Relative_Raisin_5428 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I'm worried my kids are being coached Enroll them in therapy, it’s been a game changer for my daughter. She has expressed her concerns with mom’s creepy bf and how she doesn’t like him and he makes her feel uncomfortable.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/04/25 05:42 PM
6	How to Behave As someone who played nice it did nothing but string along the hurt and betrayal. Everything from here on out should be looked at like a business deal. She’s playing nice because she wants the work to be done or funded by you. She made these choices and decisions she needs to own them. Start your healing process focus on your kid find a hobby and keep yourself as busy as possible when you don’t have your kid.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/25 05:33 PM
9	After Divorce Best advice I can give you is give yourself at least a solid year of you and the kids. Grind your ass off gym side hustles and hobbies to take your mind off her. You probably won’t feel any real connection for a long time. I’m going on 5 years and haven’t realky connected with anyone on that level yet. Just focus on the kids and you and everything else will fall into place.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/03/25 11:36 PM
6	Anybody else try to protect their ex-wife’s reputation by not telling your side of the story? I feel like I can’t just throw her under the bus. I did the same thing, hardly bad mouthed her or talked bad about her to friends family or anyone. Wanted to be the bigger person and let karma do its thing. Nothing wrong with taking the high road. Let her build her own picture and run her mouth. Just keep doing you and pushing on	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/24 07:58 PM
4	Ex wife won’t help with 17 yr old car or insurance. What do I do? Easy car stays at your place sucks to suck. Ex wants to be shitty be shitty back she can help paying her half	/r/Divorce_Men	18/09/24 12:16 AM
3	How many of you who have daughters have trouble finding a new partner (gf and wife) ? This right here, make it extremely clear from the start. Kids come before anything and anyone. If you don’t like it there is the door	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/24 01:48 PM
2	How helpful should I be around the house? Who said she’s getting the house? If you sell want the house in good shape to get top dollar	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/24 08:25 PM
3	Do I need to vent before I f*** up or do I need the argument? This right here, the courts will look at everything and she will try to turn everything against you as being petty or some other bs. Less communication the better, an the sooner you realize you can’t change what happens at her place on her time the better. Just do your best to be the best dad you can to your kid. An try to get as much time/custody as possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/05/24 03:50 PM
3	Parenting plan 6 months before new partner meets kids 1 year for overnights	/r/Divorce_Men	27/04/24 09:06 PM
5	How long have you guys stayed single? Going on 2 years had some fun but nothing serious	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/24 04:43 PM