abhorrent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:57 AM
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Actually, sleeping with a man on the first date or early on is a good way to filter out the sex seekers. If he pumps and dumps you end up wasting less time on him. Also, if he judges the woman for forking him then fk him (or rather don't) he's a misogynist double standard judgmental ahole and doesn't deserve more time wasted on him. For women who want passionate men with a high libido it's just going to happen that some of them pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:30 PM
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I'm fine with it, seems largely true but I'm red pill because I think evo psych explains way more than purely looks. Looks are extremely important but women also take other things into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:48 PM
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I don't think anyone should ghost but then that depends on the rejected party accepting the rejection with grace.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:04 PM
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Do you seriously have no theory of mind and your personal experience is the only explanation? Explains a lot about all your posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:09 AM
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I'd think game developers are mostly men. Also, have you forgotten about the half a trillion dollar beauty industry fueled mostly by women? I don't think women are against smooth skin and youthful beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 09:50 PM
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I'd rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:31 PM
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I agree, it's a special kind of demoralizing hell to be in a relationship with mismatched libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:26 PM
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I agree with this and say it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:27 AM
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Perhaps it's due to all his infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:36 AM
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It's all projection based on what men would do if they were women. But you aren't!!!! You don't think or act like a woman. Women know the hot idiot jerk isn't boyfriend or husband material. We aren't drooling morons!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:31 AM
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Nope. Especially if he is short.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:49 AM
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I don't care about cleaning, cooking and get no joy from oral so none of those are remotely important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:01 PM
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It sounds like medieval torture: the entire thing! Pregnancy and birth. Blech. Go read a thread of women just randomly commenting on the dreadful side effects and near death they experienced as a matter of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 07:10 PM
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Men always say this to protect their ego. We do know what we want and if you get dumped or rejected it clearly was not you. It's amazing the lengths men go to not self-reflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 08:58 AM
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I def do not agree with men leading or being superior. To me red pill is just about accepting uncomfortable truths no matter how inconvenient or unflattering. Being able to process new info and update beliefs based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:55 AM
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No one is bad for wanting whatever they want, they just might not find someone who also wants that. Women on avg prefer stability and monogamy whether that is marriage or not and men prefer variety. It's just evo psych and mismatched sexual strategies. I also assumed 98% of men on dating apps didn't want commitment and that was fine, I just kept dating until I found a man who did.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:14 PM
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I agree and this is one of the reasons I'm red pill. Men and women evolved opposing sexual and romantic strategies that are at odds with long-term happiness or at least satisfaction. Unless you get super lucky and randomly find a compatible opposite sex partner (I believe I have) but if it were to end I'd prob just be celibate and single going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:42 PM
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45 min to an hour? You are punishing her physically for not being able to orgasm all for your own ego! One last thing to try is the magic wand type vibrator, it has a huge head so can reach clitoral tissues buried more deeply in some women. If that doesn't work just take her word that she enjoys the action.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:35 AM
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Men want the Prada bag wearing, nails done women but don't like the personality that comes with those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:00 PM
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Yeah because it doesn't matter what man I find attractive, it only matters if I'm his type. Because otherwise he will pump and dump or cheat on me later
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:48 AM
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How can you be a 1% commenter and have the worst judgmental opinions? So all us dating app users are huge losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:45 AM
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I have zero idea what the point is of what you just wrote. I'm trying to engage with this content but it is complete jumbled gunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:04 AM
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Perfect because I contribute zero to my relationship. Ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:58 AM
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Depends on what class you are referring to. Are these women who have masters degrees or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:11 AM
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Blue pill women give that advice because women don't like liars or pump and dumpers. Men can just fake wanting a relationship to get sex so it would be simpler for women if all those sex seekers were just dead honest making them easier to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:37 AM
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IMO we are in the dark ages of figuring out what's going with the brain. So many people go untreated because they fall into the cracks of what is known and able to be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 05:57 PM
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I disagree with rad fems like Julie Bindel that socialization is an issue or can change behavior. In my opinion evo psych is true and feminists should accept hormones and biology make a massive difference in strength and psychology between men and women. Rape is an evolved sexual strategy for men to get genes into the next generation and we might as well just face facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:35 AM
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Funny? I think someone lied to you several times
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:22 AM
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That is an accurate description of men though on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:28 AM
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Your posts creep me out every time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:26 AM
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Who are you lecturing here? Imagine the presumption to tell anonymous women what we are doing! Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 11:04 AM
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and this is why there are more male psychopaths, serial killers etc than women. The psychology is SO different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:43 AM
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I've seen it! I know some rich men and all they care about is beauty. They are super generous and will pay anything for a beautiful woman. Her mind, character, personality mean zero to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:11 AM
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Well your intent doesn't matter, your post is infuriating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:20 PM
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Old women are even less inclined
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 05:04 PM
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What???? Why are you so trusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 11:18 AM
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Do you and the guy next to you both want the same things? No? Amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:27 AM
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So you punished your ex for telling you to be more independent. You showed her!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:12 AM
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Men will do it to traffic cones, dead bodies and animals. Having a man want to fork you is not some achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:33 AM
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You are projecting men's thoughts on to women. The happiest relationships are where the woman is better looking than the man. There are countless articles and studies confirming this, here is one. https://blog.smu.edu/research/2013/11/21/cbs-houston-study-men-with-attractive-wives-more-satisfied-in-marriage/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:36 PM
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I will assume you are 14 year-old and your mental model of the world hasn't fully developed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:43 PM
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You have a bizarre optimistic view of men. Do you know what the number 1 cause of death for women is during pregnancy and postpartum? Murder!!! It outpaces all other medical causes. https://hsph.harvard.edu/news/homicide-leading-cause-of-death-for-pregnant-women-in-u-s/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:07 PM
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This sounds like a disgusting sex fantasy and I can't believe it is allowed on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:12 PM
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Sounds like you are over subscribing women with social anxiety merely because you suffer from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:59 AM
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Men being lonely is shoved down our throats as a societal issue! On this subreddit men threaten us with voting to take away our rights. Btw that already happened in the last election so their leverage is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:06 AM
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Agree with you! That's why I'm red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 08:29 AM
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You think I'm surprised? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:54 PM
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No way of knowing. I once had a man tell me he loves me, invited me to fancy dates to meet his friends and colleagues. Months later he ghosted me for a younger model. He tried getting back with me 2 months later after it didn't work out with the other woman and admitted the whole thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:49 PM
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Wow! You got it! We are all just a bunch of mindless NPCs. Amazing deduction skills there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:14 PM
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They already vote against women's interests so there is no motivating factor there. I agree 100% with OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:09 AM
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A nerd guy is much stronger than a muscular butch woman, no contest. Even an old sick man is stronger than a muscular butch woman. Movies and tv have convinced people women can beat up men and it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:47 AM
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Wha? My dad told me men only want one thing. I'm sure plenty of women are warned by their dads about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:47 PM
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Well I do not believe in free will so in a sense everyone is a victim of genetics, environment and chance. No one chooses where or to whom they are born, what century, the physicality, predispositions for greatness, success, failure or addiction etc
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:14 PM
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Not surprising at all. Reminds me of the old Loveline calls to Dr Drew and Adam. All the abused young women falling for the most toxic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:57 AM
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I think you are assuming men and women are driven by similar needs and I don't think that's right. Need for variety is a male thing. Women who are promiscuous often have had bad upbringings or mental health challenges. Seeking validation is more a driver for women than variety,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:43 PM
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The abusive men remind certain women of their abusive fathers and those women feel at home with the treatment. It is what their idea of a man fits with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:43 AM
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Well no one is going to arrest you for ghosting or pumping and dumping. However these are horrible practices and absolutely bad. Some people do not bounce back from bad treatment and will end up never dating again after 1 or 2 bad experiences. It's very strange for you to think your actions have no consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:04 PM
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Since the phenomenon spans nearly all mammal species I think it's a fair assumption that men have higher sex drives. Obv there are exceptions on the individual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:33 PM
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No I do not want to be in some man's harem. That would disgust me, I'd have no respect for him nor myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:59 AM
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Have you read J Michael Bailey's paper on female sexual orientation? There is a free version online that I can't find at the moment but it's excellent. Compared to men he says women don't have a sexual orientation. If women aren't compared to men then I think we def have an orientation and to me it feels like I'm straight but any one woman's personal anecdotal experience is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:12 PM
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Yes and establish BS religions to control the masses and sexuality. We know. IMO red pill is about seeing through all the fake stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:37 PM
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Sorry for you but wealthy powerful men have daughters and some of them love of us and there's nothing you can do about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:49 AM
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It sounds like an alternative lifestyle I would not participate in. I'd have the same response if you told me you are the 9th wife of a Mormon patriarch. Errr ok then, hope that works for you or sorry it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:19 PM
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I hate them and can't look. I prefer some hair on a man, even if it's just a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:24 AM
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I don't think they should, in fact I think living with and marrying a man is unwise unless the woman wants to have kids. To me red pill means accepting evo psych, and weighing nature over nurture explanations for behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:45 AM
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It's simpler for men to be detached because they get distracted by women's looks and fall in love with their fantasy of a woman. Then they date the woman and realize she is a complex human being and bail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:09 AM
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or she had a traumatic childhood and is self-harming.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:50 AM
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It's very odd that you've never heard of women having bad consequences for sex and dating. Makes me wonder how you managed to arrive at adulthood (I assume you are an adult) and be completely oblivious to the sex differences. There is an evolutionary basis for men stalking, harassing and raping women. https://www.amazon.com/Bad-Men-Deception-Harassment-Assault/dp/1472146336
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:48 AM
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Gross men texting to fork is no privilege!! It's disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:02 AM
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That's what I was thinking too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:42 AM
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No, I def do not think so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:15 PM
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I think most men abuse women so I just think it is an innate characteristic in the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:57 AM
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It's just a moral argument to not use people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:31 PM
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Makes sense to me! I can't stand not being a man's specific type
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:30 PM
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Why would you even presume that if 95% of women are lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:39 AM
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I agree it exists because I am a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:18 AM
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If a man is comfortable paying then he is more likely to cheat on the sly and it puts me at risk of stds. That's why I would never date a man who paid for sex, even if it was a long time ago. If he's done it before he might do it again
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:11 AM
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So you calmed down from insulting OP because she handled you gently. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:47 AM
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I don't care about power. It's more about avoiding pain and humiliation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:30 AM
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What???? I think that is a wild accusation and probably a projection of what men do. I never even think about other men when I'm with a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:12 AM
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The person didn't conclude force, in fact they said the opposite. Sounds like you are the emotional one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:50 AM
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Women don't approach bc men just want to pump and dump. It doesn't matter if the woman is attractive to him or not. It's a losing proposition for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:15 PM
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Nope, he can go find a different woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:38 PM
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Have you dated men? Some of them really do have those preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:34 PM
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Wow now you are reaching. Thought men were more logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:03 AM
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That makes no sense because you weren't there at her last relationship. You have no idea what went on and it's bizarre to claim otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 01:59 AM
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Yeah people shouldn't do tons of stuff but no one can stop them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:27 PM
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Yes and it's better to just acknowledge this reality, no point in arguing with men about their baseline sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:01 PM
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Prob cause they see no value in it and don't care. That's my assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:49 PM
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Stronger knees is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:19 PM
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Gross, no wonder I will remain single
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:19 AM
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I don't think so. Women who've chosen to remain single have been in the trenches and decided there is no dream man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:13 AM
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In my experience it's the man who chooses badly and tries to badger the woman into being someone she is not. This has happened to me in nearly every relationship. I tell these men: just leave then, I'm not doing x weird sex thing or suddenly going to wear x style or have x hairdo. It's so freaking annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:28 AM
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It's not, men fork traffic cones and apples pies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:39 PM
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Exactly, this sounds like a nightmare to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:19 PM
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Same, gyns are a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:55 PM
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Omg! Men are completely delusional about women wanting to fork them! They think women who smile at them because it's their job want to do them. It's shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 05:34 AM
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I'm not going to explain because I want men who think this way to keep showing the red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:11 AM
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I just have a problem with the pregnancy and birthing, that part sounds horrendous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:33 AM
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Here is a paper on women's sexuality by J Michael Bailey. He is on Twitter and often answers questions. I find it a brilliant and convincing work. https://www.researchgate.net/publication/24028378\_What\_is\_Sexual\_Orientation\_and\_Do\_Women\_Have\_One
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:04 PM
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Then you dump her and find a woman you don't have to bully into weird stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 01:47 PM
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I've never dated or known a man who has close friends, I always just figured they don't care about it. So my expectation of what a boyfriend can provide is very low and I've been impressed and surprised when my low expectations are met.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:09 AM
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Wait, there are hypocrites on the internet?! Gah!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:20 PM
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I never assume a man wants a relationship, I just assume he wants sex and doesn't care about the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:44 PM
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In my opinion it is on the same level as theft. I have no respect for men who do this. They are immoral liars
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:14 PM
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I want that!!! I hate getting attention and being approached. Scares the crap out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:08 AM
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Indeed, it would save everyone tons of time, pain and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:18 AM
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I have extreme distrust of men so even if I'm attracted I just assume he won't be into me, he's looking to use me or I'm the 50th woman he's tried to get with that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:41 AM
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That is not a common reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:19 AM
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Wha? Men approaching is scary and I am thrilled they aren't doing it. Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:14 AM
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So you just proved OP's point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:07 AM
4

Every person is entitled to be as picky as they want. If that leads to a lifetime of being single so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 02:12 AM
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Look up the difference in punching and grip power between men and women. Even an ancient old man could take down a female Olympic athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:06 AM
3

It would turn me off if the man was spraying himself with fragrance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 09:01 AM
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You have quite the ego if you think anyone knows who you are or cares. Some of us know Lilith for example but that's about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:48 AM
1

I'd say no, she wasn't initially attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:53 AM
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Do you also hold men responsible for getting scammed by sports betting and stock trading con artists? The men who lose all their money to some scam investment? At least in those situations there is potentially some legal recourse but not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:44 PM
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Agree, it is an attractive trait
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:48 PM
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Agree, I don't care at all about a man's clothes. Then again I also don't care about hair either, whether he has it or not doesn't matter to me. It would be a turn off if he cared about fashion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:03 AM
4

Then why can't he say that because women def do not know this. I've always wondered
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:10 AM
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Thanks for explaining it so well, I feel like I finally understand now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:10 PM
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It boggles your mind that women don't want children? Why not just accept those women aren't a match and move on? When I was dating I didn't waste my time judging men who did want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 11:42 PM
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Yes, tons of women give up on ever finding a LTR and it turns out to be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:43 PM
8

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:34 PM
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Wha? Women are not men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:25 AM
1

That's not what I wrote. So nice of you to take your time to insult me, bet you got a little frisson of dopamine hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:54 PM
0

Basically, no one chooses their parents, their genetics, the environment into which they are born. All of those things shape who you are physically, mentally, emotionally. It gets more granule and layered from there but that's the basis of the argument. Of course it feels like we have free will and like we are making choices but that's all an illusion. Some people go to nihilism based on this belief but it makes me more compassionate towards people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 10:26 PM
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I guess I don't understand it either, I recently changed my flair from blue pill to red pill because I described my belief system to ChatGPT and it told me I am def more red pill. Merely because I believe evo psych, biological determinism, no free will and the 80-20 rule. Apparently the no free will puts me at odds with all the pills but the other stuff lands me in red pill. I resisted that classification for a long time because I'm against men manipulating women via pick up artistry and lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:15 PM
12

I had the same experience dating men. So what works for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:38 PM
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This is complete and total projection of how MEN think. It's ridiculous!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:17 AM
4

Huh? How is the common? I'm not attracted to women at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:02 AM
2

Sure just nitpick the "always". Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:34 AM
0

Even if you are the hottest guy on the planet a cold approach tells me I'm the 50th woman you've tried this crap with that day and you are someone who will cheat on me because you have the balls to approach random women. That makes you someone i do not want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 02:02 AM
7

Agree, being a woman is the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 09:20 AM
7

How about the golden rule? Do onto others as you would have them do unto you? It's quite simple IMO. If you don't enjoy being lied to and used for sex then don't do it to others. I'm on board with red pill evo psych and biological determinism, even the 80-20 rule but I just cannot get behind the manipulation part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:42 PM
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Where did you get superior? He said it was for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 03:36 PM
30

You are right, it's not a good idea to trauma dump on men. Typically they just tuck the info away to use against you later.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:07 AM
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In my opinion red pill is pickup artist manipulative crap. I fully believe in evo psych, no free will and determinism. IMO blue pill is a rejection of red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:44 PM
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I don't think it's unreasonable, maybe she's 6'3" and wants a taller man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:00 PM
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Sure I feel bad for men who can't get what they want but it's because of evolutionary psychology and no one's fault. I don't believe in free will and I don't think there is any solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:03 PM
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So you graduated college at 19 and still don't know what a blue pill pov is? Blue pill is the negation of red pill. That's all. For example I do not believe in free will and am blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 06:32 AM
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Yes I would def think poorly of you but wouldn't bother trying to cancel you. I'd just assume you hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:21 PM
13

And you think this alone stuff happens to women when we are 50? Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:25 PM
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So you didn't notice at age 4 or 5 who was popular and who wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:22 AM
13

Have you been to holidays with family? Oof, count me out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:17 AM
36

Yes I understand and support these men in leaving women alone. Enjoy yourselves! Love that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 06:54 PM
12

Sure, sounds great
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:21 AM
3

What is this, some Nazi regime? No one would do that whether they are a feminist or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:49 PM
6

Those are wildly personal questions for an anonymous forum. Jesus!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 04:13 AM
2

I agree with her and my count is high enough to be sure of it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 04:40 PM
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I think it's more likely women were never that impressed by men and now we aren't forced to co-habitat and procreate with them. I for one am very happy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:39 AM
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Why must a woman think that way? Prob because YOU think that way!!! Zero theory of mind at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:03 AM
1

I don't see a problem with that. Probably because I also judge people who fall for fake rich conmen. Lol!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 12:53 AM
1

This post is about women not being hypocritical idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 03:47 AM
2

Nah, eharmony didn't let you filter by height. Useless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:51 AM
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It's the fault of evolution and reproduction by sexual selection. Women aren't purposefully trying to annoy you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:56 PM
4

Wow! You wrote that perfectly. Thank you for describing it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 11:16 PM
1

I'm sorry you feel that way and can relate! Your post is very intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:59 PM
2

In that case those women are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 05:55 PM
7

Agree with you, the problem is a lot of people don't think it's an issue to rope you in before disclosing horrendous stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:28 AM
3

I def do not believe the just world fallacy. I don't believe in free will and think more in terms of evo psych and the world being blown to bits by nuclear war.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 06:43 PM
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I'm shocked Op doesn't know this. I thought everyone knew this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:17 AM
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Are you kidding me? Perimenopause and menopause give us no libido and the last thing any of us want is more men. Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:52 PM
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I agree with you! Therapy is baloney and a waste of time. In fact it can be more harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:54 AM
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Yup, I agree with men on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:52 AM
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That's already the current state of dating so doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:48 PM
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Oh we know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:44 AM
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Right, probably because you are a masochistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:37 AM
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I think you are trying to get women banned from this sub because there is no way for some of us to tell you our actual beliefs without that happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:40 PM
6

Having a monthly period from age 11-13 to over 50 years-old with mood swings potentially horrible enough for S ideation... omg it is horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:32 PM
5

I'd still rather be a man. Being a woman is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:51 PM
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I do not think women should ever pursue men because men will just fork you whether they like you or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 11:07 AM
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Yes I avoid these people however men know this and are smart enough to mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:24 AM
4

I think it's even smaller than that, prob 95/5
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:55 AM
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Your post isn't original either, just a recap of the google doc internal memo from 2017. A lot of it I agree with btw.. you don't see women with inconvenient, unpopular beliefs because we get our comments deleted and banned from the subreddit for sharing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:40 PM
2

You keep telling me more good news.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:29 PM
1

I don't deny any of that, I'm just saying we don't need men for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:20 AM
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We are
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:56 AM
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Chads can be abusive and ruin your life, also something we warn younger women about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:37 PM
2

Yes I'd say I subscribe to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:36 PM
3

I don't think it's a disadvantage to be used for sex. Why? I'm a woman and don't like it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 07:59 AM
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bc there are men who will fork anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:19 AM
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It's only mansplaining if you are trying to educate a woman who has a degree in the topic you are telling her about AND you are aware of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:28 PM
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Can't you just go for women shorter than you? There are plenty of short women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:32 AM
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Women don't find it comforting that men will fork a lamp post with a wig. We don't consider that as having options.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:27 AM
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Because as someone pointed out last week: the women on ppd are upper middle class and the men are lower class with no college education.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:20 AM
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I do not trust men's ulterior motives so a male friend will have to prove himself over years and years to not want to fork me. Of course I won't be rude or let on that I'm thinking this the entire time. Btw.. no man has ever passed this test.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:21 AM
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Your entire post is saying you do have a problem with it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:13 AM
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Blue pill isn't satisfied with the dating reality!!! I'm certainly not. I just accept that it sucks because evolution gave men and women different sexual mating strategies that conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:09 AM
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Why don't we just believe him when he tells us? I think that's safer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:54 AM
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I haven't seen any commonalities at all amongst blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:28 AM
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No and no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 04:33 PM
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I would never report anyone because I believe in free speech, I was just pointing out your blatant grotesque hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:21 PM
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You are also going against PPD rules by calling her a mindbroken feminist. That is a personal insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:15 PM
0

That's wonderful! Separatism is preferable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:53 AM
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Yes I like the arguments of Sapolsky, Sam Harris and Robert Wright (although he is agnostic on free will). I'm not a nihilist, I have more compassion for others and myself now that I don't believe free will exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:25 AM
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Blue pill is just a reaction to red pill, it has no ideology. Some are feminists some aren't, some are liberal or conservative. I'm pro evo psych and don't believe free will exists so blue pill is a motley crew of diverse beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 10:04 PM
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I haven't ever met a man who cares what women think. If you are a man then you are a first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:59 AM
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My bf does all 3 of these things and in my opinion it's normal because I've never dated a man who doesn't do these things. I just figured it was part of being with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 02:14 PM
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I thought she was being kind and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:10 PM
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It's often men who say what you say because they lied to get sex and now the woman wants commitment. It's my opinion those men are horrendous villains, love bombing and stringing along poor women just for sex. You can think they are not or chalk it all up to timeline differences. IMO you are just coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 09:50 AM
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I'm lonely but I like it and choose it. It is my preference
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:57 AM
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Meh, I'm more on your side. I don't believe these trad women can keep up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:03 AM
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Good, I hope the undateable rude men leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:36 AM
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Because a man who is super into a woman would pay for her so it's a way of figuring out if the man is interested or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:14 AM
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It's just about avoiding drama and choosing your battles. If a man is going to hold resentment bc a woman had a horrendous 3 some with an ex then it's just not worth ever bringing up. I'd also suggest a smart man lie and not be honest if asked whether these jeans make a woman look fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:51 PM
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Thanks for your explantation, this makes the most sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:45 PM
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Did it occur to you the women were coerced into certain acts, were young and dumb, didn't care as much about the boyfriend at the time or any other explanation other than the one that builds resentment? It could be this is just such a massive sex difference there is no explantation you could accept and it's just not worth being honest with men ever about the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:42 PM
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Majority of people get ignored when warning others of abusive people. It's inconvenient and goes against what the person wants to do. All we can do is try and leave the actions up to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:49 PM
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Top tier men suck as much at sex as ugly men and the women aren't having orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:54 PM
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No, we don't like short men. Ugly tall men are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 01:10 PM
2

Well I agree with you and I'm blue pill. Evo psych makes sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:25 PM
1

Right! They only do it for their physical type though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:02 PM
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Women have it drilled into our brains: if a man is giving you mixed messages then he's just not that into you. Perhaps men or just you in particular have missed this messaging. These women do not like you. Mixed messages or indecisiveness = you aren't their type.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 08:00 PM
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It's biological programming to get women's loyalty hooked on to these horrid men who pass the beginning stage by lying. Lots of women fall victim to it as you've noticed. I don't believe in free will. It's not the fault of these lying men either because they are biologically programmed to lie about themselves to bypass female choice. The whole thing is just a mess and keeps everyone miserable. It's only the lucky few who somehow meet and marry dependable people with similar libidos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:45 AM
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Men lie to get sex, we all know that. They don't care who it is they are lying to and the victim of their lies does not deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:26 AM
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Then why are there more men on dating apps vs women? Because dating sucks. If it was so great then women would want to revel in all our options. Instead we prefer to be single with cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:52 AM
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Yeah, the difference is manipulation, trickery and lies. No one likes liars
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:43 AM
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Tons of blue pill don't believe in free will. I certainly don't and am still blue pill. I actually think life largely sucks for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 07:37 AM
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I agree with you! Not all of us are blind to it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:12 PM
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Oh we know men are lying liars to get sex. Immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:03 PM
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Yeah well I do care about height
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:43 PM
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I admit this is prob the one good thing about being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:24 PM
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I would immediately filter out any man who asks so it does work well for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:05 AM
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Women are harangued to be nice doormats since we are born, that's why it strikes some of us as a little much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:07 PM
1

Yet you are religious so that's a contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 01:16 PM
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Nope, I have been crystal clear and completely ignored. In my experience men do not listen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 09:17 AM
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Hope you find what you are looking for and it is someone who already wants what you want. There are tons of women out there who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:57 AM
7

Yes, exactly why I'd rather be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:25 AM
6

Then why post anything if you think everyone else is a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:24 AM
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I find that men are more likely to do the whole tone policing BS and ignore the substance. I hate that!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:50 AM
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It's one the reasons I never married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:53 PM
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Straight men would be doing exactly the same as gay men if women put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:48 PM
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Nope, why you give women the ick even virtually without seeing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:25 AM
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Ok maybe there is 1 woman out of 1,000 that enjoys a man pretending to be her friend first to later switch it up and try to get in her pants. Guess he should have clarified
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 07:45 PM
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It's unlikely because service workers have to smile at customers and men can be creeps and think the poor woman is flirting with him. Happens all the time. It is a known biological sex difference for men to assume interest from women when there is ZERO.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 03:00 PM
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I used the words more likely and some women for a reason. I do not think women are a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:59 PM
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Men are more likely than women to think women are flirting with them when we are just being nice. From an evolutionary perspective it makes sense for men to be mistaken in their own favor but it makes women super uncomfortable. Eventually we learn to stop smiling and being nice to random men because it's dangerous. Also some women (like me) are jealous of the audacity of your average man. Oh! To be born thinking baristas and waitresses are flirting with me! I'm so jealous men have that level of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 06:55 AM
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I agree most of the time the woman is not pretty however... I assume being approachable and fun does make some sort of difference to men. Lots of men prefer a bubbly less attractive DTF type woman vs the cold prude fashion model looking lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:54 PM
2

Well most women don't have the same strong libido as men and do not desire variety the way men do. So even though we have more options we are less likely to use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:14 PM
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Yes and if we don't find a high caliber man we prefer living alone with cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:48 PM
4

Where is she doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:42 PM
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It's only ridiculous because men and women are different through no fault of our own. We are born to the parents we are born to with the genetics we have through zero choice. Women produce large gametes and men produce small ones. The organization of bodies around these gametes are what evolution has shaped in terms of mating strategy you see today. Men lie to get sex and women are picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 10:04 AM
2

Yes! Or severely damaged insecure women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:04 AM
7

This is the No True Scotsman fallacy. At least educate yourself before posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:00 AM
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or maybe we are all reeling from the Epstein news and looking around ourselves wondering about the inclinations of all these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:11 AM
4

I'm convinced! Have had similar thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:58 AM
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A lot of women don't want to be stuck opposite a sex seeking man in any situation. Sounds horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 02:59 PM
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Sounds like AI slop. Frame this carefully? Take a deep breath, let's slow this down. All the worst patronizing language taken from ChatGPT.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:15 AM
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I for one agree with you, I've always thought marriage is stupid. If a man wants the status of being married he can just tell everyone he has a wife even if legally he doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:23 AM
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It's possible to sign legal documents to deal with property that don't involve marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:17 AM
1

What? No, you just live your life like normal and not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:16 AM
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I'm a Ray Blanchard J Michael Bailey Stan and think Serano is all cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:41 AM
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Well I am a Lillth stan even if you aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:26 PM
3

I said to myself: this has to be written by a man. Yup, I'm correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:22 AM
2

You are just using the word incorrectly. Fetish is a sexology term and very rarely shows up in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:45 PM
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Ai would never say women have fetishes. It's smarter than that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:58 PM
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Women don't get fetishes except in extremely rare situations. It's in all the sexology literature
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:57 PM
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Men lie to get the sex, they don't care about our education, our careers. They only care about how we look and if we are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:13 PM
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Successful women who stay on dating apps have a thicker skin and are better able to put up with bs than those who bail. The ladies who stay on the app want a boyfriend more than the others, that's how we are able to put up with the ghosting, standing up, pumping and dumping, insults etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:16 AM
2

Yes!!! Thank you for saying what I was thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:30 PM
2

There is no evidence unless you want to create a time machine and watch the harassment!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:16 PM
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4B just wants to be left alone, not sure why they need security.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:17 AM
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I believe that, she comes across as low income and just trying to make a buck. I think of her as a stand-up comedian, occasionally she is legitimately funny. However, a high iq, college educated man would never give a woman money for her nails. Shera has never traveled in Park Avenue circles to know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:18 AM
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A lot of those people are thrilled when they finally leave, I read that sub all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:27 AM
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It's because a lot of women don't orgasm and men don't notice or care, sex isn't doing much for us
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:26 AM
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Look, some of us are depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 08:21 AM
5

Monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:23 PM
3

I like SheraSeven even though I disagree with her on some points. She says all men cheat so you should just be cold and brutal, get that money. I believe there are some social demographics where that is less true than others although she is probably largely correct. She doesn't take into account some women are financially successful, don't want kids and don't need a man's money
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:30 PM
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I thought Clavicular is Peter Thiel's side piece and takes meth. Don't think many women would want a man like that. He is handsome but that doesn't mean I would fork him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:42 PM
2

Next we'll learn veganism doesn't promote meat eaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:09 AM
6

Feminism doesn't include men? That's your argument? Yeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:14 PM
0

Yes women know men are risky and can kill us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:37 PM
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You don't have a good enough appreciation for conmen. Look how many men lose money to sports betting apps, buying Trump bibles, falling for conspiracies. Women aren't alone in falling for liars. The sex seekers, pumpers and dumpers know not to tell women that's all they are after.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:12 PM
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How is it men can lose money to online gambling, buying Trump bibles, etc etc?? You aren't any better at figuring out conmen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 08:21 AM
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We've dated men who use suspect reasons to justify dating younger women. Do whatever you want, most of us won't believe your rationalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 01:27 AM
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It wouldn't help because those fewer suitors would also be compromised of sex seekers, deceivers, pumpers and dumpers. Better to have more options and filter super well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 01:18 AM
3

That is sex by deception
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:01 PM
1

Read some evo psych! There are stalking and mate guarding behaviors that unfortunately are effective
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:47 AM
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No, I prefer medium ugly guys because I'm insecure and need the man to be super into me. That's why the love bombing works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:46 AM
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I agree with you, most women in that age group will not go all in the way your friend wants. He is acting like the hot woman in the relationship. Maybe it will work for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:43 AM
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Love bombing def works on me and it sucks. Intellectually I know it's happening and I still fall for it like a big idiot. The men don't even have to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:05 AM
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Some of us prefer accuracy even if it's boring
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:59 AM
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I'll go with B, I think it's biology. Hormones are part of biology though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 01:50 AM
24

Not cutting and running quickly enough, allowing too many red flags before bailing and blocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:58 PM
30

How about the post earlier today claiming testosterone isn't the difference between male and female horniness? That was a doozy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:27 PM
12

Nothing makes male sexuality look worse than reading sexology literature. Oooh boy, is that eye opening!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:00 AM
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She's right, every time a man has reached out to me via direct message for help I have done so in good faith. It always ends up with him sending me a dick pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:57 AM
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Says who? God? Then why did he make women only attracted to a small percentage of tall, handsome men and if we can't get one happy to be single with cats vs get with a mediocre one? Why did he make men suffer with a libido many times stronger than women? It makes more sense to me that we are the product of evolution and either a god doesn't exist or he doesn't give a flying fork about our suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:12 PM
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Ah so the great dictator daddy forced us all to be this way because of our genes? Ok. I guess dictator daddy also wanted us to suffer and not have romantic success. That's why he created men and women with such opposite sexual mating strategies and why you are suffering today. It is perfectly justifiable under your religion!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:52 PM
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It's easier just to accept the truth and act accordingly. Yes, men of all ages only want to fork 18 year-olds. Better to just know that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:50 AM
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Yes it does disadvantage men in dating. Odd you mention inability to change genes which hints at no free will yet you are religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:00 AM
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A lot of experienced men can't get a woman to orgasm either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:58 PM
3

A lot of women choose cats over rude Chad and ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:25 PM
1

Really? You don't think having a period and menopause is socially constructed? How about pregnancy or being naturally weaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:57 AM
4

What? He said the guy pays for a house cleaner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:53 AM
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Perhaps you mentioned something about cat ladies at dinner or revealed your love of Trump. Those statements alone would make you ugly to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:57 AM
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Most? I'm not sure about that. If monogamy didn't exist I'd just give up on men entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 03:22 PM
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Accepting uncomfortable facts about men and women is part of maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 12:07 PM
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It's hard to date men anywhere because their mating strategy is to lie to get casual sex and they are only looking to settle down with a woman who looks visually like their ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:24 AM
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Oooh burn! Love it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 05:12 PM
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I don't have to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:51 PM
2

That's not women presenting women in a bad light, that's you being offended
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:40 PM
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Agree, it's just an uncomfortable set of truths about male and female sexuality. Thousands of years of evolution brought us to this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:37 PM
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Women want to feel special, it is more important than being with a hot guy. We don't like being lied to and tricked.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:17 PM
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Never seen it and not interested at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 01:57 AM
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No it's the man who thinks he will be drowning in woman, pesters his wife to open the relationship. Then he can't get a date and she has a line of dicks out the door and he is bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:29 PM
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Not in my opinion. Straight means you have zero interest in gay sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:27 PM
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Yeah we know, men just want to lie to fork and pump and dump. We get it and have mating strategies to fleece out these deliberate lying liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:51 AM
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Hurt feelings? Yeah you show that anonymous liberal woman. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:47 AM
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"We" yeah right bud
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 07:43 AM
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Actually women care if men are Trump supporting ICE lovers. Just because men have no standards when it comes to women's personalities doesn't mean women feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:57 AM
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I feel similarly towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:40 AM
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I think I love you! Maybe I'm black pill too according to your definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:39 AM
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That's another male projection, women don't enjoy being pumped and dumped by Chad. I know men would love to be used for sex by some gorgeous woman but it's just not the same for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:18 AM
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Thank you, someone who has read sexology literature. Appreciate your comment. Michael Bailey wrote a paper showing women don't have a sexual orientation like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:42 PM
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No True Scotsman fallacy! I am blue pill and do not believe in a just world. I'm an antinatalist who thinks life sucks massively.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:25 PM
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I think most men have the same thoughts as you which are completely foreign to me. That's why I rarely trust men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:22 PM
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I don't categorize them as that, it's merely descriptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:22 PM
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We don't approach bc men pump and dump us. They have lower standards than women. Sure rejection isn't pleasant but being used as an appliance is far worse. Approaching or even texting or calling first is just ineffective. Sure there is 1 woman out of 5000 who that is fine for but the vast majority of women should never ever make the first move, text or call.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:03 AM
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I believe the 80/20 theory, it exists across almost all societal and economic systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 05:56 AM
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I'm friends with short ugly men, I just don't date them. Short ugly men are wonderful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:56 PM
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No.. again projection. That's what men do. There was a study showing fat ugly women inspire rage in men. Women just don't even notice short ugly guys, they don't make us angry. I remember my dad had a rage response when a fat ugly women was on tv, he immediately had to change the channel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:23 PM
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Men tell on themselves because they project what they do on to women. Women are less likely to compare partners or rate men using a number system. We are not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:03 PM
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That's way too many personal questions for an anonymous forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:44 PM
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Men lean more right than women. Right wingers vote pro-life. Logic.. it works!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:56 PM
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You go directly to rape, classic
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:51 PM
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We aren't violent about it and threaten to take away your voting rights and bodily autonomy. We can think it's rude for you to mention a woman's weight but then you all direct message us threats if we say we don't want short bi guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:50 PM
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Respect is a foreign concept for a lot of women, hard to relate to. I've rarely ever been respected and find it bizarre to expect it. I know men care about this but I intuitively do not understand it. Could be that's the problem. Maybe defining what respect actually means to you would help. To me it sounds like men want ego boosting BS platitudes. I would hate that! Does it mean just being nice? Most women are nicer than men I've met so it's all quite confusing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:30 PM
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It makes me think the man is competent to save me from the zombie apocalypse if crap hits the fan. Also, if we have kids the kids will inherit his intelligence and capacities thereby securing mates for themselves and propagating our genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:41 AM
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It could have been the best sex I've ever had and I would never ever contact the man first. Not one chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:35 AM
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Exactly, never ever text or call the man first. Men have crossed continents and started wars over women, if he can't text me I don't want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:33 AM
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I enjoy having hetero sex with my boyfriend, it is not disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:29 AM
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Yes, being lied to changes the experience. It's called sex by deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:10 AM
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I never want to be approached by strange men. Don't care how respectful, I feel shocked and unsettled by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 01:28 AM
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Men don't tell women she is only worth a screw or she is side chick, they lie to get sex. Thats why OP is confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:20 AM
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No, it can also happen for tons of other reasons including to protect the body from assault
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:00 PM
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Ok Trump maga man. You won, hope you are enjoying the win.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:40 PM
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Yah sure is easy being sexually assaulted on dates by men who think they are good guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:50 PM
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It's not unusual, I'm happily partnered now but my dating experience exactly matches OP's description.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:28 AM
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Interesting, it is a market place
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:59 AM
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Forearms! Oooh yeah love a manly forearm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 01:17 AM
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We don't want their STDs. They aren't high value to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:13 AM
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How do you know that's how she wants it? The audacity of men is wild
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:50 AM
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Yes sure, I don't care what he makes as long as he is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:57 AM
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Are you kidding? That response to you was genius level! At least read it!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:56 PM
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Exactly, I'd rather have an ugly guy who approaches than a super hot guy who doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:49 PM
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Thank you, I had to scroll to find the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:49 PM
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How did you become a 1% commenter? I don't mean to be rude, your level of comprehension is shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:01 PM
8

I'm an atheist and agree with this response.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:15 PM
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I only care about empathy from the man I'm with. If other men show it I'm pleasantly surprised but would never expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:10 PM
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No, women feel threatened bc a lot of us have been abused by the people closest to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:50 AM
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That person gets banned from the subreddit and you don't hear from them again. At least this subreddit seems less trigger happy with bans than others. I was banned today from the average height subreddit .. oops. I seriously try not to be offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:13 PM
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If you are actually interested in root causes go listen to some old Lovelines from the 90s and early 2000s on YouTube. Old radio show with Adam Carrolla and Dr Drew. There is a cycle of poverty, trauma and lack of education that keeps some women getting pregnant early, doing drugs etc. if a woman has a stable home life, present father, lack of abuse then she's more likely to filter out harmful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:09 PM
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Yes, I know I'm not a man but it would have been so much easier. Having a vagina/uterus is the worst! Hormonal emotional rollercoasters? Omg. Imagine feeling like an alien has invaded your brain once a month and you have to remind yourself your thoughts and feelings aren't real just to get through the day. That's just garden variety PMS from age 13/15 until after you are 50 years old!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 11:46 AM
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You have honesty going for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:18 AM
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Yes I would find that explanation less painful because it isn't personal, it's just how things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:53 PM
7

Nah, men can't find stuff in the fridge no matter who moved it. It's super bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 11:20 AM
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You can not want to be pumped and dumped by men, thats enough to avoid dating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:35 AM
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No one has free will, it's an illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 10:35 AM
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Really? Giving birth is easy? GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:23 AM
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So you claim with no reasoning whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:22 AM
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Of course it is cheating. You can break up with the no sex person and go fk whoever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:32 AM
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She could be burning with desire for him and not want him to see her as promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:18 PM
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Promiscuous women don't fk anyone at any time. What is going on here? You have bizarre thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:01 AM
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Someone lied to this man several times. Imagine if it were a woman saying men like their shoulders grabbed but whatever you do don't touch their peen. Haaaaaa
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:52 PM
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Not one man I've ever been with has ever cared or listened to what I want in bed. It's stupid to try and communicate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:46 AM
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Grabbing boob and ass? Are you serious? That sounds horrendous
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:41 AM
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One mechanism of control women have is to never ever approach a man. A vetting system is to only engage with the guys who are interested enough to approach us. Men lie to get laid all the time, they claim to want a relationship, claim to love us when they don't. It's all for some booty. Why make that easier than approaching the man? Forget it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:41 PM
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Thank you! Having your genitals torn open in front of strangers has always sounded like torture to me. I don't understand why everyone doesn't think this way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:21 PM
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No we can't do better. Most men want casual sex, not monogamous long term relationships. I don't fault them, just reality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:18 PM
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Online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:25 AM
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No, not once and no one I've ever known.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:24 AM
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That's wild! I would never pursue a man no matter how much I like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:54 AM
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It just doesn't work for women because the man is happy to pump and dump us without being attracted or interested at all. We have different mating strategies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:35 AM
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Yes it's proven by a data scientist who posts on Twitter, can't recall his name. He also posts on this sub sometimes. Men with more experience care less about a woman's past
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:34 PM
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But don't you find it suspicious if the man is much higher value looks wise? I always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:58 AM
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You first
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:56 AM
2

For clothes and makeup women prefer the advice of gay men. I recall seeing a study on that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:14 PM
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A lot of women just put up with bad sex and never say a word
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:45 PM
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Scenario 1, that horny man never wanted to be my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 02:16 AM
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If it's a man attracted to an older woman I assume it's a fetish thing not about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:34 AM
1

I hope you're right and more men are waking up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:32 PM
1

In some way.. yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:00 PM
0

Thank you for understanding this!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:56 AM
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I don't care, I would never date a bi guy and calling it phobic doesn't change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:55 AM
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He's right, most women disqualify bi and or non-monogamous men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:53 AM
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Odd because at first I thought your post was bizarre but the more people respond the more I think you are correct. Actual blue pill men would never be on this subreddit because it's not a topic men typically enjoy. My man is on the fixing cars or politics subreddit, he doesn't care about relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:50 AM
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No one has free will so being a promiscuous, jobless bum is out of a person's control in the same way height and weight are. Investigate Robert Sapolsky's argument on YouTube for more. Very convincing argument against humans having any free will at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:22 AM
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Women do not chase men and it's stupid to do so. Men just pump and dump us if we do. Better for the man to prove he is selecting the woman above all others.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:13 AM
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There are women with bad childhoods whose view of masculinity is tainted. These women go for damaged men. My other theory is through evolution there wasn't a police force so to be protected women needed to find a violent man but one not likely to turn on her. This instinct still persists today despite the existence of police.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 10:14 AM
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Those are the people still on dating apps, the rest of us met someone and hate casinos. I never treated dating apps like a casino, I think that's a very male brained way to use them and why less women are on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:48 AM
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IMO it's the opposite. Once men have a relationship they stop trying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:43 AM
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Everyone hates the apps, especially women. That's why less women than men use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:32 AM
2

More men than women marry again after their partner dies. It's almost like women are a value add vs a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:13 PM
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You can ask your mom or grandma if they'd be interested in dating again if their partner died. Most say no and if they feel safe being honest will tell you why.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 11:22 AM
1

Oh please! Men will say anything to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 07:33 AM
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Depends on if he is taller than me and is attractive. Also if he is just settling for me because I'm the first woman he's ever met or if I'm his dream woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:29 AM
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No we do not have to be kind or respectful. I don't want any man who identifies as a woman playing sports again natal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:35 AM
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It's more likely we will all lose our jobs due to AI and become plumbers and dog walkers. So, no I don't think women will become providers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:59 AM
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I would never text a man first, don't think this is a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:52 PM
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My confusion is the live-in situationship part. Who on earth is living with such a stud? It's more like Chad bones you once a month if he's bored. So yeah that's not appealing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:20 AM
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No thanks, to me it is the giving birth that sounds humiliating. Having your genitals on display for strangers and them being ripped open? Holy crap, I can't imagine anything worse as a form of torture
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 08:21 AM
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I'm an atheist and agree with you, these liberal Christians are just coping
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:19 AM
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I've never had a good therapist either so agree with OP
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 08:12 AM
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No I don't think that. I think both men and women can't get what they want from the opposite sex because we are programmed through evolution to desire stuff the other sex doesn't want. Typically men want casual and sexual variety whereas women crave stability, monogamy and less risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 03:40 PM
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This is why women lie to men and don't use direct communication. It's dangerous to hurt a man's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 09:28 AM
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I agree with you completely. Free will is def an illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:09 AM
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Just sounds like cope on your part. Women keep telling you it's the predatory nature of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 04:28 PM
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I prefer a man who avoids marriage because I see it as a sign of intelligence. Especially in our 40s, we aren't having kids, we aren't living together so who cares about marriage? Not me. If the man can't be faithful unless I'm keeping tabs on him then I don't want him. Also, what's your problem with dogs and mutts? I def screen out any man who doesn't like animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:01 PM
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I wish my boyfriend understood this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:25 AM
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I'm afraid for you if you think looks aren't the most important thing to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 10:22 PM
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These women sound nutty, I would be as offended and confused as you if someone behaved that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:18 AM
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I think it's a male trait to consider it the "best". I never think about it like that.. just the best for me bc I generally suck in many respects.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:09 PM
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What? My man never sets foot in a gym and has a lean, muscular build. It's def possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:00 PM
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Well, I don't believe in free will so obv incels are that way not due to their own actions. Plus I'm a woman so I've proven you wrong. I agree it's a load of BS liberal wackery on here most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 11:58 AM
4

Exactly, I care about height and cats
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 10:27 PM
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I def view you negatively, every time I see your posts or comments I can't help myself from reading them and then feel gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:39 PM
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Yes, huge fan of dating science, sexology literature and evo psych. I get excited to find out new info and change my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:09 PM
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You say you are Dutch? This is hot for women in NYC, you could def pull babes here. As an aside, where are all the fervid 35+ women calling this man a shallow bigot for his preference? I don't see them. This is great. So let's just stop harassing women for not wanting to date short and or bi men. We all have our preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 12:08 PM
3

The woman can be ugly or repulsive to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 08:04 AM
4

Well I'm not dating anyone shorter than me, I'd rather be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 11:08 AM
-2

You are the type of man to ask to move the convo to WhatsApp or iMessage and then dump the woman when she says she's uncomfortable with that until you meet in person. Obviously you are not the man who stalked her but because she has been stalked she's not giving out her number again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:48 AM
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If you want to offer a woman something rare try a monogamous relationship. None of the other men are leading with that on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:12 PM
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You are just projecting your own thoughts on women. Thats what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 10:10 PM
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The woman who wrote that article is a super woke weirdo, not worth considering
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:37 PM
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They report on social issues effecting the market
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:36 PM
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Dan Savage has a saying: GGG good, giving and game. If you put that on your profile some women will know what you are talking about. However, waiting for marriage will not be popular and women who are GGG will avoid you like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 07:00 AM
1

It has to be abortion laws in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 03:40 PM
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No insults yet he assumes all the women his coworkers want to introduce him to want him to pay their bills? How insulting is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 11:44 AM
7

Not smiling and being robotic is def enough! Plus most women don't approach or hit on men anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 07:21 AM
3

There are gigolos out there trying to scam women. Bet the hunting commenter is one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:53 PM
-10

lol as if the women they are trying to match you with have no job or money. Women are probably worried you want theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:57 PM
6

No, we just don't want to have your parasites growing inside us. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:50 AM
33

If this is such a great deal for women then why has the birth rate plummeted? Most men create more drama than they are worth and the good ones are few and far between.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 01:56 AM
-1

I get downvoted up the wazoo on here by people whenever I say I don't like short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:24 PM
2

I think you are dramatic and emotional for throwing that word around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:28 AM
1

Nah, I'm just 5'10" and short men have mocked me my entire life bc I'm tall. I'm not progressive or maga so your theory is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:25 AM
4

Huh? It's the opposite. Look at the statistics about who is abusing the kids.. hint it's the step dads! So they correctly are met with MUCH more suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:12 AM
-1

Nope, I'm serious. I really dislike short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 06:10 AM
-5

The short guys are the rudest jerks I've ever encountered. I steer clear of them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:35 AM
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It's very simple to lie about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:35 AM
8

Nope, never had a relationship happen automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:15 AM
4

Oh well then you are making a banal point. Of course we know men are lying creeps and now you are saying this especially about the short ugly ones! On top of being ugly they are lying liars!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:38 AM
1

Transgenderism is a men's rights movement
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:48 AM
3

You don't have to be a feminist to observe most men have no standards when it comes to who they will fork.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:51 PM
-8

We don't approach bc men will fork a traffic cone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 11:22 AM
-1

No one does and it's actually a compassionate, lovely concept
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:23 PM
3

They won't look into it because their entire sex lives depend on lying to women to get laid and they don't like to think of themselves as the horrendous users they are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 07:15 PM
7

Most men do misrepresent their intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:52 PM
7

That is code for: I want to use you for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:50 PM
5

You are not a good person, you want sex by deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:50 PM
3

The most attractive women in the world get cheated on by their husbands so I don't think attractiveness is the issue. Prob just need for variety or a fetish the woman doesn't agree to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 05:16 AM
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Fantastic! You are a prince among men. A gentleman and a scholar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:58 AM
9

Projection! Thats what YOU would do if you were a hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 08:34 PM
2

I honestly can't tell the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 06:05 PM
0

It's the opposite in my relationship. He is critical and mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:55 PM
5

I'm pretty much a misandrist but this is a recent development
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 07:53 PM
4

You respond with humor to the man. Hmm, your entire post is rude, denigrating and can now be dismissed as whiny BS
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 08:26 AM
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Men who want to go with the flow is code for: I want to use you for sex. Some poor women just don't know this.. yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:21 AM
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So you actively deceive women to use them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:20 AM
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Yes it works by making you an ethical man who doesn't use women for your own benefit. Will it get you laid? Absolutely not. However you aren't getting sex by deception which some would consider rape. So guess it's up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:19 AM
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It's not kind or gentlemanly to give mixed signals. Just say you are only looking for fwb or casual if that's what you want or text the woman you met someone else rather than ghost
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:16 PM
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Women are treating you like they'd like to be treated. Telling you upfront it's only casual fwb, giving you a choice so you don't feel used. That's nice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:40 PM
7

I agree with you. None of the women I know who were assaulted ever even reported it including myself. I don't look to men for support
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:15 PM
11

I've thought about giving up on men and I wish it was bc men aren't good enough. It's actually bc engaging with men is painful, humiliating and insulting. I think that's why women give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:33 PM
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They aren't suddenly undesirable, we find the majority unattractive and always have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:41 PM
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You sound short
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:34 AM
8

I don't see how. Women can't get pregnant without a man ejaculating inside us.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:55 AM
13

He has the bodily autonomy not to ejaculate in the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:42 AM
9

I'd love full reproductive autonomy for women. I'm a single issue voter on that one topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 02:45 AM
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You're right, it's absurd. Wish I wasn't attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 12:41 AM
2

Sounds like you are referring to one woman and a single instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 03:10 PM
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You are wrong. Men want women who are attracted to them and have passion. If you ask too many questions it will turn men off. OP is using this against the women he dates to fork and then chuck them. Even worse he is turning it around and trying to blame women bc of his own ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:45 AM
4

Women rarely want casual sex so it does feel like being used. Often you have to play it cool and not ask questions prior to sex only to find out the guy was there to pump and dump. IMO you are def a bad guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:12 AM
3

It isn't done to hurt women's feelings, men just do not care at all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 04:09 AM
2

Yes definitely. I have no interest in the man being hotter than me. He's prob trying to get my money, sell me something or use me for sex. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:24 AM
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Prob good advice for people with no loyalty and no ethics. Hopefully a minority of people but who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:18 AM
8

No to all, not my thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:09 AM
6

Women are choosing to live alone with cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:09 PM
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The Rules work and I still use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:11 AM
0

I've had the same experiences. Even the good guys will eventually abuse us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 10:04 AM
1

Read some David Buss, sounds like classic stalker and abuser tactics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:17 AM
11

Right because otherwise you are a stalker
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 07:28 PM
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It's not due to laziness, it's game. Men will just pump and dump if women approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:44 PM
0

Yes but men have less of those than women. Except for body builders
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:21 PM
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Dating apps eliminate the need for men to approach women which in my opinion is fantastic. I despise being hit on during my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:51 PM
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It wouldn't make a difference, I would still assume something was off with the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:13 PM
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How about if a man wants his woman to wear sexy outfits bc he likes other men coveting what he has? I find that annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:34 PM
4

Yes this seems obvious to me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:35 PM
3

If he didn't read her profile and shows up on a date to see she is 6' tall while he is only 5'9" then he's wasted everyone's time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:58 AM
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Yes it is annoying but men do not read bios and you can't convince them to. So just proceed knowing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:03 AM
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I think there should be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:02 AM
5

She wants them to read her dating app bio. That's really not so arduous
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 10:59 AM
4

Matchmakers are scam artists so I think you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:10 PM
3

Yeah and I would assume you were lying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:38 AM
1

You have the oddest responses. She doesn't want the attention! Holy crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:38 AM
2

Women have been saying all of that for years but men will only listen to a man say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 02:48 AM
6

Maybe this is why my bf drones on about the benefit of therapy. I think it's pseudoscience BS but I guess if he has no friends he is getting something out of it I wouldn't. To me it just sounds like a scam to take his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:07 AM
3

Yes I do know this and it doesn't bother me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:04 AM
0

and yet they are all cursed to only find 20 year old women attractive whereas women find our age match hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:19 PM
0

Women rarely get fetishes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 07:41 AM
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My man is more liberal than me and is more bothered than I am that we don't align 100% on politics. I think more liberal people worry they are with an unethical person compared to right wingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:06 PM
0

I love her comments
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:44 PM
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Agree, religion is DEI for crappy men. You should stay religious to keep women under your thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:06 PM
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IMO the only men who care enough to do anything for women are prob fathers who love their daughters. My dad was not a feminist (he thought most women were idiots) yet he still cared about women's rights bc it benefitted his progeny and wanted us to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:13 AM
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That's like asking what does atheism offer in terms of a worldview. It doesn't. It's a position on a single issue of whether a god exists. As for Blue Pill, it's just normie positivity. Has nothing to do with feminism. Like atheism: it is a response to positive claims made by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:38 AM
5

This lady you know would be considered an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:08 PM
1

Mostly bc none of the other labels describe my beliefs. I'm prob more evo psych pilled but not completely so I just go with blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:09 PM
4

I saw Kahneman speak in person with Sam Harris in NYC. Didn't he marry his best friend and co-worker's widow? Anyway.. no I will not date short men. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:44 AM
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I don't blame men because I don't believe in free will. Wish more people would wrap their brains around this concept but it's not their fault if they can't. I recommended some Robert Sapolsky or Sam Harris on this topic. Quite freeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:40 AM
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Yes that is my assumption. Which is why there will be no second date if a man says anything bad about his ex-wife or ex-gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:13 AM
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I'm not angry, it's a good mindset if it keeps men from stalking and murdering. That's my takeaway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:32 PM
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Yes I'm aware of this and have a hack for women. During dating ask all casual like who he dated in the past then look them up in secret. Also act like it's sexy to share kinks and what kind of porn you like even if you have no kinks and never watch porn. Never ever date a man for whom you are not his ideal type.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:14 PM
2

I agree, I'm not going to date a polite troll
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:10 PM
4

That's not true, most women prefer medium ugly guys bc they are nicer to us. There are studies showing marriages are more successful when the woman is much better looking than the man. This is because the man treats the woman better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:25 PM
5

There was a poll done in this subreddit, most of the women are partnered and the dudes are incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:23 PM
2

This is the projection I'm talking about. YOU don't care about random people so you can't fathom women do. We are telling you it's not just to ruin your good time, we aren't jealous, we care about poor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:05 PM
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How is that possible? The sperm chases the egg my dude. Men are hornier bc they have more testosterone. Go shake your fist at the sky and curse the lord or evolution. Women didn't create reproduction via sexual selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:18 PM
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Your comment makes no sense. It's like you replied: so you are a crab in the ocean claiming to be a piece of broccoli. What?!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:08 PM
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Men want to be the prize and chased. Guess they can try that and see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:56 PM
7

Total projection because that's how YOU would react. A lot of women do actually care about poor women being exploited by gross men. Women go viral on TikTok and fundraisers get started to get those women out of abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:22 AM
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The lawyer in NYC doesn't need a man unless she wants one and doesn't have to settle for a fat, old, short man with a bad personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:16 AM
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Well it's just not true. There is a threshold of attractiveness the man has to meet before I care about personality. Also a height requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:37 PM
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I agree with you, women have more magical thinking than men. It's sad. All the atheist groups are 98% men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:06 PM
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Why would a woman be helped? Most just stay silent and never tell anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:47 PM
3

No thanks, collectivist culture sounds horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:43 PM
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Men would not waste the time of women in their child bearing years. They would be honest and upfront about wanting to pump and dump. Also men would read women's dating profiles merely for efficiency purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:07 PM
3

Well I am here to emphasize the importance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:06 PM
-1

Yup, it's not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:36 AM
0

I don't believe in free will so I think your whole post is ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:04 PM
2

Yeah, I knew that. Sucks for tall women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:46 PM
4

Well then maybe you just have a low libido and lack theory of mind so you use religion as a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:13 PM
2

I'm with The Daddy now and it's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:13 AM
8

This is just projection about how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:26 PM
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You didn't include height so that's a problem and also it sounds like this man has low-libido and/or a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:12 PM
0

Oh.. vast majority completely unattractive but a few looked normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:01 AM
0

It's incredibly conceited to think I'm the one woman he mustered up the courage to approach. Much more likely I'm the 20th woman today and he will keep approaching women even if he says he's committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:01 AM
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Wow thanks for taking the time. Great work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:36 PM
10

Your whole post is: feminism is everything I don't like. Boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:24 PM
4

Occasionally the man is attractive but I just assume any man who cold approaches is just playing the numbers game. He is probably extroverted and more likely to cheat on me bc he has the audacity. It would be an instant red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 11:02 PM
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Well I'm not virtue signaling, I'm saying the unvarnished truth and don't care if anyone likes it. So go accuse more agreeable women of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:48 PM
0

Well this isn't all about you so who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:44 PM
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No, stats show it isn't true. Google is free
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:31 PM
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Because you are complaining about attraction no one had any choice in. Men and women like what we like due to evolutionary biological reasons and we can't think our way out of it. It's just life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:20 PM
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Who says that? Women won't even date shorter or bisexual men or be guilted into it. Stats show this to be true. Sure there are some women who will but they are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:18 PM
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Do you like flat chested women with no hips? No? Why not? Did you have a choice in the matter? Why can't you like ugly women who complain a lot in a high pitched whiny voice? Why can't you just accept reality despite it being uncomfortable ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:42 PM
0

Maybe he has a humiliation fetish or is deeply in love with the woman. Perhaps they did have sex at one time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:11 AM
2

Anyone who didn't vote supported Trump and I view them as maga
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:34 PM
3

The most miserable woman I know is the most gorgeous. Beauty is not protective against mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 01:42 PM
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Because it isn't kind and a lot of women prefer kindness to truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:34 PM
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Yeah that was painful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:02 AM
1

Well said.. if you want an orgasm it's best to get a vibrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:13 AM
4

Guess you've never heard of findom. Why not google it? Apparently men get a dopamine hit from giving money to women. It's like any addiction gambling, porn, drugs etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:17 AM
0

Hope she isn't a snooper who will read this comment on your phone. Derp!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:23 AM
10

You are calling women less than human, not having the full scale of emotions like men. It's dangerous rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:07 AM
1

Have you never read about sex differences in mating selection? Sure sounds like it. Most women I talk to never see an attractive man on any dating app or during their normal day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:46 PM
4

Because men lie to get sex, they misrepresent their intentions and love just to pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:13 AM
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Unlike the rest of us hoes you don't know? Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:00 AM
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Mansplaining grotesque behavior exhibited right here! Wowowooww!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:59 AM
5

Yup, that has happened to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:37 AM
4

You aren't a bad person, just not relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:36 AM
5

Because you are smart enough to read context clues and realize the woman is not promiscuous. It's like asking you: when did you stop beating your wife? Oh yeah, why so defensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:35 AM
7

She already acknowledged that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:32 AM
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I already know men prefer younger women so now what? Guy in Budapest.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 03:08 PM
1

If I was in Ukraine I'd prob also be red pilled so I don't blame you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:37 AM
6

It's prob some evolutionary instinct driving your disgust of promiscuous women. Fine, just don't get on my case for not dating short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:16 PM
4

Read up about the sexy sons hypothesis. Women want their genes to propagate and this won't happen if they have kids with undesirable men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:01 PM
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Sparkle sparkle
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 01:21 PM
25

Perhaps your friends are not attracted to men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:59 AM
1

You are rare. Most men do care
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:58 AM
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Sounds like the men where you live are domineering, horrendous people and I wish you'd stop describing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:54 AM
8

Statistically the majority of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:31 AM
14

We don't date short men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:43 AM
18

lol, nice rage bait. Yes, let's also tell women to exploit short ugly men for free dinners while we're at it. Hahaha! Good one OP
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:27 AM
7

Some were Jewish and others were not. Jewish guys have rizz.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 04:30 PM
2

Don't worry, you weren't a real nice guy to start with. You weren't fooling anyone with your act.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:27 AM
-3

Good, please stick together with those people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:25 AM
4

Errr no, go to any AA meeting. Everyone there is extra horny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 01:33 AM
2

I do think women get special rights, where in my original comment did I ever deny that? Oh, I see your edit. Never mind. I agree one person's experience means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:32 PM
6

I'm happier than I've ever been as a single, never married cat lady. Living my best life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:09 PM
3

I agree with that but I never asked for special treatment or agreed to any terms where in exchange I need to have some baby. If that had been the proposition I would have rejected the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 01:07 PM
19

Thank you, OP is like my dog when a cat slaps him in the face and he thinks the cat likes him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:09 AM
5

It is sustainable because we are happy to be single if the right man doesn't come along. Women care less about population collapse than tech billionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:06 AM
2

No one is perfect so anyone here in a relationship (man or woman) is dealing with some level of baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 02:41 AM
5

Blech no thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:53 AM
-3

because the perpetual cheaters are pretty good liars and con men and women aren't any better than men at figuring out honest people from liars. We get better at it as we get older though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:00 PM
2

The fetish is a no go, I'd be too grossed out to look at him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:28 AM
4

Since when?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 06:27 AM
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Most women prefer dating within our own ethnicity, that is also validated by studies. It's men who are more open to dating outside their race.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:01 AM
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Yes I believe them but more so because studies validate this belief, I don't watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:36 AM
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This is unintentionally hilarious to me because I relate a little too much to your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:35 PM
0

Ok, so avoid male friends bc they only want to fork you.. got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 11:04 AM
0

Maybe because you are pumping and dumping them. I wouldn't take you seriously either, men like this give off a vibe of not being trustworthy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:33 AM
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I agree, dating apps are the way to go. Just keep plugging away. Takes longer for some of us than others
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 09:29 PM
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Women have more eating disorders than men so yeah we know not to be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:25 AM
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Is this a troll? You want us to come out against gender ideology on Reddit? It used to be the fastest way to get canceled and banned. Thanks for nothing!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:44 AM
1

Or maybe women aren't a monolith and some of us never do this. It just doesn't make logical sense to care if a man I don't like starts dating someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:47 PM
1

because when we are young and stupid we think the men actually like us and want a relationship. We are unaware yet that men will fork traffic cones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:52 PM
1

No, he's racist or drinks alcohol in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:50 PM
3

Promiscuous people are too busy having a grand time to worry if OP isn't sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:05 AM
12

Good, more sober men for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:04 AM
11

Where on earth is this happening? I'm glad I do not know women like this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:36 AM
1

Men and women think so differently about these things, I can't even fathom being proud of someone only wanting to boink you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:51 AM
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Because we end up dating these men and get burned. Even when we find a man who cares the memory of the deceivers will linger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:30 PM
3

Yes, it would be a red flag unless all the women he follows look exactly like me. That would be a green flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:47 PM
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In my opinion : be tall and kind to all animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:41 PM
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I want both. I've always craved a monogamous long-term relationship but if I didn't find the right man I would have stayed single
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:25 PM
1

Women who've been left with a child are the most cynical around. They rival us Gen X ladies. Of course she's less likely to want another full time man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:57 PM
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Ugh no, women are risking pregnancy and stds also they aren't even enjoying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:28 AM
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I believe within that post someone did provide an archived study bc the dating apps don't share the data anymore. There is a good book called Date-onomics written by Jon Birger where he gets into the stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:19 AM
2

Hissing through his teeth and long dramatic groans when I come to the door, he also mutters under his breath and I only see him do this to me. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:30 PM
0

Thank you, does anyone read sexology literature? Oofa
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:52 PM
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Be the change you want to see, start treating everyone like crap. Relish in the authenticity of being your true manipulative, transactional self and don't let the haters get you down. There is a doorman here in nyc who groans and makes snide comments every time he has to open the door for me. No one bullies him into treating me with basic respect, he hates me with genuine authenticity and for no good reason.. I'm nice to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 01:30 PM
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But she's groomed her entire life not to decline it. I've seen documentaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 11:04 AM
1

No, we are sad for those women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:24 AM
2

What if the participants are Gen X and don't want to live together or have kids? The man and woman each have their own places, take turns paying for dinner. Granted my bf is super talented at fixing stuff so maybe that makes him the whore?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:38 PM
11

Depends on age. https://www.boston.com/culture/health/2014/05/30/nate-silvers-fivethirtyeight-website-takes-on-the-data-behind-masturbation/?amp=1 “Only 1.5 percent of women ages 30 to 39 masturbated four or more times per week. ''
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 04:12 PM
2

Your honesty is refreshing, I think a lot of people stay because going on the apps is a minefield. Even a tall, handsome man would prob avoid the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:29 PM
7

Like the world is as it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:00 AM
3

All I can do is pretend I don't find ugly men who stare creepy, they will never know I think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:59 AM
16

Hello! You wrote THIS post we are all reading titled: Men are the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:35 AM
11

Except all the responses from women so far have been not to cold approach. We don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:51 AM
4

How are we having daughters if we are all going for the same 10% of men? Pick an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:50 AM
13

There are complications worse than death.. for example: being pregnant at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:10 AM
2

If red pill was only saying scientifically backed evo psych then I'd be red pill. They don't though so I'm not red pill. Red pill tends to be binary thinking, gamified advice for scoring casual sex. Most women have no interest in casual sex and for the ones who do it's often a trauma response.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 09:59 PM
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I fervently advocate for tall men on this subreddit everyday. Men accuse me of rage baiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:02 AM
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Who cares? Are you that hot guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:01 AM
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Because we are idiots when we are young, still believe in romance. Now information is freely available to warn younger generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:53 AM
1

Won't AI solve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:08 PM
0

Are you a Shera sprinkle sprinkle listener? She makes some good points, smart lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 05:41 PM
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Women aren't selecting for physical beauty as the highest demand. Ever heard of the sexy son's hypothesis? As the more selective sex (which is mainly down to gamete production) women select for height, intelligence and penis size in a partner bc we know that's what will help our hypothetical sons get more ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:11 PM
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I love how this sub raises the consciousness of young women to the reality of male sexuality. You see it peak women here everyday. I remember feeling the same way when I started reading the academic literature... WHAT?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:35 AM
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Yes, I'm leaning more towards 4B due to this sub. I see this as a good thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:32 AM
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I remember that, guess you still think all the women are homophobic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 06:26 AM
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Depends how tall the man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:55 AM
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Women do shame women for being pick-mes. I find it cringe and appalling when women take back a cheating man or chase a guy who doesn't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 02:07 PM
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Introduce him to one of your very attractive female friends and observe, that should tell you whether or not he likes you or just anyone. I used this tactic all the time while dating to weed out the weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:19 PM
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People tend to predict future behavior based on experiences of the past. Sometimes we get it wrong. I've noticed men do it too, especially in bed. Different person here Joe!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 01:42 PM
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I agree with OP, women don't generally approach and I look askance at those who do. It's just not a good idea. That's why I like dating apps, it gives women some choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:35 PM
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Do you ever think about AI being trained on our Reddit posts and 200 years in the future ChatGPT will regurgitate some stupid rant you made on this forum as a fact? It occurs to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 04:50 PM
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She probably thought you were the unabomber, not worried about your lack of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 05:57 AM
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Yes I think it works better. Makes the reunions more exciting and keeps the relationship from getting stagnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 11:30 PM
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The person you are responding to is poly.. thus an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 05:52 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 09:44 PM
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No, we are unburdened by marriage to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:03 PM
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I think women in 3rd world countries are more hypergamous bc they are desperate. They have no choice to go get a masters degree and earn a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:59 PM
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Yeah like politicians caught doing horrible things resign so they can spend more time with their families. It's utter BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:53 PM
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It's been replicated
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 12:23 PM
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Actually studies show the happiest couples are where the woman is more attractive than the man. Doesn't mean she isn't going to be sexually into him but it's more important for him to feel lucky he scored such a hottie than it is for the woman. https://www.esquire.com/uk/life/a17209/women-happier-uglier-men/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:54 AM
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There are studies showing the best combo for happiness is when the men is less attractive than the woman. You can google it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:31 AM
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They will be so wrapped up with their AI girlfriends that they won't mind or notice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:25 PM
4

Ever watched Robert Sapolsky debate this topic or discuss it? I haven't believed in free will for years now because of him. Also Sam Harris and Robert Wright are excellent on this topic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:15 PM
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Agree, if you aren't going to have kids then it's a ridiculous proposition
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:16 PM
4

How about buying the magic wand and incorporate that into the action?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:27 PM
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Women don't care about you having romantic intent, it's the sexual objectification that we have an issue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:40 PM
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Could be women's evolved disgust sensitivity that makes men's preferences gross to women. It's not fair but the explanation also lies in evolution. I never found Lisa Bilyeu that insightful, she comes off as overly shocked/impressed by her guests who are often saying mundane things that I thought were common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 02:31 PM
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So we agree, grown men do not care what women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:49 PM
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I take it as a given that men don't care what I think, I believe this a common assumption among women. We already know most men only care what we look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:49 PM
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I'm into this 4B stuff, maybe I will convert.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:37 AM
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It's not just patriarchy, it's evo psych. Sperm chases the egg, women are more choosy etc. read some evo psych.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:36 AM
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Men just have the audacity, whether they are aware of their league or not at least they give it a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:05 AM
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I don't think the women injecting themselves into male spaces are the same women afraid for their safety
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 06:28 AM
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Now that's a good question. Back when I was dating I bet the guy would say: who are you again or something about my boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:01 PM
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Yeah bc the question is meant to filter out men who just want to pump and dump. If there is ANY hesitation to the answer I already know what he's thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:20 AM
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I doubt this. More likely you know women will dump you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:08 AM
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You make a good point, the more I found out about male sexuality the less interested in marriage I became.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:05 AM
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They get pooped on for money, don't think the ladies care about status.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:08 PM
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I think it's great! I'm all for self-reflection and knowing your looksmatch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:44 PM
2

Makes sense to me. Marriage always sounded like a ridiculous scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 06:40 PM
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Men will fork traffic cones, of course they would "date" liberal women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:17 AM
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I'm in nyc and believe me.. women know we can't land hot tall guys outside of our 20s. We lower our standards and still get ghosted, pumped and dumped. Many decide to just stay single and forget the whole mess
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:40 AM
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Read some evo psych like the Moral Animal by Robert Wright. Men of all ages are more attracted to young 20 year-olds. Doesn't matter how good a woman looks, men prefer young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:37 AM
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That is typical for women in nyc, we do care about height and income. However, we also know men focus on looks bc we aren't idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:57 AM
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You can just get lucky and find unconventional people attractive. Men in particular are good at this because they are more prone to partialism which is a paraphilia where you are attracted to specific body parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:37 AM
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They are much more open on the apps about who should not message them. I watch Rupaul's Drag Race and there was a song called Fat, Fem and Asian. I'm sure you can extrapolate what the implication is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:09 PM
2

I believe they have high standards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:24 AM
2

You're right, I'm an extremely loyal crazy girl
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:45 PM
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Most of us don't even know what it is and I only see men posting about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 03:47 AM
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How do you know what the women commenting of this app look like? I bet there are tons of hotties
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 09:32 AM
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Not from me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:25 PM
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I would say the opposite. Most women want ltr or marriage and men's mating strategy is to avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:35 PM
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Not important at all to me. I prefer a man who actually wants me for a ltr to any status he may have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 02:31 PM
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It could just be true and other guys are asking her out. A bunch of guys from my past will ask me out all on the same day and it's weird, I end up telling my boyfriend just because it happened, not to make him feel anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:35 AM
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Same, who collects minions?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 08:28 AM
2

If what you say is true then men and women are more ill-suited to be together than I previously thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:06 PM
1

Well everyone else in this subreddit thinks your opinion is messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:39 PM
8

How long will he be there? Long enough to pump and dump? That's not interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:21 AM
5

Just to let you know I'm a woman and agree with you, responsive desire sounds like BS to me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:29 AM
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The guys I had casual with had to have at least one massive character flaw in order to prevent me from falling in love or hoping for more. Racist, Trump supporter, alcoholic would be perfect. Also had to be tall and hung. If the dude was a nice guy and tall and hung then nope.. no casual sex because I might fall in love and that would suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:33 AM
2

How can this comment be ok and if I just want to agree with someone my comment gets deleted?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:04 AM
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Lukewarm conversations as a problem is hilarious! Meanwhile women are dealing with avoiding death and stalkers. Sorry about the boring convos though. lol!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:18 AM
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You are veering into the no true Scotsman fallacy. A Christian or Atheist self-identifies as such too and you can't tell the person they aren't that if they tell you they are. There are certain beliefs one would expect a RP, Christian or Atheist to espouse but there could also be some sect or denomination that rejects one or more facets.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:10 PM
2

Meh, I'm from NYC. We native New Yorkers are used to seeing famous people around, no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:58 AM
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I absolutely loathe fish pics and would not match with anyone with such a photo. He enjoys killing living things and posting with the dead creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:43 PM
2

Yes, so keep your personal life private. No reason to share details.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:16 AM
2

Why not just keep your past sex life private from these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:58 AM
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I'm in a relationship with one. He's more progressive than I am and def has sex with this woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:57 AM
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Free will doesn't exist, we are just robot meat sacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:04 AM
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Finally I agree with a red pill man! Bingo! Feels like OP is trying to get us all canceled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:58 PM
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This is the answer! I do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:30 PM
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Sometimes that's true but more than likely big d hookup bro is someone I wouldn't introduce to my parents or I'd be embarrassed to be seen with in public. Maybe he's too young, has a drinking problem, is racist, voted for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:32 PM
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It's def worth considering imo if you are interested in marriage. Also, men are more likely to leave if the woman gets sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:24 AM
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The women I know who've given up on men are widows or divorced women with kids who've had men and don't want another. These are women who def could get a man but don't want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:30 PM
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Wondering how you accomplish that. I used to just categorize the men who weren't clearly stating looking for LTR as fk boys and it never failed me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:12 PM
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You are obviously right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:22 AM
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No because my ideal man is 10x more into me than I'm into him so he has to prove it by approaching me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:32 AM
2

It's stressful enough dating men and worrying about his eyes wandering towards other women, I just don't have the emotional bandwidth to date a bi man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:01 AM
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Forget he was using his alt account.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:31 AM
1

Who said you can't complain about it? Go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:42 PM
1

What hypocrisy? Do you see me disagreeing that men prefer younger women? That's obvious and well studied.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:38 PM
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Culture is a component but the main driver of difficulties BY FAR is who is producing large gametes and who is producing small gametes. I recommend Robert Wright's book The Moral Animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:37 PM
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IMO gender is a useless concept, I believe in biological sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:59 PM
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So, if women were men then we'd act like men. Ok, sure I buy that. The hierarchies aren't the problem though, it's evolution via sexual selection driving the dating issues for men and women. No one is at fault for that, it's just the way the world evolved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:44 PM
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Same, it would be a huge turn off
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:10 PM
3

Well I agree with him. Makes sense to me. Maybe I lean libertarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 12:45 PM
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A lot of women are such people pleasing doormats that we don't even have access to what we want. It sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:16 AM
3

Go watch some Shera on YouTube, she's hilarious and will lift up your mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:13 PM
2

Always be in a position where if you had to you could go get a new man. The key is him knowing this. You will no longer be boring. Gotta make the man just a little bit worried.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 11:47 AM
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OP thinks zero men will find her attractive at 30 and is considering not dating! Wtf are you talking about? Women are hyper aware of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:52 AM
5

That is not the claim. Inexperienced men can be good in bed if X, experienced can be bad in bed if Y.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:41 AM
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An inexperienced man who cares if the woman orgasms and is curious about what she wants is better in bed than a player who forks for 1.5 minutes and cums.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:16 AM
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Yes it is true and being selfish is the main cause. I'd also add: thinking every woman cums like your ex, ignoring simple requests/direction, being intimidated by vibrators added to the action.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:37 PM
9

Did you see the album cover? Oofa.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:35 AM
4

I'd rather just not know about my partner's porn preferences. As long as he desires me and forks me regularly then I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 02:06 AM
3

And I'm not selfish, now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 06:57 AM
3

Sounds like you've never read one whereas I have read thousands
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:03 PM
6

By your own definition it is not my child!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:54 AM
1

Beach of Trust would be an awesome band name
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:51 AM
2

I've found the complete opposite. The women in this group are largely married or partnered with very egalitarian views.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:36 AM
1

There is quite an easy solution to this problem: spit on your hand when he isn't paying attention and apply to desired region.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:07 AM
-3

Compared to men women aren't visual at all. That's why the romance novel industry is driven almost exclusively by women and the porn industry almost exclusively by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:03 AM
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I believe the okcupid data and the other studies that back it up. Not sure why it being true is so upsetting to you and others. Most women hardly ever see a man they find attractive day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:02 AM
1

I don't think men telling me I've hit the wall etc as equivalent to a racial slur.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:15 AM
1

I dated a cop once, he was racist and from what he said his whole department was too. That wasn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:18 AM
2

It's pretty easy to deduce by just observing a man's behavior early on while dating. Can he control his eyes when a bodacious babe walks by? Does he chatter to the pretty waitress or treat attractive women better than other people? To me these are indicators he will not be faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:16 PM
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In the past I would agree but these days saying you don't think men should box with women will get you labeled a transphobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:57 AM
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Yes, met my bf when he was unemployed. Currently he is in the same situation as OP, looking diligently but nothing is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:52 AM
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Yes for me as well. I just assume I'm the 20th woman he's approached that day and he will continue this behavior when in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:50 PM
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I just hope you are crystal clear about your intentions with the women you are casually dating bc wasting the time of women during their child bearing years is imo immoral
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:40 PM
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Because women are seeking honesty, we don't want you to pretend we are amazing. We all instinctively know men are lying to get in our pants so most of us are shit testing in the beginning to see if the guy actually likes us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 11:09 AM
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I think most men are self-interested to the extent they won't act on their base instincts in public bc they don't want to be hassled or go to jail. There are tons of cameras everywhere so it's hard to get away with the things.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 04:52 PM
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More likely low self-esteem is correlated with sleeping with men too quickly. It's risky and there's a reason only a minority of women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 05:29 AM
1

I've been and there and done that before. Not a good feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 02:47 PM
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I don't think you have fully researched or give a flying fork about what pregnancy does to a woman's body or the pain of child birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:36 PM
7

That's how I feel too. Wouldn't work for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:55 PM
0

No, it is scary to reject men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:00 AM
3

That's fantastic! Wish more men were like you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:30 AM
5

I got it and I'm sorry this has happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:40 AM
2

You are leaving out the part where the man lies to get the woman in bed. IMO the lying liar is the a-hole not the woman for believing him. It takes dating experience for women to realize how Machiavellian some men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:06 AM
6

I just assume every woman I know has been sexually assaulted, if they want to talk about it I will listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 05:14 PM
9

I don't give a crap about your resources, just don't be a drain on mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:22 AM
-5

I think it's a good filter for egoists. Anyone who has to be the star over a child won't be a good partner anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:35 PM
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How about an atheist group?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:27 AM
2

Yes this is a turn off for me, I won't date a guy if I'm not his type
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:16 AM
12

No! I would be very embarrassed if a man hit on me with my mom present at a fancy restaurant. Omg.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 10:54 AM
13

I will not date bi men because it is a massive turn off. But I also won't date short men for similar reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:04 AM
1

Obv OP doesn't care that much
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:59 AM
3

Sounds like male entitlement to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:58 AM
1

I only decline if I'm exhausted because I want to be fully present for the hot action. We both bring our A game to the encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 04:28 PM
20

Exactly, mortuaries don't like hiring men bc they fork the corpses and OP thinks ugly fat women aren't scoring dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:43 AM
19

I haven't noticed that, most are well adjusted women in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:41 AM
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Smart! I get what you are saying and agree. Approach it rationally and accept reality. Good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 12:00 PM
2

I can see why you are a top 1% commenter, makes a lot of sense! You should have a podcast
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:17 PM
16

Women don't want to be pumped and dumped so yeah most are looking for the elusive relationship that adds value rather than sucks and insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:56 PM
0

A woman's boyfriend or husband is the most dangerous man in her life, the one most likely to harm or kill her. He better show me signs of VAST interest to counteract the potential danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:55 AM
-3

Agree, I see gorgeous women with short ugly men all the time. Never the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:15 AM
4

Yeah most of us figure this out in high school or college and aren't stupid enough to approach again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:33 PM
-31

She's probably right, I would also think he's gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:28 AM
4

Ah, that's why using the lie: I have a boyfriend or I'm waiting for my husband is so effective at getting a harasser to move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 10:25 AM
6

The state cares more about roping men into paying than women do. The number one cause of death for pregnant and postpartum women is homicide so women already have an incentive not to have a baby with an unwilling man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:26 AM
14

Multiple studies show kindness is universally the most sought after trait for both men and women across all cultures https://time.com/5674697/relationship-traits-priorities-kindness/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:54 PM
3

My main complaint was being lied to about a man's interest only being sex, I can work with everything else. It sucks that every interaction with a man has to revolve around my suspicion he just wants to fork whether that be a tennis instructor, old guy at church, business associate etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:22 PM
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I'd like to see your sources for women wanting to fork the most dominant man during ovulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:20 AM
27

No, I learned it all on my own. Fear is a gift, it keeps a woman alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:46 PM
16

Lean and toned, big d is what I'm most attracted to. Ideally it's just genetic and he doesn't workout.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:59 PM
4

Makes sense to me. The police force is a recent invention in human history. It's beneficial to survival to grab yourself the biggest, meanest man to protect you and your kids. Sometimes it's a bad bet and in rare cases he ends up killing the woman and kids. During the pandemic I felt this cavewoman type satisfaction that I'd bagged a man who could defend me if crap went south fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:40 PM
7

Why can't you just look at your phone like the rest of us? That way you won't notice or be harassed by this issue. My guess is women and men from more traditional cultures are doing this crap or perhaps very short weak women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 12:08 PM
3

Good point, in the younger years a lot of women mistakenly think they can convert a casual sex man into a ltr. That's where books like He's Just Not That Into You are useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 03:40 PM
2

Exactly, we are already starting to look like Idiocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:29 AM
1

I've seen some research showing lesbians are more male brained and sexually visual than hetero women so this doesn't surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:47 PM
3

lol get some!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:42 PM
1

She gave a complete description of herself physically. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:16 PM
1

I'm telling you it works and she says she has a high iq so I think she is capable of juggling the mental load of sifting through the masses to find a diamond. Plus she has a high libido 3-4x a week?! Hello? All the high libido men are on tinder. Love that for them. I also like a hard man and found one.. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 09:04 PM
2

You sound amazing! My advice is to get on tinder bc all the men on other apps are available in one place and it just takes a thrift store shopping mentality. I met amazing doctors, phds physicists etc on tinder. You just have to go in with a no bs mindset and bail at the first red flag. The men on tinder looking for casual sex are more honest than if they met you on hinge or bumble so they don't waste your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:57 PM
5

Yeah I'd rather just be single than have that kind of a relationship. Blech and blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:25 PM
4

Agree, I'm a 5'10" woman and used to wish men would list their height preferences. Why waste my time?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:12 PM
9

Yes I would love this! Why waste anyone's time? This is def my preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:10 PM
3

Majority of women who don't have kids wanted them but didn't find the right partner in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 02:15 PM
1

I also believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:02 PM
2

Your line about all cases should not proceed to childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 12:12 PM
7

That sounds great. Usually men just stick around to waste a woman's time and use her for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:12 AM
3

It's all about strategy, I don't mind paying for a man but I can't only think about myself. Men have a thing about respect which I can't relate to but have to cater to it to some degree when interacting with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:38 PM
3

I've had men at resorts tell me their dick size (no one lied) in the hopes of vacation sex. Everyone had a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 05:15 PM
11

Cristano Ronaldo isn't highly educated though, it's his random super athletic abilities that made him rich. He sought his own level of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:51 AM
7

It's the audacity that amazes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:27 AM
3

Noooo nooo we do not. Unless the woman is super low iq
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:53 PM
3

Yes you are right, it's funny to me that men think women get an inflated sense of what are level is just bc we can fork hot men. Those hot men who only want casual treat us like dog doo, there is no inflated ego
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:53 PM
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Because men lie to get sex and can appear very charming while hiding a past of financial abuse and assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:42 PM
2

Research coercive control
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 05:55 PM
1

I agree with you, look at the message board over at the straight spouse network. Those poor men don't know why their wives won't fork them and then get left for a woman. Screw that!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:20 PM
3

You make valid points
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 04:16 PM
2

IMO it's the best app for women to find a ltr bc all the men are on it and there's hardly any competition from other women. Even when I tell women this they still won't use it so too bad for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:51 PM
3

There is a guide book which benefits from being true it's called evo psych. There is also tons of sexology studies available free online covering human mating dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:44 PM
1

What?! I saw that post and all the comments were from women praising and encouraging the OP for his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:35 AM
3

Sounds like total projection of what YOU are doing and thinking. Such a bizarre scenario to claim women are doing these strange things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:17 AM
0

Common now, this biologically driven. Sperm chase the egg not the other way around. It isn't women's fault bc we didn't set up evolution by sexual reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:55 PM
12

I can't tell the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:19 AM
2

Def not someone reading Robert Sapolsky I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:50 PM
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Bwahahaaa! Bringing the fire, bringing the heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:49 AM
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Not everyone, tons of people live great lives without friends. My dad never had friends and most of the men I've dated didn't either. I just figured it wasn't something men are interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:41 AM
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It's actually in a woman's best interest not to chase for a variety of reasons you can easily discover by reading evo psych. I suggest The Moral Animal by Robert Wright or anything by David Buss.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:51 PM
0

I'm just impressed you are mansplaining to a man! The word choice of "you're confusing" is so rude like you are teaching a student.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:47 AM
5

I'm Gen X with no kids, life isn't that bad. No worse than anyone else's. I've got a long term monogamous man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:25 AM
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That was one woman who nearly confirmed your pre-conceived notions. Hardly a data point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:19 PM
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Men are wired to over interpret women's friendliness as sexual interest so women are careful not to smile too much or be too friendly. There are tons of studies showing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:54 PM
7

I prefer to actively dislike a man for casual. He needs to be a tall hung hunk with a personality issue, alcoholism, racism or similar for casual. Otherwise I'd get attached
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:41 PM
1

Yeah that's been well known for years, women don't have a sexuality at all similar to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:58 AM
5

I got where you were going with it and I agree as a cluster b person. Therapy is navel gazing nonsense, a waste of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:48 PM
4

I believe it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 01:10 AM
1

I just assumed she was forking him in the as*
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 08:06 PM
-4

What if she's just young and thinking out loud?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:14 PM
1

Why don't you read some sexology literature like J Michael Bailey's paper on female sexuality? Basically it says women don't have one or at least not in the same way men do. Also evo psych will clear this up for you: The Moral Animal by Robert Wright or anything from David Buss. Some of this stuff isn't intuitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:10 PM
-1

I think like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:06 PM
0

The trend is for men to hide their right leaning views to attract a larger pool of women so you have to look through pics for a maga hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:48 PM
13

Interesting, wish my life was the way you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:50 AM
5

I agree with the saying, sounds like you just had bad luck in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:16 PM
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I reject this framing bc I don't believe in free will so no one is at fault and anyone is free to complain bc it's their right and no one can stop them anyway. Evolution via natural selection is a brutal process. It isn't fair and there are clear winners and losers of the gene pool. It really does suck except for the winners of the genetic lottery who believe they are responsible for their own success.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:27 PM
1

I would never date an Adonis looking man if he was any of the following: religious, timid, judgmental snob, bisexual, loves fighting, criminal, polyamorous, short. I'd be happy to have a less attractive man with none of the above attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:47 AM
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They do care about looks but fortunately each has a specific taste. The key to men is finding a dude for whom your particular look is what he's fantasized about since puberty. Then he feels lucky to have you and treats you better. Just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:46 AM
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This is true, I don't even notice short men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:43 AM
2

It's one of the biggest differences in strength between men and women. Prob why they measure it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:32 AM
4

Guess I'm lgtow then bc I believe all those things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:36 PM
26

Trying to figure out who is lying to get sex vs who is just super excited and into me is confusing. I became a bail at the first red flag type of woman and almost missed out on a great relationship bc of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:19 AM
-2

Yes! Massive red flag. I would immediately think I should get up and leave. As a girls girl who grew up with sisters I don't think I'm better than any other woman. Fk this ah for putting women down in front of me and thinking I will compete for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:58 AM
-4

As long as I don't know about it then fine. I'm not trying to date women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:24 AM
0

Effort into his appearance? Blech, no this is not attractive. Effort into our relationship? Yes, I'll take that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:07 AM
1

and those women you describe are better off single so we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:45 PM
2

I've learned on this sub men want to be the casual sex guy, not the husband material guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:48 AM
36

Effort from a man I don't like has stalker/potential threat vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:18 PM
26

Some people are just judgmental and if you lose some then it wasn't your person anyway. I've been dumped and rejected for tons of different reasons until I found a dude who likes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:25 PM
4

Nice confirmation bias there, you found the ONE woman who agrees with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:45 AM
4

I think of patriarchy as a broader societal issue also effecting men, it's why men are raised to not cry and show emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:46 AM
2

Sounds like my experience as middle aged woman in nyc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:14 PM
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Sounds like you aren't escalating pursuit in the beginning to show the women you are clearly into them. That's the only thing I can think of that you can improve on. There are videos on YouTube that explain this. Other than that it could just be a series of bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:04 AM
5

That sounds absurd. It's like asking a man to be a fan of makeup application. Not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:15 AM
14

Why so rude? These are valid concerns of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:27 AM
1

Beginning stages the men get treated the same. Hookup guy: I do not like him and will never text him or think about him, most of the time I actively dislike him. Bf guy: I think about him, text him back, do nice things for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:09 PM
4

Bc the women you talk to have a high disgust response. Women like that won't use dating apps bc they get grossed out quickly. I never had that issue, in fact I'm a fan of thrift store shopping so sifting through the dregs to find a diamond always appealed to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:31 AM
-2

The bar is in hell for any man who says he wants a monogamous relationship. Most men do not so that's what you are not understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:55 PM
1

Completely disagree, I have way more respect for the honest bad boy who tells me he wants to fork and tomorrow he will fork someone else. Love that for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:06 PM
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There are some women sex tourists who go to Africa, the Caribbean etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:15 AM
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I don't know one woman who does, plenty of men love themselves though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:52 AM
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You have a fetish/kink and wish more women were available to you. Ok then. I wish more men were available to me as well but I'm not making an entire post about it pleading with men to consider pre-menopausal women. Good luck to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:45 AM
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I agree with a lot of red pill to the extent it aligns with evo psych. Just because it is unflattering to women doesn't mean much of it isn't true. I love the cold hard slap of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:33 AM
-10

No I do not think it is a social skill, just a lack of empathy which is typically the answer when it comes to men. There are romance novels men could easily read for examples of what women like but they don't. Because they don't give a flying fork.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:15 AM
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I follow her and her point is to not expect a man to love you or be faithful, it's not in their nature. Focus on other things, don't make men the center of your life because you will be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:22 AM
2

I didn't know men have friends so it seems like a bizarre thing to require.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:13 AM
10

We don't, men and women have different definitions of treating better. If your girlfriend knew you were telling a subreddit that you are planning to cheat I have no doubt she would wish she never met you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:43 AM
3

Wow, you sound like my dad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:17 AM
1

I buy them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:28 AM
1

I think it's true that women love bad boys for a variety of reasons. Mostly it goes back to evo psych.. a nice, pushover isn't going to defend his lady during the zombie apocalypse unlike the bad boy who will slay the zombies and keep the lady and her kids alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:29 PM
1

The problem is choosing a partner with a similar libido in the beginning! Sure there are fewer women with high libidos but we do exist. Living together kills the mystery and vibe as well because people get too comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:07 PM
2

I don't think it matters bc I had parents with no affection and would never settle for that in my personal life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:04 PM
0

Pushing soft limits? Errr... how many women want that?! Dangerously close to duty sex if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:03 PM
4

I have no respect for anyone who ghosts and there is no justification for it beyond risk of bodily harm and stalking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:13 PM
1

Studies show men are more likely to care about things rather than people and score higher on narcissism and psychopathy. Personally I love disagreeable women bc I find them fascinating bc they are pretty rare imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:50 PM
5

Most women want a long term monogamous, they just don't tell men that because they are afraid he'll run away screaming like his hair is on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:10 PM
12

Guess you reject all the science on iq if this is your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:43 PM
2

To me creepy comes with a predatory stare, one that is primal and difficult to forget. I would never say anything rude to a man doing that to me because it's too dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:12 PM
4

I need a silly man, a goofball is my preference. Humor and intelligence correlate in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:04 PM
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I scrolled through her videos but don't see where she says she only dates super hot guys. This is a 38 year-old Christian woman who wants kids, there is no way she is picky about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:57 PM
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I'd like to see where the 38 year old woman admits to only focusing on the most attractive, please link. By 38 most women have tried dating all types.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:42 PM
1

Higher education reduces the risk of divorce however unless you plan to have kids the whole drama of it seems ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:41 PM
1

Where are these women who adore getting tons of matches with men who don't read the profile and want to fork us and discard us like tissue paper? I agree with the cave lady
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:41 AM
1

It def is gendered. Women care about other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:24 PM
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Sorry this happens to you. Seems like the people (men and women) who have gift giving as a love language are the ones who get taken for a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:35 PM
0

Great post! Does agreeing with you make me a red pill hypergamy enjoyer?!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:07 PM
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Very against!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:37 AM
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You can't sell or rent out other organs. Why is it just women's uterus? It's pure misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:36 AM
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Never, those men are cruel a-holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:33 AM
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I was ambivalent about him until the Nazi salute. Now I do not like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:32 AM
2

I don't care if you are trolling, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:26 AM
-9

No one should follow anyone at the supermarket.. holy crap!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:24 AM
-3

Same! It is creepy even when the guy is attractive. I immediately assume the man has approached 15 women that day and I'm not special at all. Plus, I don't want to be with a man who is more likely to hit on random women and potentially cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:22 AM
1

He said looks not individual features. Jesus Christ Maria.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:20 AM
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Yes! Finally I see a genius of a man on this sub who gets it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:16 AM
1

Try reading evo psych: The Moral Animal or books by David Buss. Learning about science and that lack of free will gives me empathy. I will not put trust in the retelling of other's personal experience because we all have cognitive biases and the entire (rather stupid) field of psychiatry wouldn't exist if we all individually had access to our motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:45 PM
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Yes but no kids with him unless we are also fabulously wealthy in this alternate timeline. Then we'd do lots of testing on the fetus to make sure it doesn't carry disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:35 AM
9

Fortunately we have some disagreeable women in this group who don't care if people agree or like us. That's why I participate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:01 PM
16

How "less desirable" are we talking here? Homeless dudes? Short men? Below avg iq? I need more info.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:17 PM
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Men are on average much stronger than women, surprisingly so. Tv and movies have fooled us for generations. An extremely fit, weight lifter woman can easily be over powered by an 80 year old man in a wheelchair. Be careful out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:40 PM
3

She could mean the nerdy computer guy who rides motorcycles on the weekend. Way to jump to conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:10 PM
6

I get it! Fortunately most men have some sort of "edge" even if they are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:09 PM
5

What's his type? Would he accept a shrek looking woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:06 PM
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Is this some bizarre fan fic projection of your internal desires? That's the only way any of this makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:24 PM
2

Looks like a fake profile
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:58 AM
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Ever heard of trauma? Go listen on YouTube to some Loveline with Dr Drew and Adam Carolla from the 1990s. Teen moms having kids and those kids having kids. Women from abusive backgrounds getting pregnant from dudes in jail. The hosts breakdown the issues in extremely humorous ways
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:57 AM
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Join the anti-natalism subreddit if you haven't already. Better place for supportive people who understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:01 AM
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I'm probably older than you and have extensive experience online dating. It's not as bad as you make it sound, there are free options for the apps and they def worked for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:07 PM
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It isn't all about attractiveness, lots of women prefer ugly or medium ugly men because we think there's a chance those dudes won't be tempted to cheat as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:47 AM
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Think this would kill the mood for me and I wouldn't fork you again
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:22 PM
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Why don't you wait until the woman suggests a monogamous relationship? Seems like you are jumping the gun by trying to lock down women who aren't in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 03:43 PM
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I don't ever want to get married but that's how I dated. Looking for my monogamous, committed, life partner. I'd say most women are looking for that whether it's a legally binding contract or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:53 PM
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Sorry to hear! Argh, that must be painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:49 PM
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I like what you wrote but these reasonable opinions fly out the window if the woman is of child bearing years and the man knows she wants to get married and have kids. Obv it is not illegal to waste a woman's time but in that situation it is a moral outrage to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:48 PM
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I'm not specifically attracted to old men but now I'm old myself and find myself very horny for my man who is older than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:34 PM
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Yeah, she should have but she didn't so now what? Should she be punished with pregnancy? Someone with your profile name having an issue with morality is odd
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:04 PM
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That is a kink, common now. Read up on autogynephilia. Men Trapped in Men's Bodies by Anne Lawrence is excellent and available free online. No problem having a kink or fetish at all but it should be disclosed before first date or on the first date. There are women into it and it is understandable to be shy about disclosure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 11:21 PM
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Now this is genius and I agree absolutely! I was always waiting to be in a relationship and never wanted to be forking around with various men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:44 PM
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Why not try asking the woman if she has a husband or other man before the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:40 PM
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When I ask: what are you looking for? And the response is hemming and hawing I know they are looking to fork around. No judgment that's just not my bag see ya later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:32 AM
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The women I know who don't like dating apps get disgusted with the swiping aspect. If they see too many ugly men they delete the app. Another reason is they don't like the idea of the man dating lots of women which is odd bc why wouldn't an offline dude be doing that? I get annoyed with these women and think they aren't maximizing technology to their benefit but it's their choice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 07:01 PM
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Mathew Hussy has crap content, he got destroyed in a debate with that gorgeous Iranian woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:03 PM
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I prefer neurodivergent men and/or super smart weirdos. It's just my thing. My dad was like that so I'm used to the negatives. The super quiet autists can be frustrating to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:42 PM
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Ok thanks interesting perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:14 AM
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An ok well hope you get with a hot lady
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:10 AM
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What is monkey pawed?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:22 AM
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I thought you were saying if the man really loves the woman then he can't help but be super attuned and affected by her moods.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:23 PM
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Good for you, I never cared for that act anyway. Does nothing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:07 PM
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During the period is not really the issue it is BEFORE when sht can really hit the fan. PMS affects women differently but if she gets massive mood swings it might benefit you to know when this will be occurring. No man has given enough of a sht about me to track this and frankly it might creep me out to know a man is tracking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:49 PM
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Thank god for that, otherwise I would have never gotten a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:43 PM
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You have it a bit mixed up here my friend. Common wisdom is women are gatekeepers of sex and men are gatekeepers of committed relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:42 PM
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A few different people? So I'm not even special to a freaking dying man? I'd be nice to his face and pretend to be supportive but internally I'd think he was an offensive, rude jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 07:43 PM
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It's cross cultural that men commit more crime and are jailed more than women. In every group of humans ever studied historically up to present day it holds. I'm not saying women are better because of it, let's all just face reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:47 PM
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Jesus.. are there millions of men buying romance novels?!? Nooooo! They don't give a flying fork. Women love them! I've been reading them since I was 15. Men watch more porn. Holy crap, when did people start not knowing all this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:42 PM
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Look at crime and jail stats, who watches porn and who has a monthly period that causes emotions to fluctuate. Common now! We aren't the same and that's reality. The boys soccer team beat the Olympic women's soccer team. Physically and mentally we are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:26 PM
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Ignorance is bliss, I'm not checking. If for some reason this came to my attention and he was following sexy ladies then I wouldn't like it. I'd probably not bring it up or make an issue out of it, I'd just not trust him and keep one foot out the door. I'm not in a position to dump a man for any reason bc I'm old and live in NYC. The competition is just too fierce
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:25 AM
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Luigi is too short
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:31 PM
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Gross, I don't want either barf. That's why I won't live with or marry a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:19 PM
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I've never met a woman who thinks she is the prize, it's more typical to meet women who are insecure and self-loathing. Men just look at hot women and think they have zero problems but in my experience the best looking women are the craziest and most insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 04:59 AM
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How about if the wife just pretends to be happy and calm? Will that bring the husband out of his shell? Guess you always will have to walk on egg shells around this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:04 PM
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You are super smart at analyzing this guy's marriage. I will have to think about what you wrote in the original post now bc at first glance it sounded like horse doodoo. My bf is very sensitive to my moods and I've learned to hide them from him because he will start screaming and yelling if I reveal myself to be angry or sad about anything even if it has nothing to do with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:59 PM
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lol I was thinking the same thing. None of my relationships ended because the man was so into me. Hahahaaa, it's so out there as a concept I can barely imagine it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:48 PM
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I sleep with real animals, dog lies over my head on the same pillow and the cats surround me in various formations.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:52 AM
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You like the attention and want her to chase, you are not insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:51 AM
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I've also felt like giving up bc the only men I met were all about short term casual relationships, polyamory or bizarre kinks. Finally I met a man who just wanted a long term monogamous relationship, phew! Dating sucks, hope you find a compatible partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:04 PM
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It's ridiculous bc few men can achieve these things. Oddly enough to stand out in nyc all a man needs to do is advertise his availability for a long term monogamous relationship. Most women want that and practically zero men are delivering this. So, if you are a man who wants this too .. wow! You could be short and broke yet bag the best woman here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:52 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you, it was incredibly cruel. I've been dumped and ghosted many times over and it sucks! Hope you find a woman who appreciates the stability while thinking of you as a sexy bad boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:06 AM
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We have this argument here constantly and strangely it's always about anal sex. Hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:40 PM
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Perhaps you are a man who has not fully contemplated the realities of pregnancy bc I have and it sounds like medieval torture. I mean holy crap?! Are you freaking kidding me?! I purposefully sought out a man with kids bc I prefer having kids in my life but I def did not want to be pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:36 PM
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I'm blue pill and upvoted you just fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:55 PM
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As a woman, it is the pregnancy I'm avoiding, not the parenthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:12 PM
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I go about my life assuming this is the case because I would never have a child with an unwilling man in the first place. IMO it is risky bc the number one cause of death for pregnant and postpartum women is murder by her partner. I assume the murder occurs bc the man doesn't want a baby so why would I put myself in this position? No thanks. Also I just think it's immoral to force anyone else to pay for something they do not want. As a law? Meh, I'd have to hear everyone out bc my personal prefe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:08 PM
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You are conflating different women and assuming we are all a monolith. Plus, women don't MAKE men do all the chasing to show his worthiness. The reason I do it is because men and women have different sexualities. A lot of men will fork anything that moves or a traffic cone with a blonde wig. So, if the man won't even take me out for coffee then he doesn't think I'm special and I won't waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:39 PM
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Love Will Durant, audio books are available on YouTube and are lovely to drift off to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:08 AM
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Some men like gold diggers because they are typically very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:09 PM
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Yeah.. men tend to leave women for being diagnosed with cancer more so than the reverse. Depression can last a lifetime so if it affects libido better to just be with an asexual person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:56 PM
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The issue is acting like a boyfriend when you already said that's not what you want combined with the catnip of the women hearing: you aren't good enough for me to commit. That used to be my thing as well. Yes I get it, you didn't technically say that but that is what a lot of women "hear". If she was a perfect 10 and your dream woman then you prob would commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:15 PM
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More the merrier, I like kids even though I'm a single cat lady. My boyfriend has two kids and they are awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:20 AM
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My allure has largely faded and ya know what? It isn't that bad. Ok, so I'm not appealing to a large number of dudes. I'm still hot enough for my partner and prob a smaller number of dudes if my relationship fails. Aging is better than the alternative (dying).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:06 PM
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I bet there are far more women who get an abortion bc the man isn't happy than women who fk the man over by having a kid he doesn't want. No idea if there are stats on this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:39 PM
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I'm into the physical stuff but I'm also a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:27 AM
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It's def not an ego boost, we know that same man will fork a much less attractive woman with the same vigor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:23 AM
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Fortunately we have ozempic now and all the righteous naturally thin people can stfu already. You really think you did something just because naturally you don't over eat? That's like a nepo baby thinking they are talented.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:13 PM
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The number one cause of death for pregnant women is MURDER by her partner. So, yeah, we get it. Men don't want to be dads. I'm sure an enormous number of abortions occur due to the man not wanting the baby and the woman not wanting to be murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:14 PM
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Good luck out there! You are seemingly in a good position for dating quality women as long as your pre-screening process is smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:02 PM
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Hope you will someday recover from your trauma, maybe write a book?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:51 PM
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A lot of men on dating apps lie to get sex, it's all part of the sexual marketplace arms race between men and women. When I was on the apps the #1 issue was figuring out who is lying and who isn't. I quickly developed a trigger hair warning system to brutally eliminate fk boys. I'd ask them what they are looking for either before or during the first date. If the answer was anything other then a ltr with you I'd never see them again. This process was not perfect bc some guys are socially awkward …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:09 PM
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What if the parents don't want the baby? Yes sure, put it in the artificial womb if your panties are in a twist about it being a human life. Then you personally can take care of it. Be my guest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:53 PM
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Men have other ways of not paying. They murder their pregnant wives and girlfriends. The number one cause of death for pregnant and post partum women is being murdered. Not gestational diabetes or anything medical related.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:51 PM
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This is great advice! Too many women are doormats bc they want love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:10 PM
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