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Do you have children with her? because if you don't divorce her now, pay alimony for a few years and be rid of it. If you have children with her, Ultimately to me that is a different story. because she might be lazy and entitled but your children deserve to have a mother that isn't destitute if you can reasonably prevent it. Choosing to have a child with a woman is choosing to support her for the rest of her life regardless of whether she gives a shit about you. It does mean that you need to be …
/r/MensRights18/11/25 12:15 AM
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I actually agree with you, but that's because I'm not looking at marriage like its supposed to be fair. Its not supposed to be fair, its supposed to ensure the best result for your children. When you choose to have kids, you're choosing to bring people into the world. If you love those children, you understand that giving them the best possible outcome means that both parents are involved in their lives while they are alive. Finding a wife is about finding someone who would care more about her c…
/r/MensRights18/11/25 12:01 AM
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When Someone uses a Sarcasm Tag, You're supposed to understand that they're meaning the opposite. And often quoting a feminist, or a feminism apologist to highlight the evil and hypocrisy committed by the enemies of this movement. Don't feel too bad, if you didn't understand the sarcasm tag, it makes sense for you to respond the way you have in this thread. The whole point of the tag, is because of Poe's law.
/r/MensRights30/10/25 04:47 PM
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Girls did worse, girls have an organized movement fighting for their privileges for whom equality isn't good enough. Which is why the article is written from the perspective of this being a problem.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 01:52 AM
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Because they were doing 20-30% worse than girls before covid. So boys spiked massively which put them ahead of girls by a small margin.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 10:49 PM
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The important part is that you need to know what you're talking about. There will be dumbasses, that will look for any reason to disrespect you. But in order to lead blue collar workers you need to be fucking good at your trade, and able to communicate things clearly or they'll all roll their eyes when they turn their back and you'll be the subject to malicious compliance. IF you're the boss, you're the boss. But if the boss is a dumbass, they'll treat him like a dumbass. If you are smarter than…
/r/MensRights04/03/25 06:40 PM
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If you get into a fenderbender it costs a few thousand dollars. If you get into a highspeed collision both cars are totalled, There are likely injuries that need to be paid for and a higher chance of damaging infrastructure like light poles.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 02:40 PM
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women do often get their drinks spiked with drugs to make them pliable. I've rescued 3 separate women I know from being kidnapped this way. That is generally what they are warning women about. When it comes to partners trying to kill each other(which is what eye drops in a drink are for), women tend to use poisons, men tend to use more physical means. Its attempted murder either way.
/r/MensRights04/02/25 07:50 PM
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My wife would have told her mother to go fuck herself. But then would have shared it with me because she'd want comfort afterwards. Well actually my wife would probably say something like "what! Are you jealous of the baby because he had tears of joy at the birth of your grand daughter when no one will shed a single tear at your funeral!?" I cry pretty much every time my wife and I have a serious argument. Its usually the way I avoid raising my voice. If I raise my voice she'll usually have a pa…
/r/MensRights16/07/24 06:21 PM
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I remember when I was in school. Only women were allowed to get the vaccine.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 04:59 PM
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Sleeveless shirts aren't called wife beaters where I'm from. They're called Muscle shirts. Only the undergarment style tank tops are called wife beaters around here. and I think part of it is that it is an actual undergarment. Someone going around in their underwear looks unkempt, which is why the whole thing is associated with people considered "low class". The reason why we call them tank tops at all, is because they were underwear for tankies, and since the tanks got so hot, they often were s…
/r/MensRights08/05/24 05:45 PM
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CHRYSTAL KARI MARIE FROST from Luverne, was allowed back out into the community within 3 days of getting picked up back in september, as long as she agreed to an adult chaperone around children. She was then arrested again on march 15, for 2 counts of soddomy 2nd (one with a 14 year old and one with a 15 year old) which is a 2 year minimum unless the child is under 12. unlike sodomy 1st which is a 10 year minimum per count. If she's convicted she'll be facing 4 years minimum.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 11:46 AM
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You need to quit Online dating, and try finding women in the real world. If you start 10 conversations with 10 women, you'll find that at least one of them would be interested in a date. Just talk to them about things that you find interesting. This can include them. When talking to women, Hint at sexuality, but don't actually take the conversation into the gutter. Online dating is for ultra attractive men, to pick up an endless supply of women who's hormone cycle has aligned for an easy hookup.…
/r/MensRights23/04/24 05:02 PM
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Because she wanted to talk about how single dads make her feel icky because they remind her of her ex, working away from home half the time, to make the money she needs for that big house. or because when she asked about his custody, he describes the situation and she feels like he's not showing her in a good enough light. literally hearing in her head what she thought her ex would say about her own chaotic behavior. Literally she's not over her ex husband, and wants to whine about it online. My…
/r/MensRights18/04/24 10:00 PM
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When I met my wife, She was almost as strong as the average man. She's 5'9" and she got a blackbelt in two martial arts and was competitive in horseback riding competitions in highschool. The major problem was that she would hurt herself doing anything "manly". Help carry a couch? She'll have bruises. Help build furniture? She'll end up with a blister from getting her hand caught in a joint as she was fastening it. Open a stuck jar? She'd get it open, but her hands would be bleeding afterwards. …
/r/MensRights01/04/24 06:16 PM
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People on the right can be convinced to vote for anything if you make it sound scary enough. People on the left will vote for anything if you make it sound sad enough. ​ Moderates are afraid of either side getting full control and doing something stupid with it. We've been carefully separated via media, so Corporate interests can keep us from actually solving any problem that they don't want to be solved. Corporations want low taxes for themselves, and want the biggest customer base that they ca…
/r/MensRights06/03/24 02:13 PM
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I used to believe this. But then I changed my mind. Show emotion in front of women as a test. I used to hide my emotion from women because it got a negative reaction or it would be used against me. All that that lead to was deep entanglement with terrible women who didn't respect me or have compassion for me. Often too late to leave without some consequences. But if you show emotion early, you can spot that redflag much more quickly and move on before she can damage your life. A woman who feels …
/r/MensRights20/02/24 08:03 PM
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I'd venture a guess that close to 100% of men have been groped by a woman at some point. It sounds like you live a similar life to me, and not similar to some of my friends. Its probably more like 30 or 40%. I know several 30 year olds who have never had sexual contact that they haven't had to pay for. and on the other hand, I get groped by women at bars at least once every few months. And I'm vocal about the fact that I'm married and not looking for these things. I wear a ring, and it seems to …
/r/MensRights14/02/24 02:50 PM
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I mean I've been slapped, and sexually assaulted because I rejected a woman's advances. and then told by others that I should have just enjoyed what I was getting, even though I'm married and was not even remotely interested in the woman making those advances. Apparently she was hot enough that I must be gay if I didn't want to sleep with her.
/r/MensRights09/02/24 03:32 PM
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I think some girls don’t understand the social penalties that come with the type of accusation. Most do, but usually in that moment they don't care if they ruin the other person's life. They are doing that because they want to absolutely ruin that man, so they are bringing out the biggest weapon they have to kill his reputation with. I know that when my Ex made those claims it was because she wanted my family to abandon me, and to scare off the girl that I started dating after her. She told me a…
/r/MensRights06/02/24 11:29 PM
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yeah we had misunderstood the recommendation to wait 10 weeks to tell people, we thought it was 10 weeks from last known period, but it was 10 weeks from the last missed period. (12-14 weeks overall) and let our friends and family know at christmas only to find out in the second ultrasound that the fetus had no heart at the beginning of january. We were told that the fetus was non-viable, and then 3-4 days later her body realized the same thing and started the miscarriage process. and now almost…
/r/MensRights23/01/24 08:17 PM
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Chance of miscarriage, Based on your story, she has only just missed her period and then taken a test, Which means that the pregnancy is very early on. According to the Mayo clinic only 10-20% of Known pregnancies are lost in the first 12 weeks, But that only includes pregnancies that are known. Most are lost in the first few weeks when Many women may just think they are late. According to my healthcare provider in a Country where pregnancy tests and pre-natal care is completely free of charge, …
/r/MensRights23/01/24 06:44 PM
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In the First 12 weeks it is. According to the mayo clinic Only 10-20% of known pregnancies are lost this way, but they even state in their article that's because most miscarriages happen near the beginning of pregnancy and most people don't know they're pregnant yet. ​ But I live in Canada, and according to the pregnancy book My wife and I received from our Provincial healthcare system 3 weeks ago, we estimate it to be from one third to one half. (likely because pregnancy tests from the doctor a…
/r/MensRights23/01/24 06:35 PM
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It seriously happens all the time. its called a baby trap, and its a common way for women to try and shame men into providing more commitment. Its a really dumb idea, because a relationship founded on lies is never going to be healthy, but it is common. there's a 1/3rd - 1/2 chance she loses it in the next few weeks. and in future, protect yourself. at the very very least, pull out to finish and pee between sessions but really you should be using condoms, unless you have some way to verify that …
/r/MensRights23/01/24 01:30 PM
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Yeah, Attacking people isn't exactly a way to make friends. ​ What we need to do is promote positive self esteem in male children. We need to promote the idea of more male teachers. We need to give boys a place to feel good about themselves. We need to teach them social skills to keep up with the girls. WE need to make boys think they are just as important as the girls. We need to teach them self respect. Simping is Chivalry without self respect. Women swoon to actual chivalry, but they just try…
/r/MensRights22/01/24 04:35 PM
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Yes, but even the sexiest man, isn't going to get the average woman to be excited enough for 3-4 times times every day for years on end. I'm happy with my 1-2 times per day for the past 8 years and that average is closer to 1 than 2. Speaking as a man who used to have a rotation and has had dozens of threesomes because they would rather share me than only see me once per week, Unless you dedicate every moment of your life to trying to get sex, or you keep multiple women, you aren't almost ever g…
/r/MensRights21/01/24 05:46 PM
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The point is that knowing who initiates a divorce is minimally informative. It does not tell you why a divorce happened. It does not tell you what events doomed the relationship. It does not tell you who is at fault — But it does tell you who gave up and decided to move on first. It does not tell you anything about fault. But that statistic should hammer home to any men, that women are way less likely to stay in a marriage that isn't working out very well. That they have a lower tolerance for sh…
/r/MensRights20/01/24 07:30 PM
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Well there are lots of men who try to have NSA sex. They message women constantly with dumb shit, asking for sex in the first message. they usually get denied, but if every woman matches with 10 of them, they're gonna feel like that's the most common behavior. There are men who don't want long term relationships that actually have game. They definitely exist. Generally its because a long term relationship would hold them back. For instance, I know a IT project engineer who doesn't. But He gets p…
/r/MensRights19/01/24 12:12 AM
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For me, she didn't try to go to the police about it. She only tried to spread rumors. Its pretty difficult to prove defamation when there's no press, and no police involvement. I was not about to go to court to sue her for the few thousand she had in savings, try and make everyone she told to take the stand as a witness to what she said, and then try to prove the things she said to be false. Especially because you can only sue for the damage done. If no damage was done because nobody believes he…
/r/MensRights09/01/24 08:45 PM
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My first long term girlfriend begged me to stay for a little bit after we broke up (she was bored) to keep the rent in order. 3 months later, after the next couple dudes dumped her, She asked if I was up for some sex. I hadn't been laid in like 5 months, so I said yes, Things went fine. until the next day when she found out I had a date scheduled for the weekend. When I went on my date, she accused me of rape to the roommates, they Packed my shit, Called my mother, and by the time I was done my …
/r/MensRights09/01/24 02:15 PM
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I mean the previous movie at that point cost 113 million dollars and was one of the most expensive movies made to date at that point. And it was such a huge fandom. with Tv Shows, Movies, and dozens of books per year. not just any buyer could handle that. And Disney had made it seem on paper that they wanted to keep things the same. We all called it, But what happened was the opposite of what he was told would happen.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 01:58 PM
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I mean George Apologized for selling out. But he knew that he didn't want to continue it himself, and nobody had deeper pockets. it took a lot of time and effort to manage the universe as well as they did before, and he'd been doing it since the 70s. people are allowed to retire after 40 years of doing something. You can't expect someone to work on something until they die just because you like the way they do it.
/r/MensRights04/01/24 05:11 PM
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If all the women died, That would include all the women who have frozen their eggs already who will not be needing them for later retrieval. Which means that We'll have millions maybe even billions of eggs. They would need to be managed carefully, but once the wombs were working, I don't know why we wouldn't repopulate with a 50/50 split. I mean at that point its a government level problem, I could imagine some countries would even try to produce more women than men. The real question is how are…
/r/MensRights02/01/24 06:47 AM
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when those "AIs" had unfiltered training from the internet they usually turned right wing. Its more like Poe's Law Personified. A lot of trolls use Right wing rhetoric, but they also use left wing rhetoric to arrive at the same location. Unless you count sounding like Neo-Nazi edgelords as "right wing" I wouldn't call those unfiltered Language models as right wing. ​ Politics is a continuum and at the extremes, it wraps around. Its why facism and communism appear to be so similar when implemente…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 07:20 PM
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because men don't age out of the capability of having children. He has a son, and is too old to start raising more children. So he isn't worried about it making him permanently infertile.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 01:24 PM
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I felt that way until I met my wife. She has never dragged old problems into new ones. She sided with her Father in their divorce. Her siblings are grown, But she's still angry that her mother took the younger children so far away just to make it harder for him to have a relationship with them. She has never weaponized shame against me. Every fight we have ends up constructively resolved. She cooked such amazing food, and even learned recipes from my grandmother. Then, I saw her around children …
/r/MensRights17/12/23 10:14 AM
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They don't agree with the beliefs of the nazi party of the 1930s. But I've been told by ridiculous feminists that un-neutered men should be kept in concentration camps. My mother's feminist friends have recommended books where men are treated as chattel slaves. It wasn't until I started to ask my mom why her friends wanted to have me tortured and killed, and why they thought I couldn't control my behavior, when I was 5 or 6. After realizing that she couldn't really provide an explanation that wa…
/r/MensRights12/12/23 01:45 PM
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lesbians have all the same relationship issues as hetero couples. And there's no doggedly determined man trying to get laid every day that he can. When My old roomates were in an arguing period in their relationship, Neither of them really even noticed that it had been over 100 days since the last time they were more than friends. ​ I had come home from work and could cut the tension with a knife, and said " Hey why is there so much damn tension in this house, can't you two just fuck already?" W…
/r/MensRights12/12/23 01:35 PM
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So the demographics were kind of skewed. 70% asian, 10% middle eastern and the last 20% was pretty much every thing else. And it was like 60% female. But on the other hand, a significant portion of the students weren't seriously looking to date, because they were too focused on their studies. over my time in Highschool I dated 3 white girls and 4 Asian girls (A korean, 2 half vietnamese/chinese and a japanese girl.) I only met the parents of one of them though. And that was helped by the fact th…
/r/MensRights04/12/23 07:06 PM
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I am a white dude, I went to an academic highschool, around 70% of our school was asian or of asian decent. (More than that if you count middle eastern as asian.) I have a lot of asian friends, and I as the child of an immigrant, I understood some of the pressures they experienced, though their pressures were greater. Most of the guys have had difficulty attracting women. They were shorter, thinner, and less athletic than the average non-asian classmate. Their parents had high acedemic expectati…
/r/MensRights04/12/23 04:27 PM
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The problem is that molestation on trains during rush hour is way too common in Japan. 5 out of the 6 women from japan that I know well enough personally to talk about these things, have been penetrated by some unknown person's fingers while on a train multiple times. the only one who didn't get molested was the one that almost never took the train because her father was upper management in a zaibatsu company, and had a driver. They have no idea who it was, because during rush hour, there isn't …
/r/MensRights17/09/23 05:41 PM
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I went bald at 23, I have been shaving my whole head every day since. The stuff that still grows is thick and very curly,(there is some assumed African decent from my Greek side based on the melanin and hair genetics in my family. when I could still grow hair, it naturally stood up, and required a lot of product to keep from turning into an afro, which was strictly not allowed in my school dress codes.) and For the first few years, I had razor bumps almost every day. Then I started using a boar …
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:47 PM
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I make these jokes privately with my wife, but the other way. She was a tom boy growing up, She had a rough home life, and she had 4 special needs siblings she needed to protect. She competed with the boys in martial arts. Most of her relationships were short lived, because she would end up with some straight up assholes. She has had to physically defend herself from several of her ex's. And so she cultivated a very tough image. When I met her, she didn't even own a dress. She despised pink, and…
/r/MensRights29/08/23 12:58 PM
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Most of them don't know what they actually want. It is harder for them to want the same things consistently because their hormonal cycle literally pushes them between wanting someone who is strong and territorial and protective, and someone soft, caring and highly provisioning. My wife's period tracking calendar is actually helpful in telling me how to react. I hate to say this, but you being raped cracks the idea that you could protect her, so it actually hurts her mental image of you less to t…
/r/MensRights27/07/23 02:50 PM
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Lol, We used to have impromtu nerf wars at a previous workplace , but I was busy and was normally walking between meetings when I would get ambushed without my sidearm. I learned how to throw the darts accurately because it was usually my only way to fire back unless someone left their nerfgun unsecured on their desk when I dove for cover. Throwing them is much more stealthy than cocking and firing the gun, and can be very effective with when throwing directly as well as indirectly. The problem …
/r/MensRights20/07/23 09:03 PM
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Sorry for the wall of text below, but its kind of a complex topic. Basically /u/Current_Finding_4066 is saying that for most of history, most men weren't allowed to be financially independent either. Most men were bound to the land that they had to farm for their lord. Who used the food produced to pay taxes to the king, and to provide a certain number of equipped military troops and afford their own lifestyles. Serfs were allowed to build a home on the land, and grow a small garden to ensure th…
/r/MensRights20/07/23 07:10 PM
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I'm a leftist. I believe in a strong safety net, I believe in strong regulation of industry. I don't believe in the death penalty, I believe in equal rights for all people. I marched for Gay rights. Radical feminism is actually a far right ideology.(socially, similar to fascism.) it believes in in groups and out groups. The vilified outgroup is men. They make us out to be both weak and strong in their rhetoric. (all men are trash, men are insecure, Men are dangerous, men are frightening. Men's e…
/r/MensRights21/06/23 01:44 PM
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I have never run into an issue where a woman who wanted access to my penis was put off by my foreskin. When it comes up in conversation, I just compare it to removing a woman's clittoral hood. I explain that it takes about as much effort to clean as a clittoral hood. And that removing it would cause a similar amount of desensitization, as if a clitoris was rubbed against dry fabric all day everyday for an entire life. A few women have tried to shame me about it, but saying " your insitence and e…
/r/MensRights19/06/23 05:55 PM
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I had read two of them already, I've read the abstract of the third and will finish it later as most of the findings are similar to other studies I've read. I definitely appreciated your links as they are useful studies that more people should read. The dark triad one, is what finally made sense of the world to me when I was younger, when all the best women seemed to get caught in abusive situations with asshole men. Before reading that It never made sense that they couldn't see that the man was…
/r/MensRights07/05/23 05:41 PM
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The problem is that psychopathic individuals have no qualms about enacting violence on others to get ahead. The only way to keep them from using it on you is the believed threat of violent retribution. Whether that violence is financial, mental, emotional or physical, you must be willing to harm others to protect society from such people. Until such a time as all individuals with psychopathic tendencies can be removed from society, we cannot live completely free of violence. Whether that violenc…
/r/MensRights07/05/23 02:03 PM
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consider, out of curiosity, what personality traits do you think optimize for violence or the capacity for violence? You cannot ensure your own freedom without the capacity for violence. I usually refer to it as "never being too afraid to get punched in the face" because there are generally several levels of disagreement that happen before I am willing to punch someone else. But I don't think anyone can live a free life without good people willing to be violent. otherwise its always the worst pe…
/r/MensRights07/05/23 11:49 AM
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Here's the thing, Most women I've ever spoken to in real life might even call themselves feminists, but are not so much feminist as egalitarian who are stuck using feminist terminology and theory because they've never been able to hear the other side. You are welcome, if you're willing to discuss and not just plug your ears yelling about the patriarchy, and trying to get all male only gyms and shelters shut down. In many places even discussion of male issues gets you banned. if we didn't make ro…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 12:07 PM
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I went to a small metal concert on saturday, with aproximately 500 people in attendance. I saw around 15 people in masks. I think they should be showing mug shots. or past pictures. but there are definitely still people wearing masks. heck one of my co-workers has a daughter with a bunch of immune system disorders. She will likely be wearing a mask in public for the foreseeable future, now that wearing a mask in public is no longer a misdemeanor where I live.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 10:02 PM
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Its a little before that. For instance, if a girl in first grade starts a fight with a boy in first grade and he gets hurt and cries. There's a strong chance his mother isn't going to treat him the same way he would if another boy were to start that fight that lead to his tears. Even before puberty, people seem to expect boys to act stronger. Even at stages where girls can easily be larger or stronger. If a boy defends his friend who was being abused by a bully, most people would look on that fa…
/r/MensRights21/04/23 09:50 PM
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well there were plenty of reasons for common law marriage in the past.(and its from English Common law, it wasn't a recent addition) For instance, you were married in your home country that doesn't keep legal records of marriage. You immigrate as a couple. IF he died with no will, the government would get to keep his estate, if it weren't for common law marriage. Could you imagine, you propose to your onlychild sweetheart that you have been living with for several years, with your grandmother's …
/r/MensRights21/04/23 02:17 PM
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Sure but a Prenup between two men, would likely be fully followed to the letter, and not thrown out because the limits are too harsh. There's no "obvious victim" to side with.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 01:39 PM
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Some Serious all-in Radical feminists are at [3]. Some are [2] but making excuses for their friends who are [3]. Most women consider themselves feminists, but are actually confused. Because they are actually egalitarians raised by and surrounded by Feminists, using Feminist Jargon, because those are the only terms they understand to describe what they experience. Its the same thing with the Wage gap, Women aren't paid less when they do the same work. But the [2]'s and [3]'s continue to push the …
/r/MensRights20/04/23 04:47 PM
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I mean either your music equipment is for your business or its for your hobby, but you only spend on it because you are incredibly interested in making music. You don't buy a new Shure super 55 just because your other mic is ugly, you buy it because it changes the sound, it has a very specific audio profile, with a very tight pickup angle. It happens to be shiny, and look cool, but you probably aren't buying it because singing into a Shure Beta 58A, makes you feel inadequate due to its phallic s…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 10:53 PM
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The other thing is that Men are looked at as providers, If my wife wants something, I'll make sure that she gets it. I don't want much. I already have a nice watch, I have a wardrobe, a gaming PC, a cellphone, a bed, a home and a car, Some kitchen stuff, some books, I need toiletries (I do own cologne, I use a DE razor to shave my bald head each day) and food, and my hobby stuff, otherwise I'm good. I don't really want anything else. You can't convince me to buy fancy matching things, I don't ca…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 09:22 PM
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I think the reason why they say that varies from article to article, but I think part of it is to keep feminists at bay. Like if they didn't say that, feminists would lose their minds that a woman could go to jail for doing anything to a man. So instead they make it about other SA victims so that feminists don't cancel the writers for reporting on it, or try to cancel the DA involved for charging her. Its literally appeasement. They are still going to lose their minds, but because its to protect…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 01:38 PM
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My favorite teacher lost his job because a woman(18) who was previously his student (she was now in University) came to his house to deliver him food when he was sick because she had a crush and knew where he lived, it lead to sexual things, and then when he didn't want to continue because he wanted to pursue someone closer to his age, She had a fit, and tried to claim SA months later,(due to the previous teacher student barrier) when he proposed to that woman his age. The potential SA with a fo…
/r/MensRights17/04/23 06:33 AM
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My mother used to talk about this stuff, She used to tell me that she didn't believe in it, and that this stuff was further than she thought was healthy, but I still definitely felt at least a little scared that there were women who wanted to do these things. But even back then, I used to find it funny that women were so afraid of male friendship, that they figured they needed to kill 90% of us before they had a chance of preventing us from being better friends to each other than women could be.…
/r/MensRights12/04/23 01:00 PM
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Lol, thats the reason why I mix my own shaving cream. I found an unscented shaving soap I like, I mix a little bit of peppermint conditioner, a little bit of cedar or sandlewood scented oil, a small amount of my chosen cologne and whip it up with a boar hair brush to clean my beard, exfoliate my skin and provide lubrication for shaving the hair I don't keep with my DE razor. (I am stage 6 bald, so that's my whole head besides my beard.) Every shower is like a spa for my skin and hair, and I choo…
/r/MensRights11/04/23 08:51 PM
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You and I definitely seem to have different versions of what we consider masculine or a "Real Man". For me, Being masculine is about responsibility. Its about not letting my emotions poison my reasoning. Its about being strong, physically, but mostly emotionally. Life is hard, so we must be harder. Especially so that people less strong can have a stable place to stand. Its about using that strength to lead others the best I can, and to be able to accept leadership from someone better than me whe…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 11:00 PM
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But I legit feel like women's sexual selection is incentivizing bad & unethical behaviors. If the goal is the only thing they care about, honestly there isn't much holding us back other than the law. We might as well all become Machiavellians and use whatever effective means possible. Succeed by being moral, good. You can also succeed by being unethical. Why are we even giving power to these women who can't even think clearly, straight and logically? Why are we letting them to sexual-select? Yes…
/r/MensRights29/03/23 05:50 PM
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She's a model with a slightly more reasonable amount of weight to her. She's more physically attractive than the average for models because she seems to have slightly little more body fat than the average runway model, which makes her look better than the skeletal clothes hangers that normally grace the catwalk and she has had breast augmentation. In some of her photos her lips have obviously had recent treatments that make them more than a little too prominent, but in others her lips aren't tot…
/r/MensRights29/03/23 01:05 PM
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I agree, that we need to stop pushing these ideas on impressionable young women before their brain has fully developed, causing them to forsake their most valuable years for finding a mate to progress their career, when their career could wait. But people weren't much different before feminism, it was just mostly hushed up. it was always a zero sum game. Even before feminism, not everyone had a happy marriage. There was still divorce, and people still cheated in their relationships if their attr…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 10:53 PM
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Not anywhere near the finish line myself but it's nice to see an example of turning things around into success in a realistic manner. The secret is that there is no finish line on this side of the grave. There is no line in the sand that divides you from being weak or strong. Every problem you face is an opportunity to be strong or give up. Being strong is always hard. It just gets easier to handle hard things with practice. Its like with weight lifting, every day you push your exercise for gain…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 09:45 PM
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The white knights who pile on any guy who dares question or criticize anything a woman does or says online calling them “incels” and exploding into a frenzied circle jerk amongst each other right there in the comments. I comment pretty regularly about these things in places outside of men's rights, I don't often get called incel. "Incel" brings to mind the same type of hate that we associate with radical feminists, just directed towards women instead of men. Part of it is that I don't blame wome…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 06:08 PM
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Oh I know, Hell Its more important that my wife respects me than loves me really. Love is only powerful when things are going well. Respect ensures that even when things in life are not going well, we're able to still hold the relationship together. They were disgusted when I suggested they find a man who would take care of them like my wife takes care of me, but they were happily saying things like, "if that's how you feel, I can quit my job when we have kids" literally trying to bargain with m…
/r/MensRights26/03/23 02:25 PM
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I'm glad those women were smart enough to realize that they weren't going to find more financially stable men. I work in Tech, and the women we hire here seem to not be able to understand the idea that if someone works 80 hours a week, the only relationship that can work is with someone who makes it their only priority. When I proposed to my wife, The women I worked with came out of the woodwork to demand why I was going to marry a woman without a job. ("sure we each work 70-80 hour weeks, but w…
/r/MensRights26/03/23 01:14 PM
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I had learned from my mistakes in prior relationships.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 07:12 AM
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Why do women have to give men the silent treatment? I think I am too outspoken. Because feelings are difficult to express rationally. And in most cases the silent treatment is an effective way to get what you want without putting in the effort. Most guys break when given the silent treatment. I know I did for a very long time. Imagine it from her perspective for a moment. Something goes wrong. You're upset. Your man tries to get you to explain the reason why you're upset, that is difficult, and …
/r/MensRights23/03/23 10:26 PM
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I wanted her to understand that the whole reason we have anything is because I have worked my ass off at jobs I mostly hated to provide for my family. Wemon assume just because I go to work everyday and don't b**** about it constantly I must love it. Before I married my wife, we had a discussion about these things. I had just finished a 12 hour day, and when I came home, she was upset, she started by asking me what was for dinner, I said I would eat anything she wanted, but otherwise I was too t…
/r/MensRights23/03/23 02:46 PM
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This problem exists with anyone who identifies with a part of the political spectrum, regardless of which side. By most accounts I'm far left of Center, I believe in Public health & Dental & Optical care, Mandatory therapy for all teenagers, and free mental healthcare, and cheaply available public housing. I'm for a high corporate tax rate on profit, extremely High personal taxes for any income exceeding 2 million dollars per year of income from all sources (capital gains rates are bullshit, tho…
/r/MensRights23/03/23 02:13 AM
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My wife Took Taekwondo as a teen, and was good at it. received weapons training on their hwarang team, and was teaching classes to pay for the end of her blackbelt. Too good to fight the girls in tournaments. And so she was always fighting against the boys her age. When she was 17 she won a provincial level gold medal in a tournament after her opponent broke her knee, because she's tough, and was able to tape it enough so that it wouldn't bend the wrong way, for the end of the last fight, and wo…
/r/MensRights22/03/23 07:58 PM
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Canada. He's a good looking musician who has released 12 albums personally who is honest and has integrity. Hehas a recording studio in his basement, and has worked with some really great world class producers before he started doing his own recording. He's helped ~20 local band release high quality albums in the last 10 years. He has a decent job in the low 6 figures and has only has 10 years left on his mortgage for his 4 bedroom house in a nice neighbourhood.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 06:47 PM
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She's just used to the protections that she has, and doesn't realize that smart capable men only get to the top by careful planning to avoid problems before they happen. Because she is unused to being accountable for her own choices, she can't understand the mindset of someone who is always accountable. Like I have a friend who has never had sex without a condom in his life. Women keep trying to trap him and it never works. He always brings his own condoms and keeps them in a locked box at home.…
/r/MensRights12/03/23 02:23 AM
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I don't know exactly, but I know it wasn't money. I make good money now, but not until 3 years ago. "Game" is probably the best word to describe most of the factors, though I am just barely 6', and have been told I have gorgeous eyes. Well I'm a balding 210lb 6' (183.0cm) man with a blonde long van dyke beard and blue eyes. I shave my head in the shower every day, and because I save money on the razor by using a double edge razor I use nice moisturizers, oils and soaps, and a badger hair brush t…
/r/MensRights07/03/23 12:16 AM
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I work in IT, at the start of the craziness I was a low ranking helpdesker, After stopping the crazy rotation, I got promoted a few times. Its incredible how much easier it is to kick ass at work when you don't have 5 women messaging you all day, and how much overtime you can fit in, when you don't have to entertain multiple women every evening, and dinner is just ready when you get home. I like to go to live music shows. I generally prefer local shows because they are cheaper, and I get to meet…
/r/MensRights06/03/23 07:00 PM
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Multiple women "dating" the same man. Women who are in FWBs/situationships considering themselves not single, guys in these arrangements probably consider themselves single. Self reporting survey, women just answering what makes them feel good instead of answering what's true. ​ Before I met my wife and got married, I was a contributor to this. 5 to 1 ratio. I didn't even have to lie to them, I just made sure I only kept around the girls that could get along with each other. 4/5 of them stopped …
/r/MensRights06/03/23 02:35 PM
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You're on the right track but, there's a couple things that you're missing. They show significant skin for a few reasons. This is what it is socially acceptable to wear to the event in their social circle. (women police each other's clothing. I've known more than a few women who wore clothes they didn't want to, because they didn't want to be ostracized by their friends. They need to keep up, or they'll be kicked out) They want attention from men, but not most men. They want attention from a man…
/r/MensRights02/03/23 10:06 PM
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Don't let giggling girls get you down. If they are noticing you, and not directly giving you shit, its probably because they find you attractive enough to spare the thought to have an opinion. It might even be that one of them has a crush, and they are likely giggling, because they are teasing their friend. Girls will always be nervous about a "strange" male walking behind them. They are biologically wired to be more anxious than men on average. That will not change. The best way to avoid being …
/r/MensRights02/03/23 05:28 PM
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After I said it 8 turned to me and said, “daddy you aren’t the main character, mommy is.” I laughed a little and said, “why do you think that?” She said, “because you never ask mommy to do anything and mommy always tells you what to do.” That makes mommy a quest npc and confirms your main character status.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 11:22 PM
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Yet women flip the fuck out when a man tries to be flirty or tries to use sexuality in their favor. I disagree. Women don't like it when men use their power to get sexuality in the workplace. They don't mind it when men they are attracted to use their sexuality to get power in the workplace. The thing is that Most men aren't able to make most women swoon. I've been flirty in the workplace many times to get benefits. Whether that was when I was 19 and selling laptops to college girls, or when I w…
/r/MensRights25/02/23 07:37 AM
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Migraine headaches are generally expected to be covered under your normal sick leave. Same with Fibro Myalgia. Basically almost all chronic conditions are covered under your normal sick leave, and if you need more time than that, you're expected to go on disability. When my father broke his back, He was covered to not work for as long as he wanted, at 80% of his normal income through workers compensation and disability. However, after healing from surgery, he wanted to work, and most days he was…
/r/MensRights17/02/23 05:37 PM
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I made a suggestion in the comment you responded to but didn't read. I'll quote it below. ​ A much saner version of this law would simply increase mandatory required sick leave for all employees in the country to be able to fit this new use case, and make menstruation, as well as other chronic conditions (migraine headaches, fibro myalgia, spinal injury, etc) fit within the scope of the law. If both men and women can take the time off for chronic recurring issues equally, you avoid stigmatizing …
/r/MensRights17/02/23 02:51 PM
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My point is that for many women it will be damn near a week per month. And those who take it consistently will still be avoided for promotion. Just because the time is paid doesn't mean that it ingratiates you towards your employer. If it isn't used commonly, there will still be a huge social stigma to using it. And if it is used consistently it will effect the hiring of all women. And given that this time off is only available to women, and is basically sexual harassment to even question, means…
/r/MensRights17/02/23 02:15 PM
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No it isn't, But for many women it will be every month. Both my mother and my wife have extremely painful periods. My mother doesn't have them anymore obviously but she had a double hysterectomy in her early 40s to put an end to the pain so that she could actually work enough to progress in her career. My wife has around 4 days every 28 days (her average period lasts 6 days) where even just cooking dinner is extremely difficult for her. 4 days every month where she can't really even do the thing…
/r/MensRights17/02/23 01:20 PM
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this one issue receive additional leave but not other issues? Why not migraine headache leave? This would be a godsend. Being able to have separate leave for my migraine headaches would mean that I have enough sick days that I wouldn't have to work when I'm sick. I work on a computer all day, it is much easier to me to struggle through a fever and a cough, and still do my work, than a migraine.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 12:58 PM
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I think the problem that they are getting at is that they need more than their allotment of sick days. My mother was working for the city government when she hit menopause, They had up to 40 sick days per year, but they were only supposed to be able to take them as 3 incidents per year. Where as my mother's Menopausal issues were more inline with needing a half day off every 2 weeks. She had similar issues with migraines before menopause, because she would have a migraine that would cause her to…
/r/MensRights08/02/23 08:03 PM
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Filming can be really useful to check if you were using proper form throughout the entire exercise. Not something you would do on a daily basis, but you might want to do once a month in the beginning, to make sure that you aren't forming bad habits that could lead to injury as you increase the weight you are lifting. Mirrors are great, when you are actually paying attention, but filming is great to make sure that when you're just pounding out your workout, you're still following proper form. ​ A…
/r/MensRights08/02/23 07:01 PM
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Just because we continuums as straight lines, doesn't mean that they aren't actually circular. A progressive pushed far enough left wants the same level of authoritarianism as a conservative pushed as far towards the right. At which point the major difference is the color of hat, and the name they choose to give their belief system. radicals are radicals.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 05:31 PM
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Fk fishing, baiting FF be a real mans hobby....lol Lol, but when I go fishing, I hang out with my buds, we sit outside in nature for a few hours, drinking a couple beers, enjoying the scenery, listening to the animals. And we get to chat about stuff when we feel like it, and heavy conversations end up broken into more manageable pieces because we get interrupted by the excitement of a solid bite and reeling it in. People need to talk through the shit they go through. Otherwise people's minds go …
/r/MensRights03/02/23 02:57 PM
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I live in Canada, not the US. our laws are a little bit different, but similar, and so are our cultures, So I'm not sure how much of this will apply to you. But my non-working wife saves me around 10k per year, between taxes, and various benefits. before we were married, she saved me around 5k per year, as we could still jointly filed our taxes. Having a second person, with no extra income, means that we qualify for many things that I would never qualify for as a single man. Our Car, home, and l…
/r/MensRights30/01/23 11:19 PM
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There's also issues relating to dating. If a transgender woman is dating a straight man, there's a significant risk of her being murdered if the man finds out she used to be a man. That in and of itself isn't discrimination against a gender, (unless you count heterosexuality as discrimination) but is a significant risk to transgender people. ​ There are plenty of situations where, if someone has sex with others under false pretenses it can be classified as sexual assault. No one should hide some…
/r/MensRights06/01/23 09:34 PM
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The best solution I have ever found was simply to wait, women prefer older men. Just don't give them a kid, and do everything you can to better yourself for yourself. The women I dated at 28, were way hotter, smarter and better behaved than the women I dated at 20. once my career got on its way, and I was older, I qualified for better women. In high school, because y'all are trapped, and mostly live with parents, people date within their grade. However outside of high school, even a hot 18 year …
/r/MensRights05/01/23 12:14 AM
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I think, What /u/TheFourSaken is meaning to say is: You don't get to determine my perception of how you present. Basically, If you speak to me and I perceive you as a man, I have a right to be able to think of you as a man. If I perceive you as a woman, I have a right to think of you as a woman. If I perceive you to be fat, I have a right to think of you as fat. If I perceive you as beautiful I have a right to think of you as beautiful. I shouldn't be forced to perceive you through your own lens…
/r/MensRights15/12/22 06:30 PM
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I’m sure men are out there feeling like a parent to their women, which can’t be sexy. I really don't want to offend you, but I've never met a woman that didn't require this at least some of the time. I mean once I hit my 30s, even my mother started to need to be parented to some extent. Whether that is because they need someone to vent to about trivial social problems,("can you believe that sarah told jenn, about this thing I did 3 months ago?!" ) are anxious about something that doesn't really …
/r/MensRights15/12/22 02:50 PM
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That moment in your mid to late 20s where you realize that your mother isn't any more mature than the women your age, but your dad has gone through several additional maturation phases that you have witnessed. When you have to use the same stupid voice and body language tricks to keep your mom from doing something stupid because she is currently emotional and afraid, that you have to use with your wife to keep her thinking rationally in a stressful or mildly dangerous situation.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 02:19 PM
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Hell, even as a 6', physically attractive man, with a penis in the top 10% of size. (what a stupid thing that women use to judge us, but they do, my hands are always going to to a better job for her than my dick.) I only got the social status and admiration after I started making double the median wage. Though I did have the privilege that women were initially interested in me until they found out I made less than them. I don't like to lie to get into bed with a woman, so I generally only slept …
/r/MensRights14/12/22 01:40 PM
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Like crabs in a bucket.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 12:51 PM
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Yeah, When one of my friends and my sister were hitting it off, it came up before their first date. I told him go ahead. It lasted 3 dates, my sister was upset that he broke it off, but within a few weeks everything was back to normal to the point that she would still want to go to parties with my friends even if he was there. But this sounds different. like they're dating for months and months, before the relationship explodes in a fiery death ball. Which explains why it ends up tanking the fri…
/r/MensRights08/12/22 12:12 PM
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Its because its divine to have a dick.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 10:23 PM
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You'd be surprised to see how many women invade gay bars. They also grope and assault men, and claim victim status when we don't respond. That reminds me of a time at an after work drinking function where, I was shamed by the women in attendance for not wanting to go to a gay dance club after the first bar. Its not that I'm uncomfortable going to a gay bar, its not that I'm uncomfortable getting hit on by men. I know how to reject sexual attention perfectly fine. Hell I would say I'm non zero on…
/r/MensRights17/11/22 10:03 PM
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Its a biology issue. Women don't even notice most men in their vicinity. They notice men whom they are attracted to, (even if that attraction is only the minimal attraction caused due to pre-selection bias) and men that make them feel threatened. Its why any unattached man who interacts with them that they aren't at least somewhat attracted to is called a creep. Because unless they have a number of brothers or other men that she has known since before she was 5 (Our brains basically put any peop…
/r/MensRights13/11/22 01:27 AM
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Here's the thing man, You're a man. How women react to what you say is entirely dependent on whether they look at you as a potential mate. If you have a small feminine woman clinging to you, they will find you more attractive due to pre-selection bias, which will cause some of them to be jealous. Some will react by being submissive to you,(because they are normal submissive women, and are doing what comes naturally to them when they are trying to attract a man) and straight up accepting what you…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:29 PM
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They will always be sexually appealing because of their important biological role in child rearing. However, in europe I've seen hundreds of ladies choosing to go topless on the beach. After the first 2 or 3 you see, it ultimately isn't any more sexually exciting than a woman in a bikini. A woman's breasts are there attracting men regardless of what she wears. Short of some sort of extra baggy clothing designed to hide them. Some outfits can draw attention to them. as long as they are visibly te…
/r/MensRights06/07/22 01:04 AM
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Men make better friends with men, because we get it. We have all learned that the world does not give a shit what we want, and that the only things that we can be entitled to are the things we do for ourselves. I feel bad for you that your first experience with male levels of testosterone were as an adult. Being a teenage boy sucks, but male socialization can really help us learn how to deal with the downsides of testosterone. Its the reason why we trash talk among friends. So that we can get us…
/r/MensRights24/06/22 07:14 PM
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Nihilism is the cure to my depression friend. Life is impermanent. So be the person you want to be. Do your best to be the best version of yourself. Because it can be over any moment. Jesus was a good dude, but the bible is desert people mythology anthology designed to keep the population under control. Toil until death for you have greater gifts in heaven awaiting you. Obey your rulers, listen to the rabbis. (while jesus literally flipped tables in temple because he saw the greed of the ruling …
/r/MensRights03/06/22 01:17 PM
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She was a friend of a coworker's daughter. I met her at a party. She was 22, I was 28. We shared some interests. She was having trouble supporting herself because she didn't go to post secondary because she spent most of her time in high school caring for her younger siblings. (her mom was a terrible wife and mother, but she really made the difference for her siblings) when I met her, she worked as a cashier at a clothing store. I still had to "seduce" her, and I had only started to become estab…
/r/MensRights01/06/22 05:54 PM
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I think the problem with your statement is calling it societal value. I have female friends who are really good at their jobs, they still have societal value, even though they are creeping over the line in age, and have been upset lately that they no longer get the extra attention that being an attractive and fertile woman brings. They still have value to society, but that value is slowly becoming similar to a man in the same position. Rather than call it societal value, maybe sexual marketplace…
/r/MensRights01/06/22 01:04 PM
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Good luck trying to convince a doctor to give you one. They won't normally do it for men that have fewer than 2 children or are under 35. It can possibly be reversed but it can't definitely be reversed. If she is certain that she never wants to have children by you, and you know you want to have children someday, there is no long term relationship to be had. You have different life goals. If she wants to have children by you one day, she shouldn't be asking for you to get a surgery to prevent yo…
/r/MensRights04/05/22 12:10 AM
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Not Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson. Chris Rock. He's more like 5'9" and less than 200 lbs.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:48 AM
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Its funny, When I started dating my wife, She hadn't been in a long term relationship in a long time, and there were a lot of guys orbiting her intently. Most of them ghosted the moment that I made my intentions clear. But there were a few guys who didn't get the hint. I had to explain to her very clearly, that they figured they still had a chance. She didn't believe me, so she told them "My boyfriend thinks you're only here because you think you might fuck me, That is not happening." Two of the…
/r/MensRights11/03/22 12:43 AM
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Yes, My wife, we're looking to have kids within 2 years. As in the woman who swore herself to me, who I have sworn myself to. The woman who has provided me with both physical and emotional comfort every day for the last 5 years. The woman whom I chose to marry because I want her to be the mother of my children. I chose her, because she is amazing with my nephew. I chose her because of her perspective on relationships. She has never fully forgiven her mother for taking her siblings away from her …
/r/MensRights25/02/22 03:58 PM
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if they are saying that after the coffee, you can say, "Wow, Its not often that a girl offers to buy me dinner." At that point either she gets embarrassed, she gets angry, or she actually offers to buy your dinner. If she seems embarrassed, Its a good sign, because she probably just can't afford dinner, and realizes what she just did, and feels bad about it. Since it sounds like you live on your own, you can always offer to cook dinner yourself at that point if it feels like there is mutual attr…
/r/MensRights24/02/22 12:27 AM
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What about a chest is naughty? Everyone has nipples, Most people are breast fed. Both male and female nipples are allowed on TV, and being shirtless in public is legal in many places for everyone. hell, The first time I remember seeing a woman's nipples was on a public beach as a child in the 90s. I've only ever heard of it being a problem in heavily religious countries. Sure, many people are attracted to female breasts, But many people are attracted to muscles, Hands, arms, or even feet.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 08:10 PM
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Its funny, I've met 3 women in real life that responded poorly to having the door held. (besides the 2 weeks where this was basically a meme in junior high school, before most girls realized that they preferred the special treatment they normally got from guys, and could "I'm not like other girls" their way back into special treatment.) ​ Guys hold the door for each other all the time. So I hold the door. heck, one of the women that got upset when I held the door for her, apologized to me eventu…
/r/MensRights11/01/22 12:12 AM
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I say it to myself, when I'm motivating myself to do something nice for my wife that I don't feel like doing. If someone says it to me, it feels different though. My wife does not say that, as she isn't presumptuous. Though she has a similar sort of external happiness saying, Apparently her grandmother said this to her after I proposed. " now always keep his balls empty and belly full. if you aren't a good wife to him, who will?" I would say both sayings are pretty damn "toxic" if taken complete…
/r/MensRights10/12/21 03:41 PM
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My hair started to thin when I was 15. It stopped for a while, and then the rest of the top fell off before I was 23. My uncle went completely bald at 18. Keeping my hair cut short was the only way that I felt comfortable. The idea that someone like me or my uncle would have had to keep old man hair in high school, is terrifying. shaving the sides and the back close were the only way to make the top look good once it thinned more (I'm so lucky it thinned evenly.) Kids get made fun of enough, why…
/r/MensRights08/12/21 04:09 PM
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If you assume someone calling you a nice guy is trying to be rude, you're going to have a rough time. outside of the crazy extremes of some places on the internet, When someone calls you a nice guy, They mean you are reasonably kind and Just like its not likely that more than one of your female co-workers are jealous. Most reasonable people don't go looking for sex at work. The female co-worker might just not fit in amongst her female co-workers, but they might also know more about how she opera…
/r/MensRights11/11/21 04:54 PM
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Based on the stories I've heard from my wife, and some of my previous relationships, Girls start by being nice about it, but by the 10th time it happened they realized being kind about it doesn't do shit. It just makes the Abuser feel like they were able cop a feel and get away with it. My wife learned that lesson at 14 when her female supervisor kept grabbing her inappropriately at her first job at a Wendy's. Its also when she learned that if you punch your supervisor in the face for molesting …
/r/MensRights15/10/21 10:16 PM
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Yeah, but that takes a bit of practise. You need to get used to walking around at night and learn what is and isn't sketchy. Then you'll only feel fear when something is disrupting the patterns you are used to.
/r/MensRights26/11/20 09:18 PM
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Believe me, if it weren't for the pandemic, it probably wouldn't have been necessary. If he was put in a playpen to socialize with someone his own age for even half an hour a week, they would have bitten each other and learned the same lesson, months earlier. But given his custody schedule, (my brother gets two weekday evenings and weekends) and the number of cohorts we're allowed to interact with during the pandemic, its difficult to get him access to the same level of socialization that he wou…
/r/MensRights30/10/20 04:29 PM
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We weren't talking about a 3-4 year old though. 15 months is 1 year and 3 months. If they are socialized with other kids that age, they will figure it out among themselves. But before they can talk, there are limits to what you can communicate to them. I know my nephew bites people. especially when he is teething. Those teeth are sharper than worn down adult teeth and can easily break the skin. He suffered from hydrocephalus for about 5 months before the doctors caught it. He is a little behind …
/r/MensRights30/10/20 04:10 PM
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If you can find a feminist movement that is even willing to acknowledge that men have issues, let alone willing to protest with us on those issues, I will happily call them my ally. The issue is that in most feminist theories that I've read, the root of all problems is the "Patriarchy" which supposedly privileges us above them. Which we both know isn't the whole story. That gender issues negatively impact both men and women. I also have a problem with how the feminist movement generally treats T…
/r/MensRights05/08/20 02:50 AM
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Egalitarianism has always been the ideology of equality. Feminism has always been female centered. I would happily agree even that when it was started Feminism was necessary in order to reach a point of equality. Heck, (and this might be a hot take for this sub) I would even argue that parts of Feminism are still necessary because society still tries to interfere with their bodily autonomy. Which I think is the basis of all other rights. But Feminism has always been about raising the female gend…
/r/MensRights04/08/20 11:07 PM
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I don't know where you live that feminism equals egalitarianism, but if so I want to move there.
/r/MensRights04/08/20 09:11 PM
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and for Reference, "Becky" is the kid in class that reminded the teacher that they didn't assign homework today 2 minutes after the bell rang. They also can be heard in any grade school class telling the teacher things like "Johnny is trying to eat dirt" and "Candice shared her lollipop with Susan." and "Jeff brought a toy to class and is hiding it in his desk". usually in a sing song voice. Some times they are motivated by trying to control other students, and tattle to try and get them to do w…
/r/MensRights17/04/20 07:13 PM
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The term originated a while ago. At the time there was a fad of growing out your neck beard while still shaving your face, generally due to insecurity of not having even beard growth. Because the trend was based on insecurity, many of the people sporting them were the sort to start saying some pretty vile shit after a few beers. I'm sure that most people with them were reasonable people, but all it takes is a couple drunken memories of "that guy" at the party sporting one before the trend got a …
/r/MensRights16/03/20 01:13 PM
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As in, He would go to jail, and she would get off completely Scott free. As in she likely would not have been charged with assault, and would not have even a suspended sentence. She would be marketed as a hero that injured her male 'attacker'. She would be put up as a display of female empowerment and feminists would be claiming her example as a good one to be emulated by girls everywhere. She would have people defending her actions completely. Instead at least she was found guilty of a crime, a…
/r/MensRights07/03/20 06:42 PM
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There are exceptions, that is for sure. But even with those exceptions, the entire mating ritual of humans involves men showing off their ability to provide. Paying for dates, fancy cars, well dressed, buying drinks, having a house, what your job is, etc. is how women judge whether to begin a relationship with a man. Once they get to know the man, some women can love unconditionally. Even if things might be strained day to day when your ability to provide is impacted. The ability to provide is a…
/r/MensRights04/03/20 12:22 AM
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Right? I have to explain to people all the time, that My fiance doesn't work out of the house because she chooses to take care of us instead. Not because I haven't told her that she can have a job, or because I "expect" her to take care of us. She has had jobs since we started living together even. I have no problem keeping up with the house when it was just me. If she worked, I would simply go back to my old cleaning schedule and between the two of us the house would still be in perfect order. …
/r/MensRights09/02/20 06:19 PM
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Sure, But I know for my fiance, it takes 2 hours after she wakes up before the smell of cooking won't make her throw up. I'm not talking slight nausea either like literally throw up what ever remains in her stomach and dry heave for several minutes. It generally isn't a problem for us because I can't eat for the first couple hours or so without getting extremely nauseous. ( I can cook my own food, but she is very possessive of the kitchen, and gets anxious any time I even make a snack for myself…
/r/MensRights09/02/20 05:27 PM
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I don't know about that. I imagine that the only way to get it past the Feminists in the administration would be to refer to it as a Minority Support group. That way they can at least respond with "Quit Being racist" if they start to run into issues from Feminist groups on campus. ​ Remember all men are a minority on campus these days.
/r/MensRights30/01/20 11:55 PM
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The IWF, is a conservative group, that seems to stand up for "women's" issues ignored by the left. Things like the way that the school system is much more willing to help their daughters than their sons. They don't want to be viewed by the same lens that people are beginning to view feminists. Basically, The members of the IWF are definitely our allies in some regards. They feel that the current direction of Feminism are damaging to the cause, because eventually if you swing the pendulum too far…
/r/MensRights28/01/20 08:41 PM
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I've had joint pain since around the time I turned 12, when I asked if I should go to the doctor about it at that time, I was told that my mom had the same pain when she was my age and that it went away on its own when she stopped growing. Now I'm 30 and definitely done growing, and well it never went away for me. One of these days I should probably mention it to a doctor. Most days I don't even recognize that it is there until I lay in bed. On days where the pressure changes significantly, (cle…
/r/MensRights10/09/19 01:21 AM
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Just because they are transient doesn't mean that they can't care for a dog. Humans and Dogs have been together before we invented the concept of homes. They have been a part of our lives since before we discovered farming. All the dog needs is food and love, everything else is window dressing.
/r/MensRights09/09/19 11:45 AM
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My father was born in europe. He was not circumcised and so he thought the idea of cutting the skin off my dick was a little crazy. As such I was never circumcised. When I was a little kid my parents told me that I should make sure to clean my dick. They only ever told me once. Its not like they needed to show me or something. You just pull the skin back and wash your penis. If you pull the skin back to clean it on a regular basis, the skin remains stretchy and is never a problem. I just don't u…
/r/MensRights08/08/19 01:45 AM
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that would be fun and have enjoyed it in previous relationships, but sadly my fiancé is too submissive to feel comfortable penetrating me. She does use the strap-on when we have a girl over to play.
/r/MensRights26/07/19 06:45 PM
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I have been known to have sex while I sleep, I am lucky that it was discovered by an ex that was awake while I was sleeping and was trying to rouse me to have sex at the time. As such my Fiance and I have discussed the situation while awake and we have pre-agreed that if we fall asleep in the same bed, that consent has been given for any sex that might occur while sleeping. If she doesn't want the few percent chance that we will have sex during the night, she can sleep on the couch (which she do…
/r/MensRights26/07/19 06:00 PM
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Any time I notice someone changing something about their appearance, and it doesn't look bad, I make sure that I tell them that they look sharp. Whether that's my co-worker that lost some weight lately, or they guy wearing bright colors for the first time around the office, or someone who just got a haircut. Almost everyone could use another compliment or two and the corresponding ego boost.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 03:16 AM
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That's happened to me before, several times. I've lent my phone to 6 of them. 5 times they literally made a 1 minute call to their friend. 1 time she made a call and only finished it when after 10 minutes I asked for my phone back. It was a long distance call. it cost me $0.60. ​ But I can understand your fear. I never have a nice high end phone so I don't really worry about it.
/r/MensRights23/07/19 03:09 AM
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Its not like she goes out of her way to talk to them. However, it is much easier for her to take the elevator when she isn't shamed by a group of old ladies every day. Trying to remain friendly with your neighbors is easier than dealing with the trouble that hateful neighbors can cause.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 09:03 PM
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We live in the same building. Most of the people in the building are retired. Neighbors can be a pain if they don't like you.
/r/MensRights28/05/19 08:59 PM
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I bought a silver ring with two white sapphires as an engagement ring for my fiance, and it was significantly cheaper than a normal engagement ring. As far as I can tell, it has two purposes: Men notice it, and back off quickly whether I am there or not. I've witnessed it happen multiple times. When I am present, they don't hit on her at all. They look at her hand, and then back at me, and then pivot to face me and talk about sports or something. When I am not there, there are still guys who try…
/r/MensRights28/05/19 06:30 PM
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The leadership is determined by internal party voting. You need to be a member of the party to vote (in the case of the Tories its about 25 quid to join.)
/r/MensRights27/05/19 03:04 AM
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What the user you are replying to was talking about is the fairly well known fact that Child Molesters and rapists are not viewed positively in the criminal and prison community. Generally they need to be kept in protective custody to prevent their death if their crimes become known. Snitches get stitches, Child Molesters get dead. Even Associating with a Child Molester can be cause to be injured to the point of being sent to the hospital. Murderers are generally held in much higher regard by ma…
/r/MensRights22/03/19 01:10 AM
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I'm not the op and don't feel like watching it again to describe all the parts of it that bothered me. But it felt accusatory, and tried to make it seem that men should feel bad because some men are violent against women. Mind you I've been abused by a woman. The problem being that abusive conditions cause the same psychological issues in men that they do in women, making it very hard to leave. Its not like a man gets any sympathy from society if he admits to being abused. Fighting back is not a…
/r/MensRights22/01/19 03:25 AM
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where was this? some places do hold women to the same standard but not all places.
/r/MensRights29/09/16 06:52 PM
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I like how he deleted it. maybe so that he can use this one at a grocery store and get rich 50 cents at a time.
/r/MensRights12/07/15 10:51 PM
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That's why you show your work. Everyone knows gas milage should be measured in m/s2
/r/MensRights12/07/15 10:45 PM
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I haven't had to do any algebra in a long time and I thought he missed that. Thanks for the validation.
/r/MensRights12/07/15 10:41 PM
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To be honest if I were propositioned like that I would probably say something like. Can we grab a coffee first? I don't want to stick it in insanity Wolf or anything.
/r/MensRights23/04/15 03:07 PM
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Would you agree to breast implants for a baby? What about other cosmetic surgery?
/r/MensRights21/04/15 01:54 PM
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What is wrong with you! What happened to make you this way?
/r/MensRights14/04/15 12:46 PM
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Stalemate
/r/MensRights06/03/15 10:26 PM
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You missed a part A truly confident man can accept that a person's past may not define them, but can be honest with his feelings and will walk away if he cannot commit at the level the relationship might require.
/r/MensRights06/03/15 10:23 PM
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When you say that you and your wife have a changed relationship what do you mean? Does she still have doubts?
/r/MensRights24/02/15 11:25 PM
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I have blacked out when drinking twice. I only know what happened during those periods by the stories my friends have told me and the pictures and videos the next day. I was functioning reasonably for a drunk person. I was able to play darts and win money playing pool. We convinced another friend to shave his mustache into a Hitlerstache I was also able to mix drinks for my friends. I remember doing a second double rainbow at about 11pm (two shots of each color of skittles vodka) and then my nex…
/r/MensRights15/02/15 08:00 AM
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Sorry if this comes off the wrong way, but you are shopping for your own clothes. Take charge and wear something that you are comfortable in. You are going to wear it so it better fit. If your wife doesn't like it, that's her problem not yours. Buy clothes you want to wear. Once you take control of it you will find shopping to be much more enjoyable. If it fits you will feel more confident and look much better. Don't compromise. If it doesn't fit don't feel bad. If a dress didn't fit your wife w…
/r/MensRights06/11/14 11:35 PM
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If you read the chart from top to bottom and you exit as soon as your branch ends it makes sense. You only continue reading if there is a connected question. The bottom bit is making a statement about what kind of questions don't matter. ( hence why they say doesn't matter beside them)
/r/MensRights24/10/14 01:37 AM
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I am impressed that only Ann Summer's Name is mentioned in the article.
/r/MensRights16/02/14 12:52 AM
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using a GUI in visual basic
/r/MensRights18/12/13 09:58 PM
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Would you begrudge someone a year or two to get on their feet after being out of the job market for 10 or 15 years? Permanent alimony is disgusting. But ensuring that someone doesn't end up on the street just because life didn't work out the way you planned. My gf and I have spoken about prenuptial agreements and she completely agrees that permanent alimony is wrong. I hope that it will never come to that but the last thing we want is an overly aggressive lawyer figuring that more is better
/r/MensRights11/06/13 05:21 AM
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