| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Yo please help me out. How should I cope with lonelinessThank you I’m screenshotting some of these | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Yo please help me out. How should I cope with lonelinessIdk man sometimes it feels like it strikes without warning | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 07:22 PM |
| 3 | I just read Elliot Rodger's manifesto. It feels a bit surreal that I used feel that way once.Not only that he was just generally a fucking entitled worm and a psychopath. | /r/seduction | 30/10/22 08:47 AM |
| 2 | what is the root cause or fear of oneitis or that you will never find someone like them again?It’s because that person is probably pretty great and it shows that you view women as individual people with their own unique good qualities to offer | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Worried that I might not be attractive. Like at all.Agreed. Common interests are paramount otherwise you will run out of shit to talk about and that’s an attraction killer like men wouldn’t believe | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 11:37 AM |
| 2 | On the rise of lonely single menNo it’s not old at all. And even if it was. So? It is what it is. It happens at different times for different people. You know what’s really not helpful? Stressing about time | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 07:08 PM |
| 27 | On the rise of lonely single menLoneliness is a feeling and feeling is a thing that passes. Focus on your goals and mission as a man. Life is NOT all about dating and relationships. And even when this feeling returns and hurts the most, remind yourself that 25 is not old. You at the very least, have plenty of time | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 09:59 AM |
| 15 | How do I get a idgaf attitude?Memento Mori | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 06:26 AM |
| 0 | if you're slightly autistic than its oversOkay so, I’m sorry about your autism and I relate to your frustration however it’s worth mentioning If you had to risk going through the hellish agony of an unwanted pregnancy and make the critical decision between a guilt ridden abortion or a child you never even wanted, all because you got seduced by some random pompous jackass who never shows his face again, you’d be hella picky too. Just some food for thought | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 06:21 AM |
| 24 | Don’t fool yourself— being in shape and having a masculine physical presence is extremely important to consistently attract the most beautiful womenA man most likely won’t get anywhere with women until he does. It’s high time we accepted it. Working on yourself is crucial. We live in a results-based society and if you don’t have anything going for you women simply aren’t going to pay much attention to you. I should know. She’s not talking to me anymore 😭 | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | When is it appropriate to ask a woman out?May I ask how you convince yourself to cold approach when rejection is such a high likelihood? | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | When is it appropriate to ask a woman out?So you think I can do this?? I can do this, right? As long as I’m not desperate or a creep and am polite and respectful but actually TRY. I’ll have a chance, at least I’ll feel better about trying, right? Imma give the girl I like my number and let her know I’m interested. Fuck it | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | What are some mantras, mottos or quotes you tell yourself?“Become the person you would most like to be” | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I am able to sleep with a lot of women but only because they approach me. I have no game whatsoever. What should I do?No easy answer. Just need to push past the anxiety | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 10:19 PM |
| 2 | How do I get over the fact that I’m not a tall white dude?By realizing that your ethnicity and height doesn’t matter if you’re doing other things right/bringing other shit to the table. I know a guy that gets laid almost regularly and he’s the brownest man I know. My brother is 5 ft 8” and he’s on his third year in a relationship with a dime. It’s just like you can’t fret about shit you can’t change if you’re short and not white guess what THAT’S WHO YOU ARE like just work on improving other stuff ffs | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 10:16 PM |
| 2 | When is it appropriate to ask a woman out?thank you for saying this. Someone needed to say that too me. I’m way too rigid, ruthlessly traditional and formal and it’s negatively impacting any semblance of a dating life | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 06:47 AM |
| 1 | When is it appropriate to ask a woman out?I honestly don’t even remember. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 10:25 PM |
| 1 | When is it appropriate to ask a woman out?Yeah see I knew it. If they don’t gravitate towards your presence. Disengage. You’ll find no luck | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 01:21 PM |
| 0 | Why are redditors so against and negative about approaching women?Man at the end of the day who cares. If you want to approach respectfully then do it. There’s no law that says you can’t make polite conversation with a stranger | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Overcome approaching anxiety challengeNo matter what you do or say, it’s vital to give a false time constraint | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 12:01 AM |
| 51 | Tips for a guy who has no hope of getting a girlfriendAsking “how will I get a girlfriend” is putting the cart before the horse. Here’s the right question: if I could offer everything I could to a partner who would I be? You answer that question and you will not have any problems answering the previous | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | My social skills suck and I don’t go outI still think what you say does matter to a certain extent though. …it’s tearing me up inside, man. Seeing her almost every day. Not having an opportunity to talk to her/ask her out because we’re in different departments. If I ever get a moment with her that feels appropriate, I will ask her out. But not knowing when or if that day will come hurts | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | My social skills suck and I don’t go outBe a bit of a strange and disingenuous thing to suggest but I see your point | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | My social skills suck and I don’t go outNo touching on her end however she always greets me and at one point said I “have fantastic hair” | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 08:53 AM |
| 1 | My social skills suck and I don’t go outI’m sorry I think my post wasn’t very clear. I’m okay at small talk and the conversations skills are decent and sometimes I’m quite witty. However I am VERY VERY SHY (aged 29) | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | My social skills suck and I don’t go outAgreed I love the idea of a book club. I need to try some kind of social activity. They exist for a reason. | /r/seduction | 13/10/22 08:38 AM |
| 2 | “Game only works if you’re attractive” - a message to all the incels infiltrating this subI greatly appreciate you making this post and I agree with it wholeheartedly. Thank you | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 09:15 AM |
| 0 | So why EXACTLY are guys afraid to talk to women and why are women afraid to talk to guys?Not true. Even if you are attractive the fact is you’re a complete stranger that she does not know nor has any reason to trust | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 09:07 AM |
| 1 | HUGE TIP: If you lack the confidence to cold approach, just smile and wave. 7/10 times they will start a convoJust smile and wave boys…. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 09:05 AM |
| 1 | "Work on yourself bro" is actually bad advice for young dudesI honestely don’t know what the true answer is to this question. Because both make sense. Work on yourself makes sense because you want to actually have something of value to offer. But approach them now makes sense too because if you can’t charm/socialize with them and/or escalate in the right moments you won’t have luck either | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | So like, self improvement should help a lot, right?What if my self esteem is gradually getting higher? What if my social skills were already decent albeit not the best but not sub-par? There’s no way it’s just how you feel about yourself. You have to work on yourself. You have to be able to offer people what they want and need | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 11:43 AM |
| 0 | Should I get back into anime to game girls at cons?How about getting back into anime because it’s awesome and not because you want to get girls? That’s pure desperation at its finest | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 11:14 AM |
| 1 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.Which post is it | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 01:03 AM |
| 5 | I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced.Bruh I love this comment thread I’m thinking the same thing!!!! Christ these entitled incels are so negative like omg man we’re over here trying to muster up some courage to cold approach and make it lighthearted and fun and these guys will literally attack you for even trying This is supposed to be FUN. Hopeful and even if you don’t succeed, THRILLING that you’re even trying. Fuck these guys and their defeatist mindests like why do you insist on being so miserable!? | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Going to make some approaches. Any tips?This is invaluable thank you. My one question is what do you have against hands in pockets? It feels awkward just having hands by your sides with nothing for them to do? | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | So like, self improvement should help a lot, right?…I still haven’t seen terminator | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 01:39 PM |
| 6 | Tik Tok has way better advice than this subredditAdvice of any kind is pointless if A: the person is not actually applying it B. It doesn’t work for the person when they try to apply it. Just because it works for “socially adjusted dudes” doesn’t mean it will work for you. You have to find a means of making seduction work for you personally. | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | What are you gonna be for Halloween (best costumes)?Damn right lol. Gonna be all over my huge masamune | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | What are you gonna be for Halloween (best costumes)?Lmao good one | /r/seduction | 06/10/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | What are you gonna be for Halloween (best costumes)?I love dressing up as characters. This year I’m thinking of going as Sephiroth | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 09:54 AM |
| 2 | This thread encompasses perfectly why I don’t approach womenBruh that’s one post by one woman. She’s allowed to feel the way she does. Just like you’re allowed to approach/date somebody else | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | No one told me this, so here you go!Bro all due respect, just because the advice here is not working for you does not mean it doesn’t work for anybody else at all | /r/seduction | 28/09/22 11:31 PM |
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