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| 1 | Self improvement leads to resentmentI don’t think self-improvement itself leads to resentment. It’s the expectation of a guaranteed outcome, especially in dating that can. If you’re improving only with the hope of getting something in return, that’s where disappointment and frustration creep in. That said, I get that we usually improve with a goal in mind (like lifting weights to get stronger). But the key difference is that in the gym, effort almost always leads to results. In dating, attraction isn’t always a direct result of se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/25 05:06 AM |
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