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I agree with this. You maintain a memory of the person you were first attracted to when you look into their eyes. It's a fantasy, a memory, activated by facial expressions. I would still call it lust, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/26 03:41 PM
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This paper was written by a sociologist woman who has written papers on violence against women height differences between spouses are symbolic of traditional power differentials and because gender ideals are linked to stature such that tallness is associated with dominance, masculinity, and higher status among men (Bogaert and McCreary 2011). This hypergamous pattern of height-coupling reflects historical gender power imbalances, and also perpetuates a longstanding height-hierarchy among men. FR…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/26 01:36 PM
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Women can't even recognize gender differences let alone transcend them Or why they exist, what purpose they serve, whether they are helpful...what women reflects on these things? They are dismissed as arbitrary stereotypes which will just disappear but that's not what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 06:57 PM
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You said your life didn't change when Trump got elected but according to research the sexlessness of men expanded quite fast after 2016. https://ifstudies.org/ifs-admin/resources/figure2-96-w640.png Birth rates have declined for a while, but it seems to cooincide with economic problems? There was a large decline after the baby boom period, and then in 2007. https://www.randalolson.com/assets/2026/04/us-birth-rate-record-low.png Happier alone movements may have come before but many other things h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 08:16 PM
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abandon heterosexual relationships because they would all be sexless The sexual tension in the dance and music and all of it. This seems a lot different from your original post though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/26 01:40 AM
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In our youth, we men or boys rather were also made to believe that women were interested in sex for a number of reasons: 1) a lot of young girls our age were very interested in sex 2) a substantial minority of women are loud, fun, flirtatious, highly sexual, if not promiscious (25% of women). I happen to be a good looking guy and girls desired me from an early age and aggressively pursued me for sex, without really knowing me except as the boy who sits in the classroom. Certainly high school boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/26 02:41 PM
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I'm not the original responder but I wrote some examples of what I think is essential in feminine beauty (no particular order). Youthfulness. That doesn't just mean that the woman has to be young, she only needs bodily characteristics that reflect youthfulness. It can involve the body being firm, or plump, and a cuteness. This seems to show up in studies. Women call each other cute, men do not call each other that. Voluptuousness. Which means: fullness, curvaceousness, softness. Women can have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:22 PM
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For me sex was desirable for its own sake. My sexual experiences were some of the best moments of my life. Sex was validating for me because I want to feel confident in my ability to do it, and being chosen by women makes me feel that I am considered attractive by women and have a status of "attractive guy". But I can separate that from the enjoyment of sex. Less attractive women didn't make sex less enjoyable or validating, but it made me feel like I had become less attractive to women who obse…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 12:06 PM
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I'm not convinced that they don't "grow up" and pass on their genes eventually, nor that alphas only have casual sex and not girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:45 PM
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This idea of promiscuity being a genetic dead end assumes men aren't playing the field until they eventually settle down. They could also end up with children without meaning to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:49 PM
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This type of thing has limited applicability and you may as well just push for unisex draft at that point. War is defense of the country, an anti-draft is just a peice of paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:01 PM
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That's fine but if you're not going to put in effort to make sex work then don't complain about an orgasm gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:57 AM
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I'm not saying raise a hyper masculine kid who can't express his feelings, but I do wonder if kids who had a good upbringing could learn discipline from being taught self defense, if you really forced them to persevere with it. Boys also used to have newspaper jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:54 AM
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Don't buy things for children, make them work if they want things. Back in the day the boys used to have newspaper boy jobs. I'm not saying raise a hyper masculine kid who can't express his feelings, but I do wonder if kids who had a good upbringing could learn discipline from being taught self defense, if you really forced them to persevere with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 01:39 AM
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Oh I see. I thought he was talking about women being more communicative and active in ensuring that they get what they want pleasure wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:45 PM
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Why does being a straight woman mean your own skill is not super relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:02 PM
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I have only said "a considerable number of women" have difficulty communicating, not that no women communicate. I can imagine careless male lovers, but I could also see women saying nothing, and my point was that if a woman is unsatisfied, it should be their responsibility to communicate their needs, and I'm not sure ALL women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 11:07 PM
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If I may interject: numerous women is presumably an anecdote, and I can respond with my own anecdote, I have intimately known numerous women who had the contrary experience with larger men who were close friends. So no, I would not draw the conclusion that they are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:23 PM
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I said they have difficulty communicating, and that is I feel something that is important if you want to be good in bed, to your point. Hope that clarifies it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:49 PM
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My suspicion is that a considerable number of women find it difficult to communicate, because they like to be in the position of being submissive, and if they have to give instructions it spoils the tension and fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:37 PM
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Why is it the duty of a guy? The woman should be working on her communication skills to get what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:03 PM
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I thought the feminist interpretation of history was that women were forced into economic dependence on marriage, and socialized to understand their sexual and personal value primarily through their desirability as partners, whilst facing more laws and punishments than men for indiscretions. So all this making women seem more sexual...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:21 PM
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Piss off Sealioning (also sea-lioning and sea lioning) is a type of trolling or harassment that consists of pursuing people with relentless requests for evidence, often tangential or previously addressed, while maintaining a pretense of civility and sincerity ("I'm just trying to have a debate"), and feigning ignorance of the subject matter. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sealioning https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1udseu3/no_ai_generated_posts/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:38 PM
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Red Pill adopts evolutionary explanations ...as part of its core principles. The core of something is what makes the ideology. And I already prefaced it by saying the addition of evopsyche at the core was an assumption of mine. Evolutionary psychology is judged as political because it conflicts with the norms and beliefs of many people in society, based on the prevailing dogma and politically correct ideas, I already pointed this out with the quote. Also, those who conceptualized it are viewed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:54 PM
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I'm not an expert on the red pill, so I could be wrong, but my impression was that the theory behind these dating dynamics, attraction, and hypergamy / status tends to be evolutionary. To the extent that Red Pill uses evolutionary thinking as part of an ideology from which it draws advice, or adopts ideas as part of its core principles that are already part of a long standing, bitter political disagreement between feminists and those being portrayed as "ultra conservative scientific sexists", I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:25 PM
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The ideas that come out of these communities are rooted in men's dating experiences and borrowed concepts from evolutionary psychology that happen to conflict with the gender-as-cultural-construct model of a women that emerged in the second wave of feminism in the 1970's. So it could be viewed as a backlash to feminist ideas about sexuality and encouraging a kind of conservative thinking. For example, a paper called "the flipside of feminism" states that the philosophy of pick up artistry (also …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 02:51 PM
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There seems to be more promiscuous men than women, but I think many guys are less motivated to sleep with women who have a lot of partners. Guys want women who desire them, but they are just interested in a larger number of partners than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 01:18 PM
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The guys probably walked away fantasizing about it, then went home, kicked themselves, and jerked off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 01:26 AM
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I wish you celibate type guys would stop acting like you represent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 12:46 AM
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Are you? You didn't address the argument I made and you are deflecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:40 PM
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That is a strawman (or some type of fallacy)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:26 PM
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War is intended to be won, surely. The point is that women were subordinate in the long run, not that some men would die in the short run.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:58 PM
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"... the Nazi regime officially encouraged and pressured women to fill the roles of mother and wife only. Women were excluded from all other positions of responsibility, including political and academic spheres. Nazism rejected feminism as "anti-German"."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:11 PM
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I truly don't understand why you feel obliged to fix a sexual problem in an emasculating way (why would he need you to treat some sexual inadequecy when he could just have a partner who appreciates him?) before you have even met the guy rather than just telling the truth and being up front about what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:40 PM
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It was a terrible post, and is he even heterosexual? I don't understand why you want to address someones flaws in a humiliating and emasculating way before you've even met them. I could understand if you were already in a relationship. For a relationship to work you need to be compatible and you both deserve that. Just be up front and not ashamed of what you want. Then you will never be in the wrong. Men pick women with nice breasts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 10:09 PM
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I met at least one women like those you described...however I was also close friends with quite a few couples (schoolmates who I grew up with and knew well) where the women were explicitly satisfied with sex or the size of the man. I never viewed such women as being different from others. These women didn't seek out those experiences it was just a natural progression from friends to lovers. (Or short term casual hookups, and I am talking about a smaller number of guys) To me size queen means a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:30 PM
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That means 85% are satisfied with an average size. That is what the study says. Why would you selectively fixate on the minority rather than the vast majority? My general answer is that there's always going to be people who are insecure about their looks and body parts. Sex matters more to men psychologically, imo. It is a matter of development. If men on average prefer large boobs, does that mean they won’t date a woman with average or small breasts? I wouldn't compare it to breast size...penis…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 03:51 PM
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The largest study of 50,000 participants found that 14% of women were unsatisfied with partners who had an average size, it's a minority but you can't ignore that. It also only studies women already dating, and ignores women who are looking for a compatible partner in the dating and hookup scenes, and how selective they can be. If there are some women who only feel sexually compatible with concealed body types, they improve their chances of finding one by being vocal or promiscuous. Women absolu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:14 PM
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Guys feminized themselves visually for a long time already. Rockstars were often skinny guys who grew their hair long, wore makeup and had armies of screaming fans. All these performers are risk takers, confident, competent, and socially respected. These are traits that women tend to find attractive in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:06 PM
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You sure you don't mean socially identical rather than equal?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:39 PM
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Straights and gays are afraid of bi partners leaving for the other sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 06:30 PM
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Yeah I think women in casual sex or hookups often care. But the largest study found that most married women with partners who are smaller were satisfied. Most of the time they didn't even realize the guy was below average. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21267644/ Don't take this as dismissive or something
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:29 AM
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Since you mentioned bad boys sleep around, do you think that promiscuous women are "bad" also, and what do you think about slut shaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:28 PM
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Most relationships start between friends so probably most sexual experiences too. Who knows if that turns into a lasting romance, but I don't see why it should necessarily be meaningless or described as penetration of orifices.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:19 AM
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I don't live in a country with a weight problem. In one study 71-75% of men (at college) agreed to have sex with a stranger, while virtually no women agreed (0% acceptance). According to the research, many men who declined appeared apologetic, suggesting they might have accepted if they weren't already in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:38 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3f8sjzETQ5o
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:36 AM
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I usually find that women are incapable of communicating their sexual needs because taking the lead in bed makes them feel unfeminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:35 PM
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I've known lots of fat women who had nothing really going for them but had lots of relationships. If they were really unattractive they had less partners but not none. Their partners probably won't have the highest status, but relationships have a proven benefit to your mental and physical health, your social life. When it comes to guys they have to bring something else to the table especially if they are out of shape. That's why there will never be a credible body positivity movement for men be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 12:31 PM
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Male privilege is being feared and respected. But men have to earn respect and are pressured to perform. Men are more exposed to intramale violence, and developmental problems. There are more male autists, addicts, homeless, and suicides. Men are more disposable reproductively. They are drafted in war. They have less options for partners. More men are alone. Female privilege is being desired and trusted. Women are socialized to have stronger social connections, to have more support and empathy. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:23 AM
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Damn tugging on heart strings As the wealthy Greek tycoon Aristotle Onassis observed, “If women didn’t exist, all the money in the world would have no meaning.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:03 AM
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The original point made was that women need men much more then men need women. And women don't tend to join the army.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:54 AM
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What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:50 AM
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I find something similar in a large number of women, when they think they have some profound personal insight they seem to lose awareness that it's one perspective, an anecdote and sample size of one, with only a theoretical application.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:11 AM
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It's a delusion. Same reason for the tiny numbers in construction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 01:02 AM
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You can sit there and deny Same to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:48 AM
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The numbers of women in military and most non feminine jobs are very small
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:25 AM
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Because most men arent psychopaths who struggle with women. From what I can gather, domestic partners commit the most violence against women. Men that women know such as friends, coworkers, classmates and neighbours commit the most sexual assaults. crime usually happens in more lower income areas. In what universe is that status and power? The male universe where men seek status and power in social groups, even prison. Your link just destroyed itself. Its not trustworthy. I think the point is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:23 PM
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From the article: Why isn’t There More Incel Violence? Contrary to common beliefs, empirical evidence suggests that incels are not particularly prone to violence. Incels’ propensity for violence appears relatively low compared to that of the general population. Even in the high-profile cases of incel violence, however, there has been a conspicuous absence of sexual violence. This is in line with the lack of support in the literature for the mate deprivation hypothesis of rape. Most men who commi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:05 AM
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I mean, you're making assumptions about other people's sexuality and its a debate sub. Why would it bother me if some stranger believes all woman are gay? Yet the men who do that were called misogynists sexist dumb (and I think the topic is banned from this sub).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:37 PM
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The appreciation of size of body parts applies to both genders. Maybe you should start a sub, there's one dedicated to calling women lesbians too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:33 PM
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Ezekiel 23:19 "Yet she became more and more promiscuous as she recalled the days of her youth, when she was a prostitute in Egypt. There she lusted after her lovers, whose genitals were like those of donkeys and whose emission was like that of horses"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:39 PM
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It's part of the whole feminist doctrine that blames men or society (the evolutionary argument being ignored) for conditioning men to be superficial, so that women value themselves for their aesthetic beauty, while their own preferences represent the default model of a citizen just seeking their equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:21 PM
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Any special reasoning or proof for this or just your personal opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:19 AM
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I would say the loner male was ostracized and bullied by the group because he lacked the dominant masculine qualities that some women find attractive. Most women want an accomplished, kind, generous dude, granted- but there are also women who want men to make them feel "safe", probably from harassment from other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:42 AM
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I think men might shame women that way when they are angry. Respect is another matter, something between guys. You may not find it impressive, but respect comes when you do something that most people are unable to do. Since men are able to have sex less easily, it's respected. It’s also relatively easy for me to buy a cheeseburger and enjoy it. ... It’s easy for me to have a dog and I enjoy that. It's easy for everyone to do those things. It’s easy for me to have friends and enjoy that. Populari…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:43 PM
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The thing is the desire for casual sex is very common amongst men so you are getting something that's already available. For men casual sex is harder to come across since most women - unlike you - pursue that type of sex less than men and largely (exercise their right to) withhold it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:21 PM
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elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:39 AM
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Look at these gender disparities in the types of work men and women do. https://www.zippia.com/advice/male-dominated-careers-female/ One of the differences between men and women that appears to be cross cultural and larger in gender equal countries is that women are more interested in people and men interested in things. And women clearly pursue work that is based on helping people...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:19 AM
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Idk about nowadays but a couple of decades ago hooking up was much more normalized with women wearing attractive or revealing clothing going to clubs or nights out in various places, and they would be interested primarily in attractive men. This was prior to social media when there was a prevalent drinking culture, but it seems like newer generations are not drinking as much. These young women would have friend groups, so they would go back to house parties. They didn't need to be in public. Pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:38 PM
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Idk where you got the idea that you shouldn’t have to struggle and look for things that may or may not work, feels like it's some petty feeling of unfairness. A man can orgasm if he is having sex with a toaster, so a man orgasming does not mean you are good in bed or that you shouldn't try to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:03 PM
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What makes you think it worked though? The whole point is that marriage used to be much more necessary, it was a matter of survival. I hear feminists talking about how women were bored housewives. Complaints about men were common back then. Maybe women just have more expectations now. Maybe women don't give men what they like either. Look at divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:47 PM
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