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Shriek, Scream, Agony, Bloodlust, Quicksand, Titania, Nekra, Selena and many more. Men tend to prefer male villains though.
/r/MGTOW29/12/18 11:08 PM
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Yes, it's like you're having sex with someone who is basically just masturbating. I'm not fond of it, but if it's a short term thing it wouldn't matter that much. It would guarantee that it's a short term thing for me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 02:08 PM
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I was hoping to find a voice like this. I thought there must be. I'm a woman and I'll be right beside you to stand against inequal treatment of men in courts, false rape allegations (many women will, they harm us too), men being as good as they can be in their own right, not how they relate to others etc. I think these are basic human affairs, not a men vs women thing. I don't subscribe to the whole gender wars attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 08:34 PM
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I like how you got worked up over a hypothetical scenario of your own imagining, or did this happen specifically to you and are you confusing the behaviours of distinctly different people?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 07:11 PM
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You'll grow out of it, believe anything anyone ever tells you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 07:08 PM
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Some guys like overweight women, some women gain weight throughout their life, some men will choose sex over attraction, some women lie over how many suitors they've had etc etc etc etc It's a fun observation but I don't see any conclusions coming from it other than "Men are horndogs" and that's a bit simple and in many cases untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 07:06 PM
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And I felt like answering a serious question. You got me good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 06:59 PM
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I think TRP guys are from another planet, they talk like sex is all that matters the way a hungry dog thinks a bone is all that matters. In the real world women are just people and men are just people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 06:55 PM
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then why the question about rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 06:45 PM
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I know women aren't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 06:44 PM
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Try having sex with a man who loves your body more than he does you. It's not just about whether you ogle someone or not, it's also about whether you can form a connection with someone in bed or whether he just forms a connection with your body; masturbates with you as a prop. All in all I don't get the whole Sex War mindset. Some men suck, some women suck. Wage war on people who suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 06:09 PM
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My argument wasn't that another specific factor is at play in Japan, though doubtless there is, I'm not a Japanese sociologist, contact one of those if this is more about women's happiness in Japan than it is about rape for you. My argument was that there is more to a woman's happiness than whether she is raped or not. Is this not selfevident?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 06:04 PM
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I'm not in an obesity plague country so I'll leave that where it is. But really it all comes down to freedom. When I was single I didn't feel entitled to a good man, I did feel entitled to look for a good man. Incels aren't entitled to sex, they are entitled to looking for sex. They just haven't found it yet. I'm sure the difference between having the freedom to look for a partner of your liking and demanding relations with someone who doesn't like you is obvious enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 05:45 PM
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Okay, here's a handful; Health of self and family, finances, small luxuries (music, treats, clothes), sexlife, intimacy, relational status, political circumstances, religious circumstances, neurological and\or hormonal balances, empathy, satisfaction, competitiveness, hygiene, living environment, safety of environment, child wish presence and fulfillment, spare time, job satisfaction, selfesteem, sense of adventure, promise of future. The list goes on but if you go by incidental negative factors…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 05:41 PM
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Personally, what I really like in a man is when he is his own person and still a good person. My fiancé doesn't really care what other people think one way or the other, he doesn't need to prove anything. This hasn't made him a slob, asocial or a bigot. He takes care of himself, thinks about issues, considers other people's feelings, is charming and polite to strangers, takes advice and different opinions seriously but does so for himself. Because he wants to. That is what I consider attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 05:02 PM
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Because rape is not the only deciding factor in whether or not a woman is happy. What else is there to say about it? Did this even need saying to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:52 PM
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I think a guitar pedal I bought for my fiancé was the most expensive thing, I'm not sure. He bought me a ring and I have no idea what it cost (and don't want to know) but I think that was probably the most expensive thing he bought me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:48 PM
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From the same stats that tell us men like mom\stepmom incest porn. Does that mean men enjoy incest? I do not like rape. What I like is for my fiancé to get passionate, grab my hair, a little rough. It's pure and real. A far cry from fantasizing about some stranger having unconsensual sex with me. I think a lot of the people quoting stats and whatnot conflate this with rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:46 PM
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The whole misandry schtick is just nonsense. Some issues that are mentioned are basic human issues, like protection against violence and equality in divorce and custody cases, they aren't an attack on men engineered by a male-hating society. In the real world you'll find plenty of women who agree on matters like this. It's just a narrative constructed by frustrated types with enough time for mental gymnastics as a way to cope. I'd call it harmless but I think it does harm them if they stay in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:38 PM
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One of my best friends is a man who has been single all his life and is a virgin at 36. I don't think it's really because of one thing. He's not noteworthy unattractive, is built well, smart and generally respectful. He does have some social issues. He tends to treat social situations as a pulpit and preach, misses social cues, is competitive in many things. Probably to a smaller or larger degree due to his diagnosis of Asperger's. But I think the bigger issue is indirectly related to that. He d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:34 PM
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I'm used to looking if it's down or not and I don't think it's a big deal either way and not trying to storm the fields in the Great Internet War of the Sexes, but... if I sit down and the seat is up, I get wet. If my fiancé pees when the seat is down he may get the seat wet. Seat is easier to clean -> seat belongs down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:16 PM
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Isn't this just a matter of language lacking the finesse to express the subject in simpler terms? I do not enjoy rape. But when my fiancé grabs me, holds my hair, is a little rough, that's hot. It's not a rape fantasy, though. I'm not fantasizing about him forcing himself on me or some stranger coming in or roleplay or whatever. There's not really any kind of scenariobuilding involved, I just like feeling his passion in wanting me, impatiently and pure. I've also known guys who like women to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:11 PM
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Probably a chicken or egg thing with the low quality of RP men. I'd say the low quality was there first. Overall though, no. Normal mature men don't busy themselves with stuff like this so it's not made any impact on them by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:02 PM
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I could not care less. I don't know what else to say about it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 03:50 PM
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From what I've encountered most RPers or NiceGuys are embittered with their relationships or lack of relationships and can't fathom that a man and a woman could just be friends. It's sort of like what a hungry dog might think about a supermarket; why aren't you eating all that food in there? It's there, it's edible -> you eat it. It lacks the capacity to understand that you may not want to eat unhealthy things, be fulfilled or have different preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 02:57 PM
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I was being rhetorical
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 02:03 PM
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Just trying to bring in the idea of a much needed few steps back to look at what on earth this all is about
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 01:47 PM
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Prostitution has been legal in the Netherlands for centuries to protect women. It will always happen, the choice was to let it happen in a controlled and regulated way to avoid abuse of women. Of course this won't work 100% but it's trying to make the best of an issue that is rife with bad situations. This has nothing to do with gynocentrism, this has everything to do with being a decent human being, male or female. Step back from the whole Gender War thing once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 01:35 PM
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It's immoral if you go so far as to emotionally manipulate or abuse, other than that it's just a bit sad. You don't have to be immoral to be disliked, many many people feel disdain for what they pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 01:30 PM
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There's a deep and fundamental contradiction here. I feel sorry if they're unhappy but not that they can't find a beautiful woman. It's up to the woman to decide whom she wants to date and vice versa. Why should I have to date someone I don't find attractive just because they find me attractive? I want a Ford Mustang '65. Do you feel sorry for me that I have a Ford Ka?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 01:27 PM
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The sad part is that a lot of women will agree on many of the points mentioned but are turned off by the many bad apples. If MRA wants to be taken seriously they need to weed out the kind of bitter kids who just want to be contrary. Circumcision is involuntary mutilation no matter what other religious or cultural values you attach to it. FoM domestic violence is a horrid issue. False rape allegations hurt women as much as they do men, actual rape is a harrowing affair and women (or men for that …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 01:19 PM
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Some people are more attractive than others. Looks, personality, status are all factors. This is nothing new. Remember that the black pill is a black pill for you. For everybody else it's just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 01:10 PM
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Sometimes you feel like ordering fastfood, sometimes you get fresh veggies, look up recipes, take time to prepare, cook and sit down to eat. People will bother because they want to, when they want to. Besides, who cares? If she's looking for a handsome guy then that's okay. Maybe some disappointment incoming if she doesn't find one but that's the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 12:59 PM
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Don't be a dick. Don't be a jackass. If rule 1 and 2 are very hard to follow, you're probably a dick, a jackass or both. There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 12:51 PM
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Stupid maybe, not immoral. Since when does morality come in when talking bout who you'll date anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 12:43 PM
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I don't know if they manage to seduce any women with that sort of nonsense, but not me, in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 09:32 PM
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Love exists. People who say it doesn't haven't had the experience. They don't have to believe it, but others who have fallen in love know better. It exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 09:28 PM
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We had met before and spoken online for a while, then decided to go on a date. I was dreadfully anxious and woozy but when I saw him and he saw me it was all gone. I felt like I had missed him and finally got to see him again, like I knew him from a place I never even really was at. He felt the same way and now, a year and a half later, we're engaged. Now I know that when people talk about love at first sight and meeting the person of your dreams it's not just poetic speech, it's just the best w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 09:24 PM
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And a measure of happiness, I hope
/r/MGTOW29/05/17 02:00 PM
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If it helps you to think I'm fat, that's okay, I won't take that away from you :)
/r/MGTOW28/05/17 11:32 PM
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Well, I don't think I'm handicapped, but I won't be winning any mental gymnastics gold like you either XD
/r/MGTOW28/05/17 11:22 PM
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False rape allegations harm women as well as men. I despise women who do it for ruining a persons life most of all, but also for making it harder for other women who were actually raped to be taken seriously.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 05:21 PM
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I agree that circumcision of a baby or child, male or female, is involuntary mutilation and nothing less. But the premise of this meme is that it's women who want to circumcise boys and men who want to circumcise women in order to make a point about double standards. That's just not the way it is at all.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 05:00 PM
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Isn't their point that the attack might be aimed at this particular show primarily because supposedly more women and girls go there? Not everything is part of some global gender war propaganda machine. It's just as sad that men and boys died as well, but I think to say the journalists who wrote those pieces don't care about them is pulling things out of context to fit it into another.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 04:50 PM
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I think it's cool when people are disciplined and dedicated to do something they really want to do, like bodybuilding. I don't find it physically attractive though, if that's what the question's about but it is cool that they have a passion they work for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:09 PM
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"You're only cool if you don't care about being cool, dude"
/r/MGTOW27/04/17 10:24 PM
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There is a staggering lack of awareness in a lot of redpillers, incels etc As a woman you just can't win with that type unless you shut up and 'put out'. I have some nerdy hobbies as well and I've always been nice to guys in them since I'm just looking to have fun with my hobby. The socially awkward types I just don't get along with though because they're either snarky, put eachother down, try to be edgy or think everything is a come-on. There's also that question of tastes the OP mentioned; I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:44 PM
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None of these are very attractive, obviously. That's not to say they are turn offs though. It's a bit of a weird question, really. 4 I would say is the least problematic, I prefer a guy who just keeps his own council and doesn't feel the need to validate himself. I just don't consider how strong someones will is that big a deal but if it was all I had to go by then strongwilled men tend to be more attractive. Then again, that also depends on what they want, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:07 PM
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I would and have. My fiancé is taller than me but I've dated men who were shorter too. If anything it seemed more of a problem for them than it was for me. One seemed uncomfortable with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:00 PM
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