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DiscussionRemainderZero/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:24 PM
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Question For WomenRemainderZero/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:16 PM
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DiscussionRemainderZero/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:05 PM
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I am playing. That's my move.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:45 PM
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It's obvious and everywhere and if a scroll through this sub or many others doesn't enlighten you I don't think me explaining it will help. It's like how women find it significant that 100% of rapists are men while knowing women don't have the legal capacity to be charged with that crime unless as an accessory. Of what merit is a statistic that counts 100% of the sole thing it tracks? But it means the world to you people. Like crazy how 100% of the fingers on my own hand were also my fingers as …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:41 PM
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Check out the Gamma Bias
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:29 PM
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Yes, yes they are. Probably white knight simps too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:26 PM
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That's not nearly enough money for what that kind of woman is worth. Break my knees but your getting shot before you take my pinkies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:24 PM
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even by the standards of Yemen. I'm going to throw that on the end of many sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:23 PM
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Yes. Yes it is. It's full on apex predatory in every way. You people have no idea what other animals do to each other. Start with dolphins raping otters and other dolphins.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:17 PM
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Probably no probably about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:15 PM
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Yeah exactly. And not the bear. That's the problem. Excuse me while I'm going to run my hand through this blow torch because that oven burner is hot and I don't want to get burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:14 PM
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And... No other reason could be relevant? If that was the case why did women make up that wage gap bs if that's not violence either?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:11 PM
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COULD A BEAR OVERPOWER YOU!?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:09 PM
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Plus, mother nature is a matriarchy so that's two birds with one bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:08 PM
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It's very interesting to men when and which set of empirical data women want to stand by when it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:07 PM
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So how do you know that bear roars aren't slurs?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:05 PM
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Your general assumptions is what the question is practically begging.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:58 PM
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and she'd simply become another set of hands to help That's a big fat maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:57 PM
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Jezebel before it was taken down, a couple subs here like NHGW or TwoX or AskFeminists or something. The usual places.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:54 PM
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Countless times in my life I've been told that it's better to not show much interest towards a man you like because you will end up scaring him away, since men like "the chase". This is because women never chase as a general rule that's almost 100% true and therefore have no idea how to do it or what goes into it. Men aren't scared to be chased it's just that the women who do are very often pushy beyond belief as if they were entitled while crass and condescending about it all. There's no in-bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:44 PM
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If I asked how's it going and in response you tell me house fires are the main source of elderly drownings it's going to raise the same WTF eyebrows as the bear question is what all the static is about. It's perfectly human to marvel at life threatening stupidity. It's partly why 8 billion humans rub elbows in cities and 200k bears live it the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:38 PM
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Stats are the point when someone says they replaced their airbag with a claymore mine because airbags do more harm than good. Their feeling about air bags is valid, they're still an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:32 PM
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It's a fallacy that the less people there are in a generation to reproduce the less-less people there are to reproduce in the next generation the less-less-less-less people there are to reproduce in the next generation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:14 AM
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In 100 years there will be 4 S. Korean grandchildren for every 100 S. Koreans alive today. In two generations the breeding population will drop 96% and then how many of that 4% will have children? Declining repopulation rates are an exponentially slippery slope to extinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:03 PM
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Ah sheet... muh bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:56 AM
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A more pertinent and prudent topic is how or why the hell women still assign the notion of a spark any merit when look what chasing it consistently results in. It's as meaningful as a guy dating hawt trash because the sight of it gave him a boner. That's what the spark is - a lady boner. And you clowns still follow it off a cliff. I cannot imagine the egotism of holding the belief so securely that you believe any sensation you have must be divine and meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:41 PM
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I do live it when women accidentally say they hate being treated like men. The halo effect is not gender specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:33 PM
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Statistically you're under multiple times greater threat of violence for being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:30 PM
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Yes it can be and was. How dare I not take the bait in chasing the tangent you went on after missing the mark. Now here you like you're tilted I didn't follow you down a wrong turn. "WoMeN aReN't FoOd ThOuGh!" Genius, thank you for your contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:55 PM
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What threads?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:12 AM
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Congrats! Keep at it!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:48 PM
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Are you going to pretend there isn't an other gender equivalent for every one of those points? The feminine version of locker room talk makes me blush.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:46 PM
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Congratulations you've proved the existence of assholes. Should I order a pair of "KILL ALL MEN" shirts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:36 PM
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historically Right. and avoiding the delivery room. Men were also not allowed in the delivery room. Few modern men will even buy menstrual products for their partners Boys. Not that they OWED you a delivery service. post-ejaculation disgust for women. Their what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:08 PM
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Uuuuhhh either the response is "the one guy you know I guess" or "pretty reasonably everybody" with no in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:00 PM
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Unfortunately consent can range from no answer all the way up to enthusiastic dirty talk being reciprocated. It is what it is. In 2023 both can constitute enthusiastic love making or rape and you're just going to have to make your peace with that. LMFAO GO FUCK YOURSELF An once of dignity will FULL STOP that bullshit. Write the rules. If you disagree you are stupid Idgaf about your libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:43 AM
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Decent spitballing. It doesn't account for the sheer volume of complaints in my experience, moreso to consider that's only half. Maybe just a cognitive bias but if guys had that much about one another that often to complain about there would be blood. My last ex would bring anything up including guys, never started any problems over it, the same type of complaints either based on them taking action against her. Sounds like you're in good company, any common thread about this progressiveness betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:19 AM
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Really? Because half or more of the things women want to gnaw their partners ear off about when they want a dude to just listen and not offer solutions is feuding with other women. I'd imagine that's probably the primary source of how guys get that impression of women in the first place. Like, right from the horse's mouth. Any reason why you believe yourself to be or not be in the norm or typical situation with your female same-sex relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:01 AM
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What meme? I'm happy you've had good experiences. Unfortunately, it's easy to find many men who have had only negative experiences exclusively and many many many many more men who have been absolutely shit on too often. Often women's motivation for uniting is to just gang up against men. They don't protect each other at all when they are undermining one another in backstabbing competition. Being incredibly nice on a superficial level is exactly how that game works, women operate under plausible …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:42 PM
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I didn't realize that was anything anyone ever said before. Honestly I borrow the "Maxx" bit from the RP LooksMaxxing phrase. Crazy how I heard about feminine dynamics from a couple of academic researchers with doctorates who were women AND other women giving me IRL second hand accounts while listening to women be amazed how 'it's so crazy how guys just get along with each other' because women expect guys to be stabbing each other in the back when they project they're own feminine culture onto m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:26 PM
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Can you say "moving goal posts" three times fast?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:44 PM
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Radical feminism is a perspective within feminism that calls for a radical re-ordering of society in which male supremacy is eliminated in all social and economic contexts, while recognizing that women's experiences are also affected by other social divisions such as in race, class, and sexual orientation. The ideology and movement emerged in the 1960s.[1][2][3] Radical feminists view society fundamentally as a "patriarchy in which men dominate and oppress women". Radical feminists seek to aboli…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:41 PM
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Do you know what a radfem is? A radical feminist you did not answer my question. No, I didn't mindread the question you didn't ask. Radfems are the extra spicy "crush the patriarchy" types. They've also got some strong feelings about trans people. Because they're often the most insufferable independent of their political beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:33 PM
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A radical feminist, and let me stop you here if this is going towards "those aren't real feminists" after we cross the bridge of theoretical ideology and practical application.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:23 PM
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Possible, yes. You have to be real bad with people not to pick up on which sort you're dealing with in fairly short order considering these two prospective types are on the opposite side of a spectrum, can't deal with toxicity and can't not be toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:58 PM
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I used to think chicks with male friends or only male friends were really just sausage hounds (good for you) or looking to PrivilegeMaxx male favors (shame on you). Then I learned about how savagely cut throat and horrendous female same sex relationships are in super regular everyday life. I no longer disbelieve women who claim to not get along well with other women or want to be around other women. Frankly fellas, you should just take these women at face value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:40 PM
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You're telling me you see no difference between first and fourth wave feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:20 PM
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I'm sure hateful radfems were not detrimental to your own self interests. You are saying you hold apathy for 40% of the population because you associated 1% to the entire group.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:18 PM
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No he isn't. And it's not for being ugly. It's coupled together with ideas like if you're not attractive to women it must be because you're a bad person. Want a date? Don't be a shitty person. Ever heard that? It's influenced my leftist ideas that they are the zenith of correctness so to disagree with the ideas is to be morally abhorrent. That trickles down to dating in liberal areas. If a guy is not attractive then he's not getting attention and if he's not getting attention it must be because …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:15 PM
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You mean the ones that won't happen? Except for that you actually did two flips. The first by not addressing the subject question for explanation. No one is forcing anyone through hoops. And second... Women aren't food. ... that you have opted to be deliberately obtuse unless you are in fear of being cannibalized or are literally an autistic person who can't comprehend the use of metaphors or imagery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:56 PM
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Have no morals and sinking into a gutless, spineless, burdensome puddle doesn't characterize masculine or feminine either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:12 AM
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Instead of just naming the guy you know who let down your Nice Girl ™ entitlement you reach for one of the most unbalanced assholes in public media to stretch an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:55 AM
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-crying and drama over silly things. -her expecting you to be a mind reader. -nothing ever pleases her. -her expecting you to not cry. -Her leaving you when you are at your weakest. -treats you like her dad and wants you to pay for her. -worst of all, all her friends who are like this. Those are NOT feminine qualities. That's fucking baggage of undisciplined and unrefined brats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:52 AM
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No. Feeling peckish for dinner is not the same as starvation so I double down on my original assessment. On top of that I tried to steer you away from the idea that this had anything to do with sex whatsoever at its core and your immediate response is to reflexively go in that exact misdirection about sex. You are confidently mistaken in a position of privilege of not being cut down for being inaccurate let alone flat out wrong. You don't need to understand so you just make up what suits you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:16 AM
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Haven’t we all lol. No. Most people have not had sleep for dinner more nights than not. Most people haven't entered the state of ketosis. Most people haven't experienced organ failure. Most people have not been hungry. What's the hungriest you've ever been because your response signals you're opinionated about things you don't grasp the breadth of. You probably think incels are mad about sex too, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:06 AM
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You ever been hungry before?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:56 AM
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The thesis of this thread is that average men feel like average women are not good enough for them and will leave the relationship because she is average even though he is too. I'm not adding my biases I'm just on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:45 PM
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On the basis that an average man must be 'too entitled' to want to stay with an average women. The links didn't ever define the relations as such. Is your point that there isn't much in a relationship for any guy with any woman generally?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:30 PM
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In no way do those articles you linked support the point you just made in junction with who and what I was replying to. The first link says the majority of men are dissatisfied with the frequency of sex in their relationships and the second link says guys find bromances more fulfilling than their intimate partners... ... connect those dots for us. How do those points confirm average men are not satisfied with average women on any basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:11 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:01 PM
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Average men are absolutely not satisfied with the average woman. Many give up and end up with them but they arent truly satisfied with them. Its the reason so many married men dont value their wives and take them for granted over time. ah- ah - aaaaahhh... BULLSHIT! Excuse me. Anyways I hope you find that to be a comfort and relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:21 PM
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Put on shoes, tie them, stomp in shit. Find poop.
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 05:57 PM
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I learned that women construct their opinions and worldviews based on double standards like the alphabet is constructed of letters. Women around here are so fluent in hypocritical mental gymnastics when they speak on their views it's like how nobody says each individual letter when they read, they just string them together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:03 PM
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I never said she wasn’t to blame. Weird that you think a woman who is a serial cheater is the biggest example rn of men going to cheat. Like real weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:12 PM
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Nope, just in general. No need to apologize for sex just having the capacity to apologize for 'to err is to be human' mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:38 AM
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Nope, just in general. No need to apologize for sex just having the capacity to apologize for 'to err is to be human' mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:37 AM
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Say that again but slower.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:51 PM
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You know it sounds like a decent replacement for one of these third places.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:00 PM
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Well that seems like a pretty good rule. Never heard of it but seems like a good balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:03 PM
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How long ago did you grow up because that sounds like old news. Sounds like a PoS though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:34 PM
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Oh yeah it definitely happens when and where it does. It even goes smoothly when nobody loses their job over genuinely harmless behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:23 PM
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They are literally doing the same thing Oh bless your heart child lol Every woman off the market is a man off the market. That's a highly debatable point. Not just coving poly but also how women take themselves off the market for the sake of hysteria or lack of chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:21 PM
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Eehhhh, I'd call it a very deep and broad problem which dating - more accurately companionship - is at the core of. Don't beat a man down his whole life and it doesn't matter if he has shit for options, he'll find or make a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:02 PM
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It sounds like your perspective comes from the female experience. Edit: Today there are about 40 men for every 60 women on many college campuses. https://slate.com/human-interest/2022/10/sex-ratio-college-campuses-hookup-culture-friends-with-benefits.html#:~:text=Today%20there%20are%20about%2040,women%20on%20many%20college%20campuses. 20% split is nothing to scoff at
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:49 PM
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Every woman meeting a man is a man meeting a woman 80/20. Depends which men. these spaces are usually well mixed. Those are the ones people show up in groups. I'm not saying it's impossible but let's not act like dating is the same task for men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:48 PM
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https://www.americansurveycenter.org/why-mens-social-circles-are-shrinking/ Yeah, are you not paying attention? Even if a guy has a big family it's not like anyone in his family checks up on him or helps the guy out. Maybe his brothers sometimes much like his friends they're probably in the same circles which isn't much help.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:16 PM
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Work is an HR gauntlet, university is mostly for people who's parents could afford it and where men are leaving or dropping out like flies, volunteering falls under the "she's not there for you" policy, clubs are for people who had a group to show up with, activities falls under the same category as 'volunteering'. Like you said this is a great place for women to meet men, not really for men to meet women. If the culture was sustainable then the place would be irrelevant. It doesn't matter where…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:01 PM
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Very few and less than ever friends and mostly other males.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:52 PM
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Yeah, you imagining or interpreting my meaning as some kind of offense or retaliation is entirely on your head. Just stop being preemptively butthurt and you'll notice there's much less drama surrounding you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:15 AM
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What are you like 12 or just have the mentality of one? It's a discussion, your responses are riding solely on you feeling self assured. You were a bully in school weren't you? Are you still in school? Be nice to those other kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:05 AM
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Do people go out of their way to avoid women and shield children from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:02 AM
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It wasn't a deflection or a blame and two wrongs are usually just the beginning. You're just hypersensitive. Previous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:59 AM
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they make their theories and run off with it. Well that is exactly how feminine dominated subs look to men also. That part is universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:34 AM
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or any other female dominated sub But seriously that xx sub is like a mutual masterbation orgy with chainsaws.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 11:28 PM
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Authentic question: what point do women think this questions at?
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 06:00 PM
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While that notion is not inherently disagreeable that is at least not a stretch and a leap. At least the topic of sex was brought up before they dropped the rape bomb lol
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 05:22 PM
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Yep. There is a cognitive blind spot assuming that male theory of mind translates to women and visa versa. A fundamental operational difference between the genders is that women believe they have men figured out while men know neither gender gets the other. One woman suggests something she expects it to be confirmed by the other peers of her social circle even if she's part or half wrong or flat out at fault. Hence the difference between male and female venting conversation styles ie women want …
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 05:13 PM
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I had a few of the same experiences on that sub. Suggesting a new social etiquette in place so guys can navigate public spaces and everyone gets what they want is treated like suggesting women are distributed to men. Not kidding and there is no point between to bridge the gap between those two ideas.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 05:05 PM
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Within closed female groups Reddit is pretty much the norm. Maybe not to the degree of 2X but all the same processes are in place online or IRL
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 04:58 PM
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Fair point but part of the reason you say that is because it amplifies what the norm is while you're looking for something more baseline. Is that fair to say?
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 04:30 PM
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If you visit XXchrom sub or any other female dominated sub you can easily see just how far off the mark women's understanding of men is. More than consistent, reliably so. They just make something up about preconceived notions that sounds like it might be an explanation and every other woman around chimes into the echo chamber of toxic positivity. Hysteria is the short answer.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 04:24 PM
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Are even a human? Guys is this a bot? Did you get bot chat to write this? How you possibly have such a shallow, backwards and hypocritical shit hot take that misses the mark so far off the human experience? Do you really lack THAT much empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 04:05 PM
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No one is forcing anyone through hoops. Oh I'd live to see the mental gymnastics flips on this point. Women don't face risk for approaching. Are you arguing my point, your point or is this a typo? And here's a thought men shouldn't center their lives around women. Agreed but unfortunately any staving animal centers it's attention on food. You say that from a "let them eat cake" position.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:58 PM
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Oh I see so you've just blatantly continued on as if this were your monologue. Gotcha. Pretty loose rephrase but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:59 AM
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You seem to be under the impression that you have been articulating any points that can be understood or related after your original. Again? Where was this first covered?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:41 AM
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Yeah, and they all knew each other before they came in and came in together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:36 AM
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Simple, sure. But how is that even relevant? Especially given it applies both ways. That seems like such an arbitrary thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:45 PM
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And what is "this" specifically? How does "this" relate to the survivor bias dynamic you so eloquently affirmed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:47 PM
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Come on don't sell yourself short. You must be brimming with notation about this "yeah, no shit" dynamic as a subject matter. Something about how it formed? Maybe if you words about where you see it going? You might even have an idea about the strings within the market's grass to pull on an individualistic or cultural level?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:37 PM
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So in what way is it a "yeah, no shit" matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:30 PM
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Sounds like you could very clearly articulate some extrapolations from that then...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:28 PM
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Correction, many of the men who get laid get laid by lying. Possible that the ones who manipulate or manipulate well enough don't get laid. A bit of the survivor bias there possibly where one only sees the results of the successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:22 PM
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How do you correlate being the one forced to jumps through hoops being in the position power? Especially when men cannot wait for anything to come their way because it never will while inversely nothing stops women from approaching yet they still don't despite the lower effort and risk it would take on women's part to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:59 PM
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I think they have as much value as female virgins, depending on the context What's an example of some relevant context? but it’s amazing to know that your partner values sex as something special as much as you do. That's probably an inaccuracy to assume as much. Men don't get female attention so there is no action of preservation at play. You don't have to lock up something nobody wants. Generally speaking men need to make a concentrated effort to not be a virgin while women need to make a conce…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:34 PM
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The primary resource most men cry over is getting access to another person's body. That is a grotesque deflation of the actual issue that lends zero good faith to the humanity of men. Men are treated like born-guilty-penis-having monsters whom women and children need be shielded from. Fulfillment and self actualization is how a person overcomes shame. What a shit and shallow hot take you've got. I know women who've never been raped so it must never happen. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:27 PM
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I wasn't addressing the feminist. Anyways I was thinking about India too when I said it's a mixed bag. Not all populations in decline doesn't disprove there are no populations in decline. Some African and middle eastern countries are booming and some western and eastern countries are busting. If you know that example is a cherry that could be picked why express the contradictory stance there are no cherries? By the way what circle are you trying to square with that flair misogynistic/feminist bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:20 PM
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Not with a bang but a whimper.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:40 PM
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True on that. Men entering the field would do little. Guys don't need to reframe their feelings they need to have options. Therapy might help one recognize the options somebody is denying themselves but that's about it. Men are limping along so more resources tipped back would be helpful only if the resources are. I think men need new cultural etiquette in place as a social norm that they can act on and do all the masculine things that women and men want men to do. I see the turning point being …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:19 PM
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Given how women aren't looking for good partners ( doing their own searching and initiating to a fractional degree men are required to and therefore set the standard of 'actually trying' ) it's foolish to think there are none of something you can't find because you're not looking. Not you-you, just the phrasing. Generally speaking women just let men come to them so they have no control over who it is they encounter. They also neglect that the only guy who is approaching women are the one's who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:10 PM
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Hey eat shit misogynist feminist. But anyways you'll find it's a mixed bag where many places are in fact experiencing a decline unless you're claiming this is a conspiracy? I work with Koreans, they seem to believe their population is in decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:03 PM
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The therapy system is largely female dominated and the practices in play are largely female centric. Counseling alone would do very little on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:55 PM
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That theory doesn't account for preexisting biologically ingrained sex drive and it doesn't explain why guys are so touch staved nevermind the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:53 PM
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The existence of western society pretty much disproves that statement outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:51 PM
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A lot of these guys didn't know their fathers and grandfathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:49 PM
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Backtracking? No I've been consistent from the get go. This isn't even the first time I corrected your wanton bad faith assumption. If you really thought I was backtracking why did you wait until the second time reaffirmed myself? I can't wait for you to start up the mental gymnastics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:27 AM
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Saying that free market would mean you should be able to use your strenght to take what you want in a romantic context is reffering to rape. Or - and here me out here - it could also refer to not rape like a social context. It could actually refer to a number of things that aren't rape. I don't think anybody believes the next step towards equality are new "free use" laws. Take deep breaths, it's going to be okay. It seems to be on the mens mind here I suppose. The irony in giving me an aneurysm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:09 AM
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And? Who cares about the vibes of comment section online? They're online complaining about being shit on IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:56 AM
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Wooooooooooooooooow. Mental. Free reign, huh? No laws when you drink white claws. Flawless creatures that you all are. Simply conjure reality as you see fit, darling. Where does rape keep coming from on these forums? Why is this always the response? Who said anything about rape besides you? Do you truly believe the guys around you are only sexually restraining themselves? Peel your mind off whatever track it's pancaked to. I was referring to clarifying and normalizing social etiquette to somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:52 AM
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I would disagree that social media is women’s domain. I didn't mean that it was. I meant women are more social, socially inclined, and socially adaptive. But now that you mention I would disagree on that point with you that for those reasons social media is also women's domain but admittedly less drastically. Even in the sub all of the top posts are men complain or criticize women. Well that's pretty much what happens when communication breaks down because of disingenuous tactics. No one is forc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:23 AM
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No, separate ideas. The rape bit more specific to the reflexive knee jerk response on the sub any time it's suggested women have gained much from western society in recent generations and haven't reciprocated anything for it. The male party will basically claim that the elevated status of women at cost to men coupled with women's tendencies for hypergamy has painted everyone in a corner - their own corner. Men say because it's women that received the boon and men who were burdened and especially…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:45 AM
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Common in the wild of IRL? Probably not to the same degree of frequency or intensity but woke media is basically drenched in the same energy. Common for the people who waltzed into PPD willingly? finger guns You betcha! That's a large part of the frustration on this sub. It's a giant cultural screening tactic to hold the line on certain ideas about gender relations that the status quo revolves around. Unfortunately those ideas are... inconsistent... to say the least which is a subplot of its own…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:12 AM
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Caring about people's preferences is blackpill matters. Red, blue, and therefore purple pill understand people like what they like. Red and blue pills are both acknowledgments of women's standards and a critique of men's behavior to adapt in constructive ways but separate ideologies. What black and purple pill share is understanding that as far as women's stated preferences goes in practical application everything women say is basically bullshit and this with their own respective ideologies too.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:54 AM
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If
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:28 AM
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A hobo sexual with a gold digger who doesn't put in the effort to dig.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:11 AM
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You only want to believe it was accurate to validate you're belief any criticism of women comes from a place of hate. If it's so accurate then articulate how I said anything about rape - even insinuated it at all. You can't. You can't describe the process of that commenter not bothering to burn a single brain calorie and you jumping on board on sight in the same motion. Her comment was a low effort guilt trip nobody asked for and wasn't even relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:20 AM
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Well that's as shitty a reframe as it is arbitrary. I got my hole punch, where's your victimhood card?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:02 AM
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Don't live in Afghanistan? And how is it women do restrain themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 11:58 PM
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BINGO. Men restrain themselves and women do not. Women ASKED for power and reciprocated nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 07:50 PM
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And how long do you want to hold gam-gam's grudge for against people who never participated in a culture already dead? Is it true in current reality that you get out of bed into?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:55 PM
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I see one guy walk past my work everyday in a crop top already. Same guy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:46 PM
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That's being a bit too literal don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:22 AM
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hence why women end up in DV situations Like... objectively in no bullshit real shit reality that is a more accurate than not statement to elude to quantifiable factors. Practically applied however it hits a brick wall in that DV is never acceptable first and foremost as an axiom for both victim and perpetrator. DV from any pill stance is universally abhorred, extremely inclusive for western culture too. There is nothing that morally justifies being an abuser so in DV the abuser is always at fau…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:21 AM
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Well it's definitely not a struggle some Amazonian would face.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:09 AM
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I don't doubt any of that. Doesn't mean it's not an overkill safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:50 AM
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I've never sported spandex except for on the mats so I can't attest to the functionality. I do have a few manpurses I'll rock just to leave my pockets empty though. Talk about decadence, amiright?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:49 AM
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I could easily see that being the case. Sweaty are the pants that hold the pockets...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:27 AM
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And the vast majority of women, especially at work, DO dress in a way that might be considered fashionable but not "hooch." ... Exactly. that random gym chick probably doesn't want to fuck. She's working out and keeping cool or whatever. The 7 out of 10 chicks who came to the gym and makeup and hoop earrings sporting a spandex onesie open back and low cut for the breasts and ass crack on the shoulder press machine I want use just so they can sit and dangle their legs? Yes, real cool or whatever.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:09 AM
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Until women's testosterone level match men's while guys walk around in spandex leggings featuring 'cock-pockets' up front, no that is not a fair deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:53 AM
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to look energetic, lively, and hip in business functions to project room for growth. All that can be done without deliberately dressing like a hooch. if a woman is wearing short shorts in 110 degrees, she doesn't want to fuck you, she wants to beat the heat. Nothing wrong with this but obviously all the men not in booty shorts during the same 110 degree day can attest the ass cheeks hanging are also not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 01:49 AM
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Negative on that point, society is more unfair to men because nature is more unfair to women. The resentment comes from men picking up the slack of nature with society and women not returning the favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 09:31 PM
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My point is that men often focus on wether or not a woman is attractive and everything else... fall to the wayside Again, while that might happen 'too often' I don't think even as a general statement that to be true. I'd wager this is one of those deeply rooted misconceptions women have about men because of the assumption cross gender theory of mind applies to the decision-making process of either gender. One of the biggest operational differences between men and women is that women believe they…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 07:39 PM
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lol you are filling yourself into the very same role as I said Icy would and did. Cute attempt at prodding. Where was this idea of 'despite men's entitlement' before being interjected covertly by Icy and overtly - though passive aggressively - by yourself just now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:37 PM
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I don't know how you are relating those two quotes because my point was it is an inaccuracy to label this notion as a problem at all... Which was the thesis of the very first thing I said in response to Icy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:27 PM
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I can personally contest that looks alone is far from the only concern but it is a biologically engrained one. My point is that men don’t care because looks is their main concern but don’t plan for what it means to divorce the dependent they sought out. Would you please say more about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:22 PM
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A better question is why are you asking me my own question?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:18 PM
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Women are very tuned into power dynamics in general, no less so with their partners. I think we can all agree on that. Men generally have never cared how much women make when considering a partner. That's something most men will confirm, we just want someone who is willing to be nice to us. When women out earn their male counterparts that grace of kindness goes right out the window and gets run over by a parade of 18 wheelers. I've noticed through my life in second hand experiences that the deme…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:06 PM
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It's not one sided. Men feel often emasculated because their partners get bitter about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:31 PM
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P.S. reframing an insinuated meaning doesn't belong in quotation marks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:29 PM
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No thank you, really. You've done us all a great service. Pulled the wool from our eyes. Fortunately ignorance is objectively a beacon as it is subjectively a blindfold.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:13 PM
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Ladies and gentlemen for your consideration I would like to present the greatest example you'll ever see that the only difference between a comedy and tragedy is a speck of comprehension that allows for self-awareness. Thank you and God bless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:07 PM
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How is it you perceived that sentence as problematic? That is the exact opposite of a problem. That is an allowance, that is a compromise, that is wiggle room, that is the shit that turns the wheels. What reply can you give to articulate the problem you insinuate without resorting to a personal attack or sarcastic deflection which isn't an extrapolated "not my problem" for the sake of saying so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:42 PM
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You sound like someone with solutions to problems you'll never have. Real "let them eat cake" vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:08 PM
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A bit stiff but alright. That was the joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:25 PM
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I agree with everything but point number four. The best qualities of women are not physical but to say so I am admittedly being idealistic and not modern or practical. Maybe more fair to say the best qualities of a woman have become physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:23 PM
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Not without being pressed into it. Though let's be the bigger men and acknowledge that there are people out there who happen to be women and are the opposite of solely self interested. I always have the exceptions in mind but I feel I would contribute more to articulate that and not also chastise women who share and promote grace. Men who punish good traits and women who throw the baby out with the bath water deserve each other and only sink lower together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:48 AM
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Well men are the ones making sacrifices so on the easy come easy go principle I'd say they love more intensely as they are more invested with greater repercussions if it fails. For all the EQ of woman they can't figure out something as simple and straight forward as men. For all the feminine intuition of women they all date the same jackasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:15 AM
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Yes women always ask do you want a cookie for not being a piece of shit while neglecting they get their cookie while acting like a piece of shit any time they want. Kindly virtue signal elsewhere like Afghanistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:52 AM
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OUR thoughts exactly, comrade. I've been mulling over pretty much exactly what you said the last two or three days. There is a void of etiquette to bridge the gap between genders to stop people from incorrectly imprinting their own bias blind spots onto their counterparts. Where we differ though is that I do believe it is now on women who have the pendulum of power swinging in their direction to take the lead. Especially seen as the exterior threats men of the west would face are largely held at…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:48 AM
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I'm always eager to learn, I'd appreciate your efforts into continuing this conversation. We can take it bit by bit too, I realize that response was pretty long winded. Thank you for openly acknowledging the ethics of that situation, my feelings are reflected on the inverse scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:37 PM
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Well romance novels are a fairly niche form of media with a genre of recent overhauled tone. You are generally referring to media one has to seek out, I was referring to media that sets the default tone in the mainstream. I'd call that an example of arguing the exceptions in the face of the rule. I'm sure that type of material is out there in plenty on both sides all the same. That said I have no intention of having any point taken as an absolute. My lack of relationship success can be referred …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:20 PM
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Well it's nice to hear that you have a healthy relationship, I appreciate you sharing. Having a personal culture about your friends and family I could see, not sure what media you are referring to though. I feel like men get the backhand of women's compliment in every other headline. There's also the gamma bias thing. I do think that you are arguing the exception in the face of the rule concerning many women vs most women. The disconnect is this: I can reference this relational dynamic to other …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:10 PM
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It sounds like you're two lovely people with a great thing going. I rooting for you guys. Well, reciprocated efforts to overtly assure your partner that you care for them in whatever love language gets the message across is pretty romantic. Trust, the relief and vulnerability that comes with it, is also pretty romantic. Being more together than the sum of parts apart seems pretty romantic. Holding curiosity of your partner while two people grow together and keeping one's self always evolving to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:35 AM
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Yeah, but now you feel like one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:13 PM
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I don't like when men have weird expectations of me before they meet, like I have to be "confident." Why do I have to be "confident?" Are you going to bully me? I don't want to be 'confident' all the time. I have high emotional needs and a need a partner understanding of that The printer is warmed up I just need an address to mail your man card out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:06 PM
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Oh, beating women off with vibrator sticks? Yeah, I'd buy some stocks pronto.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:56 PM
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Romance is something women think just happens to them. It's like looking at the Taj Mahal and thinking "Wow, what a very nice rock formation!"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:19 PM
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It's not that they have the hole. It's that they DON'T have the drive. Start handing out shots of testosterone to women and men will start beating them off with sticks. They have the power because they're chased and prefer not to run.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:16 PM
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You're almost certainly wrong, I'm just trying to figure out how. LMAO please be satire. Please be satire. Please be satire...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:18 AM
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That's a fair assessment. I'm not going to write you an essay following a pair of couple word responses. Why were you expecting otherwise? Do you know what a summary is? What is used for? Log off for a bit, okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:46 PM
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Something like pointing western society is actually very nice for women. Maybe even better to women than men given examples of all the female specific government ministries and policies. The vast majority of women attempting to be men would crash and burn doing the things men are often criticized for 'not being good at' which generally breaks down to men aren't mind readers or women are very bad at articulating their desires. Women don't deserve half the concern they receive based on the lack of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:39 PM
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First off however the orgasm gap is proof that most men suck in bed No it isn't. Women can't even climax with a vibrator and 10,000 nerve endings in a clit during masturbating as fast as a man can with his hand. It's a biological difference, you are off your rocker to make this leap and probably starfishing in bed. and even after trying to communicate their wants and desires with their intimate partner There is a reason women have the reputation of expecting men to be mind readers like they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:05 PM
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Anything women would find unflattering or unfavorable about themselves or the situations they create that can't really be phrased in a back-handed compliment kind of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 09:40 PM
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If you pump criticism into a collective of people you actively double cross while culturally gaslighting you can expect them to have a few mean thoughts directed your way any chance they get. If I call you Fuckface McGee for 8 years and swear to God your born evil then I'm not expecting a Christmas card.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:32 AM
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it's best for every man to get and maintain their shit before shit really hits the fan. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:58 PM
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Well it is our country and these are our people right here with us already is a good reason on a fundamental level if we're just reaching for any direction further from idle. I got the intuition you were about to say something along the lines of the decline in general good will between men and women and everything that eludes to. Personally I don't see anything wrong with that idea[Passport Bro-ing?] in the case of a critical breakdown in relations but we're not there yet. Seems like planning fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:33 PM
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Remember fellas, if the ladies don't find you handsome they should at least find you handy. Keep your stick on the ice, I'm pulling for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:50 PM
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I'm not surprised to hear it, half of your reasoning was basically "trust me I'm self assured". What points do you believe yourself to be a superior human?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:21 PM
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How else are diamonds made? We'd have a lot more if the chicks didn't run away nearing uncomfortable realities.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:25 AM
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Paradoxically, hard to get good advice from anyone who wants to offer it like a dating sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:23 AM
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Correct. I'm here to scream into the void, kinda as a thought experiment, kinda for just having a pet peev for hypocrisy on easy targets. However, I'm honest. I'll concede to any well founded point because it's not about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:21 AM
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WELL IM ABOUT AS DUMB AS A SHEEEeEeED!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:18 AM
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No it ain't. I quoted everything I responded to also on a phone. Long press the text until highlighted, tap "QUOTE" on the pop-up, two step process even easier than copying. Going through that scroll ride your points have all the same merit as me presenting the case I'm superior human because I can throw further than you. Arbitrary as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:16 AM
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... were you making responses to specific comments without referencing them? Your reply reads like Joe Biden going through his speeches of political rhetoric of canned phrases while having a stroke to an audience of floral wallpaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:50 AM
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I feel you bro. The women of this sub react "generally negative" when I insinuate their own standards back on them. They probably think I'm the paragon basement dwelling neck-beard but in reality all my GFs have at some point individually verbatim thanked me for being so "classy" that it was weight off their shoulders. My advice is that you just frame this feminine culture as an avatar of women and accept the kind of person that avatar is. You can't change her, don't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:23 AM
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I'm doing my part!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:04 PM
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much better described as luring Yeah, so basically doing nothing but playing defensively on your back foot waiting for other people to make every move in the dark. I don't think most women are sitting on their hands wishing a hot guy they like would talk to them lol see: "luring". were easily able to lay out how we'd approach a man we were interested in and initiate an interaction. Please link because I bet the comments are full of men pointing out nonsense contradictions from each woman and ref…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:13 PM
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I assume you mean entirely based on looks but it sounds like you want to hear how men extrapolate from there. I'd go for D if I had to pick one but honestly I wouldn't want to date any of them. A and B both look like they ask for much and reciprocate little. C is not my type. D looks I suppose like she might at least contribute effort to her own entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:39 PM
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Funny how ignorance is subjectively a blind fold while objectively a beacon.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:06 PM
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Yes, it was satire. You got me. Point was every 4+ woman chasing only 10 men is not going "fine". That was also satire.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:06 PM
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doesn’t allow us to learn the words we need to need to express that void. That's not true, you can open a dictionary, you just can't use that word around a woman. I know I'm supposed to say some women but I'm waiting to be convinced of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:57 PM
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And yet I was able to describe how that can happen. Thank you for confirming. So like I said that's rough, but that's one guy who was in an atypical situation. What's that bit women keep saying about not being a homogeneous mass of consciousness? It's no different for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:59 PM
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It really is a startling trend though. I've not even been on this hub that long, one or two weeks. Already the amount of times that I have worked past some woman's deflections, prodding for criticism to be dismissed, sudden and spontaneous confusion about the topic at hand just to finally pin them down on answering a simple and direct question see them immediately leave the conversation instead of answer because the truth would be uncomfortable and unflattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:53 PM
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So is that a yes or no you directly assured him? Not trying to bust your bal... ovaries. Not really "how else" because 99.999% of women think shooting their shot means existing in the same space as a man who they believe to be a mind reader acting like a "pick me" chick who never risks their egos whatsoever to to declare any intentions in an age when men have been utterly and emphatically assured any sense of warmth, courtesy, or kindness from a woman does NOT equate to her wanting any sort of r…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:47 PM
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... and... the other question...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:13 PM
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That's fucked, no doubt about. Two questions to put us on the same page going forward... Was he also in his 20s? Did you make your feelings directly articulated or manifested in a romantic fashion?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:10 PM
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I flat out disagree. If a woman reciprocated any effort or let alone took any real initiative she would immediately put herself on my priority list if I were attracted to her at all. I'm objectively a 7 and I would wife the fuck out of a 5 without regrets. Women feel like they don't get a return on their efforts because they aim as high as they possibly can and so that effort apexes before hitting the mark. Besides if they're bothered that putting so much work isn't appreciated then they'd reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:42 PM
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Don't say that, it's uncomfortable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:34 PM
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It's not about the 2 women you pointed out, it's not about your friend group, it's not about dating - it's about the vast majority of women, the culture of women. That's what the "in either case" referred to - all of you generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:47 PM
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Exactly, JUST their their boyfriends in either good or bad case ie women's concern only goes as far as the guy doing her favors and other women, children, pets, farm animals, and house plants. Women would still be in 1950 if men were like women in this way, we'd all be living in 3050 if women were like men in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:23 PM
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BINGO! Hit the wrong nail on the head. But I know maybe like 2 women total who do absolutely nothing for THEIR men. This pretty well highlights the problematic mind frame. If men shared this sentiment then the western world would look the the eastern. Again, again, again this is not about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:56 PM
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The only way they end up dependent is if we go back to old ways when women had limited access to things. That's not an accurate statement but the ending up independent and desperate is also in the cards. why some women not caring that a man is sad/alone stops him from dating. Is it some? Seems more like a cultural thing. Just a wide spread ambient apathy for any kind of male struggle that doesn't stop a woman from getting hers. Apathy for men in general. Do you want empathy or pity? Uhhhh, empat…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:37 PM
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I disagree with the framing. No one's rights are being removed. Just because women don't care if men end up "sad and alone" doesn't mean they're not allowed try to date, that's just a byproduct of self-interest. Likewise, women might end up "depended and desperate" but no one is forcing them to be that way, they could still try to compete. All rights remain intact, it's just the same level of empathy and self-interest is reflected back. Furthermore, this is much broader than just dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:26 PM
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That reply was completely irrelevant. I've done these posts before, I figure you're probably hopping between 20 other conversations but, uh, that was nothing to which I referred unless maybe applied EXTREMELY narrowly and a pretty weak argument at that. I've seen the tinder experiment of total babes hitting up a convicted pedophile catfish Chad soon to be reincarnated for domestic abuse. Men might tolerate some extra crazy if she's hot but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:01 AM
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he double standards, inconsistent standards, or women straight up lying about what they want in a man Really? You think this is fine? Noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:36 AM
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This is the dumbest, most out of touch advice I've ever heard about anything. Have you ever had a job in your life before or do you just get by on the handouts?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:28 AM
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Riiiiight. That's why you're here to make the post. Because y'all are having such a great time with all the non-asshole himbos to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:42 AM
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And how's that going, champ?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:07 AM
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Schools don’t have gender quotas A review of more than 200 American colleges and universities reveals that they favor women over men by a wide margin in sex-specific scholarships. Arizona has more scholarships for women than 36 states combined have for men. The most stark disparities are found at the University of Phoenix (106 female scholarships to 2 male), Auburn University (67 to 1) and Oregon State (51 to 5) companies can’t discriminate by sex when hiring There are now twice as many women fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:25 PM
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Press X to DOUBT. What in the twisted statements of selective thinking is this? I don't work in an office actually and if you didn't either you'd how little merit that line of thought you just shared holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:06 PM
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You're comparing men and women dying in the work place!? Oh boy you'd hate to be a man. Besides if you find that so objectable where is your outrage for the current status quo?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:40 PM
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I cannot take these incorrectly presumptuous opinions of yours seriously after you just displayed yourself to be too dense, disingenuous, delusional, or dismissive that you would ignore the clear list of examples on the topic that was just requested, referenced to, and promptly provided just to play stupid with you. Are you fucking kidding me? I'd be having an aneurysm if I was not expecting this behavior. Soy free.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:22 PM
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So you’re just afraid that you have to work harder since the work pool is twice as large because of women No, where did you draw that conclusion from? It’s funny that men hate that women have rights... Oh boy, you live in that headspace? Checked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:14 PM
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Sure, depends where you are but basically imagine your gov. not creating in extra laws or scholarships or services or priorities just for women and that men don't adhere to a "don't hit women" while being actively attacked by one - hands off otherwise though. For everything a woman wants she'll have to actively out compete a man for if he also wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:12 PM
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I work in the security industry. Kinda wear a lot of hats. I suggest we put our phones down and log off social media forever. But I think you can get guys more motivated to quit porn then you can get women motivated to stop trying to cut each other down on IG. Maybe after that we can read a few books, learn something that doesn't confirm our biases, get back to tar and feathering corrupt politicians, re-established communal hangouts, engage in community projects, create laws against disinformati…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:08 AM
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... I guessed about the wall correctly. I was having this conversation recently about femininity doesn't fade with age even if the looks might. A boy is not more masculine nor more masculinely enable than a man, I said neither are young women more feminine nor femininely enable even if their youth fades. Both grow with effort and experience. Personally I've never experienced the warmth of a woman in association with her youthful beauty - they're separate. I visit this cafe, the owner is a frumpy…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:01 AM
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Solid points. Shiiiiiit, Gen z boys ain't much different than the girls anyhow. I could see p4p causing a huge flock towards conservatism. I guess we'll see in the meanwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:17 AM
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Yeah, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:48 AM
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I'm just living my life could easily be said by someone who would also say Fuck you, got mine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:14 AM
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Entirely different schools of thought
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:14 AM
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I've always said men and women are the same damn animals, just with different means in different circumstances. You make good points about those power plays and axioms of merits. It's a misattributed quote to Abraham Lincoln but it goes "Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s character, give him power." I'm sure it works the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:12 AM
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Humans are the least compatible to other animals. You're "therefore" statement makes no sense, bud. There no causality between those two thoughts besides your bluepill bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:44 PM
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I'm suggesting the cultures women prefer the most exist because men have used their biological strengths to not just shoulder their biological burdens but also the majority of societal burdens in self imposed duty while getting "tough shit" about it while women think they're owed the world because their gender is involuntarily burdened whatsoever. I'm talking about a near decade long rash of shit for men about 'toxic masculinity' and 'male fragility' by no other than women of all people who's ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:09 PM
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More about societal roles and contributions than dating? What's the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:51 PM
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Grind the grain, make the bread, but never host at home lol. I have always been skeptical of that overseas stuff but I've noticed it's only getting more popular for men. I mean I see good sense in taking good pages from feminine culture's play book, worry about yourself is one such. I do wonder about the bias on info about how genders are doing just to tend to the country I live in. Far more women in universities though degrees are becoming debt scams - if women are the ones paying for it. There…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:43 PM
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But it's possible to play nice on a seesaw just like it is to hop off and dump your partner on their ass. You don't believe any equilibrium is possible? No balancing point?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:23 PM
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True but you know the ones I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:11 PM
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What are the hot topics on both sides?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 10:00 PM
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Well articulated long and short of it. Curious to know if you foresee any societal aspect facing an impending collapse relative to the way gender dynamics are going? Some people worry about a population bust. I worry about the thousands and thousands of violent vandals the US is missing based on its projection of young disenfranchised male no-lifers held at bay by the assumption of porn, drugs, and video games occupation. Like, I worry for women's sakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:58 PM
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Any insight into what each sides general gripe sounds like? Same as everywhere else? I also had India in mind, same there? I DOUBT middle eastern women openly speak out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:45 PM
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How can you give credit to in the second most dangerous childbirths while trying to discredit And a lot of those men who "paid in blood" didn't even want to. on the basis of being involuntary. Pick one or the other. And if you're game we can likewise roll men's sacrifices to every conflict in the history of the species. plenty of female suffragettes died How many specifically? More or less than tens of thousands? Because this quick search of "female suffragettes casualties" pulled up the followi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:42 PM
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not sure men can take all the credit for building society. Certainly not. would be pretty complex to try and figure out whose role contributed what, Disagree, gender roles were very established historically speaking who did so willingly or without choice in the matter. Irrelevant so long as it was done I'm not sure what you mean by "societies greatest hardships". Deaths of despair by a wide margin, victims of violence by a wide margin, least amount of assistance across the board, highest expecta…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:09 PM
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I find it surprising you'd not call the liberal lean dominant. I'm not liberal or conservative either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:47 PM
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Openly?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:45 PM
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I can see the merit behind that framing but I think the disparity between ours is a slippy one. Did women take the power for themselves like the men did/had to? Who established the idea of protected rights to be granted/transfered? Who paid the blood for the US revolutionary war to host these rights? To be certain though I'm not advocating strip the rights of women by any means - but there's a reason men started off with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:44 PM
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You think they deserve apathy and shame for it? That squeaky wheels should be impulsively hoarding attention and resources free of moral impingement? While the men in question are not the men in power they share that collective responsibility/guilt?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:27 PM
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Thank you for this information. It seems I was mistaken to project the norm based off of a few sensationalized individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:22 PM
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Relatable. I wasn't concerned with sex in media though. You said no you found no discernible rhyme or reason within media. I was asking if you did not find media leaning towards woke liberalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:20 PM
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Unless it isn't if you can afford the deductions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:11 PM
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I'll bring it full circle for the specific example. Do you think it's fair that men who built the patriarchal society up to the point that external threats are so far held at bay and who then allowed for the transfer of power/attention/resources to feminine empowerment deserve to be the recipient of that societies greatest hardships while being met with apathy and shame for struggling in a shifting paradigm? This goes double for black men I suppose. I'm happy to debate whether or not that is som…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:09 PM
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I find that a pretty agreeable stance. Do you think it's fair to say that men are responsible for the empowerment of women being that they had the most power to share historically given that western society could look like Islamic society but doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:52 PM
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Unless you can correct me on this misconception, do you see no problem with billionaires not paying any taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:47 PM
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You don't find the prevailing wokeness of media generally liberal in it's stances? I assume you're US based... naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:44 PM
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This strikes me as semantics. If there's a significant difference between what you quoted and what you said beyond rephrasing the word "want" as "imperative" you'll have to point out to me. Also I feel like you're comment at the end was a generalization though probably not an overreaching one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:42 PM
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Agreed, but it wasn't a question of deserving, just capacity and agency. You bring up an interesting point though. Offshoot question for you, do you believe top performers deserve to be handicapped in a free market/field?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:36 PM
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Go back up to the post and read the last line again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:25 PM
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Yes, it seems like an easy and west split generally speaking of culture. Do you think it's unfair to say that open man hating only exists where men have allowed it while the inverse is not true ie eastern women cannot hate on men but men can hate on women? This given that the vast majority if not all of cultures or patriarchal. Somebody correct me on that if I'm mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:18 PM
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Do you online?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:13 PM
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Odd take and a deflection. But in short, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:12 PM
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Thank you, ethical neutrality was the objective subject to examine. Though I have the intuition that neutral statement you provided would be received differently if manifested depending on the gender, much like I phrased in my versions. Of course it would be expected that I have that take on it. Do you get the intuition that one is more acceptable than the other by the standards of general public and media from wherever you might be?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:59 PM
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The one you're baiting for? No. The advantage of overt competitiveness like I previously mentioned in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:53 PM
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Do you get the impression that reflect IRL daily transactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:51 PM
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However it takes. Physically, societally, socially, emotional, relationally. One man and one woman want one thing there is only one of; begin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:50 PM
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Yet here you are so I guess not so strange at all, cut it with the projection. I said that statement to avoid wasting time on comments exactly like this. Imagine everybody's autonomy of every kind remains perfectly in tact, welcome back to on-topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:46 PM
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But I would think it's safe to assume you've heard one take far more often than the other depending on the part of the world you live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:43 PM
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Good advice generally. What do you mean by no difference? Either there's a difference in those two juxtaposed statements ethically or tolerance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:41 PM
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Agreed but off topic. Specifically mentioned this as such. Besides, I'm not talking about stopping anyone from anything. I'm talking about competing for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 06:36 PM
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Women don't push for commitment, they push for DEVOTION. This is because of the cut throat nature of female same sex relationships. Devotion to women is the operator like commonly held ethics seen it men's same sex relationships that leave women often wondering "how it is men can just like get along?".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:33 PM
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questioning the validity of the claim that women are incapable of holding an intelligent conversation Well let's be intellectually honest here and recognize the claim was made in exasperated frustration about the worth of trying to hold an intelligent conversation with women who are well-known to deflect rather than address any authentic point if unflattering. with the assertion that the “rule” is that they cannot. Another binary. Negative, the assertion was to compare the average to the average…
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 05:10 PM
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Well then I am neither by your standards. Odd you frame my statement as binary after you brought up "the smartest woman" for comparison. I would agree that women can do this well enough but also that men are more adept at it than women generally speaking. Neither point I'd consider particularly valid given the wide range of different types of intelligences. Not like it's binary, right?
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 04:37 PM
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Yes, most men can work through special conditions with problem solving as a means to unified goal. Most men can discern relevant points to bring up or dismiss while doing so. This is intelligent conversation.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 04:29 PM
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... I pee standing up. I'm on the side of objective perspective despite the junk. How does that response address the topic? Will you just discredit it instead of making a personal tribal appeal now that you know I'm male? Both genders can cause the other hardship. Women often have the stance "do you want a cookie for not being a huge piece of shit everyday?" but that's not a valid response seeing as women are being pieces of shit and getting their cookie anyway. At the heart of the issue we're t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:17 PM
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Just the objective view here from a very, very broad framework so bear with me... once women have their own shelter and food More like once women have even ground to stand on but refuse to restrain their natural advantages in any way like men do restrain their natural advantages which laid the foundation of the even ground in the first place in a way that generally benefits every western woman every day is why their movement is anxiety contempt motivated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:02 AM
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Way to reach for the exception in the face of the rule.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 03:14 AM
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Maybe. Doesn't explain why I've seen stuff in women's restrooms I've never or rarely seen in men's. Like honestly, who gets their rocks off shitting on the floor NEXT to a toilet? My experience is a limited sample size but a distinct one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:17 PM
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You have my blessing to catfish as a man and find out. Trust me, if you ghost any dude it will just feel like Tuesday.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:52 PM
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Ask anyone who clean public restrooms who's cleaner. Men might piss on the floor but they don't finger paint on the wall with (presumably) blood. Good times working at Applebee's...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:51 PM
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The distribution of power. Few stars have the most mass, few rivers have the most water, few planets have the most life, few breeders have the most opportunities, few people have the most money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:21 AM
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What reason would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:29 PM
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Very enlightening. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:14 PM
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Just speaking for personal experience here but in my time I've found bothering with genuine feminine friendships not worth the trouble. Women do not concern themselves to reciprocate for men like women do for women and men do for men. Having female friends is like having to upkeep a GF with a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:21 PM
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I do. Self reflection is as much a skill has critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:17 PM
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What's the difference between being shot down by a guy who isn't interested and being made fun of and treated rudely? Surely you would have experienced both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:00 PM
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What's the difference between being shot down by a guy who isn't interested and being made fun of and treated rudely? Surely you would have experienced both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:00 PM
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In what way is women not approaching enforced by men? I ask because there has been much media outside of Reddit of women specifically denouncing any attempt for a man to approach her or interpret any signs of warmth from a woman as being flirtatious with the effect that so many men have stopped dating just for the sake of not approaching anyone. On Reddit, a woman does not scroll far without seeing a comment of men wishing women would pick up the slack of approaching or even just being the least…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:48 PM
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Well if it's harder to be asked out then why don't women make asking guys out the normal practice and make it easier on yourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:04 PM
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But female hypergamy doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:13 PM
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Salty exaggeration. It might promote some camaraderie. A sliver would be better than none.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:02 PM
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Being better or getting better at something?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:00 PM
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Does it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:55 PM
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That's what the rest of the sub would be for I imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:55 PM
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Yeah, and that function to debate remains intact while it might reduce undue hostility and dispell dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:54 PM
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🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:48 PM
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Lmao good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:21 PM
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Yeah, so that the woman was "still kinda laughing" despite recognizing the situation while her male "friend" was being bullied is a huge point and probably the one your question really revolves around. Women end up with dirt bags because being a dirt bag is the most accessible way to learn how to wrangle women's own dirt baggery which doesn't require the unreciprocated selflessness to be a strong man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:19 PM
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Wtf kind of comment is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:06 PM
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it's harder to put yourself in a position to be asked out than ask someone out. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:50 PM
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Because women are approached by the men who didn't care to listen to women chastise men for approaching ie women find most men who approach to be vulgar and not care about women as people. The OP is in the other group.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:49 PM
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> On the other hand, femininity is often seen as an inherent aspect of one's being That may be the popular opinion but it's one I disagree with. I think it's the same as masculinity in that it is attached a process. Both can be developed with effort and on going learning and both can atrophy. Which is the base of holding my view women don't become less valuable and worthwhile with age - or at least they have the capacity to - and can still be a treasure of company. ​ > no one cares about pregnan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:58 AM
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Well your ex was lactose intolerant. You left her hanging bro lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:31 AM
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That's why they're always mad when the toilets seat is up. You know ladies love surprises, yo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:28 AM
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I'm sure you would agree that boys are less masculine that men. I don't think the fairer sex is any different, we are the exact same animal after all. Yeah, young women look nice but they are no more feminine than young boys are masculine. I've never directly perceived the warmth of a woman associated with her youth or looks and I'd think I'm not alone on that. The "Ahhhhhhh, you're my best friend and I totally stupid love you, let's hold each other naked on the beach for hours" feeling of super…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:58 AM
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I'm sorry to hear women give you a hard time. I remember being pretty shocked when I found out just how cut throat female same sex relationships are for no reason but it made a connection in my mind of all the times I've heard women comment how crazy it is the way men just "get along". which led me to believe that women cant bring that much to table except sex and kids. Listen I don't know you but you seem real swell and I don't want you to think about yourself in this frame even indirectly. Tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:33 AM
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Idk religion and faith are pretty timeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:07 AM
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... show me your browser history lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:07 AM
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Why would men talk down about women being single just for being single? Like what do they say? Obviously nobody has shit to say about a nun because that's a person who has devoted to something - which is admirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:04 AM
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I'm not so sure your partner should be getting annoyed if you asked for simple things even without knowing the situation. Sounds harsh. But you raise some solid points and it's true that men and women have probably never spent as much time rubbing elbows as the modern age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:01 AM
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If you spent as much time reading the relevant framework of the question posed as you do enjoying the mental masturbation of your offense you'd still not be way off the topic of discussion pissed at what you want to believe I mean. Enjoy your headspace.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:49 AM
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No it ain't. Culture maybe. You literally didn't even ready the framework of the question and you're sure you're on topic? Such is the power of Almighty pussy I guess lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:14 PM
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Because it requires men to not just restrain but to subdue their capacity to be first in line, or secure resources for themselves, or shape the laws they enforce to benefit everyone, ect. It's why western and eastern society are both patriarchy but western men paved the way for women to compete moving towards equality while eastern women just have to hope men share the wealth. Think US vs Iraq for the bleakest contrast. That is something men bring to the table AND leave on it in a way that manif…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:09 PM
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You're trolling or baiting. I invite you to scroll up 4 or 5 responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:27 PM
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While ignoring the entire framing in the body? Please don't. This isn't a dating question, it's ethics and culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:07 PM
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How do these things you've listed related to restraint from indulging in one sided and out classed competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:04 PM
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Men are biologically stronger and more aggressive Well there's one example. My more fit I mean have a greater capacity to navigate competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:37 PM
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Lol didn't bite, you spat. Well done. Why did you spit? Because you know the general answer to that question is "green" and you could have answered so but you didn't you probably saw one step ahead of my response listing off the colors you also included. So I don't think it's that this is a topic outside the wheelhouse of generalizing, I think you just don't like to generalize as demonstrated by your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:34 PM
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Alright, first a baseline. What area are women dramatically more fit than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:24 PM
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Which is getting to the point of the actual question being asked. What do women bring to the table AND leave on it in such a profound and daily way that western culture does not look like eastern culture in terms of equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:22 PM
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I'm not sure I got it correctly, but it seems you're asking not what women bring to the table but what kind of restrains women put on themselves. BINGO! First one to hit the nail on the head. Okay so we have established on topic. The caveat here is that men are obliged not to rape - that's illegal and they can get into a jail. And who creates and enforces the laws of a patriarchy? Who made that so? It's somewhat comparable to getting sex by rape I guess. Here's where I draw the comparison that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:19 PM
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The most clear cut and broad example is the disparity between western society and eastern society for women. Two cases of patriarchies yet one puts men first even as far as cutting women off as the norm and the other patriarchy willingly transfers power to women when it's no longer required for men to take the brunt of throwing themselves into the frontline of hazard. Every instance a man hadn't shoved a woman out of the way in a physical, economical, social, societal way. I know you could criti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:24 PM
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If this is not a disingenuous reply, what makes you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:10 PM
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Well there probably is not much merit to you not bonking men on the head because it's in your own best interest that you don't because you can't compete. But rather than telling where you don't give yourself an asspat I'm asking where you do give yourself a virtuous asspat in an area of your own feminine capabilities. What is the feminine equivalent to men's "don't hit women" rule - usually to the point of even while under assault - that women collectively decided "don't do x to men" that is ref…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:08 PM
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Very nice to hear, happy for you two. Not quite what I was looking for on the individual level though. This was a broader question of ethics and culture than individual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:59 PM
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Lol no it's not and easy to demonstrate outside of this sub which is a reflection of that reality. I could write a list of grace women have coming and you'd just try to disprove or refute it knowing better than to write a complimentary list to compare. put ourselves first the way men do. If men put themselves first western society would look exactly like Islamic society so that is obviously far from the truth. I'm not surprised at all because I expected most to misunderstand the question or deli…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:45 PM
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Great question. We think about the future. We are coming into an era of the information age where women are likely going to be a huge - bigger than ever - driver of economy with the way things are taking shape catering to the natural strengths of women. What will women do with that upturn of power? Well I ask how women show restraint. This isn't a dating question, I'm asking about culture and ethics. Reciprocation makes someone equal in my eyes. I wonder if women will follow western men's exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:31 AM
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Well, in a way it is but my post wasn't a dating question. I suppose it could be on topic depending on who is meant by "our" but I don't think women are not taking their fullest advantage to date anyways, especially to do so for men's benefit. I only answered the question as an afterthought because I was catching flak about not leaving every question of every reply unanswered.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:40 AM
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I'll take your word you didn't edit that afterwards. Could have sworn it said most men/most women. My mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:34 AM
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Well I was not asking so much how woman do compete with men but much moreso how women do not compete with men in an area because women could actually cause great harm to men without even intending to similar to the way men don't compete with women physically or aggressively - hence the frame of restraint. Unfortunately, this was often taken as a jab at women. I guess in a way it is a sort of scrutiny but frankly if the pendulum of power is swinging towards women then they had best get real comfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:30 AM
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but out there that question is really crass and unbecoming of a lady. No, it isn't. It's actually very standard and expected like clockwork. A woman even asks herself that the moment she lays eyes on a man. I mean I appreciate your concern and all I take in good faith but if so then it's a bit of a culture shock for me to hear you say that you'd consider it unlady like. It seemed to me the epitome of lady like. The heart of my question here was not to address the merit of women's value but rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:17 AM
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You are an equal with your partner, not with anyone else. I'm going to ponder this note for awhile. So this was a question of culture and ethics, not dating. You've noticed maybe that women are gain social control and ground not just equal to but also over men in recent years? Have you as a man ever had that realization - not a thought to dwell on but lower level - just interacting with a woman or watching a woman interact with something think "man, I gotta be careful because oh boy I could obli…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:08 AM
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Very important, not relevant to restraint though. It what what could the average women metaphorically kick in the teeth of the average man without trying due to her natural abilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:56 AM
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Is biology off the table? No. Pregnancy is not the sum of biology unless you are prepared to frame women as nothing more than baby factories. I am not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:10 AM
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That was very enjoyable to read. Yes, very hypocritical indeed but what I like about hypotheticals is what's true inside the hypothetical is because it's true outside the hypothetical and the impression of an impression is a replication. Now on that note of recently developed brewing it does seem to have become increasingly volatile ( I think more like within the last 40 or 50 years ) with an inverse correlation to ground gained for feminism. It is particularly because of that inverse correlatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:08 AM
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You have access to poison and your local leaders coffee?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:06 AM
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Let me ask you this, a reframing after seeing the first iteration of responses. Suppose a hypothetical scenario where women had the power and face the danger. When the threats of that society turn from external to internal give me the nature of female same-sex relationship dynamics, what would make you believe if you do that women would relinquish that power which they had suffered much of the brunt for historically to men for increased equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:58 AM
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Culture and ethics. Consider possibly in a hypothetically reverse scenario where women have the power to relinquish to men once threats that face the society transition from external to internal such is happening with equality in Western culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:53 AM
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But do you have the capacity? This is actually a closer than most answer to the question I'm asking. I think everyone is primed to consider this a dating question by default and my framing did not shift that unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:50 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/160hpwk/q4w_what_do_women_bring_to_the_table/jxn3uud?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2 It's an abstract concept but I promise what I'm getting after is not the general responses I'm getting. I think there was an expectation this would be about sex and physical relationships but it's more of a question of ethics and culture. I linked a response I found favorable for example and the reply I posted…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:48 AM
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My answer to your question concerning strength or physical prowess is that women wield social and emotional prowess. Excellent thank you for the direct answer, one of the best so far. If you would obliged me further I would like to specify the question more closely runs along the lines of how do women use that prowess in which they wield. Specifically what do they not do with it that they could en mass. On a personal note you sound delightful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:41 AM
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I'm sorry you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:39 AM
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This question did not revolve around any of that. And it's hard it was a question of ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:38 AM
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That I did not provide an answer to the question that I asked? Yeah. I'm sure you must mean something else because as I stated I did answer the only question that I could find to respond to. And if I'm not mistaken I believe in two other threads which we are communicating I have reframed this to address that concern of "what's left?" entirely. So I feel like you are asking me why I have not answered the question I have originally asked, answered, reframed, confirmed and asked again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:37 AM
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I'm not sure what makes you think I'm being terrible towards you but it's not intentional, is regrettable, and probably due to text-based communication. Thank you for doing the research so I could answer your question. I'll have to take a look at it in a bit, feel free to pin me down on that later if you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:33 AM
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I'm starting to experiment with maybe a more direct reframing to the point. If Society started out a matriarchy with women having the prowess of men and the advantage of power over them do you believe that once the threats of the outside world were held at Bay that power would have been distributed and relinquished towards equality as it has in the modern West given the caddy and competitive nature of female same sex relationship dynamics? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:30 AM
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You got a response in the affirmative directly below it. The answer was yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:28 AM
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Let me re-frame it. What ethics of feminine culture would prevent women from raping and caving in skulls on a whim suppose they had the power advantage that men have relinquished? I really am asking more about feminine character than value which is why the question revolved around restraint.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:20 AM
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If you think that directly asking that question is a tear down then it leaves the common act of women doing it in question, making it a priority to scrutinize and assess a man's worth for any nature of relationship or association whatsoever. Also you're talking about an entirely different topic. I had no expectation of drumming up sympathy here and now. I mean I don't generally, but I didn't see it fitting here either and don't want for it in and it's absence now. I appreciate you being reasonab…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:18 AM
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What color are leaves?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:11 AM
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Need more information like by how much did it increase and how worthwhile was that ban being lifted. Generally speaking I can say this much even while arguing the rule I always acknowledge the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:10 AM
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Well that sounds pretty nice I'm glad for you and glad you found each other. I appreciate you taking this as the good faith question that it was, I was more curious about a larger scale than individual dynamics. Nevertheless I appreciate your response. Best of luck to you two.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:07 AM
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That's how we all felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:05 AM
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What are you referring to? The only question asked was "So what's left?" - which was MY question. So is your complaint that I'm not answering my question? And for the record I have little concern over my life's experiences and observation of feminine behavior to hold much concern for their feelings of being judged. You all made your own beds on that one as a culture. And for the more it is been my observation of women's internal behaviors, the rampant brutality in which you treat each other, tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:03 AM
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This isn't a dating individual relationship question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:45 AM
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Well, yeah. Here and everywhere else. And my interest for asking was an honest answer, not to tear down but I did recognize going into it that this would be a very uncomfortable question. However I asked anyways because I've seen women give little concern for discomfort or anguish of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:43 AM
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So you start by asking a broad question with obvious answers. Then you narrow the criteria by providing a specific example of an expectation you feel is placed on men, but not women. A fairly standard process of structuring a question, yes. And then proceed to specifically exclude the most basic example of a useful biological function that women are capable of but not men. Because I'm looking for an example that isn't biological default that someone would be thrust into at birth. I don't want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:37 AM
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Well it's interesting you say that because asking women what they bring to the table is imitating them asking men. And that's where you unironically offer a deflection instead of an answer. So who am I to ask that? Someone who has been asked. How pompous do you have to be to expect without reciprocation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:26 AM
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protection from what? If your entire nation or community finds itself suddenly in the shit of a catastrophe, that. Ask Ukraine. If a house is on fire and someone needs to get pulled out of it, it probably won't be you or any other woman to go in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:23 AM
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This isn't about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:20 AM
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Well I'm asking beyond the scope of dating and I am specifically asking about her own assessment. It sounds like you're saying my question is invalid because I'm not asking what I'm not asking. If you have thoughts to share on women's own assessment that is what I am asking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:19 AM
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More interested in beyond the specific functioning of bodies, which is in part why I excluded the pregnancy and insemination dynamic of who's doing what. Take biological to societal and cultural advantages. Though seems like your trying to make a social point about some sort of inherent virtue in socially-complaint men. I literally and specifically address this as off topic. doesn't mean they bring any less to the table when it comes to social contribution I'm less interested in what it doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:16 AM
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Well that is close to but, no, not my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:39 AM
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That's true, women are much more well adapted to sit still and focus generally speaking which attributes to the statistic of women outperforming men in education by such a wide margin. And while it seems this is good for the economy which is good for men indirectly it is a benefit definitively for women even to the point of directly creating more challenges for men. In this Modern age of information it would seem that women are much more suited to be the workforce of the economy. I have to note …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:25 AM
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No I wanted an honest answer. Women see fit to criticize and tear men down so much and often I think it is a perfectly fair question of what comes around goes around. Surely women would generally show restraint when expecting and depending on restraint from others I would legitimately assume, I just don't see with what but I actually do have good faith there is something. That is why I asked. The reason I discounted getting pregnant is because that's something that happens to you more than somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:19 AM
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Time was invented to sell clocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:13 AM
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not sure why you disqualify the ability to give birth, For the give and take reasons listed intrapersonally and the ones not list interpersonally. It's an involuntary biological feature that defines the gender (generally) and I'm looking for more deliberate and conscientious reasons. Men seek sex far more than women do, so in committed LTRs women curtail their advantage of getting other partners more easily than their current partner. Not necessarily. I don't think that women do curtail their ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:11 AM
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Well I wasn't here and this is my question. For something posted so often I didn't see it while scrolling, I'd be satisfied if you would post a link for me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:50 PM
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And they do. I can write you a list, a long one. Why would women find this strange to ask of men but not be asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:48 PM
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You found that sarcasm easier forthcoming than honesty? It's a legit question and one women OFTEN put to men so what is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:43 PM
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Actually it would be the best use of your time to make an ally if you think me a foe , it's just an uncomfortable topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:41 PM
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you just feel too uncomfortable about what the light of the topic shines on. It's got nothing to do with my writing style, you're just bugging out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:38 PM
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Right, anticipation is pure energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:36 PM
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Please do elaborate. It sounds like you're saying women hate to have the value of effort and merits assessed, is that correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:31 PM
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... nice font. Wanna fuck? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:30 PM
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That's like saying you'd prefer to accept $100 of currency you knew to be counterfeit as opposed to another offer of $5 of currency you knew to be authentic because the fake FEELS like it's more. You prefer a seductive man who you know only wants you body as opposed to a man who wants a LT partnership because it feels like the seductive man wants to bang you more than the other guy wants to love you. My psyche is hemorrhaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:24 PM
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Why what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:13 PM
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Just reflect on how you didn't know at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:10 PM
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Sweetheart, that's the magic show you ladies demand men put on. The desire is still for you to be wrapped around his penis. If you barely know him or not at all then what about YOU is there for him to desire in ignorance except your body that he can see? A man will not and can not desire YOU until you are his best friend. Most women will never be any man's best friend for lack of trying. What seductive men do is let you bullshit yourself about feeling desirable in a way that is metaphysically im…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:08 PM
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Okay I'm not a fan of answering questions with questions but here goes. How do you intuit that you would have known if you're unsure that you couldn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:57 PM
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Many many? Go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:47 PM
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Oh thank god. I'm so glad I misunderstood the 'they'. I physically feel better. Whew.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:46 PM
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What do those expressions sound like so that we can all understand each other a little better?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:43 PM
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BECAUSE HE'S AN ENTIRE HUMAN BEING WITH A INTACT PERSONALITY COMPLETE WITH EMOTIONS, DESIRES, AND PREFERENCES
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:42 PM
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You're saying if a man doesn't pursue a woman who is visibly uncomfortable and deterring pursuing any further than he must have never been interested. Do you realize that. I mean fuck whatever you may have meant for a second, do you realize what you said?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:39 PM
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a lot of cases men act very dry and standoffish when in the talking stage today. Do you purchase a Ferrari immediately after a lotto ticket? I noticed most men are like this Almost like it were induced by some uniform mass effect And it makes sense because all you hear women talk about on the internet is men are trash and the bar is in hell and they fear everything that doesn't offend them Men think it’s exposing a vulnerability that will be exploited as a weakness to show a woman you actually c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:34 PM
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Deep stranger gets deep in strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:17 PM
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How is that not directly indicating desire for sex? Expect them to show a desire for sex while getting turned off if they express a desire for sex. Otherwise elaborate on what "suggestiveness" is suggesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:16 PM
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Did you ever express these preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:13 PM
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Don't beat yourself up, you couldn't have possibly known what she wanted even if she told you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:12 PM
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What is it that these ques of flirting, some innuendo, gentle flirty touching if the other stuff is well received, lingering looks that are a little too long to be totally platonic, compliments to appearances directly indicate if not going for sex if you do basically expect a man to be quite taken but feel men confuse that going for sex is like the only way to express desire for a woman that makes it 100% clear how they feel !?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:11 PM
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I'm just doing my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:09 PM
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This isn't what a proper adult relationship is like at all, and it speaks volumes that you assume it is. If that's what it's not then what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:54 PM
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Women could just make a choice between be a single mother or split the cost of the abortion for the jointly formed fetus and everybody's autonomy would remain perfectly intact. If women were roped into concern for what is best for the would-be child then they would just be forced to get the abortion logically since a single mother raising a child is apparently bad enough situation to revoke a man's autonomy by comparison. And if they don't like it then they can "don't fuck then, boohoo". But 11 …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:04 PM
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Splitting the cost of the abortion is reasonable. Being the hooks for a fetus that only the woman could choose to carry into childhood is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:58 PM
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I understand the frame you're using but I don't see the point that dynamic is revolving around. To me it looks like you are too zoomed in on the individual case by case instance of contempt rather than the general proliferation within the culture dynamics of holding ambient contempt. Comparing one history of one case does not transfer to an idiosyncratically entirely different case new and unknown. It has all the merit of a marine biologist believing they can assist nuclear physicists because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:43 PM
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Well we seem to have gone off track because I don't understand the merit of your comparison or how it relates. I would be obliged if you would reframe it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:08 PM
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No, we have very real world example of psychology that's hasn't changed for a very long time that if women live in an environment in which they are subject to indiscriminate strength and aggression advantages of their male counterparts then women will adore anyone who treats them half decently. Seeing how often we all see men in relationships with subpar women in the modern western world it stands to reason this is not gender based but human nature when the opposite gender flexes their advantage…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:07 PM
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I think there's a few objectively harsh realities better left unrealized that you are ignoring where "relationship" status becomes irrelevant. Furthermore that was clearly deflection from answering the uncomfortable question you had indirectly pointed at yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:38 PM
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Except that we are all aware of the mountain of evidence that is contradictory to your statement that you can stop ignoring. Like I said, I'm sure you have a highly biased scrap of information to support whatever you're comfortable believing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:35 PM
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Well it seems "of course they want to have sex with me" and "how could anyone have possibly gotten tired of my shit" are two cheeks on the same ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:32 PM
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Rich irony that the Y(M)CA has no fellas left in it. Small towns are unlikely to be the statistical average though. Sounds like you're basically having the male experience of needing to change your life up until it's unrecognizable for a slight better chance or yes, accept you're SoL. So the only matter left is do you want to do that or not or just lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:27 PM
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What's wrong with her statement is that it's so intellectually dishonest. In the same way that if men didn't restrain their greater strength and aggression against women it wouldn't be a plot against them, just unfortunate. Since women are equals and not less than men while men are restraining themselves for the benefit of women and the good of society please tell me in what way women restrain their natural biological advantages?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:05 PM
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More important than asking what scrap of science you are referring to is what heap of science you are ignoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:00 PM
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What you have said is so obviously falsely contrived it needs no explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:50 PM
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What gym is not 70% males? Genuinely confused by your experience though I get get the perspective. I have to wonder though is the situation really that there are no men there or just that there are less men there and they are unwilling to initiate contact and conversation for you at feminine cultures adamant decade long request? I present well enough in public to get warm smiles from strange women while being single myself. My personal experiences with the bullshit of women's behavior that no on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:49 PM
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Go find the tree that supplies your oxygen and apologize. Meanwhile, thank you for labeling your ideas as cancerous before you ever even speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:18 PM
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Well said, I'd make one minor critique. Woman 100% smell that desperation a mile away. However, they genuinely seem to be blind to the contempt if not actively bubbling on the surface. To add on a helpful note to readers: go get a massage. No happy endings, just a professional massage. Yeah, you gotta pay for it but that's no different than any other circumstance and extremely more satisfying and beneficial to what you actually physically need.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:13 PM
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I think you've got it backwards. Men are isolated and lonely which inflames their need for sex, among lots of other inflamed needs that aren't sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:55 PM
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LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:02 PM
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And how is it that the race survives without men? Hell you even put a man and a woman separated in the wilderness and it's more likely the man will see the end of his lifespan than the woman all things being equal supposing they had identical struggles. A fever is the only thing I can think of that would tip the scale the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:59 PM
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A boring man to date is a guy who puts as much effort into the relationship as the woman does. In other words is a guy who doesn't assume the burden of entertainment by default. Women hate men who act like women. What's an incel but a man in western society who wants to be inherently valued like a western woman? And how do women feel about incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:50 PM
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You missed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:39 PM
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The very short sentence that he wrote to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:33 PM
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Cheers to that bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:08 AM
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... so he was technically correct then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:42 AM
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Yeah you said men are attracted to most women. 50% is the dividing line that half teeters on most at 51%. If you say "most" you are directly insinuating a number greater than 51% with 50 being the threshold. That's where that came from. And the difference is that being attracted to someone else within age preference of choice which is what a small fraction in and of itself of the whole. So that's where that came from.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:05 PM
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Yeah but why is that the lackluster answer on one side but the default answer on the side to disqualify someone just for asking? Ps I typed out and edit to that last response you might not have seen. Might you should take on that with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:09 PM
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Ah, I see. Well it does make sense in the way that men have better chances to get a relationship going with a woman by being vague and entertaining than detailing and itemizing. There's no more unforgivable sin than being boring so from that lens it's a prudent answer. Besides I've never seen a woman asked this same question in some way and not been immediately offended like dude should be happy with whatever he gets. Edit. I also asked a woman recently on here what natural evolutionary advantag…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:57 PM
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Oh, there was a "I'm the table" line in there. What does it mean the way you meant it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:47 PM
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As if it nets anyone anything either? Being unadjusted turns the gears a hell of a lot more than being well adjusted in the first place. I think you just like being critical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:45 PM
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... is that a Weeds reference?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:41 PM
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Where does this idea that men are attracted to most women idea come from? Over 50%? 50% of randomly encountered women aren't even in the bracket of a man's age preference of choice. I see a lot of foot traffic go by from my place of work and I'd say I were attracted to 5% if I don't have to interact with anyone, less if I do. And how does this idea about men being attracted to some figure over half of the female population coexist with the idea that it's men who need to lower their already lower…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:36 PM
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No they're really not proving your point, you just want to believe it enough to make anything sound like it's proving your point. They're telling you the equity of a husband's love for his wife overpowers the desire for younger women and somehow you're taking that as a negative because you want to. Called it 'creepy'. Totally not bashing you here but take into account that having struggles with something like retroactive jealousy put you in a position to be predisposed to have unnecessarily nega…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:28 PM
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I'm not connecting your dots here though I can generally agree with the theme. How do these words relate more specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:26 PM
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And woman are any different? The vast majority of men don't nut unless they do it for themselves and it doesn't matter if we're talking about masterbation or on the off chance sexual intercourse. Where's your bleeding heart for them? You ladies want a nut go ahead and climb up for your own evolutionarily biologically superior orgasm. Modern feminine culture dances on the graves of men's 'deaths of despair' so let's not forget the type of women y'all are either. Shame on men for not making women …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:19 PM
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That is a very fair assessment for both sides to me. Do you believe the notion of getting punished for being honest plays a factor with the types to hide their preferences? I(m) know and have been many times to be the 'shot messenger' when navigating a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:57 PM
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They'd still take a contractually binding hug I'd bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:55 PM
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Ah yes, the good old reliable "tell men to get over it when they mention that women could do the same thing that women are asking of men". I've never heard the "you can't change preferences of attraction" brought up when men are told to lower their standards and we just had that converstion. But in fact it seems one CAN do exactly that because we prescribed abstaining from porn to men as to do exactly that lowering of standards that women seemingly just can't even. We just have to disagree on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:53 PM
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Change the premise, no. But that women's standards are much higher is often swept under the rug and very worth acknowledging. That women trying to date takes not one tenth the effort to get or keep a relationship going as the man's part is also worth acknowledging. There are exceptions, of course. But I do feel these are genuinely exactly that - exceptions. For another comparison look at the way men are required to restrain their every natural evolutionary advantages on demand for the good of so…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:15 PM
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What is it that leads you to believe male and female standards are on par or do you just not care about meeting on level ground?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:49 PM
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Female standards =/= male standards. Just look at top earning women who have it all but can't find a partner because he couldn't net her 'more' - you don't see top earning men with that concern. I could also illustrate very easily how women's egos are higher than giraffe tiddies by just switching the roles of which is the more 'valuable' sex because at least I can say unflattering shit about men and have it considered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:45 PM
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For real, can't imagine an Aussie bro has much reservation about telling a Sheila off while beating a kangaroo off their dingo with a cobra for a whip. Nor that any group of people have been more pacified about women than US males ironically because in part of a feminine culture that produces people just like herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:47 PM
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Social media is erotica for women in the same way porn is erotic for men. It hits the same button across the board. I think if you walked in on the vast majority of men watching porn and about to bust a nut but offered them a hug instead, they'd put it away and bring it in. Porn consumption isn't about sex. Social media isn't about socializing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:47 AM
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That's a bit harsh and a little second hand. They see themselves relative to their competitors before they see themselves in the mirror. They're not much different than meth addicts begging on the corner as publicly as possible. Just imagine a man who gets all the funding for meth he could ever smoke. That's the male version of a IG model.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:07 AM
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Who are you so wise in the ways of not bullshiting ourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:01 AM
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I don't mean to inflame, it's just you made some very tall assumptions and comparisons for very flat reasons to back them. You have a good night too. Best of luck to you both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:59 AM
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Who are they doing that for?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:40 AM
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That response was vague disheartening and I fear you speak of horny boys as if they were men. It kinda sounds like you barely tried and prefer to just adopt a shallow and misandrist view of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:14 AM
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Hi, just hoping to have a good faith convo here and was hoping you would share some insights on these things you pointed out. Why is the position women force men into unacceptable to women to be in? What are you saying the difference is between men and women accepting affections that makes it so women are choosing men but men aren't choosing women? Why is the fear of the partner being chased moving on with a better chaser acceptable in a man's lot but not a woman's? And borrowing from your previ…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:52 PM
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