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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Wife Dropped the Nuke | Getting Started | Relevant_Trick1700 | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Question | Relevant_Trick1700 | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/25 10:34 PM |
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| 2 | Teenage kids don’t like taking orders from their mom’s fiance.Ya but they’re being housed by him and your ex wife. I would want my son to behave when he’s with his mom and her boyfriend and as much as it would irk me to have him step in and discipline my son if he’s stepping out of line at the end of the day if my son is in the wrong then he’s in the wrong and you take your licks when you earn them. All you gotta do is talk with the guy and let him know how you want them disciplined no putting hands on them etc. if your kiddos hate it that much there then … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/26 04:50 AM |
| 1 | My thoughts on Walk Away WivesI don’t disagree that cultural and political issues affect real life they obviously do. Unequal household labor, reproductive autonomy, emotional neglect, and unthoughtful partners are real problems, not internet inventions. My point isn’t that these issues are imaginary or that women are wrong to want better. It’s that culture increasingly teaches people how to interpret their dissatisfaction in ways that turn partners into symbols instead of collaborators. A relationship can acknowledge histor… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/25 08:29 AM |
| 2 | About to divorceFucking shit bro. If you wanna try to save it you gotta do some damage control. What’s more important flight school or family? The military or family? I know we don’t get much say on what to do in the service but it can’t hurt to speak with chain of command to help you figure out next steps. Fuck man use ChatGPT to help point you in the right direction and get your thoughts together. However you also have to face the monster in the closet. Listen to what she’s told you. How she’s acted etc. You … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/25 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Just looking for support for anyone that may have been married to a narcissist. I’m down and struggling here. I have no privacy or peace and trying to decide what to do next and build the courage to actually file.I have speculated that my ex wife was a narcissist before a lot of similarities in what you’ve said to what I experienced. I’d say record and archive as much evidence as possible so if a split occurs you have concrete proof of what you’re experiencing. That’s the best I got since although I went thru similar things oddly enough we had a good break up. I will say if you split it’s going to wreck you mentally because you’ll yearn for her but then you’ll remember how you were treated and it’ll make… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/25 06:56 AM |
| 2 | Suicidal ideation since divorceHope it isn’t like that for him but if it is i feel for him shit sucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/25 05:39 AM |
| 10 | Suicidal ideation since divorceSome people don’t fall apart because they “miss being married.” It’s deeper than that. When you build your entire life, identity, routine, future plans, sense of purpose, and even emotional safety around a partner losing that isn’t just “being single.” It’s the death of the life you thought you were living. Divorce isn’t just a relationship ending. It’s: • losing companionship • losing stability • losing your role in someone’s life • losing daily connection • losing shared dreams • losing your s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/25 05:14 AM |
| 10 | My thoughts on Walk Away WivesHonestly, the reason so many relationships are ending today isn’t because couples suddenly became incompatible or toxic. It’s because people are dragging outside cultural battles into their relationship. And just to be clear, I’m NOT talking about relationships that had real abuse, cheating, addiction, or genuine toxicity — those should end. I’m talking about the couples who were actually compatible, loved each other, and should’ve lasted. What’s happening now is people stop seeing the actual pe… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/25 05:02 AM |
| 5 | If given the chance to travel back in time, what qualities would you look for in a partner?Is part of a non divorced family. No daddy issues. Doesn’t hide behind childhood trauma to justify being a dick. Doesn’t see men as opposition. Doesn’t see marriage as shackles. Isn’t a misandrist. Doesn’t watch shows like love island. Doesn’t take advice from miserable, divorced,lustful women. Loves being a mom. Christian. Not super judgmental of others. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/25 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Need positive experiencesI kinda just idk “exist” when it’s just me and my pup. When I see my son I “live” or feel “alive” because I’m doing what I wanted to do and be which is a father. It does feel incomplete though at the same time though because I miss that coming home to your family dynamic I used to have and hope I can find that again with someone who actually wants the whole family dynamic life style and doesn’t see it as a “ societal construct created by men to oppress women” | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/25 04:06 AM |
| 17 | “He’s a good man, but…”Women today confuse me. My ex-wife got mad at me because I told her she was too good to be working at Bombshells. Her mom is a nurse. Her stepdad is a boiler operator. Her mom worked a tough job, used government assistance programs, went to nursing school, and raised three daughters on her own after leaving an abusive husband. That’s real grit a primal determination to survive and build a better life for your kids. She didn’t choose the easy route. She didn’t shake her ass for cash or use her bo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/25 07:29 AM |
| 4 | How did you guys move on..Don’t beg for someone who doesn’t want to be there. You said you revolved your life around her brother. That means you gave your all to a person and they are looking at what you’re handing them and saying no to it. You move on by starting to love your life revolving YOU again. You get your career,body, and mind straight again. You’ll find someone again in the near future if you allow yourself to feel again just make sure you don’t completely loose yourself to a person again always keep you groun… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/25 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Initiating divorce with a child involvedThat’s so interesting how your daughter is already thinking some type of way. My ex and I divorced about a month ago and my son literally just turned 4. So far all he’s asked is why we don’t live together anymore. I always reassure him that mom and dad love him very much. In the end that’s all you can do till the day they start living in separate households. So while you have her there with your spouse make sure you emphasize that you love her and that mom loves her. Remain amicable with your ST… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Would anyone be interested in a series of post from a guy on the other side?Heck yeah man | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/25 05:26 AM |
| 2 | AngerI don’t know how people can be okay ruining a whole person. I’d feel so guilty and just return your money. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/25 06:43 AM |
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