Reldrmatters Archive

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1	Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well? The vast majority of us are average: looks, status, finances, etc. The issue is getting with someone who you aren't happy with just because you couldn't get someone you'd be happy with or have yet to meet that someone. Average is good and a lot of love can grow from that, that's what most of us have access to. Just find an average you'll mutually be happy with whether you're a man or a woman. If I choose an average man, I'd not leave just cause "a better option" came along. There would be so muc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 08:20 AM
2	When approaching women, its better to give them your number than to ask for theirs. I imagined it and I've no issue with it, he's just as free to not make it and not feel attracted to or by it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 07:14 AM
0	When approaching women, its better to give them your number than to ask for theirs. Which part of it's not attractive to me to make the first move and I'm not attracted by it to be put in that position, don't you understand? It has little to nothing to do with fear and none to do with it boosting my ego. A man making the first move and taking the initiative is attractive to me whereas the latter tends to kill the attraction for me. It is seems like you're gonna do anything under the sun including twisting your neck and your back to fit things into your toxic viewpoint on the ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 07:01 AM
-1	When approaching women, its better to give them your number than to ask for theirs. You're trying to twist what I said to fit your toxic narrative. If that's the hill you wanna die on, have at it. Unlike you, I'm not choosing to not making the first move towards men out of a place of "I don't want to compliment and inflate the ego of random men who might not like me back." I'm just not attracted to doing that, because I'm generally attracted to a man who takes the initiative by making the first move. In fact I've complimented men while not giving a f about whether they like me …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 06:34 AM
1	When approaching women, its better to give them your number than to ask for theirs. Sure and as a woman who is turned off by it I'd see you offering yours as a bullet dodged. So win win. You're painting approaching and complimenting women as a bad thing which is where I see it as toxic. It has nothing to do with men always doing it for me. If you don't like doing the dishes, though you do them anyway cause there's nobody to do them for you, you're still gonna not like doing them. So even if no man did it I'd either not give a damn and live on my own cause I'm fine with that. Or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 06:19 AM
1	When approaching women, its better to give them your number than to ask for theirs. Good question!	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 06:06 AM
2	When approaching women, its better to give them your number than to ask for theirs. Do you mean if you treat her like you don't respect her?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 06:05 AM
2	When approaching women, its better to give them your number than to ask for theirs. As a woman I see through that and if a guy offers his number even if I first fancied him it tends to kill the attraction for me. It depends on some factors and if it's perhaps more safer or advantagous for me then. Or just more appropriate for the context or interaction. However generally it's just a turn off for me. So I might either offer my number or just not bother with any of it. I might even not take his number if he just basically pulls a "here's my number call me" on me. I think you've a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 05:53 AM