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Q4W: Which would you prefer: 1) fuck a man you weren't 100% up for fucking otherwise, or 2) that man suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:30 AM
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Q4W: Which would you prefer: 1) fuck a man you weren't 100% up for fucking otherwise, or 2) that man suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 01:43 AM
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By your logic, its impossible to con someone unless they are mentally challenged. For many types of cons, and assuming a base knowledge of the various cons, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:38 PM
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How is men's bodily autonomy being preserved? It isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:45 PM
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How can we justify continuing to deny the body autonomy of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:34 PM
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You'll have to pay me first if you want me to do your thinking for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:34 PM
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Not at all, incentives also apply
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:33 PM
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How do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:33 PM
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But they don't want those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:13 PM
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there's no really any reason for women to try to force themselves to find more men attractive. The reason is that they have a lot more very attractive guys to choose from. There are enough attractive men in the first place and some women just don't want to date whatsoever. If there were then we wouldn't see so many women being single long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:12 PM
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There's nothing artificial about women lowering their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:52 PM
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Women would still have unrealistically high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:42 PM
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People do things because they have an incentive to. That's what incentive means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:39 PM
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THAT YOU KNOW. Huge qualifier there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:38 PM
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Do your own research. I don't owe you anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:21 PM
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As it stands men don't have body autonomy. Any way you cut it, someone's going without some amount of body autonomy. Women may not like it, but the world isn't fair. Women just need to learn to accept that and try to make the best of their circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:18 PM
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The woman would now see the man as attractive. That's what lowering your standards means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:17 PM
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Once the woman lowers her standards she would be attracted to the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:14 PM
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If women had flexible sexualities they’d be dating the guys. They don't because they believe they'll be able to find someone better. Instead they’re finding people they’re attracted to or being single. The being single ones would be better off if they lowered their standards. Once women lower their standards they will be attracted to that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:10 PM
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Women's incentive to change is that they have more attractive men to choose from. Regardless, the world isn't fair, and women need to learn to accept that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:03 PM
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I never said everybody, and women have flexible sexualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:02 PM
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Many ways, just look to psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 03:02 PM
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Why? Because now she "magically" has all these new men to choose from. Lowering her standards is a kind of improvement. Women have plenty of dating problems, they just don't realize it yet. Women lowering their standards is men improving themselves too. Men are rated higher so they have improved.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:54 PM
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Just women, because they have flexible sexualities. Women don't change who they're attracted to because they believe they can hold out for someone better when they actually can't. It's about female entitlement. Plenty of people don't lose attraction to their long term partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:48 PM
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"Desperate" is a red herring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:36 PM
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I'm saying that these women can change themselves so that they are attracted to the men they used to not be attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:34 PM
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The best thing we can probably do to fix our current dating infrastructure is for women to lower their standards, which literally means women being attracted to more men. Who wouldn't want that? We all know that female sexuality is more flexible than male sexuality. This wouldn't be forcing women to be with men they don't find attractive. This would be women finding a man attractive who she didn't find attractive before. Women just don't want to put in the work to improve themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:17 PM
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The lesser of two evils is sacrificing some of women's bodily autonomy for men's bodily autonomy. We need to redefine what bodily autonomy means. It doesn't matter that women don't think it is fair. The world isn't fair. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 02:14 PM
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A few of women here say that men should "vet," not be so easy, etc. But that's a stupid argument. A man rejecting the zero women interested in him will not get him the bare minimum type woman he wants. Not the perfect woman, the woman who is one millimeter away from not at all attractive in any way. What they're really trying to do when they make that argument is to get men to flip flop so that they can then say that men have unrealistically high standards. low or no standards? "you should vet w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:55 PM
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Women will always get raped and it is completely fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 08:13 PM
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Ah, I see, you don't know what you're talking about. Take a few college level economics courses and get back to me, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:26 PM
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Another bullet dodged thanks to a woman's inate ability to read people, assess their character: https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/17xkvmr/my_partner_ended_our_dogs_life_yesterday/ So I’m only posting this to literally get this feeling off of my chest. My partner has anger problems and has hurt animals in the past before. But he’s never tried or threatened to hurt me or people in any way possible. I don’t fear for my life when I’m with him. But yesterday I came home to the dog taki…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:29 AM
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Nooooo! Women are emotionally intuitive! They can read people in ways men can't!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:25 AM
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improve your personality and start taking showers: https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/17v6m45/im_leaving_my_bf_a_sexist_pig/ I now regret moving in with him and getting serious. It isn't like she immediately un-matched him on Bumble after 10 minutes of texting each other. But, yeah, the reason I get zero prospects anywhere is totally because of my shitty personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:16 AM
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Up through intermediate micro and macro economics, undergraduate college level courses. Here's a specific example: the law of diminishing marginal utility, and the utility surface in a two good economy. You can categorize everything as either "good X" and the other as "everything else that isn't good X." As you consume more of one good while holding the other constant the extra utility you get from each one goes down. At the extremes, you end up being no better off from getting more of that one.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:12 PM
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No, I don't think of it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:50 PM
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middle school (but don't do it)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:50 PM
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I feel like so many people here don't understand basic economics. All relationships are at least somewhat transactional, even if you're one of those "I don't see it as transactional" people. The biggest mistake I see often is not taking into consideration both the supply and demand side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 09:48 PM
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The statistics on technically having sex literally just once a year does not own incels the way you think it does. You're assuming they make stronger claims than they actually do. Most men have at least some sex? Fine, that's no problem, everything else is correct. Part of the problem with these studies is that the averaging out hides a lot of important details. Be realistic and lower your expectations or actually work on self-improvement and be the guy who gets what he wants. They have. They di…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:17 PM
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guys here be miserable that they don’t get Chad treatment by a Stacy. No, please stop making up bullshit. Where are all the guys who are getting plenty of sex from someone they love and will fuck them, but still miserable that they don’t get Chad treatment by a Stacy? Give me a break. And that’s another thing. If incels truly wanted ANYONE and would be happy about it, they wouldnt be incels. How do you suppose? I want detailed instructions. Are you volunteering to be with an incel? And when some…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:40 PM
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No, I think they're pretty much get it. It's over simplified in their stupid memes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:20 PM
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What you said: Do you also tell homeless people to get their wallets out too? Is that supposed to be a gotcha? I don’t know why you’re trying to call me a troll when you’re just a liar. I didn't try. I did. And nice job trivializing the problems the homeless have. Again, personal attack. I'm not rounding down homelessness, I'm showing how serious of a problem sexlessness is. I don’t know about your country, but in my country, giving the homeless a home doesn’t solve any of the problems they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:28 PM
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Don't be a troll, I was talking about pulling out his wallet to buy a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 01:00 PM
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Your logic and evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:59 PM
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I would not spend my down time here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:59 PM
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Pretty much forever, I wouldn’t divorce him. I seriously doubt that, so let's test your theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:59 PM
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Effectively, it already is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:58 PM
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Even if we assume you'll be browsing reddit, this would not be the subreddit I'd be on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:57 PM
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your employer might have an opinion about that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:56 PM
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Do you also tell homeless people to get their wallets out too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:55 PM
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u/PurplePillDebate-ModTeam, I haven't been doing that, but if those are the rules then you'd better ban Lilith ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:54 PM
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It's also patronizing. In their heads they think they know what's better for the prostitutes than the prostitutes. They also feel like it is "cheating." A lot of it is also their own hang-ups about sexuality and deviance, and then projected onto the prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:51 PM
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So you have trouble reading? Don't violate the rules here. You've been reported. Does your husband know how repulsive your behavior on this sub is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:29 AM
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Great! Do that, and let's see how it play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:23 AM
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I'm sure you'd come up with some excuse for how you can feel good with yourself when you abandon him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:23 AM
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If I'm in a relationship I have nothing better to do than shit post here, then that relationship is a bad one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:20 AM
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and in this case I’d insist on therapy. If it was confirmed, it’s infinite. That's not how that works. Maybe do some research. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:45 AM
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Incels have more realistic fake girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:44 AM
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For the next 30 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:43 AM
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Technically, depression is health-related, so which is it: infinity or 4 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:25 AM
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Women don't care about intellectual honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:23 AM
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but I do think some people have a good point when they say some sex workers (particularly lower level ones ie. street walkers, not escorts or can girls) wouldn’t do it if they had other options. No one would wash dishes if they had better options. No one would have any job if there were better options. There are worst jobs that being a prostitute. You'll have to do your own research on that point, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:22 AM
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It's because they hate prostitutes, but feel that it isn't socially acceptable to express it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:20 AM
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The people in relationships who comment on this sub are the some of the biggest losers on reddit. There's no way I'd comment, much less moderate, this sub if I there were any women available for me to try to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:17 AM
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You can give an answer to any/all possibilities you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:16 AM
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Comparison is not equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:14 AM
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Personal attack. You've been reported. Instead of attacking me, I suggest you engage with the content.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:08 AM
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A question is not an insinuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:03 AM
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Ma'am, just answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:02 AM
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I was honestly trying to have a civil conversation, you flat out insulted me. You've violated the sub's rules. No personal attacks. You have been reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:53 AM
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No. Do you speak the English language?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:48 AM
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similar is not equivalent to equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:44 AM
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Q4W, the married ones: How many years would your husband have to be unemployed before you would divorce him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:43 AM
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Firstly, marriage is an agreement to sex, Uh-oh, you're in for a rude awakening. secondly comparing rape and sexlessness is stupid. They're both bad. They are comparable, you just compared them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:42 AM
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Don't personal attack. You've been reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:39 AM
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Being single and being raped are 2 different things. I never said they were. You're making up random criticisms to make me look bad. You never denounced Hitler, so everything you say is wrong, right? That is just as stupid as what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:38 AM
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I never said they were equivalent. This isn't the Trauma Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:36 AM
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It's a valid comparison, but I'd say that at that point the "harm" from not dating millionaires is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:36 AM
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People used to think marital rape was no big deal too, but society has progressed since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:34 AM
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There's a difference between admitting that we all have to choose between options You're admitting you don't care about rape. You're totally cool with rape. You're all like "stop being desperate from rape, gosh, that's so counterproductive, just try to make the best of your situation." You're despicable. I just...don't want? Because I have a better option. Unless you're willing to live the lesser option you have no grounds to tell others to accept it. But, the solution is simple: let's take away…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:34 AM
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you can learn to be content on your own and still try to date. These 2 things are not exclusionary. I suppose a person could get used to being raped every day, while still trying to not be, too, but you really haven't proposed anything useful. Especially seeing as how you shame people for having desired, and seeing how you refuse to experience the same things. You abandon people to being raped and all you have to say is "fuck you, loser, lol'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:29 AM
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Everyone has to choose out of options available to them. You're a rape apologist and you are disgusting. Comparing single men to rape survivors is ridiculous though. Great! Then lets put your theory to the test: you can be single your whole life and tell us how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:24 AM
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personal attack, you've been reported
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:19 AM
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Are you seriously saying that nothing can be bad unless you're diagnosed with PTSD? Are you seriously saying that the same biases that ignore the problems of men don't also affect the mental health world?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:19 AM
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Extend that same courtesy to your partner Sounds like you're insecure about being a slut (said with love)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:16 AM
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You're just copying Sienfeld.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:13 AM
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If you aren't offering better ways to get sex you're just shaming people. Not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:12 AM
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Being raped is like chronic sexlessness. I am not making light of rape, rape is terrible. I'm saying that most of you all don't appreciate how terrible chronic sexlessness is. You saying "No it isn't!" .. you are proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:11 AM
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Your husband doesn't fix you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:08 AM
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When a woman is raped we don't all go "well, you just have to make the best of the options available to you," yet when it is men who are harmed we tell them to fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:07 AM
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A lot of men here and in other places say they're desperate/only one thing could "fix" them and things close to it. Don't read too much into word choice. This isn't the right medium to give perfectly qualified statements in. Anyway, what else would you expect when people are denied some of the most fundamental aspects of life fulfillment? You're confusing innate characteristics with characteristics due to the person's history. All those people in relationships tsk-tsking single people for wantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 03:05 AM
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Just, remember that the next time someone suggests match making or speed dating. It isn't really a thing. All you'll come up with is scams like this company.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 12:24 AM
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Traditionally minded women are sex negative?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:51 PM
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Once you've separated the money from the person there's no need to keep the person around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:50 PM
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Speed dating is a scam, and here's why: on this webpage: https://www.speedtexasdating.com/faq One of the FAQs is this: How do I get invited to complimentary events? By being as delightful and lovely as you can. We don’t judge by looks or your match results; Instead, we look at your interactions with our staff, hosts and fellow attendees. When daters stand out for being the best version of themselves and found to be just what others fancy in a mate - the world of cheeky is theirs! They can expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 11:36 PM
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The problems start when you do become desperate and you put all the stakes on it. There is no objective "desperate," that's just a value judgement by you. The same goes for "put all the stakes on it." You say someone is desperate but they say they simply want a more fulfilling life: who's right? You can't use subjective labels you place on others to be the determining factor. Your method of figuring out if it's a problem or not just can't work. It isn't really the question of "good enough", I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:54 PM
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If it works for them that's fine, but most people aren't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:19 PM
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So we do know that it's possible to have a fulfilling life while you're single. Okay, so single people are saying that they want a more fulfilling life than the one they're having as a single person. Then why get into a relationship at all? Relationships take work, you have to compromise with your partner. Why take on those downsides if you can skip all of that and still have a fulfilling life? It's because they get something out of it. We also know that being desperate generally doesn't help pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 10:16 PM
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What? No, you don't have to have already been in a relationship to know that you want one, or make judgements about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:51 PM
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Oh, and a few more: It's a lot easier to say you could totally be happy being single if you had to, but you're just lucky to have found a great partner. The person doesn't realistically face the possibility of being single for a long time. The single person was happy, for a while. But, you know, if you go long enough without doing the things you care a lot about, it'll wear on you. When they say they were happy being single, they were talking about a relatively short amount of time. Then they fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:48 PM
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"Learn to be happy being single" is really about trying to shut down single people from talking about how their life is worse due to not being able to have the kind of relationship they want Whenever a person who is in a happy relationship (more or less) gives the standard advice "learn to be happy being single" I find it so braindead. I don't really understand what they're thinking. Given that it's a relationship they want to stay in, if their relationship ended and they were single, their life…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:38 PM
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Or fail to understand that analogies are about highlighting certain aspects, and not saying "these two things are exactly the same in every way." I'll see "those two things aren't comparable!" Well, no, they are. They're the same kind of thing, but obviously, there are some differences, and we can compare them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:14 PM
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No amount of "social points" can make up for not being physically attractive. There might be edge cases, like getting married for purely economic/status reason, but those are not good relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:28 PM
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No one is really saying men ONLY want a LTR. You're confused because you've over simplified it. You've conflated a few thing, so let me break this down. I can only speak for myself, so if other men are saying different things than me ... ok, I guess you'd have to ask them, I don't have anything to do with it. So many men on here claim that average guys are innocent and just looking for a LTR and not interested in sleeping around If they could wave a magic wand, most men would get an LTR. In the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 06:55 PM
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Q4M: Who is more pathetic: the women who complain about how everyone is SHALLOW, or the women who brag about how everyone wants to be with them? Honestly, both types of people are so repulsive it's hard to decide which are worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:59 AM
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Who here know any single women and will introduce me to them? No? Then how do you expect anyone else to do that either? Oh, but your IRL friends know you better. No, they'll make the same excuses. Shucks, it always seem like if I just knew the friend/acquaintance a little closer then they totally would introduce me to their single female friends who are looking for a relationship .. except we do become closer friends over significant periods of time but they never introduce me to them ... and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:57 AM
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touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:52 AM
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you put others down to make yourself feel better. you are mentally ill. call 911 now, dummy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:03 AM
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i don’t know how him asking to come with me makes me manipulative but okay. denial. you need therapy. of course, we all know you're lying. sure everyone wants to be with you suuuure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:54 AM
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oh, you're a manipulative psychopath too. what a great personality, what a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:47 AM
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The violence done to men when it comes to dating in current times is underappreciated. It's a very serious problem, but most people are in denial about it. What is going on should be criminal. I've seen where people will respond to a comment like this and say something like "haha, no it isn't a crime." It's exactly like how marital rape used to be considered no big deal. If you are one of those "no, it isn't harming men in a significant way" then you are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:44 AM
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entitled selfish child is more fitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:34 AM
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you tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:34 AM
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Men typically don't care about my money, my career, my job, my education and all that. Wrong. The world is so full of entitled, selfish women that rejecting these woman-babies would end up with you having zero candidates. and them wanting to spend money on me. Greedy and entitled is not an attractive look on a woman. Since you seem to have it all figured out, shouldn't you have something better to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:34 AM
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You're the one saying your life is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:30 AM
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I don't advocate for suicide, but if you really believe your time is worthless then the objectively optimal thing to do is end your life as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:16 AM
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You're the one who believes spending money on people means you show little investment, and since you won't pay for others, .. there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:15 AM
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You sound like an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:14 AM
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Why would a guy want to date a woman who shows so little investment in him? It's an extremely unattractive thing for a woman to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:06 AM
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If you're already interested then it shouldn't matter if you pay for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:06 AM
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why would i pay if i was the one invited? Because entitlement such as that indicates personality flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:05 AM
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Then why do you care about it being the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:05 AM
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Because I already knew I liked onion rings and I also liked bacon cheeseburgers. Then you shouldn't have answered the question. It was not for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:04 AM
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So how do you know you can't get that with people you don't want because you haven't tried? Imagine the amazing things you might be able to experience if you just gave more people a chance!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 03:03 AM
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Why would a man want a woman who is so entitled and pathetic that she can't even buy him a cup of coffee?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:33 AM
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If you want to go on the date then why insist he pay for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:32 AM
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Your life is one day shorter so it is not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:32 AM
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you’re so weird. Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:31 AM
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Maybe you aren't. How do you know you aren't just being biased and closed minded?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:31 AM
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If you are so disinterested in him that you want him to pay on the first date, then why go at all? To scam men out of free shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:30 AM
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Ok, so why not also have sex with and date men you aren't "attracted" to? We already know you're not great at predicting which things you'll like, so why not give other "eww" things a try?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:29 AM
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The woman who constantly complains about how everyone else is shallow accuses others of trying to play the victim, classic projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:25 AM
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In that scenario, do you expect him to pay for the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:15 AM
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You like to make your life worse? Okay ... you do you, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:48 AM
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Right, so how do you know that you aren't rejecting men you could actually be very happy with if you just gave him a chance? We already know that you aren't perfect at knowing what you would enjoy, so how do you know there aren't more things you'd enjoy but have refused to try yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:05 AM
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Q4W: If you're one of the ones who expect the man to pay if he asks you out on a first date, let's say he asks you where you'd like to go, makes sure it's a place that you can afford, why go on the date in the first place? You aren't entitled to free shit. If you can't genuinely enjoy the company and contribute your fair share to the relationship, that is a huge red flag for most men in their 20s to 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:02 AM
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Q4W: have you ever thought you wouldn't like something, only to try it, and realize you like it a lot? What was it? What was it that lead to you ending up trying it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:51 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:48 AM
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You're a woman right? Here's how it is: you have your same filter, but now you don't get enough prospects to end up with even one person after applying filters. Then you make your criteria less strict, over and over, and no matter what you do, you always end up with zero at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:44 AM
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According to guys here, no they dont. Wrong. Guy here. Men have to filter too. Having too few prospects to filter on strict criteria is a completely different issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:42 AM
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Oh my mistake. Believing it is fundamental to their character is even less reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:42 PM
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If I go in blind I’m more likely to make mistakes. Not necessarily. Sometimes trying to force it ends up alienating them, self fulfilling prophecy, that kind of thing. I can only guess, but I think most women who ask a question like that are really trying to figure out how far they can get away with exploiting the men they're "dating."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:40 PM
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Don't make it personal. You're mostly wasting your time. When a person ignores content and opts for personal attacks, that's when I know they've admitted they were wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:37 PM
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Unhealthy amounts of agreeableness = door mat
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:35 PM
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You complain about men (or people in general) being "shallow" all the time, for example: https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/17w04bb/if_men_and_women_were_so_fundamentally_different/k9ff6ct/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:34 PM
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Stop objectifying men as objects. You're giving off a repulsive vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:47 AM
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Passing on desert after a big mean doesn't prove that world hunger is a hoax. The "I'm happy being single" women are doing the same kind of thing. I noticed you didn't bother to try to address content. Instead you asked an irrelevant question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:33 AM
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What harm comes from just taking things naturally?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:26 AM
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Your agreement was never a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:25 AM
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idk, all I see is one loser replying to my comments with nonsense. He seems mentally ill tbh. But, yeah, I know all sorts of retards who graduated from Harvard Law, so if you haven't done anything as or more prestigious then you're probably just a loser who needs to take more showers and work on your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:25 AM
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The "personality is most important" part was upthread, which she was saying she agreed with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:22 AM
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No, that's just women projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:00 AM
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Did you intend for that word salad to mean anything, or did you have a stroke?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:57 AM
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Why? If it's only curiosity then settle for ambiguity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:56 AM
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Retired hoe here. At this point I could never have sex with a man ever again and I would go to my grave happy No, it's an effective counterpoint to the "I'm happy being single" BS women constantly spout here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:52 AM
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Most guys will have a really hard time finding a girlfriend, but if they do it'll be someone who loves them. Men won't find a girlfriend so the "but if they do" qualifier doesn't make it better. Whatever dating problems women have, men have those same problems plus more problems. It's just as hard or harder for a man to find a girlfriend who loves him, but most people don't count that part because finding any girlfriend - no matter how vile - is practically impossible. Dating is so much harder f…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:50 AM
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Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:45 AM
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The women here love blaming everyone except for themselves. Yes, yes, it's those dastardly SHALLOW men who are the real problem, just keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:44 AM
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If they are getting to have sex because they thought "that can work" They aren't, they're just losers with self esteem issues so crippling that their only source of self worth is derived from insulting people they believe everyone hates. So, basically every woman on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:33 AM
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It isn't just them, it's also the most upvoted comments here too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:38 AM
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Noting is more pathetic than when a person puts zero effort into backing up their claims, and then walks away believe they "won" the debate, such as you've done here. You might benefit from psychotherapy, good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:14 AM
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And you wouldn't want to be with a person who wasn't physically attractive enough regardless of their personality, so, saying things like "personality is most important" is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:12 AM
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False dichotomy. There's a lot more that can be said beyond "it can work," but that often leads to inconvenient truths. But, hey, if you want to resign yourself to nihilism, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:11 AM
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the things that usually work are obvious If you want to make a claim about how usual something is - put a number on it - then that's on you to show. not everyone cares about this. Love/sex/relationships - however you want to define it - is up there as something most people find very important. "Eh, not a big deal" is disingenuous, but you've created an example of the flawed reasoning I'm trying to highlight: yes, technically, as long as there is at least one asexual person who has ever existed, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:06 AM
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Then how do you know the incels are doing these things? I can read. I asked Please explain why anyone should care about "can work" outside of the most imminent of emergencies? You failed to deliver.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:28 AM
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I'm going to talk about the people who write stuff like "if you try to find a partner using [STRATEGY X] it can work." I don't think those people realize how weak a "can work" claim is. Anything can work. It can be said of everything so it is true for nothing. You "can" win the lottery, but has that ever convinced you to spend your life savings on lottery tickets? Reasonable, intelligent adults understand how foolish that would be. No one cares about "can work." It is a useless metric. If someth…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:26 AM
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You're right in a way you don't intend: yes, reality disagrees with you. Most average looking men I know are in relationships. THAT. YOU. KNOW. You don't know all of them, and we aren't only talking about the ones you know. It's only when guys who are significantly below average who convince themselves of being average to create the comforting idea of not being alone when disagreements happen. Your argument is nothing more than the just world fallacy. Why bother writing a comment when you have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:12 AM
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You wouldn't want him if he wasn't attractive, no matter how sweet his was. Maybe you'd be open to being platonic friends, but you wouldn't consider him relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:09 AM
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Have you done those things? I was talking about incels, don't make it personal. It seems like you’ve really decided to go to bat for despair. Hope that works out for ya. Please explain why anyone should care about "can work" outside of the most imminent of emergencies?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:08 AM
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Which you do if you're not horribly disfigured. No, but go ahead, make your case. For many, many women, they set their minimum level such that the median looks-wise man doesn't make the cut. When looks don't matter we call that platonic friendship. Everyone knows this, which is why it isn't worth mentioning the vast majority of the time. it's only when arguments like yours, claiming that the a good personality can make up for women's unrealistic standards, is it worth mentioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:33 AM
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Unless he is deformed or has an abnormality, the vast majority of guys do fine with women. You are wrong, but go ahead, make your case if you feel that confident. if he’s an average looking guy, truly struggling with women based on his looks, it’s because he wants a Stacy. No, it's because women aren't willing to accept average.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:29 AM
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You develop social awareness and choose the ones that choose you. None of them will ever choose you if you don't meet the bare minimum in the looks department. No amount of social awareness can ever make up for it. That's why you're wrong when you say personality is more important than looks. Looks can always veto personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:42 AM
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I went out with my boyfriend because he was sweet and complimented me. ... and he met your minimum requirements for physical attractiveness. If you say "no," then you're either lying to us or to yourself. Who's the ugliest celebrity you'd be willing to get into a relationship with given that they're sweet and compliment you as much or more as your boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:37 AM
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In almost everything, quitting early doesn't get nearly as much credit as a legitimate option, or the best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:34 AM
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You know what we did ? We went to other women that liked us. Problem solved. If you didn't meet bare minimum on looks for that woman then no amount of personality could have ever made up for it. At most you would ever be is just platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:30 AM
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If the man has a good personality, courage, then why was he rejected? Your theory says that his sexy, sexy courage makes up for being short and ugly. being able to lead, shaking off rejection, trying again When it's the same person over and over that's called stalking. When it isn't then that's what being rejected for your looks looks like: show "courage," she's turned off by your looks, she rejects you, and she doesn't give you the time of day to show off your amazing personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:15 AM
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Regardless, my answer to your original question is yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:09 AM
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Pretty much every "incel" has been done those exact things for years, and it didn't get them anything. No. But if you're willing to commit to it, it can work. You can also win the lottery, and it'll be more likely if you spend more money on tickets, but we all mostly agree that "can work" doesn't mean much. You can say "it can work" about anything, so it's a pretty shit metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:07 AM
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this isn't a debate sub, it's about shouting down and shaming men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:00 AM
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What's your criteria for "physically strong"? How much weight for how many reps/set, which exercises, etc. I'd guess: I could tell you yes, but then you'd ask me how strong, and then I would tell you, and then you'd tell me that that much weight means he isn't a physically strong guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:58 PM
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When it comes to dating/romance, no amount of "personality" can ever make up for not meeting minimum looks requirements. Platonic friends? Sure, but we aren't talking about that here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:51 PM
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most/all mods are women. maybe some blue pilled men, but, eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:46 PM
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I'm talking about people who self select into groups like that. blue pillers, anti-incel types
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:12 PM
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When a man ghosts a woman he's pump and dump scum, manipulative. When a woman ghosts a man she has no choice, it's simply a matter of survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:06 PM
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You have to believe in your potential and act like your have already succeded. If I say I don't believe then people say I need more confidence. When I say I do believe then people say I expect the impossible. There's no way to win with you people. All you do is flip flop from one explanation to another, whichever answer I give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:19 PM
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Unless you're prepared to provide actionable, step by step instructions - instructions that are guaranteed to work in a pre-specified way by a pre-specified deadline - unless you're willing to do that your opinion doesn't amount to anything worthy of caring about. We all know you aren't prepared to back up your comments. You sound like you're advocating for rape. if we apply your opinion to rape victims it is so, so offensive You haven't ruled out rape from your definition of "taking control of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:15 PM
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I forget: which year was it when Chris Farley was crowned sexiest man alive? Was that 1993?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:56 PM
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Yes, it got banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:52 PM
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the red pill seems to be a handbook to attract and maintain borderline women. Only if you redefine the meaning of "borderline" to the point where the vast majority of women fit that label.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:35 PM
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Unhealthy amounts of agreeableness, being at the end of that spectrum, is not. The r/inceltears block heads are still going to insist "it's your personality, sweetie."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:29 PM
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The 2 guys who were harassing multiple women were grinding up on and groping them without consent. Depending on the context, in the right kind of dance club, there's an assumption of practically "open invitation," for some kind of touch even if not explicitly stated. Most of the time "without consent" is very important, don't get me wrong. It's just that "without consent," while technically true, doesn't mean some huge offense. They would tell them to fuck off or something to that effect and wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 05:25 PM
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I'm not saying it's a super common occurrence, just maybe do something if you do see it. I agree, but since we're talking about large-ish, society wide change, seeing it and maybe doing something is so exceedingly rare that it (kind of) isn't worth mentioning. If someone helped every time it happened, regardless of how rare it is, then of course a difference will be made. I agree! However, not all differences are equal. Let's run with your examples. I want to show you how it could be more compli…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:04 PM
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It doesn't matter that you've done it. It is not very common at all. The fantasy part is that it happens often enough to make a significant difference beyond a one off. I suppose each and every woman you "saved" confirmed how very, very bad she was being harassed by a guy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:57 PM
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Unnecessary, since a paternity test is implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:38 AM
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I've unfortunately seen plenty of those scenarios during my time clubbing. I'm sure you think you know what you saw. Unless you've been weirdly studying two strangers from across the room from a significant amount of time, you can only, at most, make an educated guess. Without overhearing what was actually said you really don't know what is going on between two people. How? What's he going to do? Track down and find the person who anonymously reported him to staff after he's been kicked out? Cra…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:37 AM
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Creepy guys being creepy might happen all the time, sure. What is rare is the times when you can't chalk up what you're seeing as normal, run of the mill awkwardness. The last thing you want to do is but into someone else's good time to tell them to stop being an asshole when in fact there was never a problem to begin with. Also, when I go out I'm there to enjoy myself, not police the social etiquette of every other person in the building. Sorry, no, I'm not going to be laser focused on every ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:30 AM
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Unfortunately, it is all too easy for “hey that’s not cool man” to trigger an abusive man's fist in front of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:56 PM
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There's ways you can help without putting yourself in harm's way. See a creepy dude who won't stop harassing a woman at the bar, but you're pretty sure it could lead to a physical altercation? Tell the bouncers. Those situations, when they are very certainly that way rather than any other possibility, are very rare. You simply can't tell what is really going on as someone who hasn't been participating in the interaction. That falls under the "excessive risk of being physically attacked" exceptio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 10:53 PM
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